Tori Reveals Terrifying Story of Zach | S2 Episode 3

[@sarsonder5127]

I am so impressed with Zach as an interviewer! I liked his prompts and follow-up questions. I am inquisitive myself and I liked seeing that side of Zach! Never really saw Zach as a dynamic person on LPBW so I love the podcast for that.

[@glxssy_bxrbie5693]

Get a life 😂😂😂

[@fondapassmore5256]

Tori and Zach you don’t need to apologize for a mess here and there. Your kids are only little once. One day you’ll look back and wish your kid’s were small again and be sad. Just live life and appreciate the small things. You both are great parents giving your children experiences and love. Love listening to you both each week. Can’t wait till you reach 100k right around the corner. Stay real and you’ll reach that million some day soon!

[@countrygirlokla]

Iam going threw this now. My youngest will be going to college in 2 years and omg the change is hard for me. I feel so lost but happy for their growth. Thats what kids are suppose to do. Grow up and become their own person. ❤ scary still tho for a mama that worries.

[@zabavnaya-xt8tb]

Tori is so graceful with her husband, props to Tori, you are a blessing to the family ❤

[@shannen7917]

On the topic of social media, I just have to say that I think the main reason why people are drawn to you guys is your authenticity. Comparison is certainly an issue in that arena, but I know that I for one have never felt down after seeing one of your posts or videos or whatever. I find what you share to be very uplifting and it always leaves me feeling better and it’s because you’re being your authentic self, sharing the ups and downs of life and reminding us all that even if our lives look different or we’re in different stages and seasons, it’s all just one big human experience. Thank you for sharing your insights and self. You’re doing great!!

[@jenniferfults3609]

Just got back from Scotland …did the mini castles , pods and road tripped from Edinburg to isle of Skye etc….its so doable …. And so laid back and beautiful !!! Make it happen sis, it’s waiting on you !!!!!!

[@rodshepherd5769]

What is a mini castle?

[@MamaBehr312]

Even though I just loved Zach from the show and loved watching your relationship and wedding, this is such a great space to get to really get to know you two. Following Tori on Instagram is so fun and so real, please don't leave, but this podcast shows so much more of Zach and it's been incredible to see what a cool guy he is. I have enormous respect for both of you.

[@heatherchrisco9106]

Tori, I think you'd be an incredible Author! You should absolutely write both books!

[@cathydenton1915]

You should write a childrens book

[@heatherchrisco9106]

@cathydenton1915 she would be great at that! Maybe that's one of her ideas. Remember she doesn't say what kinda books or what they're about. She just says she has ideas for 2 different books.

[@Immunity7]

I cannot believe Zach is 34. Goodness. It wasn't that long ago that we watched him in his parent's home making huge messes. lol.

[@karenradach7551]

I literally cackled when you said you don’t gentle parent lol 😆 I think you have to lay on the truth with your kids and sometimes you have to be more firm. I think love and logic is a great way to describe it. You can still be a kind person with your kids and not constantly have to check yourself of “am I being gentle enough”? I don’t think that raises them to be resilient, you need the tough love sometimes

[@alejarelloque8598]

I CAN’T with you 2!!! Just too adorable and lovely and all the things. You literally bring JOY to my day 🙏🏽

[@staceyroberts3468]

We met a mom and daughter while staying at a hotel in St.Pete Florida and they were on “ holiday “ from Scotland. We talked all week and after we both went back home,they invited us to visit in Scotland. We r crazy enough to just take a leap and go. Haha. I absolutely loved everything there!!!! My maiden name is Campbell and my dad always said his fam was from Scotland. I never really listened but on our trip we came up on a very old cemetery and CAMPBELL was on most of the headstones haha. Her friends even sang a song about the Campbells & the McDonalds. I was so surprised! Our friend took us shopping in Glasgow, strolling in Edinburgh, In the Highlands to see Castles, and where the Loch Ness monster supposedly lurks, train riding that went thru beautiful pastures and small towns. I hope u get to see it Tori!!!! Trip of a lifetime!

