6 Signs of Emotional Immaturity

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@understandmathhelp1543
@understandmathhelp1543 4 жыл бұрын
Summary If you are too lazy lol -Skye G. 1. They overreact for something really small or not that important 2. Ad Hominem...attacking the person rather than the actual problem 3. Attention hogging....they want to be praised and recognized by others 4. Impule Control...they dont think things through...basically like they dont think about the consequences of their actions and just do it 5. Emotional Avoidance....they brush serious conversations off and make an excuse to avoid or run from their feelings towards that topic 6. Zero Accountability...they blame others for their own mistakes, and they dont like to say that they are wrong even if its obvious Extra just because You are an amazing person It is hard during these times but you got this i beleive in you You are beautiful/handsome I'm glad you are here and you mean the world to me You are perfect and there is not a single thing in the world I would change about you You are doing your best and I am so proud of you for that I love your personality Other extra stuff for if you are stressed (steps) 1. You, yes you 2. Go get a glass of water or a bottle of water 3. Notice how still it is really just focus on it 4. Breathe in breathe out take deep relaxing breaths 5. Drink the water slowly 6. Notice how it shines on your lips 7. That is you 8. You are doing so good, and you are shining Last thing Philippians 4:13 ......I can do all things through Christ that strengthens me John 3:16......For God so loved the world that he gave his only begotten son, and that whoever believes in him shall no perish but has everlasting life SENDING SO MANY HUGS OUT TO ALL OF YOU🤗🤗🤗💖
@stefanmilinkovic6433
@stefanmilinkovic6433 4 жыл бұрын
God bless you my friend.
@samanthamolina3336
@samanthamolina3336 4 жыл бұрын
Back to you, you amazing person ❤️❤️🥰!! I hope you’re doing amazing and that you have everything you need and desire stay safe and god bless you !!
@fallingfallfally
@fallingfallfally 4 жыл бұрын
When was the last time you actually hugged someone thats having a hard time 🙄
@yvanderamos654
@yvanderamos654 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you! 💕💕
@understandmathhelp1543
@understandmathhelp1543 4 жыл бұрын
@@fallingfallfally not any time recently bc of corona but I wish could
@troytruong8246
@troytruong8246 3 жыл бұрын
I want to give a shout out to all the people who know and accept their weakneses and strive to be a better mature adults. Now that is maturity.
@alicia1636
@alicia1636 3 жыл бұрын
Thsnk you I'm not an adult tho but I'm impulsive and sensitive so I'm trying to work on that but it's Hard with and immaturr dad :(
@themajesticman2424
@themajesticman2424 3 жыл бұрын
@@alicia1636 god bless you dont worry
@joshv5376
@joshv5376 3 жыл бұрын
Trying
@CelticVampireQueen
@CelticVampireQueen 9 ай бұрын
😠
@raemon.
@raemon. 4 жыл бұрын
This video really opened my eyes... now I know how immature I am... I was thinking that I was very matured for my age... im going to change for the greater good ... thank you so much ♥️
@mch_mystic5949
@mch_mystic5949 3 жыл бұрын
A humble man
@jeffreys.2765
@jeffreys.2765 3 жыл бұрын
Wow🥺 Congratulations 🎉 you passed the first Test🧠 the " Art of Acceptance "
@smmilton32
@smmilton32 3 жыл бұрын
Same!I think I'm probably at a teenage mindset smh I love to argue so that I can belittle and love mind games and conflict. But I absolutely crave emotionally intelligent men. Weird.
@zahniyahbrannon4451
@zahniyahbrannon4451 3 жыл бұрын
same
@ajhimself-mr3yp
@ajhimself-mr3yp Жыл бұрын
It takes a lot of humility to admit that you realized that you are emotionally immature. You have my respect bro!!
@kaptainant7596
@kaptainant7596 4 жыл бұрын
Sadly, this describes me. I’m trying to learn and remove these behaviors from my pattern 🤦🏽‍♂️
@bridgetduah52
@bridgetduah52 4 жыл бұрын
Admitting this proves that u ARE mature....have a nice day, bae
@muthuselvan6884
@muthuselvan6884 3 жыл бұрын
Yep , literally no immature person admits they are immature. You're probably one of the mature ones.
@colinstringer561
@colinstringer561 3 жыл бұрын
respect
@Ilostyouare
@Ilostyouare 3 жыл бұрын
You and me both bro
@anirudhv0062
@anirudhv0062 3 жыл бұрын
same here
@amalik8120
@amalik8120 4 жыл бұрын
When we are mature, we don't get stressed due to past's regret and future's worry
@meenakg310
@meenakg310 4 жыл бұрын
Yah
@amalik8120
@amalik8120 4 жыл бұрын
@@meenakg310 Thanks
@ohisthatso8309
@ohisthatso8309 3 жыл бұрын
So im still immature
@yk_zyk
@yk_zyk 3 жыл бұрын
nah lol
@mmi75
@mmi75 3 жыл бұрын
Or learn from the past regards and prepare for the future
@QuietlyMagnetic
@QuietlyMagnetic 4 жыл бұрын
I love Oscar Wilde's take on emotions; he said ― “I don't want to be at the mercy of my emotions. I want to use them, to enjoy them, and to dominate them.” I recently spent a month analyzing Batman's emotional mastery. He's the paragon of this virtue and provides an enlightening yet entertaining lens to look at emotional control through.
