Transforming my dads cluttered and chaotic kitchen into something cozy and clean

In this video I clean my Dad’s kitchen, and we have a chat about my childhood, neurodivergence and being “naturally messy.”

[@remiclog]

Guys…I am very aware that I talk extremely fast in this video. Something to bare in mind is that I am still a relatively new creator in the grand scheme of things ( even more-so when I created this particular video) And it takes time and practice to perfect any kind of craft! When it comes to voiceovers, I am still learning about timing and spacing and trying to improve with each video. I transitioned over here from TikTok, over there the tempo is extremely fast! And that style of voiceover doesn’t necessarily translate well to long form. It can be quite strange (and cringy!) to look back on old videos and see just how much my voiceovers have already improved. Ultimately though, it’s I still stand by everything I said in this video. The topic means so so much to me.

[@reneechristensenpillow8373]

You are doing very well. Practice will improve anything.

[@amandazte1412]

This video made my day ... I am an absolute perfectionist and have laser-focus in my working life, but my kitchen often looks like this one despite me giving myself regular pep-talks about not letting it slide. I absolutely loved your voice-over and it made me feel less judged and a bit less rubbish about myself ... thank you so much!!!! xox

[@Sunshine-hv1eu]

I LOVE your voiceover and timing!! I find the pacing of many creators is too slow for me-I get frustrated and fast forward or change the playback speed then usually stop watching/listening. Yours is refreshing and easy to dive into and engage. Please keep doing what you’re doing! It’s inspiring and empowering as well as enjoyable! Thank you so much!!

[@helenmcdonnell2585]

You're pace is just fine for me, you're videos are giving me strength to go fix up my relatives house, only just found your videos the other day from that nice bloke who does the Midwest Moose videos. He's a sweetheart who cleans homes for free with his lad. Anyway, thanks for your input , wishing you everything of the best love from Derry, Northern Ireland.

[@danagantt4841]

You're doing great and I am learning a lot from you. Thank you for sharing. ❤

[@SweetShaymaa]

Best narration on KZbin 👍 who else agrees ??

[@remiclog]

Wow this is the biggest compliment! Thank you so much! ☺️

[@kelliswatson950]

I love listening to her!

[@susansalter566]

She like a therapist❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@susansalter566]

Talks with pure love understanding and profound wisdom💚💚💯👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

[@mariza101_]

She is so sweet and lovely 🥰 to listen 🎧

[@anne_tlc]

This lady must be protected at all costs. Remi, you have the sweetest soul, if only everyone in the world was as kind as you it'd be a magical place❤

[@BillieLoveday-f8r]

Came for the cleaning, stayed for the wisdom, empathy, and beauty of language to describe what so many are going through but struggle to explain. ❤

[@kathrynmcnerney6490]

I know, she is wonderful ❤️

[@beenajacob4020]

Your Dad raised a beautiful heart - his best creation is YOU. Great job...

[@pamelap.123]

I came for the cleaning but stayed for the wonderfully articulate lecture on neuro divergence! I really enjoy listening to people who do not have "fillers" in their speech and can verbalize with such a fluid style.

[@mariaoropallo4224]

Same! And shared with others who cheered our girl on.

[@TheMoodyHouse]

Your transparency is amazing. You may not know but this video will help a lot of people including me.

[@laurawrona7961]

You maybe the best therapy session i have ever had. Bless you.

[@remiclog]

Wow, what a compliment, thank you! ❤️

[@lizashanti748]

What a brilliant and articulate explanation of the diversity of struggles within your family. What blew me away is your empathy and love for everyone. I will follow your journey in the hope of learning more. Simple amazing ❤

[@remiclog]

Thank you so much! ❤️

[@marlaandrews8344]

You are a remarkable wise young woman.

[@rebekahbarker7594]

This is more then a cleaning video, this is a therapy session. You have such insight into your family’s gifts, talents and struggles. I love how real you are.

