TUA # 121 - Male Exotic Dancer Stories From Bachelorette Parties

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[@machester36]

People shitting on this guy. Probably his first time on a podcast and first time being interviewed. He was forthright and gave some good insight

[@shawnfallahi5616]

"comes down to the influence of the friends"

[@michaelregan427]

Rich has the patience of a monk. Listen at 1.5x speed and its almost bearable. I actually dont think this guy is lying at all he's perfect for the line of work he's in.

[@seriouscash]

i do this job and i have many stories i can tell at any time. this dude has no charisma

[@michaelregan427]

​@seriouscash hm do you think he's making this stuff up? You're right no charisma, I came at it from the angle of they get a good looking guy with no brain to hook up with, that's kinda the definition of a piece of meat. There is a channel Soft White Underbelly he's had a few male and female strippers all were charismatic and engaging. Had a friend at the gym who was a personal trainer and stripper he said it was a lot of work traveling around doing late night bs. Very charismatic and funny, could rattle off many stories in under 5 minutes.

[@harisbajric7958]

Do yourself a favor and turn the playback speed to 1.5x.

[@ryanj357]

This is why I quit drinking and it's also why I won't date a girl who drinks anymore. The girls I dated couldn't hold their shit and alcohol influenced their behaviour alot. I've been sober for around a year now.

[@dr.vanhellsing]

Alcohol does numb the pain away…

[@dacawone]

"Dancing-Bear" reached out to Rich, huh? Finally someone blew the whistle on what really happens at girl's weekends, girl's nights out, and bachelorette parties.

[@johnj2179]

💯 percent. Take notes. Stay single, stay redpill, these ho3s ain't loyal. What got me was that the woman's phone background was pic of her husband n still doing the dirty at the events.. crazy.

[@scottcasey9240]

Dancing Bear is staged, but I get your point.

[@michigan57]

OMG

[@Kuk0san]

It's important to understand this guy's experience is skewed towards the type of women who _would_ call in male strippers on the bachelorette parties. He wouldn't know about what other types of parties are happening because that's not his job. That's why the 80% seems so high. It only means that 80% of women who would cheat, actually cheat. The rest probably feel some remorse. He said it himself, vet her friends. If they're the type of group to do a painting class on the weekend rather than get smashed at a bar, they'll just end up doing the same at the bachelorette party.

[@Ascension_3030]

right.....the good girls delusion

[@williamhermann6635]

You honestly believe that? Like its just some subset of women doing this? Eve's DNA is in every woman who ever existed. Dont ever forget that.

[@michigan57]

I hate to hear the truth@@Ascension_3030

[@TimDwg]

This is so true. My ex-wife used to have really good friends and that was the best time of our marriage. She had friends who cared about their families and valued their husbands and the lives they built. Many years later she started hanging with women who were only interested in themselves and their own desires and I saw a change in my (then) wife. It was noticeable. She cheated, we’re now divorced. The friends are a good indicator of what’s going on in her head.

[@maxhi88]

"Show me your friends and I'll show you your future." I guess Dan Pena's quote also applies to your future significant other.

[@ivanr4300]

Dan peña is the MAN!!

[@RyanPatrickFlanagan]

The woman Tom described at the 16:01 mark deserves a round of applause. It was great to hear that.

[@marcblue]

I was a male stripper for 4 years, and about 80 % of brides to be offer money for a " final fling ",.. I refused every time of course. One young and very attractive bride to be declined a private dance that her friend tried to pay me for,.. bride to be apologized and said she loved he soon to be husband and couldn't do it. I thanked her and told her how lucky her future husband was. I told her how she helped restore a little faith in women for me,. and it held way more value than the $ 20 I would have made.

[@AngelofJustice412]

I don’t necessarily agree with all the people shitting on this guy’s storytelling abilities. It was an informative and eye-opening video regardless.

[@alexanderroodt5052]

I liked it

[@rickgerald2261]

Exactly he’s not a professional pod caster who gives a shit

[@jarrodmartin2204]

Speed clip to 1 million and it’s bearable.

[@hermitrob5481]

God listening to people that aren’t good story tellers is exhausting

[@jadanblue3927]

This is incredibly interesting and entertaining. Unexpected.