@GigaChadsAreReal
@GigaChadsAreReal 4 жыл бұрын
I personally believe The Red Hood is the emotional master, not Batman. Batman still refuses to use firearms because he knows he will lash out and lose control if he did
@cinematlon802
@cinematlon802 4 жыл бұрын
How is batman a paragon of emotional control? He's a man in his 30´s tha goes around beating the shit out of poop people cause he cant get over his trauma.
@manflutewarrior
@manflutewarrior 4 жыл бұрын
@An Ex-Mystic in my view, that fact proves batman's emotional maturity because he knows himself well enough to show restraint and not put himself in the situation where he can/would lose control in the first place
@lifewithcarvota
@lifewithcarvota 4 жыл бұрын
If you are feeling like you're not good enough amd not worthy anything. Please watch this. I find her inspiration so captivating🥰💯 hekzbin.info/www/bejne/e4m3k3R4qMeIkLem
@elpanchitoruso
@elpanchitoruso 4 жыл бұрын
We have two ears and one mouth so that we can listen twice as much as we speak
@KizaWittaker
@KizaWittaker 4 жыл бұрын
Not true
@manflutewarrior
@manflutewarrior 4 жыл бұрын
I've heard this clever figure of speech before hehe. I would say it's definitely good advice for some, but maybe not for all. There are many people on this planet who would do well to listen more thoughtfully to others, rather than just yelling their sides political views. But I also believe there are many of the more quiet ones of us that would do well to learn to summon the bravery to speak up, and not be too afraid of making mistakes when we do. That's what I've been trying to do more of lately, and I did make some mistakes but I am learning from them
@nyashamutumbwa7167
@nyashamutumbwa7167 3 жыл бұрын
❤stay happy
@theroyalcrownedtiger2946
@theroyalcrownedtiger2946 3 жыл бұрын
There are 2 ears so you can hear better or hear from different directions.
@Yasi_nzi
@Yasi_nzi 3 жыл бұрын
My grandad always said that ❤️
@lovecandyp97
@lovecandyp97 4 жыл бұрын
A lot of people don't know how to argue ,they just attack the speaker with no facts or sense of logic present in their statement.
@troytruong8246
@troytruong8246 3 жыл бұрын
You mean the liberals? Lol
@roverjohnson6854
@roverjohnson6854 3 жыл бұрын
@@troytruong8246, You are being emotionally immature right now.
@RideAcrossTheRiver
@RideAcrossTheRiver 3 жыл бұрын
@@troytruong8246 Conserve means to cook and pack fruit for storage
@alexusnorsouvanh8640
@alexusnorsouvanh8640 4 жыл бұрын
I’m reflectively thinking about myself and how badly I’d like to keep pursuing a change in a result of a better life & a greater “me”
@mrk7258
@mrk7258 3 жыл бұрын
I just watched this and I relate to almost all of those things. For the past few months I have been working on myself to be emotionally mature. One day I'll make myself a better person🌼.
@mamallama9866
@mamallama9866 3 жыл бұрын
at least you're emotionally mature enough to recognize things in yourself :)
@wouldntyouliketoknow1894
@wouldntyouliketoknow1894 3 жыл бұрын
Good for you.... :)
@hha8171
@hha8171 2 жыл бұрын
Good on you
@DarkStarGSK22
@DarkStarGSK22 4 жыл бұрын
I'm sure some are thinking of their ex right now lol
@marthemachine2216
@marthemachine2216 4 жыл бұрын
Or current situation lol
@mvp6780
@mvp6780 4 жыл бұрын
...or themselves.
@marthemachine2216
@marthemachine2216 4 жыл бұрын
@@mvp6780 that too lol
@shivendras07
@shivendras07 4 жыл бұрын
but what if your ex is thinking about you after watching this video 🤔
@TheRealKingKevin
@TheRealKingKevin 4 жыл бұрын
How’d you know?
@actuallybusiness1622
@actuallybusiness1622 4 жыл бұрын
Those signs are so real!! Your videos are amazing🎯💯
@SY-sp8uo
@SY-sp8uo 4 жыл бұрын
You know that you are not immature anymore when your inner peace is more important than "winning" the fight ! *Being peaceful is more important than being right!*
@deadheadliving
@deadheadliving 4 жыл бұрын
Well so this means in your words America would be an immature one cos all it ever does is trying to be the winner..be in the spotlight😂
@Ilovesushi123456
@Ilovesushi123456 4 жыл бұрын
I agree with this. I’ve fought many arguments in the past and more and more all I want is inner peace and to sleep well at night.
@bs6790
@bs6790 3 жыл бұрын
The irony is, being peaceful *IS* being right.
