Unc, Ocho & J.R. GO OFF on expectations for a first date & red flags vs green flags | Nightcap

[@jdill3350]

JR on night cap is perfect

[@paige4128]

My first date with my current husband, we met at a restaurant. When the bill came, he proceeds to pull out his wallet. I told him, “I got it.” He said, “Really?” I said, “Yes. You forgot you told me it was your birthday and I said I was treating you.” Mind you, this was our first time seeing each other in person. We had only chatted on the phone and perused each others Facebook pages.😂😂. He almost teared up when I paid and fact that I remembered. It’s ok to pay and/or treat your man.

[@Kikibrat2]

🥰

[@nancyelmon4544]

When you pay for a guy the first he's going to expect you to pay every time you go out with him don't do it.

[@jspar26]

⁠@@nancyelmon4544this has never happened

[@tonjamarshall4842]

Exactly, I've no problem letting man know that I just enjoy his person.

[@tonjamarshall4842]

​@@nancyelmon4544No, not a real man.

[@BushBush-qi6le]

My boy J.R be higher than gas prices 😂

[@ikelove9979]

Full of that wine

[@T_Slice]

Or Fourth quarter inflation 😂

[@tytymomo6410]

Lmfaoooo that boy be on erything 😂😂😂😂😂

[@tishaturner8079]

😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@SNEAKexe]

Unc has so many lines and wisdom, “You trynna be a partner, or sponsored?” 😂😂

[@mr.joshua6818]

Every once in a while an alley cat will find a whole chicken in a trash can.

[@jwtraining1]

Damn 😂

[@bwalk9338]

If she can’t eat at Texas Roadhouse I have to find someone who will. Lol

[@MT-hk9cp]

Me! Those rolls are 🔥

[@orlandorobinson9369]

Starbucks is more appropriate for a first date. Purpose is to get to know each other.

[@walkerjones2353]

😂😂😂

[@bosslady83]

I’ll go and my company gives us gift cards too lol.

[@memepapi]

31:50 Unc a lot of non married dudes have car seats 😂

[@htdubski23]

Love jr with you guys really good addition for the hoops episodes

[@Lainey_Shelley]

Shiiid $350 on one dinner. Bruh give me $300 for groceries and I’ll you cook dinner for the week and have you a lunch packed.🤣🤣

[@remywhite4377]

You said I need to bring that $300 where now?👀😂

[@jacobveu4859]

If you had no idea who these guys were and this was the first video you’ve seen, you’d never know this was a sports show. Just a great convo from all of them

[@beautyfolse4249]

👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 We are loving J.R.!!! Keep him on the show!!

[@intellectualsista]

Solid, mature, transparent conversation. Better than any Barbershop discussion 👌🏾 Club Shay Shay 4 the Win!

[@preciousnoldon8041]

Unc, Chad, and J.R. are funny. I'm in tears 😢 😭 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭.

[@raquel-LV]

Yes. I love their chemistry!

[@dannythorne7143]

This is why more guys are staying single instead of dealing with the bullshit.

[@ShabazzStone]

💯

[@tatertot4810]

The is quality talk right here. Put JR on the roster!

[@aliciapayton8984]

I like him over Gilbert

[@61vulb]

I’m with Chad ain’t no way in hell I’m paying $300 or $400 on a 1st date. We can go to the park and feed the ducks. Some of these women are out of their minds.

[@flashsanders1331]

Some people enjoy fine dining and some don't. I've never experienced the rude behavior you're describing. My Daddy said, the pleasure of my company was an honor.

[@JayG-u5d]

@@flashsanders1331 Not a question of enjoying fine dining. But the purpose of a first date is to get to know each other. Additionally, isn't the pleasure of HIS company an honor as well?

[@sturner973]

​@@flashsanders1331 No disrespect to your pops but that sounds very simpish so only your company is an honor and not the mans? What makes your time any more valuable than his? Your not prince Akeem, ain't nobody throwing flowers at your feet when you walk 😂

[@1hunnidAP]

"You use me for the ride i use you for the hide" 😹😹😹😹😹😹😹😹😹😹

[@jwtraining1]

Dam thats was funny 😂😂

[@1hunnidAP]

@ that man is crazy 😹

[@Caliboi310]

My first date with my Gf of going on 3 years she drove to me about 45 min to a restaurant i chose. That restaurant was down the street from my apartment and i walked there. I wanted to see if she’d be down to go to me, and she didn’t mind at all. She walks in and we both just started talking. I was curious how she was gonna order and believe it or not, all she got was a margarita and 2 tacos out of the entire menu. She also didn’t even want anymore drinks after the fact. We were there two hours and she went back home with a total tab of $37. Second date again, we met up at a promenade to enjoy some burgers and fries. She got a cheeseburger, one beer and we shared a basket of large cheese fries. I went to the bathroom and i came back to her serving my plate with some fries (i was shocked). My tab was $55. Third date i picked her up and took her to a nice Italian restaurant and spent $150. Asked her to be my girl our 4th date and we’ve been together ever since. I’ve met some pretty wild chicks with crazy mindsets. She was the first i met in a long time who had good intentions.

