7 Types of People You NEED To Avoid

[@toxicmale2264]

People who talk badly behind other people's backs will most likely do it to you too. Careful what you say to strangers. Once I realize someone is a gossip, I will try to keep conversations as short and professional as possible.

[@shannon2748]

I agree.

[@JustCallMeLiberty]

Good idea

[@beatflysforever7448]

Mexicans

[@keyanamoore2341]

💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯

[@norasalih4982]

I agree

[@osse1n]

- Toxic, negative people who complain all the time and speak badly about others Not everyone is meant to be saved

[@sonygod5418]

What a good idea what if you could save that person and make him posetive again. Then again you look like a lefty who hate Trump you people hate us

[@1987garrettwright]

@@sonygod5418 wth are you talking about and what brought that up?

[@sonygod5418]

@@1987garrettwright cus he says that "we should avoid negative people" as if they was bad people. They are Negative for a reason maybe all they need is a friend or a girlfriend but people dont like thatand only want over posetive people who walk in the pride parade and party alot and love sport. That is what you guys want right? Instead of pyshing negative peopel away why not try to be thier friend and maybe change them or is it too much work?

[@1987garrettwright]

@@sonygod5418 if they are able to ask or listen for input on their behavioral problems and they are willing to work on it..... Sure be supportive. However, making or changing someone's behavior (even for the better)is NOT anyones elses responsibility besides that person alone

[@sonygod5418]

@@1987garrettwright It is with that attitude that we have so many people that live alone cus you think that someone who is weak and blames themself and sometimes others for thier misstake and life decisions it is thier resposibilitys. That is stupid some people bath in negativity cus that is all they get from the outside world is it thier misstake? Is it thier respisibility if people dislike them or discredit them? No of course not if all you do is getting negative feed back or being disrespected or rejected by girls of course you will not be very happy about the world and blame it on others when in reality it is them not you who are the problem.

[@katrinakaye7997]

I started off being friends with a gossiper until I started getting annoyed with the constant amounts of talking she did behind everyones back. She'd talk cruely about them when they weren't around then smile and act like their best friend when they were in front of her. She even did this to our other friends! I later found out she was also talking about me behind my back, so I stopped being friends with her immediately. People like this are insecure, have low self-esteem and aren't happy within themselves. Wish them healing, not pain.

[@ashleyperry8993]

@Katrina Kaye Samething Had Happen to Me Doll But it does Hurts to Be Honest But all I can do is Talk to God About it And Pray & continue to Put God First and Leave The Situation Alone but I Totally Agree with You wish Them Healing But not Pain.

[@ARedMagicMarker]

Nah, pain is what they deserve. Preferably a pad-lock to the mouth.

[@melodyleiber8562]

Me too!!!!

[@riabae11]

My friend list I low now because of the hard truth 😢

[@sonias9722]

Imma just play it safe and avoid everyone

[@donnaocasio45]

It works though, no drama .

[@fxstdribbler6427]

Still get girls pimp dont simp

[@hemarajdeventhiran5299]

Damn right

[@daveyt4802]

After a while you will need to watch the lonely video.

[@Bella-qw4re]

Totally agree. No drama.

[@allenjoyvillaluz968]

Being true to yourself is the only way to know who’s true to you.. I don’t care if somebody gets angry with me and leave ,that is when I know they’re fake .

[@totallyoverratedsellouts5039]

This

[@bega_warp]

i totally agree with you Allen Joy.....

[@priyankasharma3825]

Allen joy Villaluz What if you’re a bad person?

[@PutYoRhymeOn]

"My problems are bigger than yours" type of people too

[@siana778]

Hell yeah, I hate people who says it duh

[@abbysworld05]

Yea because a problem is a problem, sure it might be but that dosent mean to downplay other peoples problems

[@hzetzer]

You just described my whole family.

[@strategoscastaneda9095]

Run!

