Two dates changed my entire life | stalking awareness

[@bmoore-n-life]

This has so many deep things in it - the lack of protection of black women, the over sympathy towards white men, domestic violence…also thank you for putting his name and number its so beautiful that you did that presumably to protect others. I hope bali is beautiful you deserve it

[@aemsiw3798]

This is why healthy families are so important. This is why having a healthy father is so important. This is why healthy marriages are important. This is why having family involved in the “dating” process is important.

[@DasiaDoesIt]

You know, I completely agree with this.

[@aemsiw3798]

@DasiaDoesIt having a healthy family would have saved me a lot of trouble but thankfully everything worked out. Unfortunately that is not that case for alot of people. Thank you for sharing your experience.

[@vanillavania.]

Healthy marriages. This is crucial. I do not want to make the mishap of just getting a ring for society sake.

[@Adot_is_Adrienne]

Thank you for sharing your story. There's so much I want to say, but I don't want to word vomit in your comments. I know you don't know me but I'm very proud of you for continuing to build your life after such a horrific experience.

[@erinlomax7048]

Stalkers are so serious and not talked about enough.. I had one in Japan and I needed to move away because the police wouldn't help much.. I'm still in Japan and I'm always looking over my shoulder.

[@jamesreid8638]

Terrible to have to live like a fugitive when you did nothing unlawful. You are a living treasure who deserves so much better. You did the right thing.

[@kend1370]

I came across your channel learning how to roller skate and never expected to see a video like this. Thank you for raising awareness and remaining strong throughout all of that. Our justice system doesn’t do enough when it comes to stalkers and white men as perpetrators. I’m happy you were able to find peace and a solution in the end. Hoping you stay safe, strong and healthy :)

[@jennied1973]

I had a equally controlling stalker too in college and it wrecked my relationships. In my case it was one date. He harassed me at school and when I publicly turned him down he chose to doxx me and put multiple ads on Craigslist/forums. He sent pictures of my house and anytime I changed numbers he have it within the hour. It was 2 years of threats and phone calls. It was awful. I wasn’t close to family at the time so I just suffered in silence.. i do look back and wish I had been tough as you. ❤

[@Sharkbite002]

Dasia, thank you for posting this. I have 3 daughters that I need to show this to. Not just to show how dangerous people can be, but also to show how it’s possible to persevere through fear and be courageous when it feels like the world is not working like it’s supposed to. Thank you for being strong and courageous, but most of all for persevering.

[@Venzynt]

Some evils are beyond reason. In such case, the only way to stop them is with force.

[@pieceofpeace35]

This fear is legitimately why I don't date. Also there should be an organization you can reach out to who will protect women from stalkers when the police won't do anything. Like how the black panthers created an ambulance that had doctors on it and responded to problems better than police did so they had to acknowledge them and those became our future ambulances

[@samaraisnt]

there SHOULD be /:

[@priyawantstofly]

I read your story on Reddit and eventually reached here. I'm so sorry for all the terrible things you went through but I'm very happy to see you live your life and share your story fearlessly now. More power to you.

[@robertnew8978]

Sorry you went through that. This is really wild how people feel so entitled to YOUR time, energy, & love. Sending you positive vibes!

[@rubypanterra.]

Dasia, I'm glad you're still here. 🖤 🐈‍⬛

[@nominatorchris5591]

Holy fucking shit. Even as a guy this is horror fuel. I would've got a 300 pound pitbull and moved to siberia if this shit happened to me. As a someone who is also black af the insane double standards from everyone that was supposed to help you is insane.

[@jaykey1202]

Damn that shit scary sorry you had to go through that bullshit.😢

[@liasanma1665]

I feel you there... I have a stalker for more than 10 years now, and there's literally nothing nobody can do, apparently. Nothing until he murders me, that is, after yeah... it's going to be good.

[@moco3624]

The guy is now spending 15yrs in prison for stalking a second person while he was out on parole. Some people never learn.

[@KimberlyPinkney]

I caught part of this story on Instagram and was totally invested, then it was interrupted and it disappeared. I scoured the net to find it again to see what would happen. I am glad I did! What a triumph and to live to give back and appreciate your life! Wow!🎉

[@egresham02]

Thank you for sharing your story! I ended my relationship three years ago and my ex stalked me for a little bit. He eventually stopped. I have taking a self defensive course before but I am considering martial arts. I agree with you it better to defend yourself instead of remaining in fear.

