Trans Misgendering Women to Feel Better + Denying Their Competitive Nature | Jess Hilarious

[@TheSomethingnew1]

I’ve seen a lot of women trying to downplay their menstrual cycles in order to stand in solidarity with trans women and I’m going to make two points. 1. A lot of women got our periods before we were even teenagers. Our childhoods were disrupted by a monthly biological function that we had no control over. That biological function for so many women has caused hell for decades that affect our quality of life. And on top of that most doctors overlook debilitating symptoms that women experience in regards to their menstrual cycles. They throw birth control at us instead of acknowledging that something may be wrong. So we’re not “gatekeeping” it, it’s literally something that sticks with us for the majority of our lives. 2. Even if we did want to “gatekeep” it, we are literally the PORTALS into this world. Everyone living and breathing came from a v*gina. You don’t downplay that. Not for anyone. Y’all can be allies and still have some self respect.

[@Rhawn246]

Very well said!

[@LoneWulf278]

THANK YOU!! 👏🏽👏🏽

[@CrystalAcheing]

💯

[@kakishisfriend1126]

Well said!

[@destinymcgowan5328]

Period. We bring life into existence. To just deny that to please someone else is crazy.

[@PrettyPrincess9609]

I’m not a “ cis woman “. I am a WOMAN. I don’t care what the trans community have to say. You cannot tell me what I am. I am a WOMAN!

[@deasyastarr]

Right cuz when we chose not to live in delusion with them and tell them who they are because it’s biologically true they get their panties in a bunch. But they’re so entitled they think they have the right to tell us who we are and we’re supposed to accept that. Please

[@zakiyahamahad7404]

👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿thank you! I'm no one's cis anything and their imitation is not flattery.

[@TruBeauty]

& I thought they meant Sis as in sister… Nope they trying to put us real women into sub categories… Like it’s 2 types of women. No there are women and transformers… How dare they compare those blown out tires 🛞of a bwooty hole 🕳️ to a woman’s reproductive organs. A period is what transitions girls into women so how don’t we own menstruation? These lady boys are out of control

[@leila_de_hautjardin]

They say respecting pronouns and identities is important, which I agree. Then they should also respect women who want to be refered as women instead of cis women. Also did you hear the latest crazy thing ? Some people want to refer to women as non-men. It's so misogynictic

[@deasyastarr]

@@leila_de_hautjardin non-men. Call us anything but what we truly are huh? Anything to diminish our humanity and experiences.

[@jessinthecomments]

Hot take: trans women perform femininity from the male gaze, from what men think femininity is. Which is why they appear hyper feminine because born women exist in different levels of femininity but are still very much women and female.

[@royaltyinsidemydna]

You meab gay male gaze. Straight men generally don't like excess makeup and tons of fake hair. Gay men however think its cool which is why they do drag.

[@jmelanierenee]

@@royaltyinsidemydnawell that wouldn’t make sense. Gay men are not sexually attract to femininity of a woman

[@morenikefashina4433]

@@royaltyinsidemydnaactually they do a lot if them do. They like the performance of femininity in those actions. Even if you just do it to feel good about yourself they internalise that action and appreciate it. I’ve seen in in personal experiences and men have said it throughout time. Even Aristotle said “a woman without paint is like food without salt” so Yh même like it, they just don’t want to admit it .

[@3s_muycar0]

@@morenikefashina4433nah most gay men have their internalized hate for women regardless of how they identify. You will literally have gay man not prefer other gay man that are more feminine, be it in mannerisms, looks and especially if they do drag. And yes some trans women will do the most to affirm their gender, so to a lot of straight folks trans women will look very extra

[@dolloftheday]

@@royaltyinsidemydna “straight men generally don’t like excess makeup and tons of fake hair” …….. Latto, Ice spice, Beyoncé, Sukihanna, the city girls, Nicki Minaj, Asian da brat… shall I keep going? All Cis women that are deemed “desirable” by men and they wear heavy makeup and hair. Stop it.

[@whenyouwishuponastar6643]

Jess does not look like a man 🙄 anyone who misgendered her was just being shady. Very rarely is a woman actually misgendered for a man. It’s always just used as an insult.

[@jadacampbell9331]

It's a shame people try to use identity as an insult

[@babygirla5717]

Exactly she doesn’t look like a man people just be saying anything to try an insult other people.

[@LondonJade8]

They’re just colorist and featurist. Ppl hate bw don’t look similar to a ww’s phenotype so they insult bw for their skin color and phenotype . Has nothing to do with transphobia or whatever these ppl are now tryna come up with and I hate it especially because now colorism, featurism, racism that bw experience will now be watered down into “oh you just experience transphobia “ .

[@Gemgirl05]

Exactly!! I hate that some use that insult as an excuse and or cover-up for their actions. This whole thing is just a mess smh🤦‍♀😒😒

[@Ms.MD7]

This is another reason why I hate the word "cis" because it's used as an insult by many of these hateful transwomen.

[@MsSaggitarius]

As women, and especially BW, we need to start speaking up and make our voices heard. Stop allowing trans “women” to try to dictate what we should and shouldn’t do, stop allowing them to disrespect us, stop allowing them to give us these new terms that we didn’t ask for, and stop allowing them to feel entitled to our spaces. BW need to start advocating for the rights of other BW and girls from now on and let the trans community advocate for themselves.

[@islandgirl8067]

💯💯💯💯

[@CrystalAcheing]

💯💯💯💯💯

[@mrssuchafknladyy2078]

Well to be frfr, and this is solely My OP, I’ve never conformed or entertained the insanity and Delusions when These MEN🙄🥴🤷🏾‍♀️😂😂 I’ve been checking the shit from the door which is what Us, as a whole, as Blk Women, should have been fkn doing anyway and NOT GAF about if a mfs feels are hurt 🤌🏾👌🏾😂😂 I think alot of blk men and a lot of women are Scared to be TRUTHFUL and speak up bc they’re scared about losing jobs I guess or being labeled some type of mf phobia but IDGAF and I’m not gonna let the shit slide bc if you let a mf slide on you ONCE, they think they can keep fkn slidinggggg😂😂😂

[@blueorgin]

THIS!!!