[@worf227]

Narcissism, narcisism, narcissism, an extra portion of narcissism..

[@ralphmarbler27]

There's more narcissism than water on this fucking planet and everyone knows that.

[@darring.9161]

I was waiting for someone to mention that.

[@8v71buses]

My brother is a narcissist and I have to love him from a distance

[@stefand3518]

Narcissistic-bordelines

[@daveyt4802]

Me, me, me. And me too. (from the matrix movie)

[@alicerayne9461]

Really avoid all people as much as you can live your life and be Happy within your self, I had to learn that the hard way : )

[@vittoriacolona]

The thing is most people haven’t a clue how to manage themselves.

[@cherylann1602]

I much rather be with my cat...she doesn't do any of these traits that humans have. She is awesome 🐈

[@ponypalpaula]

I feel the same way about my horse and my dog. They’re both very honest.

[@bellasflores3834]

Of course animals don't talk back and argue, but.they also don't have a conscience and won't ever be able to rescue you in real.crisis and taking.refuge in animals.is not.the answer. We must still face the world and work through whatever necessary to be able to deal with people. Hiding is not the answer.

[@sandramorrison2215]

@@bellasflores3834 m

[@galexyskpop6359]

Bellas Flores yes I luv animals and their sooo cute !!!!!🤗🤗🤗

[@alihamud322]

You made my day.

[@shivasai8149]

the gossip type are the most poisonous ones that you need to get rid of immediately. thanks for the likes 🧡🧡

[@zainabyusuf3424]

Shiva Sai Yadav actually the puppet master is the worst

[@jenniejoan6691]

Zainab Yusuf i agree. They can be literally toxic to the point where they’ll kill or hurt or take bc their feelies get hurt. They also can BE the gossip, lying and convincing other ppl of things about u that aren’t even true. They’ll turn everyone away from u & mentally/emotionally/financially abuse u, isolate u into submission. They’re sick & those r the ppl that can’t/won’t/don’t want change

[@carlssnji]

Jennie Joan That’s what is happening to me , I’ll tell you if you want to , so you can tell me if she is a good friend

[@carlssnji]

Jennie Joan Hmmm , So it started like this , I am very naive and I trust everyone easily I don’t know why tho , but , my Friend told me that she like this guy at school , then let’s go back at time some hours at school , we were at the activities thing and my Friend and her crush and my ex boyfriend were practicing for a school activity they were chosen and she fell in love with him in there so then after that , my Best Friend (I’ll tell her story in a bit) and I were talking about my ex boyfriend and how good he is and then since we both knew that my Friend like that guy we talked about her and him and that they are so perfect together and then school ended and the usual thing we always do , my friend texted me and we talked , after that she went to the point that why do I think that she and him make a good couple and told her what me and my best friend said , and then I told her ( I REGRET SAYING THATTTT) That my Best Friend and I said that about him at school and I explained every detail , then some days later , we were at school and she was shipping them both and She told my best friend that I SAID THAT SHE LIKED HIM AND I WAS LIKE : wat , then she got mad at me for a bit then some months later we were discussing that and my friend told me that I told her that she liked him and I never ever said that I am telling the truth if I had the chat like if I could get it back I could’ve and showed her proofs and then , she blamed it all on me , and I get it it’s my fault for telling her all that information I don’t know why but every time that I talk to her she finds a way to get the information , and I always knew that she doesn’t keep secrets she tells secrets to everybody and sometimes they are fake secrets and then sometimes I just bump into her accidentally since she gets behind me and then she says OWWWWWW And ignores me and then I feel guilty , I don’t know how she does that that’s not nice

[@carlssnji]

Jennie Joan I need help with figuring this out if both of my friends are real because I am starting to have trust issues and every time I fight with someone I get headaches and get to stressed and sometimes I start crying or get mad

[@Greenhammock]

