Unc & Ocho react to T.I. having heated exchange with his son King Harris at Falcons game | Nightcap

[@only1adrienne]

King is like NuNu from Atl, grew up in a mansion but obsessed with the hood. The irony of him screaming about how hood he is while inside a NFL luxury is hilarious!

[@tkay4733]

Exactly he was never raised in the hood but wanna be hood so bad lol

[@unknownunknown9296]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@theejaydoubleyew]

You and Adrienne aren't informed and it shows. King was "raised in the hood." Google is a thing that people should use before speaking ignorantly. @@tkay4733

[@Kese2345]

Couldna said it betta den dis. And 1 if not both his parents performed during halftime at da game

[@miguelortiz5286]

Woooow 🤯

[@darrellmcnair9858]

One thing it’s small but important Ti said: you’re embarrassing your self and the family . He didn’t say your an embarrassment to the family.

[@lyvinlyphe9644]

Small but significant. I picked that up too

[@KP-sh9he]

What the difference can someone explain for me

[@trace891]

King invited Ti to the bando. While he had VIP seats to the falcons. What delusional world is he living in? King made the VIP section ghetto. Embarrassing 😢😮

[@amandabrown5555]

The difference between embarrassing and embarrassment is opportunity for correction. “You’re embarrassing yourself” is temporary behavior, vs “you’re an embarrassment” is a more personal label.

[@GirlLetsEat215]

@@KP-sh9he From what I can gather, saying you are embarrassing yourself AND the family means we stand together as a unit and right now, you are embarrassing all of us (this is not how WE act). The other statement implies we reject your behavior and how it is reflected upon the family and you're standing alone... i.e. your behavior is making US (us over here that doesn't include you because we don't care how you look, just don't make US) look bad.

[@IfYouKnowYouKnow.]

King is a silver spoon goon 😂.

[@dr33kkclement54]

😂💀

[@xcreenplay7264]

thats a good one im stealing that lol

[@michellee7469]

Perfect name bc they definitely exist

[@monetarymindset_]

FACTS ‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️

[@keshiabunch8013]

😅😅😅

[@TexasmadeEst89]

Dang Shannon I felt that. lost my dad to cancer at 16. I went to see him on his deathbed and I asked him what do i need to do now that I’m the man of the house? He looked at me and said son just keep on living. I said what do you mean? I didn’t understand. When I turned 23 I got shot In my stomach and almost died. After 4 months in the hospital it hit me. Just keep on living and learning from your mistakes. That’s all you can do. Be thankful for your life and learn to love everyone and everything in it. You won’t get too many chances

[@victoriaparker-mothershed9427]

Hang on in there. You gonna be alright

[@sabrinar.purnell3869]

You can do this 🙏🏾

[@kingj.m.d.6794]

My biggest fear for the young man is that he's going to do something so stupid to prove that he's something everyone knows he's not and it'll ultimately cost him his freedom or his life.

[@R.Stone281]

he will most likely have to go that route before he learns. Or wind up broke/struggling in the hood forreal, working a reg 9-5 to survive like the rest of us and having to pay his own way. No more allowance from mommy n daddy, living up in their mansion, larping around like youre a pink-dred-head scarface. He could never relate to us regular people who came up from nothing. He truly was born with a silver spoon. I started off homeless at 18. I was fresh out of school, running the streets actin a fool trying to become a rapper and my pops said NOT IN MY HOUSE. Thats when I grew up and stopped doing dumb stuff and got my life together. It took being homeless for 2 yrs and me to start having a relationship with God. He heard me when I was crying out for help and I started to realize I didnt want to live the life no more, I just wanted to be a stable family-man. That is more than enough to be happy in life. i dont need fame, fortune and a life of sin. Thats when my life began to change and I started to build myself up from nothing. There were still ups and downs as life is not easy. But here I am like 20 yrs later and I smh thinking about how dumb I was when I first left highschool. King actually reminds me of myself a little bit because he is brainwashed to think the hood life is cool or to be glorified like when I was young and fresh into the real world. Or youre not "real" if you dont partake in the foolishness. That is whats got all these kids acting like this. The rap music tells them they arent real if they dont follow that street code and ofcourse they idolize these rappers so they mimic everything they say and do.