[@lilyrose7624]

Never thought I'd be reduced to tears via a cleaning video 🥲

[@vivianholliday4338]

😢 tears because your 🏡 🏠 is a mess to and u r lazy also.

[@valeriezalesak2615]

You are very easy to listen to and your intelligence comes through in your vocabulary. Don't count yourself short.

[@WalburgisLuppus]

Obviously Dad is far from lazy if he works so many hours at his job. You are a wonderful angelic daughter for helping him, thank you ❤️🙏🏻

[@corriegilbert3635]

You’ve done a great job with your dads place. I love how you’ve been able to understand yourself and work with your frailties and issues. I applaud you xx

[@zoefrancis2846]

Remi oh my goodness. This was your best voiceover yet! You are so insightful and intelligent, with so much heart and humility mixed in. I’m sure you’ve heard of the social model of disability. It describes how people are not disabled by their condition or neurodivergence, but they are disabled by the world around them, that is not set up for people like them. I loved hearing about your family and I feel inspired by your pearls of wisdom. I’m looking forward to more and more videos and I hope you’re getting as much out of the process of making them as we do watching them. These videos are such a gift. Thank you !

[@mellinac1841]

The world would be a nicer place if we had more people like you xx

[@remiclog]

That’s very kind of you 😊

[@vickichapman2715]

Bless its so good for you to talk like this you will help so many people ❤

[@debbiestott3651]

You are one amazing daughter. Be careful when using a lot of chemical sprays, don't want to be inhaling too many. Fantastic clean up. X

[@greekgirl9897]

The loving care and understanding you show for your whole family and especially your dad brings tears of joy to my eyes! With all of the horrors swirling around us these days I can't tell you what a pleasure it was to meet you today. You have brought a light happiness to my heart and I feel love for you Remi. From a Greek girl.

[@tiffanyg85455]

Absolutely the same for me today!!! Goodness I need to find a degree of this optimism and kindness in myself!!! ❤

[@lb-c6670]

The best cleaning tool I ever invested in was a hand held steam cleaner with attachments. It replaced most store bought cleaning agents. It takes terry towels for cleanup which can be washed & reused. This reduced exposure to chemicals & kills mold & does not leave residue cleaner which attract dust & dirt. 🙂 Liked your video especially your care & understanding.

[@kmr9230]

Love your narrating and sharing your history in a very relatable way - thanks

[@robingirlwonder5067]

You just explained my life to me... I am astonished! I can do things for anyone else but when faced with doing simple tasks for myself I freeze when I try to figure out where to begin!

[@christinachandler1687]

Dear Remi, it is Chrissy from Australia here. My darling girl, you are a pleasure to listen to. You are a bright light in this dark world . Everything about you is so sincere and honest. Don’t ever change, and don’t let anyone make you feel that you need to. God bless you and your lovely family. ❤

[@marytolmie2358]

I agree Chrissy! Remi I loved both watching your work and listening to you. Your insights into human nature are fascinating. You are bright and articulate and inspiring! Your dad must have been so pleased with your gift of time! ❤

[@orlandosetanta]

The love you have for your dad is gorgeous :)

[@rarejem12]

My goodness, you are an incredibly intelligent young woman!! Such a sweet thing to help your father, all while giving people such knowledge on neuro diversities!!

[@jarcha4200]

You are an incredibly talented public speaker as well as a level headed, intelligent, kind human. Thank you for sharing your family’s story with us.

[@bearfog07]

Wow, Remi, I can so relate, lack of affection from parents, overly critical mother, a long time in an out of hospital as a kid. The awful, crippling shyness which I never had until I went home to mother. People misunderstanding me as being snobby when I was actually a pretty nice person, so I kept to myself and still people would pick on me. I DID have friends throughout my life though, once I broke through the shyness. Great job on your dad's house. I remember cleaning my dad's home when I went to visit, so this video is very close to my heart.

