Tove Lo - Suburbia (Scene 2)

Tove Lo - Suburbia (Scene 2)
‘Dirt Femme Out Now 🦂: tovelo.ffm.to/...
Director: Kenny Laubbacher
Director of Photography: Tamara Santos
Photographer: Moni Haworth
Colorist: Kaitlyn Battistelli
Creative Director: Charlie Twaddle
Producer: Juliana "Juju" Sorelli
Lyrics
Now here I am with you
I never wanted babies
I know they’re kinda cute
I never wanted marriage
But here I am with you
We love to live in chaos
There’s nothing in our way
Our love is deep but fragile
No fake grass
No fake friends
That’s our plan
Yeah that’s our future dance
No pretend
No safe end
That’s our plan
No circumstance
I don’t want suburbia
I don’t need routines and lies
I hope you know that I know
You are the love of my life
But I can’t be no stepford wife
Just let me talk this through
So if we had a baby
You’d love them more than me
What if I’m way to lazy
For the mom olympic team
Will we still be romantic
Will I still get my sleep
Will you be less pedantic
What if I change my mind and want one
But then I can’t have none
Would you leave me then
What if I don’t want the things I’m supposed to want
What then
But what if I do in the end
#tovelo #suburbia #dirtfemme

[@ericku.b.2953]

One of the best songs of the album✨️💛

[@Danimasvi]

Totally agree, Call on me is a masterpiece❤❤❤

[@yanivshemtov9430]

All of them tho

[@Dokushin1989]

One of the many!

[@adrianvelez5077]

If not THE BEST 💜

[@TlumaczeniaPL]

Tove's albums have only best songs

[@yumichinnyeon]

I'm married to a guy from a small town and this song perfectly described what I was feeling and it resonated with me. I'm not ready to have kids, I'm not ready to live my life in circles, whereas he is. I just love how Tove is so honest and not showing her raw emotions. She's truly saving many people who are going through similar experiences.

[@sophieminter0]

This is my favorite song of the album for sure. It describes me to a T and is such a unique song theme. I feel like almost every female struggles with this, feeling like we have to get married, have babies, and have a nuclear family in "suburbia" because that is our duty but not wanting that or "the things we're supposed to want." From a young age, we have heard "you'll understand when you have kids", "when you get married...", or your parents saying "I'll save this for my grandchildren". We have also heard about women who had babies and then the dad leaves or cheats on them with a younger woman who might not have the lasting marks of giving birth (c-section, sagging breasts etc) and isn't tired all the time from taking care of their child. But then since our "biological clock" is ticking we worry that we would want kids when it's too late "what if I want them in the end".

[@678Lj]

I haven’t wanted kids since I was 10- I’m so fulfilled with this experience - I LOVED this song and I will support her if she decides to have kids- the emotions of this song are Real:)

[@joshklaver47]

Being childfree is awesome. Once you let go of those societal expectations, you get to experience true freedom.

[@faustafortelli7848]

Not duty, aspiration or desire.

[@faustafortelli7848]

​@@joshklaver47I haven't children for choice (also for a complicated past) but true freedom isn't about having or not kids, of course it's a huge responsability and committment. I think it's about wanting the life you're living, with awareness.

[@hsk2909]

So many children in this world who needs urgent help on a daily basis. Better to find ways to help already existing children who suffer than put more children in to a space that at this moment in history has a very bleak looking future. There is no need for a woman to WANT to nor HAVE to have babies. Both my adult daughters have opted not to have children and i have no problem with that. Never ever told either one of them, -when you have your own children, or ; i'm waiting for grand children. Nope. Nothing of the sort.

[@ryanap8396]

I love this song for so many reasons. I remember my parents saying “when you have kids and a wife” who says I want kids? I don’t necessarily even want a relationship, that shit is challenging.

[@ryanap8396]

They are especially challenging for autistic folk like me

[@vrochar2274]

what's wrong with challenging? what point is there if it isn't?

[@vrochar2274]

ok that's fair enough, but still... I know plenty of autistic folk in (healthy) relationships... #justsayin

[@sophieminter0]

omg so it goes for men too. :)

[@winson60]

I'm so sorry you don't want the challenge of true pure love. I had my wife for 42yrs.and everyday was like magic. What's fun is when I looked in her eyes I could see the love for me. I hope you do challenge yourself for a chance at true love. ⭕♾️💯

[@neozephyrus]

QUEEN OF WALKING AROUND!

