Looks like a list of used car salesman techniques.
@brianhoule32195 жыл бұрын
Don't let anyone persuade you to go down any path but your own !
@Lupo325 жыл бұрын
Ain't that the truth.
@Stoic-ds4so4 жыл бұрын
@The Creator yep, I either immediately or gradually allow those people to disappear from my life lol
@indridcold84334 жыл бұрын
Do not let anyone persuade you to get their help to go down your path, either. You will inevitably be taken off your path and onto their's. Never accept anyone's help. They will make you pay for it. Should you want help, or need help, still avoid it. Never receive help.
@MrJesseBell4 жыл бұрын
“The opposite of courage is conformity.” -Rickson Gracie
@lazydaisy44534 жыл бұрын
🤯
@GIguy5 жыл бұрын
Take it from somebody who’s been through the ringer and back, never trust anybody. If you want to keep something a secret, then keep it to yourself, because people are not worthy of trust, and I’m not saying that in a bad way, that’s just human nature, and you cannot stop human nature, but instead learn to adapt to it, and that way you keep yourself safe.
@sieunpark34362 жыл бұрын
In my opinion, attraction is an advantage in the beginning, and kindness is it in the final! People seem to get attention of what others are doing in the beginning, but since people are busy just in their own things, so they are easy to forget. But, what they receive is easier to remember in the long term:)
@advancetotabletop5328 Жыл бұрын
Whenever someone says, “That’s not fair”, it really means they want something and feel entitled to it. Ever notice that someone who says “That’s not fair” is never sacrificing anything?
@MMMCLXXX5 жыл бұрын
99% of what you watch is propagation. A kind voice with cartoons disguises the Programming. You're being taught how to think. It's called Re-education. You're welcome. Most of the Comments on ALL videos are paid profiles. Even arguments are actors. This is a sinking ship. You'll remember my words very soon. Ask what's really going on in the world. These moving pictures, Netflix and TV will never stop. It's the illusion that things are _happening_ and it's _fine._ This is chaos to confuse you and push you to a desired _Exit._ You don't always have to be comfortable. We often mistake contentment for boredom or disinterest. Take another look at your friend, partner or family member. Ask yourself if you're appreciating the moment. Practice "Delayed Gratification". Dopamine detox is essential to see the _dots_ and connect them. Taper down these easy-click baby shows and high drama fiction garbage. It's rewiring your nervous system. None of this is opinion. Pull that cord man. Just pull it. Take care of yourself.
@thersten5 жыл бұрын
Tin foil hat wearer detected.
@doomhead16195 жыл бұрын
thersten He might be wrong but where did you pull the "tinfoil hat" from, your butt?
@deadshxot42075 жыл бұрын
@@doomhead1619 he meant "ALIENNNSS" THERE IN OUR BRAINS. Hes that type of guy.is what he is ssayin
@doomhead16195 жыл бұрын
DeadShXot 420 Unless OP actually talks about aliens, he has no right to say that.
@deadshxot42075 жыл бұрын
@@doomhead1619 To each there own sir...To each There own
@janusloggins8765 жыл бұрын
I never trust people that talk fast
@moiedelosreyes72455 жыл бұрын
My impression on fast talking people are stressed.
@tedcarriker32935 жыл бұрын
Listening to the video at 125% 🙄
@jonathanbalagtas8485 жыл бұрын
A lot of BPO interviewer does this...and definitely they are hiding something, for not to be noticed.
@DimitrisDkKyrsanidis5 жыл бұрын
you probably don't like Eminem right? :P
@mukhumor5 жыл бұрын
I never trust people. Trust is a fools game.
@zacharypeacock62785 жыл бұрын
This is why i don't allow people to get close to me because most of the time they are trying to persuade you to do what they want. I'm usually the person that persuade others and i like it that way...
@jeffbarnes25965 жыл бұрын
I'll add 2. 1)Watch out for people that will try to manipulate you with flattery. Since even normally skeptical people can be duped by flattery, even temporarily. 2) Using your words against you. "You said that you wanted x y & z, right?". Some people will appeal to your ego by asking you about yourself to find out what you want or goals that you have, simply in order to use those things to manipulate you. (managers)
@Fururu3332 жыл бұрын
Good additions!!
