7 habits that makes you irresistible: 1.) Quiet confidence. 2.) The social leader. 3.) Imaginary rejection. 4.) The heart of the conversation. 5.) The irresistible listener. 6.) Expressing vulnerabilities. 7.) Shifting your perspective.
@johnnyboy20653 жыл бұрын
Thank you. We need more awesome people like you in this world.
@All_you_need_is_love20183 жыл бұрын
Thanks for the summary. You saved me time.
@bebold61973 жыл бұрын
You saved time Huge thanks
@mave1433 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much
@gargoyliangaming65563 жыл бұрын
Yea man I appreciate ppl like u alot thanks this time tho still gonna watch entire video because of I want some explanation views on 1,6 an 7
@saraseveryn86503 жыл бұрын
Irresistible people are genuine, vulnerable & humble, relatable and have a healthy sense of themselves. They tend to have a Light inside of themselves that shines bright. People gravitate towards these people and feel comfortable around them.
@mercwindow3 жыл бұрын
Not sure how true that is. It's a mixed bag. Equally, I have found narcissistic people like Donald Trump have an irresistible charisma that have audiences fawning around them hanging on every word which turn out to be pure fake because they are trying to seize the agenda and ensure they remain the centre of attraction in plain sight.
@jasondavis10173 жыл бұрын
Merci window well put.
@dartharyeshzilla79093 жыл бұрын
One comment which speaks for itself, yeah.
@andrewblair1623 жыл бұрын
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@tonylavern9013 жыл бұрын
👏🏾
@reasonwhy92273 жыл бұрын
Irresistible people are positive and passionate. They’re never bored, because they see life as an amazing adventure and approach it with a joy that other people want to be a part of.
@johnbruton76843 жыл бұрын
I really love all this ❤positive stuff gets me all charged up
@cristalebellab4443 жыл бұрын
Exactly ✨🙌🏽
@AhmetKaan3 жыл бұрын
*"Your self worth is determined by YOU. You don't have to depend on someone telling you who you are."* -_Beyonce_ Don't let other people define *who you are.* 🖤🙏
@aurorachocolategallery61003 жыл бұрын
Amen to this too
@andrewblair1623 жыл бұрын
Frlman bredda BBC no cap which month u bawn
@sonisaidso25423 жыл бұрын
🙌🏾🙌🏾
@AhmetKaan3 жыл бұрын
@@sonisaidso2542 🙏🙏
@bloodeagle29453 жыл бұрын
@@AhmetKaan cringey, stop virtue signaling
@reasonwhy92273 жыл бұрын
People naturally (and unconsciously) mirror the body language of the person they’re talking to. If you want people to find you irresistible, smile at them during conversations and they will unconsciously return the favor and feel good as a result.
@commenterperson44813 жыл бұрын
Hey hey easy now with the blanket statements... Some people confuse smile as flirtation. So it all depends.
@your_kuya_patpat3 жыл бұрын
but people wear face masks
@ewingaguasvivas83863 жыл бұрын
Everytime I talk to someone I smile at them because what you give it is what you receive in return.
@ewingaguasvivas83863 жыл бұрын
@@commenterperson4481 it all depends how you smile at them.
@mr2u5133 жыл бұрын
Yeah reason or some would think u were gay😊 smiling
@reasonwhy92273 жыл бұрын
People with high integrity are irresistible because they walk their talk, plain and simple. Integrity is a simple concept but a difficult thing to practice.
@ewingaguasvivas83863 жыл бұрын
I agree
@joanx97223 жыл бұрын
Being comfortable in your own skin makes you shine in many ways that no one can take away from you I have always said that you only get one first impression , try to make it the best yet ...I am what I am and it's just the way god made me. .take it or leave it that's what I have to say these days
@mr2u5133 жыл бұрын
@@joanx9722 Joan dont sell itself short, ur fluid typing skills alone show u dont care if someone takes it or leaves it...hee haw👍👍👍👍
@mr2u5133 жыл бұрын
Your not itself
@abundanceofabundance31303 жыл бұрын
"vulnerability opens the door to a mutual connection...may not be the most popular, but they are irresistible bc they are vulnerable, approachable, and honest." nice
Being genuinely interested. Being a good listener. Asking relevant questions. Being yourself. Your words should have substance. A smile. And admit when you don't know. Non judgmental and when you don't agree on an issue - DON'T say that - instead ask how they came to that decision. No ego. No useless small talk. Asking how you can help - most times they want someone to listen.