@daniellesagang1037
@daniellesagang1037 3 жыл бұрын
Inner peace or peace of mind cannot be overemphasized.
@lifeisbeautiful5998
@lifeisbeautiful5998 3 жыл бұрын
@@daniellesagang1037 disliked
@HowellConsultations
@HowellConsultations 4 жыл бұрын
In case no one has told you today, Keep pushing through the heartache, lack of motivation & self doubt. When you feel lost, that’s the perfect opportunity to find a reroute. There’s so much you’re meant to do in this lifetime, don’t give up on it. Hope our channel helps you on your journey ✌
@HowellConsultations
@HowellConsultations 4 жыл бұрын
@@jasminelila Pleasure!!
@astrangerwhocares7577
@astrangerwhocares7577 4 жыл бұрын
Woow needed this! Thank you❤
@lifewithcarvota
@lifewithcarvota 4 жыл бұрын
If you are feeling like you're not good enough amd not worthy anything. Please watch this. I find her inspiration so captivating🥰💯 hekzbin.info/www/bejne/e4m3k3R4qMeIkLem
@HowellConsultations
@HowellConsultations 4 жыл бұрын
@Cherilyn Mouflier It is!! ❤🙏❤
@HowellConsultations
@HowellConsultations 4 жыл бұрын
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@nicoleanncornejo1070
@nicoleanncornejo1070 3 жыл бұрын
Omg🥺 this describe me. I can’t control my anger. I’m trying to avoid it.
@Texasmule
@Texasmule 3 жыл бұрын
Anger is only good to have in life or death situations
@yamildl3004
@yamildl3004 4 жыл бұрын
This video was a Mike Tyson uppercut directly to my immaturity
@Texasmule
@Texasmule 3 жыл бұрын
Lel
@Lauraperez_4
@Lauraperez_4 3 жыл бұрын
I can do all things through Christ because he gives me strength. Philippians 4:13
@ricardolozano5356
@ricardolozano5356 3 жыл бұрын
@@RideAcrossTheRiver my sister constantly mentions her boyfriends name i don't know why she does this
@barbaramalbroux5358
@barbaramalbroux5358 4 жыл бұрын
I try to avoid them as much as possible that is why I take my time getting to know someone
@karrynlipsett5187
@karrynlipsett5187 4 жыл бұрын
i was dealing with an emotionally immature adult - my ex, no more tho - new yr new start. bye bye to bad rubbish 👋🏼
@lowestoflows2
@lowestoflows2 3 жыл бұрын
They aren’t rubbish 😕 no one is Hate what they do/have done that’s bad, but love the person still (care about them and be kind regardless of if you are dating them or not) Look at the problem, not the person... Those are just my thoughts! I love you and God bless you! 😊💖
@karrynlipsett5187
@karrynlipsett5187 3 жыл бұрын
@@lowestoflows2 if only u knew, i dont think u'd be saying that. Honestly. Im a lover not a hater but waw this guy almost got done in - iv had offers from a few guys to pay him a visit - good job for him that im a nice prsn eh.
@northernking6610
@northernking6610 3 жыл бұрын
He might be saying the same thing about you🤨
@maxgill2594
@maxgill2594 3 жыл бұрын
I feel so bad since I have adhd lol, a lot of these are uncontrollable symptoms of adhd although I think the main difference is that mature people with adhd tend to recognize their symptoms and try to let others know what’s going through our minds.
@giuliaercolini2143
@giuliaercolini2143 3 жыл бұрын
This. Yes.
@xoriented983
@xoriented983 2 жыл бұрын
We literally can control it you just need the will to change smth and to get help, to find strategies how to deal with it, it is literally possible
@maxgill2594
@maxgill2594 2 жыл бұрын
@@xoriented983 I don’t like the aggressive tone you took with this answer, to me it just sounds like you’re more frustrated than anything. However, I will say that I can see your point. Just in the last year, I quit doing drugs, I quit pursuing women in an unhealthy manner, and I started treating my body better. This is how I have turned things around for myself, I still face many problems but I don’t even need medication anymore to function!
@sorryiwashammored
@sorryiwashammored 4 жыл бұрын
I'm working on my immaturity. Thank you for this video. It gives me some specifics to work on. 1,4 and 5
@introvert_nationn5562
@introvert_nationn5562 4 жыл бұрын
U mind checking out my videos?
@mizravenkustoms
@mizravenkustoms 3 жыл бұрын
Someone in my life that is 77 years old does emotional escalation all the time.
@nancyayers7669
@nancyayers7669 3 жыл бұрын
Not good!!
@belgadog99
@belgadog99 3 жыл бұрын
u know how you feel. my family is full of people who throw tantrums. im also married to one. i just want peace and quiet.
@brianhansen1997
@brianhansen1997 2 жыл бұрын
Most of my family are like that, I call them adult toddlers 74 going on 7 . That’s why I can’t stand baby boomers
@Mark-wo5dm
@Mark-wo5dm 3 жыл бұрын
I'm matured... I can easily understand what other people feels and life, I think about my actions first be4 executing them, I don't care about others conversation and arguments because I get bored on listening to their noisy sounds. I just wonna sit somewhere quiet and play my music alone.
