Hosting Overnight Guests and Adult Children | TIPS FOR HOSTING + Guest Room Must Haves

[@silvaemilyanwhite]

Wow, if only we had more considerate and thoughtful people like yourself in this world. What a great video. This will be me for my future grown-up children and special guests.

[@mistyaaa]

Tracy I hope your entire family and friends know they won the lottery having you in their life.

[@doctormimi9486]

Agree!!

[@SerenaBea]

Great video! One additional thing I like to do is put the Wi-Fi info and password in the guest room. I put it in a pretty picture frame on the nightstand. Several friends/family have commented that they appreciate it.

[@TracyHensel]

Thats a GREAT idea, Amy! Yes, we get asked all the time what out Wi-Fi info is. Thank you for sharing!

[@HalliGirl145]

My Aunt Shelby always prepared for our visit. A warm snack, comfy robe and slippers, asking about our plans and arranging for fun things to do. I always do my best to replicate her social graces.

[@HalliGirl145]

And I LOVE the fun wallpaper!

[@Jess_Smith0903]

Tracy, can you adopt me as your daughter? 😂 That stay over at your house looks so comfortable and enjoyable! I love how thoughtful you are in every little detail!! ❤️

[@ValentineLissar]

This!!!!

[@teenawiggins123]

You can adopt me too unless you think 61 years old is too old for adoption.

[@emmaspencer3330]

Lol yes book me in! Xx

[@MrDsdssada]

I’m up for adoption as well to a good caring financially stable host 😆. Anyone would luv to be yr guest .

[@sabinajohnson9750]

I love this! My older sister is coming to visit for 10 days and im def going to use your idea of having the clothes shell probably want to borrow already out and ready for her! So smart. I also got two small dressers so she can unpack and not feel stressed digging through her bag every time she needs an outfit!

[@janetsplanet2947]

I can see from one Mom to another how excited you are to have your daughter coming home to visit.

[@pinklovenugget]

Tracy, I would never expect this kind of hospitality if I stayed with my parents - usually it’s me changing my own bed and making dinner for all, but that’s about my family, not you! So, I just wanted to say, you are such an attentive Mum (from 🇬🇧 here!) and the fact that you know what your grown up child that lives in a different state likes, whether it’s the little hospitality pieces or the clothes, shoes, jewellery that she likes, it’s very impressive (even more impressive when you consider you have 5 babies!). I aspire to be so attentive when my children (5 and 7) have left home. Happy holidays. x

[@anastasiaratcliff5143]

That background/wallpaper = 😍

[@karolinamichalowicz2731]

This shows just how happy you are to have her back at home. My mum would give me a towel (that’s it) and I would have to change the bed sheets myself. I do feel inspired and when I have someone staying over, I will certainly get back to this video. X

[@Peridot500]

I value my downtime so much. Thank you for referring to our downtime.

[@moniapadme]

This is easily one of my fave video on this channel. Since Monday when it was published I've seen it more than 20 times already. So inspiring! You took hosting to another level. My parents are coming for Christmas and I'd love to prepare something like this for them. Thank you so much for your channel! I'm a silent fan, don't comment much but definitely watch a lot of your videos a few times, including Instagram Stories. Btw your recent stories about "if you don't like doing something then why bother to do it?" brilliant! I cannot express enough how much that motivated me to just get up and do stuff, be productive. Thank you.

[@TracyHensel]

Thank you Monika! I appreciate the lovely comment! God Bless!

[@MsActor2009]

So comprehensive and considerate. I usually feel so uncomfortable staying with other people.

[@tirtunemdouq]

Amazing video, you have given me plenty of ideas! Especially with the bags for the wines, that's amazing to always have handy!

[@asenrab2270]

I love this. We recently just stayed with family and they said “we cleaned out the dresser” yet there towels stored in the bottom drawers. We didn’t have enough room. The closets were also full. As well as “decorations” on every flat surface. There was nowhere to put our things. Love this video!

[@christinestarr8192]

You really thought of everything for your guests! Great ideas to be ready and welcoming to future guests. Love the calm way you deliver all your videos. Easy to listen to. Thank you for all your work and research you put into them!

[@renaephillips9928]

Hey Tracy. This video is EXTRAORDINARY!! You are so outstanding, very well organized, and truly an inspiration! Happy Thanksgiving to you and your family. Love you!

