Trading Spouses Joseph/Gibbons

[@ucanheartheocean]

I don't think people realize that it's actually a cool throwback to see some of these commercials. It's like a time capsule.

[@Vanessa-yb9rk]

My thoughts exactly

[@sometimesometimenot]

nature of inviting I know right? I was posting them to my IG story 😂

[@hyacinthdibley2420]

i know right? Some of them almost make me sad because of the memories associated with them.

[@cc-sb1is]

I've seen some fools comment (on other TS episodes..) about "wHy aRe tHEre sO mANy cOmMeRCiaLs..uNsUBsCriBiNg!!" 😂😂😂 Oh, so they think the "NEW PHOTO FLIP PHONE" commercials are from 2020? hahaha

[@MrsSmoot-vl3nz]

Time travel.

[@chasingclouds7101]

Are some people just ignorant or too dumb?? Both dads are insensitive and selfish. One is letting his daughter's self esteem go to the dogs,the other is worshipping one child at the expense of the others.

[@tabberblabbers1679]

Well said

[@nonniengema536]

Sad for these women to be married to such men.. Truly felt sorry for the white lady being left at the park (gate) alone for sooo long in an intimidating environment... 😔

[@triciab612]

The rappers dad wants the jump off more than the son seems like.

[@janetcampbell9286]

Njira, you are spot on & are very perceptive! You called it! Those 4 daughters are complete "Divas!" When they called out they pout & sniffle like children!

[@nerdypanderzt.v4982]

But he did end up being pretty successful

[@dbrante78]

Those girls are so disrespectful and the dad is just a push over.

[@amberrose1108]

lyra he’s so blind and so is the real mom, it’s sickening

[@pearlpattillo2636]

They awful kids

[@mpumesibiya8899]

I think Dad was trying too hard coz she was too quiet. He didn't know what to do with her which made things even more tense.

[@pinkrainbowkennelz1640]

I hope the dad is reading these comments he needs a wake-up open his eyes😮😜

[@mollysito534]

True👏👏

[@aida_amore]

Octavia such a class act! I’m so happy that her family’s well off now. Carl Sr. is actually a brand strategist for Cardi B, Fashion Nova and bunch of other brands. Cash Flow works with Cardi B as well. I was really rooting for their family. ❤️

[@dee60057]

Wonderful!!

[@lucylu1721]

Wow that's Awesome 👌🏿

[@nevermindmyparentsimthepunk]

Yes, love hearing that

[@laylagray1553]

I didn’t know that before this comment and that makes me so happy for them and their wonderful family!!! They truly deserve it!!

[@poke1349]

Cashflow Harlem I watch him all the time

[@usernotfound1022]

Ovtavia is the shining star of this episode. and she didn’t even have to try. You can’t help but adore her.

[@marioiacolucci]

I liked her

[@elled10024]

She’s so pretty!

[@moniquebrown9293]

When Lynne was home, her husband didn't make her work, but he's making Octavia work?😡😡😡

[@lisa-ds6il]

I know right dam shit. I was like wdf man he's out of order.

[@laceyfox3384]

That's how it hit me too

[@aphantom6834]

Yea, my first thought! 😡

[@ShellsBelles]

I said the same thing! What an absolute POS!!! I can’t help to wonder how he would’ve treated her if she were a white woman. Not even sorry for saying it because it was the first thing that popped into my head.

[@zulemadelapaz2381]

I couldn't believe that man had her doing their laundry OMG he had her sorting their clothes while he watched WTF like his dumbass couldn't figure it out. Then he had her pick strawberries while he stood and watched

[@miekam9675]

I think Octavia is very sweet, and classy.I think she represented her morals in her actions well.She felt Lizzy's pain, nobody was feeling her pain , but Octavia.I love that she styled her hair, and made Lizzy feel special.

[@olivepoola9153]

I agree. It was nice to see someone show the poor girl some love and compassion!

[@mckennabowerss]

I love her personality, she seems to be good at putting herself in others shoes and being very understanding

[@handoromper7987]

Why does she walk around like she is smelling shit? You never see her smile.

[@mhoyaniovung6413]

yes because everyone in Lizzy's family are selfish ...from mom, dad to her sisters. I felt very bad when Lizzy's dad started ordering Octivia to everything...like she is their maid...how cheap and low an ignorant and arrangant he is

[@jennifermccowan4751]

Octavia is a beautiful woman inside and out and showed that family a real queen. They were freaking vile

[@djamilamonteiro8951]

that man making Octavia (the guest) clean up after him and the rest of the house made me puke in my mouth honestly. just vile and classless.

[@shopmycloset4273]

Djamila Monteiro especially how he was hovering over her. Oh hell no!

[@kaitlyne1870]

The worst part is that he actually woke her up so she could sort his dirty laundry for him! He didn't even wait until she was already awake to start making her do all his work.

[@Aquaababyy]

@@shopmycloset4273 And he was just watching or eating the strawberries instead of helping her.. made me wonder if he would do that to his wife or only to Octavia..

[@murtl5595]

Yep.. Money doesn't buy you class

[@loomatic4540]

He is terrible for that. I just could not believe it. Octavia handled it well with class and dignity.

[@TomHarrison-x8v]

That black lady the saint!! Sweetest, wisest, most calmest and loving .. she a baddy…

[@simpleguh7835]

Octavia, "I can all most read their minds I know what they're thinking" and she was spot on 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@DebraFranklin-y1p]

Right 👍

[@keithagraham3901]

The girl that said she don't fit in with her family BC she's not as enthusiastic as her sisters broke my heart & her saying they never do anything with her is terrible. How is that family ok with her feeling that way?!

[@kaitlyne1870]

Because they're selfish. I'm sick to death of hearing "you just need to stand up for yourself more". No, y'all just need to stop being jerks! She shouldn't have to fight to be equal in her own family! Home should be the one place a person doesn't have to fight!