[@tabithabragdon152]

I've homeschooled for 12 years now, and it's the very best. I've gotten so much extra time with them, they learned from me, their mama, and the myth that homeschoolers aren't socialized is so far from the truth. They are even MORE socialized than public schoolers.

[@DawnShipley1977]

This is true.

[@donnaburch7449]

It depends on the parents whether you home school or public school. If the parents aren’t engaged with their child’s education and well roundedness they won’t be socialized. It’s not about being with other children, it’s about giving them opportunities to be a good human being. Love your podcasts Zach and Tori! Praying for great success.

[@mienafriggstad3360]

Glad it worked for your family. Homeschooling does not work for every child or family. Been there done that. We have two children on the Autism spectrum. Public highschool with special needs education services has helped our children so much. Daughter graduated in June; son is in grade 9.

[@suiteypies]

I'm so with you about staying home, I'm a HUGE homebody. My very first camera was a 35 mm Canon btw, ( aging myself now in 1975 ) I knew nothing about photography but it definitely encouraged my desire to learn all I could about it. I just began re-watching Little people big world around January and it reminded me of all those trips your family went on. They seemed endless but you all looked like you were loving it, who wouldn't? The one I enjoyed watching the most was when your family rented the catamaran, gosh that would have been wonderful to experience. You're all so blessed! :) I'm so enjoying these pod casts too! Thank you for doing them. :)

[@Barny-26]

Well, TLC rented the catamaran , not Matt. TLC paid for all those cool vacations🤷‍♀️

[@lizregan1949]

This was fun, Tori. You use that degree every single day. The better educated you are, the better life you have in most cases.

[@jean1644]

I love the way the two of you interact with each other .... Politeness, kind words, fun, love .... Etc .... So inspiring and an example really ❤️

[@FitnessGirl20]

Tori- I’m the same about crowds. I get like anxiety with too many people. I LOVE my cricut. I make everything with it.

[@cathyjohnson3704]

You two are always so much fun to listen to, I really admire your true honesty about your lives ❤

[@pamelavargas6811]

Mr late husband was Mexican...he loved the bagpipes and always dreamed of going to Scotland and Ireland...I imagine him in heaven surrounded by bagpipe players and festive river dancers...❤

[@ellenovak8282]

Hi Zach and Tori... I really enjoy your podcast! What a wonderful family the 5 of you make! Thanks for sharing...especially your adorable little ones. I always love to see them!!! One question: could you show final results of landscaping project...I'd love to see what you've done. Have a GREAT summer!

[@DeetsluvsGOD]

I love the name “Raising Heights” -it reminds me of an old soap opera name or a soap opera parody’s name… “Next time on Raising Heights, will the urine on the kid’s bathroom walls cause Tori to have night terrors? Will Zac really sit at home for the rest of his life?~ Tune in to find out~ on Raisinnnnng Heights.” Back to reality, I’m enjoying the podcast, you guys are so down to earth, continued blessings to your beautiful family.

[@dp8256]

Haha, love this!

[@LamoniGreen]

I love your podcast Zack and Tori . I’ve been been watching since you didn’t been doing it since season one. They’re doing season two. Congratulations on on season two of your podcast.

[@juliespady]

Tori your story about the farmhouse just cracked me up. The fact that you hated that place so bad and were so afraid!

[@amypesek8373]

This was wonderful!! Tori.. mom guilt sucks..it never gets easier.. as mom's we need ro support each other. My kids are 22,21,19&17.. I'm still struggling. Tori.. you're a great mom!! You're kids are AMAZING

[@susanjones4904]

As a Mother of 3 and a Grandmother of 7, there are a couple of sayings I found important, (1) It takes a village to raise a child (children need many different influences to become well rounded, hence the need for outside activities). (2) Children are like wet cement, whatever lands on them leaves an impression (watch what you say, and how much of the world you reveal, and that especially now means the Internet - a sometimes very dangerous world). I would include violent video games, which can remove a child's joy and wonder about the world. We are in a time of great deterioration, and it is important to not get weighed down by that fact. For something new to be born, something has to be revealed to allow human consciousness to discard it's influence. To allow discernment to reveal personal choice. Everything is in process, and change follows us everywhere. ❤ Life can be very good, and if we take a perspective of necessary change, the glass looks 1/2 full, not 1/2 empty.