[@biker5662]

The hostess with the mostest. So considerate!!😍

[@snoopval]

After this, your next video will need to be on coaxing your guests to go back home. Just kidding, but this is lovely. I will utilize these tips.

[@sophiarentzing]

I nearly laughed out loud at that comment. (And I agree Jesus is awesome.)

[@snoopval]

@@sophiarentzing aw, thank you.

[@sammerveille339]

Hahaha! That was very funny

[@Pam-fh4ji]

Wow!! This is so informative...thanks so much...I am going to keep it safely..as a reference point whenever I feel stuck..

[@courtotron1278]

I'm 25 years old and I'm flying back home to my parents house for the month of December and the first thing I asked my Mom for is coffee and my creamer haha.

[@TracyHensel]

Yes, I hear you. My 24 year old has already send me her list: Hazelnut Creamer, Eggs & Everything Bagels are a MUST! Then she proceeded to tell me all her favorite meals she wants me to cook. I love it and cannot wait! Enjoy your time back home, as well.

[@DeborahWalkerXOXO]

@@TracyHensel someone asked if you are looking to adopt! My mum is pretty amazing already but I don't see what's wrong with an extra mum! If you're making a list, I want my name on it!

[@famkespw]

Great ideas, thanks! I already implement several of them myself. One thing you may want to add; I put a cute, laminated card in a picture frame in each of my guest rooms with the home internet log on and password typed on the card. Very important that the information is typed since not everyone can read other's writing. Thanks again and happy holidays to you and your family. Greatly enjoy your videos!!

[@marymarks7046]

It's so nice that you're all prepared for your daughters extended vacation. How nice it will be for you all to be together for the holiday season. Happy Thanksgiving Tracy.

[@francesmcnicholas1117]

Wow, Great tips. Any guest would love their stay with you. Very generous.

[@idk1234897]

This is so helpful! Would love some more homemaking/host tips videos!✨

[@idamantashi8529]

OMG, Tracy! You really are an amazing mother and host. This is a great video. Everyone can learn something from it. I am saving it for future reference.

[@laurab8450]

Tracy, you're the best hostess in the world! ♥ Your daughters must love to be at home! Thank you for all the tips!

[@vickiwalker7286]

Thanks, Tracy. I find that my guests appreciate dresser-top space as well to utilize for their things. Therefore it's important to clear out the items usually on there to accommodate their own things.

[@cynthiagonzalez6167]

This is great information! I love watching this video before guests come over as a reference to polish up on hosting and making them feel comfortable and welcome. Thank you!

[@cemilehampton7187]

You are the best mum! Thank you for this it's so handy, it's a good go to before I have guest coming to stay round. Xx

[@CookCleanAndRepeat]

I have no overnight guests coming to stay, but I loved this video! When the time comes, I hope to be just as amazing of a hostess!

[@amyhensel8092]

You were the hostess with mostest when we stayed at your house a few years ago when we lost power. Great tips! Love the video and the wallpaper 😍

[@TracyHensel]

Thanks Amy! Great memories! You, John and the kids have a Happy Thanksgiving! We will miss you guys this year - especially the Bar Louie After Party!

[@amyhensel8092]

@@TracyHensel we will miss you all too. Will have to get together around Christmas.

[@ManoloObsession]

Oh Tracy, you’ve done it again! You always make me so excited to be a mom! I can’t wait to make such a wonderful and homey experience for my child(ren) when they come home for the holidays in the future. Getting a peek inside your life with grown children gives me so much to look forward to and helps me enjoy the season we’re in without the grief! Yes, baby days are wonderful but life continues to get more fun and beautiful, as you’ve shown here! I love your “gift shop” idea! How thoughtful, convenient, and fun! Thank you so much for sharing! Sending love your way, Alanna Hart

[@TracyHensel]

Thank you for taking the time to leave such a lovely and heartfelt message! God Bless! Have a Happy Thanksgiving and Christmas Season!