[@DSchae2165]

it's a sink or swim conservative family.

[@Aries-tx3zz]

Those parents are raising bullies. They probably also taunt kids at school too.

[@j.d.pistol1777]

She got the most money, she's riding off into the sunset in her 5 thousand dollar car; probably going to the local pharmacy to get some anti-depressants and pain killers. Poor thing needs to buck up, and rough up the other sisters..

[@daydrmnation]

I know. It literally feels like a punch in the gut how badly i feel for her. Those girls are rotten. Hopefully they've grown up.

[@missm7526]

She acts like she went to war....she went to Harlem 🙄

[@Artemis_jay]

It annoyed me how closed and scared she was of everything.

[@mandiespringer7340]

My foster parents would roll windows up and lock doors going down this street known for shady shit 😂 I've never saw anything shady but they were convinced we'd have trouble because we were white. I was big into 50cent at the time and they would turn the cd off too. Funniest shit ever.

[@Artemis_jay]

Mandie Springer lmaooo turn down your 50 cent CD 😂😂

[@mandiespringer7340]

@@Artemis_jay they were those white people, I didn't grow up like that so I laughed every time. I'd mock like "Oh no hope we don't get a red light, there's black people standing there they'll shoot us for driving by" 😂

[@mickey23ist]

😂😂😂

[@Barbara-zu4pl]

I just love Octavia. She's a wonderful mother, and was completely correct about the other girls.

[@womenwhitson1104]

Barbara - She has such a gentle spirit but is still a strong woman. She is such a great role model. She had a child at a young age and fully embraced her life as a mother by sacrificing for them. Her older is going to college, one is in a career he does become successful in, her daughter is sweet and has a good head on her shoulders. I know I’m missing a kid but I didn’t see him much.

[@GrowingTogether10]

Absolutely. I do not like the way the girls are cursing and picking on the other sister. The girls should be the ones cleaning the bathrooms and extra stuff.

[@GrowingTogether10]

Her name is Octavia by the way.

[@elizabethezell8749]

Yeeppp she was correct their just spoil lil rude rich girls with no class what so ever.

[@triciab612]

I was thinking the exact same thing ,even before I read the comments above 👆🏾. Octavia read these girls cards, about them being mean to the sister, and about them being disrespectful. That’s why they got so upset and was crying.

[@missaleighleigh]

I absolutely love Octavia. She emanates grace. Everyone can only hope to have an ounce of the class and wisdom she has. What a good mama, hope she and her beautiful family are thriving in 2021.

[@dsakjet78]

i think octavia died in oct 2021

[@hereisayana8207]

Towards the end, Lynne felt safe to sit out on the stoops by herself and went to the all black club... she definitely grew on this show

[@bluntrack1075]

the second the husband asked “do you like hip hop and rap music?” I knew this shit was gonna go off the rails

[@nynycat5489]

AfricanCreamKing 😂

[@lovelana3595]

I thought it was a pretty lame first question. Would've been awesome if she would've answered with, "actually I'm a huge fan of Chevalier de Saint-Georges"!

[@BlackNoiseCat]

Was he wrong doe?

[@lovelana3595]

@@BlackNoiseCat 🙃 I just now got to finish the entire episode - they all seem to be good people regardless of any faux pas!

[@hk972cf]

It got her to finally speak to him, so mission accomplished. ( I guess)

[@VirgoCali89]

I keep forgetting how old these are but im not surprised that people are still ignorant and racist

[@Kims_Whims]

80's

[@NewLeafTarot]

Exactly the husband is looking at her like a run a way slave.. & using her to his own advantages.

[@handoromper7987]

If you project an attitude of I'm better than you, you will provoke racism.

[@helixmoore7636]

@@NewLeafTarot He woud treat a Hispanic Chinese Samoan woman the same.

[@elena-lc4uk]

People act the same way now

[@poor868]

"I could tell Octavia was really nervous"...cue whole family proceeding to sit in awkward silence staring at her without one having the insight to actually ask her a question about herself....expert level at making someone feel at ease

[@jewelz3179]

I hate that! Every other episode it happens 😡

[@amberrose1108]

The dad should helped bring everyone out with questions

[@kaitlyne1870]

Clearly they don't like anyone different than them. They don't even like their own sister because she acts "different", let alone an outsider who *looks* and acts different! Grade A jerks!

[@bestbussy]

@1993 the difference is the white lady was uncomfortable bc they were black, octavia was bc they were rich.

[@briannabombshell1921]

Another idiot that doesn’t understand how reality television works

[@quinlan6968]

The way they talked to Octavia like she was a school chum and not an adult and mother, and the way he stood up for their bad behavior. Omg I just wanted to reach in the screen and dish out some "discipline"

[@paulakelly6457]

Octavia out classes any participant I’ve seen on this show…. what a beautiful heart and soul ❤️

[@koko.444]

lmaooo I’m sorry, but when all the ppl were staring at Octavia, it reminded me of Get Out 😭😭😭😭

[@b.jizzle6077]

OMG me too! I'm surprised they didn't reach out and touch her hair...

[@okakodjamboleka1995]

💯

[@netarcheruto]

hahaha, nice!

[@triciab612]

B. Jizzle • ikr 🙄

[@justlikehoney1859]

The CRINGIEST part

[@nicolesovie9999]

Octavia is so soft spoken and genuine and her little girl is a doll❤

[@mariaromano4491]

I AGREE WITH YOU Absolutely!

[@HandmaidenOfDistinction66854]

@@mariaromano4491 Octavia passed away.

[@marioiacolucci]

@@HandmaidenOfDistinction66854 sorry to hear that awful

[@sandraatkins2539]

@@HandmaidenOfDistinction66854 Oh my. What happened to her?