[@MrJahbeez]

Jeez. I've never been an exotic dancer and I could've come up with the same answers to every one of these questions, and been more entertaining about it. Like a lot of others have said, I checked out early. Love what you do and your content, Rich. Vet these guests beforehand, though.

[@dyamariv3628]

I'm sorry but this one was just painful! Worst storyteller with the personality of a piece of paper.. You can sure tell he's good looking cause he never had to develop a personality. On the bright side, at least he made an effort to come on the podcast.

[@masudahmed6029]

Nothing wrong with him seems like a nice guy with a conscience

[@tomb6670]

Rich did you actually speak to this guy before having him on? It doesn’t seem like it.

[@nevereverlistens]

It was ok

[@b4sakenproductions416]

Why are people saying this man is lying? .... Let me give the non-believers a reality check. While I was studing music production in college I worked as a part-time DJ. I DJed for some of these events and I can tell you it is absolutely true. This guy's stories are Disney compared to what I've seen.

[@michigan57]

I believe it.

[@MayorOfBodybuildingTV]

Telling truth. I know some guys in this business.

[@macioluko9484]

Well. He certainly put a dent in people’s delusions…

[@michigan57]

Put a dent in mine.

[@daveb8679]

This guy calls himself a philosopher?!?! If so, then I’m Socrates. Do yourself a favor and listen to this genius at 2x speed. I’m surprised that Rich had as much patience as he did!!

[@_Stay_Curious]

Some listeners of this channel have no patience. It's the content and points that this guest made that are important here -- not how he speaks.

[@michigan57]

Yea I know.

[@jmd3236]

lol not the sharpest tool in the shed….his speaking..high school level…lower part.. This dude will never make money with his tongue or his head…lol

[@alexanderroodt5052]

I guess a lifetime of not having to do that will have those results.

[@PepReloaded]

This was tough to listen to. The guy rambles on in all directions. Rich tries to keep him on point.

[@williamhermann6635]

Its a conversation, not a dissertation.

[@michigan57]

The way he speaks is not the point

[@igottheshaft]

This is so hard to listen to...if he doesn't want to tell stories, why go on your show? Is this even real? 40 grand per show? That sounds like a bit much...checking out half way through and that was too much.

[@muskokamike127]

the guy.....tells stories.....like.........ummm....I.....poop..........ah....after.......tac o......bell.

[@khairt1731]

Hes clearly lying

[@a55tech]

what do u mean he doesn't want to tell stories? if he didn't, how did it last over an hour

[@fakedemocracy]

A lot of Rich’s guests are like this. And that’s ok. Not everyone is used to having a mic in their face. Please shut the f*ck up op.

[@cringemaxxing28]

@@khairt1731he’s definitely lying

[@christiancanan4057]

I worked for a company, it was strictly women. Strictly private parties. Made a good bit of $$

[@dacawone]

The reason there were no callers on this show is because guys were speechless on the stream from hearing these truths. Especially the girl's "doggybag" story, lol.

[@KingAndrew5000]

this guy is not good at telling stories.

[@jmd3236]

lol nah just a heavy user of weed…

[@muskokamike127]

he tells stories like my last gf after she downed half a bottle of wine...and she sucked at it SOBER lol

[@nevereverlistens]

He wasn’t supposed to be, he was dubbed as one. He was technically just a guest!

[@terryuller2479]

He’s fantastic if you like hearing the word erm ! And then spit being sucked through his teeth 🦷

[@muskokamike127]

@@nevereverlistens either way, he 100% sucks at story telling.

[@brighton09100]

Most so-called girlfriends will jeopardize their friends relationship because they know it’s going to change between them. They now know that your attention is going to be going towards their husband now.

[@seanhyaduck8443]

This guy doesn’t have problems forming a sentence, he seems to have actual remorse for some of the shit that just went with the job.

[@lomotil3370]

The guy talks like he is stoned.

[@michaelphelps5064]

On 1.25 he only sounds a little stoned. As opposed to completely brain dead.

