Toxic Exes

[@timberlyncarthins6096]

“She has other baby daddies, what’s she reaching out to me for?” Umm maybe because that’s YOUR child. Can’t imagine expecting other people to take care of my child and being mad that I’m being asked to be a parent. 💀

[@ddnquestion1]

How can a woman have so many children but still be that fine is, blowing my mind , WOW 💯

[@ourtruth216]

He sold her a car for $6,500 and then borrowed $2k. When she has his daughter ?! That’s insane.

[@ashsooofire919]

I like her. She may have been a little loud but she gave him many compliments...he did owe her so she rightfully won her case. She doesn't seem like a malicious person.

[@ebonyswope]

She said she was good with no child support for all those years and now she’s screaming she wants backpay lol sounds malicious to me

[@NoName-sp5dp]

@@ebonyswope so he shouldn't take care of his kid? Stop being a pick me

[@ebonyswope]

@@NoName-sp5dp he took care of his kid good enough for her for all these years and now that she’s mad at him she wants backpay. As judge Milian says “if it’s good enough for you it’s good enough for me”😂 y’all throw pick me out there just cuz it sounds good clearly😂😂

[@wildyoda2931]

Well yeah kinda malicious when she acknowledged that he takes good care of his daughter and buys her birthday presents and pays for parties but now she just out of the blue wants child support the child is about to be 18 years old hopefully she gives all of that money to their child.

[@livinmabestlife]

Me too

[@tjneverdefeated4394]

She should’ve put him on child support a long time ago!! I’m glad she won her case. Sometimes a good heart can be your worse enemy.

[@michellecole486]

It’s damn mother.. that’s why it’s never good to date momma boys.. mama always pick up for their son whether it’s good or bad..

[@MeliMel86]

But she came with her proof and was organized. She seems like a great mom who gave him chances to take care of his daughter without child support.

[@livinmabestlife]

Exactly

[@elaineroyal2785]

Bless her heart. Nobody taught her what appropriate attire for court?

[@kishathompson5024]

Well she learned how to have babies

[@mrshappilymarried1]

And she didn't learn after having the 1st child...Lord have mercy

[@nanapearlpearl2696]

😂😂😂😂😂 the judgement is real around here

[@TheBsheep]

She also didn't learn how not to talk over the judge.

[@ANGELAKCLAY]

EXACTLY! Not only was it Inappropriate' it looked Out Right NASTY! SMH!

[@ourtruth216]

I like her she seems reasonable, even then the judge was questioning his education she still vouched for him. You can tell she was sweet but being pregnant at 14 changed a lot.

[@thefreequency]

Exactly, the comments condemning her but she seems sweet. She called him a smart boy. She's loud but that's behavior not character per se

[@jasonallen3678]

😂😂😂

[@jasonallen3678]

​@@thefreequency😂😂😂

[@enhvisualz5808]

I respect her for saying she can’t speak for her daughter in regards to her relationship.

[@letstalkctnwitheverette9203]

I love how folks in the comments got smoke for the mom’ out fit and how loud she is but totally ignored the fact that dude sold her a lemon 🍋 after she tried to support his business, then asked for a loan but didn’t want to pay it back, then tried to talk down on her for having a child by someone else; acting like he didn’t need to care for his kid because of her relationship with the other man. Her loudness was justified. She didn’t put him on child support for 16 years and he got the nerve to disrespect her and act a fool in court. She isn’t embarrassing at all to me. It’s the low standard’s for fatherhood and co-parenting for me; it’s the disrespect and disregard for the passes she gave him over the years for me; it’s the- “I don’t pay child support nor do I care for my child full-time but I need money from the mother of my kid that I’m disrespecting” for me. Many men in today’s generation have no connection with the value of being a father. It’s not just about giving money and gifts when it’s convenient; the child needs you to be present; both physically and mentally. That is what helps to heal our community; and I don’t want to here that noise about “the mother is keeping my kid from me”. The judge said best. GO TO COURT. Get paternity and custody established and you will have access to your children. They will waive the filing fee if it is out of your budget and they can establish a plan that will help to minimize fighting. There are so many options available. Just go check it out before you give up! Your kids need you and honestly- you need them too. Kids can and will grow you up.

[@letstalkctnwitheverette9203]

@@kemzyacco5629 EXACTLY!!!!! They are handled with kitten mittens in many cases. Truth be told- the best birth control after having children under these circumstances is full time parenting. If fathers were equally responsible for the responsibility of raising children- I believe they would be way more cautious and intentional about the way they manage their lives. They would also be better men. They miss out on the bond and the wisdom we gain in parenting. I honestly believe this is why black women are so advanced today because we had to do so much internal work to help our kids and live a better life. We never get breaks on anything!

[@blackspider1405]

It's really crazy. She may have been loud, but her points were valid. Ole boy was worse to me.

[@kimchi_bokum_bap_baby]

You beautiful angel. I was looking for common sense here, and only found you and one other.. so far. It's sad to see people cherry picking and not actually listening to both sides. Nothing is ever black and white. Everything is grey.

[@letstalkctnwitheverette9203]

@@kimchi_bokum_bap_baby FACTS! God bless you!