[@blueorgin]

And the best way to start is speaking up when it happens in front of us and continue to push back online

[@zvengeancezealot3540]

Trans women know they’re not biological women because they expose rappers,athletes,etc that sleep with them.

[@kida758]

No they don't- they "expose" the men because they want you to know the men's actions don't correspond to their words in public. And also the men that you're dating also secretly desire trans women that's why they have their exposes.

[@onetiftif8626]

Damn, excellent point.

[@addictedtochocolateandcoff9582]

@@kida758 a minority of people{including men} are part of the lgbtqai+ so a minority of men that are homosexual or bisexual do not mind having tims/trns identified males ,the men that call themselves trans/women, that includes those on the 'down low' truth is simple as ABC

[@babygirla5717]

Right why have to do that if your actually a women real women don’t need to do that.

[@parishers6351]

And we never had to trick anyone to get some dYck about who we were in bedroom 🤣🤣

[@tikifreaky5204]

As a woman - I will continue to proudly gate-keep periods & motherhood 😊

[@bpwarren128]

I agree, and will gate keep too.

[@KeaDaCreative]

🫶🫶🫶🫶

[@babygirla5717]

👏🏽👏🏽

[@CelesteJem]

Yep. I’m good with my period and my womanhood. Thank you, Creator.

[@jaytruth6503]

this ☝️

[@I_am_milan]

Many Black trans women delight in watching real Black women get dogged out & be misgendered because they're bitter about their own lives.

[@mciheal7673PLUS]

Calling a man in a dress and makeup a "transwoman" and "she" and "her" is what got women into this mess. Just burn the cape.

[@DFortier3]

You aint NEVA EVA lie

[@babygirla5717]

Yep pretty much 💯💯

[@mojadah10]

Ugh! Exactly. Like I can't even follow the argument when you start off wrong.

[@Saveren_]

Burn the cape!!

[@parishers6351]

EXACTLY. Stop calling them women anything.

[@Jaxoflife]

I’m tired of these men bullying women.

[@cookie22100]

It’s very masculine to try and create needless competition. Some of them might be trans, but they still have that nature within them

[@alee111]

Right! If this ain't a pissing contest in femininity idk what is😂

[@keivajones1865]

Still got that testosterone and what does testosterone do? Increase competition, increase violence, and increase territorialism. These persons are territorial. It comes with the T hormone

[@thestylingtwins]

Good point

[@annabizaro-doo-dah]

Stats for violence are the same for cis men as for 'trans women'. They don't change after they transition.

[@parishers6351]

The nature to be deceptive 😂Stay away from those abominations

[@DarkandlovelyLovely]

They can dress like women and copy copy women, but they can never and will never be women. End of story.

[@Likelyfairy]

And that’s why they’re bitter and continue making their little videos 😂 all smoke and mirrors the self lies aren’t enough anymore 🥴

[@yoururmostimportantthing6736]

Right! Most celebrity trans non men (because I no longer call them women) have the money for gender reassignment surgery but don’t get it….I wonder why?? It’s because they don’t want to nor can they fully commit to being a womanhood. Womanhood is a birth right for biological women and only a dream and aspirations for them.

[@parishers6351]

Bitter men in females inspired form. Devils from a different world.

[@myawilliams7223]

i thought it was crazy how ts went right to jess looks ..but if straight women say "you look like a trans" we are being transphobic. but ts madison went straight to that lol wow

[@nikkie_a]

This

[@opinionateddd539]

They ALWAYS do that! They simply do not have an argument against the anatomical and biological truth that they will never be women.

[@theconceptofmentalwellness355]

Jess is truly beautiful

[@1643user]

That’s how y know it was never really about ally ship

[@tsherwood9498]

You know who else goes straight to looks in an argument...Toxic men! Redpill men and mysoginists!

[@mariahardy1201]

*I CANNOT AND WILL NOT ALIGN MYSELF WITH OR STAND UP FOR ANYBODY THAT DISRESPECTS ME...ALL WHILE TRYING TO BE JUST LIKE ME* ! Make it make sense.

[@DarkandlovelyLovely]

Thissssss!

[@Lynn-r7x]

"If trans women could have children it would be over"......if you could have children then you would actually be a woman then like us. Lol. See how that comes back full circle?

[@trisha1989]

they’re hard at work in the lab right now!

[@LondonJade8]

They’re going to kill themselves tryna be like women with all these surgeries and pills

[@adetomiakintitan4980]

@@trisha1989Lmfaooo maybe in the next 500 years. They’d have to change their whole DNA/ genetic makeup for that to be possible. They’d have to go from having XX Chromosomes to XY Chromosomes. Being a woman is not just having periods and being able to reproduce. All our reproductive organs and every other organs work together in order for reproduction to be possible 🤣 I can’t even begin to imagine how risky and invasive that can be if it actually becomes possible😪

[@gamerhitman123]

@@adetomiakintitan4980right I hear somebody did that in India but dead

[@izoedyourbabydaddy7628]

There are non transwoman that can't have children and they are still non transwoman. Having kids makes you a mother. Being a mother is a choice.

[@yourrealtor_Danielle]

I don’t like being referred to as cis woman or gender. I am heterosexual. I’m not apart of the LGBT community. Live your life, but don’t make up names for me and/or us! And, I mean that with respect.

[@CrystalAcheing]

Same too. I agree.

[@angelabaylor5854]

Agree

[@rmercedes971]

And we don’t need a qualifier, the cis is as unnecessary as adding “wet” to water

[@coconutwater4531]

I’m just gonna start acting like I don’t know what it means 😂🤷🏾‍♀️

[@tresboujay]

This!!!! Call yourself whatever you want but stay in your lane and stop bogarting ours.

