Tove Lo - Grapefruit (Official Music Video)

[@tovelomusic]

This song is for all of us who have or will struggle 💗

[@bobfrog5627]

💖❣️

[@ryanap8396]

Tove, I struggle with body related Gender Dysphoria and being under weight. Thank You so much ❤❤❤

[@johnnygetgood1616]

Queen.

[@sadsade1850]

Love you to!

[@angelespiri952]

Thank you. 😢

[@juh_moreschi]

Tove, I cannot thank you enough for this song. I’ve struggled with my weight all my life. I was so afraid of gaining weight and not fitting in society that I just stopped eating. I existed to lose weight. At my lowest I couldn’t get out of bed anymore because I didn’t have energy. Anorexia almost killed me in 2018. The cruel thing is EDs are very silent because no one wants to talk about it. I wanted to find help, but I didn’t. I had to figure a way out by myself - and your music played a very important role on my recovery. It reminded who I really am. If it had took me, I would have missed out on so much! I wouldn’t have been accepted in the University of my dreams - which I did in 2019. I wouldn’t have been able to meet you and hug you too thank you for everything - which I did in the same year. I wouldn’t have met the love of my life, who kindly loves every piece of myself that I’ve always hated - and I did in 2020. This is just to name a few examples. I know it’s so hard talking about it, but I’m so glad you did through your music. We have to talk about it - awareness is everything. To each one of you suffering from an eating disorder out there, know that you are not the number in the scale. You are loved, you matter. EDs are a lifetime struggle, but recovery is possible. Most importantly: it is so worth it. Don’t give up on you and the life you have ahead. This is my before and after. I’m so glad to finally be me. Thank you once again, Tove. I love you!

[@ryanap8396]

This comment really touched me . I can barely maintain above 105 on top of have body related gender Dysphoria. Just know that you are loved 🥰

[@emdoubleyew3788]

Glad you’re still here 💜

[@renaissancegeek]

Glad you found the strength to love yourself; and people who can be themselves and love themselves are the most beautiful. Please keep being your beautiful self!

[@TechnicJunglist]

I've been struggling since I was 13 and I'm 40 now. It got especially bad when I started factoring in beer calories as a meal.

[@SteveinSanFrancisco]

@@TechnicJunglist vodka cran doesn't help much either 🙄

[@siritalis4956]

This song hits really hard for anyone going through or knowing someone with an eating disorder, or just anyone who struggles with body image. I've come a long way with my body image, so this song doesn't hit me there, but strangely the chorus reflects how I feel about my struggle with panic attacks. This song came at the perfect time for me ❤️ Thank you

[@robinskull]

MY SONGS ARE WAY BETTER THAN TOVE LO

[@50Kvful]

Covid legacy? The ex and GF are asking me for more money but no sex?

[@jessewru6425]

I just woke up alone to a room everyday for years in such a mood as that. Its not that way anymore.

[@theIastgeneration]

well what i see _Luke 10_ *19 Behold, I give unto you power to tread on serpents and scorpions, and over all the power of the enemy: and nothing shall by any means hurt you.* May the grace of JESUS be with you

[@N3omega]

Yo 615 stupid people. It has to do about chemical reactions that grapefruit does and corruption and drug cartels

[@karinaschulerferro3815]

i like how this song talks about a struggle with body image without putting down anybody's body type & just keeping the focus on the common struggle with meeting a standard which harms many

[@JoachimMoeller]

