Type 2 | The Enneagram

[@carolinarosario168]

Wow As a type two, finding out that two’s are part of the shame triad and the lines “we feel that something is intrinsically wrong with us and that we can’t be accepted for who we are” made me just straight up burst into tears

[@elizabethfaysalter3044]

Carolina ROSARIO glad I’m not the only one 😞 I just found out I’m type 2 and I’ve been doing a lot of research and learning this much about myself and understanding why I act the way I do is actually scary.

[@peaches3450]

I’m a 2 and this spoke to me SO MUCH. I’m having a rough week and it started when a friend didn’t appreciate the help i was offering her through a really tough time, but praised another friend for a smaller gesture. It felt like an attack but probably had nothing to do with me. This helped put into perspective that I’ve been kind of stressed and drained otherwise and probably giving way too much of myself to other people. Sigh. So much to learn. Thanks for this video!

[@friendlylavenders]

You are loved!! I’m a 2 & def feel the same when I feel my emotions & actions have been looked over. Bless!

[@faithlawes4240]

After watching this i realised why my mum has been so stressed out lately. It's bc I haven't been appreciating all that she does for me each day! I'm a 4, and am pretty self-focused alot of the time meaning I don't notice when she goes out of her way to complete small tasks to support me. After watching this, i instantly went and bought her tea and a biscuit and said thanks for making the dinner earlier. I could tell that simple act made her feel so appreciated. Twos are so giving, loving and easy to please. If you offer them even a small thanks for the work they do, they are so happy. Two's you're so awesome! 😍❤️

[@Fairly_pixie]

"I hope you're not mad!" Big two energy 😂 (I'm also a two so I feel this!)

[@venturatshilombo1752]

Why did this make me cry?

[@MichelleDiepbrink]

This hit home so much. Especially the confession about not being the kindest in the friend group or family. This is a feeling I struggle with so much.. But now it makes a little more sense. Thank you so much for the video!

[@hjsimmer1742]

Thanks for shedding light on what it means to be a Two and doing it from such a Godly perspective. 💜 I’m on a journey discovering what that looks like in my own life!

[@Surfaccountandfanaccount23332]

Man, I know it's been almost a year but this video is a gem. I'm a 2, and it's been so eye opening for me once I foudn the ennegram stuff. I've always struggled with being able to express how I'm feeling or what's wrong due to the fact I was raised to put my emotions in a bottle and shoving it away to focus on my family, and I am learning so much and this video has been a huge help and have been able to put what I'm feeling and what I need into words. There were many insightful and eye opening things here. Thank you.

[@nataliegilbert4850]

I am a two! I resonate with a lot of this... especially the gift giving thing you mentioned. Oof. The only time I'm good at giving gifts is when people mention something they like and that they normally wouldn't get it for themselves. Lol!

[@angiekim8668]

Haha... if I were a vegetable, this video felt like a vegetable peeler... thank you for the encouragements at the end! :)

[@sophiejchung]

Angie Kim thanks for watching hehe 💜

[@brynnsauerbrey5135]

You are so brave for being so vulnerable. As a fellow two, I understand how difficult that can be, so thank you for making all of us twos feel a little less alone ♡

[@americaaubrey4264]

Thank you for sharing :) as a fellow 2 this helped me so much!! I related so much to the things you shared, and thanks for being open/vulnerable with us all, I genuinely appreciate it.

[@Genesis-dr8jd]

This really does help me understand why i need to feel so freaking wanted and why i get so hurt if someone doesn't need me. I just wanna feel useful to someone and it also helps explain why i stayed in a toxic relationship, all because of that sense of being wanted and worthy of attention. I'm also an INFP, such a bad combo lmao

[@flylikeallama]

Thank you so much for your honesty! I'm a 2 and I resonate with everything you shared, especially when you shared the part of the childhood narrative of it not being okay to have your own needs. I realize that's also a part of my past that forever shapes why I'm a 2. Things that were not inherently wrong to want, but I internalized a lot of guilt for wanting them. But praise God for freedom in Christ. Every day is a new day to believe He really loves me as He says. Some days are easier than others, but I'm glad even faith in His love doesn't depend on me. Anyways, stay safe and God bless!

[@danasaeed6217]

Thank u so much

[@chefgini]

I am a 2 and when you described yourself you were describing me almost perfectly. For many years I have questioned my motivation for how involved I am in ministering to my church family. I volunteer to coordinate and cook the Wednesday night meals at church, but I enjoy cooking. Still, I look forward to hearing people tell me the food was good. And when no one helps me clean up, I get upset that everyone just ate then left me with the mess. I am a very unhealthy 2 at those times. 😏

[@friendlylavenders]

You articulated this very well, Jennifer. Thank you for sharing your heart with us 😄. This spoke to me so much. ❤️

[@TD-yd9oc]

I related to everything you said from not be recognized as the kindest person in my family or friend group, to disintegrating into a low 8 when I broke up with my ex after feeling so unappreciated and undervalued in a very toxic relationship. I'm learning that saying "no" can be self-preserving and to establish my emotional boundaries from the get-go.