You just described all the characteristics of a narcissist

[@XxxX-wx3er]

a lot of people who were abused and terribly bullied as children have a lot of these traits, like being distant and a “brick wall” and all society has the attitude of ‘let’s leave these people alone because they’re toxic’

[@ARedMagicMarker]

Some people need to be avoided. They bring it on themselves, and it's not like people didn't try giving them chance after chance, or the benefit of the doubt. If they don't like it, maybe they can try not being total, and utter pieces of feces. Nobody has to put up with it. NO. ONE. These people can cause real, irreparable damage, and they want others to come back to them after they get the gist that society is now fed up with them, had enough and are avoiding their sorry asses? Go through the nightmare all over again just because their ego was hurt at no one wanting anything to do with them? Yeah right. Getouttahere. If they are so alone, why don't they make little friend circles with people just like them, and leave decent, non screwed up people alone? No, we're not all "just like the toxic people." If that were the case, toxic people wouldn't hate each other and try their darndest to try and poison and infiltrate peaceful people. The thing is, toxic people can't even stand each other, that's why they bug everyone else.

[@walkinbeauty7273]

If you know someone who is always down and hurting Please Don't ignore them!! They could have severe depression and suicidal, Please be kind and respectful, You could be saving a life lending a ear! Blessed be the kind heart 💖🙏

[@sonygod5418]

We need more people like you

[@luifdls6217]

walk in beauty true

[@saronaddis9068]

Sweat ❤️❤️

[@rubywedderburn6528]

Very true 🙏❤️🙏

[@MMMikuruBeam]

Very true! It is so disheartening when the image shows paranoid people and emotion-concealing people being shoved off instead of being given support and a helping hand. Some people of this kind didn't mean to bring harm at all

[@user-wo1ld2fk7q]

I enjoy keeping to myself and not being around people. It's peaceful

[@00kidney]

We should avoid fake people. That's all.

[@bernetajohnson3296]

AMEN AND PEOPLE WHO ALWAYS FEEL THE NEED TO COMPETE.......

[@roxannehiga7949]

100%single 100% alone good.

[@roxannehiga7949]

I love being myself fat. That Sitll went man's don't likes me. F*****that. I am happy being myself. Sitll man. F*****boy Sitll mans. F***off. You are marriaged man's. Or boys.

[@roxannehiga7949]

Smart marriaged man's. Or f*****boys. You know who you are.

[@roxannehiga7949]

I know you don't likes me or love me. 100% I love myself. Deeper love myself Happy. 😊

[@maxinehussy1297]

It's when they say something hurtful to you , then they say" I was joking. Can't you take a joke. ? "

[@justme8841]

They gaslight.

[@aricarter6523]

My “boyfriend” always makes these comments about me being skinny and when I said something about it this was his exact response. You see I put “boyfriend” in quotation because that title is questionable at this point

[@grannysweet]

@@aricarter6523 run. get away from that bs.

[@liv1078]

I freaking hate those type of people

[@maxinehussy1297]

@@liv1078 yes they are disgusting human garbage

[@Bella-lc8du]

I'm avoiding people who just use me to benefit them. That's why I want privacy.

[@TNZKN]

We've all done the things described in this video, most of the times we dont even realise we are doing it. Nobody is born with the perfect personality, it takes a lot of time and mistakes to become a "good person" in my opinion. I would say the most dangerous personality of all, is the one who is not accepting ones flaws and is not doing anything to better themselves. Its sad for me to see people still struggling with the same problems they had like 5 years ago.

[@JoyFay]

Sadly some of these people are family

[@curtistinemiller1560]

7 Types of people to Avoid::The Gossip,The Emotional Underminer,The Sinking Ship,The Personality Performer,The Ball of Nerves,The Brick Wall,The Puppet Master.......

[@margaretnash9553]

THX U❗💯👍👍

[@imsea720]

Person who makes an awkward or a harmful atmosphere. Definitely need to avoid this type

[@mariostoynov]

Тhing is, all people have some kind of problem. Can't cut out everyone. Just stay away from the extreme cases. Some others might be worth a try, just don't "overstay".