I'm 43, and from your photo you look half my age or so, so likely way more in tune with what's the current "standard" hence who better to ask? As to the current standard, my assumption being it being on the way too thin side going by runways and such (what little I've seen on occasion), so not expecting a reply, much less a lengthy one (I detest being of inconvenience, generally), if you'd care to enlighten me (and hopefully others), I'd greatly appreciate it, as to what is the current "standard"? Maybe just a few models' names to excemplify. I don't exactly follow fashion and related hoopla, but growing up with healthy BMI ladies in the '90s (as mentioned in the following copy from Wiki), I too well remember the later heroin chic messed up thing, and I do remember hearing some fashion shows/places requiring (or at least contemplating doing to, years back) a BMI of models higher than something, i.e. high enough that a doctor wouldn't be worried. IG + filters & photoshop galore surely can't be helping. Wiki: Heroin chic was a style popularized in early-1990s fashion and characterized by pale skin, dark circles underneath the eyes, emaciated features, androgyny and stringy hair-all traits associated with abuse of heroin or other drugs. American supermodel Gia Carangi is remembered for being the originator of the trend. Heroin chic was partly a reaction against the "healthy" and vibrant look of leading 1980s models such as Cindy Crawford, Elle Macpherson, and Claudia Schiffer. A 1996 article in the Los Angeles Times stated that the fashion industry had "a nihilistic vision of beauty" that was reflective of drug addiction. PS: Keto with intermittent fasting (eat 1-2 times a day) feels great and got me from 98 to 68 kg, lower fat than usual keto till goal reached, 63 kg 18-year-old boxing weight, losing about 1 kg/week. US Navy Seals studying switching to keto too, so good stuff all around. I jus lowered fat a lot, but anyone wanting to maintain weight and not feel hungry much + super stable blood sugar = psychologically more stable should at least look into it to see if it might work for them too.

[@karinaschulerferro3815]

​@@JoachimMoeller So if you're asking me, the currently hyped beauty standard is still thinness but, like, with a BBL & the face of a Bratz doll. At the end of the day the standard is always changing. It doesn't really matter what the standard is. Any body type being held as a beauty "standard" is harmful to many as all human bodies are built differently and have different appearances at their healthiest. not everyone would look like kim kardashian, marilyn monroe, kate moss, or whoever the time's chosen body icon is after adopting a "healthy" lifestyle. Therefore, to celebrate a body type over others is never to encourage health, it is to encourage hatred/disrepect for people who do not have that body type and resentment/jealousy towards those who do- it hurts literally everyone, even the people who end up in the "pretty" category. (Also health is not even a moral high-ground from which we should judge others or ourselves & base our respect anyway.)

[@dornsmichel_1364]

@Joachim For me as a 23 year old I'd say there are multiple standards. Still for some standards like being super skinny ,super defined or super musular and so on you'll sometimes need to get in a state that can be physically and mentally harmful to you

[@uhuraenterprise6372]

I say be yourself and fuck the beauty standards

[@maggiishere]

@@uhuraenterprise6372 I agree with you, but that is so much easier said than done.

[@Fangirlofvariousfandoms]

Ok, so, don't get me wrong, I LOVE Marina and Lana Del Rey, but why doesn't Tove Lo get the recognition she deserves for being and indie queen? Her voice is honestly angelic, she's such an unappreciated talent ♡

[@benjaminschulze4601]

You dont know that you have to play your part in an dark agenda in the musc buizz to be succesfull and if you dont 90% you will never get big even if youre music is in an level of an world star? Open your eyes. Everything that jave the power to manipulate an huge amount of people get used to do so. Universal and Sony are the biggest in the music buizz.

[@maximilianogasconrodas9009]

I think (and this is just my personal opinion) that she doesn't get the recognition she deserves bc she's way too sexual, which I don't mind at all, I actually like her bc of that BUT the doble standard sociaty we live in isn't ready for her lyrics as in a woman talking about sex so openly on her songs. Taylor's been dragged for wrting too many songs about ex boyfriends now think about a woman talking about explicit sex like Tove's done and keeps doing.

[@cibucikel]

@@maximilianogasconrodas9009 that's not it, its simply she isn't American with Ariana Grande production team ....

[@DesireeEagle]

Her time is coming. Everyone will hop on the Tove Lo bandwagon. For now we just keep loving her. She's here for those of us who understand her. 💜

[@TheForkOnTheLeftist]

@@maximilianogasconrodas9009 pretty sure you're right. This other person that brought up Arianna Pequena doesn't understand that Tove doesn't write metaphors and loose comparisons, she just says everything straight from the heart which I think we all love. Arianna and others are far more subtle (34+35 etc whereas Tove writes "Hey You Got Drugs" and gets to the point). Good observation

[@matteo5860]

Full circle moment; I was considering not going to a Tove gig because I felt fat and thought I’d be out of place which is Ridiculous I know. I told myself it was just anxiety and pushed through and had the best time. This track has really resonated with me, and of course it’s absolutely beautifully produced. I love it. Thank you Tove.

