Trapped for 6 Hours “Rock Climbing Nightmare”

[@windwalkerr]

Dev, thank you so much for having me on the show and for being so kind 💜 and thank you to everyone who listened and left a nice comment. I appreciate you!

[@MissLeonable]

You’re so hard on yourself. You really went through something traumatic. I can’t imagine the discomfort and mental pain. Thank you for sharing this with us ❤

[@TheBlubunni]

Amen, yes God definitely kept you through the whole ordeal. I can't even begin to imagine what you went through. Thankful that you, Will, Jeff, Maddie and Zach, all made it out safely. Praise Jesus. Also you have nothing to apologise for. What happened to you was out of your control. You are very brave and you need to cut yourself some slack. Prayers for inner healing and peace. You are a beautiful soul. 🩷💕

[@mariperez6526]

Girl fuck those ppl as an arizona native and who pays taxes im glad you called and used the free resources. Idk why ppl always bring that up as if the government doesn't waste the tax money on non important things.

[@caitlinloxton4529]

I really loved this episode! You spoke so authentically! So many terrible things could’ve happened to you ❤ your trauma is valid and I see you , and we appreciate the strength you show. May God continue to protect you! Xx ❤

[@karlay.parrao4767]

Aw girlie sending you hugs, don't be ashamed about using their resources, that's why they're there! ❤

[@00thebatman]

The craziest thing to me is that search and rescue isn’t free across America?! That’s fucking horrific

[@windwalkerr]

Will's friends who fell in Colorado did NOT get free rescue... one of them got life-flighted to a nearby hospital and both of them are looking at millions of dollars in medical bills. It's really cruel

[@olivemoon1871]

@@windwalkerrone if my friends was biking in Colorado and fell; wasn’t horrifically injured but she could not bike or bear any weight. She has an insane bill that her insurance isn’t covering at all because she wasn’t “injured enough to justify a helicopter” despite the fact the rescue team couldn’t get her down without it

[@windwalkerr]

@@olivemoon1871 that's really upsetting... I'm so sorry that happened to her and the only good thing about that story is the fact that she wasn't terribly injured

[@Mariam-qb9nv]

Regular health care isnt even free so how could search and rescue be free

[@00thebatman]

@@Mariam-qb9nv it’s a different organization. Do you pay for calling firefighters too

[@maryalicefike4704]

i can’t think of something MORE TRAUMATIC than dangling over the side of a cliff stuck for hours, literally in life or death situation.

[@dont_harsh_my_mellow]

LITERALLY a thing of nightmares. This is what ppl have nightmares about and wake up shaking from. Wow. 😕

[@trsjk188dd__]

as a therapist, it breaks my heart how she feels so reluctant to call this a traumatic experience. i would love to tell her that this totally TOTALLY qualifies as trauma. any event that causes intense emotional and physical response could potentially register as trauma; that's a clinical definition. trauma can't be quantified or logically measured to any other traumatic experience. i really hope she's doing better mentally and that she's feeling supported and heard through this.

[@DogVill-inc]

As a person who has a cousin who is first medical responder don’t ever feel bad for calling them. They are so passionate about helping people and getting them help. No one is crazy enough to go through that kinda training and late hours if they did not LOVE their job.

[@kelswis]

As a first responder myself, I second this! We’re literally sitting around waiting for someone to need help and would be more than happy to show up 🫶

[@sofiastj]

I really needed the line "trauma doesn't have a deadline". That is such an important point that honestly changes how I look at my own.

[@FireKeeperCat]

Just because you’re okay now doesn’t mean it wasn’t traumatic. Just because someone had something worse happen doesn’t negate anything you feel. I also wanted to say that my boyfriend and a lot of his friends enjoy climbing. I went to the climbing gym with him once and realized I had zero interest. I totally understand wanting to spend time with your partner but I also think it’s okay to just have some hobbies be separate.

[@aloekills]

For sure! Especially hobbies that are really dangerous and require knowledge/interest to be good at.

[@karlay.parrao4767]

Aw the fact she was so humbled about using their resources, I just wanted to hug her!! Girl THIS IS WHAT THEYRE THERE FOR. Nothing to be ashamed about. Accidents happen. Thank God you were rescued on time 🙏

[@kittydollkori]

You validating guests always heals something in my heart. Thanks for what you do Dev and thanks for the content you two put out.