[@HM-nu3hb]

I have the same feeling! Gonna end up dead or in prison paying dudes to keep him safe!

[@lisashelton4718]

I worked in the system. I am retired. I have seen celebrity kids break down in the system. I've seen kids come in and break down. His anger is deeper than what we saw. Hopefully they'll get him the help he needs before he gets locked up.

[@issacrodriguez91]

Ja Morant has entered the conversation

[@xxstract28]

Or he’s already done things and nobody will catch him or ever know. Why do regular ppl always think everyone gets caught or will get caught? Lmao

[@maafade]

TI is gonna have to treat King like 50 did Marquis and cut him off. King needs a reality check.

[@elijahdratte1118]

💯

[@myesharandle9066]

Didn't Charleston White say King was a disrespectful child & TI was up in arms. Now, that same disrespect he displayed to the employees in the Waffle House is the same disrespect he gave his parents on live. Just showing out! But he thinks he embarrassed them. He did in fact embarrass them, but most of all himself.

[@kaelinjefferies9267]

@@myesharandle9066you’re correct. Charleston said that and Tip was pissed off. People were saying don’t speak on other people’s kids;they’re singing a different tune now

[@sweetrose19]

Exactly

[@playmakanuski_]

Cut him off for bein hardheaded? He jus young hell grow out of that childish sht 50 son linked w a man that tried to kill him lol

[@DubReed00]

Even now at 45 y/o I could NEVER talk to my parents like that so the disrespect that we saw wasn’t nothing new, it’s just new to us.

[@coreejacobs4780]

Lol yes Im in my 30’s and wouldn’t dare, you could kind of see it on the show when he was a kid I’m not surprised at all

[@dreamcage1801]

@@coreejacobs4780I’m 32 and how old are you

[@_thats_mydj1_]

For real...my mom would slap me down at 39 and wouldn't give 2 fuks about the cops. I wouldn't even make it to the phone 📱

[@augustopanama8905]

100

[@AdeAde0224]

I agree but there are some underlining issues going on with them. He doesn't respect T.I as a father maybe because he wasn't around.

[@1VIBER]

Ocho is right, King's aggression indicate something else is going on. However, Shannon hit the nail on its head. They're your parents...SHOW Respect!

[@ralphangel561]

These kids won't show respect when they're not being taught the standard of respect by their parents.

[@deanthonyparnell1394]

​@@ralphangel561THAT PART☝️☝️☝️☝️☝️☝️

[@rambo2580]

@@ralphangel561and when their parents don’t respect them! TIP is known to disrespect his kids publicly!

[@PaperChaserLa]

So what about the other kids? How come king the only one acting out?😂😂😂😂

[@geronimopratt7976]

​@@PaperChaserLaexactly, the part that's overlooked

[@jeremyleverette6750]

This touched home hard. I argued daily with my mom. For years.. she had a car wreck 10/2010 an died month later. I told her I was sorry an felt horrible for how we were an she said it was an she loved me before he died but it didn't change how you feel like you can't take that back. Now I'm HUGE on disrespect towards moms. My kids know I do not play with them on their moms. We can argue everyday an fight an whatnot but you will respect that lady. No excuses. You only get 1

[@bowtrio22]

My man. Head to the sky kid.

[@tnthompson217]

🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

[@Y.O.-le5tk]

Big brother I know I'm late to reacting to what you said..but you are 💯 percent accurate. Being addicted and growing up in New Orleans...I got ❤4 you and my mom always wanted me to get help, and I always felt like I can handle it. I'm clean now and your story believe it or not made me realize...you only get 1 Mother and you have opened my eyes 👀

[@jeremyleverette6750]

@Y.O.-le5tk it's never too late brother. It's all love around here

[@Y.O.-le5tk]

@@jeremyleverette6750 Same here King..staying focus and priorities in place. God bless you and your family 💯

[@travelingwithvanessa]

"People listen to respond, not to understand." Brilliant quote. Brilliant! Bravo, Mr. Sharpe.