@Mr.Logic5753
@Mr.Logic5753 3 жыл бұрын
Wow! I'm impressed at the honesty in the comments section; most of the time we tend to push these traits off on others we know when we too need work ☺lol
@thanhlinhnguyen7276
@thanhlinhnguyen7276 4 жыл бұрын
thanks a lot top think! appreciate what you've been doing! 2million subs is coming for sure !
@TopThink
@TopThink 4 жыл бұрын
Thank u!
@oddblood1471
@oddblood1471 4 жыл бұрын
Some adults who are emotionally immature breed more emotional immaturity among their own children because they fail to resolve their own issues.
@ivangranger8494
@ivangranger8494 3 жыл бұрын
Absolutely.
@Morninglux
@Morninglux 4 жыл бұрын
Sometimes we pretend we are angry and immature to scare the real immature ones. Hahaha
@silkegehtyoutubegarnichtsa892
@silkegehtyoutubegarnichtsa892 4 жыл бұрын
Who are, however, too immature to apprenhend anything of that either though, fact. #)
@ADeeSHUPA
@ADeeSHUPA 3 жыл бұрын
@@silkegehtyoutubegarnichtsa892 Italian
@rhondakestin5853
@rhondakestin5853 3 жыл бұрын
Actually, if you're playing games with others, is that really mature?
@ivangranger8494
@ivangranger8494 3 жыл бұрын
Rhonda Kestin 👍🏻.
@kaeyravelez
@kaeyravelez 3 жыл бұрын
Im watching this for myself. Because a few days ago I called myself out for doing something immature to the person that wants to be with me.
@johnnystube9587
@johnnystube9587 3 жыл бұрын
I kinda have one of these emotions I always say thing's without thinking If somebody insult me I insult them back instead of ignoring And that gets me into trouble,I'm trying to stop this habit
@pamelajordan2890
@pamelajordan2890 2 жыл бұрын
We can't change until we admit we have a problem. That's how we mature
@newlovetv8212
@newlovetv8212 3 жыл бұрын
THANK YOU FOR THIS VIDEO, I CAN NOW TELL THE DIFFERENCE.. BUT I THINK SOME OF THIS QUALITIES YOU LISTED CAN ALSO BE DESCRIBED AS TEMPERAMENTAL QUALITIES
@cecilwhiting125
@cecilwhiting125 4 жыл бұрын
Perhaps this Vid is the 1st in a series, an introduction... The bad points: Lil' Sophomoric lil' esoteric & slightly condescending... But the hight points- Great topic and a dynamic catalyst to some dynamics of our nature as people that really gets neglected. I reall hope that this is a series, now or in the future. Excited to Subscribe!
@rosesarered9249
@rosesarered9249 4 жыл бұрын
One of my ex- friend is immature. I find it interesting that she claims I have low self-esteem only because I didn't argue with her fight back. I think that aurgenments are not necessarily at all.
@ruffy.m.bright7935
@ruffy.m.bright7935 4 жыл бұрын
Good contents, I take notes anytime I watch ur videos❤️🤲🏾
@Gordys_Garden
@Gordys_Garden 3 жыл бұрын
No I'm talking about my girlfriend, I learned that she's the immature one, thank you this was a very well learned message
@miftahdzulfalah2848
@miftahdzulfalah2848 3 жыл бұрын
Really good & usefull information.. thanks to this video maker team..
@hellwithit
@hellwithit 4 жыл бұрын
Usually when someone goes off for no reason- there are usually underlying issues and it was just the trigger for letting everything else out. But! There are those certain few......
@nataliepelz7932
@nataliepelz7932 3 жыл бұрын
Number 1 could also be an underlining build up of unresolved conflict and emotional triggers. People tend to blow up at small things when there is a bigger issue at hand that they are not dealing with.
@suzettelawes2104
@suzettelawes2104 3 жыл бұрын
Yes Natalie you are so right ✅
@Vy-Oh-Letter
@Vy-Oh-Letter 3 жыл бұрын
6 Signs of Emotional Immaturity : 0:08 1.) 1:10 - The Escalator 2.) 2:55 - Ad Hominem 3.) 4:39 - Attention Hogging 4.) 5:52 - Poor Impulse 5.) 7:20 - Emotional Avoidance 6.) 8:48 - Zero Accountability
@mickeysammy5169
@mickeysammy5169 Жыл бұрын
This is also all the things you will go through with a narcissist.
@supertrouper
@supertrouper 3 жыл бұрын
The part about throwing tantrums and easily getting irritated, sometimes it can be emotional burnout from situations in their lives and small situations that may not have made them ticked off easily are now ticking them off and it sometimes it can be their defense barrier to stop people from taking advantage of them.
@strangerfromtheothersideof997
@strangerfromtheothersideof997 4 жыл бұрын
wow, it sounds like my brother but he is a 10-year-old kid.