[@HandmaidenOfDistinction66854]

@@sandraatkins2539 the terrible 'C' disease unfortunately. 😔

[@amyj4071]

Octavia is stunning. Especially wearing all white.

[@womenwhitson1104]

Amy J - She looks like a goddess! Not a huge fan of her hair. I think she would look better with her natural hair. She is one of those women that could wear a garbage bag with no makeup and sill be the most beautiful woman in the room. She is also such a strong woman but is so gentle in how she speaks that she can help people to change without attacking. I wold love to be like that.

[@elena-lc4uk]

@@womenwhitson1104 yeah that women is gorgeous!!!she reminds me of those sleek women in Africa

[@amyj4071]

@1993 FTM ?

[@ceetara2586]

1993 You’re in every comment section of these videos I’ve seen so far posting some sexist or racist bullshit. Get a hobby.

[@womenwhitson1104]

Amy J Female To Male. I think the rude ignorant 1993 was trying to imply she was born a man and transitioned to female but is also dumb and can’t even insult people correctly.

[@astrotilliams]

“Who is Malcom X? Did he ride the bus??” “You playin?” 😭😭😭😭

[@naznaz1310]

She is stupid

[@vickykessels6358]

Thats probably why they kept staring at her, because she's so beautiful.

[@MaddieBoo365]

Those white rich people makin the rest of us look bad 🤦🏼‍♀️and Lynn needs to open her eyes and put a stop to raising bullies and stop making excuses for her rude/mean girls!

[@womenwhitson1104]

Heather Laird - Yes! Whenever someone is similar to me on these shows I just keep thinking, “Don’t make us look bad!” It can be white, religious, Texas, affluent, etc. I just don’t want that part to look bad. Everyone remembers the God Warrior episode 🤦🏻‍♀️ Every Christian cringed when that episode aired! Hahahaha. She made us all look crazy! 😂

[@Aries-tx3zz]

@Heather them white people aint rich by today"s standards. A LOT of people have houses that size.

[@sarahobyrne6638]

I felt embarrsed and I'm white Irish

[@_zeinab_0797]

Seems like a movie normal with people are normal 😆🤦🏾‍♀️

[@astashasta1]

Aries #1 noooooo tf they dont

[@nikkole9951]

Why is Tom ordering Octavia around like that? They have a maid so why is she doing all of that work? Makes no sense.

[@xo1276]

Sharebear 79 lol he’s not racist you idiot, it’s just that his wife was the one that did everything and now she’s gone

[@xo1276]

Sharebear 79 it appears it mattered enough to make you type up a response

[@yummylemons172]

The maid could just be one of those maids from those maid services like Merry Maids where they don't do laundry, dishes, pick up stuff, make beds. They mostly just surface clean. I'm sure she didn't pick strawberries or clean the pool area or separate laundry

[@hyacinthdibley2420]

@@xo1276 His wife wasn't doing it.

[@AnwesaChaudhury]

hyacinthdibley2 they just showed a day and then she left

[@princessrockman9528]

I think that the white family needs to reign in those girls. They are spoiled and disrespectful. I think the black family needs to focus on all their kids not just cashflow. It kinda sucks hope the others are ignored. In both cases I thought the dads were asses. In the white family Octavia was not there to be their maid! He could have spent a little more time getting to know her instead of ordering her around. In the black family I thought that was so rude when they took her to that park or whatever and told her to wait and left her standing there forever. It didn't even have to do with her being the only white person! That would be uncomfortable for anyone to be in an unfamiliar situation and left standing alone while they all went about their business. Both mom need to teach their husbands some damn manners.

[@ashleahgarrin7740]

💯💯💯

[@hajoom8966]

👏👏👏

[@flowergirlll333]

Dee Rockman Exactly. Even I would be uncomfortable & angry being left alone in that area for that long.

[@kristys1829]

They are the typical nasty over privileged white people who think that they deserve everything! Ugh. Can't stand them!!!

[@christopherbarnard7236]

Your right 🙄

[@justlikehoney1859]

Octavia definitely was the best parent in this entire episode

[@icvideos1621]

They were both pretty even

[@ohtartarsauce6301]

All the white family could focus on was the fact that the other family was black 🗿

[@brittanyphillips8999]

I love seeing new York represented. its a completely different lifestyle than what most of the country is used to. Octavia has some beautiful kids. You can see really see just from this episode how much she truly cares and is a great mom

[@kkensh]

Seriously? He walks in front of her and says ... Do this, do that and that and that and that ... She's not a servant or cleaner

[@coryreid8419]

k k Ikr it's sad also glad 2ks anyway I can't believe Octavia walked right passed lissy during party in house however again they can only show 2 hrs of the week so I hope they did visit in the house and become friends

[@kkensh]

@@coryreid8419 I hope that for every switch family becouse I think both families could learn so much during this. But what does "lkr" means? Sorry. I make me look like a joke but I'm from DE 🙈🙈🙈

[@coryreid8419]

k k now I see full comment I only understand 2nd half and sense a language barrier it means I know right now did I just see u in pepper or jeannes list ?? as I did see a k.k McCarthy

[@soupafleye]

That pissed me off so bad. All the while hes sitting around doin nothin?!

[@Joesfosterdogs]

she has a 19yo son and still looks like this! Damn...super hottie...and sadly doesnt get the love she deserves once again...

[@Wise0319]

Idk what she saw in Sr... Nvm...

[@nyasiataylor3435]

@@Wise0319 Just shut up don't talk pls. Don't like Don't talk just be quite

[@freereinartstudio1463]

She is gorgeous!

[@nyasiataylor3435]

@sammybaa samm ummm anyways your mad for what like I made this comment 2 months ago 💀

[@liunknownil2072]

She honestly looked like she could be a model. And she was in the right city for that kinda stuff. But I feel like her family (specifically the husband) is what would’ve held her back. But she had the potential to be one

[@cheypiemusic3871]

I fee so bad for the sister getting bullied 😞

[@lovinlife6941]

Cheypie Music I agree! hard to watch at times I think.