@keh-dalia8093 жыл бұрын
Wow... I usually do all these things without thinking about it. Except the confident silence... Too often I feel the need to fill the empty space of silence, unless someone is going through something emotionally hard, then I have empathy for what they are going through.
@reasonwhy92273 жыл бұрын
There’s a massive difference between being presentable and being vain. Irresistible people understand that making an effort to look your best is comparable to cleaning your house before company comes-it’s a sign of respect for others. But once they’ve made themselves presentable, they stop thinking about it.
@hwonitojv95033 жыл бұрын
There are people that walk the earth with integrity,
@nicoladouglas40593 жыл бұрын
I'm a great listener and thats why im always loved by people.i don't judge or look down on anyone.im comfortable around anyone yet very observant.
@hypehillbilly47043 жыл бұрын
I need to learn this. But I will just forget in a few days
*To everyone who will see this comment, I wish you health, wealth and success...* I believe in you! 🖤
@susanstewart51943 жыл бұрын
Here is a tip when you first meet someone don't ask them what kind of work do you do? It is annoying and boring. Sometimes I feel like saying I just spread sunshine and giggles where ever I go.
@RachelJayne922 жыл бұрын
It can also be hella awkward. When people ask me, and I say, ‘oh I’m not working at the moment’ they always ask why, and telling them that you’ve been really sick just never feels good. 😂
@jerryirick89533 жыл бұрын
It all depends on the individual’s personality. Expressing vulnerability doesn’t attract everyone for some it could be a turn off. Good video but it’s not a one size fits all concept.
This is true. I’ve tried to be open and candid (not to the point of cringey or psychotic or anything) but some people do indeed see that as a turn off. For some reason It’s like they think that being open is a sign of desperation. It’s too bad. Just trying to open up and make them more comfortable to open up.
@mr2u5133 жыл бұрын
@@lovelyletter7460 lovely, most people do not wanna be around someone with more problems than themselves or hung up on "THE BEATLES" 😎
@MiaCarter73 жыл бұрын
I used to have all of these qualities until I allowed people/bullies to knock each down throughout my life. If you're young and see this comment, please don't let anyone shame out of your best self. Don't silence yourself or stop yourself from being who you are. Don't let anyone steal your confidence.
@Aoendkth-nv7au3 жыл бұрын
🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿🏃🏾♀️🏃🏾♀️🏃🏾♀️🏃🏾♀️… find somebody or place that will appreciate it. Never put a muzzle on someone that have wonderful ideas… DON’T block your blessings!
@upbestsalt15512 жыл бұрын
Time to drop out of school then
@ericfuller69222 жыл бұрын
I trying . thanks 👍 TakeCare gooddays
@shingnosis3 жыл бұрын
Keeping physically fit, having good hygiene and a decent wardrobe doesn't hurt either. And I've noticed that money seems to make you irresistible too.
@rtphotos46913 жыл бұрын
You don't need money. That's a crippling belief that you need to overcome. It will eat you from the inside out if you don't.
@shingnosis3 жыл бұрын
@@rtphotos4691 Ok, I don't need money. Got it.
@bigmamisvea33183 жыл бұрын
I can agree with the first three things, if you look and smell like you didn't shower for a month or so, there's little chance people are as attracted to you, even if your character is made of gold. But money...Well, money indeed is appealing to some, but you see, people who care so much about how many colors your papers have might not be the best use of your time.
@blueprince23303 жыл бұрын
Money definitely helps make you attractive. Unfortunately, it attracts the wrong kind of people.
@ewingaguasvivas83863 жыл бұрын
Good points in your part.
@Ras_Spinoza3 жыл бұрын
This video actually describes Extroverts.. Some people are naturally introverted . It doesn't make them any less confident.. Knowing yourself prevents you from trying to be the kind of person you're not... JUST TO FIT IN ..
@ninjazay72453 жыл бұрын
Short answer have good and positive energy💯💯💯
@alsillman70493 жыл бұрын
I liked your video. It was a refresher as to how simple people can be.
@bigmamisvea33183 жыл бұрын
I like your comment. You associate happiness with simplicity and I think that's a very good way of thinking.
@prestonmccoy7097 Жыл бұрын
Three and four are the biggest things I need to work on. They’ve hamstrung my social/romantic life significantly. I’ve always assumed I’d be rejected in any capacity because I feel people won’t like me nor my appearance. It’s tough to shake.
@Chronade3 жыл бұрын
What a way to start my day. Thank you TopThink! My heart will always love you 💙
@barbaraheim77803 жыл бұрын
I often wondered what people perceive of me. Well, according to this video I am not doing bad at all!