@Sunnyd222
@Sunnyd222 3 жыл бұрын
Haha!!! Give him some time! Teach him these values so he’ll grow up with them
@eries7642
@eries7642 3 жыл бұрын
I have depression and these signs are the symptoms of my illness. I'm taking my medications and its sad that most people consider depression as immaturity.
@Jamemis27
@Jamemis27 3 жыл бұрын
I'm glad, I see myself mature
@sanjana_reddy24
@sanjana_reddy24 4 ай бұрын
Us
@psychoticamericanteacher
@psychoticamericanteacher 3 жыл бұрын
The first one controlling your emtotions is a big one. Some look like they are controlling their emotions,but it seems they are under control because of fear. I know all about this and how to overcome it.
@jongho.finance_made_easy
@jongho.finance_made_easy 4 жыл бұрын
Everybody dies but not everyone lives. Everybody ages but not everyone matures.
@rydog3452
@rydog3452 4 жыл бұрын
Quote of the century
@jongho.finance_made_easy
@jongho.finance_made_easy 4 жыл бұрын
@@rydog3452 hahah thanks 🙏 honored
@redpeterdragon.impressions3868
@redpeterdragon.impressions3868 3 жыл бұрын
Yes, I gave thinking it would help and also prove my dad wrong. It didn't on both accounts. It got people relying on me and not themselves, And after I finally did what my dad kept telling me to do, Their lives got better with them taking control and responsibly instead of me trying to set it all up making it easy for them.
@kohimaganguly666
@kohimaganguly666 4 жыл бұрын
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@juliashahira3472
@juliashahira3472 3 жыл бұрын
This is a very useful information. Thanks you 😊👍
@knoxville4u
@knoxville4u 4 жыл бұрын
Can you follow this video up with steps towards emotional maturity? Thanks for this video 💯
@shellyhugeback9207
@shellyhugeback9207 3 жыл бұрын
Sometimes when someone interrupts it’s not immaturity, it’s ADHD. It’s hard to know when you don’t know the person well. So don’t judge too much when that happens. Pay attention to what they are saying when the interrupt. That may help to know the difference.
@fabriceconstant6255
@fabriceconstant6255 4 жыл бұрын
He definitely described my ex and that other guy I used to be friends with
@dianaharding632
@dianaharding632 2 жыл бұрын
Wow this is my 39yr daughter's issue. She's has been advised to get counseling to help make changes. She always has excuses why she hasn't or can't. I'm 58 and tired of being verbally abused by her when she losses control. I live w her and 4yr old grandson...have been telling her since she was 15yrs. I'm scared in going to be 70+ with her lack of emotional regulation. She knows how I feel but and acknowledges and immediately plays victim. Deflects issues. I'm a mental health outreach worker for past 20 years and can't get her to understand...I'm at a lose there's episodes daily.
@usamajawaid4326
@usamajawaid4326 2 жыл бұрын
This is just extremely sad to hear just seek help from aome family members involved others so she understands and convince her to go there.
@dianaharding632
@dianaharding632 2 жыл бұрын
@@usamajawaid4326 i don't have family left. My daughter and grandson are all i have left. She is emotionally Immature and not seeking help. I am getting help for myself. I'm very saddened by the whole situation.
@usamajawaid4326
@usamajawaid4326 2 жыл бұрын
@@dianaharding632 Oh dear don`t worry it`s bad for her if it gets serious she is the one go through some serious hospital visits then and i would suggest you to ignore her as much as possible....
@dianaharding632
@dianaharding632 2 жыл бұрын
@@usamajawaid4326 thank you ❤
@marcosschleben4062
@marcosschleben4062 4 жыл бұрын
It's called emotional intelligence and it's the #1 thing employers look for in an employee now a days...
@introvert_nationn5562
@introvert_nationn5562 4 жыл бұрын
U mind checking out my videos?
@addanotheraccount2614
@addanotheraccount2614 3 жыл бұрын
I thinj its when someone yells at you and don't react. So mature😁
@gotchu1164
@gotchu1164 3 жыл бұрын
Yeah, Employers looking for employees capable of handling torture.🤧🤣 Cuz the bosses/managers or supervisors are the immature ones. And people quit early cuz they can't handle these monsters. Lol 😂
@antidepresan3394
@antidepresan3394 3 жыл бұрын
@@gotchu1164 words!
@joanmontalvo5633
@joanmontalvo5633 3 жыл бұрын
Emotional Intelligence is = Hipocrecy
@bnzji-rt3dl
@bnzji-rt3dl 3 жыл бұрын
Very accurate. I may add that mental illnesses can really effect people's choices. For example personality disorders (bipolar/bpd and so fourth. It can also about breaking bad habits as mentioned. To just say it's immature is a very bold statement. Their could be many factors why although this is actually very spot on.