[@henryized1762]

Rich's Facial expression got me dying in 47:59 🤣

[@williamblunt9243]

Premium disgust lol

[@jjohnson6471]

This guy probably has some really great stories

[@markgerrard383]

I had great hopes for the sweet & sour pork I made before this podcast.... The tale of the turd, the handbag & the Great Escape pretty much put paid to my appetite tho' I have to confess.. 🐾

[@bbooth1229]

Cheese and rice this guy is brutal to listen to. How can you manage to turn something so interesting into something more boring than Chinese math? I had to stop listening half way through to stab my ears with forks.

[@Coolman1985]

😂 i take it you were disturbed by the stories

[@solomoncooper6491]

I wish he was a better story teller….Rich definitely had to pull teeth too get straight answers out of him.

[@tomb6670]

He’s a horrible story teller

[@nevereverlistens]

He did ok, maybe first time

[@Joe-gl8sr]

OMG the “i just met your twin” line… havent used it in 15+ yrs!!! Dumb excuse to re-engage a chic on text

[@techsir8866]

Getting in some entertainment for the day.

[@ripsterruta4438]

How come there’s none of the new episodes on Spotify? Just stops at 117

[@scottmarsh7902]

Yeah same I like listening Spotify but there's never anything new

[@orion9k]

Dude you need to write a book purely with crazy episodes, would be a best sellers 😂

[@FiredtoFreedom]

Is anyone else's BS detector goin off here? Maybe it's his delivery. Seems very unfocused and low enthusiasm. There's something about the way he's speaking at times that sounds like he's making it up as he goes either that or he's busy messaging someone else while answering.

[@chefdave6596]

My friend. This man's hitting the nail on head.

[@danielkeegan6002]

I actually think he's just trying to give as accurate of a description as possible. Plus I'm sure Rich did some digging to make sure he's legit.

[@chienforcer]

In addition to what @danielkeegan6002 said, it also sounds like he is being cautious about what he says. Like he is trying not to say something that will ding the channel, not say something that will expose a client, not say something that could get him attacked... etc... all of which are understandable.

[@jmd3236]

He is not well spoken…likely from prolonged weed smoking…

[@igottheshaft]

@@chienforcer He danced naked for hordes of anonymous drunk women...it's not like he is a therapist or a doctor who has an obligation to protect his clients sensitive medical details. Just change a name and spill the beans, geez. Something about this whole interview felt very "off." In fact, I couldn't stand listening to it, and didn't finish.

[@andrewmorton3277]

I think he spoke perfectly OK. I really don't see any issue!

[@tomb6670]

This guy is so annoying with how he drags and drags a story. Disappointing show.

[@michaelphelps5064]

Women step out and behave like that because they can. They have the power to say yes or no, because men are almost always going to say yes. Even if they don't say yes, their body will say it for them.

[@Amaek]

I have the audible audio book, the second edition is out now, will It upgrade automatically or how this works for us. Thank you in advance.

[@MANDING0]

I thought dancing bear was just a bang bros site

[@gummislayer1969]

It is...Buuhaaahaaaa!!! 😆😆😆 Don't ask me how I know...🫣🫣🫣

[@tommynickels4570]

1.5 speed is a necessity.

[@kevinmanning4880]

I did have to be patient with the pace of the conversation on this video. However there was important information. I completely agree with everything the stripper said. As I was a Limousine Driver and looked much younger than my age and was hit on lots. The girls would phone the boss asking if he sent a hot driver. When I got there it was a bit overwhelming with 12 women.

[@ginomoreno5117]

This is a GREAT example of when I try to explain to people the difference between a dancer and a stripper. I danced for 10 years - no drugs, no alcohol, no tattoos and banged a very select few women. Dancer = professional. Shows on time, sober, works very hard and goes home. Usually working towards something bigger - education, business, etc - and speaks well. Strippers (people who refer to themselves as strippers is clue #1) are the ones who do drugs, get high, drink (at work and private parties - VERY dangerous), get a bunch of tattoos and bang anything that moves. I can almost always tell strippers in 5 seconds by the way they look and definitely by the way they talk. This dude is definitely a stripper. Hope he saved his money.......

[@RandomVids519]

Holy hell pull my ears off this was brutal to listen to🤡💩

[@MrMarkhort78]

I really struggled with this one. Some test patience for Richard. Hats off to you. I had to stop watching it was so annoying.