[@khm9879]

This video is pure therapy and what a lovely take on how just because people don’t keep a clean house doesn’t mean they aren’t taking care of themselves - some folks, even if they desperately want to tackle everything, know that other activities that others would consider “side quests” are deeply important to their mental health. I’m sure he’s absolutely thrilled to have someone put so much love and help him with this particular part of his life. It looks absolutely gorgeous and thank you for the motivation from a fellow neurodivergent!! I hope you also get great encouragement and satisfaction from knowing how much positive this does for not only your dad but all of us viewers around the world! ❤❤

[@remiclog]

Thank you so much for this!! You have made my day with this comment ❤️

[@vivianholliday4338]

Definitely not, why are you just getting around cleaning his home.peopmr are so one sided,not me,look all around to understand,or see the worst of a situation 🤔,such as the daughter and father situation not smooth at all.

[@khm9879]

@@vivianholliday4338 way to take the time out of your day to spew vitriol on the internet. I hope you never find yourself in need of help in a tough situation - based on your comment I doubt you are able to maintain the kind of loving, genuine relationships that are required to show mercy to others which will inevitably exclude you from also receiving it. Try using the rule- if you can’t say something nice (or aren’t in a position to lend a hand) don’t say anything at all. It’s not difficult for most of us. Also, who watches AND comments on videos they don’t like???? That’s like turning in the TV to watch commercials all day and then writing letters to stations that nothing good is on. 🤣

[@vivianholliday4338]

@khm9879 this comment is boring and to long, I didn't read it all.i say what I please, don't hate you sorry hypocrite 😐. He is lazy,why you take so long to help him,she's pathetic and a hypocrite. Anything else please texts me 9879.you're a pathetic also.

[@juliewilbur647]

I'm almost 70......just figured out i like my kitchen clean and my bed made......never too old to learn!!!!!!💖

[@revk8611]

You explain conditions with such knowledge and compassion. I just love your videos and you are a sweetheart. Love from Canada!

[@hollyyoung2850]

I like a tidy house but if I worked from 5am till 4pm, my house would look a lot worse than this. I love your narrations, you’re a thoughtful and emotionally intelligent person, the world could do with more people like you. Great job💪

[@remiclog]

This is a lovely thing to read, thank you 😊

[@barbaralupole3416]

Thought I was was going to be watching a before/after cleaning video. Well, I saw that and a compassionate, intelligent woman sharing her life story. You have an incredible outlook on life! Take care and God Bless.

[@le-netteleveston6835]

You are a great daughter. There needs to be more like than complaining. Thank you for sharing your love.

[@hattyflame3889]

Your a very smart and caring young lady!! Good for you and best of luck with your channel ❤ sounds like a very hard working family 👪 ❤

[@SallyPayton]

Young lady, everything you said rang a bell with my life. You are wise beyond your years. Thank you for this and helping your dad. There is another cleaning video, its name is Midwest magic and the manhis name is Mac. You and he need to talk. Love from Florida in the USA

[@lizwallberg859]

no judgment except for you, What a wonderful giving daughter.

[@vivianholliday4338]

No she's not,why so long to clean,r u out of state.

[@chrisvalley5776]

Remi - I'm always astounded by the amount of wisdom you posess at such a young age. I never fail to learn something from you with each video you release. You're a lovely mum and an outstanding human.

[@deniseedwards7536]

You are a gem😘. Wise and very loving daughter who shares her love. Well Done!

[@Krampus360]

Your father's face when he saw the metamorphosis must have been delightful and satisfying to see! 🌹❤🌹Congratulations and best wishes to both of you. He is not the only hero in his house. ❤ You are truly a dynamo and a guru. 🌹

[@InspiredbyBarbNatifu]

Very loving daughter. May God bless you for your service towards your dad.❤ Not many kids care for their aging parents.