[@MagsMcG]

Teddy Roosevelt said "comparison is the thief of joy" and I'd add that it can also be the thief of healing

[@MellowJelly]

It's wrong that they did not immediately want to call for help after 30 minutes. That's totally unfair and invalidating to what she was going through.

[@Anne.adventures]

As a trad climber and mountaineer, I’ve learned that shit happens no matter how well prepared you are. Also, it’s hard for the follower to be aware of all the potential risks after all you weren’t the one who studied the route and made the decisions. Hope you don’t blame yourself and can recover from the trauma quickly. That said, it’s important to try our best doing the research and making all the wise decisions, especially doing a multi pitch or any backcountry trips… always bring your walky talky on a multi pitch, always head out early in case something happened you don’t need to wait and freeze in the dark, always be prepared with a headlamp bivy extra food etc if the adventure takes a whole day… Again, really glad that you came out safe and sound! Thanks for sharing the experience!

[@windwalkerr]

Thank you for this comment, I really appreciate it! That's why I tried to give the detail of the morning of and explain where I think we went wrong. All hindsight of course but nonetheless wanted to paint the full picture.

[@Andrea-yd4dh]

Idk I don’t blame her at all for her acting out. It was a horrible situation and she didn’t want to be there in the first place. She also didn’t feel the most supported. I would have been a nightmare!!

[@giacintaah]

Imo hey boyfriend really let her down. He was so focused on this climb he wasn't aware of how not ready she was for this climb. He shouldn't have encouraged her to do it.

[@alysiahegg4606]

Definitely a nightmare

[@Ale_x135]

It was a beginners climb, for all intents and purposes she was knowledgable enough to do it, it was just a stroke of bad luck!

[@KristenEmery]

@@Ale_x135idk man a 5.9 for someone’s first time outside is pretty nuts 🥴

[@dont_harsh_my_mellow]

@@Ale_x135 A 5.9 for beginners is EASY?! You alright? Naaaah.

[@Mirayarn]

As someone who’s been sport climbing for years taking your friend who can only climb a 5.9 on a trad multi pitch for their first time outside is insane. Not to mention that it’s also crack climbing 😭😭. Mountain project is ok, but having a physical guidebook is 10x more reliable. Climbing outside for the first time is nerve racking, my heart goes out to her.

[@matty3501]

When I heard that they were doing trad climbing I couldn't believe it. Even going from indoor top rope to lead climbing is night and day in terms of how difficult and involved it is. Taking her on this was wildly irresponsible imo

[@Juliana-xw7sk]

this was my same thought. especially the fact that she isn't sure if he'd ever even done the route before😬

[@IonIsFalling7217]

They did NOT set her up for success.

[@katiekittenxo]

They literally use these kinds of stress positions in the military to torture people and you should never underestimate how mentally detrimental it can be to be held in an uncomfortable position for hours it can literally make you go insane - you are so strong 💪

[@nuclearana]

i don’t blame her at all for her state of mind. our body mobility and autonomy is so important to our psyche. being stuck anywhere (esp in that kind of circumstance) when you have so many unknowns on how it will go would be terrifying, frustrating, and rightfully a very traumatic experience !!

[@Killjill1]

Loved this story, I wish she was less harsh on herself about the cost of medical help and such. That’s what they are there for. I can relate because im a people pleaser but you went through this horrible situation and you shouldn’t feel apologetic to anyone in your group or us:) things happen and it is what it is. This is your story and hopefully you really get how serious and awesome it is that you got outta this crazy situation!

[@Turtlesrina02]

I love how diverse these stories/topics are. Thank you for what you do Dev 💕

[@ShanaLawson]

I love how validating you are. Makes me cry.

[@jaitara3781]

Ikr it really does put a smile to my faces she’s always so kind and speak so much life to her guests

[@barbaranaiman9783]

I agree devorah is so good at interviewing all her guest so caring❤️👌

[@toaster4693]

To be in such a terrible situation and then to keep apologizing to everyone and worry about wasting their time and resources is the sign of a wonderful and caring person. Just got to the part about comments from people online. Very ignorant people.

[@lizfranklin127]

I really hope she learns to extend the same compassion to herself as she does to the other participants of the story ❤

[@kittydollkori]

1:10:43 I HATE WHEN PEOPLE SAY THIS. I broke my knee and walked on it for six hours before I knew it. I was in pain but for someone that is ALWAYS in bad pain it can be hard to really know.