[@kdtheii]

That's insane! No one deserves to go through this. This is a prime example of how the system fails women... especially black women. You have all the evidence and nothing could still be done??? Disgusting. I feel sick.

[@air-ren]

I am so sorry that happened with you or with anyone. this is insanely insane stuff man...

[@hajeevibes]

I've moved several times and out of state due to stalking...including state&local police stalking.... crazy world we live in. This can completely ISOLATE a person and I'm still in that isolation but survive because I know I'm a spirit in a body and NEVER alone AND this world is NOT reality. This type situation could also explain why so many black females are missing??? Thank you for sharing this Dasia. You are EVERYTHING. BLESSINGS! 🎉🙏🏾💚🌏💎

[@UniquelyHerz]

Amen !!!

[@JenniTulls]

Sending positive and good vibes your way, Dasia. Thank God you got out of that situation. #ProtectBlackWomen

[@bobbiehall7516]

Woooow! Thank you Dasia so much. All women need to see this. After 2 dates?! May GOD'S protection stay with you❤❤

[@strawhatpirates4]

This is why the Briana Boston’s situation pisses so many people off. All this happened with proof and yet there was nothing the system could do for you. But good on you for being smart and protecting yourself from that. I’ve had 2 instances where I’m like what is wrong with this person/it’s giving murderer or serial killer. I’m not against fireams but I am against the unsafe practices and violence. Only adults should weld them and therefore be mature enough to use them properly.

[@sleeper6000]

This reminded me of a similar situation from when I was in high school, dealing with bullying, racism & harassment. I changed to a boarding school from public ed & the people who abused me would call my dorm non stop trying to figure out which room I was in or if they could reach me. This went on until i moved to the Bay Area, long story short is that I had to pretty much change all my socials, block people and am still very wary of others to this day. Your story really resonated with me as a Black person because of the layers of systemic indifference to when seeking aid from the system & structures. But also choosing yourself and the life you want to live free of that fear.

[@downbytheC]

Wow, this is deep. Thanks for sharing

[@meddlesomemusic]

this is horrifying. sorry you had to deal with so much of this without help

[@ur22much2]

Reading his words and the way he thinks. This guy is knock down drag out crazy. Blaming her for his inability to control his emotions.

[@EldritchGrimoire]

Absolutely horrific

[@OriginalVirtuoso]

@3:25 Right before you said it I was thinking, “this mfr white”.🤦🏽‍♂️

[@MegaBryo]

I’m sorry that happened to you. Nobody deserves to live in fear like that. People like that guy that are obsessed with someone crave any kind of attention they can get. Where were all his creative threats when it turned out you were more serious about being left alone then he was about terrorizing you? I’m glad you were able to resolve the situation but sad you had to go through so much to do so. Thanks for sharing and making videos that educate us. ✊🏿

[@docadams1]

One of my graduate students (in Mississippi) knew a judge and had her stalker committed to a state psychiatric facility. It's worth considering.

[@personneici2595]

Glad you're still with us ❤

[@BawseBawdyworks]

This is a terrifying story! Thank God you had your firearm! Where is he now? How is Bali?! Thank you for sharing!

[@teonaka632]

The storms you have been through in life!! I used to tell my daughter, “Thieves don’t come for empty vaults.” You, my dear, are a gem, a true world changer, your gifts, compassion and love will change (and have already!) the lives of so many (to include mine!!). The enemy tried to stop you but HE who is in you is greater than he who is in the world. I’m so grateful to “meet” you, please know that the impact you are making in the lives of people is immeasurable and deeply healing. Thank you!! 💛

[@Carleen02]

Thank you for sharing your story.💯

[@bobbiehall7516]

Throughout all this, your mental health is SOOO important and I know how free and spiritual skating has been for you. Are you continuing to skate in Bali? Take care❤❤

[@WAVYU5]

soon as the police talk started,i KNEW he was white.smh.

[@Shaiyo5]

Enjoy your vacation. I appreciate that you took the time to share your story.