[@breakfastattiffanys741]

Imagine never being able to escape the mean girls at school, I mean they're in her home as well! 😢 F*** that

[@cc-sb1is]

I hope Lissy is doing a million times better than her two evil stepsisters and her evil biological sister [who probably started out as a weak follower...but maybe she had done it (bullied her sister) her whole life. Idk.] Anyways. I REALLY hope Alissa/Lissy is much happier than those brats and her dumb parents.

[@womenwhitson1104]

Nectar Nympth - It breaks my heart. I have never seen that before. I saw siblings fighting and picking on each other but it was mutual or at worse older siblings not wanting to have very young siblings interrupting them and friends. I can’t believe the. Said she needed to fight back and not that the girls needed to stop being mean to her. 💔

[@pearlpattillo2636]

They raising the other girls wrong

[@autumnasters]

The amount of microaggressions that black people were expected to shrug off in the 2000s never cease to amaze me

[@MrMoralHighground]

you offended on their behalf?

[@autumnasters]

@@MrMoralHighground dumb question on several levels

[@MrMoralHighground]

@@autumnasters you think? i just wondered if you are the type of moron who gets offended on behalf of other people........if you dont want to answer, no need to deflect, you can just be honest and say you dont want to answer due to the fact that it would make you sound like a complete moron. theres no shame in that (lol). oh and by the way, your statement is idiotic on several levels...........but you can deflect that if it makes you feel better :)

[@chishh2554]

The beginning where the wives meet their new husbands is the most awkward thing ever. I just die from second hand embarrassment

[@laylagray1553]

Omg same!! “Are you into rap music and all that” made me nearly die of cringe….

[@sarahobyrne6638]

That blonde lady staring at Octavia at the cook out 😑😶😒🤬wanted to punch her in the face so bad, how rude can one be. Jealous obviously at how young and beautiful Octavia is

[@peacheskong2245]

THAT PARTTT OMGWAMAGAHJRRAJBFRA this entire episode...there have been many of these swaps but this one is the worse I've seen so far.

[@francescal2247]

It killed me when she was so clearly doing the math figuring out how old Octavia was when she had her first son, with the most judgmental face ever. Ugh. I could barely watch that part.

[@j.elizabeth4621]

Lmfao that part killed me.

[@trentigalaxy]

WHAT PART OF AFRICA??

[@briannabombshell1921]

I don’t get what’s so bad about the fact they were shocked at how young Octavia looked. Even I was shocked she doesn’t look like she had a teenage kid, nevertheless three teenage kids. Not sure what they did wrong. Because they asked her her nationality? Gtfo

[@Aquaababyy]

I can't believe Octavias boys didn't get any recognition for getting an award & the other one applying for college's.. Those are two MAJOR things happening to them & nobody even acknowledged that! It pissed me off man, they are good smart kids who deserve the praise and recognition from their mom & dad unlike that spoiled brat "cash flo" He's so ungrateful, doesn't even care about all the work his dad does to help him try to build a career & goes around acting like he doesn't even wanna be there.. but then again it was the dad's fault for treating him like he's special when he's really not.

[@kaylarenee3689]

Karla Nevarez this comment deserves more likes then it has!

[@somerking7040]

Im curious, does anyone know if he ever became anything since this is so old?

[@Wrek1oose]

@@somerking7040 I actually decided to look into it a bit. He has a current net worth of 5 million and has a song with cardi b. So I’d say he’s done pretty well for himself.

[@SweetBrownGirl]

@@Wrek1oose Wow, he has the same name?

[@SweetBrownGirl]

I knew I recognized Cash Flow face...he has a familiar face.

[@heywill7]

Octavia is beautiful! I love her cheekbones, her clear skin. Not only that but her demeanor. Not once did you hear act crazy. She was respectful, classy and held her ground when she needed to

[@XxDanniGirlXx]

I really enjoyed the moment that Octavia explained to her children the importance of Lynne putting all their money towards the children and their college funds. She may have been a little uppity in her demeanor with their lifestyle but she did what was best to get them to reach towards their futures. I do like that Lynne overall saw the bigger picture in the end. Bless both of these families.

[@icvideos1621]

I didn't see it as uppity. She seemed pretty humble and honest

[@elizabethmenegon8057]

I think Lynne should urgently invest in her own education to. I find incredible that a grown up woman who actually lives in America(!) ask who is MX and, evidently, never stepped out her own courtyard.

[@shilpam85]

Did Tom forget that Octavia is his “wife” and not the freaking housekeeper. Why is he ordering her around and treating her like that when he doesn’t do that to his wife. That was rude, demeaning and entitled. Proof that money doesn’t bring class. Period.

[@MrMoralHighground]

you need proof that money doesnt equal class?

[@marionlynch49]

Octavia is so classy. Love the way she dresses and presents herself. I wonder why the white mom had such disdain for Lissy and insisting how spoiled she is. There's a back story lurking there. Clearly she resents the girl.

[@iluvpittys242]

Lizzy is her step daughter, so that probably has a lot to do with it.

[@5014chizuka]

She is the scapegoat unfortunately. Her dad allows her to be the victim and step mom ignores the fact, and other girls are direct abuser. hope she finds her self in better place now...

[@veronicajackson902]

I think lizzi has undiagnosed autism

[@angiedues8813]

Cinderella

[@lisascales9582]

She's the scapegoat for narcissist family

[@lovelivi1591]

Omg that was halarious seeing the bratty white kids start crying and throwing a fit as soon as they got called out for being brats!

[@Dreone-1]

thats what they do anytime some one calls em out then they act fake af later

[@trishnjoshkeeton9416]

They can dish it out but can't take a proper opinionated statement

[@hikesystem7721]

They were happy once they got the money though.