[@Sidorido1]

Bish u better come, sometimes u gotta turn your brains off. Im sure u look amazing & are a wonderful person! ❤

[@sansiveria578]

Yes bish, rock whatever you have...we're human.

[@matteo5860]

@@Sidorido1 aw thank you so much 😊

[@emmaspencer1540]

Totally get the anxiety of it all, I’ve cancelled so many plans bc I felt too “fat” 🙄 Good on you for pushing past that! It would have been amazing 🖤

[@jesusjasso1510]

Bish you better go! Or you will regret it, this Tove community will make you feel comfortable all the time ❤ you only have to worry about your own joy

[@alexandrecrruz]

This has been one of Tove's best eras. Songs with extremely important lyrics and a special message for all fans. I feel special to live at the same time as this exceptional artist. ❤️❤️❤️

[@TatianaVs-ze2fo]

Keep suporting the dirt femme era 🔥

[@sloanx5202]

I cannot believe all these years later and she’s still doing the same amazing, flawless, perfect work but on a higher level each era. This is truly amazing and beautifully heartbreaking at the same time.

[@ryanap8396]

Never stopped after Habits (Stay High)!

[@chooky7568]

Agreed. It’s heavy

[@hamiltonfortuna]

She gets better and better

[@asiah5262]

I have always loved Tove Lo for her body and sex positivity, but to hear her talk about body dysphoria and ed issues, is absolutely amazing. I am literally moved to tears, this is such an amazing song and I thank her for talking about it.

[@absly5]

body dysphoria, you mean FAT, ThiKK is the same term, BIFFA waste bin

[@fionalomax7175]

17 yrs of this madness. I'm 56 yrs old in December. This disorder doesn't care about your age, sex, colour... I'm sending everyone my ❤️ and understanding 🤗🐾

[@Tiredafyall69]

You are so, so loved. I’m so glad you’re still here.❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@DavidLeithFraser]

Her music never misses. Emotional, danceable, iconic. So ready for this new album.

[@lucaandsiobhanlim8712]

The art was so cool, the room that represented her body and the abuse she causes to herself and as time goes on we see the wounds she’s inflicted on herself. Such an amazing portrayal, I was oooing the whole way through ❤️

[@KimchiBitz93]

finally someone talking about this , literally thought of the same thing 🙌🏾

[@logan4231]

Literally trapped in her own skin. Such an amazing visual

[@SirAndrewII]

It's pretty difficult to watch on silent/in slow motion, though.

[@JayLattee]

This is her best era so far! I cannot wait for the album ❤️

[@aruscyrus]

her best era was Lady wood

[@littletassio]

@@aruscyrus habla

[@charliequinn_]

@@aruscyrus Let’s just say that she doesn’t have one bad era. Her music and artistry has consistently gotten better and better with every album!

[@thefirephoenix872]

E

[@chryzoliz]

Her best era is every era

[@dw8416]

Idk if it was intentional to make "grapefruit" also kinda sound like "break through" but i found it very poetic. Its so easy to miss the signs with eating disorders and many suffer in silence from society's unrealistic expectations. Thank you. 💟

[@croop0903]

Interesting about ED. I didn't watch the video but only listened to the song and I interpreted it from a Trans person's POV. I think it works on various levels. ALSO, yes love the wordplay with grapefruit/breakthrough. Sitting here being like "damn, she can play with the big dogs on a songwriting scale" *Edit: the significance of the grapefruit is it taste sour and bitter but looking sweet and tangy. The contrast of appearance and innards

[@TheForkOnTheLeftist]

I literally thought those were the lyrics my guy

[@frogchair]

Totally! On first hearing I thought it was ‘break through!’ But then I realized the title and recognized it as ‘grapefruit!’Amazing how she can make it sound perfectly like both

[@TheNcuizon]

YESSSSSSSSSS

[@KrazyStylez09]

I thought it was breakthrough this whole time

[@sandynilsson1647]

Its heartbreaking that I understand and relate to every word you sing. Thank you for putting it in words and a beautiful song on the hardest battle many of us will face. Fuck this sickness and its demons, may we all be free one day.