[@DarkandlovelyLovely]

I remember I was having a great time with my family at a restaurant and these gay men sat next to us. One of them threw shade at me out of the blue and tried to misgender me, by calling me a him. So I used that opportunity to say aloud, is that a dude and they all got uncomfortably silent. I could tell the dude was bothered, because he kept giving me nasty stares. I didn’t want to do it, but I had to humble him down a few notches. They think they can just go around disrespecting bw, but not this one.

[@niratomas579]

They really get a dopamine hit when they “humble” us!🤦🏽‍♀️

[@garnetbabe2.0godschild40]

He wasn't ready for the smoke 😏

[@DarkandlovelyLovely]

@@garnetbabe2.0godschild40 I bet he still think about that.

[@i80748]

At the end they are men. Jealous cowardly men who compete with women. They won't do this to the ones who abused them for centuries. But they will gladly do it to women. They are beginning to look like BM. Men always put this weight on women I'm sick of it

[@addictedtochocolateandcoff9582]

alot of them have internal homophobia and think its best to PRETEND to be a hetero woman 🤔🤔

[@cheyennenuelle6711]

We give too much attention to them. As soon as you start denying them the attention they crave, its over for them.

[@parishers6351]

Mental illnesses works that way

[@tresboujay]

Speaking as someone who had to have a partial hysterectomy from the same iron deficiency as Chrissie along with multiple blood transfusions fibroids and iron infusions prior to that trust and believe if women could hand over periods we would. Outside of childbirth imagine envying or even wanting a effing period. It’s laughable at best!

[@deborahfrederick916]

I had a partial, then three years later had a full after bleeding for 30 days straight. HONEY!!! My periods were HELL for me until I had my hysterectomy at 36 years old.

[@xenaleroux9345]

Many women are insulted by being "confused" as trans.... Real women are NOT being misgendered.

[@xenaleroux9345]

@@AJ-mt9zt exactly, it very rare that even studs are mistaken after a second look as male.

[@mrssuchafknladyy2078]

It’s the fkn makeup for a lot of US and I’m not even talkin about myself bc ion wear Boatloads of fkn makeup 🙄🥴🫠😂😂 I can see how it can get to being too dam much🤷🏾‍♀️😂 then as a black race anyway, we have STRONG AFRIKKAN features and only the self haters think our strong features are “UGLY” or “MANLY”😬🤦🏾‍♀️ we we go too hard on the fkn HAIR HATS and the over exaggerated makeup and fkn windshield wiper eyelashes and it does tend to look Tran-ish and that’s how some of us tend to sometimes get mistaken for these fkn men in skirts and wigs 🤷🏾‍♀️🥴🤦🏾‍♀️😂😂😂

[@TheLastDrinkZA]

Speak on it!

[@evanescence8444]

Transphobia does NOT affect real women....it affects trans, unfortunately so too, but let's not lump real women into it.

[@PrincessYonna1]

@@AJ-mt9zt exactly they know she’s a woman, they aren’t mistakenly saying she’s a man. They only say that to insult and bully her

[@msconcreterose93]

I feel like BW need to start calling trans women who violate us misogynists when this type of behavior happens. It’s misogynoir period and that needs to have the same consequences alleged transphobia has. Call a spade a spade. It’s not “cisphobic” or whatever rhetoric I’ve seen people try to use on other platforms, it’s misogynoir

[@zoraxye4325]

Just call them "sir" as someone said during the live.. *Sir* *Dude* *Mr* *Man* *Mr Manman* *Mr Cock and Balls* See, we can be petty too.. & just watch how quickly they resort to ad hominem attacks, that testosterone riles up and how easily violent threats kick in...

[@questionresearch8721]

​@@zoraxye4325Damn😂. They want to play this game. Game on. I'm usually respectful about the pronouns but they want to play, we will play.

[@PrincessYonna1]

@@zoraxye4325 mr cock and balls😂😂😂😂 lmao

[@shayjoe7303]

So much so that they’d chemically castrate themselves and give their masculinity up to another man to uphold the misogyny. Say that women aren’t needed at all. Like what and they they try to use labels to manipulate us.

[@TilTheBreakADawn]

@@zoraxye4325 TALK about it. The surrender of the category of woman and the pronouns that go with it is the first grave error. By doing so, you've already entertained the deception.

[@HaitianBlackGinger11]

My period was so heavy, and I was always in excruciating pain, I almost bled to death. Had an emergency hysterectomy and 12 blood transfusions. My monthly menstrual was the death of me.

[@cvzdez]

I feel bad for the women who don't see the end game of this. These are men who have men in power who want conpliant sexual women. Trans women and men are very similar. They will be fighting for the same things in the end in they We should have babies for them We should be quiet We have no value We just birth children We owe them our time energy. When we don't do as they please they want to impose violent.

[@waluigisim]

Yes! I left a comment about the big picture here. Trans women are men and they want to exploit women as much as regular men do. They actively are dismantling the legal definition of woman so they can have access to female prisons, changing rooms, domestic violence shelters, women’s sports. They are actively tearing up women’s rights to safety from men. Many of them are still attracted to women after transition and want to be in our intimate spaces for s*xual purposes. Trans women are just as dangerous as the general population of men because they are MALE

[@babygirla5717]

Exactly it’s the same thing but hey let these women keep being dumb. Me and my momma always talk about this is a trick why are there men fighting so hard to be near and in women spaces?? You have to ask yourself this.

[@parishers6351]

They will even use women to carry their babies because they can’t get any outside of their wickedness

[@hotties3v3n]

Trans men and women are the same**

[@hotties3v3n]

💯💯💯💯💯💯💯

[@yahira6928]

1. Trans also wouldn't feel so bold if men didn't want them. 2. Women placed them on a huge platform and supported their journey 3. Women give them business as well as their spaces to become so bold We do have ourselves to blame for the BEAST they have become.

[@niratomas579]

Number 1 is such a good point! Men do triangulate transwomen against women which the transwomen then interpret as “winning”! Sis, he’ll say anything to have access to a h*le🤷🏽‍♀️

[@aanyamallick7747]

​@@hmm-zoololduh. If it don't apply to you move tf on..