[@kimchi_bokum_bap_baby]

@@letstalkctnwitheverette9203 God be with you as well 💝

[@booksandbeauty4381]

“Why you asking me for stuff I am your child’s mother?” Right on! She is raising your kid what else do you want her to do

[@adonysha]

She may not be dressed appropriately for court but I'm glad she won. He wrong for not paying her back n then tried to say the money he sent for his daughter was the repayment. Oh no buddy you wrong for that smh

[@gabrielleelliott500]

He all the way wrong

[@EveEve-vw4pr]

THANK YOU

[@rasalghul1263]

i like the way she was dressed maybe not for court but for it was OK hahaha

[@rickybobbydastar6534]

She has a Phatty nice looking , I’ll hit but that’s it. Dude wrong for not paying her back and selling her a car that ain’t even last 6 months for 6500. Why does a 16 yr old need 1000 dollars for her birthday idk. However women should understand men go through hardships as well & may not have it financially all the time. Still nice of JM to pay off his college debt so he can get his degree . I think she tried to have patience wit him but was just over it by now .

[@BIGROB100k]

Thank you for spoiling the case for me

[@astrids6803]

95 % are talking about the way she’s dressed to court ….me just listening to the case.

[@feebee1451]

You....😂 I was tripping off the math 2010 they started dating in 5th grade ... But she got pregnant in 2004 at 14 yrs old .... maybe she was nervous.

[@genecg84]

@@feebee1451 That's what I just said cause I was like I don't know if I'm hearing right but I think I just heard her said she graduated 2010 then she was a 5th grade and then she got pregnant 2004 which absolutely makes no sense at all and plus it's virtually impossible because you can't be in 5th grade 2010 and then you got pregnant 2004 but you're 14 that doesn't work either something is wrong or she's getting the years mixed up but I don't understand how you don't remember when you got pregnant that doesn't make sense Or maybe she's on drugs or drunk one of those 2 but I don't know But I just know I was paying attention to what she said the 1st time I don't get her story Because even Jeremy was kind of confused he was like what's going on with this situation he is confused himself

[@channelthree9424]

Regardless of how well she proved her case, she still dressed inappropriately.

[@madmemadhouseme4885]

It is for the club and she looks good. Not at all court attire, yet, it was allowed. The staff could and should have chosen respect for the court and viewers over ratings and putting on a show. All that banging on the podium is absurd to allow it to carry on. Judge is losing his hearing and his ability to honor his place on the bench.

[@madmemadhouseme4885]

Onset dementia is what I been seeing.

[@SpiffyPenguin]

The way he was talking, it sounded like he was upset that she didn’t ask other men to pay for his child. If she had more fathers to deal with, they should only be paying for their children. It doesn’t matter if she doesn’t have to pay rent- YOU have to pay for YOUR child.

[@mslah32]

EXACTLY! I can tell your mother raised you right!

[@anaizferris9561]

Judge knows what it is

[@FrazJJ]

Exactly!

[@ashleyj7011]

💯

[@dominiquelane9364]

Okay I thought it was just me that caught this what he said like just because she had kids by somebody else that he can stop supporting his child he's delusional

[@mariannehappiness2227]

OUR JUDGE MATHIS is GREAT,helping young people to finish their EDUCATION.Well DONE JUDGE.

[@shelocsher2396]

I’m stuck on the fact that her parents didn’t realize she was 7 months pregnant 😣. Nobody was raising her smh. On another note, her club outfit has me rolling 😩😂😂

[@QCKrowns]

Looked for this comment…7 while months!!

[@XELALOVE]

It could happen- especially when your a teenager… body don’t really change until the end

[@voinceeharris9861]

I got pregnant at 17. My parents didn't find out until I was 7 months pregnant. I was a tomboy and wore baggy clothes, they didn't suspect anything. IT HAPPENS EVEN IN GOOD HOMES.

[@briesharnellern6905]

My parents didn’t know until I was 7 months as well. I was 16

[@victoriasaiditalot]

My mother didn’t find out til I went into labor.

[@cRee_81]

Really girl... that was the only dress you could find for Court 😒

[@scottrogue946]

Very much “act up you can get snatched up” tease

[@mzfancy4767]

@Shakira Evans I disagree @Ree B is pretty. Both are actually.

[@cRee_81]

@@mzfancy4767 thank you😌I said nothing about her looks...wrong dress choice yes.

[@HiiiBr33d]

@@cRee_81 lmao ppl so childish 😂

[@coreyfulton520]

👀🍬🍭

[@averyterry2]

One problem they don’t have is “projection” problems. They are LOUD.😭

[@shesuniqueinherownwaybenja7647]

🤣🤣🤣

[@payableondeath9091]

major turn off NGL

[@TommieGun71]

GHETTO!

[@mzfancy4767]

This comment here 🤣

[@corneliusfarrell8673]

Shit mostly it’s her the plaintiff

[@jazmynjohnson1060]

Despite everything else in the case, I liked how the judge is willing to pay off the credits in order for the defendant to finish school. What a blessing, love to see it 😊

[@YoungHaveNot]

That nigga lying lol

[@toniwesley4467]

Ok! Let me make a fake case so I can go on the show & get a free education

[@jazmynjohnson1060]

@@YoungHaveNot 😂😂😂😂😂

[@wordplay1415]

That’s awesome

[@brandenvibez6051]

@@YoungHaveNot Woooowwwwwwwwwwww, No fait in our brotha I see smh.. Quick to believe the negative but slow to believe the positive

[@1Prettypinke84]

Some people aren't taught. Yes Sis is inappropriately dressed for court and loud🤣🤣 but the way she spoke on her daughter and spoke highly of him until he stopped helping shows great character.

[@13outsidecenter13]

She is smart. If she had a different childhood she could have been anything in this world she wanted to be

[@joelabarbera26]

​@@13outsidecenter13 ee

[@britnyflournoy9217]

Yes, the dress is bad for court but y’all need to remember she dressed for TV! 😂❤️

[@andrewanderson5948]

I've seen women look beautiful in less revealing clothes.