[@mikeraff18]

I've been obsessed with this song! It just floats sonically and the lyrics are so introspective 💜

[@H3ls1e]

SAME!!! I'm so obsessed with it!

[@seedbackker]

❤

[@Airsoftgurl]

This is my fav song on the album its so friggin good and so relatable. As a young women we don't know wtf we want with our lives. Thank you so much for this album. So grateful for your music and shows. You're one of my all time top fav artists and cant wait to see you get the recognition you deserve for the amazing music you create

[@TheForkOnTheLeftist]

Only problem is Tove isn't young. Party's gonna end and the lights will come on eventually

[@AnderYoutube]

One of the best songs in her career, i love the nicest she brought on this album ❤ big fan since 2014, love you Tove!

[@hellathicc]

I've been replaying this song for a ridiculously insane amount of times.

[@fannysm6237]

Is a red flag if he hates Tove Lo

[@breakthecycle16]

Yesss ❤❤❤

[@CaleAdams]

Duh

[@gonzostwin1]

Many women question my sexuality for liking Tove. I say would you prefer a man who wants you to stay in the kitchen?

[@678Lj]

Hahaha YES!!!!! Red flag - she is everything !!!!!!

[@giovi077]

run from him

[@marissasanchez3489]

This was the first song I heard when I played the album and wanted to cry… felt like this song was made for me ❤

[@noneofyourbusiness89]

Suburbia & Grapefruit are the best songs on this album. Hope u play them in Oslo❤️

[@sandr-man]

THIS ALBUM IS REALLY POWERFUL ❤

[@eupri7898]

Tove Lo, is one of the best artist ever. The fact that she dropped an entire album for free. What a hero. Love you!

[@maegan-grace]

Tove, you’ve saved me in more ways than I can count. I feel heard and validated through you and your music! Much love 💕💞💕

[@chloerosa544]

Tove lo deserve it a grammy

[@BeautifulSpider]

These lyrics have so much sense to me. So powerful ❤

[@Wtftoveis]

Is there any artist as honest and open about these feelings we all have as Tove Lo?

[@369ellie]

The lyrics are so relatable, felt like it came straight from my heart too

[@seedbackker]

You don't want Suburbia too, be free ❤

[@gaspar1to]

What a modern feminism anthem, i see power on this girl ❤

[@javiersolorzano3815]

This is a masterpiece! The best audio feelings from the Album. Long live Tove Lo! ❤️

[@creativoscarousel6473]

You created one of my favorite songs ever, everything but Suburbia!!

[@SASHORAYCHEVOFFICIAL]

This is probably one of the best songs on the album. I don't comment on the clip. The song is so modern it has a 90's disco sound. I am pleasantly surprised. Keep up the good work! Greetings from Bulgaria! ❤❤🇧🇬🇧🇬🇧🇬

[@Eusoueu77]

I love this era... And i love this song. Tove, we love you ❤️

[@user-gs8uc5vl3b]

Love instrumentals of this song, is like Blinding Lights but smooth

[@rickjay637]

Dirt femme is her best album yet

[@tryingwithandrey7459]

One of my favorite songs! ❤

[@BadAssBettyWhite]

This song speaks to a time in my life when I was struggling alone in the world after an abusive relationship. I had to have an emergency surgery to remove a massive fibroid and during that I was diagnosed with several conditions that left me with “Pregnancy possible but not advisable. Successful pregnancy to term unlikely however would endanger the patient. High risk.” I’ve since come to terms with it and ultimately, judging my overall health, a large number of my worst problems are hereditary, so I find comfort in my active choice of childlessness. Your worth as a person doesn’t not rest in your ability to reproduce. It is wises to know when to spare a life and it is just as wise to know when one should not bring a new life into creation. I would not wish my physical or mental conditions on anyone, much less a child. I’m only figuring out my own brain, I’m not prepared to nurture a fragile new mind. I’m trying to be genetically responsible and I know far too many people the adoption/foster system failed them. Add in the absolute insanity that is my country… I rest far easier and have no regrets in not parenting. I get to spend time with my nieces and nephews. If I can improve even one of their lives, then I’m still helping our youth. Better to focus on the children here before us now, rather than overlooking them for people who aren’t even in existence yet. Adoption is not an answer to this problem. It’s encouraging needlessly adding more children to an overloaded and flawed system. Do people really think it’s best for a child to live knowing they aren’t wanted to a point of being funneled into a system that doesn’t have enough families to adopt out more than a handful of children, and the chances of neglect and abuse in foster care is so high… Yet, everyone has no idea what could drive a kid to shoot up a school. Well, sorry for the tangent but yeah I have strong feelings on this topic.