@carlosolea2530
@carlosolea2530 4 жыл бұрын
thank you so much for this signs for real, now I'm realizing than i am an immature!! xD
@funnypet4669
@funnypet4669 4 жыл бұрын
Non-Linear and complicated ,thank for talking about this point
@Thatguy-pm9gt
@Thatguy-pm9gt 4 жыл бұрын
So I’m in the middle, some of these things I do and some I don’t. This activates me
@wouldntyouliketoknow1894
@wouldntyouliketoknow1894 3 жыл бұрын
Keep up the good work
@maimunshaik8163
@maimunshaik8163 3 жыл бұрын
Many thanks for this video.. It's really helpful to resolve my problems 💐
@darwinponcecano4662
@darwinponcecano4662 3 жыл бұрын
There's no perfect bro, embrace who they are
@aalarachelle4198
@aalarachelle4198 3 жыл бұрын
Actually this video does not only help us to differentiate the difference of the two but also help us to become better if we have notice some of them within ourselves
@GENERALWACKASS
@GENERALWACKASS 3 жыл бұрын
Seriously been needing this my whole life. Thanks for the information that has been intentionally neglected and/or withheld from my defense.
@colletjeanbaptistefils4311
@colletjeanbaptistefils4311 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you i've learned so much on me, and now, i know what i need to change about my personality.
@bochokoy1118
@bochokoy1118 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing this insights.
@melissajanzen751
@melissajanzen751 4 жыл бұрын
What if #5 and #6 are your parents and you've already tried bringing up the problems multiple times. Is the next step to actually cut them out of my life?
@charlesbell5500
@charlesbell5500 4 жыл бұрын
You know, you can only bring a horse to the water, you can't make it drink. At the end of the day, a person only changes because THEY want to. So if you're always trying to be a lifeguard, but you can't get them out of the water, you get out, because if you stay, you'll drown with them. Tell them you're thankful for them, and kindly kick them out of your life. That could snap some sense into them and make them listen, and if it doesn't, you're just gonna go on with your life without carrying all that dead weight. Treat yourself as the most important person you know, because you are.
@cmont4064
@cmont4064 4 жыл бұрын
As awful as that sounds A BIG YES! The above comment is so very true. All my life my toxic, selfish, immature mother caused the family, myself immense pain, with cruel vicious games lies, always blaming other. My mother was so awful that when former family friends, note former, people never stuck around for long, ran into me i was not asked how is yr mother, most of the time she was not asked about, if she was it was is the wicked witch dead yet, or i hear yr mom is still around, I am so sorry. No joke. When i sought help, counseling in my early 20s i was told not once but several times by several therapist to get that women out of my life ...., I would try but it was something she seemed to enjoy, like it was a challenge, she made my life worse. Finally in my late 40s during an awful family tragedy, a loss of a child, then a diffuclt divorce i sought counseling once again for those issues, this time my therapists did not recommended getting her out of my life, demand that I did, told me he could not, would not help me if I did not, told me i could seek other help but any descent therapist would tell me the same thing, also getting help would only be undetermined by her so it would not do any good. I felt like a bad person, felt like I was cruel, you no turn other cheek, maybe she couldnt help it, oh she could help it, other people thought of me as selfish mean for thinking of turning my back on her. I really wanted help and all the uglyness she dished out to stop, for her when things were bad for someone she thruved on it, enjoyed making matters worse. It took meva few months, the therapist predicting her reactions and behaviors, showing me how bad she was making issues, showing me how she wasnt helping me not being a friend , much let alone a mother. I did it , i was divorced, i packed a few things and literally started fresh in new city, i did not tell anyone where i went, went off grid in away. I focused on dealing with things, fixing me. Its been 8 yrs and getting her out of my life was the best thing i could do for myself. My sister had done what I did but in her 20s, moved out of state, got married had 3 kids never allowing our mother to be involved in her or her family's lifes. I managed to forgive and ask for forgiveness from my ex husband , people and family i truly cared and loved i was able to rebuild those relationships, slowly, some understood and respected my decisions. Those who did not, or those who thought they knew best who would have me over then surprise my mother was there. I turn my back on totally. You may think thats awful, that i was selfish, i know it wasnt and i now no how great life can be without all the drama, the hurt, the embarrassment, the quilt. If you have given it yr all, if you are drained, tired give yrself , what yr parents have not given you, unconditional love and happiness. Walk away. They wont change, they thrive off it, they have each other, you have issues not them ..... you deserve a healthy loving life, how can you give that to someone when you cant give it to yourself? Something you so deserve. Sorry this is so long, but this is very close to my heart, i have been called a heartless bitch, selfish , by people who only saw my mothers facade, believed her bull, people who ran out of her life later on. Butnyou know what I am a happy heartless bitch, who may have gotten of the crazy train some what late , i am sorry i didnt jump off that crazy train along time ago. JUMP OFF , dont worry what others will think or say, worry about you for once, not what craziness yr parents are up to. I wish you the best. I wish for you love, happiness, inner peace and strenght, YOU SO DESERVE IT
@rhondakestin5853
@rhondakestin5853 3 жыл бұрын
You have 2 choices: learn to be super skilled at spotting their games and craziness, plus learn how to deflect rude and insensitive comments, or say "goodbye!". As a person of spirituality, I used to have the idea of being totally unselfish and to remain committed and loyal, no matter what! However, while praying and reading the Bible one day, I came across Matthew 18: verses 15-17, it says that if someone constantly offends you, you should: 1. Try to talk to them privately. If this works, great! 2. If not, you need to ask someone mediate between you. (My parents, who attend a completely different church, I asked them to go to a counselor.). If they agree to the mediator, and if they & you listen to that 3rd party, and patch it up, you're good to go! 3. If they refuse mediation, or they refuse to listen to the mediator, even the Bible says to treat them like publicans and sinners, who were considered the worst scum in Jesus' day. 4. Cut them off, if you can't get it resolved. I'm sad, I do miss seeing them, but I don't miss all the negative, cutting remarks, the gaslighting, and my father's impulsive temper explosions!! He's 86, Mom is 82, and I probably won't ever see them again.😔. But I also don't have someone speaking curses over my life and future!!🙌
@kimaparks2592
@kimaparks2592 3 жыл бұрын
So funny... ad hominem happened to me during a discussion I was having w/friend. I had no articulation to say what was done but that part of the convo disturbed me greatly. Now I know it was because it was coming from an emotionally immature place. Thank you. 👍🏾
@uhdiva
@uhdiva 3 жыл бұрын
this whole video is literally my mom
@joolfooibrahim6908
@joolfooibrahim6908 2 жыл бұрын
Thank Top Think for the beautiful sharing. I really enjoy watching your videos. I learn a lot. Keep up the good job.