[@conniemoore4801]

Ikr🤣🤣👌🏿

[@Fannyyyyy_]

She cute too tho 🤣😍

[@housekrell8811]

Plenty of woman look beyond beautiful without trying to dress like a prostitute. Not a good look on her. And surely doesnt say much when men look at her other than easy.

[@mssweethaki5613]

Exactly, this is entertainment tv ppl focused on the wrong thing.....anyway Judge Mathis probably liked it 🤣🤣🤣

[@standmccray1037]

I could be wrong but until he started playing games she appeared to be a cool baby momma

[@kimchi_bokum_bap_baby]

Yessss. I was looking for the common sense in this thread. Thank you madam 👏🏽👏🏽

[@tinawalker5335]

She is definitely cool. She loaned him money, he’s not on child support and she said since the daughter is 16 she doesn’t get involved. She then backed him up when judge offered to help him with school. She’s solid.

[@sheenaperez1882]

Exactly

[@nolimitstix9598]

@@tinawalker5335 she not y’all up here speaking on stuff y’all dont know that’s my uncle I went threw his phone she was giving him death threats

[@itstatystoopid1538]

​@@nolimitstix9598 if I gave a man a million chances and he betrayed me time and time again I'd have much more for him than idle threats. You can't go around hurting people and expect them not to retaliate. Be careful who you cross cause not everyone is built to handle deceit gracefully.

[@Hi-Felicia]

Yes, Mr. Mathis! Mentorship is so important! Thank you for inspiring me and so many others. I have been watching this show since I was about 16. I'm 36 now.

[@Whatthafukc]

Bye Felicia

[@angelicfaithh2664]

I’ve been watching since I was 10 n I’m in my late 20s

[@Hi-Felicia]

@@angelicfaithh2664 He raised us! lol

[@jasminelauryn8926]

I feel the same way, he’s taught me so much and helped me deal with a lot too. I started watching when I was 12 I’m 24 now.

[@paulyejr]

You sure you 36 and not 46? Bless your heart. That is a rough 36 😁😁😁

[@Claudia-M]

I remember one time on Judge Judy when another lady also thought it was ok to wear inappropriate clothing to court. Judy made her go and find something to cover herself up with before they started lol 😄

[@donnaduncan3762]

I remember that case as well. JJ did that on several occasions.

[@NubianP6]

I was going to post the SAME thing! Judy Judy’s staff would have put a sweater on that real quick! This is court, not the club!

[@Chosenones572]

I was thinking of that case when i saw her lol

[@uniqwiab8679]

Yeah somebody in the back should have had something else for her to put on at least to cover up the breasts and the tats

[@rookforce1]

That's all you got from this case ? She needs her damn tubes tied.

[@Baddestchik911]

This is why you put them on child support. As the child grows so does their expenses. It should not matter if she has more than one child's father or children. Your business is to make sure your child is maintained

[@Diiverse]

Can't stand men who think like that 😩

[@rickybobbydastar6534]

@Lunarlove why would u want to put any man on Child support at all ? Atleast give the father a chance Geesh ! In this case he did her wrong with the car and loaned him 2k, so she was just fed up by this time . But JM looked out for him .

[@noah_am_i]

Everybody got something negative to say about Jasmine, I’ll say she is very emotionally intelligent, and beautiful inside and out. She radiates passion and heart. These two, him with his career in criminal justice, will go far 🌟💙

[@blaqsolra5957]

Blessings too you judge Mathis. I hope he passes the vetting process and you can change his life.🙏🏾💪🏿🖤❤️💚⚖️

[@intensepassion3382]

This reminds me of my college days, when I'd see students dressed in class like they were at a club for dancing. Dressing for the occasion is something we need to teach again.

[@Renrens-LionessofJudah]

100% agree. People are forgetting how to dress accordingly. It's becoming so ridiculous. Her outfit is screaming out 'please look at me'.

[@mythiac696]

@@Renrens-LionessofJudah plus her breast aren't even in the right place in the dress..SMH

[@rosiesrelaxationchannel4202]

I went to register my brother for middle school and a young lady had on an outfit that could have fit into one hand. The principal called her mother to talk about the dress code and the mother showed up in the same outfit just a different color and asked the principal why was wrong with what her daughter had on. He just sent the young lady home and shook his head. It was really sad.

[@Zoraabdulla]

She’s dressed up for tv

[@lisasmith742]

Amen

[@F8talDosage]

As if the dress wasn't inappropriate....Then had the nerve to take her shoes off 🤦🏾‍♀️

[@destineemq571]

I peeped that too at the end.. smh

[@Simslottoandslots]

Shoes probably were too small but her friends told her to wear them because they were cute!

[@2BOLD4U]

Why is he mad at her for asking for money to support HIS child? He brings up her other children's father, but she isn't asking for money to support them only for the child that they created.

[@sabrina14216]

I wonder if he still wants her

[@goodvibes6340]

@@sabrina14216 he does lol

[@derekah.3359]

Why loan 2k in money to a man that already owes you money? You all have a child together. He had already proven his lack of responsibilities and disloyalty. There was no need to deal any further.

[@staceysherene5488]

He didn’t owe her before that silly

[@saturnladee110]

​@@staceysherene5488he was NEGLECTFUL to his child FINANCIALLY. silly 🙄 he owed her daughter 6 years of financial neglect at the time of the loan..