[@paige4128]

You should marry her. Y’all sound like a good match. 🫶🏽

[@Caliboi310]

@@paige4128 I’m not against it 🙏🏼

[@higherway1036]

Ken and Barbie

[@Caliboi310]

@@paige4128 thank you Paige 🙏🏼

[@Caliboi310]

@@higherway1036 nah. Ken tried to impress Barbie with his clothes and lavish life. I wasn’t trying to impress anyone ma dude.

[@Demontay2]

“Bring something to the picnic beside your appetite” 7:42 omg 🔥🔥😭😭🔥🔥

[@cantstop-wontstop2138]

*PUBLIC SERVICE ANNOUNCEMENT* One of the BEST EPISODES SO FAR!That part about Shannon and his brother calling him and the face-time thing... Thas REAL

[@theshowbiz5]

"Somebody letting doves 🕊️ go on Sundays" I’m stealing that unc 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@mr.joshua6818]

😂

[@KiingRed24]

Thief

[@Righteousgenius]

I ran that back 5 times lol

[@jwtraining1]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@-BTown-]

Man that was funny af 🤣🤣

[@BOO4EVA]

Jr Smith crackin up at Unc 😂😂 he chill as hell

[@Armoroffelix]

Coffee first date, we’ll go from there!

[@MT-hk9cp]

I'm a woman and have no problem with this. We are both feeling each other out so why a long drawn out date?

[@skybrodus1702]

Barbershop shop talk‼️

[@King77Lee]

I used to feel like I always had to be in a relationship for most of my life. Nowadays I enjoy my peace and don’t care about being alone. Sometimes I enjoy being alone more than having to try and make someone else happy

[@MrJuwan2233]

My ex got engaged 3 months after we broke up. That was when I was 28. I’m 30 now and that pain hasn’t left since. Forever changed me

[@Tylerburch8979]

Make JR a permanent co-host

[@VickiePrice-n2f]

Yes in deed they trying to talk to chad he so hurt jr telling him try to talk it out see is going work she sad on her podcast they had a problem chad didn’t want sign prenup she sad she work hard for her stuff and hr did to she just want protect her stuff that’s the problem they having she want go Paris honeymoon chad not with it pluse expensive wedding in the bahuma Iiam j just saying she been married 2times 4kids he got all thes baby mama he being married lost his football caree f messing with her had go over seas got to the beach call it a day she want something for her girlfriend girl it’s beatful they got pay the bills he so heart he in pain

[@remywhite4377]

​@@VickiePrice-n2fLost his career? The dude played a decade plus and he got with that doofy broad after his career was done.😂

[@Tylerburch8979]

@@remywhite4377 I don’t know how you understood anything in that comment lmao

[@chancemack]

Man what an incredible conversation.

[@tonymccrady6525]

Keep JR on the show during Basketball season. He is the third piece 😂

[@TheStrategos392]

If you got to impress her, she doesn’t like you.

[@Kware23]

This was a good one especially when they got serious at the end

[@standupguy8109]

200 who? American dollars? 😂😂😂

[@michelledodson5605]

It's crucial to take the time to heal after a breakup before moving into another relationship.

[@josephbranch2736]

Thats why alot of people end up toxic cuz they never take time to heal

[@latrellbando6917]

This was the best episode yet

[@DeshanHoward]

J.R. is the perfect addition to the show.

[@DonPaypay]

Agreed, he adds a perfect balance to it.

[@almac2323]

A alley cat will find a whole chicken in the trash!😂😂😂 LMAO!

[@mauriceknighton8590]

Unc said lobster. We know what comes with lobster, Unc lmao.

[@jarondavis9795]

This is one of the best Nightcap segments yet

[@HumesDeliveryService]

I love this discussion....I can't stop laughing

[@earlthompson4414]

These first date expectations are out of control.

[@coreyscott4715]

Need more topics like this episode. Shit got deep towards the end.

[@cosmicquazar88]

I hope this segment was cathartic for ocho man you can tell he been hurt bad.