[@loseerich493]

The guest must've been high, wtf. Even at 1.5 speed it's a tough listen. Great topic to get direct feedback on but the guest wasn't palatable.

[@BigBadMF43]

Everybody is complaining about how this guy talks. He seems to have major anxiety

[@jamesmurray5594]

This guy is completely stoned. If you’re going to go on a podcast at least go on sober. You are the most boring guest Rich has ever had on his podcast. He makes Walburger seem interesting

[@JasonCopas-m4s]

Back of envelope calculation: This guy confessed he slept with more women than days in the year. A previous male stripper on Rich’s show said exactly the same thing. Likely in the 400-500 range. Either way, hundreds seems standard. Next, how many male strippers need to be around in a country with 167 million women most of whom-going forward -are statistically likely to attend at least 1 male strip show in their lifetime? Hint: There are roughly 46 million women in America in their 20s or 30s. Maybe 40% will never see a male strip show. But others will see 2 or 3 or 9 or 10 shows. Let’s say it averages out at 1.8 shows for every woman aged 20-39. That’s 1.8 x 46 million = 83 million. Serving the carnal needs of 83 million women is an industrial enterprise. 100 or 200 men clearly ain’t going to cut it. We’re talking 1,000s of men. 10-15k perhaps. If the guys Rich talked to are typical, the average male stripper sleeps with 100s of women. Even if the average is a “mere” 100 women per dude, that is still between 1 and 1.5 million women who sleep with (let’s be intellectually honest) male sex workers. Much more as the conquest totals increase. At 400 women per dude, that is now 4-6 million women. At 500 women per dude, 5-7.5 million. And so on. Remember, there are 44 million women aged 20-39 in America. If the male stripper community has collectively slept with between 1 and 7.5 million women (most between 25-35) that is a huge proportion-between 4% and 30% of the 23/24 million in this age cohort by my estimate. Oh, this doesn’t include the millions more who grope, flirt with, kiss, take naked photos of, or make some emotional connection with a stripper which the guest was adamant happens constantly. But remember: only male culture can be toxic.

[@RockyMaiviaMiami]

Anyone have a link to the other interview (Mike)?

[@DCB1209]

Have you found it? I've been searching through his vids with no luck.

[@cringemaxxing28]

@@DCB1209I’ve watched every episode of TUA, BTT. I’ve never seen the Mike interview so I doubt it exists. Or was deleted before 2021.

[@parammaewal1497]

This guy was catching, not pitching

[@byroncary2334]

This guy sounds like he’s gonna cry

[@Project-Masculinity]

The question I have is what's the story with the Grooms Mother/Sister etc who is attending, are they following a Girl Code of keeping the men in the dark (even if its their Son/Brother/Nephew etc) This is (I think) another spin off issue, when do women put blood relations before their ideology(s).....?

[@Pilled_red]

Hard to listen to. I had to speed it just to get through his long pauses. One thing I will say is if you send your girl off to a bachelorette party then you deserve to be cheated on. According to this guy 80% of these things the women get inappropriate.

[@nexttime960]

He mentioned growing up watching TV the guy always played the bafoon, girl was " bewitched brillant' truth was opposite, so many girls no judgent, poor decisions etc

[@pinnacle1717]

Rich - this guy is too boring for your gig. Total waste of time listening to even the first 10 minutes of it. Couldn’t waste any more time on it. Can he actually finish a sentence? Pulling teeth is more interesting than this guy.

[@alrom125]

Sounds like cap. I don’t know why he’s speaking so slow and cryptic, other than he’s making it up as he goes along. Only made it through 10 min

[@humphrey212]

I'm happy about videos like this. Because women who go to these shows like to pretend it just innocent fun. When in reality it's a sex party.

[@GuessWhoCaptKirk]

Excellent show !

[@user-kz4ql4md5m]

Welcome to girl world fellas 😂

[@michigan57]

Sad for us

[@SocietyofIdiocracy]

Does anyone know what the call-in number is for Rich's lives?

[@RandomVids519]

911

[@ejtipp4650]

This was boring, not what i thought.