[@michellemitchell3067]

Tori needs to have her own crafting/photography channel.

[@embilbee8953]

Scotland is beautiful. You should definitely road trip around the UK so many amazing things to see and do here. You are right Zack, UK is England, Scotland, Wales and Northern Ireland 🙂

[@cyndeewenzel6439]

Scotland rules! I was so excited when Tori said Scotland! I'm a big Outlander fan too and being adopted I had no idea my nationality, someone told me when I was young I "looked" Scottish. But I've always felt in my heart I was Scottish, after doing a DNA test I found out I was 46 percent Scottish, and the rest English. (Since going down to 40 percent Scottish, but I'm still thrilled (with some Wales thrown in now too) Tori, did you watch "Men in Kilts" with Sam Heughan and Graham McTavish? (on Starz) They go on a road trip through Scotland. I'm sure you've watched that. I also found out recently I am related to Simon Fraser (Jamie Frasers second cousin?) which made my life complete lol I also loved the John Krasinski show on KZbin during Covid! That cheered me up so much, it was amazing! (Some Good News) I loved these podcasts/videos with the Q & A's about each other. I think you're an amazing photographer so I can't wait to see your photos of Scotland. ❤🙏

[@momma_c7984]

Yall are amazing..look forward to this pod every single week! Tori..”mom guilt” is a real thing no matter who you are, mine are 21 & 16..my oldest just graduated college, is doing amazing. My “baby” is doing as well..as a single mom, I’m beyond grateful & proud but you always carry that “guilt” that you could of done more of been here or there but I try to remember that they are incredible & we still have TONS of memories to make 💞

[@jennydrain2089]

Thank y’all for being real! I enjoy watching y’all.

[@imelda4ever]

Oh lord! 😂 That story about Zach’s night terrors when Tori leaves in the middle of the night is hilarious! You guys had me laughing out loud at that one! 👍🏼

[@MichelleBarton-k9m]

My 5 year old daughter has night terrors and honestly I feel so helpless when she does. All I can really do is hold her and comfort her, she'll wake up screaming and crying.

[@lrod8721]

I had night terrors, the only advice that I can say is do not dismiss them, send her to bed without showing care & concerns. My parents just told me to go back to bed, totally dismissing my feelings. Give love and acknowledgement.

[@JesusCameToSaveAll]

My son had night terrors when he was little and it was such a challenge. Love that you’re in the northwest. I live in Portland Oregon and would Love to meet you guys one day and have my kiddos see your kiddos appreciation on life even through the challenges they face. I’m trying to hard to raise children in a Christ centered home but for them to understand that we are all created in the image of God but not all created the same way.

[@kaaraesp]

I'm so glad you guys do this podcast, I enjoy your energy

[@karenclark9141]

I love seeing you both as you have grown in your relationship and as parents- it isn’t easy but you two have shown us gracefully- we went to Scotland 2-3 years ago and loved it - you will too

[@Kim-pe7kh]

Hello Zach and Tori, Thanks for the great channel. 😊 From Kim

[@pattycov5097]

The way I cackled when Tori was sharing the night terror stories! 😂😂😂 especially the 🚪😳🏃🏻‍♀️‍➡️

[@catanddogcaren]

I just love these podcasts, so relaxing, so loving, funny and I could watch these for hours! You both are going a great job with your kids, just love you guys!

[@itsteagstho4928]

loving the q&a episodes :)!