[@icvideos1621]

White kids, suburban kids, teenagers, girls, Boston kids. How do we know which one is the appropriate "label?" All kids throw a hissy fit. I saw no difference with the NYC kids.

[@Skullfire56]

Lynne is the reason why I’m glad that my neighborhood is diverse

[@AnecdotalPoet]

Skullfire56 sammeeeee

[@Scourge88Monastik14]

diverse neighborhoods r more attractive

[@womenwhitson1104]

I grew up in mostly white areas and I think I missed out on things. When we moved to Arkansas I prayed to be black every night because the little girls in my class could grow their hair long over night. I didn’t know about fake hair and thought black girls could just magically grow their hair. 🤦🏻‍♀️ There are still things I learn as an adult that I wasn’t exposed to which is so fun! I live by Texas A&M so there is a lot of international students and families. I worked at the children center and LOVED having such a diverse class and the parents were so excited I wanted to include their culture, holidays, music, language, etc. The parents always had their kids show off how many songs they could sing in other languages. A 3 year old singing and using sign language in other languages is so cute. They are so proud!

[@goodrose4734]

@@womenwhitson1104 😭😭😂😂😂 that's funny

[@amanlizamasha1937]

@@womenwhitson1104 I know about that hair comment, as a black girl 👧🏽 I remember thinking 🤔 “ are these people dumb ?this questions must be a joke? 🤷🏿‍♀️😂💜

[@Dezhein]

Many moments touched me.. the sister being the “reject”, the dad making Octavia work, Carl Sr. not paying attention to his daughter.. but the way Lynn’s family stared and asked about which part of Africa Octavia’s roots were from.. I felt uncomfortable just watching. I’m happy Lynn was able to see things in a different perspective and teach her family that things are deeper than what ppl may see on the surface.

[@trashersoii]

I know the moment that lady said "who is malcom x" and "did he ride the bus", it didnt matter what you were doing, you turned your head directly to your screen LMAO

[@laylagray1553]

That’s exactly what just happened to me and I’m currently mid episode… 😬

[@ChiiBomb]

God the cookout was so racist and awkward. Poor Octavia!

[@Wendy.753]

Omg everything is racist 🤦‍♀️ give it a rest!

[@ChiiBomb]

@@Wendy.753 Clearly you wouldn't know what's racist or not if you can watch that clip without seeing those people are judging her for her skin color. You're what's wrong with the world today. Your name should be 'American Bimbo'

[@Cbgart]

@@ChiiBomb Don't feed the trolls... let them starve to death...

[@empressink_]

Soooo uncomfortable.

[@daisymoran8681]

da fr

[@itsmestupid.1310]

Lynn acting like she was in skid row, LMFAO, telling her kids a “it happened to a friend of a friend on mine, I was in Harlem, narrow hallways, so scary” girl, calm tf down.

[@Artemis_jay]

It’s Me, Stupid. Lmao was scared to get coffee by herself. Girl calm tf down.

[@sistahgirlangel]

😂😂

[@alicemiriah]

💀💀💀

[@edwintorres2305]

Not Skid Row 💀💀💀💀 She was doing the complete most🤦🏿‍♂️🤦🏿‍♂️🤦🏿‍♂️

[@mackboy2040]

Actually skid row is a multiracial area with majorly lower class and working class white people and homeless minorities. Whats your point?

[@ginaj880]

Octavia is so beautiful and classy. Love her.

[@HectorHernandez-mk2no]

Yes she is

[@andrewcarson6925]

NAHHHH

[@kaynickels970]

I loved this one! Octavia is as classy, smart and beautiful!! Such a wonderful mom! Loved the end when she put her family in line and the parents weren't even upset about the money. Great parents explaining the benefit to their kids. Then the end when Lynne was realizing and telling her kids that they don't know how good they have it... precious moment!

[@jdubb5592]

I LOVED LOVED LOVED Octavia’s attitude and personality it was very refreshing

[@lovinlife6941]

I REALLY do not like the way those two girls bully their sister, wonder how they would feel!I can't help but feel really sad for her!

[@gloriacollins6608]

good friends rock! And the saddest part is , she just takes it . She didn’t even try to defend herself ....

[@womenwhitson1104]

Gloria Collins Once you are beaten down so much there is no point to fight back. I was the one in my family that got treated that way (on a much smaller scale) and you just learn to accept it because fighting back is so hard and doesn’t work.

[@chloe2258]

Women Whitson ok emo

[@vickiehaper4615]

Yeah

[@xBabyxGurlxKx]

That father needs to stop trying to live off his own son and get a damn job!

[@alishashadows9599]

Apparently his son is now successful. Worth 5 million.

[@trentigalaxy]

and a good barber!! dayum!!🤦‍♂️

[@amanlizamasha1937]

He works and manges his Son , which worked out I guess!!

[@sarahobyrne6638]

I would have given Lizzy the entire 50 grand, no one else deserved a penny, horrible rude people 😑

[@peacheskong2245]

That mother was sooo upset about the fact Octavia only wrote 1 page lmao. They really didn't deserve anything longer than that.

[@aprilshowers1554]

@@peacheskong2245 and Octavias husband did? Sad on both families part especially her husbands.

[@b1k2q34]

@@aprilshowers1554 agreed. Octavia's husband was a jerk

[@vickykessels6358]

Wauw, Octavia looks like a super model. She's beautiful. 😍

[@miahdionne8731]

I love the way Octavia articulated her opinion on what was going on in the house. I think it was ridiculous that one of the girls were crying and the other attempting to argue with Octavia simply because she voiced her observations. It was like they had never heard someone be so spot on about them and they couldn’t handle it. The father needs to do a better job of establishing that parent/child boundary.