[@GustavoHernandez-bj2nw]

We will

[@ericku.b.2953]

Every single song from this album is freaking good so far. She is serving as always 💛✨️✨️✨️

[@ninanile]

Enjoying this. Please checkout *Forever Be Mine by ninanile* I would truly appreciate it , if you would share and subscribe ✨️😊

[@iamdimonzik]

It’s deep, it’s simple, it’s sad and danceable, always ahead of its time. Serve again ✨🙏🏻✨

[@liamshalamar9324]

Tove Lo deserves alot more attention but the only thing is she pushes and gives us everything and more. She really knows how to deliver. Her whole music catalogue is amazing. She needs to be nominated more, perform at music events. EMAS, AMA's, Grammy. This performed live would be extraordinary. This was one of my favourite snippets from the album as I'm currently struggling with body image and starving myself. Thankyou tove lo. I'm always happy to see you return with new music.

[@helenstewart9408]

I "liked" your comment then wondered if that were the right thing to do. Many comments resonate with our shared experience of hating and hurting ourselves but honestly, you can get through this. It never goes away completely but it does get easier and as she says " you are all you've got". Look after yourself as best you can but don't be too proud to ask others for help; my friends helped immensely, and still do on really bad days.

[@frogchair]

The line “what I see is not me” has no many meanings! It’s genius 🙌 1) the representation in media is not inclusive 2) the feeling that our bodies are simply vessels that don’t reflect who we really are on the inside 3) the loosing of ourselves by trying to be something we are not 4) the self-image that we project onto our own bodies 5) the reminder that the unkind things we tell to ourselves are not true I love you ❤ you are radiant! ✨

[@JDMimeTHEFIRST]

I recommend watching “Naked Attraction”. It’s a dumb reality show where people choose from naked people who they want to date. But honestly, it made me feel better about my own body. Everyone’s different. They included all body types and people with disabilities and injuries.

[@sandr-man]

one of the most underrated songs on this album

[@Wtftoveis]

Dirt femme was so underrated

[@sandr-man]

@@Wtftoveis Yeah, period. I really need to more people listen this album 😭

[@greyp.852]

I’ve been a fan for years but this album is on another level. Incredible.

[@stu8965]

Totally agree, she continues to raise her own bar with each release.

[@bryanw3549]

This album is like master class level. IT IS BRILLIANT!!!! Every song!!!!

[@bluesea4465]

Exatamente!!!!

[@alejandroyllescas3822]

I definitely agree with u. This album… a masterpiece I’d tell

[@WillSherman-nz6je]

YES IT IS OMG!!!

[@Xprettypistol]

This video made me cry. You’re the reason I broke free from a lot of things I struggle with. The video “moments” I saw two years ago and I said to myself “I want to embody tove lo” that’s exactly as free as I want to be. YOU’RE THE REASON for my breaking free from being too shy to dance. You’re the first concert I’ve ever sang out loud to and danced to. I feel so trapped in myself. This song is just perfect. I love you. Thank you for being the biggest inspiration in my life. I mean that honestly.

[@sarahb7154]

Beautiful comment x

[@luisfeliperodriguezmedina5253]

Increíble el sonido de este come back de Tove Lo. Se agradece que siempre hay aportaciones de sonido diferentes de Tove Lo en cada producción que saca. Sin duda es una artista que gana el reconocimiento de sus fans y que ojalá fuera más reconocida en la música. Amazing. Brazo. 👏

[@guillermobisbal7013]

Estoy muy de acuerdo contigo Luis, pero este no es un come back de Tove Lo, no ha parado ni un minuto!

[@luisfeliperodriguezmedina5253]

@@guillermobisbal7013 no me refiero a la ausencia, soy fan de ella y se de su actividad, me refiero al festejo de regresar este año con nuevo disco

[@josedejesusdavalosmarquez]

Estoy de acuerdo con Tigo, pero más allá de ello, el mensaje que trasmite está canción, es simplemente profundo, ya que habla son algún trastorno alimenticio.

[@tutujunioratyahoodotcom]

I’m in line with your comments, Luis … totally in agreement with you. 🙂👍

[@micheldemeulemeester2120]

👍👍👌👌🖤

[@drzjivago100]

I’m not a woman nor a struggling person but Tove has given me a peek and appreciation for what is like to be young, in love, heartbroken, struggling, user and without a clear path in life. All with and ear for poetry and heart. Thank you Tove. You are needed!