[@Shell-s4d]

This was very cool learning more about Tori❤ She is an awesome person ✌ Hard for me to think of managing 20-30 Kindergarteners by myself all day, everyday 😂 😮 Now, THAT is Tori's SUPER POWER, especially being a sub! Three kids are a lot to manage! Go Tori 💪 😎 ✌ ❤

[@HollyTakach]

Love and logic is fantastic

[@juliespady]

My daughter, who has a nine-year-old daughter, just explain to me what gentle parenting is. She’s not a gentle parent her. She is much more like you guys, love and logic. You guys are great parents by the way.

[@roseannerivera4389]

Absolutely love this podcast. Cheers to both of you for doing this and sharing your life with us. I missed both of you and you were always my favorite on the show.

[@SummerDarlynn]

Ya'll are doing GREAT!!! Thank you for your time!!

[@DawnShipley1977]

You could homeschool and be part of a homeschool Co-op where the kids get socialization.

[@beanex18]

Yes! My friend homeschools math and science, her neighbor homeschools music class and social studies and another neighbor does lunch and English. They all get together for lunch by bringing different food and drinks to eat. 😊

[@tabithabragdon152]

We do this!!

[@mrsdig57]

Zack and Tori I really enjoy getting to sit and listing to you both. You both are very intelligent and I love your parenting skills. Your kid's are blessed to have parents like you. Love to your family!❤️

[@mountainheather]

You guys NAILED "forget the rest!" on this one. I think the pandemic made even extroverted folks tend towards being more comfortable at home. For us introverts (I'm like Zach) we turned in even more! Coupled with the demands of parenting and aging, it just makes sense. Zach, so sorry to hear of your night terrors. Those are no fun! Thanks for sharing your real selves guys, you're both very insightful.

[@juliespady]

I agree with how you feel about social media. There’s good and there’s bad. But wherever you are in five years, I hope we get to still see you.

[@juliespady]

I feel you guys do a good job of showing us the good and the not so good of your lives. I certainly have a sense that you’re not perfect, none of us are. So I appreciate that about you.

[@rubynava7857]

Enjoyed todays podcast 🫶🏻☺️💕 Thank you both I’m looking forward to the next episode ❤

[@ann5139]

You guys are so cute together!

[@burgundyphillips7202]

Big fan of LPBW! So happy you guys are doing this. You guys are awesome and your kids are the cutest!

[@katbil1]

Great podcast Tori and Zach. You would love visiting Scotland, we were stationed there for 3 years. It's amazing!

[@dorothymoll5377]

Putting a plug in for homeschooling. I was homeschooled my whole life (the latter part of it was done on TV from teachers at BJU) and now I homeschool my 4 kids. This year was the first that we used an online recorded teacher (Christian curriculum and teacher with a master's degree and very affordable, especially for siblings coming along after. These days there are SO MANY opportunities for socialization that that is not a worry for homeschoolers. I personally feel like it's best to pick a few extracurriculars and not have too many constantly keeping busy. Need family down time too.

[@pamelavargas6811]

My daughter's oldest child had speech delay so she taught simply sign language...later she babysat her siblings children...sign language with little ones became a fantastic tool...even in their teens the 9 children will sign their frustrations ❤

[@cabweirich2284]

I love listening to both of you!!!

[@monicahollen9616]

Amen on the school viewpoints, Tori!! I'm also a teacher turned SAHM and YESSSSS to everything you said!

[@hollishaley-o5u]

I can understand about loving the people that you worked with but not the environment. I felt much the same way in my job before I retired.

[@pamelavargas6811]

I was the opposite...the management got crazy 10 yrs before I retired and that changed the people...always worried about being fired from the job you planned your retirement around...😢😢employees pitted against each other consistently 😢😢

[@hollishaley-o5u]

@@pamelavargas6811 I am so sorry that you experienced that. I worked for a state facility for people with developmental challenges. The residents were lovely people and my co-workers were good folks. Did we have disagreements? Sure, but all in all we had a good working relationship. My biggest issue was dealing with the bureaucracy of state government and constant changes in policy.

[@williambrown5822]

I really enjoy visiting with you two. This is a great idea. Seem like fun people to hang out with. Your parenting shows in your children. They’re great kids!