[@nicoleblake9266]

Ur such an understanding daughter who obviously loves her dad and parents very very much. Thank u for ur videos. I went thru my fridge while watching this one. I thoroughly enjoyed it. Thank u also for sharing part of ur life with us. It got me to thinking and asking myself sum questions. I appreciate how ur influence helps make ppl a better person or version of themselves. I struggle with keeping my house clean as well. ❤

[@elizabethsavage9108]

What a beautiful human being you are , god bless you for being so kind and giving 🎉

[@beckyhowarth4359]

Love listening to your “rambling” as you call it Remi. 😂 You did an amazing job. Dads kitchen is so nice too btw! Like you said you’re helping out someone who helps you out. Your hero #family 🫶💕

[@mickydct1]

What a beautiful human being you are. ❤

[@kendrawaterbury2328]

Isn’t she, though? ❤

[@dianemazon1937]

@@kendrawaterbury2328 Yes, she is an absolute delight...

[@mog-gyveroneill2500]

I was almost in tears watching this. Everything you said completely resonates with me, my life, my personality, my struggles. You and your family are amazing.

[@mog-gyveroneill2500]

I keep my toothbrush and toothpaste on my kitchen windowsill, so I brush my teeth when I put the kettle on.

[@xXiadoremusicXx]

Well, you just obtained a new fan here. I admire your very compassionate, empathetic and honest output on how and why you do what you do. The way you express about the people you help aid for the viewer to understand that the person behind these scenes are truly human, as we are all flawed, and this really helps to understand the mental health issues that most of us are too embarrassed or overwhelmed to even mention (at least in my case). Your way to narrate your experience really shows love, compassion, empathy but also the awareness that you carry on your person. "A way with words" if you will. I share the liking of listening to true crime audio/podcasts while cleaning or doing other activities that require some kind of background noise that is interesting. Highly recommend to anyone struggling with focus or drive to maybe try to find a type of podcast, audiobook, or something similar that can ease with the overwhelming thoughts that lead to dreading a task or process. Might not be the solution but trying it may open a new way of coping for some. Anyway, I'm really enjoying your content. I enjoy the narration, the emotion, the exemplary attitude towards people and the motivation. A complete package that also helps heal some scars and pain along the way by informing and guiding.

[@Schiffon]

xoxo ❤️❤️🤗 Many thank you’s for the insight and self compassion you share with us all. I’m so proud of your accomplishments and hope to add your enthusiasm to my needed cleaning chores, dear. ❤

[@lindaleeupton5984]

She made me a fan too. I have a son and his mostly grown kids that all have ADHD and one has Asperger‘s. I get so frustrated with the way their house looks! She helped me understand their brains just don’t work like my OCD brain. She’s amazing.

[@terryc1445]

The love, respect and admiration for your dad came through in your video. Good work.

[@vivianholliday4338]

Are you serious,love,respect,caring,finally why is the home like that at all can someone answer that,u definitely can't u all r hypocrites.

[@terryc1445]

@@vivianholliday4338 sorry you feel that way. As Thumper said in Bambi, “if you can’t say something nice, don’t say anything at all.” I think you are the “pot calling the kettle black” as the old saying goes when you call us hypocrites. You have left nothing but negative comments on this channel. If you feel that way, don’t watch it! There are thousands of channels you can choose instead.

[@vivianholliday4338]

@terryc1445 Terry silly, don't every feel sorry for me,I will definitely say what I fe,just like you so that makes you a hypocrite, and stupid. If you don't like what I says,then you should keep scrolling away mrs. Pathetic hypocrite.people put there business out there for you & I to 👀, now do u understand anything clearer or r u still dumb and stupid.

[@teresah4190]

You did an amazing job! I can relate with many of the things you said. God bless you!

[@liaw3994]

It's not hard to make things tidy, it's hard to keep things tidy. Great video 👍

[@grannyvee5789]

What a wonderful daughter.