[@derinaja456]

Boom! I was waiting for someone to say this!

[@ChrisJones-rm7uu]

Please, the only man who want them are gay

[@theoreticalviews2939]

Trans feel bold because they are males

[@natasharules6737]

I think the worst outcome of this is women missing out on necessary medical care because inclusion means the erasure of real women's issues.

[@hopefull3387]

Yes. And I see some women saying. This doesn’t effect me on a daily basis. Little do they know by the time you feel the impact of what’s going on, it will be too late to speak up. Signed your rights away 🤫

[@Meauxxo]

This !

[@1643user]

Yep. I have an ovarian cyst and none of my doctors will take it seriously. But if I went in there and said I’m trans can you help me I’m sure they’d get me the treatment I need

[@etherealdreams7546]

@@1643user wow u have an ovarian cyst and your doctors aren’t taking you seriously that’s pure racism bcus the medical industry oftentimes doesn’t take black women’s pain seriously; try to get some new doctors if u can

[@saifavalencia1156]

@@1643user y’all make it sound like being trans is so easy, I got rejected by multiple doctors and had to go to a place specifically for trans care, how about u actually transition and see how ppl treat u, stop acting like trans people have it so easy bc we don’t, they do a lot of the same shit to us that they do to u, I hope u can get the help u need tho. Bc that ain’t right

[@zakiyahamahad7404]

Yes, the three most protected classes are: Js, LGBTQ+, and BM in that order. And we need to boycott any movie that has an imitator playing a Biological Black Woman. Other women would NEVER allow that.

[@dominiquewyatt6704]

As Black woman we need to have a community of our own, to be protected. LGBTQ have there community, why can't we especially since we are constantly being attacked

[@Eyeluv2d]

What is Js

[@Divine_90]

@@Eyeluv2d Jewish white people

[@anonamous6320]

BM ain’t protected😂but they have male privilege

[@dominiquewyatt6704]

@mochamommyATX it did, I have not seen the barbie movie yet. Interesting. Now I want to see it now ❤️

[@triciam4798]

It’s ok to GATEKEEP Black women! We don’t need everyone all up in our spaces

[@grezsoy]

Black women better start standing up for their sex.

[@TheLastDrinkZA]

We've been fighting for centuries.

[@insertname2035]

Start??!!

[@meganhey2582]

@@TheLastDrinkZA not really, its been more recent

[@Not_Like_Us87]

Black women need to gatekeep thier blackness and femininity...stop allowing everyone to be black and women. Stop allowing these people in your spaces. We keep giving inches while non black people are taking a mile

[@PrincessYonna1]

@@TheLastDrinkZA I don’t see it. Black women have been fighting for other ppl for centuries.

[@jessinthecomments]

I think what frustrates most of us women is that people who have not been a woman their entire life what being a woman is and what defines women hood. Absolutely 100% women born and socialized as female and a woman are the only people who can absolutely define what womanhood is. It sometimes feels like some trans women treat being a woman as something you can just put on and there is so much more to not than that. So much of biology AND society creates what womanhood is. Also, they don’t understand what it’s like to be a girl child. Life is different for women beginning at BIRTH.

[@blkOnyx287]

Great point but they've never been women at any point in their lives. They've impersonated woman, but that chromosome is still XY.

[@zebrababy6267]

We are mammals. There are only two sexes. A man can’t be a woman, and a woman can’t be a man. Sorry, not sorry. I think being “nice” and not drawing a line is the reason we are in this mess. Chrissie was right years ago. Personally, I’m done with preferred pronouns. I’m not going to deny what is instinctive and natural to me, in order to cater to misogynistic gaslighting from the trans community. If you give an inch to their movement, they’ll take a mile. The line needs to be set. Period.

[@CalebTheOwlBoy]

2 genders and a medical condition. It's called intersex. If we want to be technical and even put things in perspective and say there are 3. But yeah.

[@CyberMachine]

She misread that study too and kept bringing it up

[@planckismus]

The fact that this needs to be said is insane. There are really people disagreeing with the fact that sex is real

[@addictedtochocolateandcoff9582]

@@CalebTheOwlBoy two genders/sexes indeed...although intersex is NOT a third sex/gender...i mean there is no third gamete, hence no third sex/gender..there's only two gametes{ova and sperm}

[@sparker7768]

IKR? They're wearing me out to the point where I'm just calling as I see. 👀

[@lauren6509]

I think trans women should be classified as a third gender too. Every week in the news I'm always hearing about sports or bathrooms and I don't know why people just can't make a third gender-neutral bathroom and a third gender neutral category for sports. Everyone needs their spaces and has the right to them so that should be the solution. BW burn the cape. Chrissie tried to tell us years ago and here we are whining and crying. Just like she told y'all about those biracials, overtly sexual representation, and black males. We always get on game when it's too late.

[@garnetbabe2.0godschild40]

I agree wholeheartedly

[@user-et2ng1qb2m]

Girl, people would be happy to do that but they don't want it. They want to be in women's space, women's sports, women's everything.

[@CyberMachine]

So males can win two categories while women get one. Small businesses now have to pay for another restroom and locker room. Yet you can't even find ONE news article about a transwoman being attacked by a man in the mens restroom/locker room. Don't fall for the BS

[@i80748]

Thank you I've been saying this from the start. They fight women because they want to be women. They compete with women . Claim their spaces and all the men . They are born men and know the male brain and fight /bully like them. This attack on women needs to end, I'm fck sick of it. Fck the men you want. And ask them to make a separate toilet for you and other separate places. Stay away from women .

[@anned.2085]

Because trans women dont want to be seen as trans women. They want to be seen as women. And they feel like women are obligated to help validate these feelings by sharing our spaces because they know deep down inside that its not really a female space if "cis" women are not present.