[@natashagilbert2875]

You both nailed it love listening to you both

[@gypsytaechatelaine5145]

Tori, I just have to say...I don't imagine you **just sitting** [ @05:33 ]. You're a wonderful Mom and it's such an inspiration to see you in action and to hear what you have to say about raising your children. You're amazing! ~ Blessings, Gypsy

[@sylviebourdeau9425]

I hope your surprise guest issss Mimi. I love your mother Zack.

[@dianaj3139]

I have owned 7 different Canon cameras... I noticed your video looks very crisp and clear today... Not that I thought it was particularly hazy or anything before, but before you mentioned a new camera, I was admiring your set and the clarity. :)

[@cindydewitt2159]

Love to watch and listen to you both. Now that the show is over. What do you do for a living now. I know Tory used to be a teacher.

[@Sarah-ic2ce]

I love this episode. Zach do you still have night terrors? I'm hoping not because I would be scared like Tori. Thanks for sharing the stories.. Much love and blessings to you all..

[@michellestmarentette.antoi5904]

I don’t relax till after Father’s Day since my Mums birthday is often the day before. I really prefer watching this to anything edited on TLC.

[@laurachard8961]

Thank you for sharing your life with all of us. I really enjoy when you put a podcast out.

[@julieempson268]

Scotland is beautiful but avoid the time when the bugs are everywhere 😂 love your podcasts and how honest you both are 🫶🙏

[@LindaJohnson-hs6wf]

Hi Tori ..I totally feel you and understand on teaching and loving the kids but hating the job. I'm in the same predicament.😊

[@Janeburns-mi9dh]

Sadly a lot of teachers are and are retiring early or quitting. Can't blame them, it's crazy !

[@janicebean5448]

I find you two so interesting. Respect for each other.

[@Lisa-bz5fv]

I live in Scotland. It’s beautiful but it’s cold! Don’t come in fall, we might have a couple sunny days in July come then 🤣

[@viccimauldin9786]

Still enjoying these pod casts.

[@thelmabrindley2369]

I love listening to you both.

[@brittanylang9412]

Love the show!! You should pop in pictures of certain things that you guys discuss, like the kids bathroom for example. Just to follow along and enhance the show 😊

[@elizabethcabrera5718]

Love your podcast because you’re both real 😊❤ I am bilingual and I understand what Zach says the difference in tone rolling your R in Spanish is a must in certain Spanish dialectic. Mine is Castilian Spanish from Spain you can absolutely learn it Zach . I live in Texas but born and raised in California. I definitely use Spanish more so here than I did in California. My husband and I want to retire in Oregon 😍🙏🏻🙌🏻

[@stephanimoralez9386]

Do your best forget the rest ✨️

[@gloriafalconer3693]

Hello Zack and Tori and to your beautiful children. I love watching your videos and I love listening to you both. Love ❤️ and blessings from Scotland UK. Oh I also meant to say that my pastor and his family are from Dallas USA, and they are away visiting America right now for a month.

[@sharleneheaver7358]

Hey Teri you use buy the concentrate lemon juice and put a half cup of lemon juice and water in a spray bottle and it will get that urine smell out and it's safe for the kids make it as strong as you need but you shouldn't need a lots .

[@redsnest]

Tori? Have you watched Men in Kilts? It’s a road trip series with the outlander boys. Sam Hughn and Graham McTavish. Made me want to go to Scotland too. Season one was Scotland and then I think they went to New Zealand in season two. Fun watch that I recommend if you have not seen it. Love the podcast. Found it today and I’m on my fourth episode. Wonderful chance to hear from your family on your own terms. Wishing you success.

[@LindaLesh]

I love watching your three kids growing up

[@colettebrown5988]

This podcast is awesome. I look forward to it on Thursdays!