[@navaleah8663]

I always have a cabinet in guests rooms that include new and unpackaged hygiene products and accessories so that the tops of dressers are kept clear for anything they may have need to sit something down. This cabinet will also contain things like heating pads, hot water bottle, epsom salt, a pan to soak their feet in, over the counter remedies for stomach problems or headaches, medicated foot powder, lotion, bath bombs, facial scrubs, first aid kit, wrinkle releaser, spot remover and such. I make homemade scrubs and bath bombs, but also makeup remover using a small jar with cotton rounds, no tear baby shampoo and a little water. We have a small dorm type refrigerator in our guest rooms that are enclosed in a cabinet with glassware too. It's on top of that cabinet where fresh snacks are placed on a tray. Each powder room has a hair dryer and three sizes of curling irons (bought that way), bath robes and packaged slippers. When guests from other countries visit I always have a photo frame with emergency numbers and direct dialing codes printed out and next to the phones throughout the house. When picking up guests from the airport, always begin to point out places of possible interest when getting close to home. Usually after they've had a good night's rest from travel, let them drive as you show them where places they want to know of are and always provide a map. It's just a matter of courtesy. I say do better unto others than you would have them do unto you. Others say I run a ten star hotel for my guests. But I'm okay with that.

[@lindawright5984]

You a wonderful mama. You just did a great video on how much you love and appreciate your daughter.

[@keniagomez9808]

This is exactly like my mother, she will prepare the booties for me, the hand creams, and every detail you can think of, not just for me, but for my children too. It is just so thoughtful! I am actually watching this video because she will be coming to my place and I just want to treat her the same fantastic way she does. I took notes! Thanks for this video!

[@kavyaspark]

Your daughter is so lucky to have a thoughtful and amazing mom like you, Tracy! :)

[@TracyHensel]

Thank you!

[@katalinpusztai9718]

Tracy, you are such an inspiring role model! Your girls are so lucky to have you as their mother! 💕

[@colleengifford2553]

I’d pack light too, if I was coming to visit with all this!🙂

[@jerilynnblackburn9464]

Wow your daughter is extremely lucky to have you as a mother ❤️You are so thoughtful to every little detail . Your guest will never want to leave ! Love it & all the great ideas 🥰

[@AdrienneStarr]

Your daughter is so lucky!

[@sharonchetram3266]

Wow! You are such a thoughtful and wonderful mother. I am pretty sure you are just a really nice person. The world needs more individuals like you. 😊

[@TracyHensel]

Thank you Sharon! I appreciate such a thoughtful comment. God Bless!

[@texasstardust6010]

..... I have used a lovely medium to large size basket that's sturdy enough to place things that they may need, .. mouthwash, deodorant, Qtios, fresh washcloths tied up with a pretty ribbon, and fresh towels stacked up in the room as well. I try to provide bottled water, etc, in a small refrigerator in the room , and I put a small Kuerig coffeemaker in the room with cups, etc. That way, they can have coffee whenever they choose, and I do the same thing,...chocolates ! Or something sweet . . I really liked the idea of the wifi password, put into a frame , I read that in one of the comments. :) What an amazing hostess you are !!

[@judithmolnar4528]

I’m rewatching this video while preparing my home for my overnight guests who are going to come next week - thank you very much for sharing your ideas, Tracy! Greetings from Hungary 💜

[@lizzysatterfield8887]

What an Amazing Women you are Tracy!! You are a true Inspiration! ❤️ I have been binge watching your videos because I’m needing inspiration and struggling with a little seasonal depression. You are such a confident, beautiful lady! I would like to be more like you. I came from a family that doesn’t have much materially , but is rich in love. However, self worth and feeling adequate is something I may forever struggle with. I love deeply ! But somehow I’ve struggled to take care of myself. Why am I expressing all of this?! Well I guess, to say thank you for being such an inspiration and sharing such helpful content that gives us some insight on How to be the Best version of ourselves as we can be. xoxo Lizzy

[@rowenagann9034]

Thank you for taking the time to share what has worked for you, I truly appreciate your perspective on less is more because the items picked are so thoughtful. xxoo

[@doctormimi9486]

Wonderful video !! Many things I would never think of !! Such a treat 🎉

[@michelleneuman579]

Love this attention to detail when hosting. I want to add that I include a picture of the guests. We are hosting in a few weeks and I am putting a picture of the four of us on a prior vacation. I also like to put wine charms with their picture on it. Thanks Tracy!

[@lauraneaves6912]

You are very generous Tracy! I'm sure me and all your other followers will stay over any time ! 🎄🥰💕

[@Brandi-0731]

WOW! You are incredible! Thank you for all of the wonderful tips!

[@juanita1203]

Great video. Very usefull. Guest will feel very welcome the way you take care to make their stay as comfortable as possible. Love it. Thanks Tracy.

[@ericashawn1694]

Great tips! I love making sure my guests are well taken care of; but I definitely picked up quite a few tips from you that I never thought of before. Thank you! You are a wonderful host and Mom! I adore your videos.

