Treating the Grief of Dashed Life Expectations

[@harrydeanbrown6166]

I'm not a therapist but enjoyed this video.

[@geotangententanglement8986]

+1 (& I believe this is one of his best videos here)

[@loosegoose2466]

This is very hepful Mr Tyrell. Thanks.

[@richardroyster405]

Tyrrell... Mark Tyrrell... Licensed to Feel/Heal.

[@JoeVellaMalta]

Helpful thanks

[@MagicLute]

I also "signed up" for certain experiences I'd rather have stayed away from. But as you so often say, there are possibilities we have, e.g. learn to use our minds more construcively than let us drift without plan and end up in a desert.

[@user-puppyeyes]

Will help me with my client tomorrow who is grieving for her father.

[@magalimasson9472]

I think this is very relevant to our time. I wonder how many others right now have this strange sense of grief but not at one specific thing just generally. Where I didn't have specific expectations but I never imagined things could turn that way with covid and all the "lost years" that we are still recovering from, Like we moved on from intense isolation but this hole is still there. While my daughter was still a toddler when it all started also this felling like her early childhood was "stolen" from me and from her too as we were so isolated. Very interesting to think about

[@syzygy4365]

Yes!! I love this one. Thank you for explaining this to us. My business partner was assuming we could get a substantial loan from a family member. When time came to asking she was so confident that he'd say yes that she doubled the amount she asked for. The connection here, her over zealous expectations have hindered this from launching. We could have easily managed starting with our assets we've accumulated, and budgeted out our first 3 months and added as we go. It feels this is going to go on for much longer than I can continue to bare. I'm lost now. Like what do I do in this situation? How do I move this along without busting this ideological business plan her imagination's running wild with. How do I set sturn business plans that put this back on track? I'm beyond tired of waiting for that perfect time, situation, funds, ect... it all has to be perfect down to the skill sets we haven't even accomplished yet. Like running machinery to produce accent items. Where do I draw the line and make her excited to just find a starting point without the heavy frills? 💔

[@darlington997]

Please how do we use ACT or Solution Focused brief therapy techniques to overcome/move on from grief?

[@amarkantkumar4233]

The reality is so out of my projection that I do not want to accept it

[@amarkantkumar4233]

Do not want to perceive it either

[@xeropunt5749]

& If we don’t sign-up to pick up responsibilities in our midst now, we WILL be already signed-up to pick them up later, in worse condition.