[@lizquinn3568]

I dont like people who are always seeking attention, if there was a funeral they would wanna be the corpse 😒

[@gamesblackops4187]

Shut up please

[@hahahanotfunny4087]

😂😂🤣

[@lizquinn3568]

@@gamesblackops4187 i also dont like people who tell other people to shut up, i thought this section was about leaving a comment,but seeing you said please i will think about 🤔

[@speakyourtruth7872]

Lol.😆

[@amulyanani]

You kind of did really said the truth buddy

[@natalierullmanward9137]

I just quit my job because of this crap, gossip and bad acting

[@beatflysforever7448]

At least you don't live in Mexico.

[@kevinjackson1893]

I did too ! Unfortunately I have to go back there shortly ,no job anywhere else, and it sucks!

[@absolutepowerchannel8980]

Omg. I used my week vacation looking for a another job. Didn't find a better one.

[@jlbaker2000]

Bosses enable the gossipping. Wouldnt it be nice if there were a law.

[@floatingcastlesofficial2636]

Natalie Rullman Ward yep same. Was surrounded by gossip and undermining fake people.

[@paulnevins8378]

Finding friends is so hard because this is the way of the world most of the time im on my own even on holiday 😕

[@GeekNArtist]

A message to underminers and people who walk all over others: Before you walk all over me, just remember that I'm not this welcome mat I used to be when I was younger. Actually, now that I'm older, I'm still a welcome mat but with spikes and razors hidden underneath. Just a warning.

[@hemarajdeventhiran5299]

Bro u gota chill

[@GeekNArtist]

@@hemarajdeventhiran5299 But I also gotta get tough sometimes. I won't let people take advantage of me anymore.

[@jmoneygreene8788]

Thats Why I Dont Need Friends

[@Bella-qw4re]

Agree.

[@Bella-qw4re]

Agree.

[@jeevankrishna271]

I like staying alone

[@liarams7485]

Me too...

[@traceylennon1204]

Same!

[@RantyCat]

Your video on "loneliness" and "motivation" really helped me. I wish you made more videos like that.

[@TopThink]

Coming soon :)

[@RantyCat]

@@TopThink Thanks!

[@roxannehiga7949]

✋

[@amyraquel]

This is why I don't try to get to know people. I've met every single one of these.

[@michelleswanson9041]

I was in the Medical 🏥 Field and I don’t have any friends 👫 because to be honest, most people don’t care 🤷‍♀️ about you, even people in your Church!! Most people only care about themselves and what they can get out of you-!! I have had very few friends 👫 because people are instinctively selfish, they don’t even know that they are presenting themselves as selfish-! Unless a person is an Angel 😇 or a Saint it is unlikely that you will have a relationship with anyone-!!!

[@kimbo7777]

The emotional underminer really ticks me off!!!!!!

[@nonamebmxkrew5020]

The truth is, we all need to be avoided from time to time. 😪Every human is more than their worst trait.

[@indym375]

We as people are All flawed We just gotta work on them and moved forward

[@Arrian1111]

You are so right - I identify quite a bit with the 'sinking ship' and the 'performer' too. We are all flawed - so much can be ironed out with honest conversation, with difficult personality types. We all struggle ... and we are all in it together.

[@peterrobitaille3049]

I agree the world and the people in it see us as we see are self's.So we reflect out something that comes from within ourselves we're not happy with or are in denial about. Then the people we interact with just mirror it back to us so those are the traits that we are instantly judgemental about.Its the creators why of showing us the things we still need to work on.Think about the words interact,interaction,interactions it's always an interior act being projected out from are eyes.The film reel is all the thoughts, feelings and experiences we had since the day we were born."All the worlds a stage,and all the men and women merely players.They have their exits and their entrances;And one man in his time plays many parts. Shakespeare.

