The truth on feminism and relationships in 2022

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[@mattfinley4544]

I'm not encouraging men to be assholes here but every guy I know who is sad, alone and often gets disrespected by his wife or gf is the kind of guy who is sweet and sensitive to all her needs. Having a backbone is key. Learn to be assertive and don't get pushed around.

[@ongobongo8333]

Men who think they should be dominant and in control end up drunk and divorced, if they can get anyone's attention at all

[@walkingdead7115]

My dad is super strict with my Mom. Pakistani family here. But my dad earns n spends all his money on his kids n wife. He is strict n loving. But listening to guys like firaz makes me realize with out my dads strictness they wouldn't have been together for 32 years. My dads a classic strong toxic guy.

[@bilalkhares9337]

You can be kind with a backbone

[@PiceaSitchensis]

@@walkingdead7115 Your dad sounds like a misogynist.

[@ricardovanduuren389]

True dat!

[@GoldenGully]

"My mind was literally breaking reading this" 😅

[@ishakghansar3456]

@KAMRAN NUMAN Firas and Gully are both canadian and into martial artists so not too surprising

[@weetheeopps]

I love ur content

[@BKS0]

That segment was Gold meme content 😂

[@bushy9780]

"feeling in one place, that's what you should be concerned with" - lmao this is gold

[@tempacct5812]

yeah this is the type of content I expect out of Tristar Gym

[@MGV23]

Hahahaha "I spar with my woman" - Proceeds to Leg Lock her

[@goldtiger9453]

*Spinning wheel kick*

[@christotheedge]

no Firas said he can't roll with woman because he can't control his urges or something.

[@goldtiger9453]

@@christotheedge quite sure he rolls with his wife all the time lol

[@MGV23]

@@goldtiger9453 They roll naked and oiled he told me.

[@DontbeanNPC]

Damn. I have always loved your Jiu-Jitsu and now I know you're based af too. I like you even more now, Firas.

[@checkmate5338]

I remember reading somewhere that often times what women claim they want is totally different than what they seek after.

[@Wenutz]

it's only later in life that most of us realise that what we need and what we want can be the opposite of each other.

[@Cub__]

Of course, they live off of social approval.. they'd never admit to wanting something that is generally viewed as immoral or wrong by societal standards. That's why when Woman buy into Sexual liberation their true selves come out and they stop caring because now there's a movement that will defend them and their actions, one where they can now get away with anything and not have any real consequences now.

[@bigshantolifting]

women want what other women want

[@VaporRize08]

@@bigshantolifting untrue

[@hollowking7414]

I believe that. what women say they want in a man, and what they are actually attracted to, are 2 different types of men.

[@lennydelgado2501]

Alhamdulillah , coach you are dropping gems.

[@Pablohoma]

Respect for you to make this video. fell man they can't talk openly about feminism, abortion, hypergamy, especially here in Quebec, where women openly act like man and men act like women)

[@sullyswrldd]

You should honestly continue on this topic Firas. I think hearing this from a masculine married man that is apart of such a male dominated sport gives us younger more in-experienced men a different perspective that which we need.

[@hishamghazi77]

Hundred percent 💯

[@ongobongo8333]

Treat men like people. It's that easy.

[@tomsawyer7429]

Pretty cool to see a respected man talk honestly like this…

[@WitchyWithASideOfQueso]

lmfao just bc hes respected doesnt mean its correct. this is all nonsense LMFAO

[@darkoverllord]

@@WitchyWithASideOfQueso kk clam party

[@josewead1]

@@WitchyWithASideOfQueso lap 🐶

[@scarred10]

He is respected as a coach of combat sports,not as anything else,least of all an intellectual. The man is a Muslim so by definition a misogynist.He cannot even say Jane eyres name correctly.

[@timm285]

Women don’t want to work as much as men. Imo many like to stay home but would never say it out loud

[@JiuJitsuWarRoom]

I only needed to hear 3 words. “Women love drama”

[@MrMojo13ification]

" I read the summary and my mind was breaking" 🤣🤣

[@sleeplessdev7204]

I enjoy these philisophical breakdowns, as well as the fighting tips 😅

[@the_famous_reply_guy]

Jane Eyre pronunced Air, its a standard part of English literature in the UK education in the 80's. It's very much about hypergamy, status, social class and power. Charlotte Bronte 21 April 1816 - 31 March 1855) was an English novelist and poet, the eldest of the three Brontë sisters who survived into adulthood and whose novels became classics of English literature. Bronte first novel the Professor was not published in her life time. Its also a book about class, love and feminine nature to acquire the highest value male. If you like old stories, black and white films from the classic film era I highly recommend "The Browning version" simply put it's about an old English Latin teacher whose being replaced by a younger, fitter man at his job. The main theme is dignity.