@ewingaguasvivas83863 жыл бұрын
Jesús wondered that to and asked he's friends, I encourage you to do the same.
@mr2u5133 жыл бұрын
Barbara, I dont think it's high on ur list of what others perception of u is🤣
@itmatterstoyou7243 жыл бұрын
Thinking less of yourself and more of the others can definitely make you an irresistible person.
@daveconrad65623 жыл бұрын
We all love small talk if its good
@Aoendkth-nv7au3 жыл бұрын
I’m very honest/straight forward. I strongly dislike when things are sugar coated or said in a beat around the bush way. I’m a 👱🏾♀️ blonde I don’t have time to play Blues clues!
@mr2u5133 жыл бұрын
Sunshine, well I gotta tell ya....I liked blues clues🤓
@MrSa4583 жыл бұрын
That's why most people like me 🤣 so anyways God bless anyone who comes across this comment 🙌🛐
@argusml68223 жыл бұрын
Thanks man
@MrSa4583 жыл бұрын
You're welcome 🙌
@blueberryriver32203 жыл бұрын
Walk tall and look the world straightin the eye. But definitely be a good listener too . That's really important speaking from experience.
@hypehillbilly47043 жыл бұрын
My biggest problem Is my memory makes me forget what was said 2 days ago.
@aprild9153 жыл бұрын
Awesome advice! I already do most of these things. Good to be reminded though! Thanks TOP THINK!!
@savagewarrior62253 жыл бұрын
I am from India and watching it at 3:41am😂😂 .Is also anyone from India 🙏🙏🤔🤔🤔
@grimdiannabones43613 жыл бұрын
Failure is a good teacher, never be afraid to fail....
@bobmorgan56363 жыл бұрын
Develop self love and self confidence. Let these radiate outwardly to everyone else.
@y.a66402 жыл бұрын
Some video tells dont show your emotion on face.and this video teach us show our emotion and feeling more. Such a life
@IKEMENOsakaman3 жыл бұрын
Ok I shall try no. 4 and no. 7 from tonight
@marcellusbrown79403 жыл бұрын
Love, I do respect ur achievements, 7 habits that make u irresistible, because ur character is an entrepreneur research make things happen.
@g2bonna8743 жыл бұрын
My advise to you guys is don't be vulnerable in front of anyone except someone that you have in your life for atleast 3 or more years
Bad advice… you’re afraid of being vulnerable or you got hurt.
@Vy-Oh-Letter9 ай бұрын
1.) 0:12: Quiet Confidence 2.) 1:20: The Social Leader 3.) 2:38: Imaginary Rejection 4.) 4:11: The Heart of the Conversation 5.) 6:15: Irresistible Listener 6.) 7:36: Expressing Vulnerabilities 7.) 8:53: Shifting Your Perspective
@sofiagoudaropoulou23923 жыл бұрын
Shifting perspective!! irresistible people can observe the other human's body language as also their mood and change instantly their way of thinking at that moment!!joining a group of people they can perceive the surroundings and act giving their best and wise perspective!!
@mr2u5133 жыл бұрын
Lighten up.....if u think u can or not...ur right...st Paul said self contol leads to full potential but lack thereof I'd devil's workshop... keep ur face towards sun.....mysteries follow.....and like CHRIST
@ambitiousjamie15633 жыл бұрын
Yes small talk is literally small and extremely boring; I love a complex intellectual conversation 💖
@lucylucy19333 жыл бұрын
It leads to bigger ideas usually.
@jdtools60383 жыл бұрын
I'm sure you do
@mr2u5133 жыл бұрын
@@jdtools6038 like 3 margaritas 🤤😎🕯🕯😂😎😎😎😎
@mr2u5133 жыл бұрын
Jamie, intellectual convos bout what?
@ambitiousjamie15633 жыл бұрын
@@mr2u513 aspirations, goals, strategic planning, life experiences, influential ppl and things that inspire you, books, you have evolved, mistakes you’ve learned from and how, finance, philosophy, history, etc. small talk is fine to begin with but after awhile I become less interested especially when dating or in a relationship. 😞 which is kind of my current situation why when I saw the point in the video I so related unfortunately. I get tired of orchestrating the convo or always being the one to keep ppl engaged and if I don’t say anything there’s pretty much complete silence or small talk again 😓
@joanx97223 жыл бұрын
I like this one....you will never know until you step out of a comfort zone and try ...