[@jofloletschat7788]

exactly

[@geminijohnson4019]

The one crying was crying because she has never been corrected before

[@veronicajackson902]

White fragility in the making, raising snow flakes

[@annett2960]

The father head is too far up in his ass to see anything how can he wakes her up to chores she too good for him 🤬

[@annett2960]

He didn't seems to care that his own daughter was struggling to fits in

[@itsmestupid.1310]

The first thing this goofy man asks her in the car is “you like the rap/hip hop music” LMFAO WTF 😂😭

[@moimeself1088]

He was trying, shame. She wasn't saying anything! (Unless that was edited out)

[@moimeself1088]

I take it back. First thing he's got planned for he is chores???? 😯🤦🏾‍♀️

[@lucybee3361]

I would have said I love Beethoven and Mozart. Yes because black people can like that also

[@laurabee911]

He and his daughters live in a fake bubble. 1-5-10-15 years from now they will rewatch this and be ashamed at their horrible behavior.

[@wendybreault3157]

Or be heroin addicts

[@triston9618]

Oh poor Lissy, why they are so mean to her 🙄🙄🙄they keep on telling her to go to her room. Horrible girls, evil.

[@Galbanolli]

“Cash flo” is a spoiled brat. The father needs to gte his head out of the gutter and stop trying to live through him and pay attention to his other kids. Octavia is so strong and sweet. She deserves so much respect. The other family is DISGUSTING except for Lissy who seemed to be depressed. Poor girl. Reminds me of me when I was younger. I wasnt into what most girls were into and talking about boys, make up etc. I had nothing in common with most kids my age. Octavia was put to clean while they had a housekeeper!? That’s ridiculous and shameful. Wtf 🤮

[@TwistedMindzRecord]

Cashflow is successful as a rapper now with features with Cardi B and millions of views on youtube and world star. But yeah I agree about his dad tho. Kind of reminds me of Michael Jackson father did them almost in a similar way...

[@nunyabuisness7552]

It shocks me that she refused to see how the children were being treated so differently and huge discrepancies of expectations.

[@samdasilva1914]

Is cash flow a millionaire yet? Just wondering

[@Artemis_jay]

Sam da Silva his net worth is est. 1-5 million on google but who knows 🤷🏻‍♀️

[@janellcrews6108]

@@TwistedMindzRecord that's so cool. His wife deserves a successful man I hope they are both happy.

[@ladyj5682]

Octavia was really a class act!!! She has so much to offer

[@SassyUnicorn86]

Octavia is so sweet. I hate how the white dad was so fucking bossy. Def seemed like he enjoyed having someone do all the chores.

[@wer4everyoung]

anyone else forget it was youtube and could skip the ads...

[@jasonhanrahan9783]

lmaoooooooooooooooooooooooo. came looking to see if anybody was complaining about the ads but this shit got me weak .....hahaha thanks for the laugh

[@olivepoola9153]

Yep. I start getting excited about the food commercials and how great the deals are. And then it hits me........ 😞

[@dawnsantiago3797]

So funny because I kind of forgot. I skipped a commercial and was like whoa smh

[@womenwhitson1104]

Olive Poola - Yes! I was ready to call for Pizza Hut pasta and it dawned on me. Hit fast forward and was so sad it was old. 🍝🍕

[@casashaa]

Me lol😂❤

[@cindie9]

Octavia's skin is gorgeous flawless

[@icvideos1621]

So what

[@ohtartarsauce6301]

@@icvideos1621Read the room.

[@jadeanderson1743]

Why is Tom telling her what to do? If his wife is the lazy when she is home??? WTH!

[@vickiehaper4615]

Tv show

[@jewdd1989]

Octavia is a level headed, strong, empathic person and one hell of a Mom. The fact that she saw and pointed out the reality of the other family’s bad behaviors and abusive qualities was incredible! That poor girl Lizzy was tormented by her own sisters and the Dad was so far removed from any responsibility toward her situation, he refused to even acknowledge her pain. Octavia called them out on their bs and stood by it. The girls needed to be knocked down a few pegs just like Carl jr and she did that

[@annett2960]

It was sad the way Octavia's husband and children leave her standing all but herself

[@phlarbus7821]

Notice how all the girls’s rooms are big and beautiful while Lissy barely has any furniture or decoration ☹️

[@icvideos1621]

She might be on the spectrum. She is different and can't handle things as well

[@MiriamTheGreat]

I don’t care what they think of Lissy. She’s way nicer than her sisters and seems like a genuinely sweet,beautiful person.

[@ohtartarsauce6301]

@@icvideos1621I mean??? They’re horrible to her. Telling her that they don’t wanna share with her, that she needs to go to her room if she so much as gets in the same vicinity as them. Talking about her hair. They just kept chipping away at her…

[@Goddess.of.Victory]

​@@icvideos1621lol internet doctors

[@elizaschaeffer34]

@@icvideos1621lol she doesn’t act like she’s on the spectrum at all 😂😂 what a ridiculous assumption She probably splits her time between two homes whereas the other girls all spend the majority of their time in the home & all are biologically related.

[@kayseecoward7571]

Poor Lissi, she's like a modern day Cinderella

[@lovinlife6941]

Ya you are right. I feel for her, not nice at all what they do!

[@cc-sb1is]

I hope she has a wonderful life now. and that her bratty sister and stepsisters realize how evil they were to her then.

[@jwilliams714]

Yeah poor Lissi living in her daddy's mansion

[@womenwhitson1104]

c c - Her parents being rich doesn’t change the fact that she wasn’t treated well. Have some compassion. You just sound bitter.

[@jwilliams714]

@@womenwhitson1104 she was an adult at that point she could have left like her dad said she's spoiled her sisters were classless bitches though

[@shilde]

I love seeing Octavia with her own family. She’s gentle yet firm and her kids respect her.

[@aajkrivy4931]

I'm so in awe of Octavia.. She is an incredibly wise and powerful woman. I love the amount of respect she has garnered with her family 💗 I would pay for lessons and advice from this woman!