[@lalalovengun]

Infinite blessings to you with protection and prosperity, Dasia!! I’m so sorry you experienced such a scary and seriously dangerous encounter, but I celebrate the evolutionary growth and strength in choosing oneself and doing whatever it takes to ensure your survival l!🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿

[@jamesn8094]

Crazy! Sending love

[@pretoriaafro5074]

I was like, "pissed in your cheerios". You are a true survivor! Thank you for sharing. WOW, 4 MONTHS B4 YOU WERE BORN.

[@richardschneller7674]

I’m so glad you’re alright . You’re a brilliant and wonderful person. I wish the world was not so dangerous and that men were universally upright. Stay strong and keep being who you are. I hope that somehow your life is enhanced, if not by this experience, but by sharing it .

[@wingallowingallomy3909]

Wow your story is deep, i feel bad you had to endure that horrible experience

[@UrbanPulseOutdoors]

Thanks for sharing this Dasia. It's so sad that women are not protected as they should be. We have processes in place, but they're inadequate and poorly constructed. Law enforcement is not there to protect folks or prevent crimes. They exist to address crimes that have already occurred. Glad you got a piece and have become comfortable with using it. Not all 🔥arm owners are 'Murica. Most just see it as a tool for protection. Glad that devil is in prison.

[@jasliveslife]

Thank you for sharing. Proud of you. Much love.

[@rockbagrz]

youve come so far i cant even imagine the terror of all this stay strong and keep doing you boo

[@honeyandsungarden]

Thank you for sharing this story we I’m so happy you are safe and living the life that you deserve!

[@Brit943]

thank you for sharing your story. im proud of you!

[@hikaihikonoken9052]

Thanks for the share. Sorry for the trauma. Hope all challenges you meet in life from now on are far less worrisome than this frustratingly terrifying experience

[@jacqibelle]

Thank you for sharing your experience 💜

[@bethra.flowers]

❤ Thank you so much for sharing your experience.

[@lylyvibez]

You are so strong! I am still in awe….. I am VERY proud of you! I am so sorry you have had to live like that! 🥺

[@PerfectContradiction]

Yesssss, I hate that part. They first have to serve the person and it’s nerve wrecking. That is indeed scary

[@Chiketootuff]

that's a sick weirdo. also I know this isn't about the video but I see your channel is very helpful for me starting to roller skate but also you say many things about girls, so im just wondering if boys are allowed to roller skate because I feel im weird if its just for girls. Anyone else is free to comment and tell me an answer if that's ok. Thanks!

[@jmay9644]

✨️✨️🖤🖤🫂🫂Thank you so very much for sharing your story with us! This has hit my heart deeply. I am so sorry you had to go through all of the traumas placed before you. So many things to be said, at the same token, I understand you were chosen to experience all you did to help yourself & in helping others. So many blessings to you & loved ones daily! Lots of love, light, & grace always🫂✨️🦋🌱

[@powerhouse2024]

West 4B movement all the way. The way forward is away from men in all ways.

[@lulufields6122]

Thank you for sharing your story!❤

[@secretpeace-wp6xg]

As a kid I grew up watching the shows from investigation discovery. Although some episodes were made for the sake of entertainment it never fails amaze me the lengths people go just to have the feeling of control over someone else. The depressing reality is with many states in this country stalking is never taken seriously until the person ends up hurt or dead. The cases that come to mind when I think of stalking is the case of Leandra Ramm (Obsession Dark Desires: Season 1 Episode 5) and Lee Redmond (Stalked someone's watching: Season 2 Episode 14) This is why I always supported privacy laws and sites like Delete me because there are sick people out here and you never always know what someone is capable of doing to you until you become their target.

[@mezmarionybarra]

Thank You So Much for Sharing!!! Thank God u are ok physically!!! So important to know ourselves, if possible, to help us be aware of others energy. Blessings for You and Yours Always ✨️ 🩵✨️

[@ninaimajo6817]

Wow! I wanted to know you back story. Grateful you are not just safe, but cherishing your life and sharing strength with others!❤️❤️😉

[@Alisa-b4u]

❤so glad you made it through such a horrifying experience, God, resilience, faith and resourcefulness is what kept you protected even when you didn’t feel that way, sending prayers of healing ❤️‍🩹 safety and strength upon you ❤

[@ClearOpacity]

I’m so sorry 💚. This is something people need to know. I am also in the 702. Would love to meet up to skate.