[@Mrs_Awili]

Wow thanks so much for this honest video and connecting our type with what God says about us! I’ve recently tested as a 2w3 and was critical if that was accurate, but a lot of this resonated. And I can see pride and unhealthy motives all over my actions and thought life. God bless!

[@brandonmshrock]

This was a really great video and thank you for being open and vulnerable. I'm still figuring out if I'm a 2, a 1, or a 3

[@iyabbanana]

I'm such a 2 and haven't been okay since the start of 2020. This makes me feel so in awe.

[@cchoi831]

Haha I related to this video so strongly...thank you for sharing ❤️ Takes a lot of courage to be open and vulnerable to a public audience

[@sophiejchung]

thanks so much for watching Christine ❤️

[@djhallmighty]

As Type 2's and ExFJs for sure, we might be aware of our own thoughts, but not necessarily our own feelings. So a lot of times, something *feels* wrong, and then I try to logically figure out why. But I didn't see how the Shame triad worked into that... thank you; I'm glad I'm not the only one who wonders why I always feel something is wrong with me. And the examples of a 2's selflessness is best seen through Love Languages. I'm a Quality Time person, but 2's can easily be Acts of Service or Gifts. I enjoy conversation to the extreme; hours of talking and listening. So you combine that with a 2 reality, and you can see how I have this need to have a voice and be understood... but that was through integrating into a 4 to recognize these needs. Another thing to mention is what's known as "Nice Guy vs. Gentleman": Healthy 2's are gentlemen; unhealthy 2's are nice guys. Gentlemen know how to manage their needs; nice guys believe the lie that *they don't have needs*. And finally, the reason we have pride is because we expect everybody to be as selfless as us, so our unconscious standards upon what others offer us is really high, but we don't notice (due to being unaware of our own needs) until a bad moment in a relationship when the oblivion to my pain rises up and turns into anger and control.

[@teresaolofson1377]

Sophie i am so happy with what i feel from you thank you for giving the real feelings...i am a type 4 and my therapist is 20 yrs younger than me and a type 2 i keep trying to get her to let me be the one to give to her in our session because she over gives so much and i know when i switch places and extend myself it frees me from the trap of self absorption

[@Jessicaunarex]

Excellent observations about Type 2. It never occurred to me that a 2 might feel slighted if they are not the kindest among the bunch. (Type 4w5 here)

[@innanninna]

I can relate to everything that you said. I am a Type 2w3

[@jadesowden8441]

I can relate to this so much since I'm also a 2! For sure each 2 is different but the struggle of not saying no and the struggle of figuring out our own needs and wants can be so challenging! But we're not alone and that God will be there with us and that God loves us so much that we don't need the opinions of others to feel worthy because we are already are in God's eyes. Thanks for the video! It has definitely encouraged me to keep striving to be a healthy 2 with the strength of God!

[@tutuprincess25]

Oh man! I just took a test and I’m not a type 2 according to it, but I can relate to so much of this! My best friend is going through treatment for brain cancer right now and it is killing me that I’m not there to help her in a tangible way. 😥 I just feel like she won’t think I’m a good friend because I haven’t been there for her. I know that isn’t true and I feel silly and selfish even thinking about that when she’s going through so much.

[@MichaellaSapphire]

This is the first time that I've ever heard anyone attributing these personality types things to God. I think about this a lot. Sometimes I feel guilty learning about my enneagram / personality type because I feel like I'm letting something 'man-made' define me. But then I thought, this is not astrology, this is not based on birth dates or whatever - it's based on my own truthful answers & maybe God really does create people with different personality types in mind because, like you said, He wants to highlight certain parts of His characteristics through us. I love that thought.

[@dwigdidiksita5966]

I'm a type 2 as well & I super relate to this. Thanks for sharing!

[@Sbannmarie298]

I’m wondering if that’s akin to Tauruses in astrology?

[@charliebeans3202]

Amazing video... so much truth, vulnerability and honesty. Thank you so much for making this. It’s so good to hear the truth about God’s love amidst the shame and stress... really means a lot!

[@mafaldix]

I'm a 2! I totally connected with you!! Especially that part about the chicken soup! As soon as someone sneezes I get out all of my medical things and get ready to take care of them ahaha Thank you so much for making this video! Hope you are having a good day :)

[@olufunsoadeniran2514]

Love this!! I know nothing about enneagrams and this was helpful!

[@ashleycarroll504]

Hey that was a great and helpful video to this 2. Thanks!

[@maurreese]

This is so true!! Thank you for sharing ❤️

[@silentgrove7670]

I have been told by others close to me that there is something intrinsically wrong with me. It really hasn't helped in this journey of self discovery. I have experienced gaslighting, also not helpful.