@marcosvicente89725 жыл бұрын
I experienced almost all of these yesterday dealing with a female that tried to scam me and then use that information as leverage to verbally abuse me in hopes of lowering my self esteem, self worth, and self image, as well as for her own entertainment and monetary gain. $4 later and a huge NO to her ultimate quest of profiting for being a covert narcissistic C to me, she finally left without incident and frustrated. I was on to her from the jump but had to entertain the con to ensure her story was accurate. Unfortunately, she wasn't consistent enough to pull it off and continuously would do and say things that would contradict the story in which I was supposed to believe and do things that I normally wouldn't simply bc I believed her story to be true. I didn't call her out on every little lie or misstep of her attempts at manipulating me I simply let her play herself as I continued to be me and kept inquiring more and more about the story. She finally couldn't keep up the verbal facade so she took action by leaving and most likely a retreat to think on the story and how to expand it rather than making it up as she went bc she knows that I would remember what was said as she would not be able to keep all the lies straight and at that point there would be no denying and her game would be over. Lol. She's truly not the type of female a man would want to invest time with so she can run the smear campaign and stalk me all she wants but I'm never going to conform to her insecurities and manipulative behavior and personality defects. Beanie Baby is not my lover she just a girl who claims that I am the one... hahahaha
@beastdawg3495 жыл бұрын
If it sounds to good to be true, don't listen...you will be deceived
@indridcold84334 жыл бұрын
Actually, even if it sounds sincere, helpful, even mundane and boring, you will be deceived. Modern humans are incapable of being helpful to one another without a hefty price. They are also incapable of friendship and amorous relationships. Avoid them at all costs. They are not your friends.
@Sick19825 жыл бұрын
I don't trust people who use my name in their sentences.
@peterv13185 жыл бұрын
I had people do that before it just weird.
@indridcold84334 жыл бұрын
Trust nobody that approaches you in a friendly manner, whether you are familiar with the person or not. Humans are incapable of true friendship. Keep humans at a well defined distance from you. If they try to befriend you, that is the one to especially keep away from you in a more urgent manner.
@Vaccinevirgin4 жыл бұрын
It’s an old saying that people like to hear their name -but I agree- it’s usually people who are trying to charm me that say my name while talking to me...and I find it to be creepy. Lol
@indridcold84334 жыл бұрын
@@Vaccinevirgin I dislike my name. I do not like to hear it. "Indrid," is not a name for a male. It is not a name for a female. It is some strange nothing name. At least my surname is ordinary. Though, is there any surname that is not ordinary? Just about anything goes for a surname. I have been thinking of changing my given name. Chester Cold or Rusty Cold, how about Fred Cold? Maybe not. They sound too much like Chest Cold, Frosty Cold, and Dead Cold. I really am thinking of changing my given name but with the examples I gave, I know I can always do worse than, "Indrid Cold."
@Vaccinevirgin4 жыл бұрын
Indrid Cold -i like your name....it sounds a bit androgynous-but I like that. How bout you change your name to Frigid Cold instead of Indrid Cold. (Ha Ha) similar -yet more masculine....and a cool name if you’re in an emo/punk/goth band.
@PracticalInspiration5 жыл бұрын
Fantastic. Language is vital in our perception of the value we place on something. Emotionally engaging language can be the difference between success and failure when trying to persuade someone
@keysyun14305 жыл бұрын
Dear young empaths, if you didn’t already know these, don’t worry, you’ll learn em 👍
@temptingcacao4 жыл бұрын
It's in our best interest if they remain oblivious
@adnaanu5 жыл бұрын
As a sales person sometimes speaking quickly isn't always the best way to go. In my experience speaking slower and deliberately placing emphasis on certain words works better. This is mostly the case if you're selling something technically complicated or to the elderly. Speaking at a more relaxed pace also works if you are showing different products but want the customer to buy the one you want.