[@Shalondria]

Yes yes yes and yes! So proud of you! Instant subbie.

[@juliabermudez7316]

This is the best video I've had the chance to watch in the past, I don't know, weeks? I got here because I wanted to roller skate, I never tried it, but I watch videos of it on my living room, funny right? Thank you.

[@yumyum215]

Women... please get a FIREARM! Learn how to use it. Please. I got how guns are scary and dangerous. However, when used properly, they can save your life.

[@sammikeiko8860]

Obviously you don’t know how many women are in jail for self defense.

[@samaraisnt]

They aren’t scary, and they aren’t as dangerous as A MAN. This was a great example of that…all men aren’t afraid of owning guns, why should women, who are victimized more, be?

[@OL_TONE]

I’m glad you’re ok. I see why yall don’t like men smh

[@bigpoppaslaughter4257]

I’m late responding but this encounter is the worse stalker story I’ve ever heard of but not surprised do to the facts given

[@dapotlicker4624]

Doxing the number is mad gyal😂

[@RaeTechDigital]

name him/shame him...

[@Tony-mn7vo]

Knew he was white.

[@KatrinaCardell]

I'm sorry??? The detective????? Saying he seems like a nice guy???????????? Is it their first day on the force?!

[@wingallowingallomy3909]

Don’t post you number online especially not on youtube after you been through that

[@gurdietwentysix6499]

I’m glad ur ok though.. But…

[@gurdietwentysix6499]

I wanna kno More… ❤

[@coffinbirthcutie9126]

❤

[@createdcreated1977]

Sister, that is a demon that needs to be rebuked in the Name of Jesus! You need to pray and read Psalm 91 every morning and night.

[@gurdietwentysix6499]

Well at least I kno.. I will never get 2date u.. Lil Buddy fucked it up for everyone on the internet.. 😢

[@collectivethoughts1379]

Well im glad after all that processing and reasoning that you got a firearm. Listen, the Indians and people of color would have gotten firearms too if they knew what was coming. Moral of the story life has good and bad , you will experience it all.. and everything in life is a tool including guns.

[@busymike]

I mean….That’s what happens when you 🛌 wench it up. You probably noticed he was loony very early on, but that desire for mixed kids and 👱🏻‍♂️validation was too strong, so you ignored it and let it get that far. Happens all the time. There are many stories of 👩🏿‍🦰 losing their lives to a 👱🏻‍♂️ they thought they had a chance with. The problem with people of your type is you think you’re the “quirky” 👩🏿‍🦰 and that makes you special and grants you access to 👱🏻‍♂️. The only thing it’s going to get you is the nutty people. Normal, mentally healthy 👱🏻‍♂️ aren’t interested in dating 👩🏿‍🦰 . Hate to break it to ya. This was your wakeup call. You learned about the dangers of 👱🏻‍♂️worshipping, and how you have no allies if you find yourself in a bad situation with one.🤷‍♀️

[@DasiaDoesIt]

The most prolific serial killer in America was a black man who almost exclusively went after black women. I wish you healing. I am sorry for whatever weight you are carrying right now. You didn't deserve it. Hope you have a happy Sunday.

[@busymike]

@@DasiaDoesIt When did this become about “serial killers”? You are using red herrings to distract from what I just said. Was it a black male who stalked and terrorized you or a 👱🏻‍♂️? Hmm It’s interesting how quick you throw black men under the bus to defend 👱🏻‍♂️ and save face. Just goes to show that what I said was accurate. I’m sure your black brother (RIP) and black father appreciate your comments.

[@steadydropnem]

what in the heck are you even talking about? just running your mouth trying justify some dude because the color of his skin is the same as yours and he was an obsessive weirdo. Sounds like your bitter at this Lady because you probably do the same weirdo behavior to women SMH shame on you bro

[@lilmama375]

Wait. So you think that 'normal, mentally healthy 👨🏼' even exist??? 😂🤯

[@lilmama375]

@busymike...Although I enjoy this utuber/influencer/content creator, her channel, and her style. Hell I even wish her well. I also can't help but to agree with both of your comments 1000%.

[@orion3511]

You are an incredibly strong person 🙏