[@Asteroid0202]

I just discovered this song(and Tove) and I really liked the melody and arrangement at my first listen, but then I read the lyrics and wow!! The message is so beautiful😭😭 This is the self reflected type of song I’ve been looking for🥹

[@agustinamontero4972]

I sayed it thousand times, I'm going say it a thousand more, Tove Lo is one of the most underrated artists of all time, she never disappoints, you can see that everything she do is from the bottom of her heart, I love you so much. Can't believe to see in Argentina for the second time ❤️❤️❤️

[@Bunsanity]

All of these, all of these thousand times

[@ryanap8396]

I read “I slayed it thousand times”

[@tyrelgardner]

Absolutely

[@andrebighach]

you keep saying it.

[@LegendaryPhenom]

She's criminally underrated, it's so fking absurd!

[@CookinLittle]

I haven't been this excited about an album in a long time. Can't wait for this!

[@GiraffeLife16]

Didn't expect this to make me cry, but it did. Thank you Tove for making this and sharing it with the world.

[@selispeks]

Same! I bawled! 😭

[@NazriB]

Lies again? Germain Fighter God's Floor

[@carmencash3738]

Omg this song is immaculate someone please give Tove Lo her STARS⭐⭐⭐⭐

[@ryryconyers7700]

I've never struggled myself but I am playing this on repeat for all the strong people that I have seen go through this. YOU ARE ENOUGH.....

[@andya1744]

This video is such a great representation of when you’re at war with your mind and you just want out from the intrusive thoughts. The way Tove has grown so much as an artist is inspiring. She’s always been super raw and honest and always peeling back the layers.

[@guslobbos8487]

O álbum com certeza está incrível 💜

[@dancolinart]

Maravilhosa!

[@Nicolas.Fernandes]

Ansiosíssimo!

[@jhonkim6503]

Ansioso demais

[@araflyrics]

*LYRICS:* Countin' while I run the tap I'm on my knees Chokin' on my hands all night In my sleep Countin' all the calories Now get 'em up Body positivity Help me out The swans of ballet Their skin and their bones, that's not me I'd die for my love though, break Break 'til I wither away What I see is not me What I see is not me One, two, grapefruit How am I back here again? Three, four, lose more I know my mirrors are lyin' Five, six, hate this Take back the body I'm in What I see is not me What I see is not me One, two, grapefruit Wish I could change overnight Three, four, lose more Kill my obsession, please die Five, six, hate this How am I still in this fight? What I see is not me What I see is not me Sweet girl, you're so disciplined Now keep it down I don't like my measurements Won't make a sound Diana, how she guards the clock (The clock) She's in control (Control) Now why is everyone in shock? (In shock) You let her go The swans of ballet ('Llet) Their skin and their bones, that's not me (Me) I'd die for my love though, break (Break) Break 'til I wither away What I see is not me What I see is not me One, two, grapefruit How am I back here again? Three, four, lose more I know my mirrors are lyin' Five, six, hate this Take back the body I'm in What I see is not me What I see is not me One, two, grapefruit Wish I could change overnight Three, four, lose more Kill my obsession, please die Five, six, hate this How am I still in this fight? What I see is not me What I see is not me What I see is not me What I see is not me When I'm hurtin', every time I have a bad day Then everyone gets lost But I'm learnin' every time I feel out of place That you are all I've got, oh One, two, grapefruit How am I back here again? Three, four, lose more I know my mirrors are lyin' Five, six, hate this Take back the body I'm in (Oh) What I see is not me What I see is not me One, two, grapefruit Wish I could change overnight Three, four, lose more Kill my obsession, please die Five, six, hate this How am I still in this fight? What I see is not me What I see is not me

[@TatianaVs-ze2fo]

❤❤❤❤

[@vicktorolivera4260]

Tove es una diosa en todos los sentidos, siempre anda reinventándose en cada uno de sus álbumes tanto en conceptos, letras y sonido. Sus letras son tan reales por eso es que empatizo mucho con ella. Te adoro Reina 💖💖💖

[@gabbacadabra07]

Didn’t expect to be crying and dancing at the same time ❤.