[@lauraquigley6403]

I broke my foot & walked on it for 2 months before I knew. I have a cut spinal cord from a horrific accident & live in chronic pain so this does happen. I also broke several ribs falling out of bed & didn’t know until my Dr saw they were repaired! Sorry these incidents bother you. 🙏🙏🙏Blessing’s

[@ula8230]

as a person from europe my heart hurts that you thought this much about the cost and wasting resources (from another state but it still is one country) that are here to help people

[@dont_harsh_my_mellow]

We are so far away from being civilized here. I’m in California and they voted to NOT end prison slavery. And this is a “liberal” state. So…🤷‍♀️

[@amandatperkins]

You told your story beautifully, I’m so happy you were able to make it out safe. I live in Arizona and remember seeing this on the news and girl… you were so high up I would have shit myself. You are so brave!

[@jabreakitjubawtit4748]

I would have been freaking out and I have a fear of heights

[@AutumnRants]

these videos have helped me through my toughest patches, made me feel less alone, and genuinely are so intriguing. thankyou for making the content that you do. and to anyone reading this i hope ur having a good night/day ❤

[@awxiety]

This girl prefaced with “not all trauma is the same” trying to downplay her experience. Girl, you were stuck in a rock suspended off the ground.

[@olgawcislo6851]

It's so horrible and sad that Americans have to think about money before seeking help. "Is it worth the bills? Am I sick enough?". And they (mostly politicians) call it the greatest country in the world?! There's nothing more important than your health.

[@garfieldshauntedmansion420]

is virtually the same situation in canada unfortunately, people think healthcare here is free too when it’s absolutely not and you pay for it literally and with your time as well

[@cassandragriffing6171]

I totally feel you on not wanting to put all your effort into something you’re not super interested in. My husband is very into climbing. I’ll have some days I’m all on board and other days I’m feeling intimidated and not wanting to put in the effort for something that can be challenging and scary at times. Glad you are okay!

[@user-ly2cm6zk5l]

PLEASE bring back chapters!

[@DAE_CHRONICLES]

even though she wasn’t an experienced climber it was never her fault she was just trying to have fun and enjoy her time with her friends and boyfriend . dont feel bad things happen

[@elle-says]

The body's survival system will kick in instinctually, even if things "weren't that bad" or "could have been worse". We often don't get the decide when our body flips into a survival response (fight, fight, freeze). Once the nervous system perceives "oh man, we're gonna die", all previous bets are off. Your brain and body did the best it could given the situation.

[@maddiediez4065]

I would’ve freaked tf out if I were stuck at that height, especially for so long. So glad she was ok

[@JessWitch22]

I had compartment syndrome in my hand due to a crushing injury and almost lost my hand. I had to have emergency surgery, it was scary. I am so glad you are okay now, but so sorry you had to go through that. Your feelings are valid and your story matters just as much as everybody else’s. Love sent your way! ❤

[@sarahmorin4098]

As a horse person “I’m not gonna be able to ride I’m gonna kill everyone here” I completely understood hahaha

[@-luzz-5552]

You did a beautiful job explaining

[@KatherineMargaret]

Dev, I look forward to a new episode every Sunday. Thank you ❤

[@alyb6162]

An incredible woman and intense story! I’m so glad she’s okay ❤ and please don’t be so hard on yourself, you didn’t do anything wrong at all

[@CAMBY608]

Girl, don’t apologize, & u didn’t act dramatic! I’d have passed away! 🤣but for real, although it wasn’t a climb, I tried something new outside, and ended up splitting my ACL in half, and it was hours b4 I got to an ER…that was 9 years ago and I remember every detail, & still live w/a daily reminder of that day! Glad u r ok!💕✌🏻🙏🏻

[@aloekills]

I hope you’re okay now!!! That sounds horrific

[@CAMBY608]

@@aloekills - aw, yes, thx for asking! i made a bad choice…and i paid for it financially and physically! i learned my lesson!

[@babydemon666]

Has anyone seen The Descent? That movie freaked me the fuck out in the same way I think this story will 😭

[@animalseatmeat]

That’s how I knew what tools she was talking about!!!! lol

[@uglee6856]

Such riveting storytelling! Loved this.