[@aaprii333]

Jazmine needs to learn APPROPRIATE COURT ATTIRE!😒🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️

[@jasonito23]

She need appropriate attire period. I can't think of a place where what she's wearing is appropriate.

[@aaprii333]

@@jasonito23 C'mon Fam! That PeptoBismol colored jumpsuit MIGHT BE appropriate @ the after hrs spot in west bumble fuxk deep in the trenches dwn south somewhere!🤣🤣🤣

[@jasonito23]

@@aaprii333 PeptoBismol!!!! 😂😂

[@Trich-nf2zf]

I coulda have swore that outfit was see through when they showed her putting on her shoes at the end. But she does have a nice body lol

[@aball7654]

She looks Nasty

[@shanikaayanna9767]

She had the nerve to say “what you say judged, I couldn’t hear you!” Cause you ain’t stopped yelling since you walked in here!!

[@nakesiaclowers7482]

😂😂😂

[@GetRight2itPodcast]

True! And how do u come to court dress like that with your boobs everywhere smh

[@tmacrooks31]

exactly everybody worried about how she dressed, i'm like why she yelling in court on national tv?

[@shayshay15ism]

Im at “judged”😩🤣

[@shanikaayanna9767]

@@shayshay15ism that’s what she said tho. 😂

[@mrcamouflage]

All of that damn yelling got on my last nerve

[@cosmicK9786]

@@simonc1039 judge Mathis understands that most of these people are how they are because of their environments. I think that makes him a better Judge.. because if he didn’t have good character judgement, then he wouldn’t be that good of a judge imo.

[@cosmicK9786]

@@simonc1039 I feel that… but sometimes you just know when someone doesn’t get it.. it’s easier to let them be them, than to start an argument about it… not saying she’s that type of person, but I don’t blame him for ignoring it lol

[@misterbee66]

There is nothing wrong with that woman; she had every right to ask for her money back. If I were her I would have done the same exact thing. She could have bought another car by now however.

[@ReignThePain_]

Did she say “I know how to goo goo”? 😂😂😂 this was hilarious

[@chermontamoore3665]

Yes and then said "emotial dismiss" 😆😅😆

[@kwasiaking1989]

She was beyond unnecessarily LOUD. Talking over the judge. But he allowed it.

[@loniel.6595]

The judge didn't ALLOW it. She lost her emotional distress claim. Punitive damages.🤔

[@housekrell8811]

Yeah, I was very surprised with how much he let her walk all over the court. I guess cleavage works well on him.

[@freereign911]

He allowed it because of her dress😹🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

[@getin3949]

It seems to be part of their culture and he's probably so used to it. I would shut it down NOW!

[@simpkins18]

Which is rare! Normally they would have been thrown out if the courtroom due to the way she was carrying on.

[@amyalvar]

Judge Mathis must've taken his meds this day. He allowed the plaintiff to scream all over during the episode. So annoying. While others say something and he dismisses the case right away. BS!

[@minae9935]

@onliiine 😭🤣🤣🤣

[@whocanitbeifitaintme]

Cause her attire

[@nombinintlahla8325]

His back and feet didn't hurt😂😂😂

[@elaineroyal2785]

No. There is a level of ignorance that you just NEVER address! Good, bad, or indifferent. Let her look like that ALL BY HERSELF!

[@lilliewalker8879]

She got that dress on...JM is OK with that dress she has on

[@keysha3137]

3rd. Wrong blouse for a court show. cute, but not ideal. Oh my badd a dress? Still a no. She got her venues crossed.

[@Renrens-LionessofJudah]

True

[@chanelhopeful5336]

She comes to court dressed like they just kicked her out the club, poor thing.

[@mariannehappiness2227]

Parents has to educate young children ,especially young girls to stand up better for themselves,to be more assertive at a young age and to say NO to sex,

[@isaidwhatisaid2750]

14???? Where was her parents.

[@vapaperboi]

U act like this is a new thing..especially Chicago it happens at 12

[@POFs_Tuxedomask]

Fuckin too

[@pleasantserenity9648]

@@vapaperboi Its not new but its still unsettling to find out children are having children.

[@pratkier]

I'm glad judge Mathis wants to help him. Sometimes a little help is the thing that can change someone's whole path. Especially since he seems to be invested in bettering himself.

[@JM-cx6ze]

I like that she admitted that he was very smart and always has been smart! And secondly I feel as though they still like each other to a certain extent

[@journeysalkebulan]

Such true words! 💜

[@kellym9301]

His mama had BEEN helping him with HIS CHILD while he acts like he's not the parent. Then he comes to court and JM pays his bills. Smh.

[@pratkier]

@@kellym9301 Yeah but the only way to make it better is to make it better. Him not having an education isn't gonna help anyone in the situation the best thing for those kids is for these parents to become better people and this is a start.

[@cilla4000]

Tf.. they allowed her to wear and breast / skin showing in court! This is ridiculous

[@mboyd692]

West siiiiiide

[@kayangvue30]

If she's dressed like that in court I can only imagine how she dresses on a daily basis.

[@suggaplumooh5386]

🤣🤣🤣

[@DC45193]

Chile...she know what time it is. she trying meet her next suitor.

[@chiquanababers1825]

I thought the same thing

[@coramaejennings7005]

Shi like this‼️😂😂

[@anthonyjones5551]

That ass poke out back there

[@simmsation21]

These creatures are even wearing eye lashes in court!! Wtf man If you were to go to war these are the people's freedoms your fighting for and perhaps dying for. Let that sink in.. Look at this mess.