[@braybraylove1247]

I've heard that quote somewhere before ...it is a good quote tho

[@obailey973]

​@@braybraylove1247I've heard it several times as well. Shannon does have some hellavuh quotes though. Hell I be taking notes!!🤣🤣🤣

[@jourdanrondo3314]

No one can tell an impactful story like Shannon. Holy shit. The dude is literal tv gold with the actual positive parts of it. So many lessons when Sharpe speaks!

[@shaunnaturner4049]

I total agree always loved him

[@KevinPayton-fq8gd]

That why I love watching him. Besides the sports takes, he'll often talk about his upbringing when getting a certain point across. He constantly did that on Undisputed.

[@valeriebillings7248]

Yep

[@DawnRhodes-b2t]

Mr. Sharp you’re the bomb. Your words are so powerful. Thank you.

[@andreawashington5430]

I’m like Shannon’s pawpaw no excuses…mistakes can only teach you not to make excuses and ALWAYS TAKE accountability that’s one for sure way to not make excuses

[@juanm9726]

Damn. Tough story. I'm 29 now. My mom passed when I was 11 and she was my best friend. My dad died when I was 27, never met him, and I found out looking over my wife's shoulder and saw the message from my sister while on our honeymoon on a cruise ship. But I still stand on the morals and respect my mom taught me before she went home with the Lord. He needs a reality check. Enjoy your parents while their still here cuz LIFE IS TOO SHORT

[@Blessed965]

So true 🙏🏽

[@valeriebillings7248]

Agree!

[@AmericaRewind-db8ko]

I went to high schools with folks like King Harris. They had it all but needed to act street. It annoyed the folks, including me, who actually lived in that situation.

[@patrick106309]

💯💯💯

[@CharifRocka]

Chuuch!

[@thedrizzle619]

exactly, my cousin came from a 2 parent household with a nice house and he wanted to act hood and ended up in jail twice

[@reallove5349]

Yeah he got a personality complex

[@erind2261]

​@@thedrizzle619I knew someone like this... One parent was in law enforcement

[@jelissafrank5858]

Ocho said he’s a father of 85 I’m hollering 🤣🤣🤣. I love this podcast never watched football outside of the superbowl but I truly love the wisdom and humor you both bring.

[@kimleacw1]

Great combination love these 2.❤❤

[@kimberlycarter691]

Most definitely ❗️💯💕💕

[@Positive7277]

I can’t handle these two!! The stories are to be listened to. The way Ocho looks at Shannon when he’s telling a story. Love! He’s taking it all in. Just love these guys..❤️

[@amirahgood8033]

My grandma raised me for the first 12 years of my life and she played 0 games. I couldn't even look like I didn't want to do something she asked me to do. I tell my children all the time, they would have never survived the Grace Phifer era. Lol I thank God for her bc without her, I wouldn't be the person I am. ❤

[@Qaulim]

Oma didn't even play the radio

[@Enig_Mata]

Your grandmother probably raised you out of necessity. Imagine if your parents were famous, yet you were being raised by someone else. TI & Tiny caused this. I'm sure their reckless behavior that was out in the open did not help.

[@jermainnehuff7384]

Man my grandparents was the same way .. and I knew they loved me .. I thank God everyday for the lessons they taught me

[@dalllazlh]

Both my grannies

[@aking2330]

​@Enig_Mata they were both working and in the video you hear them say he never wanted to stay at their house he would cry to go to grandma, who most likely was spoiling the hell out of him. The boy just young and entitled and looking outside like it's fun when it's nothing out there worth losing your family over

[@MORGANFREEMANVOICE777]

Soon as his mama said he was sucking that pacifier he started crying. That boy need a whooping w a switch. 😂😂😂😂😂

[@MentalStillness]

It's too late for that. You can't suddenly discipline a teenager especially with an emotional teenager. Social media is an inanimate object. It's a damn app. Nobody is forcing these goofy ass folks to record and post everything smh.

[@dablocishot77]

Make him go pick out a switch too lmfao.