[@barbaranaiman9783]

Christine your story was so interesting you poor thing. I think you were so brave during this ordeal you’re amazing. Another wonderful podcast Devorah👌❤️👌🏻

[@sweetbean666]

Such a well told story by a strong woman ❤ I love your channel and the voices that speak on it

[@daijiahs]

The irony that her knee is exposed on her pants. She didn’t deserve this at all. Glad she is telling her story.

[@Ana-xq3yr]

This is going to be good!! Going to cozy up and listen to my favorite podcast 💕

[@nichtNANA]

a big part of ptsd is the trauma caused by immobilizasition

[@eggloafer69]

Her cat 🥹

[@Lex_A4]

Starting this, I first thought, this could be “I shouldn’t be alive episode “. I definitely don’t think anything about this was dramatic, I’m glad you’re okay! I’m glad wills other friends survived their fall, that’s so scary.

[@llnnfrshk]

these podcasts about others people insane storys are keeping me sane

[@ec9833]

41:39 this is heartbreaking. The responsibility was on the person with the experience, not her. And that’s OKAY!!! We try and shelter everyone from responsibility and guilt and shame and yet when we look at our own actions, if she was the one with the experience she or so many women would’ve said, “We should go on a climb I’m familiar with…or, this isn’t the climb for her” SHE even understands this, throughout her entire explanation of her experience. That was reckless and it’s time for men to ACTUALLY protect their partners and assess these things. Cuz we do…those things she said that were “heartbreaking”…they were truths to consider because women do this shit, they think of these things, they’re proactive, they’re protective and they throw themselves to the back of the priority list ALL the time…and so so so many men just allow themselves to be treated with such care and thought but never think to do the same, to do all of that mental and emotional labor for their partners. It’s the culture and the society that’s still here, after eons…and why? Why did she need to placate to his “passion” so often? Did he endulge in HER passions, truly learn how to horseback ride or whatever she loved as dearly? It’s just crushing…cuz we do it all the time. We just don’t understand how much more frivolously we’re treated and regarded by our male partners than how we treat and regard them and every single other person close to us.

[@AliVanSickle]

PTSD can come in any form. A lot of people don't realize you can develop PTSD from years of emotional/mental abuse and neglect too. In a constant state of fight/flight, your body can produce ptsd from that as well. What you went through is so scary and it's truly a miracle that you're able to walk away from all of this and be able to tell your story. Don't invalidate yourself. I hope you know that you're so justified in your experience.

[@YoungDusa]

❤ this podcast is everything ❤

[@hiccup363]

Really enjoyed listening to this episode/ hearing her story. ❤

[@thatswhatshesaid6326]

Your worst is your worst. Don’t compare your trauma to anyone else’s. I would have been horrified!! Not to mention I would’ve felt helpless and embarrassed at first being the new “guy.” You are already braver than I would’ve been because you set out to do something you were uncomfortable with.

[@junemarieweaver974]

I’m so glad you’re ok!! ❤

[@sleeqyReference]

The person who listens to everyone on the show, who sits on the other end listening to everyone. Are there stories that you want to share? Experiences? I'm curious. I apologize if that's an awful or weird question, don't answer it if it's too much. Also! In a way, you remind me of my therapist? "You're still here--Thank fucking god." The zero filter, listening, and empathy/sympathy for the person across form you- To anyone and everyone who sits at this table, thank you for sharing your stories and experiences. You are valid and deserving of love. The things you went and are going through are scary!! The thoughts you think are valid, and you deserve the help you need. It's extremely brave and fucking admirable to be able to put everything you experienced into words for everyone. Everyone that sits at this table has taught me something, it's a learning experience. But more than that, I hope everyone is doing better, doing alright. Eat something, drink some water, and take a deep breath. You are loved and your experiences are more than valid.

[@whippedcream1805]

That’s terrible im glad she’s okay ❤

[@Sleepytangerine]

Really interesting story! Thank you for sharing! 🥰

[@aestheti1113]

that is one of the scariest things I can imagine for me personally..

[@racheljane_]

She is so sweet.