[@BELABIN]

That’s wonderful that Haley will be home for the holidays Trace!!!

[@Mkasia5]

Tracy you are the best! So thoughtful and organized 😍 better than a 5 star hotel!

[@carolinasusini2601]

Excellent ideas!!! Loved the video!!!! You are a really thoughful person.

[@user-sl1ve9wq2y]

Tracy, I adore your videos and the way you light up when talking about your family! Was your mom this thoughtful with you growing up, or was it just something you picked up on? I really aspire to be the kind of mom you are to your girls. I only have one boy but he sure is special. I just hope that I can be like this for him someday so that he visits me all the time!!!!❤

[@Theheadbadgirl]

I loved this video Tracy! It shows that you really care about your guest, I’m definitely taking away your tips for this holiday season!

[@kimmicannon5629]

Hey Diva T. Hope all is well. Our first-born daughter (who also used to live in New York but now living in Cali) is getting married in June (here back home) and I was looking for some tips here on the “Tube” for having house guests. Considering, we will be having plenty of family in our home soon, I came across a few BUT this one was right on time. Great tips even for other times of the year, when others will be entertaining and having guests in our home. Thank you, thank you. This was so helpful. Have a great summer!

[@ludyacevedo3728]

I love love it. Makes me want to be your guest. You gave great ideas my best is visiting and I will be using these wonderful tips Thanks Tracy you never disappoint.

[@sandip.7968]

Wow and WOW ... I would LOVE to be a guest in your home and be pampered and spoiled with all those thoughtful, useful goodies! Who wouldn't relish and savor being treated so royally?! Happy holidays to you and your family, Tracy. God bless.

[@analyhernandez4607]

This is the kind of mom I wish to be! 🥰

[@01Trolls]

Thank you for the wonderful tips! My college sons' brought a friend home to spend Thanksgiving weekend with us as he could not return to his own home this weekend. I used several of your tips to make him feel welcome and part of our family at a time when he could not be with his. I love your videos and this one arrived at the perfect time. Thank you! Happy Thanksgiving, Tracy!

[@ExtraordinaryDanielle]

I love all the authors of the books you showed that you provide your guests! Great information!

[@christyneroy5103]

Omg so sweet for your daughter! Such a beautiful attention 💝

[@LusciousFibers]

Tracy your excitement & love for Hayley's visit truly show in this sweet video!

[@fionnafaye]

Thank you!! I love these videos I aspire to be the best hostess like you, no one will ever top this! 💖

[@elegant_beauty_mb6834]

Oh that is such a great Video! Thank you so much for sharing all of these tips❤️ I now have a goal for the next stay over😍 can’t wait to have a guest and spoil them👏🏼

[@shereeralph3802]

Tracy, I have enjoyed and found this video the most enjoyable and concept provoking/inspiring in ages! It felt like the KZbinr that I first found fascinating was back again! Thank you so much for putting this together. 😊

[@lernermorrison7552]

You are a wonderful hostess. I have learned a lot from this video. Thanks for sharing.

[@joaniedewitz4401]

When can I come and stay at your house? Very Thoughtful!

[@loislaudin]

Tracy, you are so super organized. You think of everything. I wish I had your brain in my head. Lol. You are a true inspiration. Happy Thanksgiving 🦃🙂

[@TracyHensel]

Thank you Lois! Happy Thanksgiving to you, as well.

[@ericaa.2022]

You think in every detail! Breathtaking! Hi from Brazil 🇧🇷💛💚💙

[@zehramurad372]

I love your organization skills and I am learning so much from you. Keep teaching us.

[@barbaraburrough7464]

Thank you for your help. It gets overwhelming.

[@hersharele8507]

this reminds me of my mom. She was just as thoughtful. also, can I be your houseguest? 😂 This is so helpful and great preparation

[@katrinafinn3599]

This video is great Tracy! Something that is hard to find is if you are the guest and someone is hosting you what things should you keep in mind? Do you strip the bed before you leave? Do you wipe down the bathroom they allowed you to use? Also, what are ideas for a nice host gift for an overnight stay is there a price range that is nice to keep in mind especially if you don't know those who are hosting you? No one wants to be on the list of "horror stories" I can't believe some of the things I have read :( A lot of what not to do but, how can we avoid being on the "Don't host them" list.