[@darnelldarden9429]

Soon as he started implying his parents had too much to drink, that would have gotten me slid on the floor

[@savillewilliams]

Facts right there...lights out

[@IronReef77]

Swear

[@tonyk3323]

Face first! 🤕🚑🏥⛑️🏳️

[@CC-yg5wp]

I don’t understand how TI didnt stand up sooner. I would’ve F’d him up about 10 sentences sooner

[@knowitall1024]

y’all don’t understand some parents actually change when they drunk.

[@Sain065]

Better than any tv show on Netflix.. real lessons raw and funny

[@CB-gl5xn]

I love Shannon’s stories and Ocho’s reaction - hilarious 😂😂😂

[@wejusttalkingandeating]

They need to take his access to their money, and let King stand on business on his own

[@jackiearcher7738]

yelp

[@anthonythomas850]

THIS

[@PenelopeTrisha]

EXACTLY ‼️

[@Tiffypop1]

I fell out my seat when he referred to moms as “Hurricane Paula” 🤣🤣. He was sincere af 😂

[@tuesdayschild8994]

His Mama ain't the one to fcks with

[@rashawngoston3247]

He dead serious

[@MonetSasa]

They appeared on the Celebrity show in the house usually it's couples that meet with judges and therapists to work on relationships. Ocho and Ms. Paula went on the show to work on their mother-and-son relationship and it was a blow-up filled with fire 🔥

[@tammybenaytv4631]

@@tuesdayschild8994 She is deceased now. But yep, Paula didn't play the 1 or the 2.

[@serene2414]

Ocho more reasonable Sharpe and am shocked he picked up on what I saw too. It's clearly a cry for help, some mothers will understand what's going on here, so don't know why tiny his mom is not trying to calm the situation she seems to use her words to make fun of her son and humiliating him on camera about a pacifier which is probably why he feel he gotta prove himself. I'm betting the whole family makes fun of him a lot.Too many of you are clueless only blaming him, but i think his words come from a place of hurt, or his parents lack of affection so there is more going on here. The parents is complicit in his behavior so this is not just about being spoiled and privileged. It doesn't matter if he come from a rich life, or rich parents if they treat them like crap, then the result is gonna be what it is. If people were listening better they would hear him say he believe he was a mistake, so maybe one of his parents said that to him. I'm not making excuses for him, am just saying don't leave his parents out of the equation.

[@leratosword6594]

I think King just needs to feel what it’s like to not have food, shelter, clothing and opportunities of this magnitude so readily at his disposal.

[@monetarymindset_]

Agreed.

[@kennyphoun4880]

AMEN

[@packnthat9823]

Facts, lil dude has been silver spoon fed his whole life

[@dyquanbowers7316]

@@packnthat9823 it's not that it's ppl like you calling him silver spoon everytime he step outside. He fed up with it

[@tashawilliams1928]

No. King just needs a "Real" Hood Ninja to beat his ass. Since he "Stands on Business:

[@NatureBoyMickFlair]

"I am a representation of my parents" There's so many times I had to say in situations, "You lucky i was raised right!"

[@kandisyoung9776]

I like these 2 together... It's the show I didn't know I needed.

[@SE-gs6gd]

Honestly that kid has greater advantages than the majority of kids out here. He should be grateful he has what he has.

[@lyvinlyphe9644]

You can’t really be grateful of something you’ve always had. Deficiency breeds appreciation of abundance

[@daviddavis-pz4cd]

You don’t know behind the scenes

[@jordanalexander5275]

​@daviddavis-pz4cd no we don't. But the kid wears jewelry and designer clothes that would fund most people's households for the entire year. He should go spend 1 day in the neighborhood his daddy grew up in, he needs to be cut off of daddy's money and wear second hand clothes bought from the salvation army.

[@SSTillmanEsq]

A lot of people confuse financial resources with parenting. That's not parenting.

[@alexcorona]

That’s the thing though, he’s never had to experience hard times ever. Always got what he wanted and then some. It’s hard to instill it now, it’s too late.