[@elenalatici9568]

I hope you appreciate how brilliant you are. Seriously, you explained complex concepts with immense clarity. Your empathy is stunning. Rather than focusing on what can be seen, you dive down to the roots of dysfunction lurking beneath the surface that others see and judge harshly. Your generosity in your descriptions of your parent and siblings is unlike anything I ever witnessed. Much respect and admiration. Please, if you read the comments, don't think twice about the negative ones. There will always be people who are unreachable. I've subscribed to your channel and lok forward to getting to know you BTW, my house is a disaster, though very much less of one than it was a week ago. I found this video to be incredibly helpful, especially with the hard task of letting go of some of the shame. 🙏🏼❤️😘

[@ashleycloud_]

Wow, you have explained my ADHD in a way that I have never been able to put into words. Maybe because it's one of those things that only us ADHD folks can understand yet have no way to explain to the neurotypicals. My ADHD manifests in executive dysfunction, hyperfixation, task paralysis, and rejection sensitivity disorder - so you summed it all up. The bit about failing your school exam because you were so late... absolutely bonkers to hear someone else talk about these sorts of experiences. Thanks for being vulnerable it makes us NDs feel less alone.

[@remiclog]

❤️❤️❤️

[@annesanger1019]

Great Cleaning. Lovely Daughter. BRILLIANT CHAT

[@AlisonRachael90]

You’re so wonderfully articulate. My son has autism and you explain things so lovely. Great job. You’re a fantastic person xx❤

[@leorasotto9587]

I'm a therapist with 40 years of experience, and, waw, did I enjoy this video. I'll subscribe, definitely, you're full of love, so insightful, so articulate, i thought I'd just see another person cleaning something but you're so inspirational, especially with the way you can analyse people without being judgmental. Thanks!

[@racheltreherne5607]

In every way on every day you are doing yourself proud. Thank you and please continue, helpful and compassionate. 🙏😎🤗

[@remiclog]

This is so lovely of you! 🥺 Thank you ❤️

[@barbaramcminigal9966]

Just listened to your video and your explanation of neuro divergent and other social situations are just amazing xxx your dad sounds like a very creative and intelligent man and extremely hard working and he's extremely lucky to have a wonderful daughter like you ❤️

[@HeartVisions]

What a lovely daughter you are! There's nothing better than coming home to a clean house! You did an AMAZING job young lady!

[@dadyarusski4594]

You such an amazing daughter, I am crying at the love you have for your father 💖 And, helping him out like that, absolutely lovely 🌹💕👸

[@Ydkm8364]

I absolutely love your zero tolerance of disrespect for your dad! Also, your thinking is very logical and I appreciate you sharing your knowledge!

[@496705635]

Sweetheart, you are simply miraculous! Your compassion & deep understanding of a lot of us out here...is simply, overwhelmingly heartwarming ❤

[@remiclog]

Thank you ❤️

[@496705635]

No...Thank you! You have helped me understand some of my ticks in more ways than you can possibly understand ~ & I'm 59 years old! Bless you, sweetheart ❤

[@antzieisme]

[…]”and our morals don’t hinge on whether we’re tidy or messy.” ❤ You’re extraordinary, Remi. Thank you for your words.

[@donnadrummonds2444]

You are so well spoken! And obviously are excellent at what you do :))

[@selenacordeiro1458]

Your story and outlook on life, and the love you have for your dad made me cry a couple times. It went straight to my heart, I also have a very hard working dad but now that he’s sick, he can’t take care of the house or be as active as he once was and it’s hard on him. People should never judge one another because you never know what anyone is truly going through. We need to be there for one another, and I’m so happy that you’ve sent this message clearly. I want the world to see this video and listen to your messages within it.

[@calamityjane4331]

Remi you are lovely. So intelligent, insightful and loving.

[@AnneStokes-j1m]

Amazing, I also identified with a lot of what you said, thankyou ❤ x

[@christinanichols101]

Stumbled upon this video. And I swear, it was the universe telling me to stop, listen and watch. Thank you ❤

[@Judy-c3d]

I have cleaned family members houses like this but within weeks it’s right back to where it was. I found that the less I have, the easier it is to clean. I got rid of 80% of the stuff including clothes in my house and have so much more peace.