[@emmanueltafirenyika3613]

No I disagree - take me for instance. I used to be conceited, but now I am perfect ! 😁 (old joke)

[@marquanbrand-moorehead3897]

Avoid Negative people period,

[@Coincollector81]

I admit I'm very first impression. If a person is rude, disrespectful or even childish i want nothing to do with them. A lot of toxic people in my life made me highly judgemental and willing to cut people out of my life. If someone seems like a lost cause they usually are. Cut the loss and move on.

[@defenseagainststalking]

Become famous, and everyone around you and for miles and miles will act like this. Attack you physically, even with guns. Worst part is, you've never met them.

[@hermanman8235]

Move forward and prepare for the worst..at least that is what I know

[@racheleisenman3037]

I void people who always gossip n put labels on people. Because to me people like that are desperate for attention n are weak. Fake people frustrate me because they are constantly trying to figure out your life instead of worrying about them selves. All I can say I don't let nobody mess with my intelligents. I keep God first in my life I feed him to my temple and to others when I get a chance . he's always on alert! I am guided by the holy spirit. Thank you for the highlighted comment. N God bless you.

[@ashleyperry8993]

@Rachel Eisenman Amen

[@racheleisenman3037]

Ashley Perry thank you . God bless you.

[@ashleyperry8993]

@@racheleisenman3037 Same to You Love.

[@shannon2748]

Some of these types also describe a narcissist, especially number 7.

[@dogie1070]

From time to time, I need to review this list.

[@starkilla7777]

What do you do when they are your family? It’s hard to drop people you love :(

[@circustoonsjokevideos]

I am paranoid in terms of conventional awareness and concern: people I'm paranoid of is Women Who ask Me rather or not I'm single then try to "hook" Me up with another women. Basically showing Me that We can never be friends due to the lack of trust and confidence in My social skills. So, to be completely candid, I am paranoid of certain people and situations; but of course, I converse and get to know them before making the judgement I explained. That judgement personally saying: I'm an independent Man with My Own Life. I don't need someone getting girls for Me or overall controlling *MY LIFE*

[@supperhey]

I'm 4/7 types of toxic people rolled into one. No wonder I have an avoidant personality.

[@devilisalair5641]

The most hardest thing I've ever had to do was fake it to make it as in act calm towards a person who is out of control in order to not lose my control. Man it's better to remove yourself from such people. Also understand that being kind doesn't mean you should tolerate someone who is disrespectful.

[@vanessabell7154]

Where I live I have neighbors like that. Honestly speaking I really don't want to be Around her because she gossip and insult me about how overweight I'm. She doesn't let anyone else speak. She is 68yrs old. My mother rest in peace used to be like her then I pick up those traits until I got delivered from all gossip and body shaming people. Thank you too thinker. I really appreciate you. 🙏🏾❣️

[@MOALGSAT]

I think everyone knows people like this, they creep into our lives from time to time!!!! Thanks for the amazing video on this topic!!!!👍👍👍☺️☺️☺️💚💜💛💙💗💝

[@angelh8262]

I was very impressed with this video I’ve known someone for 30 years and you’ve just described their personality problem. Thank you!

[@PracticalInspiration]

As much as you might want to help someone, if they don't want it there's not much you can do, other than not let their toxic behaviour affect you

[@amyp.575]

Thanks for the practical advice!

[@cjennings6179]

Wear an emotional shield when around them. Let there figurative arrows bounce off you & back at them. Practice COURAGE & patience & Peaceableness. Teach everyone HOW to RESPECT YOUR NEIGHBORS with CONSIDERATION & TRUTH!!👍✌✌👀👂👍💡💡👍

[@FlamesAndShadows]

Lol. I usually just smother them with affection a little bit extra to rattle their cage, tell them seriously my genuine stance on it, and only then do the respectful backing away. There is a difference between people who don't like it, find it demeaning and those who don't trust it.