[@costasrex476]

Real confident men don’t fear empowered women

[@TheOlzee]

I didn’t think any men did. Wtf for? Fearing a female makes no sense to me

[@adamzoubi96]

coach always been the goat!

[@Leopar525]

Honestly man I was looking for this info a long time. Thank you fellow BJJ brother. I never expected to find this info here. Keep sharing your thoughts please. Greetings from Greece and UK

[@kyartick8502]

7:16 happened to me 😂. I was hanging out with a girl who liked me and a few days later she said she felt liked we run out of things to talk about. And for 3 years our conversations flowed so well. And weeks after our last hang out we parted ways. Hurt a lot

[@nerdobject5351]

100% fact. I spent my 20s being the sweet beta male. Got me nowhere. Changed to an alpha who returned calls when I felt like it, got a lot farther with women.

[@samisyed2370]

How did you convert from beta to alpha

[@Pvezin]

@@samisyed2370 beta, alpha or sigma are just men in different steps of their development. You dont "convert", you just keep self-actualizing. A 'beta' has boy behavior, an 'alpha' has young adult behavior, and 'sigma' has healthy adult behavior.

[@PiceaSitchensis]

The alpha/beta thing isn't actually real. It comes from wolf biology but has long since been discounted - not that wolf biology would even be relevant to understanding humans.

[@icyBulls]

This was a great talk, every statement was a homerun, absolute truth!!

[@AndrewLaReal]

If you’re insecure then yes

[@shafaatoo9328]

We need more people like you coach, Idk about Andrew's lifestyle. He seems to lack the nobility a man should have, but he does say a lot of good stuff. People like you are definitely needed though, men with values and backbone.

[@prandz420]

Andrew Tate has also made a lot of pedophilic comments. People should be very wary of associating with him at all…

[@cptseagull]

I don’t think feminism is about women just having rights man.

[@ongobongo8333]

It is

[@younesbenaddi4721]

As he said there are several waves but at the beggining it was a way that colonizers used to divide and conquer

[@User-54631]

@@younesbenaddi4721 I’m very Interested,. Can you provide any specific examples? Any credited authors to read to educate myself on the subject?

[@MineteInc]

That's why he mentioned that he's in a way a feminist himself, and that he thinks 3rd wave feminism specifically is going too far. The feminism you think of that describes equality of the genders, is not the same that you see being spread today

[@kirito3082]

@@ongobongo8333 it's clearly not and obviously not

[@toamcdohl]

Poorly-worded nonsense lol. Genuinely embarrassing to hear shit like this from someone often pointed to as a voice of reason in MMA.

[@captainnemo4422]

Coach for president!!

[@sp6990]

Damn, first time I’m gonna disagree with Firaz on most of these points. Not all women want what the femcel spokeswomen spout. They are just the loudest, and for the record, just as cringeworthy as the incels. In re makeup, Neither sex will usually put things on their body that doesn’t make them attractive to the opposite sex, which is why Google Glass and all those technologies haven’t taken off. I don’t see a guy with a VR headset on and say, roarrr I want him. Physically fit, yes for both obvi. Yes, smarts and confidence is sexy, but not cocky. That’s absolutely a turn off, at least for me. We want guys that have worked on themselves, but not beta. Resources have always been a thing and I don’t think in one generation we will undo that. And I don’t like drama, not at the academy and not at home. A guy breaks up with me; my response “alright.” I think we should build up our men. I don’t think they should be put down, but if all they look for is sex, don’t want to build families, don’t want to be of service to their communities, I can’t respect them no matter how powerful they come off as. I think social media has ruined both sexes. The plane loads of women coming back from other countries to the US with BBLs and other plastic surgeries is on a scale unprecedented. And the guys, steroid use, calf and ab implants, attitudes seemingly trying to show who’s a bigger A-hole. I personally am sad for young people and wouldn’t want to date any of those people. Edit to add: if all the info from the red pill community like Andrew Tate and Fresh & Fit is out there for men to employ, we should have the generation of the most confident, personally successful and powerful men. In fact, we have the generation of men for the first time that has less sex than any previous generation, less confidence, more depression, and highest suicide rate in history. I can’t express enough how tragic that is. Please understand those “influencers” smell the lack of confidence and are looking to make money off it. Period.