@dragan32905 жыл бұрын
I talk fast in general because of anxiety, but I have the worst confidence, self esteem etc. I think that is one is debatable!
@marvinpatterson23494 жыл бұрын
this is the best educational channel
@osse1n5 жыл бұрын
All knowledge about human nature is just tools and it's up too us to use it for the great good.
@jonathankennedy38005 жыл бұрын
Your grammar needs improvement.
@sandad8765 жыл бұрын
And be more then what meets the eye
@miguelhernandez1one5 жыл бұрын
Facts
@nmmuslim83134 жыл бұрын
you trying to be persuasive?
@indridcold84334 жыл бұрын
I have learned to keep others at a very well defined distance, personally and physically. Never trust humans. They will betray you.
@Nick-wc2ul5 жыл бұрын
In conclusion: Dont talk to anyboby.
@GQ-jv9uw5 жыл бұрын
😁 Not even yourself
@petermyers4795 жыл бұрын
Nick And if you do, don’t trust them.
@MVSVOLQUEZ5 жыл бұрын
And if you trust them don't talk to them
@jeangrey5995 жыл бұрын
Pretty much😐
@RC-dp1gu5 жыл бұрын
😂
@00kidney5 жыл бұрын
Yeh! Persuasion tricks takes courage. People have a wall in their own world. So the best thing is to insist.
@haibaidzokwomandre14683 жыл бұрын
Now you persuaded me to watch this video just by reading its title.
@Raghu-vv1lt5 жыл бұрын
You should watch _____________ 1. Underhanded friendship 2. Falls limitations 3. Misleading opinion 4. Calculated concessions 5. Persuasive language 6. Imaginary competition 7. Ridiculous hypotheticals 8. Illusion of education 9. 10. Loaded favours 11. Fast talking 12. Behavioral consistency 13. Claiming expertise 14. Turning the tables 15. The kind command
@omniscientomnipresent55005 жыл бұрын
I watched this only so I can identify these kind of peoples
@tharealmikezee31654 жыл бұрын
yeah man that's what the title says.
@euminkong4 жыл бұрын
I know what you mean. The dark side must be studied as well as the light side of human beings.
@VictoriaMarch134 жыл бұрын
Me too 😂
@benjaminr89614 жыл бұрын
But what if "these" kinds of people don,t exist and in reality the video is trying to shape your perception of the world?
@brylinx14514 жыл бұрын
And i to indentify, and use this tricks against other
@servHis2215 жыл бұрын
"Be SURE to subscribe because INCREDIBLE content IS on the way!" 😂😂😂😂
@jeangrey5995 жыл бұрын
Thanks for pointing it out... I need to go unsubscribe from every channel I was persuaded subscribed to....
@servHis2215 жыл бұрын
Jean Grey 😄😄
@djdeath43185 жыл бұрын
is that an order? lol and why do i have a picture of the incredibles in my head?
@adithyabhagavan40124 жыл бұрын
Very very useful. Subtle,and manipulative techniques well exposed!
@Fururu3332 жыл бұрын
Yes!
@Nola5427 Жыл бұрын
Alternate title; 15 ways to persuade someone 🤣😂😅
@ilikemyrealname5 жыл бұрын
This video is the antithesis of all the charisma channels on KZbin.
@al-b78915 жыл бұрын
If the couch is soooooo comfy, why are you selling it??
@watsonfamilyvalues5 жыл бұрын
He has one exactly like it at home! , assuming he's pitching sales for a furniture store
@kimberlygabaldon32605 жыл бұрын
It's ugly!
@nellyboy86.025 жыл бұрын
😆
@indridcold84334 жыл бұрын
His mother died on it and it holds sad memories.
@megusta87994 жыл бұрын
@@indridcold8433 I like that it got dark pretty fast lol I like ya
@Tdawg797764 жыл бұрын
People can't get in my head to fast it takes time to earn my trust
@TheStrategicKeys5 жыл бұрын
The 48 Laws of Power comes to mind. Persuasion seemed to be the more ethical version of The 48 Laws of Power. Both are really eye opening.