[@angeleyes3386]

Back in the day “Lie” was like a cuss word in my family. I remember my aunt visiting when I was 5, she told me Granny said I was sick. I said “She a lie” All I heard was my Daddy say “Daddy bee gotta sting Valerie bee” and lit my tail up. My aunt still remembers that 30 years later and jokes saying “Daddy bee gon sting Valerie bee” She was always messy. 😂

[@QrownedQuein]

Facts!

[@dablocishot77]

Yea we had to replace like wit Fib. You fibbin lol

[@Creyole]

@@dablocishot77or you”telling a story”

[@awms9241]

We couldn't say lie or butt 😂😂

[@savillewilliams]

Yesss to the messy aunt...gotta love her..this made me laugh

[@tyvonneglenn1279]

I can listen to Unc all day. He has the most memorable, meaningful experiences 😂❤🙌🏾

[@ge1389]

You can tell by the way these guys played ball (their jobs at the time) that they had the type of upbringing that demanded respect of their parents/grandparents. These guys are speaking real stuff about discipline and they're smart. Extra tip: Be careful what you name your kids too.

[@lachanna100]

I agree 100%. I know a little boy named King(he’s 6) and it’s like parents WHY…??? 🤔

[@tanyasowell2854]

I like how you guys speak so mature and respectful in your delivery. King is crying out for attention and we have to let this family heal. Thanks for not sprewing negativity but sharing some knowledge.

[@tamekiowilliams3892]

Shannon and Ocho are a gem i didnt know i needed .I miss my brothers they heal the part of me that misses my brothers.

[@RBG1st]

It does not matter what's going on or what he's going through! There's absolutely no excuse for disrespect towards your parents.

[@EJohnson-sx1mk]

That part! He was getting pleasure out of trying to put his parents on blast.He was trying to prove something .

[@norad.harrison6590]

ABSOLUTELY NOT A SINGLE EXCUSE.

[@camillejarrett5008]

At all! He is clearly seeking attention, but he’s going to get the wrong kind of attention.

[@RBG1st]

@@camillejarrett5008 facts!!! 💯

[@princellasmith7562]

​@@EJohnson-sx1mkyes. I think if they all went to therapy, something would be said about TI's stints in prison and time away from his kids during their childhood. The effects of that manifest themselves in various forms with various kids.

[@mh3594]

When Unc said his father died before he could come home that ish hit me immediately 😢

[@TondraCook]

Unc is great communicator. He's explaining everything absolutely correctly. My grandmother raised me as well and I'm 53.

[@elfrank704]

y'all Boyz preaching...salute

[@thomasharris5151]

Damn Shannon you dropped a tear story….😢 I’m so blessed to have my dad for 38 yrs before he died

[@kayw0]

Wow you are blessed. My dad died I was only 9!!

[@natejones5457]

I’m 61 years old and old school. My daddy didn’t play that. You were afraid to be disrespectful. Kids are taught at a young age to be respectful, you can’t wait until they’re adults to start trying to correct them. Facts!

[@gregorybrown9216]

That's exactly right. Set the tone early.

[@sirennoir258]

My Grandaddy would have had one less son.

[@keithmoran5695]

My Dad was like James Brown Papa didn't take no mess

[@tori-fh7wy]

My mom had this cold look, I ain't fckkkk wit her 😂

[@shaunnaturner4049]

You are absolutely correct

[@michaelanderson1449]

Yall need to tell more stories like this. Tears in my eyes...i remember my parents and grandparents and neighborhood NOT THE HOOD raised me..

[@suzettegough6915]

In my day, even the neighborhood raised you. Our parents worked, and the neighborhood was the daycare.

[@kerry-j4m]

AMEN,amigo. My mother raised me and my 5 sisters all by herself and yes we lived in the hood and other housing projects ( had a roof over our heads,never missed a meal,had clothes on our backs ) none of us ever disrespected our parents. PERIOD. And none of us ever joined a gang,went to jail,etc,etc,. so I take no excuses for bad behavior,being unemployed ( for years I mean or not wanting to work at all ) lazy bums. Have no room for thugs,gangsters or any criminal behavior. PERIOD.