[@deivid3414]

- A MULHER SÓ LANÇA HINO! MISERICÓRDIA 😍💙

[@gracie99999]

😃

[@bellae8793]

Here I am at 34 once again suffering with my disordered thoughts. Its a beast I have fought for at least 22 years and it never truly dies and goes away for good. Im in tears listening to this. Love it.

[@bellae8793]

@Mark Park wow. Thank you for taking the time to out of your day to put me down. I really appreciate it. You never know what another person is going through Mark. I feel so bad for you.

[@santisanti2612]

do mindfullness

[@maralolue2160]

@Mark Park wtf is wrong with you she was just saying how the song helped her

[@log794]

@Mark Park No need to be a condescending ass. She means disordered as in relating to an eating DISORDER. It wouldn't be called a disorder if everyone had it. *You* get over yourself and stop putting someone down for no reason, precious

[@sheaboland7690]

@Mark Park wdym "get over yourself." they're just sharing their experience lol, nothing wrong with that.

[@zed1stdow398]

Such a talented lady! This album will stand out from the pack. 🐺🥀 My love goes to those that have suffered with body image issues x

[@charliemorningstar666]

Growing up always hearing, "I wish I was as skinny as you!" gave me a fucked up view of myself, especially considering I was so skinny because I was being abused at home. All this caused me to struggle with bulimia for over a decade. I recently moved away, cut all the toxic people out of my life, got mistaken for a meth addict in my new town, and just 7 months later I'm already doing so much better. Thank you, Tove, for creating a safe space for all of us to share!

[@docvalentine13]

I hope you never stop making music... I love every one of your songs!

[@elizabethcmar1970]

ANOTHER FUCKING INCREDIBLE PIECE OF ART. Thank you, Tove, for being so vulnerable with us. We love you. ❤️

[@Pixelade]

yeah, this will be your best album. no words 😩❤

[@josedaydream0922]

As someone who has struggled with weight and body image, I definitely appreciate and understand this song and video. Thank you, Tove Lo ! I’m really hoping I can see you in concert next year 🎉❤️👏🏾 proud fan from the Cayman Islands!

[@AAllakazamm]

I love that she's a scorpio and she's not affraid to show it.

[@Jaeony]

Everytime I have horrible body dysmorphia issues I listen to this song and it brings me back in a better headspace ❤️

[@Andrew.McAvoy]

crying already at the visual conception and how it’s executed

[@vgamemaster99]

I can’t say enough how important it is for artists to make songs about things like this that people are struggling with, and can use music to get through with. On top of its importance, it has a catchy beat and really great lyrics!

[@anneparham]

Yeah I worry artists will stop being this raw because of fear of people being triggered but it really does help some who have struggled w this

[@anneparham]

(Ex: Taylor swifts music video of Anti-Hero featured the word “fat” and she had to remove that frame)

[@bfuregato]

MAIS UMA POP PERFECTION TOVE LO??? CLIPE, MÚSICA, PRODUÇÃO, LETRA, MENSAGEM, INCRÍVEISSSSSS, VAI VIR O ÁLBUM DO ANO AÍ

[@gracie99999]

real artiste

[@robinskull]

MY SONGS ARE WAY BETTER THAN TOVE LO

[@surtotemporario]

E veio

[@ThreeToesofFury]

This song is incredible. Cant stop spinning it. Beautiful music.

[@chrisjoosten9819]

The bridge on here is absolute groove.

[@OswaldoPachecoVE]

Theres' too much to be thankful for during this new era. By far, one of the greatest/most creative and authentique artists nowadays. Sound wise, production wise and visual wise this woman keeps outstanding her singles one by one. Thanks for this incredible project

[@chryzoliz]

Tove if you're reading comments, thanks for your music and artistry!

[@TheFlux2]

So good. 'one two / grapefruit ' is just a great example of using just a handful of words to convey a world of pain. As always I love your voice.

[@bryanbrasile2703]

THIS is art. The lyrics. The musical production. The message. The video. The choreo. Tove Lo is my muse.