[@destineemq571]

That dress is inappropriate for court!!🤦🏾‍♀️

[@shesuniqueinherownwaybenja7647]

My thoughts exactly

[@destineemq571]

@Shakira Evans just saying.. don't get offended!

[@HelloKitty-sh5jn]

She was trying to be seen ...smh.

[@aball7654]

Yes, I wish she would stop clapping her nails it's irritating

[@Proverbspsalms]

She wouldn’t have walked into Judge judys court like that

[@shesuniqueinherownwaybenja7647]

She looks a hot mess, she didn’t realize she had court today??

[@bosslady1936]

She working girls lol

[@shesuniqueinherownwaybenja7647]

@@bosslady1936 apparently 🤣

[@39Missmel]

She going to the club afterwards

[@kw4838]

She looks cute

[@livingdollnextdoor]

@@kw4838 right ion like how when it's comes to women everything a problem like d@mn since when y'all became a judge🧐🤣?

[@fmc2973]

"I was in college in school; I was in school in college" 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@sunshinelove1456]

This whole thing just rachet!😂😂😂💀💀💀💀

[@Baddestchik911]

You were able to attend college because you didn't have the burden of being the PRIMARY/ CUSTODIAL parent of your child. You didn't even have a court mandated financial obligation. You just did what you can when you can.

[@monica62888]

This is true but this is another reason us women need to start having children within marriages. This baby mama/ baby daddy thing is not it 🙃

[@Baddestchik911]

@@monica62888 ​ a lot of black women are splitting 50/50 or breadwinners in their relationships. Statistically speaking, black women are more likely to end up in poverty when married to black men according to the Brooking institute. Also only 48% of black men get married. Marriage is not a guarantee that he cares for his child. Many don't.

[@monica62888]

@@Baddestchik911 No, black women are more likely to end up in poverty having children before marriage and/or education. Children only hold you back, especially if you have no help. Now a child is most likely to succeed being born within a solid marriage than some girl that had children at 15yrs old, or young adult with no education, and no man to help. Some women succeed in those circumstances but that's not the rule. Not ALL women succeed, most fail. Look at the state of our people. Us women can control our fertility and stop getting pregnant by dead beats; that is what will progress our communities more than anything 💯

[@sheenaperez1882]

@@monica62888 you can be married and still be a single parent (meaning having no help and doing majority of everything by yourself dealing with the kids). You can also be married and be in poverty. I hear women in my group say it all of the time. Also, nowadays marriage aren't a guarantee that the kid will turn out better or even you as a woman would come out better because most aren't even marrying for the right reasons, it's a lot of slacking, and also because most black women are the breadwinners nowadays. But I agree with "solid" marriage part but most marriages today aren't solid if we are going to be honest. I'm happily married 😉 but my mother wasn't (father was very active in my life tho) and I turned out way better than my most of my friends who had parents that were married. One of homegirl hate the fact that my life is better than hers. because my circumstances were way different than hers growing up, she feel like i should be in her shoes and her in mine. she feel I should be under/beneath her because of that and it bothers her that I have the things she feel she should have and I shouldn't (She's expressd all of this indirectly before).. But once again her parents marriage wasn't solid and she got neglected in a lot of areas because the problems her " married " parents were having. I get your point tho but what you are saying aren't always reality in today's world.

[@monica62888]

@@sheenaperez1882 I'm not reading all of that, the point is marriage is the best thing to do if you want a fulfilled family and want to build a child's moral character and confidence. Of course not all house holds will succeed, that's life, but it is MORE LIKELY to succeed and it would be great for Black Americans to build a foundation for our children regardless of anything instead of just having these children with DEAD BEATS without a thought. You have much more protection in a marriage and rights than just being a baby mama. Black American women have the highest rates of having children with no fathers In the home 😕 and that is not good for our culture in the long run. Our race will always be behind other races mainly for that reason alone. Not creating a FAMILY for our children. Not choosing the right man to have children with beforehand. Not having children with men that WANT to have children with you... and so on..

[@araineacutebrownnurse7315]

I pray our community gets better with family planning ,parenting and marriage…otherwise, it is a vicious cycle. The plague of single mothers. So sad.

[@ivonned32]

It is sad because women from the 50s uses the excuse of "back then we did not have this or that"..... We really have no excuses to be some dumb and have sex and not use protection. I dont under estimate the intelligence of people and these two should have known better.

[@Jsarmy87124]

In all communities we have these pb

[@thematerialisticreview]

.. kinda sad that she continued to have children and he went to work on his career. I'd think 1 child at 14 would make anyone work so much harder to have a career.

[@lifewithlilrebaa]

who said she isn’t successful, she gotta be doing something he borrowing money from her ?

[@DC45193]

@@lifewithlilrebaa thank you! and it sounded like her other children were by another man who she said take care of his kids. like ok young and dumb at 14 but who doesn't have another baby in they 20s and 30s. please

[@sneakdiss5107]

@Marrissa Edwards she loaned him part of her tax money lol 3,4 kids is like 9 to 12,000$

[@lifewithlilrebaa]

@@sneakdiss5107 they didn’t say nothing about no tax money. & even so who cares it’s her money! She didn’t have to give him none

[@giannathedford74]

He went to go work on his career but at the same time stopped taking care of his child, when he should be doing both if anything. Taking care of your child is way more important, a degree can wait.

[@90sbaby4lyfe7]

She said "I know how to goo goo" bro! I fucking hollered! 🤣🤣🤣🤣😭😭😭

[@justjared2009]

What does that even mean? I am so thankful for my sheltered life. Geez!