[@pam14321]

I’m new to your channel but found your narration very informative and enlightening. Thanks for sharing this vlog.👍🏻

[@AylienYu]

You're wonderful. My mother clearly has adhd and my father clearly has autism, and I have both. Right now I'm procrastinating on some very important things. Seeing someone else get things done is inspiring. I think I'm going to clean our house tomorrow!

[@Piasays]

girl.. i dont think ive ever watched a cleaning video with such a profound introspective voice over. 😂 so good! And the kitchen came out nice! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 your family sounds like a great group of people to know.

[@annfarrar-vr8ws]

Remi. I love all you're videos ,but this one is my favourite, you're voice is so calming and soothing, thankyou for all you do 😊

[@mallymakings2853]

I cried through this. Not because of anything you said was offensive but because you *understand* and I don’t feel so alone. My son is 17 and Autistic and has crippling anxiety and ocd. I’m like you were I have to leave everything to the last minute because I’m incapable of doing a bit at a time. I’m under the dark blanket of grief (I’ve recently lost both parents to cancer and my best friend and hubby had cancer but thankfully he’s now in remission) and depression and I’m holding on by a cotton thread and my house has gone to 💩 and it’s been over a week since I bathed or put a brush through my hair. I can’t function atm and although I’m spending my days either sobbing or staring in to space I keep telling myself that in my 48 years on Earth I’ve somehow gotten through the tough times even when I didn’t think I could. I thoroughly appreciate you making this video. I’m grateful to your Dad for allowing you to film and I’m ever so grateful to *you* Remi for being so passionate and supportive, transparent and the most beautiful soul. I got so much from this to sit and think about. Thank You! xxx

[@sarahholland2600]

That sounds really hard. I lost my parents at 19, so I get it. Anti depressants for a few months & free grief counselling thru Cruse Bereavement Care charity were lifesaving.

[@patricerichards6265]

You’re a great cleaner, a great daughter and a great person …BLESSINGS 💕

[@christineellis3688]

I love how much empathy you have. If we are all honest with ourselves, we will see a part of our habits in your father's home.

[@ruthbriggs5372]

I spotted 'Smithers' when you were cleaning the windows 😍 I loved your Narration, I usually fast forward through some bits of cleaning videos but you were so engaging 😊

[@cewheatonone9567]

Curious to know your father’s reaction to seeing the kitchen when he returned home? What a lovely gift for him!🇺🇸☺️

[@staceydevlin7101]

What a great thing you do for others; the cleaning and the open talk about mental health…bravo you👏🏻👏🏻

[@MeadowsMiniFarm]

I got teary eyed when you mentioned groups of parents you avoid. I do this so much at family functions. It really takes a toll being around so many people

[@remiclog]

It does! You’re definitely not alone. It takes days to recharge my battery after going to certain events

[@cindysams9832]

Same here

[@SPadventurOUS]

Ive never heard anyone else explain how hard it is to do what for others is a routine thing (brushing ones teeth) so well. I honestly didnt know anyone else besides me struggled with that in that specific way. thanks for sharing.

[@maryzell1179]

I got motivated and comforted by this video..thank you so much. ❤

[@ladygurr1]

I am in tears of gratitude for you. You have just described me in your video and I thought I was just being lazy and couldn’t understand why I want so hard to do things but am paralyzed by it all just by thinking of what needs to be done. Thank you for showing me I’m not alone and I’m going to go clean some of my fridge that needs it so desperately. Thank you🌹

[@pamelaboyce6959]

Beautiful.. your love and passion really came through.. and everything you said was spot on❤

[@suemax231]

I found you by accident and am so glad that I did. Completely happy that I now know there are more people like me out there.