[@DePeaceHunter]

I'm not sure where you disagree with him

[@serenevalor]

"Not all women want what the femcel spokeswomen spout. They are just the loudest, and for the record, just as cringeworthy as the incels." "I think social media has ruined both sexes" 100% absolutely agree with you on both these points. I find that a large majority of women on social media are the "damsel in distress" types. Or, they pretend to be strong, but their only point is to bash men and make them look weak. You hit the mark when you said that social media has ruined it for both sides. It really has. It has completely skewed our perspective on ourselves. We forget what it is like to be male/female. We forget that there is nothing wrong with a man being a man and a women being a women. Both are needed to maintain an equilibrium. This is one of the reasons why we have so many injustices in the world. There is no more balance. Everyone is too busy trying to be like each other, they forget who they are themselves.

[@migueljuarez6788]

​@@DePeaceHunter I think where Firas said what women are attracted to.

[@VoyageHomeImprovements]

Coach is a philosopher 💪

[@ThursonJames]

It’s almost like Cinderella, Beauty and the Beast, The Princess and the Frog, etc are all variations on a theme.

[@cart3sam389]

Coach is a great coach but his political takes are not as great as he thinks they are. He missed the mark by assuming all women want the same thing and act the same way. Half of the humans living on this planet are women with individual wants and needs. Also, women don’t do everything for men. It’s possible that women want to put on makeup for themselves. Just like a man can want a haircut or trim their beards for themselves. Lastly, you can be nice to women without sacrificing your manliness. You’re right, don’t try too hard or it’s kinda cringe but, being dark and moody gets old fast too. The other videos are great but this one was a miss for me, sorry.

[@VaporRize08]

Of there's one thing most men will band together on its their unwillingness to see women as diverse human beings with diverse human being needs. Missing the mark on women is a given

[@bez1196]

@@VaporRize08 ironically, your comment suggests that men aren't diverse human beings with different opinions. Why don't you apply the same standards for men and women?

[@bez1196]

I think you misunderstood the point he was making. There's nothing wrong with speaking in general terms. Of course he would agree that women as individuals have different tastes, desires, needs etc.. But making a statement that says "women want a protective man" is generally true if we make inferences based on history and our lived realities. It does not become invalidated if there is a subset of women out there who desire soft men. What is the exact statement that you disagree with here anyway?

[@cart3sam389]

@@bez1196 I strongly disagree with his point about women putting on makeup for men. I’d say most women just want to feel comfortable in their own skin. Assuming women base small decisions like their makeup choices on men is a little insulting. Women can make decisions independently of how it will affect men lol. Also, make general statement about half the human population based on a single book is a little dumb. Tastes in books don’t indicate what a woman might want in a relationship. For exemple, the book “fifty Shades of Grey” was insanely popular. Doesn’t mean most women want sex dungeons in their living room lol I respect everything Coach says about sports. His political views are just not it for me.

[@simonmasson-dupras3946]

i think overall the message was to be balanced

[@onefootoutthedoor9937]

If people start taking control of their relationships it might threaten the consumption of garbage media The last thing they want is people to be inspired by an alpha taking no bs and tell it like it is

[@ongobongo8333]

Funny how people who identify with "alphas who take no bs" are always losers who nobody likes lol

[@joebotz1243]

Best video since the one on the mandates. Feminism can only exist in this type of society. Ironically they keep talking about burning it all down. If they ever did at that exact moment feminism would be over with and they would be in for a bad surprise

[@ongobongo8333]

That's retarded. Feminism exists due to freedom, more freedom is all it wants.

[@MrAntinexus]

Guess what, feminism in Ukraine disappeared half a year ago suddenly

[@mahdizahir]

Everything you said is fantastic; it reminds me of a Hadith from our prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "I advise you to treat women kindly, for the woman was created from a rib, and the most crooked part of the rib is its uppermost part. If you try to straighten it, you will break it; and if you leave it, it will remain crooked. So, treat women kindly."