[@mariotpchec9320]

The best song in the album!! My favorite

[@iam.salem41]

Idk why song is so underrated, love Tove works always so impressive & raw ❤

[@heyitsmeg23]

It actually really pisses me off that she's not recognized. I know feel down that I can make it as a singer, and she's my top 3 to collab. I love her songs and the rawness she always had and has

[@milouribe4082]

80's are back ☺️✨

[@OwninFools2020]

I have a family but shit slaps hard. Best song in the album

[@RadStitch]

Such an amazing song! It has the power of a empowering pop song but feels like an indie track, I love it✨

[@gvldsytm.u]

Not Tove Lo telling to everyone that materninty is a choice!! love her!!❤

[@GabrielfVega-uq7gt]

This is my favorite song from Dirt Femme! 😍

[@AdsonSantos-ci8kj]

our love is deep but fragile OUCH

[@mooglywoogle4264]

How did I not know about Tove Lo before now?!? Greatest living artist in the known universe, no. question.

[@shamook6666]

Smh seriously. All her albums hit 🎯

[@Terranya]

I love Tove Lo! She picks me up when I'm having a bad day xoxox

[@brendaartgirl]

Same same 💜

[@remidesgagne]

My favorite from the album! 🔥🎉🎉🎉

[@Anithingz]

Love from India 🇮🇳 To Tove Lo

[@darkcat5823]

So perfect for late-night walks

[@Franciscormj]

Tove Lo é a artista que ainda não possui o reconhecimento que merece

[@lucassiqueirahonorato7936]

e só tem música boa. o melhor

[@flaviodasilva923]

Verdade mano que álbum massa esse último dela,mano da ódio que cada bomba por ae que faz sucesso mais ela faz seu sucesso com pessoas que sabem o que e música de verdade

[@purplepink139]

Acho que ela tem um ótimo reconhecimento e n tem fãs perseguindo ela em todo lugar o que parece ser algo que agrada ela

[@daydreamer.nighthawk]

This is the anthem of my life. It's way easier when you just accept things...

[@johannatapiamartinez4200]

Having my Tove Lo marathon ❤

[@rrhemil]

What a sensational feminist icon. This song is sure to become timeless, it's cool! God this is perfect

[@charlespimentel6617]

Melhor músicado Album! BRAZIL LOVES YOU!!!!

[@dan8691]

Perfeição sonora

[@adammirzewski6562]

Najlepszy hit tego albumu. Bravo. Doskonale wpada w ucho 👂.

[@jakejakerson2263]

Your amazing Tove-so many kick ass songs on this album, i plan to buy tickets to see you in LA this week-i cant wait!

[@hassnaell7287]

Unique music

[@milouribe4082]

The way she sings this song is sad and hopeful at the same time

[@iam.salem41]

No stepford wife

[@DANI76178]

This song still vibe with me, makrs the begging of a new chapter , a year ago!!!

[@mathchell]

This song means everything to ME ❤️

[@moatheodorsson8814]

Crying, never related to a song more 💔

[@lulufare1724]

My favourite song on the album, obsessed 😍😍

[@mageanadrian7431]

i love this song and this artist,hope i find my only only one

[@Elinev.x]

Bruh this Song need more view its amazing af

[@brianmahoney9258]

Happy New Year! Just found out I’m going to be a Dad!! This is the best album ever!

[@jonathangomez5066]

This masterpiece reminds me to another song, like a 80' or 90' song. Somebody knows something?