[@iamafairyqueen]

Had this song on repeat for the last 24 hours and it will probably stay that way for weeks now!

[@TatianaVs-ze2fo]

Is magical

[@shaniecegullison]

Same

[@maddiecolormixmua9658]

Tove Lo, your musical art is such a wonderful gift you share ❤️💛💚💙💜

[@simon_xcx]

All the singles so far have been 10/10 for me! This one didn’t disappoint either 💓😍

[@setlistking]

This girl deserves more recognition. Her music is powerful 🔥🔥

[@JadeSa11y]

Agreed but also I like having her Al too myself at concerts lol

[@EbikeAdventuresSD]

Woman

[@thefirephoenix872]

4

[@lydianebel8674]

Always coming back here when I need a reminder. Take back the body I’m in.

[@noonstars]

been struggling with an eating disorder for 18 years now, since i was 12 years old. my dad yesterday sent a childhood photo of me from that time right before the binging/purging began. she was so cute, chubby cheeked, and desperate to be loved. i just wish i could have given her a hug, told her she was perfect as she was. i remember how much i hated myself then and how much torment i went through in school. i was bullied relentlessly. this song kind of makes me choke on my feelings i guess i'm leaving this comment for those that can relate, especially the younger ones here: it does get better. you aren't alone. you are worthy. your body you're in is deserving of health and care. you deserve to exist.

[@rjs2035]

Yes 4 minutes!!!! BRING BACK LONG POP SONGS!!!! Every single released so far has been a MASTERPIECE and that’s a rare find. This album WILL NOT disappoint!! 🫶🏽

[@isabellacervelieri]

Maravilhosa!!! Umas das minhas artistas preferidas 😍😍❤️❤️❤️ não vejo a hora de escutar o álbum

[@david_artbeel]

So excited for this album

[@wesleywarrick]

Such a sad song looking at the lyrics now, especially seeing the self-harm depicted by the back and forth between her and herself. Thanks Tove Lo for this realism and hard-to-swallow yet honest and beautiful art. 💐

[@veronicamoreira2905]

This is such a statement. Unbelievable how people didn't paid atention

[@SacuryKyle]

THIS ERA WILL BE SO GOOD!! IM TOO EXCITED!!! 🥰

[@erickmendes3044]

os vocais limpos e doces, como eu amo ser fã dessa mulher

[@erickmendes3044]

não vejo a hora de escutar esse álbum completo

[@jhonkim6503]

Essa mulher não lança uma música ruim . Mds

[@janiesantonacita2395]

I love this song so, so much! I don't struggle with an eating disorder, but I work with mental health issues, and the sheer pain in my mind was so bad sometimes that I felt like withering away to make it stop. That was some months ago. I believe it was around August. I am getting help now, and work is helping too. I also see and therapist once a week. Boy, the difference does that make! I'm glad I hung in there when things got really dark. And others can do the same, get the help they need, and hang on because it truly does get a LOT better! Keep in mind that I am still working on my mental health, but with support, the situation will improve! 💜💜 Now, I want to talk about these lyrics because they are brilliant and very poetic, and I love all the words so much. ✨ Now, whenever I hear the word "Grapefruit," I also hear the word "Breakthrough," which is impressive. And I listen to this song repeatedly and can change some of the terms to sound like I am speaking about mental health, which is what I want to do. So my creative brain wants to take it there, and hopefully, I can write, produce and be in my own "fan-made" music video of this song!

[@juninjapanofficial]

1 of the Best greatest albums of the year! Thank you very much! my soul is grateful!

[@bahre.srebrenica]

I love how Tove just writes a song, sings it while dancing, and shares it with us :)

[@MarloAlvarez7]

This is one of my favorites from the album. The production is so lit! And It sounds so good when I blast it in my car.

[@bowiejones5769]

This feels like "no one dies for love" part 2 LOVE IT!!!!!

[@ClaLu]

39 years living, 33 years struggling with fatphobic attacks from family, friends and society 😢 ... Learning to love myself and my beautiful body ❤ worth every second ❤

[@LisetteSanhueza-t5g]

Stay Strong ❤

[@erickmendes3044]

Let's suport this independent artist

[@moysesnavarro6015]

Hermana, necesito escuchar el álbum completo ya😭

[@JinxMarie1985]

Was watching that on mush I was crying a lot. Brings up a lot of feelings. I love you so much!! Second time on mush next day lol 😆 I love her deeply so much❤

[@alienteknology5390]

A beautiful song by a beautiful woman with an important message for people struggling with self image.