@hustler3577
@hustler3577 3 жыл бұрын
The anime that you use in your videos are so cute 😊
@featherduster1441
@featherduster1441 3 жыл бұрын
I am 33 years old..since the outbreak of the pandemic, i started purchasing SHFiguarts online..o started being myself. Enjoying things that children do..and i dont care whatever people think of me for starting collecting toys
@Talkinglife
@Talkinglife 4 жыл бұрын
Here's a look at some signs of emotional immaturity that can show up in a relationship and steps you can take if you recognize them in your own. They won't go deep. ... Everything is about them. ... They become defensive. ... They have commitment issues. ... They don't own their mistakes. ... You feel more alone than ever.
@rbsmith3365
@rbsmith3365 4 жыл бұрын
I agree! It happened with people in their 50’s-60’s....... They won’t grow up. I have dumped old friends. Quit working for them and, I have a right not to provide them service. In 2011 including my former doctor that, I have seen lot of complaints online. Behavior badly. So, I walked away too.
@itszymontvnddom4978
@itszymontvnddom4978 4 жыл бұрын
I would much rather be thinking of my ex right now, but this literally describes me 100 percent ... 😏
@drchristinaasare82023
@drchristinaasare82023 2 жыл бұрын
I like how he makes his voice higher when trying to make a point
@Grassmpl
@Grassmpl 4 жыл бұрын
yes my physical age is linear, my emotional age is logarithmic, and my intellectual age is exponential.
@annelim1784
@annelim1784 3 жыл бұрын
So proud to have raised mature teens 😇😇
@squigglyline6488
@squigglyline6488 3 жыл бұрын
true and kids I was mature for my age
@Two_Wheel_Therapy
@Two_Wheel_Therapy 3 жыл бұрын
This was my ex to the end. I'm glad I didn't go through with th engagement.
@vincentlukebendo7435
@vincentlukebendo7435 3 жыл бұрын
i know that im not matured yet, but i will try to grow as a person be accountable for the decisions i make
@harshithas1318
@harshithas1318 4 жыл бұрын
My father was on my mind the whole time. You confirmed my doubt. Thanks for that 😂
@melfegredo406
@melfegredo406 4 жыл бұрын
The tango advert that comes up is just wow
@tamagoo0
@tamagoo0 4 жыл бұрын
no wonder why i want to get out of our house and ran away, theyre too emotionally immature😌
@margaretteschmidt4423
@margaretteschmidt4423 Жыл бұрын
Hey reminder here,not all emotionally immature people are toxic,maybe they just don't have enough experiences. It's best to tell them though,I'm an emotionally immature person myself and I'm working on it,although remember that growing the hell up is their responsibility not yours.
@lexielovingu206
@lexielovingu206 4 жыл бұрын
Unfortunately, I stay with 4 emotionally immature at my house aka my family🤕😓
@paxsmile
@paxsmile 3 жыл бұрын
Stop supporting them.
@srinjanad3180
@srinjanad3180 3 жыл бұрын
True! I have met many people like that in my life. Even, nowadays.
@tharunkumar7210
@tharunkumar7210 4 жыл бұрын
I want to see the mature people in single room for 1 year and see how maturely they treat each other or!
@sebidaniel440
@sebidaniel440 3 жыл бұрын
there are not mature ppl
@SenseiXion
@SenseiXion 3 жыл бұрын
Then everyone gonna start fighting over whos more mature 😅
@comeupwithsomelogicalargum3601
@comeupwithsomelogicalargum3601 3 жыл бұрын
One more major maturity sign is that having empathy rather than sympathy and having wisdom. major immaturity sign is that judging other by their appearance, blind beliefs, lack of accepting the facts about anything and illogical about emotions.