@SnailHammer5 жыл бұрын
Love that author.
@JudahRiggins5 жыл бұрын
Im naturally a skeptic. I like to think I’m not easily persuaded
@danielfinch3625 жыл бұрын
I back away from friends, so they won't get a sale from me.
@JudahRiggins5 жыл бұрын
Joe Tao yeah lol what’s the point I asking this question
@abortionsurvivor66395 жыл бұрын
I would agree with you 100% and persuade you soon after.
@JudahRiggins5 жыл бұрын
Abortion Survivor 😂
@indridcold84334 жыл бұрын
Never let anybody approach you to enforce their opinion on you.
@matthewpadgett1935 жыл бұрын
REALTORS!!!! I witnessed to many of these deceptive “tricks” first hand and got away. Glad I found this list, now I understand what game they were playing!! Thanks!!!
@momijiyamanishi45485 жыл бұрын
I had a car dealer call me as if the house was on fire. He says we need cars like yours we can get you in a new one...
@MannymeansWell5 жыл бұрын
Persuasion is different from manipulation. Manipulation is controlling to benefit oneself & persuasion is influencing to benefit the person's best interests.
@katrinadomi15 жыл бұрын
Manocyte Sotomi Both are the same thing. I worked in Advertising for years and I could see first hand the result of my “persuasion” on society.
@Laura-vl6db5 жыл бұрын
Manocyte Sotomi this made me laugh.
@darmok-hm6jx5 жыл бұрын
To me, manipulation is the basis of witchcraft, which is used to herd the intended prey into a desired outcome. Daren on "Bewitched" worked on Wall Street and Samantha would help him with his career. "We live in our imaginations desiring to fulfill our phantasies" me
@Nola5427 Жыл бұрын
I disagree you can persuade people to do what you want, for your benefit and that is a form of manipulation.
@darrenm81725 жыл бұрын
Most people are out to get what they want and only think about themselves. People are following the ways of satan tbh. Respect to all the good people out there though ✌
@divinefoo55555 жыл бұрын
@AJ Ghali fuck him if he exists but I dont think he does
@Extrasailor5 жыл бұрын
That is wide since in BIBLE is eritem that"CURSED IS THE GUY WHO TRUST IN OTHER HUMAN" no exception, including pastors who abbuse their status to have sex with weak teenage females. Haha, trust a human, never, it's God's advise since all humans have basically the same sexual needs, food needs all needs are the same and all seek Those, only a fool would fall for lesser things.
@michaelcraig94495 жыл бұрын
@@divinefoo5555 Satan is uncool, baby
@michaelcraig94495 жыл бұрын
@AJ Ghali Satan sucks
@michaelcraig94495 жыл бұрын
@@divinefoo5555 He is right behind you!
@pyschologygeek5 жыл бұрын
Trusting is a hard thing , you can be a friend of wolf but always put your axe on your shoulder
@terrybyrd51055 жыл бұрын
Love this saying - I'll be sure to use on some self promoting ass!
@indridcold84334 жыл бұрын
@@terrybyrd5105 it is best to not trust anybody and keep everyone at a distance. As for making friends with a human, I would advise against that. Humans have not been capable of friendship since around 2000. It is an ability gradually lost from antiquity to about 2000. After 2000, some humans will go through the motions of being a friend. However, the ability os lost. One will inevitably victimise the other in the false friendship very soon. It is best to interact with others in a manner that a client would interact with a service provider or a merchant. This assures the shortest possible interaction and a minimal possibility of the person becoming familiarised with you. Never try to be someone's friend. Never let anybody approach you for amicable nor amorous reasons. They are not your friend nor are they looking to make a friend. You have been warned.
@workforitall6664 жыл бұрын
@@indridcold8433 this is correct.#48lawsofpower
@NaftuliSinger5 жыл бұрын
Very nice video. Thanks so much!