[@peachmari]

29:40 There is a great bw content creator that went over an international study that noted it's actually the obsessive behaviors of those experiencing gender dysphoria that causes those brain scan ambiguities. Essentially those who spend hours thinking, mimicking, and fantasizing about the traits of the opposite sex will start growing those pathways in the brain. It's the same concept as those who have stronger neural pathways because they can play an instrument or the differences noted in those with chronic depression. Spending hours upon hours doing anything will change the framework of the mind. It was REALLY eye-opening realizing what is really causing all this confusion...

[@chicken5706]

Wow where can I find this? Sounds so interesting!

[@addictedtochocolateandcoff9582]

BUT isn't that study null because it used trns who were on hormones?! i think both the only ever studies done had the trns on hormones ... better study would be prehormone/transition

[@peachmari]

​@@chicken5706 The channel is "The Radical Black Conservative". The video is "The 5 Hour Gay Day 18+ ONLY". The whole things is eye opening, but the study comes up at 2:10:00 minutes in.

[@peachmari]

@@addictedtochocolateandcoff9582 This is a different study that was done in Korea. This one has info regarding pretransition children.

[@meechelle]

Wow so interesting!

[@Sageandloving]

Chrissie!!!.. She can smell the BS miles away. I love you for us, Black women. You are so self aware. You are teaching us. We are listening, and people are threatened.

[@civbabez22]

Truth of the matter is.. not everything/everyone needs to be inclusive! Gatekeeping is important and necessary in every aspect of life.

[@spirituallife6296]

This! Ever since people learned the word gatekeeping, its become a “bad” word. People are allowed to gate-keep their unique experiences & culture. We are allowed to gate-keep what it means to be black & a women b/c we are the only ppl born black women. Japanese people are allowed to gatekeep Geisha fashion & makeup b/c it’s theirs, we are allowed to gatekeep our experiences because they are OURs. They always try to play in our faces and act like we’re not allowed to claim/ keep things for ourselves, when they do it all the time. Fck them forral

[@zakiyahamahad7404]

Every Biological Woman should be absolutely OFFENDED whenever an imitation says anything negative about us. Every Biological Woman knows even before their first period that we are the gatekeepers of society, let alone of life itself. And this seems to only happen when Black imitators speak on Black Women. It's time we step into our roles as the gatekeepers we are. Imitators are only looking out for themselves.

[@Orchid_1026]

LMAO not an imitation 😂

[@mercury6280]

That’s what they are, imitators.

[@zoraxye4325]

*Alternative view* taking offence gives them the attention and engagement they so DESPERATELY crave. Our next stage should be total indifference. Let them sound off to themselves and each other. Regardless of whether they're being rude or disrespectful, we can exercise the CHOICE to not react at all. #zeroEFFS #Unbothered

[@kaydeep7880]

Re the drag makeup IVE SAID THIS SO MANY TIMES. They wear makeup to look like women, we don’t need makeup because WE ARE WOMEN! Fake everything looks ridiculous! Makeup to enhance or awaken you - blush, lip gloss, mascara, concealer, brows - is fine, you will look ready to face the day. Excessive lashes, brows, contour highlight, lipliner - stop these stupid things please PLEASE!

[@ev6564]

Lipliner is good, but I agree with the excessive lashes and too much contour for everyday look it's too much

[@nikkie_a]

CHHRRRRRIIIISSSSIIIEEEE!!!! Everything you are saying I just said in a comment under another video. Word for word. This was a channel of a gay black male ( not dineva) and he had said “ y’all gonna stop acting like trans women are the enemy, it’s these niggas with a mic and a camera you need to be worried about”. In my head ( and in my comment in a different way) I said they are the niggas with a mic and a camera. Then later on he commented “ you never see these issues between transmen and biological men” and I said because transmen are biological women so that should tell you that biological women are not the issue. I am happy to see I’m not the only one that sees this. It’s really not us. It’s them. Not matter if they have a wig or a dress on or are rolling dust, THEY are the issue. Period

[@kristineilochi4615]

I know the KZbinr you're talking about. LOL

[@Not_Like_Us87]

Me too...but at the end of the day BLACK MEN HATE BLACK WOMEN WIG OR NO WIG💅🏾

[@nikkie_a]

@@kristineilochi4615Giiiirrrrrllll. I literally was shook. Though I should have, I didn’t expect that from him. Not as much as he loves his sisters and nieces. I always suspect he felt like that, I just never thought he would say it out loud….I’m waiting to see if he’s going to walk it back

[@nikkie_a]

@@Not_Like_Us87The thing is that men have to try and be dominant in everything they do and they think they are going to dominate us at being women and it’s not happening. And they’re mad

[@addictedtochocolateandcoff9582]

@@nikkie_a lol did he block

[@thefm9465]

I will never forget a time I went to this popular gay bar, and a 6’3 trans woman came over by where I was standing, and started to THREATEN me saying she “about to beat my a**” because I was “dancing too close” (mind you I’m 5’3 in a PACKED club with ALL MEN) I just kept ignoring her to the point her friend told her to STOP 🤣🫠 You may be a woman now, but you 6’3 at the end of the day. Mama ain’t raise no fool I’m turning the other cheek.

[@1643user]

I would have called the police and hot that man in a wig thrown in jail

[@JuniperMoonshine]

I gave birth thrice and breastfed 🤱🏾 all of my babies. I REFUSE to argue with them about my body and what makes me a woman.

[@MzCrayKray]

Ive been called fat, black... hell I've been called ugly and nappheaded. Smh I have never in my life been called a man. Or told that I look like one. Not even when the PCOS whiskers start popping out. 😂

[@shamikiabanks3946]

Trans women can take my Stage 4 Endometriosis and Fibroids any day of the week 😊

[@parishers6351]

As a mother and a wife, they can go to hell for my likes

[@louisewilliams9417]

Black women with afrocentric features are always being told they're masculine. I have Afrocentric features ,however I have haven't been misgendered yet.

[@PrincessYonna1]

Being masculized and misgendered are two different things. Ppl who call bw masculine know they’re real women, they only call them masculine to insult and bully them for looking “too Afrocentric “.

