This is perfection... exactly what I've come to through my own healing journey... grounded in work by Bessel van Der Kolk, Richard Schwartz, Stephen Porges, Alan Schore, et al. With an understanding of trauma and its impact on the brain as well as its impact on development using attachment theory viewed through the lens of polyvagal theory and the autonomic nervous system's response to stress, we begin to see how parts come into existence and express themselves. A fine overlay is found in The Haunted Self by Onno van der Hart, Ph.D.,which refers to "Apparently Normal Parts" and "Emotional Parts." Thanks for sharing this fine video.
@RuthLopez-f4t Жыл бұрын
Excellent presentation🙏 Thanks🙏
@bulldog35129 ай бұрын
This Dr. I s the “Truth”, next level Ty!
@Melody-hf1zn Жыл бұрын
When Healthcare is a 'for profit business'...its buyer/consumer beware. Very sad for the vulnerable population. I'm learning IFS through a book as I cannot afford professional help. Thank you from the bottom of my trauma- based psyche for all your help and insights. We do heal from within and I find I am my own best/worst healer...lol.
@Melody-hf1zn Жыл бұрын
Thank You for the❣️...❤️🩹🙏...I am especially grateful to Jay Earley for his IFS book on Self Healing. I am 68 yrs old and have spent my entire life exploring the depths of my psyche through explorations of the heart... trying to heal from a multiplicity of co-morbidity resulting from a diverse internal structure of ptsd related childhood parts. It's been like having MPD...only I knew...through intuition alone... there had to be a point of Truth I possessed..."The Self"...( Jesus loved me this I knew )... somewhere within myself....somewhere. I knew her, I remembered her... if only in foggy, mystical moments. Clarity is emerging...slowly and rhythmically, like waves over the boundaries of softening shores. Time surrendering to the eternal 🌊 wave.
@desertboot9755 Жыл бұрын
The ideas around attachment theory, make so much sense to me.
@robmcchesney90912 жыл бұрын
Good people, doing good work.
@strawsofftheneurodivergent42212 жыл бұрын
That is super interesting. My migraines are ALWAYS triggered by overwhelming stress, after I got into a fight hissing cat, tiger claw rage response. Severe inner distress triggered by some outer thing...
@desertboot9755 Жыл бұрын
I'm trying to work out what my migraines are doing for me.
@miram36082 жыл бұрын
This was GREAT!!! I'm interested in a study group, how can I sign up for one? Thank you!!!
@nahlanekles40982 жыл бұрын
Me too need to study it
@michellemonet4358 Жыл бұрын
Ill join ya
@giovysАй бұрын
Me three!
@sylvie58942 жыл бұрын
Woohoo, thanks for this Frank!!!
@michellemonet4358 Жыл бұрын
Loving.curiosity... . Love that ..Ill try that.when i have my panic attacks
@jamaicaigot93352 жыл бұрын
this was really insightful! do you mind posting the audio version of these videos on audea? I'd like to listen more than watch and that's where I get most of my audio content..
@TherapistUncensoredPodcast2 жыл бұрын
We will look into Audea! This is a platform we are unfamiliar with, but we definitely want to continue expanding! Thanks for asking and for suggesting the platform.
@eugene54547 Жыл бұрын
I had hypnosis over 20 years ago. It was brilliant. Mental health therapists and psychologists dismissed the efficacy of hypnosis at the time with an arrogance reflective of narcissism that bordered on delusion. The hypnoanalist used parts therapy over 20 years ago. My experience of psychologists compared to hypnoanalysis is that the former was a waste of time. They are all using mindfulness now. So after 20 years, the licensed mental health therapists are finally acknowledging the benefits of just meditation. Of course, they are now trying to monopolise mindfulness training as their own invention rather than a broadly practised buddhist technique. Pathological arrogance cashing in on claiming a niche education for the traumatised.
@mariamurphy741413 күн бұрын
They don't say it's two years and done. They say attachment changes throughout life.
@coppersense999 Жыл бұрын
His observation about his son saying, "of course I go to papa about money, and Daddy about cooking!" is so interesting to me. His family is such a valuable living social experiment in real time. Like how does it affect the development of a boy to grow up in a home with zero females? I bet they forget to teach him about menstrual cycles and other things boys with sisters are exposed to. And based on what I have seen in SF, white men, whether gay or straight, are still the thought leaders in a community, or even they just set behavioral precedent by proximity, where straight men adjacent to gay men are different. There is less street harassment (of women) better style, more same sex vulnerability and physical affection, without any stigma. Gay men can be the best antidote to misogyny, as a community that has survived tragedy and minority-based oppression. Trauma-informed people have the potential to be less likely to perpetuate discrimination. The next generation might be a different story.
@Star-dj1kw Жыл бұрын
✅ very good
@savagebunny1440 Жыл бұрын
43:00
@align2source Жыл бұрын
💚
@strawsofftheneurodivergent42212 жыл бұрын
Hold on - I thought the parasympathetic state was rest and digest. But when I am in a freeze response, I still feel also anxious and stressed, and for sure I am NOT in a rest and digest state. In a Freeze response you don't digest well either, you are NOT relaxed.
@andrewfrench6850 Жыл бұрын
Stephan Porges polyvagal theory explains that the parasympathetic system has two branches, one for rest and digest, and the other (called the dorsal vagal system) which is the oldest part of the nervous system - the reptile response - responsible for the freeze response in the face of extreme threats.
@mariamurphy741413 күн бұрын
Actually no. They are looking at the father too. In fact, everybody else in a large family. And after that, people in their lives as adults.
@modelo61 Жыл бұрын
The problem with IFS is that if you move trough, you are going to find parts everywhere and your going to draw complicated diagrams in the style of Berne to describe the relationship between parts and in the end the conciseness is lost! A model not still based on evidence must be so complicated?
@amandajephson99649 ай бұрын
It is evidence based.
@richzebro2 ай бұрын
I don't agree with this guy's understand of Parts and IFS
@harveywoodcock9551 Жыл бұрын
Hey, keep up the work. You will enjoy this channel 👉 #drjohnaking. I find him informative, yet down to earth.