@lecarlosljrobinsonjr49332 жыл бұрын
I love being confident and blessed
@gabyk21632 жыл бұрын
Very nice 7 habits that makes you irresistible: 1.) Quiet confidence. 2.) The social leader. 3.) Imaginary rejection. 4.) The heart of the conversation. 5.) The irresistible listener. 6.) Expressing vulnerabilities. 7.) Shifting your perspective. I like that a lot. Now the million dollar question, how do i do I learn to do all these things and become all these things??? Please, impress me with a feasible way to become and do all these things
@neruthpacheco64742 жыл бұрын
What do you mean? Which part of starting is most difficult for you? I do see it's been six months since you've commented this. Are you still having this question?
@gabyk21632 жыл бұрын
@@neruthpacheco6474 of course, still have no idea what happens around me or what I should do
I want to encourage everyone to use this message as a reminder that Lord Jesus Christ is the way and the truth. Only through him can we have eternal salvation! I encourage everyone today to pray and to repent for our sins! God bless everyone
@mr2u5133 жыл бұрын
James another jewel in ur crown....great witnessing, it keeps everything in perspective 👏👏👏
@KeshiaK393 жыл бұрын
It's true, Bragging is a very off putting whether it's from friends or relationships.. nobody likes a brag
@reckszkingzactivitiesrkat.4134 Жыл бұрын
Im a big supporter of the Top Think youtube channel 🔥
Fun facts but I am probably doing all of these and have most of all the qualities- didn't know that I was irresistible then!! And if I can be so can you all... it's just shifting the mind set to think bout others and just be your genuine authentic self - flaws n all! I wish anyone reading this be irresistible too.
Weird….you can’t be a leader and be a quiet confident. Listen to your first item and the second item. I don’t think “quiet confidence” isn’t the correct title. It’s more accurate to say “humble or humility”.
@marthakocsis54532 жыл бұрын
Love this Chanel…
@jpsilverhand3 жыл бұрын
🎼 I’m a maniac 🎶 maniac 🎶 I know 🎵 I try hard to not be attractive. What does that mean doc?
@DWPersianExcursion3 жыл бұрын
Oh yay! Late lunch and a happy video
@jameswhoever37303 жыл бұрын
Damn, this is describing me, im just surprised that what I need thinking has a video someone else is saying.
@jameswhoever37303 жыл бұрын
That's was a premature statement. The only one that doesnt apply is the "expect the worst". I always assume I'll lose a fight even if the foe appears extremely weak. Same goes for other things, I'll say "theres no way I'll get that job" but still try.my hardest. But this guy to me is very smart and is very accurate in ways others in this field would leave out or just not know.
btw, I have no idea about how to read moods, body language and vocal tones. I have no empathy at all and I cannot even fake it So, please, impress me and tell me how to do it
@kenoliver71513 жыл бұрын
Praise God always amen
@flossyjones85783 жыл бұрын
I would say when you meet someone listen to your gut feeling.
@yourwifyy Жыл бұрын
Only if i wasnt anxious and if i didnt have 0 confidence i would have a chance
Dont even think of making a deal with demonic forces just so u can levitate, like davi blaney, simon the magician who wanted to buy the power st Paul had with the "HOLY SPIRIT"
@Indianaparadise3 жыл бұрын
@@mr2u513 what? 🙄
@mr2u5133 жыл бұрын
Reneau you have me blocked lady...😐
@Benie123 жыл бұрын
Top think, you are irresistible 🥰
@Warzone000013 жыл бұрын
Without logical mind, confidence along can lead to destructive consequences
@bigmamisvea33183 жыл бұрын
I agree. Although I believe, most people who don't think logically just appear to be confident. You need to think logically at least to an extent to understand what confidence truly is.
oh my godddd THANK YOU SO MUCH TOP THINK UR A LIFESAVER
@ekuayanful11363 жыл бұрын
Lovely
@that_one_guy913 жыл бұрын
Idk it's hard to find that fine line of being just the right amount of confident lol over confidence is worse than zero confidence in my opinion lol
@jonycross69573 жыл бұрын
It is one of human's great downfalls to love confidence. Confident people are more likely to be bad people than good people who are tend to be more humble and quiet. Confident people are also more likely to be more stupid than intelligent people who are wise enough to be too wise to be overly confident. Confident people are also more likely to be dishonest. So, everyone, especially women as I know many girls are victims to the urge to fall for confidence, next time, ignore the confident person full of sh*t and pay attention to the quiet and shy one who is a little socially awkward-- those people are usually much better.
@upbestsalt15512 жыл бұрын
I think you're talking about narcissists
@intothewoods-ke7om Жыл бұрын
Prayer
@djyua91573 жыл бұрын
Its no excuse for ppl in my generation literally the answer to everything is on KZbin