[@NezzBlessed]

Yea idk how to explain it. But I can really relate to him and his expressions.

[@jwtraining1]

ocho-You going to kill him unc 😂😂unc- ocho people will kill you ,that’s crime of passion 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@MagicHandMan00]

Great conversation with Jr !

[@paige4128]

Unc said they're releasing doves on Sunday!🤣🤣🤣🤣 I'm go use that one! "Got a whole 4-door Benz with a car seat in the back." I love how honest and vulnerable these 3 black men are being. Kudos to them!

[@williejones3081]

My First Dates was generally about conversation and getting to know one another a little. A clean quite public space like a coffe shop or nice quite Resteraunt. If she was about quantity and not quality it wasn't going to work.

[@wezzman1]

The way this episode got emotional at the end was absolutely great for us men.....real men talking.

[@travtrav5206]

The irony of ocho signal “breaking up” when he said he was single😂😂😂😂

[@nevawnkamara1872]

Chad finna cry Everytime they bring this up🤣🤣

[@rayfordjones7528]

Who idea was too add jr smith need get raised he fits perfect

[@dannysanders3358]

They Was Preaching On This One. 💯

[@sheilabibbs3407]

YALL WE HAVE ALL BEEN THROUGH THIS SEASON...BUT REAL TALK, OCHO DOES SEEM SAD!

[@dtrain4350]

Use me for the ride. I use you for the Hive. Real talk! 😂😂😂

[@cantstop-wontstop2138]

@dtrain4350 ...use you for the HIDE." HIDE as in skins

[@SGNLCLIQUE]

Ocho acting like he taking notes from unc, boii we know you messaging relle back "Baby I misssssss yo fine ahhh" 😂😂😂😂

[@King77Lee]

Based on his energy I doubt that

[@SGNLCLIQUE]

​@@King77Lee I'm just playinnn fam, we love Ocho 😂🫡

[@PapiLidovho]

Best episode hands down...real talk

[@Headsnatch314]

3:13 “Ain’t no where to go, you gotta go to the room” you hear the funniest sht on this podcast I swear😭😭😭

[@jbhillz87]

I think he said moon

[@Headsnatch314]

@@jbhillz87 nah your right, I thought he said room cause that’s what you deserve after spending your retirement fund on a first date😂😂

[@jbhillz87]

@@Headsnatch314 🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂 turn the hotel room to a space ship

[@Demontay2]

This wastge realest conversation on NIGHTCAP

[@_thejblife_]

I must be different cuz the money doesn’t impress me. Can you hold a proper conversation? How do you treat people? What would your family/friends say about you? That’s what I care about. Anybody can spend money. Cheesecake Factory still works! lol

[@chuckdeez2491]

THIS 🎯

[@keithmorgan4883]

You still care about status in some form. Most women do.

[@KTJ_1]

These are best Night Caps.

[@olivia5068]

I agree with you Ocho! Now, some guys push their agenda on ladies too - example (real) I was approached and asked if they could take me out. I replied and said, let’s grab a drink at a bar just to get to know each other (1 drink, and I bought money). He insisted on me getting dinner and I told him it’s not necessary! He asked where can we go, I said let’s go to Negril BK and I only got an appetizer and One drink! He then proceeded to ask me to pay my part when the receipt came - that’s when I went off - he paid and I paid the tip -- that’s was my fist and last date with this man, and I blocked him. Am I wrong?

[@MT-hk9cp]

No you're not wrong and I'm a woman

[@tyreewilson2140]

Im a man and no you weren't wrong. He was on some BS

[@JayTee713]

Is it just me or does Ocho have that Homer Simpson shade beard?

[@natashamatlock2502]

Listen to Unc, he grandpa out there looking for dem young ones w no brain 😂 Unc date to F!! He has never been looking for anyone stable 😂😂😂

[@marwanmaxwell9024]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 Uncle Need A Dating Show For Real!! Uncle becoming A Kevin Samuel 2.0

[@JuanitaMichelle]

She over did it with the ordering but she REQUESTED a steakhouse. I’ve never heard of someone directly requesting that. So I think he should have known what type of time she was on.

[@BushBush-qi6le]

Hurt people Hurt people. It’s a vicious cycle

[@differentperspective5876]

Plain and simple! You want someone that is single, emotionally, spiritually and financially! ☝🏽☝🏾☝🏻☝🏼☝️☝🏿 Don't assume without asking! That's why you find a woman that's liberated...👏🏽👏🏻👏🏼👏👏🏾👏🏿

[@CharlieXFBA]

This was some real talk right here. 26:10 ... Ocho spittin! 🔥

[@pwpstrick]

I think Ocho telling us he caught ole girl up. “The way you got her is the same way you lose them”.