[@ksobiesiak2547]

I am a two. However, a lot of my coworkers think I should be a seven. Sometimes I think that I could be a seven but at the end of the day I do feel the need to be wanted along with the need to be enough for the people I perceive in need of help. So, thank you for checking our motives for why we do things. I really appreciated the perspective thank you.

[@shebreathesingold8043]

You might be a 2w7 like I am, then!

[@ksobiesiak2547]

SheBreathesInGold I didn’t even know that was a thing. Thank you.

[@audreykuczka4081]

@@shebreathesingold8043 wings are only the numbers next to your enneagram. 2's can only be 2w1 or 2w3. But we can definitely be a lot like another wing. I am a true 2 but my 2nd closest is a 4. It takes a long time to really discover what you are.

[@luisga521521]

Yo Sophie thank you 🙏🏾 good too know that we aren’t alone !!!

[@the4mixx]

I love that you related this to god! Amazing!! Thank you

[@paradise224]

I’m a 2...we are genuinely good natured and hearted giving people...when we end up in relationships with people that see this inestimable quality it is 🔥...btw, you’re like someone I can just hang with all day👍🏽

[@katemcnulty7924]

So good!!

[@stphndlnprnt]

Why did I found it just now? Thank you for sharing this 🥺❤️

[@dorotheapeach9606]

The hardest thing is when you can't help someone. :0

[@silentgrove7670]

Or watching someone go down a path into getting hurt and having to watch it happen because you know you cannot make other people see what they cannot. Self included.

[@sallyide9421]

That was so helpful for me. Thank you.

[@heritage.home.crochet]

Wow, that's why it kills me when other people do altruistic things for people I want to do things for.

[@emmasimonsen9651]

as a 2... this hit right in the hard, and i needed this more than thought❤

[@margaretjudice8944]

Great video! Good information! I am a 2.

[@malleriokief7406]

Totally feel this girl 🙌

[@anachurning4647]

Thank you

[@redjaw69]

Awesome message !

[@sarawilloughby3304]

Wow, as a 2 I so relate to this.

[@kiersten20013]

I absolutely love mbti and I found the Enneagram test and got a type 2 with a 98% match. (I also got a 95% match with group 6) Just trying to figure out what it means and how to get into this 😂😭

[@tpiatt5084]

Im an 8 but I think you're great and I love your honesty!

[@asformeandmyhouse4463]

You said God... I SUBSCRIBED!

[@nubuke]

Love this ❤️

[@MrsToyiaboo]

Great video! Fellow 2 here😎thank you for sharing😍

[@emilydecotiis9675]

Thank you so much

[@PGOuma]

I always volunteered to be the child or the dog/any pet during House lol

[@opal_skies97]

I feel so called out but also so seen lol thank you

[@Love.You.Too.2]

I'm a TWO as well.

[@N-LeeSonSay]

Not mad so on the money. I am a two and have been both healthy and unhealthy. Kinda trying to strike the happy balance of both helping others and myself.

[@Sbannmarie298]

Or Virgos?

[@yissy]

Very insightful, I am pretty sure I am a 2

[@macderosa7589]

Healthy 2s are great! Are you 2w1, Sophie?

[@sophiejchung]

Hi, the person speaking in this video is Jennifer, my friend! And yes, she is a 2w1 :)

[@Haoxman101]

Yo this reminds me when I just met my best friend and she couldn’t afford her electric bill. She wasn’t to happy and with out her knowing, I cashapp her 40$ so she can. She just needed a couple extra dollars. It makes me warm 😊❤️

[@sarah-kz7fo]

i cried watching this ngl

[@honeymoney23]

😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭 Bruh. I relate so much

[@dfederico21]

Fellow 2 here!

[@andrewmacdonald4457]

Love this!

[@macchloroni5336]

#confessionsofa2 made me lol! cool vid :)

[@sophiejchung]

thanks for watching!

[@SuperPradia]

💯💯💯

[@RegineBrady]

Love you! You’re a cutie patootie and I can relate on many levels. Number one, god! Also, pride and shame of needs. And being accepted for not helping others. And also, as a kid. Not being a kid because you have to rescue your family because they’re in trouble and you’re a superhero Wonder Woman. Well, that’s me anyway!

[@tiff3831]

Yep sounds like me

[@alphadevoir6310]

Sophie what do you think about 5's, ? Please don't sugar coat it.

[@mazenbarawy8115]

Cute Video from type 2 body 😍

[@Thefitty]

*interesting. I'm a type 2!*

[@qorieasfina7833]

Success for the content sis

[@thesingingfangirl6155]

[@goruv]

Great video, what's God? Other than that liked it.

[@whytho4554]

I feel like I was just exposed

[@hickorydocks4845]

I'm a type 2 and a Cancer....qawink a dink

[@travisk.corley1114]

me too

[@sophielegesse7515]

Can you be my friend?

[@Amberfashion67]

Well this video called me out...

[@Flo-vf2mh]

pls dont put too much god in this

[@wiebl5266]

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