[@kakaudeuschle]

LOVED this one!!!! 💕

I LOVE YOUR NEW HAIR

[@crystalherrera7994]

This story comforted me in more ways than you can understand. This is going to sound crazy, but I had a traumatic experience with a ring that was stuck on my middle finger. The ring was stuck for at least a day and after a day, I realize I had to call the fire department to help me or go to the hospital. Long story short, the firefighters came and it took us two hours to get this ring off. It was a faux Cartier ring. You can imagine all the things we tried, which were including cutting the ring off, using string and cutting through it, but the ring was plated gold and majority of the ring was steel titanium. Our last attempt of removing the ring was actually elevating my hand for 20min and then using soap as a lubricant to slide the ring off. The sense of after praying and attempting to remove the ring for two hours was such an overly emotional experience. I thankfully have my middle finger still but it did shed a layer of skin lol. This podcast is amazing and especially this episode💞

[@windwalkerr]

not crazy at all!! that sounds terrifying... it just goes to show that anything out of our control, particularly when it comes to your body can be so traumatic. thank you for sharing about this and i'm so glad that you were able to get the ring off

[@gingersnaps81]

glad your finger is okay !! 😭 i panic when i struggle getting a ring off for 30 seconds i cant imagine hours!!

[@Grace-ed1eq]

Does anyone know how high she was up in the air? Either I missed it or they didn’t say

[@gmc5618]

The whole heigh from bottom to summit was around 250ft. She says they were yelling to friends who submitted around 100ft and was hard to hear. So about 150ft high

[@thepalestpuertorican]

i have never been so early before wow dev i want to submit my story but do i send a full email of it or a short synopsis?

[@ttv.snakez1x402]

U have to send a short email explaining ur story and she will respond with the next instructions

[@thepalestpuertorican]

@@ttv.snakez1x402kk thank you! 💖

[@NObodDEE]

This have me anxiety just listening

[@Juliana-xw7sk]

im a sport climber (not a trad climber) who climbs frequently outside. im not very far into the video but so far, i think you're explaining it really well

[@Juliana-xw7sk]

dude offwidth is scary. it's sooo exposed

[@Juliana-xw7sk]

im honestly a bit upset that your friends took you on a trad multipitch as your first outdoor climbing experience. that's one of the most advanced forms of climbing you can do

[@XoxoKnifeparty]

Sedona is my favorite place on EARTH, so far. But I also have a horror story from a hiking trip there.

[@cluff444]

Trauma is trauma there is no competition or scale

[@gothiccastle1681]

Love Dev as always

[@teryfelix4122]

I just wanted to add that it’s been said they have used keeping prisoners in uncomfortable positions for long periods of time as a form of torture in North Korea (allegedly?). I just wanted to give her feelings further validation.

[@aloekills]

They also do it in the military!

[@MARIAHTIPTON]

thats so crazy and scary

[@angelavera7270]

My boyfriend also climbs…. Im never rock climbing outside the gym

[@henrik-i9710]

Dev, you Look gorgeous without any make up❤

[@aj6948]

Dev, you would be such a great therapist! ❤

[@barbaranaiman9783]

The more I listen to her podcasts I have to agree with you100per cent❤️👌

[@hannahcohen1861]

Saved by the Russ-cuer hehe

[@maym8849]

You just wanted a fun day with friends what a terrible thing to go through!!

[@XoxoKnifeparty]

God this sounds horrible poor girl

[@carolethorn3211]

WAIT! How could you feel so bad about using rescue resouces because you didnt live there or rock climb often? DONT be ridiculous! Arizona NEEDS you! As do all of the states that rely on tourist dollars to exist! I lived on the beach in florida for years and in SC. TRUST ME - we dont for a minute feel resentment for people who need to be pulled out of the ocean by lifeguards or for search and rescue having to search the water for a missing person or send the helicopter for a child attacked by a shark! Only very immature, very stupid people would fail to recognize that if the people from other states never chose to vacation in their states, theyd be FLAT BROKE or st least they wouldnt have the parks and good schools and safe roads etc. that they do have. Tourist dollars in the millions make up large percentages of many states economies! If they didnt, the locals would be fighting for crap jobs. You have NO REASON to think this way. ** BTW - MOST people today will blame EVERY one and everything for the slightest problem no matter how obviously they are responsible. Its epidemic these days. People wreck their cars driving drunk and then blame the police for "ruining their lives". Seriously. Talk to a therapist and get some perspective sweetheart. ❤

[@cyberpunkalphamale]

This video needs a Melanie Hamlett reaction

[@Sweetalex52245]

I was just thinking that!