[@mimiluv29]

Aww that's so sweet... she is a nice lady..

[@kosherjew4223]

I love Octavia so much! She is so sweet and down to earth! She didn't deserve to be treated like that by their family.

[@ariraquel4567]

i was actually thought long john silvers had a 4.99 speacial until i thought about it and realized these commercials are throwbacks.. im lovin the old content.. i would likevtoo see updates of the families

[@livih7311]

When he was telling Lissy he loved her and he said Kelli instead I was absolutely shocked. No wonder she feels so left out from her family

[@Thiollier_1]

i can't believe every other comment isnt about this, what a horrible moment

[@lapris7380]

@@Thiollier_1 I know the was years ago but could I get the time stamp I think I missed it

[@annabelgrace1267]

I sometimes mix my kids' names up.

[@djamilamonteiro8951]

"travis put on a nice shirt, nice pants, nice sneakers...and no one gave a sht" heck, that put me in tears too.

[@coryreid8419]

Djamila Monteiro Lynn cared and shoulda went with guess she couldn't fast enough now regrets it

[@livelovely4681]

@@coryreid8419 She could have gone, she even paused. Her ass didn't want to go any further in ny lol

[@amberrose1108]

livelovely well it wouldn’t be the same as if the dad went, but she should have offered. The dad should have gone

[@Aquaababyy]

@@livelovely4681 Right , when she paused I thought she was going to offer to go with him

[@michele588]

that shouldve been lynns cue to go with him-that was sad to me :(

[@t.rp.3889]

That was sooo rude for him to take her to that park and leave her at that gate till dark

[@tootsie-roll1804]

Well Shid look how he treated Octavia & that’s his wife so imagine how he gona treat the next women, he dint even hug her when she got in the cab to leave🤷‍♀️

[@Word187]

That was rude. But I also did not understood why she kept standing there like a lost puppy. If you feel unsafe you don't go stand alone in the corner in the dark. Just go in the park, mingle in the crowd and watch some basketball Idk maybe its because I'm raised in the city but I did not understand that at all

[@zazu3006]

@@Word187 i wouldn't stand there either, go experience new flavours and vibes! but her body language was super uncomfortable and unsure, her skin and the cameras drawing attention. im a white girl that lived in all black estates in south ldn, it humbles you, but also i loved the vibes!

[@CSmith6075]

@@Word187 he literally said "wait here, I'll be right back ". And though she might not be the same, I have extreme social anxiety. There's no way I would have been able to do anything but stand there like a "lost puppy" just praying someone would come save me. Be it Harlem, church, a club, or a carnival.

[@joshipp761]

@@Word187 , same thing I was thinking

[@NubianP6]

The mom saying: “That’s just the way they joke though”, made me SO angry! That may be the way that THEY choose to joke, but have you ever asked Lizzy how SHE feels about being the butt of every joke?! They are bullying and harassing her, and the parents couldn’t care less! The father was angrier with her for lying about going to work than he was about the other girls being rude and disrespectful while watching the wedding video! That young lady was depressed, and since this was years ago, I just pray that she is in a much better space now. The mom’s attitude was disgusting and dismissive, and those other girls are all going to grow up to be arrogant, intolerable as*holes!

[@jofloletschat7788]

Absolutely!! so upsetting!

[@mimithemermaid3860]

Octavia is a class act! I hope her son cash-flow is taking good care of her and the rest of his family now that his career took off. Would love to know how her other children are doing. His 2 bros and his little sister were adorable! I saw a comment dissing the white woman for being afraid to go get coffee in Harlem. Would love to know who wrote the comment and whether they’ve been there. I lived in Spanish Harlem in the mid 90s and I remember going to an outdoor event in Harlem. I was with a bunch of African friends who totally chewed me out because I walked off to get a drink at a convenience store without telling anyone. There are parts of Harlem (and other neighborhoods in NYC) where it’s unsafe for anyone, regardless of what color they are. As for the fact that she didn’t know who Malcolm X was, that was a bit of a shock, but I’m not even sure they teach that in a typical high school history class and her crowd isn’t likely to go see a Spike Lee movie…. I hope she followed through with her plan to educate herself and her family.

[@mslcook471]

I was a white English teacher at majority black schools and I introduced the students to Malcolm X via reading his autobiography in American literature and Kwanza via using South African authors in British Literature.

[@markycruz8831]

This show demonstrates how easy it is to see other peoples' shortcomings and how defensive we can be when we are called out on our on!

[@allylondon9579]

Very American thing. I lived in this country for 15 years and I'm always taken back how defensive people get. They constantly on defensive stance all the time like expecting someone will always say will call them out on something

[@ggrad2651]

Looking at how Lissy is treated makes me think of Meg from "Family Guy".

[@miekam9675]

Straight up she need a good friend that will be so loyal to her because her family is not. The dad is a pushover, and her sisters think they are better than her.I hope she she is ok now.I hope she can see the comments that is very encouraging to her.

[@womenwhitson1104]

G Grad - Awwwww. You are so right. It is so sad that Lissy’s family life is similar to a show where the girl is hated. 💔

[@tianabrinkley330]

1. Dad's a punk the other is to busy for his family

[@nreynolds75243]

This is an example why there's prejudice because of being limited. When you only associate with your group of people, then it makes you ignorant of others. People are people no matter where you go.

[@LG-nx3fe]

I really feel bad for Alyssa, being bullied at home is just so hurtful! And her father is a disgrace 🙄he can't even tell those bullies off! 😤

[@kyleahorton3068]

When someone says oh She's black but I'm cool with that, their not cool with that. Otherwise why even mention it. And just from first impression I would have Rather been with Carl & I'm a country person that hates the city. And who above the age of 3 has never heard of Malcolm x

[@briannabombshell1921]

They’re * Fucking idiot

[@bongcountylounge3154]

@@briannabombshell1921 you have some serious issues. Ugly on the inside I see.