[@louisewilliams9417]

@@PrincessYonna1 💯 it's bullying

[@babygirla5717]

@@PrincessYonna1Exactly they’re not called that because people can’t tell. Like Serena and Venus people love to call them men but they know they’ve not it just to insult them.

[@lowkey3047]

I honestly don't want their allyship.

[@Isletfemme]

All this proves that natural born men will never loose the urge to compete and compare themselves to natural born women. Unfortunately, black women have allowed them access for too long. Look at the mess. Now they want to diminish the characteristics that we have that occur naturally. The same characteristics that they bargain for. We have something that they will never have. No pill, potion, or stitch will get them this, and they are fully aware. As I always say, do not be afraid to live and love beyond the hype.

[@gemmisco]

I love your brain, Chrissie. I love how analytical you are.

[@adaciacarmella1304]

Welcome too Terfdom ladies😂 nice to see so many black women on the same page about this issue. Been waiting a long time to see it🎉

[@wordsbymaribeja1470]

Even if it is reactive and comes after encouraging these trans identified males.

[@bloomingale7868]

Stop calling them “she”; that’s the first problem. Give an inch, opportunists will take a mile.

[@yayalux711]

It’s always ironic when TW say that biological women do not own or cannot gatekeep womanhood & female biology but I remember a trans social media influencer who posted a news article about utero implants (of course the article was centered around biological women who’ve suffered from uterine trauma) but she prefaced the post with how amazing it would be to be a step closer into making her feel like a real woman. I said whaaaaa?! I thought being a woman was about more than reproductive organs! 😵‍💫😵‍💫😵‍💫

[@Tha1AndOnly86]

Also let me add, don’t let the whole putting wombs in men distract women from the very real womb kidnapping they do in order to put these wombs in White Women. Putting wombs in men isn’t easy and isn’t anywhere near perfected, but you should always call it out regardless. Just also make sure to call out how they purposely destroy or steal the wombs of Black Woman to uplift non-Black Women. Thats where all that malpractice comes from.

[@thefm9465]

I actually like when chrissie eats on live, makes me remember she’s literally a person sharing her opionion and I’m just chilling 😂

[@Ricoque-u2m]

I already know she’s real. She doesn’t need to smack her lips excessively to prove that. It lacks manners.

[@sherelldavis2180]

Why don’t we hear any of this from Trans men? They are not going into male spaces causing all kinds of confusion

[@kendra516178]

They already know men will shut that down before they try to say it

[@courttttttt]

They were never welcome in those places to begin with.

[@babygirla5717]

@@courtttttttExactly just like men should be in ours simple as that.

[@Sarah-ts1jh]

I myself do not understand why transwomen are so desperate for periods. Periods are hell

[@babygirla5717]

Exactly I think that need to be checked into a mental hospital because who in the bright hell what’s a period.

[@munequa81]

Because as much as they argue about it, they know have a period is one of the many things that separate a man from a woman. They're denying biology and mad nothing can be done about it.

[@parishers6351]

I embrace mine. No hell to me at all. It’s nature so I embrace it.

[@wordsbymaribeja1470]

It's not about the periods, periods are just an indicator of actual womanhood, they like the lashes and the weave and domination of female spaces.

[@evanescence8444]

Men gatekeep their spaces and dont play that 💩, women need to learn to do the same. Yes, I believe their is enough space for all of us, so let them get their own spaces and leave ours alone.

[@youareenough4978]

I wouldn’t date a man that dated a trans woman. To me he is gay if he dates trans women (most of them haven’t had their bottom surgery, sooo 👀) I don’t want a bisexual or gay man.

[@tw0275]

THE WORD WOMAN SHOULDN'T HAVE NEVER BEEN ATTACHED TO THEIR NAME. PERIODT...

[@angelahunter5954]

If they can't call us women as we requested...I can't call them transwomen...but simply men

[@MZDezi1010]

They say they are more feminine that natural women but they cant let go that misogny to control women!!!

[@questionresearch8721]

Everything is not transphobia. I have been paying attention just like everyone else. I saw the disagreement when sports teams are allowing biological men who are trans women come into women sports. Especially when these girls have worked hard to get college scholarships.

[@ThePltsweet]

You mean men have started competing in women's sports in AmeriKKKa?😳😳

[@babygirla5717]

Exactly that is not right at all.

[@beautypageantsdiary8671]

They are black men, what do we expect from them.

[@easterbunny7404]

That part.

[@gamerhitman123]

No y’all black women the most support of the gay community so stop it

[@beautypageantsdiary8671]

@@gamerhitman123 as you just made a general statement without knowing me, let me do one for you to. Many black men support them with their penises, go figure darling.

[@ddashiell8336]

I really appreciate your channel. This isn't spoken about enough

[@jadeade8657]

Whew Chrissie! The way you just gathered so many black women up at 17:00. Never thought about it that way, but you’re right 😭

[@RoseTea77]

I do wonder why it's anti trans to not recognize their pronouns but not anti woman for not recognizing that some women prefer not to be labeled as CIS??? Respect is a 2 way street. 🤷🏾‍♀️🤷🏾‍♀️🤷🏾‍♀️

[@hopefull3387]

I stand with you Chrissie. I do not think you were disrespectful at all. At this point if you disagree with them, you are considered a phobic. Thank you for saying what some of us are too afraid to say because of “cancel culture” or fear of bullying. Women are the gatekeepers for womanhood. The reason Jess said mental illness is because you as a trans woman tell me, a woman what I am or what I am not is ridiculous . Does that make sense? Thank you Chrissie for standing up for women, and black women especially. Stand up for what you believe in or fall for anything. (I know my grammar is horrible @grammar police)

[@pariscarla822]

I say we should change our language surrounding these individuals. Instead of referring to them as women in any capacity(because they’re not) I vote we should call them trans identified males. Which they are. Even by their own standards.

[@lindam4953]

Agreed!

[@ShaynieB]

I call them imposters. And i’m standing on that! I dont identify or align with demons.

[@GrowEvolve78]

I'm a woman. Born a woman. Gon' die a woman. I'm not putting cis or any other qualifier in front of sh!t. If you're trans, do you boo but be who you are. And please let women (natural born women) be.