[@JerryCurry-jr5jl]

Straight to the liquor store j r😂😂💯

[@PhillipGreen-ob2my]

First date is Golden corral 😂😂

[@thayungprince2]

Pig out baby…..it’s on me 😂😂

[@Kikibrat2]

OMG i havent been there in years. Tht sounds like a great first date if you can talk to each other and enjoy the company.

[@thayungprince2]

@@Kikibrat2 cmon leh go then

[@oleboy730]

That Ocho miss his Relle & I respect bro for being vulnerable

[@gamewizard-y9n]

Shay is crazy...I'm just gone keep on jumping til I get back in the water.

[@finallyjames]

This talk got mad real, _real_ quick

[@jwtraining1]

Funny as hell 😂😂😂😂 great podcast

[@SmartDave60]

16:47 these are facts by JR. Those cocktails be getting em too hype. lol

[@cosmicquazar88]

All three these mfs got haze in they eyes 😂😂😂

[@victordeltoids8609]

They're flying "High Airways"😂

[@yarielibo]

This was a good episode

[@LesleyBrass]

Good conversation

[@TChalla007]

Glad Ocho is free.

[@carelvoltaire1654]

He seems sad though 😢

[@JW-yk1of]

​@@carelvoltaire1654😂 that doesn't mean he needs to crawl back to her, it means he needs to work on himself. I hope you're not implying he should beg her to take him back.

[@dorisevans3567]

Good Topic Thanks Unc Good...

[@AshauntiFlowers]

I love the night show with Swish 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

[@Wiseguy00]

lol it’s crazy cause they used to call us broke…..but millionaires saying the same things. Wonder what the new shame word gone be

[@haroldharris145]

Man please. Fogo de Chao, TGI Fridays, maybe Red Lobster

[@beautyfolse4249]

This is the BEST episode EVER!!! 😂🤣🤣‼️🥂🥂🥂 Don’t go in the next man’s house.

[@74scat]

29:55 ocho is hilarious bruh

[@deenlife6151]

Please take notes ocho lol

[@PhilomenaMerritt-e5e]

Every time I see a new video, I'm excited!

[@TheSkyhamilton]

There’s still ladies out there who are considerate on a date as far as dinner cost. I have a date this weekend (first date) and he asked me where I’d like to go. I wanted to try a new restaurant but it was pricey and I will just try that place on my own. I chose a nice restaurant with moderate pricing. I don’t want a man spending too much 21:19 on a first date when it’s all about the two of us trying to get through a meal and learn about each other in tandem. I respect a man’s wallet.

[@Demontay2]

This conversation is elite. Sheesh 🤧

[@natashamatlock2502]

When I was dating I would turn them down and say nawwww we need to meet at Coffee Bean for coffee tea and convo! They would be shocked but I’m like shid I need to sit speak and peep who you truly are to know if I wanna be on a dinner date with you. If ya can’t have conversation, make me laugh, and keep my mind intrigued then it’s a nope

[@paige4128]

"Post-nut clarity." Y'all dropping jewels! LOL LOL

[@jrcleaning]

I'm like this if I meet somebody and we want to go out we both going to pay our own until we find a commitment for one another and that's that

[@blackking4043]

She dipped on JR mid game 😭😭 man I wonder who she was and who was the dude who got her floor seats 😂🤦🏾‍♂️

[@cdlyricalgenius]

they always go waaaaaay past the conversation they were origin having 😂

[@erinmiller6305]

Right, but for some reason I think that’s what makes it so good.

[@theblackbolt5514]

They missed a big part of that story she ordered extra food because she told him after the date she was taking food to a friend she hadn't seen in a long time she was playing that dude for a free meal and was probably taking the rest home for dude

[@girardhunter6696]

He is definitely buzzed😊

[@david36498]

Hilarious segment 😂

[@gamewizard-y9n]

Now I'm planning my escape.

[@TheDj0222]

“Oh hell nah” 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 lol

[@Caliboi310]

“The same way you got them is the same way you gonna lose them”. Sounds like Ocho should’ve listened to his grandad cause he definitely lost Relle the same way he got her. Cmon man terrible take Ocho.

[@kellykcombination]

they broke up?

[@Caliboi310]

@@kellykcombination yea, a few weeks ago.

[@BossFinale]

ill use you for the hide is hilarious.