[@serenevalor]

I really like how you put this in such an easy to understand way. I find myself really worried for my little brothers and future children because we live in strange times where men are treated like crap and women are put on a pedestal. Funny considering that once upon a time, it used to be the opposite. You'd think we'd learn to have some sort of equilibrium. Regarding the romance novel: I see these personality traits in most women now a days. However, I must contest that not all women are like this. For example, I find that women that have either had a strong male figure in their childhood or have gone through some tough circumstances don't fit the mold of the "Romance Girl" narrative. For example, when I see my own mother and her relationship to my father, I didn't see that drama or materialistic element in her. That is probably because of the tough upbringing she had along with the fact that her father (my grandfather) was police officer. Other than that, really nice to hear a fresh perspective. I hope people (both men and women) can learn to be strong. We need strength from both ends. Men need to be strong like Men and Women need to strong like Women. Strong men and women make for strong parents. That makes for strong children that will be able to withstand tough times and create a better future.

[@JustChill-zd4ib]

Not all men and not by all women. Just some rabid femanazis don't worry you can fight them off they are very sensitive and can't handle the truth at all and crumble under slightest pressure.

[@Jxrye]

I’m a big Tristar fan, and I’m not completely disagreeing with the respected coach; but, experts are best when they stay in their fields. I’m glad he’s happy and successful in love in his life. That’s awesome, but that doesn’t make his opinion automatically wisdom for a wide audience like the Internet provides. Maybe that’s a problem with these platforms. Some days you gotta talk about something… anything. And it gets off topic like this.

[@roflswamp6]

Idk bro thousands of years of tradition proves otherwise I think ur just salty that more and more men are waking up and ur not part of that

[@MatteoR77]

Yeah bro, i mean he’s just giving out his opinions (which i mostly don’t agree with) so i don’t take him too seriously cuz i have my own ideas etc. but when he’s talking about combat sports in general i shut up and listen cuz he’s competent.

[@MatteoR77]

@@roflswamp6 here we go another misogynist OmegaLuL

[@roflswamp6]

@@MatteoR77 I don't hate women tho don't project

[@OTO2380]

Thank God for Coach Firas touching base on stuff like this! His 3Muslims podcast was just as amazing.

[@turnwaiter]

Women wearing makeup is not always sexual. Of course, it can be, but a lot of women don't/can't wear makeup how they would like to because people like this will sexualize them and make countless inferences about them. Why can't it be artistic expression or a fun hobby? You can't just handwave thousands of years of oppression because of a few decades of progress. If you are raised in a world where gender and racial inequality are systemically intertwined with literally everything, it's only natural that you yourself will be a product of that. You can either choose to be aware of this fact and learn to be more empathetic and understanding, or, you can covertly fight for a return to traditionalism (where women are viewed as capital) by playing the moderate.

[@sucaadshardi9650]

I disagree that women love to read romance books because those books were the only books available in the library and it was promoted in movies and magazines of course women will read it. Your a product of your environment

[@arawproductions3156]

thanks to this video I am now firas zahabipilled

[@nazdabner2685]

You nailed this one bro.

[@Enigma_Vids]

Everything you said is great and my life would have been a lot smoother if I had a strong dad to tell me that cold hard truth. A lot of young men are learning the opposite in colleges now and it’s going to take a lot of strong men to steer the ship in the right direction.

[@KaineTremaine]

Yea bro.. my feminist mother overthrew my dad when I was 6.. Divorced, he failed to live 10 years and died when I was 14. Just when I was going to need him the most. My mom went independent career woman. Drunk and for the streets on weekends. Never found a stable relationship and career fell apart eventually. Last ten years she been a broke azz live in Nanny for my older sisters smh

[@yassineabderrahim5110]

@@KaineTremaine sorry to read this brother, wish you the best

[@ongobongo8333]

Strong men are not who you think they are. Being pig headed is not strength. Accepting women as equals is what strong men do.

[@walkingdead7115]

Everything firaz Is talking about back n forth. Sparring with ur woman is my dad. He's the guy feminists hate. Toxic. He's toxic, he's strict but he's loving n spends all his money on his wife n kids. N i think its his strictness n toxicity that has made the relationship work for 32 years

[@walkingdead7115]

@@KaineTremaine sorry to read about that bro, wish u the best. What firaz is saying u should follow. Tate is another good example. He talks alot of reality n sensible stuff but his shit talking is just the drama he creates for attention n as firas said women like drama

[@saadmahbub8787]

Brother Firaz, I really enjoy your videos man. Thank you!