[@dtime9ever48]

Chad said "i got whooped three times, i got so many good stories man" 😂😂😂

[@facedat]

If you from the south you can really relate to Shannon stories about his grandparents. That was the no BS error. You was expected to be a valuable member to the family at whatever age.

[@joyc2339]

In the full video, Tiny said that he wanted to live with his grandmother because there was less discipline. There is a difference in some children who were raised in a touched life and were raised in a privileged life. No matter what they experience will never give you the right to be disrespectful.. The children have more power parents. They don't fear consequences. Because that time out mess does not work. Now kids are beating and killing their parents because they can't get their way.

[@ricosuavepr1207]

Alot of grandchildren can run over their grandparents, so they wanted to be their to sneak out and do whatever put parents to hip to the game.

[@cedriclloyd5571]

So because a kid asked for that, they as the parents just did it?

[@Enig_Mata]

There is no excuse for you to send your child to be raised by someone else - especially when you have the means and advantage to raise them. if that child had a normal childhood, he would not need to ask for someone else to raise him. TI and Tiny have lived very promiscuous lives and they brought that home - check out the list of women who have accused TI & Tiny. That home must have been so unstable the boy did whatever he wanted. I think a lot of his issues stem from abandonment and irresponsible parents.

[@quabrewton]

@@cedriclloyd5571they said on the live, he would sit sometimes and hold his breath or act out and do things until they let him go over there

[@travisperry3651]

I believe that because I lived with my grandmother for a while she was less strict but I still respected everything my parents did for me

[@ladyejustice9320]

You can discipline your kids. What can’t do is abuse them. Far too many parents prefer to be “friends” with their children because it’s easier for them than disciplining them, establishing boundaries and sticking to them.

[@jackier7835]

I agree. You must discipline your children or you are setting them up for failure ❤

[@zeezee-6]

And this is the problem too many parents trying to be friends than parents and that's why these kids are unruly and treat these parents like they are their friends off the street. You have to have boundaries and put words into action when you discipline your kids. Also, the government putting too many policies to protect children, not to say they shouldn't be any but that's why these kids act unruly and damn rude they know they'll get away with things. King is disrespectful regardless of what he may be going through you still don't act that way if he continues his gonna meet the right one that will knock him the F out! It hasn't happened because of the same guy he called a N***er being disrespectful to is reason why no one has knocked him out, out of respect for T.I so his damn lucky but that won’t last if he continues so let him stay there thinking his gonna get a pass people don’t care about who your parents are. King going on like he too grown he just come out of he’s shitty Pampas calm down he ain’t about that life.

[@HM-nu3hb]

Sometimes being their "FRIEND" is a form of abuse!

[@eltonjohn4239]

​@@HM-nu3hbyou said it!!!!! I been trying to push that point home to my friends about putting your children in the friend zone.... It's dysfunctional

[@deanthonyparnell1394]

I had an argument with a friend a few months ago about this issue. The friend argued me down that you have to be your kids friends to find out what's going on in their lives🤔 I Totally Disagree With That Analysis👈💯

[@tksc44]

Unc, you are right. My grandmother raised me, but I always respected my parents. I was raised to respect adults. Period!!! King was out of pocket.

[@tanyamcdowell833]

...Love your stories about your parents and grandparents.. Hard times but you were blessed🖤🖤

[@JustGwen05]

My bonus son was jumping on desks & spitting on people. The VA school system was giving him an IEP & requested that he be put on medication. When my husband got custody of him & disciplined him, my bonusson would look at him with disdain as if he had no right to discipline him. My husband broke that boys spirit at 9-years old and he is now an honor roll student in gifted and talented classes. No medicine, azz whoopins & hugs. My bonus son gave a speech about how grateful he is that his father stepped into his life. He’s in the 10th grade now and working to get into the University of his choice. Thank God for real parents who PARENT.

[@bijounoir6562]

I'm African, and Unc and Ocho's childhood are so reminiscent of mine. It brought tears to my eyes, as their parents/grandparents raised their children/ grandchildren the only way they knew from their enslaved ancestors. We thank God for our parents and grandparents. We are what we are today because of the village that raised us. Stay blessed, my brothers!