[@rubynava7857]

Zack and Tori I have a few Questions; talking about “Night terrors " first do you believe in cryptids? And if you do does living surrounded by the wilderness, and wildlife are you ever worried or afraid of "cryptids" ? I as a mother and a watcher of " paranormal caught on camera" l’m now paranoid and wouldn’t be comfortable having my children outside to explore alone 🫣.

[@amyfultz8919]

Omg! I used to say that my son's bathroom looked like he walked in and closed his eyes and spun in a circle as he peed, it was on the tub, on the floor, on the cabinet, so I definitely feel your pain!

[@jennifernoel9274]

I love both of you love hearing from you both

[@LeeMcGregor-bx8hp]

Love watching your show. Scotland is a definite, beautiful place. I would say that as I am Scottish. We have a static caravan and if you ever come over to Scotland you are free to stay there. Just over the border of Scotland in England. :-)

[@LP-km7gj]

I agree, I am so not into crowds anymore. I am in my late 30s and I would just rather chill at home. We are going away this weekend for AAU basketball and it will be fun but kind of dreading all the crowds and forced social interaction! I also agree about school. I have two boys, 15 and 9. My 15 year old is having a hard time in high school. The structure isn’t ideal for him at all. For 7th and 8th grade I had him in a catholic private school which was great.

[@stephanimoralez9386]

I love you, Zach & Tori are so natural 🎉🎉awesome

[@MoniqueE.Rivera1099]

Bilingualism - YES! Thank you for increasing the visibility of how important it really is. :) ¡Fuerte abrazo a todos!

[@momof5948]

Another great episode! I just love watching you guys interact... Keep up the great work can't wait to see next week episode..who will be the guest?❤❤❤

[@brendaboyd2131]

This was an awesome episode! I just love watching you guys! And I love those babies. 🥰

[@sallysmith155]

I really enjoyed your podcast.I know you said about Scotland.I live in the UK a place called Cornwall.scotland is up the top of the map and Cornwall is at the bottom of the map.Have a lovely weekend.😊

[@AngieParker-qr5lv]

Great job Zach, you're a great interviewer

[@marylou5283]

Imagine the two of you just happened to go to the same school and found each other. A true old fashioned love story❤💙🌹

[@cindycox57]

Funny you take that back lol about the bathroom ….and Tori “Our house is a mess”.. I know Zach would say no our house is not a wreck

[@juliespady]

I can’t wait to see who your guest is next week

[@biddiemutter3481]

9:08 I don't suppose you have time with the kids! But I am glad about the photography because any creative opportunity is good for human well-being, I think.

[@SimplyLolly]

When they talked about giving the kids options - although he’s an adult now, people in the store used to look at me sooooo oddly bc even as a small not-quite-verbal baby, I’d ask my son about his baby food. I’d hold up carrots & peas… "which one do you want? Carrots? See the carrot? It’s orange. And these are peas… they’re green. Which would you like??" And he’ll point to one. Granted I’d get both… but people didn't realize how much of a teaching moment these were. To them, it was basically WHY are you letting HIM decide? YOU'RE the parent! - He’s too young to know what you’re talking about. - Why are you talking to him like he’s an adult & understands? BECAUSE I AM THE PARENT & we just talked about vegetable, colors, pictures, sizes AND it got his brain active & thinking. THAT'S WHY!! Go back to babbling & "baby talking" to your kids & leave me to mine. 🥰

[@helenmoniz1474]

Great episode! Absolutely a great couple⭐️⭐️❤️

[@sherrylcarter7524]

You two are too cute, thanks for sharing

[@DawnShipley1977]

7:05 Tori, I can't stand crowds either. I can't handle people pushing up against me and around me. It just worse for me with COVID.

[@leonidasreviews2912]

I think think you understand what gentle parenting is. From what you shared you are on the gentle parenting track.

[@ceiteag]

My teaching experience is much like Tori's. I was great in school and wanted to be a teacher, but hated all the testing we had to do with the littlest kids, there was no time to teach, it seemed, it was test test test. Certainly there was no time for the joy of discovery and learning or to enjoy reading and school. I retired early from teaching because of my disillusionment with it as a career.