[@92pbanks]

I heard a conversation about trans women still having misogynistic views, because they think like men. This channel talks about how bm have failed us and make excuses. That intersectionality is something that needs to be studied. 😂😂😂

[@alisalindsey3051]

BECAUSE THEY ARE MEN!

[@overcatter7647]

On the iron deficiency, I feel for you Chrissie. I had that problem too. I’ve been using transdermal patches. I find that I absorb iron better through my skin and iron pills/tablets are so hard on a lot of people’s bellies. I can even wear 4 patches at a time and have no problems. They really helped me feel so much better. I hope you feel better soon too.

[@wordlifefactory1656]

I agree, iron deficiency is no joke. Everyone feel better.

[@ev6564]

I need to look into those patches! I tried so many iron supplements orally and they all make me sick (which is weird since I'm not normally sensitive to supplements)

[@overcatter7647]

@@ev6564 I buy the PatchMD ones. Often on holidays they have sales and you can get a good price. I stock up then. It’s been a while since I have purchased and I can’t remember if they have free shipping or not. For a long time, when I was really deficient I wore 4 patches at a time. I put them on the insides of my wrists and on top of my hands-places with thinner skin for good absorption. I wear them at least 4 hours at a time. I think I read somewhere that’s how long they give you iron. But of course, you can ask whatever manufacturer you buy from. Good luck! They really helped me and I hope they help you too!

[@maam-yj8ph]

Take Vitamin C with supplemental iron to help absorb the iron better. But if you have leaky gut or other digestive issues, that would make it difficult to absorb in the first place.

[@BarbieDawl.__]

At the end of the trans women your beef is not with us your beef should be with the man upstairs, that saw fit to make you a man and then not make you a woman.

[@CallHerTJ]

Trans women beef should be with biological men. Women are not the ones ki**ing them in high rates. Women are not the ones creating & passing legislation in regards to their rights. Women are not the ones keeping men from dating them. Yet somehow, EVERY TIME they get to dragging, fussing & cussing, it’s always directed at women.

[@CrystalAcheing]

@TransgenderObsession.3798lol then why do they try to act like they are better than biological women.

[@blueorgin]

@TransgenderObsession.3798stop pretending like trans don’t consistently come for women and in particular BW. Stop being delusional that’s why we’re divided your narcissistic and sick!

[@CrystalAcheing]

@@Elektrikkiss lol like I said what I said. Tf.

[@CrystalAcheing]

@TransgenderObsession.3798 yes and that’s why biological women and transwomen need separate spaces.

[@cvzdez]

It's like envy going onto fatal attraction

[@grezsoy]

TS indeed throw shade. She's a nasty man calling us fish.

[@ladyliz9981]

Discussions about transformer females and gay men make me so proud to be a biological woman and I’ve actually been embracing all the good and bad that comes with being one. Hope this encourages women to embrace what we’ve been taught to hate 😘

[@alimcb94]

💯💯💯♥️🎯

[@neonraindrop8357]

Aint nothing to be proud of, but I'm glad you're enjoying watching other clowns put people down.

[@db6881]

​@@neonraindrop8357 No sir, we just enjoy the truth finally being said.

[@alimcb94]

@@neonraindrop8357 nothing to be proud of??? 🤔 Women literally give life. U sound like a transformer too 😂

[@felicidadgreene2756]

Trans identified males and trans identified females is what we should call them

[@royaltyinsidemydna]

Nah. Just call them persons with gender disphoria

[@felicidadgreene2756]

@@royaltyinsidemydna You can try that but they won’t like it since they won’t admit gender dysphoria is a mental health condition. Also a lot of these people who claim trans, don’t actually have gender dysphoria…they’re grifters seeking oppression points

[@addictedtochocolateandcoff9582]

yep,tims and tifs is what i call 'em

[@annabizaro-doo-dah]

Yup. Call them She? How do you then say "SHE can't compete on the girls football team"?

[@RampagingChipmunk]

It’s unfortunate that the discourse ends up being this… petty. It seems to me that trans people have significantly more troubling issues to focus on than this. Stuff like this is terrible image/promotion for them.

[@wordlifefactory1656]

This is one of many in what may be part of assembling an identity or re-identifying oneself, so it may be significant to some of them in that community. It's when it starts getting interesting with words, that don't accurately depict what goes on in a woman's journey, who was born as one, that there's room for tension and issues.

[@user-et2ng1qb2m]

It seems petty to you because it's not trans people. It's transwomen. As men, you'll never have the same issues with transmen whether it's in your spaces, in your programs, in your sports, representing your needs that they'll never have any understanding about, etc. This isn't petty- you're just speaking from a place of being unaffected.

[@kennyhumble3699]

Exactly

[@kennyhumble3699]

​@@ElektrikkissI know that's right

[@RampagingChipmunk]

@@user-et2ng1qb2m I was saying that trans women are the ones behaving in a petty manner, not biological women.

[@sup3rn0v]

We also nedd to talk about how gay dominated fashion and "beauty" industry perpetuate misogyny and how they objectify women.

[@elatquotes7725]

I agree 100% they run Hollywood and the fashion industry. How you ever wonder why when straight men go to Hollywood or the music industry they usually end up gay? The pedophiles is what behind the LGBTQ and they’re the ones pushing the gender affirmation on our kids seasonings them for the trans age. As black women we have to stop this discord.

[@mooncat4376]

You would think the group of ppl that would say that biological women don't own periods would be transMEN. But let's be honest, how you're raised/socialized plays a big part in this whole discussion. And we see it with how transwomen navigate the world vs the way transmen do. But, tbh, I don't think we need to call transwomen "men" or names like "he/she". And it's largely bc of the **OPTICS**. I think it's totally possible to firmly make the distinction w/o making us (BW) look bad. Just neutrally call them transwomen- if someone says something slick, then shut that shit down. Many these transwomen already look so obnoxiously defensive and petty- there's no need to stoop to that level. Peep the game, take note, and COMPETE, but do it with some tact.