[@ZA-cr6tc]

Wild statement. Only people who have enslaved ancestors are raised by their grandparents? What about black people who weren’t raised by their grandparents? What about white people or any other race who was raised by their grandparents? Why is this a race thing?

[@lynchsc420]

That’s small town life.

[@sawbasumner2171]

The Africans didn’t learn disciplining from the enslavers. That’s a myth. If that was true the punishment would be much worse. And I’m African.

[@bijounoir6562]

@@lynchsc420 Indeed!! Blessings today and always!!!

[@terrencemckinney3923]

Prime example of someone being born on second base and feeling like they hit a double

[@anthonywoodruff4355]

As a father of 3 grown sons, as a parent that has to hurt your heart. I tell my kids to represent my father’s name and don’t do anything stupid to disgrace his name. The child was raised by the village. I would give up everything I own to have my mom fussing at me right now! No excuses, no explanations. I have been very lucky with my sons. They’re better men than I, and that’s what I wanted. T. I. has to sit down and talk it out, not arguing, not yelling, but listening to each other.

[@TheRuud101]

Shannon’s wasp story brought back memories of growing up in Jamaica 😂😂😂😂😂

[@MsBeautytoons]

I actually agree with Ocho. And he dropped a gem in that listening is a skill. It really is learned overtime but we should teach kids to listen. Most of us were brought up being disciplined for not listening…as early as a toddler just getting hit for something we don’t even understand. I guess the mindset was, “You gonna learn today!” 😂😂😂Damn, glad I made it!

[@GuyOfAbsoluteTerror]

Ocho writes down everything uncle shay says lmao. Shay droppin gems tho

[@tomigunn777]

It don't matter what he's "going through", disrespect is disrespect!!

[@lasheikatucker4598]

He probably is always disrespectful to them because he was too comfortable doing it especially on live and around the other people

[@jamelmoore4679]

Ocho is right on this but I also agree with Unc because I was raised the old school way. These days there has to be a balance.

[@kvngcali]

Unc I appreciate you for these stories of family you share. Beyond words they touch deep and give me perspective on my own life.

[@JMPL3180]

This is what being your child’s friend looks like. Children meet their friends in school. I tell mine daily. “I’m your father, I’m NOT your friend

[@Joybells2798]

Well said!

[@1982slush]

I can listen to UNC tell them Old stories all day because I was raised in the country.

[@dmar5714]

And the fact he represents regular people still even with being rich

[@BakOnTopNow]

Unc is one of the realist dudes out there. I totally agree with his statement that if Grandma made a mistake he had to "eat it" because he knew that her intentions were best for him. Parents and Grandparents who discipline their kids will raise kids who will be productive in society. These kids are living in an alternate world with social media and think we don't know what's going on. When you rely on God and pray He will give you the guidance to raise your children.

[@fegrace_1]

I am a grown woman and I have never acted like that in private, in public, or online with my parents or any other family member. King is 19 and yes he could have e a lot going on but all that gang talk and trying to check his father at a NFL game in one of the visitor’s boxes was and is out of pocket. And one of the things that remain true, is that there is always someone bigger and badder then the toughest person. One day he is either going to try the wrong person or someone is going to step to him to prove a point. There are fighters and shooters that will mark him because of all of the mouthing off or just for kicks. If anything he probably has been protected because of who his father is and the relationships he has! King better get it together because there are only a few consequences to the actions.

[@spmn3170]

Thats a grown man...the problem today is we wanna say 19 is still growing. 19 back in my day you a full adult either in school or working and if you wanna get in trouble you gonna get beat like an adult. In the hood 19 damn near middle aged.

[@i_vanta]

Agree wholeheartedly. As a teacher who's worked in more holistic schools, part of my job is to notice and assess our students behavioural patterns. Sometimes when we see certain things happening with a particular child, like uncontrollable rage, we look at where that might be coming from. The first things we look at are bullying in or outside of school or a difficult home situation. Most times I've seen, these kids don't have a healthy outlet and good mentors so they act out in whichever way they can. If King was a student in my classroom, I'd be having a Tuesday morning meeting with my department co-ordinator to discuss interventions. Something is going on with that child.