[@MaryD79]

I definitely cut off people immediately and if I find out they are this way? I disconnect from them. 💯👌🏾

[@mirmaryam5840]

It pretty much sums up my whole family 😂! Very helpful, I tried all my life to do better but with these people, nothing is ever going to be enough and I'm so glad to have a perspective from these videos. Thank You ❤️

[@indridcold8433]

Avoid all people to interact with in an interpersonal way. Only interact with others in a manner a client would interact with a service provider or a merchant. The 21st century human is longer capable of friendship. There are legacy friendships that are true friendships if you were born before 1970. If you were born after 1970 you will never know a true friendship. Do not even try to find a true friend. You will fail and become a victim of cruelty. As of 8 August 2000, I have had no friends, aquaintences, nor a girlfirend. This assures I will never be victimised again nor will I ever have my emotions mangled again. Safety over trying to be social makes a lot more sense in today's time.

[@1987garrettwright]

I disagree with the avoid emotional underminers entry, mostly because of the fact that more often than not your emotions Are NOT conducive to Logical decision making. Overdoing emotion driven activities can be a huge detriment not only to one's self but also to those around you. Not saying be a robot, but rather to keep your emotions on a leash.

[@pretendinnocent3548]

Emotional underminer for me is someone that be little ur trouble and dont want to understand someone.

[@cjennings6179]

SELF-CONTROL & SELF-RESPECT is proper STANDING FIRM!!!

[@miraclesforus2]

Sometimes when people are abusing you and you need help..that is NOT GOSSIP.

This content help me to improve my english (I am spanish speaker from Venezuela) and I learn things I love "personal development". Thanks!

[@cherrycain6425]

I work with someone that’s never happy. There’s always drama going on at their home or around them at work. They can be happy for alittle while but when work gets busy they start freeking out. And you might be working as hard as you can and they’re running around trying to get things done , even other people’s jobs, and they start complaining that they’re so tired and hate their job and acting like you’re not pulling your weight and that they need to get another job because they are so tired of covering for other people (mainly meaning you). They don’t really complain about you to your face but you know that they do behind your back like they do with other people to you. If they don’t feel like working they won’t come in or they’ll go to a certain boss and just tell them that they are going home. It might be an hour before time to go home. I have to psych myself up anymore to work with her. Well , it’s that way with a couple different ones. I’ve been at that job for almost 10 years. These people are 10-20 years younger than me and have only been there maybe 4-5 years.

[@ritaogunsanwo7441]

Thank you so much for this because I have learnt my lessons from this topic.

[@bonydox9]

It's very hard to watch the sinking ship type ppl but experience has taught me to just watch them destroy their life again and again.

[@Fordriasdance]

When you call these type of people OUT...They play victim.

[@jillstover8782]

If people talking crap on someone else! They are about you too!

[@JeanneDieKmkc]

Wow, this is really an awesome video. Thank you for making so much great content!

[@alberteinstein6040]

Is this the reason everyone avoids me and acts like I’m dead

[@alvinprettyman1802]

LET'S HOPE NOT

[@FlamesAndShadows]

Erm. Which one?(s) Personally I don't like this video. There's too much of 'this thing is not like the others, so you should avoid it' from the point of view of an extroverted conformist society, while not allowing the thought not all who seemingly fits into the types listed actually doing it from the place of deception or any intention of causing harm to others.

[@jackieann5494]

U R FUNNY 😄😂😄😂😄😂💖

[@tiyab3104]

If you even have to ask that question the answer is probably yes. If this is a serious comment, hopefully you can make some adjustments and things has get better.

[@nicolerose573]

Your being too hard on yourself. You probably haven’t met the right kind of people. As long as you like yourself and are happy that’s all that matters.