@kronkkkk4 жыл бұрын
thanks for the help on the homework 5stars ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️
@trickoholix5 жыл бұрын
Repricosity doesn't work in fact can have the opposite effect. Therefore the opposite approach would be adopted in that the influencer should be the one to ask a favour rather than offer a favour
@sstritmatter21584 жыл бұрын
7:55 Reciprocity - this ended up working in reverse for me from a boss I had who used to manipulate people this way. I worked on the weekends and would take any extra work and often 8 hours turned into 12. I was always there, which made his life easier but in truth I was making a lot of money, which was my goal. One day he was so happy he brought me into his office and closed the door and told me anytime I need a favor just ask him because (he) works like that. I knew better lol but played it cool. It worked out later on when getting vacation was hard - he gave me 3 weeks so I could travel abroad! + I saved a lot from working so much extra.
@jennieg51604 жыл бұрын
very helpful and concise
@SabiazothPsyche5 жыл бұрын
These persuasion tricks might readjust once they've become obvious, or too exposed.
@abortionsurvivor66395 жыл бұрын
I find I get people's trust by pointing out how much I can't stand most people. They usually agree and instantly we are good friends. Who wouldn't buy a used car off of one of their good friends?
@lavenderbella1874 жыл бұрын
Thanx Top Think!! U r the best!!
@Naldific5 жыл бұрын
Dang it! This video got me with #1, #5, and #12!!! You sneaky knowing I don't want to be pursuaded!
@alocal13344 жыл бұрын
Great video....I clicked because of the picture at first because I was a door 2 door salesman and my boss said if u can let a guy on his back for something its easier to get into their wallet
@michaelattoe57105 жыл бұрын
I watched the first point they made about making friends and concluded from that the whole thing is probably about adopting some phony attitude towards other people to get what you want. That is a sure way to create a cynical society in which no one can trust anybody else.
@neinneinnein3795 жыл бұрын
Greetings Troy and Tristan, thank you for putting your very hard earned time into this viedeo, just for us to get more information about persustion. In my opinion those persuation tricks you listed are to simple and something almost every buissnes man know and uses this but for people who dont have any idea about persuation this was a good viedeo It would be splendid if more viedeos on youtube would focus making more guys more masculine and help them get out of that blue pilled belives and turning them into a real men, they relly need it
@8sun524 жыл бұрын
Describe a real man. I guess men have to "conform" to what a "real man" is...ha? Societal definitions for many things change from time periods/centuries to another.
@willand315 жыл бұрын
man its frightening to think this isnt just common sense for most people.
@williampool68684 жыл бұрын
it's now August 2020. Reviewing this video and can help to notice a lot these when watching political news today. Some are nuanced, but a lot are blatant.
@gabrielmalek67295 жыл бұрын
Why does this guy sound like the guy from bright side
@moonwavesxi5 жыл бұрын
Bruhhh😂😂😂
@kingzingo17845 жыл бұрын
Exactly
@kirstenricho5 жыл бұрын
AntlerAndyy yeah he does
@huejorgan92245 жыл бұрын
Ever heard of voiceover actors?
@cliveeo7445 жыл бұрын
AntlerAndyy it’s called paid voice overs
@tony-zu3up5 жыл бұрын
I won’t watch out for these tricks, but use them
@Nola5427 Жыл бұрын
Alternate title; 15 ways to persuade someone 🤣😂😅
@studiosandi3 жыл бұрын
You have made some great videos. I'm surprised you don't have way more likes with all of the views you've collected.
@indridcold84334 жыл бұрын
Way before the coronavirus social distancing protocols, anybody that came within two meters of me was instantly scrutinised and I did all I could to keep the person away from me. Nobody is going to approach someone they do not know just to talk. That person wants something you have. I would become instantly defensive when someone came within two meters of me. I have no friends so someone trying to be friendly to me is highly suspect.
@Nola5427 Жыл бұрын
That' s not true, I am a very friendly and social person I talk to people all the time when i' m out, maybe someone just wants to get to know you.
@genwords17895 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing.