[@smileyjones1742]

@@justjared2009 she said “I know how to google” lmaaooo 😂😂 but it sounds like goo goo

[@queenb2713]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@NubianP6]

😂🤣🤣

[@90sbaby4lyfe7]

@@justjared2009 😭😭😭

[@asiaanderson5556]

Who dress is she wearing? The sleeves damn near cut off her blood circulation. Why is she all over the podium like that? The nails clicking this is ridiculous😂

[@conniemoore4801]

🤣🤣🤣

[@kerrywhite5253]

Lol @ "Clicking nails". 🤣🤣

[@lillian9799]

😂😂

[@ms.goshay8713]

🤣🤣🤣

[@kimberleyparnell4460]

Ghetto fabulous 👌

[@renee7528]

She has excellent date recall. Meanwhile I struggling to remember all of my cousins birthdays lol!

[@Rose-pt1sx]

Now why did she come to court like that?! Lord I just got second hand embarrassment for her.

[@gabrielleelliott500]

This court case embarrassing I just can't with it too much

[@Rio-uv1gs]

Her: "oh he's always been smart" As soon she realizes the judge is giving out money to help him...🤣🤣

[@HelloKitty-sh5jn]

She knows how to goo goo..wth 🤣🤣

[@nicksaltor7047]

Or she’s just supporting somebody. She could’ve lied .

[@peacefulgirl23]

What's wrong with her supporting him ?

[@sasharose2560]

@@HelloKitty-sh5jn i done said it 10x already. 🤣🤣🤣

[@asiaanderson5556]

Lol idk it seemed like he was lying about college

[@papalegbasson2447]

I hope they do a follow up story on him because I think he's lying. Just like he lied about what that $1,000 was for!

[@NubianP6]

💯

[@DreamsInBlue]

Yes, he is definitely lying. He came up with all that off the dome. Dummy said she has more kids and bd, why is she asking me for money? BECAUSE YOU HAVE A KID WITH HER TO TAKE CARE OF, STUPID!

[@smmilton32]

😂😂😂

[@sha8102]

I said the same thing!!! 😩

[@Bloombaby99]

Judge Mathis let him off easy by offering to help him. I really hope he does what he says. Not everybody can get help like that.

[@justjared2009]

How is this outfit appropriate for court? 🙄😒 Judge Judy would have regulated her.

[@lashawnbeautiful1692]

Right.... she definitely look like she’s about to audition for a city girls video or something....oh no baby🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️

[@nikkig1181]

She looks good

[@MrsFearlessVP]

I was saying the same thing when she walked her ratchet behind in

[@justjared2009]

@@nikkig1181 Generally speaking yes, but this is NOT for court. Is that not obvious to you?

[@nikkig1181]

@@justjared2009 she’s not hurting anyone tho, her outfit doesn’t matter

[@ItsChrisWorld]

For her to wear that to court 😣

[@lifewithlilrebaa]

I don’t like how y’all talking about how she dressed but ignoring the fact she must be doing good since he borrowing from her 💅🏽

[@kimchi_bokum_bap_baby]

💁🏻‍♀️

[@AmarraQ]

💯💯💯💯EXACTLY

[@Ash2beauty]

But we see that money doesn’t purchase class.

[@lifewithlilrebaa]

@@Ash2beauty girl stew on tv not real court number 1 & 2 who care y’all care more about her than a dead beat chileeee bye!

[@AmarraQ]

@@Ash2beauty what’s classy is the fact she don’t need him for nothing he the one needs class..running around owing ur bm🤔and she the one got the kids😤she might can purchase class if he pay her back with his bum a**🙄

[@missmona9731]

I really hope he accepts the judge's offer and that we can see the results of his hard work. 🙌🏾

[@stagename1031]

No he is a cheater, scam artist and a liar.

[@30myisha]

@@stagename1031 sweetheart he's my family. Watch your mouth

[@Secretelover12]

@@30myisha LMFAOOOOO tell ya fam to stop cheating, lying, and scamming then!

[@Proverbspsalms]

@@Secretelover12 🤣😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@Proverbspsalms]

@@stagename1031 then he will make a perfect lawyer

[@LaurenT325]

I work in a court and all I can think about is how can she wear that in a court proceeding. Wow. 😫

[@KayKudiwa]

Exactly what I was thinking

[@johndough2125]

This is a TV show

[@vapaperboi]

Looks good

[@justjared2009]

Yes! Thank you! JM should have said something! 🙄😒

[@LaurenT325]

@@johndough2125 and that is a courtroom. She's beautiful and should wear that to a club.

[@shanikaayanna9767]

Teach y’all kids how to dress appropriately for different occasions and venues… that’s all I’m gonna say.

[@Reezy12333]

That’s a grown woman lol no excuses

[@andrewanderson5948]

She a grown woman, Ive seen women dress like this at a funeral no cap. She know exactly what she's doing

[@2BOLD4U]

She said that she knows how to use Google. I wonder why she didn't use it to know what she should've worn in court.

[@sereneamani1713]

Dress, speak, and behave. Public places vs. your livingroom

[@Proverbspsalms]

@@2BOLD4U she called it goo goo

[@charlesbanks7715]

Respect judge Mathis and salute this man for wanting more and willing to put in the needed work to excel

[@Valencia5_11]

Not me crying bc Judge Mathis offered to mentor him. I hope and pray he wasn’t lying about his schooling 🤞🏾

[@nettyspeaks]

Him smiling and licking his lips make me sick

[@asiaanderson5556]

Lol

[@jasonito23]

She got up. Knew she was going to court and actually decided that this was the appropriate outfit to wear. In her mind, "I'm gonna walk out there...tattoos straight blazin'!"