[@Mcbevhills]

One of my good friends is a male dancer he does bachelorette parties. And guess what…. Sorry men most women have a choo choo run on them . One guy and a bunch of girls. Finishing with the bride to be. He goes girl to girl and has segx with them. They typically end up cheating on your soon to be married self at the party. He does a couple per day and used viagara to keep his member working. He doesn’t crummm either so it stays excited.

[@michigan57]

I was afraid of that. Men.......they are whores.

[@mikietown]

To the male dancer interviewed on this particular podcast. Maybe get a good nights sleep the morning before the interview & drink some coffee beforehand. Then.. Make an outline of things you'd like to talk about so that the interviewer doesn't have to work so hard to get your story out and in addition you know what you want to say before you are called upon to talk. I think the previous commenters were correct in that you've always been able to rely on your looks & never had you develop a personality nor work on things like your diction articulation or presentation which are normal skills that professional adults learn as professionals over time. You knowingly participated in destroying marriages and lives for 15 years so I hardly have the stomach for listening to your bland & frankly annoying stories at this point.

[@StreetFig]

This dude is still slow even at 2x speed, jesus I'm not buying the story about that chick who put her turd in her purse though, either she's lying or this dude is some kind of fraudster, there 's now way people do that

[@jjoe2662]

BS

[@SeanGunz]

I lift weights a ton and when I was a pizza delivery guy id get hit on a surprising amount. When i delivered to strip clubs they go crazy and try to shove my face in their chest

[@loseerich493]

Back in the day I moonlit security at a # of casino/resort/concert venues in Vegas. I got hit on like you're describing. Sadly, I thought my wife wasn't like the ho's that were trying to step out with a Vegas security dude & that if I behaved myself she would do the same. Guys - Don't think for a minute you're immune to your lady stepping out. It's a hard lessen to learn when it happens to you.

[@bigdisme5622]

Be back, gotta go grab an application

[@redkap5816]

This guy is hard to listen to damn

[@michigan57]

He seems like he is extremely damaged emotionally. Has difficulty putting a sentence together. I wanted to know how a regular wife or girlfriend would behave at those parties. I fear what a buddy's wife that you have known for years would do. Eye opening to the truth.. How would the girls from the office behave?.

[@kdc6884]

Watch the video at 1.5 speed. Makes it tolerable

[@missxstef2023]

Male storytelling equivalent of the Whatever chicks…😪 1:02:45 there it is

[@Tylervrooman]

2x speed

[@eg4848]

Doesnt this fly in the face of women wanting "status"? Male strippers aren't exactly CEOs

[@eg4848]

this is also selection bias its not like every woman has a bachelorrette party with male strippers thats kinda rare and even more rare to actually hook up. Fun stories though

[@michigan57]

I think that you are naive

[@BigBadMF43]

what is me twoed?

[@Coolman1985]

Was this guy getting blown while he was interviewing, alot of pauses and strange sounds 😂

[@michaelcivitella9119]

I know, RIGHT?? Sure sounded like it!! 😂

[@Coolman1985]

@@michaelcivitella9119 😂😂

[@michigan57]

Tell me it isn't so

[@marcomaroni3963]

"Exotic Dancer" bruv

[@sculptureshard377]

Very sad to listen to, the content speaking of the sad state of our society as well

[@ang5035]

You talk to a stripper and you think their experience can be generalized?

[@eg4848]

Also this dude is part of the problem lol he has no room to complain sorry this is just hilarious

[@Bethune_Groundstaff]

47:40 shiiit

[@periclescimon9954]

80% of the time!!!! Wtf

[@michigan57]

It sucks does it not. Oh no my girl would not do anything. Are we all fools

[@TalonDeKarrde]

🖖🏻

[@NealR2000]

So hard listening to this guy. He has trouble organizing his thoughts.

[@tommynickels4570]

I cant even listen on 1.5 speed. This guest is awful

[@ChrisP-ni4lz]

Zzzz

[@SuperQdaddy]

So whats problem..isn't this what its about ?..party on

[@michigan57]

It just shatters my elusion of "good girls" It is all a lie.

[@Melissa.712]

😂😆