[@niratomas579]

They ARE obnoxiously defensive and it’s exhausting! They don’t even realize how much they’re alienating members of their own community by being so petty and defensive! I hear lesbians do not feel safe at all in the LGBTQ+ community because trans women see them as transphobic for wanting to date other biological women🤦🏽‍♀️

[@WeShareTheSameAffliction]

I call them biological males because that's what they are.

[@CalebTheOwlBoy]

That's a pretty insightful take.

[@Otherwise88]

Great point about the optics. There is no reason to make BW look like the hateful bitter ones.

[@rebecca4829]

If they are adult human males then they are in fact men regardless of the optics.

[@DarkandlovelyLovely]

Some of them get mad at women, for simply being born women, but they do everything in their power to be like us. They even go as far paying top dollar for what we are naturally born with. They better pay homage and show some respect to the originals 😎

[@Bresocharming]

Girl you were clear.....Period ....pun intended ❤

[@heychardai5870]

I will not be reduced to weird made up terms or quotation marks. I am a woman. End of discussion.

[@humptydance7498]

At this point I'm SICK of the transformers! They will NEVA take our place PERIODDDD. 🙄

[@sagalduraan3489]

I get from Chrissie's channel so much enlightenment and perspective that I actually needed.

[@evolvinglove7786]

My periods were so bad that having a vaginal birth was a walk in the park. To some woman periods are painful!!

[@Liteforthescene]

Chrissie been telling us this for years and it’s happening!!!

[@laurendilaurentis6467]

“If trans women could give birth, it would be over for cis women” this sent me 😂😂😂 like ok? so basically it’ll never be over for ciswomen

[@thestartobe1]

There are definitely valid points to this and I’m tired of people acting like there aren’t.

[@joeannchaney1219]

You really hit the nail on the head about the makeup!! Women have been doing full drag Queen makeup for years and then looking down on you if you weren’t “baking” your face as well!! I would always wonder if they were going to a ball.

[@toshonline5]

A real woman hates periods 😂

[@Bibirallie]

Black women need to continue to speak up. I think women of all races are starting to speak up, we need to voice our opinions and act accordingly. They are quietly trying to silence women.

[@SemajRaff]

37:42 Because black women, more than anyone in the black community, give out the most cookout invites. Black women celebrate anybody imitating them. See the Kardashians, see white women that act hood…bigging up y’all’s competition/replacements I enjoy Chrissie’s content from time to time. It’s nice to see things from another perspective. Your honesty is appreciated. I did notice, you spoke with a level of kindness/respect for these men imitating women than actual men.

[@serenitysbubble2384]

This is really an interesting topic 😮. In England it's the white transgender women forcing themselves on the white woman in England black transgender women are not really represented here. I think BW in America really need to take a stand against the nonsense.

[@EnlightenedFemme]

I bet those white women in England are not playing with them. We need to take notes from how biological white women deal with white trans women 😂

[@orderedme_ohgee8607]

Femininity, and masculinity is an energy. Whether I’m feminine, or masculine I am an adult female, which is the textbook definition of “WOMAN!” In which I identify as such!

[@shayjoe7303]

Yes, but our bodies are designed as a temple for our dominant energy and be able to express it in the physical. We are half of yin/yan ☯️. We have both energies ,but see how small our opposing energy is. The whole yin-yang represents Union and it’s the energy needed to bring forth life. We are designed to rest in one energy or our bodies would that(we’d all be intersex). As above so below…

[@tuesday225]

We have to not let them shame us with that transphobia label. I am transphobic and I own it. I am sick of these people and have been saying this stuff for years. I'm glad REAL women are finally speaking up.

[@alisalindsey3051]

ABSOLUTELY 💯 AGREED!!

[@suzettewilliams1758]

My reproductive cycle had me in a chock hold each month. I had fibriods, I had two surgeries to remove them and they still grow back. I had Mittelschmerz (ovulation pain) while on the pill. It was luck I was not sexualy active at the time as I could have got pregnant. I had painful heavy period. Now I'm in menopause a bugger me if I've just not bleeding and started on hot flushes, anxiety and feel exhausted on-stage other symptoms that I did not know about. Unlike your month menstrual cycle, menopause symptoms never end, it constant unless you can get HRT, which I fortunately have.

[@L0VEJ0NES]

Yes Chrissie, YOU ARE WAYYY TOO NICE !!!!!😂

[@blacklollypop8551]

It was a yt trans staying in a sorority home with yt girls they wanted him out but the college said no.

[@coconutwater4531]

This is like a runner in a race telling their opponent to slow down. 😂

[@aubreysellssofl]

The fact that new terms are created with every video tells me all I need to know!

[@DarkandlovelyLovely]

We are not Cis women, we are biological women, a gender that they will never ever be. God created me as a women and i walk in that proudly.

[@zebrababy6267]

I would not refer to science in this area as the end all be all. The science in this area is so biased, political and problematic, that I wouldn’t trust it. Some studies say the complete opposite 🤷🏽‍♀️

[@citrine_parfait]

Well said.

[@WhoCares3001]

Angelica Ross was on twitter telling BLACK WOMEN it was our fault straight men didn’t openly date them because of our transphobia. Said MANY Black men told "her", they cant claim them openly because if they broke up they'd have a hard rime finding a Black women to accept them after datung a trans. *You see the .mental gymnastics necessary tneeded to just accept these dues dont eant to claim you*? So a Black men who cant come to grips with the fact he's straight and a Black man who decied to transition sitting around blaming Black women for their plights. But "cis/sis", right?!

[@jaytruth6503]

They're just mad because biological women refuse to date men who date them, if that's transphobia so be it!🤷‍♀️

[@prettyqueen573]

Chrissie, you completely opened my eyes to the BS years ago, and it has made me level up in so many ways. Thank you so much! ❤

[@ReallyMaxx]

CHRISSIE!! YASSSSSS ALLL THE WAY!!!! #AllFacts