[@ibrahimberrada4855]

I like all that you do in this amazing Channel!❤️🌹 Ibrahim from Morocco 🇲🇦 💪🏽

[@Godinfleshmusic]

I only came here for comments!😇

[@justsomerandominternetuser6379]

Video idea: practical ways to deal with workplace bullying, and harassment including sexual harassment. Even some self defense techniques if touched inappropriately.

[@speakyourtruth7872]

Contact a lawyer for that work b.s.they are out there to help you. :) 😻

[@justsomerandominternetuser6379]

Speak Your TRUTH I will. I got a small video camera to help with getting evidence. Thanks for your kind words.

[@jamesearlcash1758]

Regarding number 5 what if the individual we consider to be "paranoid" is justified in feeling the way they do? What if there is someone out to "get them" or is "against them" ? There are many court documented cases based on instances where people who claimed they were being targeted by those who they felt were out to get them were in fact being targeted because of indifferences, gender, jealousy, personal financial gain, whereas it did not appear obvious to anyone else. So now what if the person is right but you dismiss them off hand because you assume that they are just being paranoid? Wouldn't that be undermining someones emotions?

[@rjc7289]

The gossipy people in my life are hard to avoid when a good number of them are my co-workers. The emotional underminers are a lot of my family members, so that makes life especially difficult to endure.

[@nynyc3383]

RJC 72 just keep it cute around them. Don’t tell them your personal business.. and go on bout your day. Oh and don’t add on to their gossip bs

[@cw5451]

Good information. Thank you.

[@laurenkeyes1677]

LoL reasons for my introversion 😂👏🏾✌🏾❤️

[@ronaldoggha1801]

I am a personality performer but I’m a loyal and good person

[@lakshmi9091]

Loving the happy go lucky music in the background.. 🙄😏

[@tishthedish7684]

Oh my God! #7!!! I know this person. ☹️ Thank you for this information.

[@gokengeyi3306]

Very helpful video.

[@PowerMatrixAnime]

Law 10: INFECTION: AVOID THE UNHAPPY AND UNLUCKY. You can die from someone else's misery-emotional states are as infectious as diseases. You may feel you are helping the drowning man but you are only precipitating your own disaster. The unfortunate sometimes draw misfortune on themselves; they will also draw it on you.

[@TheStrategicKeys]

Reading my mind. I got such a 48 Laws of Power vibe from this video. 👍

[@sonygod5418]

Or you could save that person and make him happy again. This is why i dont belive in anything the left are saying they are all hypocrits and knows nothing about emotions

[@TheRealJmoneyMedia]

💯

[@ARedMagicMarker]

Exactly. Your poison and inner demons will NEVER be my problem. Get outta here with this we gotta befriend the crazies deal. You know who's saying that shit right? Other crazies. They'll even brand you as crazy for not wanting to put up with their crazy. Ignore the lunacy and call your local nuthouse if things get out of hand.

[@sidrakhoso3026]

Fake it ,till you made it ...........wow nice word🤔🤔😊

[@karmicsoul4444]

I partly disagree about gossips. I call a 'spade a spade' & might talk about someone based on what I see or my experience I've had with that person to someone else to see how other people feel. Its amazing what you 'find out' by talking or 'gossipping' to others because it can validate what you thought about that person if the other person agrees. If you dont 'talk' you dont 'find out' and I firmly believe in the saying 'fore warned is forearmed'...

[@violafawzyfawzy506]

Thank you for your valuable videos they are really priceless and full of strong and important information ;I really want you to make a video about projective identification and how to defend our theilfes from it thank you

[@jockytorregosa7947]

I love all the contents.. Surely totally definitely right..

[@victoriapalferez-siri5952]

The worst is the supervisor that stir up gossip then play pious Mary and tell everyone that talks about me is in the back or in the bottom of my list to feel superior. Deeply insecure and envious afraid of being seen as they are.