[@moondaddy6755]

I drove with this on repeat for about an hour yesterday 👀

[@tahliagreen2595]

This song is PERFECTION

[@judithrojas1245]

I can’t wait 2 see u guys, Guadalajara love u

[@Genny-Zee]

The lyrics damn

[@Channel7sol]

This is the BEST SONG

[@MichaelCohen23]

This voice brings me some melancholy ❤️❤️

[@seedbackker]

I love u Tove Lo ❤

[@MarTapiC]

Routines & lies

[@Channel7sol]

One of the best songs ever ever ever

[@MARTPOP]

This song slaps so hard !! So atmospheric and melodically smooth 🔥

[@wudglass6217]

amazing rythm and lyric, it really hits in, commitment sometimes feels like madness 😅

[@wendycampbell6752]

This track is catchy AF. Been stuck in my head for days!

[@juanpabloorellano71]

She’s in her best moment ❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥

[@b.m...]

The best song on the album by far! I love Tove Lo but the album was lacking, except this iconic song and a few others.

[@ashantifranquiz6861]

This song is so perfect

[@gizemdagci]

listening this song triggers my anxious attachment, hi to all who have anxious attachment!! even Tove Lo :')

[@CodyHimselfXI]

My ex had that jacket and this song was us.

[@TheForkOnTheLeftist]

Edit: I just read she's divorced. This whole album makes complete sense. She did not want the party to end 👀 Double edit: my bad it looks like I read an unfounded rumor they're still together. Yikes! Tove has really outdone herself. *This* is what I wanted Sunshine -Kitty- Shitty to be like. There's passion, rage and authenticity. Guess she makes her best music when she's depressed. Sucks for that husband but imma keep bumping it. 🎶 _I_ - _I_ - _I_ _don't_ _want_ _Su-bur-bi-a!_ 🎶

[@Maybe1911_.]

Where in God's name did you read she's divorced? 😅 I tried looking it up but couldn't find anything

[@sarahfisher3063]

she’s still married lol

[@kristiyangrancharski8652]

Love from Copenhagen 🇩🇰

[@vlogdojotta]

Tove Lo é maravilhosaa, orgulhoso de ter conhecido ela em 2014 no Lançamento do Queen Of The Clouds logo no comecinho e até hoje está aqui com ela!! ❤️👏🏼😍 Cadê os Tove Fãs brasileiros? 🇧🇷🇧🇷🇧🇷 Eu invoco todos vocês agoraaa! 😉😘

[@marinadayane1436]

amo

[@crissousa8311]

Sim Tbm sou dessa época ❤

[@vlogdojotta]

@@marinadayane1436 ♥️♥️

[@vlogdojotta]

@@marinadayane1436 tamo junto! 💪🏼♥️

[@the_b_a_d_witch]

Aaaaaaaaaaaaaaqui 💖

[@anywhereugo9571]

You're best time,you're best era. My love with you evermore💕!

[@marzd5215]

maneater by hall & oat vibes and I’m LIVING FOR IT

[@AndrewNation13]

You are the love of my life? Oh my gooooood!! I love it love it love it!!!!

[@DillonGreen-tx1ni]

This song shatters ceelings ❤🎉

[@paulberner5400]

Hope you sing this song in Toronto

[@JinxMarie1985]

I love her music. Its very beautiful and just has the sound of her own.

[@bluealf33]

love this song and the mini story it tells

[@mewmila]

this one reminds me a bit of blinding lights

[@TatianaVs-ze2fo]

But more soft 🫠

[@_carina513_]

One of your best Songs Miss Lo 😘❤❤🎷

[@miilenn_g9953]

I hope you know that i know , you are the love of my life 😍😄 love this

[@evanbrr4211]

Iconic song, so many ppl feeling identificate 🥵

[@shamook6666]

THIS LADY DOES NOT MISS AT ALL!!!! 😍😍😍😍😍😍

[@cayla4207]

This has so much meaning to a lot of people. Great lyrics 👏

[@zed1stdow398]

Beautiful lady, the lyrics you write are like a storybook full of popup pictures... You are so talented at telling a tale. Love the pearls btw 💕 ✌️😊👌✨🥀✨

[@Alexis-zl9kw]

Such a great description ❤

[@matheusdasilvacordeiro9229]

The best song of the album, I just fell for the beat❤️

[@colombiandrxg]

with this album you proved to me once again that you are a goddess 🤍🦋✨

[@ToveisLove]

Love this album so bad ❤😢

[@AndersonRibas-ch4uu]

Amooo essa nostalgia 😍❤

[@sirrojen]

Before I knew the title Suburbia I thought she was saying "I don't want to burn me out" in place of Suburbia and it basically works there lol

[@s6051971]

Same thoughts here!