@sandad8765 жыл бұрын
Always talk with a non caring look
@renrudinas25034 жыл бұрын
Hello I have a question in the number 12 tip.. How will they take advantage of your consistency? if you yourself knows and masterize it, so maybe you can immediately know that a certain person has a plan for you. Thank you Top Think
@redspade3024 жыл бұрын
Turning the tables is answering a question with a question...I hate it😂
@radioworld32425 жыл бұрын
Thx Bro awesome vid
@mr.mckinnon56805 жыл бұрын
I'm pretty sure a couple of those are better detailed and Robert greens 48 Laws of Power. Great book.
@OpenFyre4 жыл бұрын
Should have given examples for each
@charlita254 жыл бұрын
These are Great 👍🏾 tips
@Nola5427 Жыл бұрын
Alternate title; 15 ways to persuade someone 🤣😂😅
@Fururu3332 жыл бұрын
This hits different after an emotional abusive relationship
@ha1980004 жыл бұрын
Can i know the software and voice over used to produce this amazing video?
@jmazz11275 жыл бұрын
As they saying goes......believe half of what you see and none of what you hear
@nickolaskerria29634 жыл бұрын
people who talk louder too can have more control over a crowd rather your own sensible voice of reason
@lybilzasomo60995 жыл бұрын
Interesting and Good advices,now that I know!....
@frenchiegonewild72645 жыл бұрын
Powerful :D Greetings from romania!
@gotfullertlynnennenga45903 жыл бұрын
waterloo iowa u.s.a greeting to romania, thanks takecare gooddays
@Butterflywings0114 жыл бұрын
Reminds me of workplace environments in a nutshell.
@niteshthakur26445 жыл бұрын
Good stuff keep it up
@fpcawolff5 жыл бұрын
Number 8 made me wonder if this video intents to manipulate me instead
@Chericherry43 жыл бұрын
#3....wear a mask,even when they don't work.
@joeschmoe75105 жыл бұрын
Reciprocity is my favorite!
@unclesam95915 жыл бұрын
It's funny because I've realized I've used a couple of those and it's also funny because I've noticed other people trying to use some of those all in all sound facts..
@SnailHammer5 жыл бұрын
I had a hard time getting any information from this video. The narrator speaks with exaggerated incredulity and I started skipping ahead before giving up.
@momijiyamanishi45485 жыл бұрын
It just sounds like he's extremely happy. I wish you would sound more mature.
@Mothana8084 жыл бұрын
What a wonderful content i enjoyed my meal over this video. Thank you
@mr308jrod5 жыл бұрын
#8...pay attention to that one the most
@sebs_channel4 жыл бұрын
I mean you can seek these as persuasive traits but then you could also use them to become more attractive or in control. Works both ways
@Nola5427 Жыл бұрын
Alternate title; 15 ways to persuade someone 🤣😂😅
@DankDoggo5 жыл бұрын
You can’t PERSUAAADE me to believe the things you said in this video. Teehee!
@whatttbailly4 жыл бұрын
Watch out for??? I’m gonna use these MYSELF 💀💀💀
@Nola5427 Жыл бұрын
Alternate title; 15 ways to persuade someone 🤣😂😅
@Temzy5 жыл бұрын
This is why you trust no one
@launchoctopus80225 жыл бұрын
T-Soar I won’t trust your advice then. So I guess that means I do trust your advice.. What a fucking conundrum you just put me in
@Temzy5 жыл бұрын
@@launchoctopus8022 hehehe exactly.
@abortionsurvivor66395 жыл бұрын
Both of you can trust me.
@mista_fur33465 жыл бұрын
You had to have survived that abortion for a reason.
@indridcold84334 жыл бұрын
Even if it is someone you find yourself familiar, never trust anybody at all. Those that seem to be interested in you or seem friendly are the ones you have to be especially cautious around them.
@fantasyqwest4 жыл бұрын
Yep. Just like all those "not sold in stores" infomercials then a couple months later... there it is on the shelf claiming "as seen on TV" 😂😂😂😂
@rockwarrior52875 жыл бұрын
Insightful! Thank u
@prince.tawanda5 жыл бұрын
heey finally a new subscriber 😁✋🏿
@jfs135 жыл бұрын
5:45 I heard that "community" eventually figured out this was a MASSIVE invasion of privacy and tied him to an ant hill.