@bharathyajjala5319
@bharathyajjala5319 3 жыл бұрын
Bro are u Telugu
@rachelwarren336
@rachelwarren336 3 жыл бұрын
This stuff can be seen in adults with adhd
@Tranitosaur
@Tranitosaur 2 жыл бұрын
5:34 Love the floating eyes on the board
@albinmichaelshibu3048
@albinmichaelshibu3048 4 жыл бұрын
I found out my mom's emotionally immature
@emmanemz6237
@emmanemz6237 4 жыл бұрын
Same my mom does most of these. My real question is I recognize that I’m guilty of the one about impulse control so I’m wondering if I’m across the board emotionally immature or just in that aspect.
@albinmichaelshibu3048
@albinmichaelshibu3048 4 жыл бұрын
@@emmanemz6237 well according to me emotionally immature ppl usually don't agree to the fact that they r emotionally immature and I guess I'm pretty immature coz sometimes I do get angry or annoyed at small things.
@emmanemz6237
@emmanemz6237 4 жыл бұрын
@@albinmichaelshibu3048 some times that can be from a lot of stress just piling up and the straw breaking the camels back. I’ve seen a lot of people that are very mature snap like that. However, the fact that I’m compulsive (in bad ways) has no reason like stress in your case or this that and the other. I know that it’s a toxic trait that people close to me have pointed out and I’m trying to change it but god damn it’s pretty hard. Lol. When I watched this I was trying to control and manage that behavior but a little under 10 hours after that, I drank more than I intended on and drank later than I intended too. I’m as drunk as a skunk typing this btw😂
@albinmichaelshibu3048
@albinmichaelshibu3048 4 жыл бұрын
@@emmanemz6237 that sure does seem crazy XD
@Zidane9ful
@Zidane9ful 4 жыл бұрын
Mines too bro . Tad liar too . 👏💯
@bingobango4281
@bingobango4281 3 жыл бұрын
As long as you are being responsible… you can “pretty much “ do what you want (: Think to yourself: do it responsible. I can do this responsibly…. Yes I can; I’ve made this a or my responsibility.- can be tricky
@DrRakitic
@DrRakitic 3 жыл бұрын
I always do Ad hominem argument and I'm 21😂
@peacefuldoubt8238
@peacefuldoubt8238 3 жыл бұрын
You're putting a whole lot of people under this umbrella of reasons, when some other causes could be bigger things like 1. developmental issues - sometimes when people have mental issues and don't exactly act their age, it's due to other psychological and neurological issues. 2. Manic depression. I've met plenty and lots of them have very little control over their emotions and the smallest things sometimes DO set them off. Your video makes emotional immaturity sound like a choice - which it is sometimes for some people, but for other people it's uncontrollable, unavoidable and harder for them to deal with than it is for you.
@mantecada5660
@mantecada5660 3 жыл бұрын
The thumbnail: Immature people take selfies, but mature people give high fives
@Gravitti85
@Gravitti85 3 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣
@universpro7741
@universpro7741 3 жыл бұрын
What's the problem with wanting to have fun and being silly?
@ikrammayssoun1733
@ikrammayssoun1733 4 жыл бұрын
the biggest sign is : this was recommended for you.
@kavyajain2210
@kavyajain2210 4 жыл бұрын
🤣
@cmont4064
@cmont4064 4 жыл бұрын
👍😂Love it
@OG_DSM
@OG_DSM 4 жыл бұрын
Algorithm hard at work.
@DevilSinCA
@DevilSinCA 3 жыл бұрын
Impulsive and Reckless choices can also be attributed from bipolar disorder.
@ahmedaliyu6754
@ahmedaliyu6754 4 жыл бұрын
90% of my friends are immature lol
@KingLulzington
@KingLulzington 3 жыл бұрын
time for new friends
@lolacern5008
@lolacern5008 3 жыл бұрын
It’s a sign that most likely you are as well 😜
@ahmedaliyu6754
@ahmedaliyu6754 3 жыл бұрын
@@lolacern5008 I see
@kul2846
@kul2846 3 жыл бұрын
easier to say then do sometimes you're just naturally surrounded by immature people because pf certain variables. you may just be stuck best you can do is keep to the books i guess going to the library to study your mind and educate yourself would be a healthier alternative then continuing to be dragged downwards
@javontejackson1914
@javontejackson1914 3 жыл бұрын
This really describes me so well and I’m not proud of it. Maybe I should wanna improve my life and not keep avoiding my problems or even blow up
@trending_mobagames
@trending_mobagames 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this wisely rebuke of emotional control of a person... when angers run into you as an Idolatry... which you should be premise in your life style. Haha 🤔😂😁
@mentaldisease5193
@mentaldisease5193 Жыл бұрын
Taken all together, this describes the behavior narcissistic personality disorder. And there`s even some more.
@sertheon
@sertheon 3 жыл бұрын
Sounds like my older brother.
@arcticwolf8353
@arcticwolf8353 3 жыл бұрын
This whole video is soooo relatable 😟
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