[@mattbright3620]

Great advice coach! I usually tune in for tips on Jiu Jitsu, but received so much more today! 🙏

[@jeremykemp3782]

DO NOT, and I mean DO NOT give her a history lesson, she’ll scratch ya eyes out. Brilliant, just brilliant

[@divinethug1]

Hit the nail right on the head. Thnx for your insight coach!

[@hidetoedwarduno7681]

This is so good! Coach is so well spoken, but I didn't know with other topics too! Unlike many, idealistic PUA gurus, Coach Zahabi comes from a transparent place (not marketing). He also speaks from direct experience with research that is boiling things down, instead of 'techniques' that don't work, especially long term, it's psychology, not PUA. I also never heard the make-up thing - LOVE IT! BTW, Y'ALL MUST READ 'MEN ARE FROM MARS - WOMEN ARE FROM VENUS'!!! I thought it was just an old book, but it's the best book I read on relationships & why men & women don't understand each other.

[@UncleJoeyPodcast]

Brother. This is beautiful.

[@testtestlast4306]

Yeah but what color is your bugatti?

[@oysterpt2018]

what kind of butter do you use? Salted or not salted?

[@MarijuanaGuy]

Hey coach, does John Makdessi still train at TriStar? If yes, how are you guys working out with coaching him and his opponent Nasrat?

[@mohanadalnakeeb]

He hasn't for years

[@globalfreedomnetwork888]

Best advice on women ever

[@MontyQueues]

jesus this firas guy is so smart and based, SOMEONE GIVE HIM BEST COACH OF THE YEAR AWARD

[@JorgeHernandez-dd1so]

Firas is based as fuck.

[@someoneelse7724]

Is that slang for dumb or something?

[@julesthewalker]

Firas, why not keep your gym channel about the gym and combat sports and have a seperate channel for subjects such as this?

[@terreneofficial]

It's his channel. He can do what he wants.

[@barryirlandi4217]

Women are different.. Alhamdulillah.. 37 years of marriage and so far so good

[@zoomergrrlinluv]

Ma broooooo! Im 52 years old and agree with you 100%.

[@inubbzz7]

Yikes… I like a lot of the ideas conveyed here, but some of them are not jiving well with me. Huge generalizations based on nonscientific ideas. The idea that all women are the same and desire the same things is just not correct. There are many strong independent women in the world today who don’t desire a strong and capable man, but rather a beta male type of character or what you refer to as a ‘lap dog’ man who will do whatever they say. For that matter, many women today don’t desire men at all. Another thing, you’re referring to Jane Eyre as a romance novel. By definition, a romance novel is “a work of extended prose fiction with a theme of love”. Jane Eyre is a nonfiction piece that was written hundreds of years ago. Of course a book written in the 1800s, before women had the rights they do today, would have some very antiquated ideas and a different culture entirely. You can’t use this ancient selection as any type of proof that women today are the same as they were hundreds of years ago. Not all women prefer to be naïve. Not all women want a man who knows more than they do. I suspect women are just like men in that each individual has a unique personality and a wide range of characteristics. Another person in the comments said something like this sounds as ridiculous as women explaining how men are and what they want, and I tend to agree. I will still love Firas forever!

[@Enigma_Vids]

Starting an essay with yikes…yikes.

[@inubbzz7]

@@Enigma_Vids It's actually a comment, but thanks for the thoughtful reply :)

[@Enigma_Vids]

@@inubbzz7 yikes…passive aggressive smiley faces

[@roflswamp6]

Maybe ur just insecure

[@inubbzz7]

@@roflswamp6 lol lol maybe you're right

[@shawnchuang1450]

he aint lying though

[@marcusfedor4641]

He’s right to a large extent. My observation is this:: highly attractive women are put on a pedestal by society. Such a women will constantly have other suitors, Some of these women have narcissistic traits. It’s not practical or wise to get into a relationship and have children with such people. In the end, a man who ends up in divorce courts typically has himself to blame to some extent. An average looking girl who is well raised and kind is easier to come by. Beauty fades. Stability and predictability above beauty.

[@tartanhandbag]

guy cant even pronounce Jane Eyre. guy might know his jiu jitsu, but man is a bargain bucket spiritual guide

[@livehockey09]

He literally pronounced it correctly the first time and then started mispronouncing it after that. Fucking clown

[@shashankganesha5620]

Ah Firas you suddenly became my favorite mma coach ...