@franksteinman80645 жыл бұрын
Good solution.
@neclakonak53845 жыл бұрын
Thank you 🙇
@kirstenricho5 жыл бұрын
My Dad was a car sales man for about 50 yrs we had our own car yard seen a bit of all this from the sales men
@abortionsurvivor66395 жыл бұрын
He must not have been that good at it as he couldn't afford to hire an English Tudor to help you figure out where to put a God damn period in a basic sentence.
@Handle_Edit5 жыл бұрын
Abortion Survivor Do you add a period when you speak? Dude who cares about a damn period
@AGNIVEER61525 жыл бұрын
If you convince other party that you have their best interest in mind, you will have successful negotiation
@rhondaray64885 жыл бұрын
I only listen to people who speak slower, because to me it seems like a fast talking person is trying to speed through the conversation as if they would rather be doing something else than to take the time to talk with you.
@bo07jangles5 жыл бұрын
Hypotheticals are usefull, just calling them "crazy" doesn't make them wrong or somehow not apply.
@danielrodriguez51655 жыл бұрын
For that last one I’m a helper anyways so I wouldn’t really care unless it was something that made a fool of me
@charlita254 жыл бұрын
Yes I talk really fast by nature. This makes some people skeptical of me.
@Stockholm_Syndrome5 жыл бұрын
11. That's why I played this video x 2 speed!
@WarriorPrime14 жыл бұрын
Good points to remember as the season of gas-bagging politicians becomes more prominent. Beware of being manipulated by shallow, power obsessed egos who tell you what you want to hear in order to get your vote. applies across the political spectrum.
@boxingcirclesaroundtheworl14694 жыл бұрын
Damn. He must have sold timeshare.
@WatchingMyLifeFlashB5 жыл бұрын
Actually #11 should be unusual speed of speech. Fast talking or, to the opposite, slow talking can be immensely persuasive. Many times people will focus much more closely on the words of someone who speaks slowly, taking perfectly timed pauses, & who are saying things as if those things are completely factual, when they may only be a convincing picture being painted by the speaker. The longer a speaker speaks for, the less time that a listener has to mentally process the words from a different point of view. If the forum is a two-way conversation, the longer that the persuader speaks, the less time there is for the object of the persuasion to speak their side, ask questions, clarify unclear points, or verbally formulate a defense. Narcissists in particular will speak slowly when answering questions as they spin their reply to both place themselves in the best light & manipulate the situation to his or her own benefit. Speed talking is the sign of a novice persuader. An expert knows how to be patient & set the stage. Any urgency is expertly created. (This was illustrated in #1. The used car or vacuum cleaner salesman will not discuss the product for the first 15 minutes of the conversation. They want to hear about you, your job, your home, & your family. And they will many times tweak their own story to mimic or even mirror yours. If that's rushed, bonding doesn't occur. In sales, it's called Make a Friend). In home sales usually entail calling a third party closer. Calls back & forth to make financing happen, negotiate a final price, or use prizes or rewards for the salesperson to encourage prospective sales to become customers who purchase to benefit their 'new friend'. It's hard to say 'No' to a friend. A friend doesn't talk over you or talk fast. So this video has a very good list, even if it is not fully rounded out. Gauged speech that tends to be faster or slower than seems appropriate.
@AnimalMother605 жыл бұрын
Wait...is this channel doing #8!?
@ebbyc18175 жыл бұрын
Well, this was helpful. 😊 12. 8:30 I didn't see what was wrong with this. How is it a bad thing if you're doing something you want to do anyway...? 13. 9:10 This has, never, worked on me. For me claiming authority means, you're removing me from the argument. My opinion is no longer valid, therefore, there is no point even talking to you. I instantly switch off.
@momijiyamanishi45485 жыл бұрын
A fast talker also does not give the listener time to digest the contents. Also, a fast talker does not give anyone else a chance to speak.
@petquack5 жыл бұрын
Conformity sounds like a good description of high school .