[@sezkay1283]

Octavia is such an empathetic lovely person.

[@padrecelestial777]

I like how the boys and shanti are more respectful than the stingy girls

[@veggiesarefruits]

The audacity of this man to take this guest in his house, who is supposed to be a substitute WIFE, and order her around as if she works for him...I can't imagine how Octavia must have felt. Surely he wouldn't do that to any other guest in his home?! WOW.

[@chulababy6366]

That is so foul that his father didn’t even go to his award ceremony or didn’t even go to register his son in college!!! I can guarantee you they will never forget that…

[@sarar2286]

Even the mom is disrespectful towards lissy!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! 😨😵😲😟

[@coryreid8419]

Sara R more then half in and waking up but hope to go back asleep b4 sun rises or be a long day I've seen alot of episodes in past and past week or 2 aswell I thought I had seen this 1 but I guess never clicked it anyway it seems she's gonna help alissa so perhaps u commentedb4 waiting to see if infact she does help her ??

[@christopherbarnard7236]

I know right 🙄 that's sad 😢

[@spoiledserena]

Octavia looks just like a dark skin version of Eve the rapper, am I the only one seeing that?!

[@nadieralacey2407]

She does!

[@nerdypanderzt.v4982]

Eve is dark skinned right? At least I thought she was. And yeah

[@truth9270]

Ugh she’s gorgeous ❤️

[@chynatown]

@@nerdypanderzt.v4982 Girl she ain’t no more! Lol.. go look at before and after. Looks like surgery and skin bleaching.

[@sexybonami]

Yes she do I was saying the same thing

[@elderridlon]

I normally don't post on these things. But I wanted to say I loved Octavia! I think she is a great model and example of an african american mom. She was compassonite, stern and loving. She showed her kids that education was more important than getting what you want and that you should be respectful and responsible for your actions and dealings. I hope her kids gained that respect as well. We live in a era where we are segreated and stero-typed. Octavia broke those walls and showed no matter where we came from we should be respectful, never point fingers at people or their race.

[@pepperpots1285]

I bet Lissie turned out to be the most successful person between all of the sisters there! Those two sisters can dish it out but can’t take it

[@idkausername4035]

When octavias son was rapping seeing her smile behind him made my heart so warm

[@creepykels]

It made me tear up when Octavia was doing Lissy's hair. The other girls saw the good feelings and wanted to be part of it. I wish they'd have a chance to have more moments like that.

[@mommabear2550]

It is really interesting to see how other white people feel around black people. It really opens my eyes. I grew up in a small country town with a healthy mixture of white and black the minority being spanish. I never felt out of place in a group of black people just because I was white. I have worked in an establishment with mostly black people and I remember coming to the realization I was the only white person after months of being there. It was never something I immediately thought about or had insecurities about. Seeing it from someone else's perspective makes me realize more about why there is such a divide. I never understood before but when you make it known that just being around black people intimidates you, scares you, or makes you uncomfortable I can now understand why some black people feel the way they do about white people.

[@BlackNoiseCat]

This is such a lie or you’re delusional

[@clementinemarsh476]

@@BlackNoiseCat how is it a lie or being delusional? what they said is true and not delusional at all, are you okay?

[@BlackNoiseCat]

@@clementinemarsh476 o because you believe everything everyone says on the Internet

[@clementinemarsh476]

@@BlackNoiseCat what they said is totally reasonable and not unrealistic, i guess you just go around and call everyone delusional liars on the internet when you haven’t even met them

[@rosegoldbanks4842]

I’m a black woman and what you stated is facts I understand where you are coming from

[@TheSkylayne]

She never heard of Malcolm X? She’s probably “well educated” too 🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️

[@gelduhart4480]

I think she was lying, she was throwing hell of shade soons she got there.

[@DSchae2165]

She probably went to some rich private school where her education was "white rich privileged". I'm white, but went to poor public school where they teach you much more diverse histories.

[@handoromper7987]

Who is malcolm X?

[@DSchae2165]

@@handoromper7987 the beauty of the internet is YOU CAN LOOK IT UP YOURSELF

[@evelyngarrisonrobertson3985]

Really surprised people live in there own world and judge others based on the bubble. If you don't know Malcolm X and from the US you are Not Educated your schooled bid difference.

[@lynbar-f6o]

37 looking like 27 go on Sister God Bless Octavia YOU and FAMILY

[@katieghoul0092]

Carl Sr was so sweet to Lynn in the beginning. Lol 😆 it's so interesting watching 2 totally different people/ personalities/strangers try to open up a conversation and relate on something. The producers did really well on writing the script for this one. 😂

[@curvycutie1206]

What is wrong with that crazy man 😡 he’s treating Octavia horribly!!! I’m sure his wife doesn’t do even half of what he was telling her to do 😡

[@jjeessz]

Those girls are spoiled rotten! Grow up Dad! And Octavia needs a man that worships the ground she walks on because she is wonderful. 💜

[@hind-buti]

OMG!!! The way they were starring at her !!!!!

[@alishashadows9599]

That's called editing.

[@ohtartarsauce6301]

@@alishashadows9599Naaah with the questions they were asking? Bfr

[@monkeymustang]

Octavia, I like you! Broke my heart that she tried to give her opinion (the entire basis of the experiment) and she was yelled at and DISRESPECTED the whole time. You’re a damn good woman, Octavia! “She can’t learn from your mistakes, Tom; she has to make her own”. ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@broughtbackin]

It broke my heart that she passed away! RIP Octavia. TOO YOUNG

[@renaissancelabels]

@@broughtbackinHow do you know my grandma?

[@broughtbackin]

@@renaissancelabels Who is your grandma?

[@pepoppins]

Brava, Lynne, for leaving the money to education! Excellent!