[@KyloBiz]

What the fuck firas. You used to do fight breakdowns and lot of grappling tutorials I didn't come here to see you do a Jordan Peterson impression.

[@rollotomassi8251]

"Pump and dump' -Descartes

[@N1L507]

I thought it was bizarre when bro said that as a coach he refuses to roll w women for whatever weird ass reason he gave, but this really takes the cake lmao wtf

[@cryptocaesar8972]

Why would you roll with someone you’re sexually attracted to?

[@N1L507]

@@cryptocaesar8972 he’s attracted to every single woman that walks into his gym? Lol

[@roflswamp6]

@@N1L507 he never said that tho

[@testtestlast4306]

@@N1L507 so you want him to go "yes you are ugly enough, let's roll". That's gonna go down great i bet.

[@bez1196]

@@N1L507nah, he's just a realist. The irony is that most ppl in the past would agree with him. There's a reason why the sexes used to segregated in gyms, especially martial arts gyms and no, it wasn't because they hated women. But I'm sure you'll come back with some juvenile BS like "this is the 21st century bro, get with the times" as if that's an argument in itself. Do you think human nature, which has been fairly stable for tens of thousands of years, somehow underwent a radical change in the past 100 years?

[@hishamghazi77]

Coach, this is an important topic for men's issues in this current generation.

[@user-dk8jz5cj3c]

"after studying female behavior...." the hubris!

[@journeyisending]

i will watch this in the morning with my coffee :)

[@honestlee9921]

This is the best

[@CEA007]

This was extremely insightful.

[@crossfit1318]

Coach is livin in 1950s still.

[@Enigma_Vids]

If it ain’t broke, don’t fix it.

[@MatteoR77]

@@Enigma_Vids no bro it was broke af lol

[@goldtiger9453]

Coach is a real man , these are basic things. Stop doing the jujitsu all day and join the striking class once in a while

[@duskoskako5415]

We need more philosophers as leaders

[@fractalzoomgoggles]

Stefan Molyneux

[@charles-antoinelafond4655]

It's litteraly one of the easiest degree to complete it means nothing

[@duskoskako5415]

@@charles-antoinelafond4655 Tell me you never studied philosophy without telling me....

[@charles-antoinelafond4655]

@@duskoskako5415 I have a degree in a similar field, in a comparable university in the same province as him. Trust me it's not that hard. Look at concordia's university requirent to enter a degree in philosophy. Also the guy is far from being an expert in his field, he has no authority on the subjet whatsoever. You're just a simp buddy

[@fractalzoomgoggles]

@@duskoskako5415 Blue pilled think degrees mean something, everything.

[@ballisticfish1212]

Not sure why mma coach Firas Zahabi would know the ‘truth about feminism and relationships’

[@goldtiger9453]

Every guy that's successful with women knows

[@shakir1998]

he studies philosophy, he's not just a mma coach.

[@20FreeWill]

I too am an epistemologist coach. I do not see meat and human mystery, I see windows to the soul and moving cogs of the mind

[@AyatollahS.A.Khamenei]

Love to see abdools with CTE chiming in on anything…always amusing!

[@anti_hero_660]

Love these side chats could listen all day

[@flatericccc]

You shouldn't have to transition from "women deserve rights" into "however". Lots of what's expected on women around makeup and appearance is forced upon them by our societal structures. Don't assume that the only driver is personal power, it's often also an avoidance of punishment for not doing those behaviors. You're smarter than this my friend.

[@Uusaal]

Is he?

[@PoeticSonic]