[@Olivia-yx9dh]

Giant spiky succulent! Cactus?!😂 I know that’s the least of this story, but I found it funny.

[@efisk03]

I'm thinking she might have meant a yucca plant?

[@Olivia-yx9dh]

@@efisk03 I’m not sure. IMO, that isn’t comparable to a succulent tho. 🤷🏾‍♀️

[@alexey5481]

Agave

[@Olivia-yx9dh]

@@alexey5481 That very well may be it!

[@johnlockwood6904]

❤ u Dev

[@experiFilm]

I know they weren't to blame for what happened to you, but they could've been more prepared. If you're going trad climbing you should bring walkie talkies and a chisel to break rock if needed. I've never even gone climbing outdoors and I'm aware of this knowledge.

[@WhosJuel]

These comments here prove that speaking your side of any story even when offered the opportunity will be thrown back in your face 100 percent of the time 💀

[@jessc8523]

Skip to 24 min if u wanna get straight to the story , the 1st half is her over explaining the details

[@juliekarpenske5449]

Not your story to tell

[@jessc8523]

@@juliekarpenske5449 where did I tell her story? I simply gave a heads up to people who could be excited n want to get to the point .

[@windwalkerr]

ur no fun jess

[@oldworldowl]

Bruh the details are the entire reason people are here

[@juliadavis5957]

@@jessc8523I put this on while walking my dogs and 20 minutes go by and she’s stilll establishing the setting and over explaining details of rock climbing that you didn’t really need to know, I was nearly home by the time her knee was stuck. 😂

[@Andrea-yd4dh]

Omg earlyy!! ❤

[@Mirayarn]

I want to know if they were using Grigris, ATC, or another belay device… says a lot about a person lol

[@windwalkerr]

After consulting with Will I'm here to say that Jeff had me on belay from above and was using an ATC in guide mode - hope this answers your question!!

[@Mirayarn]

@@windwalkerr that makes sense with the story. I hope you try climbing outside again one day! You’re so strong for going through something so traumatic.

[@krazy_719]

I'm just here for the host she so beautiful 😍 ❤

[@BrianSzymczak-d2n]

im worried, 7 minutes into the video, im already worried that someone died on their rock climbing vacation as they were climbing rocks. such a sad story. just me expecting the worst. that is all.

[@sagexmua8743]

🆓🇵🇸🇵🇸🇵🇸🇵🇸🍉🍉🍉

[@jabreakitjubawtit4748]

Leave the the free Palestine stuff out of this, touch some grass or something get a damn life

[@DiligentThroat]

No one cares 😂

[@juliadavis5957]

20 minutes to get to the actual story is way too long.

[@ЛесяЕмельянова-о4ю]

respectfully it's her story so listen on 2x or leave

[@juliadavis5957]

@@ЛесяЕмельянова-о4ю no

[@samualnava3160]

Dumb dumb

[@ceresecherry]

She should have just stayed home but nooo she wanted to be with her man

[@artyart31]

😂

[@DiligentThroat]

You’re mocking wanting to spend time with someone when in a relationship? Sad.

[@ceresecherry]

@@DiligentThroat a confident and secure person in a relationship can let their significant other go have fun without them.

[@ceresecherry]

@@DiligentThroat you are such a PICK ME. That’s what’s sad 🤣

[@RaySabisch-75]

You shouldn't pay no mind to those things that speak negative to whom speak negative they all are just little 1 year old things today know nothing your experience has nothing to do with knowing your or one's limitations things who speak crap as these heathens did actually doesn't know the difference between a hole in the ground and their own holes within their own body.

[@RaySabisch-75]

Perfect opinion n fact

[@prettypinkblunt]

This podcast has genuinely been so healing and enlightening to me, thank you so much for doing what you’re doing. I’ve learned so much through this podcast and the guests you bring on, not just about my own trauma but also about so much more!! I love how you have different guests with vastly different stories, it’s so true that trauma can be anything anytime anywhere, if it affects you, it’s real and you are deserving of support and healing 100% All that to say, thank u girlie 😭🫶🏻🫶🏻

[@windwalkerr]

sending you love

[@whippedcream1805]

That’s terrible im glad she’s okay ❤