[@TracyHensel]

Thank you, Katrina. I would say ALWAYS clean up the bathroom and wipe down the counters and sinks. I do that at my own home on a daily basis and wouldn't think to do anything different at a guest home. As for the bedding, I make my bed every day at home or as a guest in someone else's home. I would still make my bed and clean up the bedroom the day I leave. I may ask the host if they would like me to strip the bedding and put my dirty towels somewhere, just as a courtesy. A good gift would be a gift card to a local dining establishment. Do your homework ahead of your trip to find highly rated establishments. Ordering fresh flowers from a local flower shop and having them scheduled for delivery later in the day on the day you leave is also a nice token of thanks. Good Luck

[@jodywhite7149]

You are such a good Mama! You’re daughter is truly messed. Great ideas!

[@hasumihayashi1763]

Hi Tracy. Thank you so much for this video. I love your etiquette and how to be a great host videos! These things are not taught anymore!

[@Choclatcotton]

Your a great mother!! Wowww

[@NicoleCB]

Wow. Yes, this was very inspiring indeed.

[@chococat1084]

I think you win best host award!! This is such a great resource! Thank you!!

[@teenawiggins123]

Excellent Tips Tracy

[@janelee9376]

Very considerate! That will make the best hostess!

[@lovealwaysjasmine]

Hi Tracy! I’m hosting several out of state family members for my daughter’s high school graduation. They will be staying with me for a week. Do I need to pay for all of their meals? I will have a full pantry and fridge and will pay for their arrival meal at a restaurant and for grad night dinner at a fancy restaurant. I also sent everyone the itinerary for the week. Would love your input. I will be using this video to help me prep my home 😊 thank you!

[@TracyHensel]

Congratulations to your daughter! Enjoy the festivities and this time of celebrating with your family members.

[@louannhuber2651]

Great ideas I will use if I ever have any guests in the future.

[@glamalot]

This is amazing!! What a lucky family to have you 💙

[@prunedance1]

Yas Tracy I love that you said coffee right at the start. Definitely a priority!!☕💕👌

[@prunedance1]

And a noise cancellation device!! Can I just move in with you lol

[@AC-qp3ms]

Very well organized!

[@emmaspencer3330]

Pure Class as Always

[@KonstiGamer]

You are such a loving mother🥰

[@michaelt.peterson72]

I LOVE LOVE LOVE this wallcovering.😂. Whereever did you find this? Thank you for sharing your marvelous taste❤.

[@TracyHensel]

Thank you. Here is the a link to the wallpaper: rstyle.me/+Uj5xvHWZPpGHaNzQzrJ03Q

[@pattihanneman5608]

Ok yr amazing! I am going to take some of these ideas for our Lake home. If I was that attentive to my boys they would surely move back in! I love when they visit, but find empty nesting divine!😉

[@TracyHensel]

Thank you for sharing Patti! I love how you phrased empty nesting as divine. It sound like you made a life for yourself while raising your boys. Thats the key to enjoying empty nesting. We have only one at home. Four are completely on their own. And I LOVE IT!!!! Can't wait for the 5th one to leave! lol

[@jojolabellefleur1]

You are so thoughtful. 👍

[@AliceEsteves0404]

Wauww that is very sweet what you do for your daughter/guests. Greetings from the Netherlands🥰🙏❤

[@Beths3v]

Tracy, This was very helpful. Thank you! 👩🏻‍🍳🤗

[@carolyngracetoday]

Great video Tracy! Thanks for sharing :)

[@allie155]

Love! So many things I never thought of

[@nataliefoster3751]

Beautiful job Tracy! So many helpful ideas. Something I'd like to contribute is having your home's wifi information available. My kids will be coming home from college soon---so excited!! Hope you have a wonderful time with your family:)!

[@corinnelizza6135]

Awesome right?!😘. Ready for your holidays outfit vid if you'll do appropriate for this yr? I luv it regardless💃Happy Thanksgiving Tracy🍁✌🏻️

[@paulettedaniels5421]

This gave me so many great ideas for my next guest. If I was your daughter I would never leave home.

[@jagodab4074]

The epidemic situation in Poland is terrible and I made a decision not to spend Christmas with my parents for the first time. I'm 25 and I'm the only child so my heart is breaking 😔

[@TracyHensel]

Oh, I am so sorry. It makes sense that your heart would be breaking. Hang in there. Next year Christmas will look much different. Virtual Hugs!

[@jagodab4074]

@@TracyHensel Thank you very much, I am sending you a lot of joy for the time ahead!