[@kishathompson5024]

She has no class lol so she would consider this to be appropriate

[@YayaElkhatib]

Maybe she don’t know no better. Ever thought of that. She had a baby at 14

[@jasonito23]

@@YayaElkhatib - of course she doesn't know any better. Otherwise she wouldn't have worn it. After reading these comments she will know better.

[@moniquespight8667]

She trying to get look at me credit

[@moniquespight8667]

And then had to take them shoes off just GHETTO FABULOUS

[@DeeluxyLife]

She's kinda annoying 😶 "16 years!! 16 years!!"

[@Smiley-gt8re]

Who comes to court dressed like that? She know she should of put on a shirt that covers her chest smh 🤦🏾‍♀️ I’m embarrassed for her

[@callmecuban1384]

Gtf.

[@TheEssence9626]

bro im from chicago thotties be outside its cold af on foe nem snow and everything with a dress or some shorts on and some uggs

[@Proverbspsalms]

Well, she was knocked up at 14. Nobody taught her anything

[@Bbyb00gangsta]

Fact

[@chnkytheartist3654]

Its a blouse stop hating she dressed right I've seen shit on here n mf was barely dressed y'all hate on dark skin women who speaks up for themselves now hust it!

[@chanelhopeful5336]

And ain’t no way this bum father is on his way to be a judge, look how he played the mother of his children.

[@vitalee2585]

Everybody on what she got on but barely any comments about him not taking care of his child he's a deadbeat and yall worried about her outfit SMH

[@NubianP6]

I think the outfit is inappropriate too, but I COMPLETELY agree that he is a sorry deadbeat, and that fact seems to have been lost in the sauce of this case. If anybody deserves college tuition, it’s his child!

[@alexismclean7667]

AGREED! Sis @Vita Lee they hating badly like come on this is a teaching moment when friends I used to know didn’t what to wear to an interview or any other place I used to help and direct them the right way

[@derekah.3359]

I beg the differ to my comment. But they are BOTH stupid. She thinks too high of herself, is controlling and thinks she isnt wrong. The way she is dressed in court is just a symptom. Her loud talking, loaning a man 2k AFTER HE ALREADY OWES YOU PAPER & lack of interaction in his daughter's life, are all signs of the type of person he and she is. Dude doesnt think much of the mother of his child. He evidently thinks she is gullible and a stupid bimbo with big boobs as to why he even tempted her knowing he owed her money. She said she invested in him to help but folks like her invest expecting things in return. They control or lock collars on people with money. Because that is what she is about- money. Part of his problem is he is jealous and resentful she layed up with other men and had other children. 9/10 times after he left the state he was messing with other women and may also have additional children.

[@AmarraQ]

💯💯

[@lorealrisien1436]

Bc she looks good females hate to see it

[@mashondaknight9132]

Why would you come to court dressed like that looks like she's going to the club. Both are very ratchet

[@andrewanderson5948]

Advertising herself to thirsty people watching the show

[@PrettyYellaTV]

Chicago females do that

[@mzfancy4767]

@@PrettyYellaTV Ur funny as hell in a clownish way. 🤡

[@Proverbspsalms]

@@PrettyYellaTV that’s what a few people in the comments said

[@HiiiBr33d]

@@andrewanderson5948 she probably wasn't taught about dress etiquette. If the girl out here having sex at 14.. why do you all think she is gonna be aware of her dam clothing

[@Corduroy66]

The Judge could have had the staff find something more appropriate for her to wear. Judge Judy does this often. The eyes of Justice may be blind but we aren't. How inappropriate does one have to be before someone says no to the outfit?

[@jakiebrown7764]

Cuz Judge Mathew likes what he see. He ain't worryn bout nuttn

[@jakiebrown7764]

Judge Mathis 😁

[@jakiebrown7764]

It's ugly anyway smh

[@mrshappilymarried1]

Judge Judy definitely would've given her a jacket!

[@ImSwisherSweeter]

Paternity court is the only one I see that make sure their hair, makeup, and wardrobe is on point.

[@K_Cole0128]

Why did he take the money form the mother of his child and sell her that bad ass car ? He should be ashamed of himself

[@khanyisilekubheka5967]

He's a user and selfish. Just taking her for a fool Smh.

[@butta_baby3772]

Thank you judge Mathis for helping that young man. We need more like you ! ❤️

[@Shesnoangell]

He definitely was lying about college lmaooo.

[@jasonito23]

Judge Judy would comment on her attire as soon as the case started. Probably would have covered her up before appearing.

[@natalieharris8602]

One can tell she’s never been to court before.

[@YoungHaveNot]

Or school

[@elaineroyal2785]

One can tell she hadn't been many places period.

[@maestralive3493]

the shirt says it all

[@ilovesports5468]

Good. Not a criminal. Outfit is terrible

[@jaredlhulum]

Isn't that a good thing? Who wants to go to court?

[@jefferyhartwell9102]

This mother doesn't play, give me my money

[@prettiilexii672]

How did she hide a pregnancy for 7 months from her parents at 14 years old?????? It's nearly impossible for an adult to hide a pregnancy.

[@natashabobb6859]

actually depends on body type i was 7 months i didnt show till then no sickness most cravings mcchicken sandwiches

[@juicieleo813]

You'd be surprised. I know someone whose child hid it literally until she was in labor. She called her mother and said "Mom, I have something to tell you. Please don't be mad. I'm pregnant". Mom asked when is the bad due and her response was I'm in labor now. 🤦🏾‍♀️ Before you ask, yes they lived in the same household and no I don't understand how she didn't notice

[@sheenaperez1882]

Depends, I didn't start showing until like 7 months. My mom didn't start showing with my brother until she was about to have him.