bro with all due respect, when men tell women you don't need makeup you look beautiful without make up, they tell the men to shut up that they are doing it for themselves, not the validation of men, which is half true and half bs. yes once upon a time, make up was worn to attract men, just as the coach said, the advertisement was geared towards women buying these products to please their men BUT then the feminist movement came and they changed the total advertisement to "buy this make up for yourself to express yourself and your freedom and nobody else" it's not full on social structure and it's more like women falling for the advertisement industry as they like to do (being 85% of the consumer market). and the whole "for yourself" is half bs, because big part of wearing makeup and being good at it is for female validation/ feeling superior to other women, plus male attraction, when a woman wants to attract a man on a date, she knows what specific type of make up to wear, when she wants to appear more casual she knows what type of makeup to wear. a lot of female insecurity doesn't come from the actual men in society, it comes from other women and the consumer industry to make women consume more products, think of any female insecurity and you will find it has something in relation to it for women to spend a shit ton of money on. weight lose/ gain? shit ton of products that either are straight-up bs o provide little effect before ruining to the body and causing it to gain more weight after stopping the use of the product. cloths? again men don't care that much it's other women that care.and it goes on and on, where the sources of the insecurities? it's from (or used to be) from female-centric magazines. on the other hand, male insecurity much of it couldn't be changed, it is society based and women actively use them to suppress men and take power, not through twesting hands but words. up until recently you couldn't enhance your height even now, it's very painful and not everybody can do them and most men don't. penis size? there is no surgery to make it longer no matter how much money you have. hair loss surgery is also relatively new and it's again relatively not expensive. and so on and so forth. although i would say the penis size thing was manufactured first to sell products that didn't work but it then transitioned to an actual thing that society will actively shame men for even when it's a normal size as to how women ACTUALLY treat a normal sized woman vs the insecurity she feels being normal sized (which in her mind is over weight)

[@VaporRize08]

Clearly he's not. Whenever a man seems a good person and he opens his mouth about women I'm corrected. I have learned not to see men this way since I'm always disappointed

[@bez1196]

@@PoeticSonic you got it backwards bro. Advertisment agencies hijacked feminist talking points and made their products about "female empowerment". Just like they did with cigarettes.

[@PoeticSonic]

@@bez1196 no i didn't get it backwards, that was exactly my point🤦‍♂it's not "soceity" it's big companies, who btw also kick started the feminist movement.

[@marksanchez7323]

Why are you against women learning jiu jitsu?

[@party38]

Drama burned me out I can’t handle drama and focus on business

[@FredrickDouglass69]

I love this guy ❤🔥👌🏻

[@RealMattKiefer]

Firas dropping red pill bombs

[@Ioc1legsweep]

You Speak Truth! Many women won’t admit it though.

[@DMurdock]

Women wear makeup for the same reason that men have beards. Vanity. Nothing wrong with that, in my opinion.

[@siezard4663]

A lot of guys have beards out of laziness.

[@brennancarter7721]

Coach, you are a wise and thoughtful individual who I respect very much.

[@prideneverdies1001]

Deniers or Living-in-Disney-World are losing their minds on /r/bjj with this lmao

[@covffchannel]

Mashalaah coach you are spot on. Love to have you on a podcast on my KZbin channel Inshallaah

[@mineshaftrisotto]

Damn Andrew Tate got tanned

[@Cristian-zz9ny]

Firas dropping the truth, we appreciate you

[@stringsnare]

now we know how to break Coach Firas in sparring, pull out Jane Eyre and start reading. lol

[@jamesmarston4398]

Watches Jordan Peterson once

[@serengeti4027]

lol for real

[@goldtiger9453]

Peterson doesn't even talk like this. He focuses more on responsibility

[@ayohab5757]

learning from the best always

[@zeitgeist1108]

You should be very careful with your words firas. Alot of young and unexperienced men are following you. I once thought you are a smart man but i guess it only counts for mma. society is changing and your kind is coming to an end.

[@bez1196]

Society is changing. Birthrates are declining. The family unit is malfunctioning. Depression and anxiety are on the increase. Maybe there's something wrong with what society is changing into.

[@zeitgeist1108]

@@bez1196 Life was never easy. Depression and anxiety was always present it's just nobody would talk about it. We are living in the easiest time human kind every lived. Birthrate is declining because many people have found a different purpose in their lifes. We are already too many humans on planet earth so why would you promote a higher birth rate?

[@darthwizzywizard]

Lots of men go along with the ideology, and defend it too get with that women. It’s pathetic. Plus career , Gov, Corp, pressures etc. Anyways agree completely. Everything has gone wacky in the west. It’s a lot of psychologically warped people that belong in a mental hospital that are attaching themselves to these movements as well. That being said the whole Feminism movement was spearhead by Gloria Stein back in the 60’70’s etc. Really it’s about destroying the family unit.

[@xxdragan1969]

Yes and she is part of the Tribe and their plans for the "west"....Refer to Frankfurt School and their Chosen professors ...

[@Enigma_Vids]

Also to get women in the workforce so they can pay their taxes to big brother.