[@amulyanani]

To be honest I am surrounded with all these types of people some will gossip about me some will just say nasty things which I don't even deserve but i can't die with loneliness so i just make this very little conversation and i would try to avoid being influenced by them. Trust me my friends avoid these people they will literally destroy your brain and drive you crazy. Try your best to avoid them that's the best little advise that i can say to you all

[@siana778]

Somebody need ur help, I am confused. I don't know what to do first, if I wanna be a cold blooded person to avoid getting hurt or just be a happy person to enjoy life while I am still alive, but I will get hurt. Someone answer me

[@siana778]

I don't know what to pick. I am very confused. Being cold towards ppl is mean Ik but it is the only way I could get away from people I don't like. And being happy and enjoying my life is more fun but I always get hurt whenever I gets happy. What should I do?

[@siana778]

I just wanna be silent once in for all, I don't wanna give a f*ck on every little thing that happened around me.

[@marlanaferro1481]

Don't lose your heart 'n soul just because of other mean spirited people, but be cautious. Be yourself, but reserved - that's the key. Never offer help or favors. Happiness lies within - keep it there, where it belongs, just not on your sleeve. Good Luck!

[@siana778]

@@marlanaferro1481 thank you this helps me a lot

[@rbsmith3365]

I’ve avoided or run from people who are garbage!

[@havanaTuko]

I feel like all these types could manifest in one person - I found myself in all of them up to some point.

[@asiamonna5289]

I have struggled in the past with some of these issues but now I don’t look at god I’m healing

[@dudanunesbleff]

About calling someone else to "release some steam", and then crititizing or judging others negatively because they don't sympathise with us, let us remind ourselves that we are upset not by the things that happened, but by our own representation that they are bad. If things were bad in themselves, they would upset the other person. So, instead of expecting others to feel what we feel, I sugest we remind ourselves that they don't feel those things the way they do.

[@jimmyjamb4911]

Wow! You just described my X-wife and her mother. All 7 wrapped up into one. It’s almost funny? After I freed myself from this prison of performance, I nicknamed her mother, “the puppet master”. A real monster!

[@NinjaMaxHaven13]

Im stuck in quarantine with a sinking ship. Once this quarantine is over, I'm out.

[@fireflyhere656]

After this video I am avoiding all of my friends

[@pretendinnocent3548]

Am i a brick wall if im still cant forgive someone because what they did to me in the past still haunted me..?

[@JoseVargas-bz3zd]

I'm subscribing love this

[@tayebakhand4300]

How to deal with those people who hurts you and say to others that you hurt them

[@rompemotores1]

Love it. Thanks

[@MaryD79]

My middle son, he is 20 years old and he is definitely a brick wall. He is also narcissistic and very jealous of his younger brother. Also, he is disrespectful towards me, others, or whomever? I finally *CUT MY TIES* with him and I'm at *COMPLETE PEACE* with my decision. I just pray for him and wish him well. People like my middle son, don't see they have a problem. They will says it's you or make up lies on you?! Smh!

[@cjennings6179]

Greed. Greedy heart. Greedy ATTENTION for ATTENTION. Mercy. COMPASSION. Inconsiderate. Unloving. Toxic views...

[@fearnot7500]

very helpful

[@kateeliz6469]

I think most of us have these personalities in varying degrees. I think I became the brick wall when I realized a friend of mine had 6-7 of these personalities. Also, I put up my brick wall personality when I realize a new friend is a gossiper - I don’t want to share too much to them lol. Few of my friends I can never associate to these as they are truly a friend

[@lisabloemers4084]

I am surrounded by them unfortunately and others from my past too and of course my kids have been surrounded by many verbally abusive stuff too!

[@hemarajdeventhiran5299]

Kind of people i hate the most are narcicists.Its super anoying to talk with these people, they always think only they're right

[@djgray16]

I’m all of my friends vents, and they all act like my problems are not that big of a deal and I’m fed up. Any advice?

[@beastlybuickv6402]

Make new friends.

[@attma12]

But how do I avoid toxic people at work!? I’m around them everyday how can I avoid them!?