[@digitalfoxaussieoffgrid]

You are amazing, this video brought tears to my eyes. The love you have for your family is inspiring. You articulated your situation perfectly.

[@joannashworth2396]

You are an inspiring lady. I so enjoyed listening to your insights and opinions. In your sharing, I found some explanations for individuals - family and friends that I have served. I love to clean and organize because it says "I love you"!!

[@remiclog]

You’re very kind! And I totally agree, it does say “ I love you” 😊

[@kathymaslowskibrightflower9638]

You are wonderful ❤thankyou for bringing awareness to neuro diversity ❤️

[@remiclog]

❤️❤️❤️

[@MsSourPatch90]

I am so happy to come across this video. It made me realize im not alone. I understand the struggles of daily motivation. Its hard and it sucks because it also affects your mental health. So thank you for this wonderful intriguing video. Much love to you and your family.

[@enaimegonzalez3280]

You are a great daughter... this is one big thing I want my children to learn...to respect their parents and never forget they are standing because of them.. koodos to you and your parents.

[@OhHeyItsShey]

Neurodivergent or not, your parents raised an incredible thoughtful, kind, and caring woman. You are such a lovely breath of fresh air and you just have something so peaceful about you. I love the elements you bring to your videos and the voice over. It breaks my heart to hear of you and your families struggles, but just know you are not alone. ♥

[@Shirley-k7x]

Hi hun 😊 you absolutely need to write a book You had me so hymputised with your story I could've move. YOU are extremely brilliant honesty your story could help soooo many people you have an incredibly voice for pod cast you could b in your owm living room where you would feel so comfortable xxx😊

[@joannaday7400]

You are a truly very kind person . So glad I came across your channel 😊 Have a great week, looking forward to listening to your stories of your family . ❤ The English accent . 😊

[@annedaniels2955]

Wonderful job. I would have loved to see your dad's reaction. Tidy house tidy mind. Good for the mental health.

[@lisanetgark415]

I enjoy cleaning up other peoples houses. Why? It is faster and I see it differently from my own mess! 😂🥰

[@lisabyers2992]

I totally I agree. I have cleaned many of my family members homes to the point of sparkling. Then I don’t feel like cleaning my own home! 😂

[@lisanetgark415]

I know! Funny isn’t it. 💕

[@rebeccaoprea9917]

Cause us adhders work best with novelty, deadline or reward.

[@sallyedmondson9275]

So true ! Why can’t we see our own mess the same ?! 👍🏼

[@debc7341]

Amen!!

[@lynnwilliamson9117]

What a show of love! The cleaning and the commentary!❤

[@LadyAurora10]

You did so good! What a good daughter.

[@julier1616]

Remi...it’s beautiful. I came for the clean but was drawn in by the voice over. Neuro divergence. I know nothing about it. But I see myself in so much of what you said. I struggle every day to complete daily tasks. School was hard. Thank you for these videos. You’re not just helping your dad clean, you’re helping the community that watches and listens to these videos ❤️🇨🇦

[@ageautistic6957]

Maybe seek out an assessment?

[@roxiesilverstein3564]

You are truly an inspiration to all. I’m certain your dad was beyond thrilled! What a wonderful gift you are! 🤗🤗🤗🥰😘😍

[@monikavzl]

I just want you to know that this video and your story has moved me to tears. Myself and my husband are in our 40’s and only learned about neurodivergence in our late 30’s. Both sides of my family is riddled with it and ao is his. We have both also been diagnosed with PTSD recently due to some extreme traumatic events and we lost our home early in covid and have been living in a dump. You have given me the light at the end of the tunnel for a bright future and thank you so much for everything. 😭

[@monikavzl]

And to add… my husband is a medic and i am an artist and well… so much resonates with our life

[@robinreid3467]

My granddaughter is going to marry a man who is autistic and also has ADHD. I feel like I learned more about how to empathize with him so much more after listening to your family journey. I really appreciate your honesty and openness. Robin