[@rakeishalamar7977]

Possible, my mom went all the way till she went in labor with me and my grandma didn’t know anything nor have a clue until she went in labor

[@kimberlymcneill7283]

Everything they said was a lie & a terrible script . They were NOT in the 5th grade in no damn 2010 & she didn’t lose her virginity in 2004 either, they both goofy asf for comin on the show with that dumb ass script and it’s crazy how nobody in the comments are talking about it 😂

[@tammika1111]

Wait a minute, she got her shoes off in court like she in the club??? lol. My God.

[@HARRIS4276]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@Passion85031]

Omg just noticed 🤦🏾‍♀️

[@tammika1111]

@@Passion85031 lol. I don't think people caught that part.

[@ooakRAREGEM]

Why did the judge allow her to act like that in court? He's gone off on people and dismissed cases for much less. Embarrassing

[@karenk3458]

Yes lord I thought it was just me and she wasn’t dressed appropriately

[@kishathompson5024]

Females who look and act this way make multiple babies and continue this sad cycle …

[@ave8863]

I was thinking the same thing he has picks.

[@queenb2713]

Exactly...just acting like she doesn't know how to talk....smh

[@moniquespight8667]

To me he allows the ones he's attracted to ... to act a fool

[@AngieMartine23]

Everyone is talking about her outfit..maybe her parents didn't teach her these things. Hence why she was pregnant at 14, no real teaching going on in the home.

[@jasminemayne2013]

Are you defending her decisions because that's why we're talkin about it is very inappropriate so are we not supposed to say anything or bring up the topic to raise Awareness?

[@Jussme-l3d]

Bur she is anadukt now so there is no excuse.

[@urluvizmyluv1999]

Sex has nothing to do with what she's been taught at home. We all often do things contrary to what we're taught. She's old enough however to be aware of what's appropriate in different settings.

[@coachjohn2940]

@Jerseyking321 her body doesn’t look that good bro .. niggas will hit just about anything 🥱😅

[@relaxinginpeace1310]

That's not fair to her parents. Kids don't do everything right. Our kids won't either but to say it reflects teaching in the home isn't fair. Parents can't be with their kids all the time especially those who have to work. Alot of kids act completely different when they're at school amongst peers as opposed to when they're at home.

[@leyahruizdeloreto6420]

She going right to the club after this!

[@mikey6679]

They should of made her change her shirt you in court boo boo 😂 smh 🤦🏾‍♀️

[@lizethortiz2964]

she was barefoot the whole time .. she putting on shoes at the end.

[@keysha3137]

🤦🏽‍♀️

[@fmc2973]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@tdebose1770]

Embarrassing 😂🤣😂😂

[@meganbranscomb7012]

😭😭😂😂 that's country

[@meeka7067]

She got on my nerves with her loud mouth 🤦🏾‍♀️

[@leannbuggs888]

Yes. Mine too

[@kimberleyparnell4460]

And her club like dress code. Ridiculous

[@cherishlawson2253]

@@kimberleyparnell4460 oh pleaseee😂😂 you dress worse

[@toyalasha5421]

That’s great Judge Mathis you’re going to mentor him🙏🏾

[@ToriOfTheNile]

Y’all really sitting here talking about this woman’s clothes that the judge clearly could not care less about, instead of talking about the man’s dusty derelict behavior, and how stupid she was to treat this pos so well 😐. Y’all need to get your priorities straight

[@randallbacon2250]

We can do both. If this was an actual courtroom, she'd be reprimanded

[@alisamichelle2012]

Judge Mathis is the purest soul ever!! He’s my favorite judge by far! He has a big heart! Always helping others to be successful! ❤️

[@gabrielleelliott500]

He will always be my favorite always loved judge Mathis you right

[@dacyberman0929]

Yoo they always come thru clutch with an episode during lunch time #LUNCHBREAKGANG💪🏾

[@elaineroyal2785]

Right! 😆 Cause I'm on lunch too!

[@toniwesley4467]

Lol judge Mathis talking to himself while they arguing is too funny

[@lakita619]

😂

[@timmietimE]

😂

[@Sunshine134chick]

Look at the defendant just grinning 😁 he’s a fool 😂

[@The.Living.Well.Christian.C]

I caught that 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@LibertBelle-dl6xp]

Looking mighty buffoonish honestly.

[@sevenmoore9208]

Judge Judy would have thrown her out with that outfit on

[@jordanjackson1458]

If he owe u child support why would u give him money

[@TrinTheGoddess]

Her mother didn't know she was 7months preggo?

[@fayeraye]

THAT’S the real question!!!

[@wildfiregirl1556]

My mom would have killed my ass for even thinking about sex.

[@ms.goshay8713]

The lack of the attention from mom reflects in how she speaks and carry herself now too - very sad

[@bj7057]

What on earth is she wearing???

[@mekianeal2898]

She think she going to the club

[@GreekYogurtGranola]

His mom is an enabler, what do you mean if he doesn’t do just come to me but don’t put him on child support…come on Momma, let him be his on man and handle his responsibility.

[@americalove9495]

Thank You.... That's the Problem with Black House Holds... The Man is never held Responsible.🤦

[@SusanFreeman-x5p]

Very inappropriate for court

[@malissacalhoun3608]

I love that, the Judge is helping him. Yes that melts my heart.