[@helenjuliet4719]

Well I was ugly crying before the song was even halfway. Thank you so much for this. I've struggled with EDs my entire life. I've been terrified to take up space and made myself so small. I'm bigger now and sometimes it makes me so desperate and hopeless. But then other times I'm able to remind myself how powerful it is to take up space and how I'm done hiding. This song is powerful. Plus, it's a banging tune :D

[@sleep_music_melodies]

This is her best era so far! I cannot wait for the album ❤👌👌

[@FutureLover83]

what do you mean? The album was just released 3 days ago!

[@rickardsamuelsson7753]

I love the fact that 80s beats are back in the industry, its not only Tove. Absolutely love it.

[@TigerWoodsLibido]

Kavinsky, Electric Youth etc the ‘Drive’ and ‘Stranger Things’ soundtracks saved pop music.

[@manuelaolayameza9615]

it is a very healing thing to see how even if every one of us is fighting an individual struggle with EDs, there's a common ground where we find our vulnerability can be understood and represented in such a deep way. It creates a feeling of understanding and a community of warriors that can get hope from seeing others slowly getting better. I´m specially thankful for how this video expresses a lot of ambiguous and hard to explain pars of the struggle in such an open and deep way. Thank you Tove Lo

[@int6nsfy]

I just got out of a psych ward, have been watching this video repeatedly. It’s how I felt inside of treatment, so happy this exists.

[@Técolas]

e nunca lançou musica ruim né flor? AAAAAAAAAAAAAA EU SOU MUITO SUA CADELA SIM!

[@JandersonLopes68]

Ela entregando uma das melhores eras esse ano. Perfeita.🇧🇷

[@Lara-nk4cw]

o tanto que eu chorei com essa musica nao ta escrito

[@greencurl1814]

WOW,,, how you make people not feel alone with your WORDS you are pure Amazment....

[@justinbancroft4328]

I remember how close I was to going up. Just need to unwind. And collect all my pieces back. ♥️ then I'm finnish.🙏

[@PROD5VE]

Tove Lo is a huge inspiration to me and I WILL produce a song for her one day.

[@erickmendes3044]

her face in the final is ART

[@SpencerSpenser]

Did you intend to make me cry? Because you did. This is so beautiful. Thank you ❤

[@Ellocohugo333]

I recently got diagnosed with a mental disorder and finally realized why this song spoke to me in a level I didn’t understand. Thank you for writing and singing from your soul and allowing us to be part of this journey with you.

[@StillClimbing]

I love this song and have added it to my playlist. Tove Lo is amazing. Her catalog is so very strong, especially at her young age!

[@3xmeia]

Mais do que incrível 💖💖💖💖

[@busrahtoparslan]

Everything she does is clever, wild and filled with lots of emotions.

[@manaswiniraman8740]

i love this mv so much. the box she is in is just skin and how her body dysmorphia is screaming for her to get our of her own skin and bones. the bruises she is making the struggle she is going through just to be herself. or not to be. i love this so much because that is just how i feel everyday looking at the mirror. Tove Lo is just the most relatable queen.

[@Wtftoveis]

I have never seen such a beautiful or creative video before

[@BeansonsBeans]

WOHH this song / the references in the video to self harm REALLY struck a nerve- thank you for making this, it feels important

[@ignition51]

I freaking love your music makes me feel free 💗💗💗💗

[@juliaz3308]

this song has been so important to me. i can’t count how many times i’ve cried listening to this

[@JDMimeTHEFIRST]

I’m usually not into most modern pop artists, but you are one of my favorite artists, period. Have been for a long time. Janelle Monae is another and Lana del Rae, lykke Li, etc. This song alone is very relatable. As an autistic woman who has bouts of anorexia and orthorexia, thank you. 😊 Running got me through a lot and basically is my therapy, but now I have a torn labrum 😢. Have to swim and strength train, maybe write more for mental health. Listening to music helps, too. ❤