[@goldtiger9453]

The problem with feminism is that we don't get to "spar", it's seen like a holy doctrine now and absolute power corrupts absolutely. Male domination can be good or bad but female domination will always be bad because they will resent u for not being better than them

[@Freiheit1232]

I disagree about the lipstick being sexual. I've heard that argument from JBP but the only women i know who really wear lipstick (because most wear nothing) it's because they look dead without it.... My mom has such pale lips it's odd to see her without lip stick because there is no color in her pale face without it. I think it's just beauty standards that have changed where to see a woman without color and they look pale/dull, it's so out of the norm and bizarre looking

[@diogomata2438]

Zahabi and Tate in a thumbnail? Never clicked so fast

[@stealthmode1303]

Bless you coach

[@RoscoPColtrane-x9f]

I agree with the concepts in your video but are you really sure it is a good idea to associate your name with Andrew Tate ? It may work out for you or not from a business perspective, but you will lose the respect of many.

[@roflswamp6]

It obviously is because insecure people like you have to question what you think you know now and that's always good as it encourages personal growth

[@RoscoPColtrane-x9f]

@@roflswamp6 lol...so is that an insult or a compliment ? I think the contradiction within your one sentence response reveals the truth.

[@roflswamp6]

@@RoscoPColtrane-x9f it's neither buddy, it's a challenge to introspect does the respect of many matter if the majority is out if synch with their moral and spiritual values? Remember when slavery was legal and ppl would tell others sure maybe it's wrong but what if you lose popularity? The right thing should always Trump popularity...

[@RoscoPColtrane-x9f]

@@roflswamp6 lol.....it is not as much of a spiritual journey as you are making it out to be. I say what I mean and own it. If Firas is sure that he wants to own the very offensive statements and actions that got Andrew Tate cancelled, he is free to do so. You are implying that you are a Trump supporter which speaks volumes about your own values and morals...or lack thereof.

[@goldtiger9453]

Real men already think like this

[@Uusaal]

This says way more about you than it does feminism. 🤦🏻‍♂️

[@ClearlyReviews]

Shout out to you! I honestly wasn’t expecting you to talk about something like this but I am glad you did!

[@stefanallen2987]

Probably one would get lots of hate for this but what to do i think its true - nowadays being a men is so much harder than being a women. 3 out of 4 people that kill themselfes are men, that already shows how bad the situation for men actually is. So why is everybody talking about feminism i really do not get it. It is very obvious (studies done more than enough) that women feel less attracted to a guy that has less resources than themselves. So automatically as a guy you have to take care that you always have a higher income than your wife - the moment you dont she eventually gets unhappy and leaves you. What a world are we livin in today? I truly feel i am from a different time and that i dont really belong here sometimes

[@serengeti4027]

Firas, are you actually aware of how many times you've made massive sweeping generalisations about a whole gender? The research indicates there are minor differences in the personalities of men and women (your boy Jordan Peterson often cites them). As in, women are more neurotic on average by a little bit for instance, but there are people all over the spectrum in both genders. So much of what you've said in this video is so outdated. It's fine if you wish to live your life this way, but the foundation from which you've drawn your philosophy is flawed logic. You keep trying to say what women want like they're a collective hive mind. They're individuals. The same way men are. Everyone is different. I really like you as a coach, but man, some of your political opinions are difficult for me lol.

[@TheOlzee]

Minor but NOT insignificant. And just having EXPERIENCE with the other gender you’ll know the differences I quite significant

[@serengeti4027]

@@TheOlzeei didnt say they were insignificant. but there's a difference between being significant and using those differences as the basis to spew the archaic stuff Firas said in the video. a big one in fact.

[@TheOlzee]

@@serengeti4027 ok so you disagree with yourself then. We are different now? I mean, be crystal clear about what’s archaic then I can educate you :) just because societal technology is ahead of our biology that does not mean that we are much more than our biology. You can’t fit a square peg in a round hole

[@Raumance]

What you are saying is quite stupid. When you are talking about gender dynamics between hetero men and females you are talking about general trends. That is what you do when you are talking about any concept.

[@serengeti4027]

@@Raumance what are these 'general trends' based on? his own personal experiences? as human beings we all have personal biases. that's why we rely on science to better understand the world around us. the general trends Firas is talking about are not supported by evidence. It's just his opinion.

[@ivanivan5511]

Since I was very young I found make up something sexual, just I couldn't speak it cos the truth always hurts