[@nunyabusiness1045]

With all due respect Ocho, ur part of the reason why kids end up like this. U made excuses for him quicker than ur feet on a 5 and out route. He's a 19 year old adult and should be held accountable for his words and actions rather than making excuses for them

[@tonylippettjr1133]

Kids that Treat they Parents Bad will Never receive any Blessings

[@sexyscorpio8087]

ABSOLUTELY Not

[@wandaward5208]

So very true!!

[@AntonioSpivey]

That's not true in the bible it also says parents shouldn't provoke their kids.

[@KeyPoetic-Justice4]

​@@AntonioSpiveyEcclesiastes That Good Book 📖

[@lalarequestprayer.phil4and26]

​@@KeyPoetic-Justice4one of my favorites. God bless you sis 🤍

[@81msrhonda]

This was a great discussion. Thank you both for sharing this. I have 2 sons ages 19 and 17. I have dealt with some disrespect and disobedience recently as well. I sat them down tonight to watch this video and read the Bible. I'm praying that my sons gained some knowledge from you both and that they follow God's commandments. We read Proverbs 1:8-9 Proverbs 1:23 Ephesians 4:32, 5:1-2 Ephesians 6:1-3 I hope this helps others ❤

[@Koolej98]

You can't teach men.

[@Louisianasfinestshay]

​@@Koolej98why do you say this? Curious

[@CF-wh5zf]

Praying for your sons that God draw them closer to him.

[@lgp787]

​​@@Koolej98It's hard, very hard. But it's doable 💯 Mine did it. And I promise you everywhere I go I do my best 💯

[@denisehenry3427]

@@Koolej98 You can't raise men, but prayers change things. Keep the faith and God will do the rest. 🙏 ♥

[@seekinghimdaily92]

*EXACTLY, Ochocinco!* It’s deeper than that. Parents need to understand that as you’ve brought your children into this world, you need to be open to having hard discussions about some of the trauma that you may have caused onto them and assist them with talking through their issues when they lash out… as a parent, you should know this. It has a root cause - unpack it, get some professional assistance if necessary. 💯

[@moniquebaskett338]

Tip said that they’ve had these conversations. Said King has to learn the hard way.

[@savillewilliams]

This is true...we have to unpack trauma. Parenting ain't for the faint of heart. Love is discipline ❤

[@brianchapman8531]

Man, please! King isn't even being honest with himself about his own privileged life. He isn't nor has he ever been from the streets. How about he start there.

[@earningmyway5021]

This boy ain't hot no trauma. Sometimes kids just stupid. Everything ain't deep.

[@LeathafaceTV]

@@earningmyway5021Facts these folks just don’t want to take accountability at all these days. Children are super stupid these days.

[@marcuswalker3631]

I love that explanation about how Shannon was taught on the farm. My father taught me the same way. Not listening on a farm could get you killed, or seriously injured. My father taught me that if I didn't listen to what he told me about the real world it would do the same.

[@BankBizzy61Armyof1]

King just mad his parents didn't treat him like a baby like his grandma did.... point blank period!!!!! He needs to grow up!!!!!

[@leslierhaney3864]

I super loved this conversation between these two men.

[@Laylay904]

Dang. That story about your dad made me tear up a bit. My 6 year old son’s father is absent and my son ask about him all the time and it hurts both is us.

[@kam_12_]

im so sorry that you have to deal with that, you’re so strong . its gonna be an uncomfortable convo for you but you NEED to explain to your som.. its not good to sugercoat things with them it only leads to disappointment and hurt/trauma later. but also make sure you up lift and motivate him !! that way he can grow up a strong independent man without any “daddy issues” and it will also make things easier for you over time.. 6 is a good age, its always best to explain instead of have their little minds be confused and distressed bc kids are a lot smarter than we realize,, good luck mom❤️

[@centerpointepsychology4764]

Sorry mama😔

[@Laylay904]

@@centerpointepsychology4764 thank you. It sucks, but, I’ve done all I can do and when he gets older he’ll see for himself who his father is. I refuse to disrespect and talk about his dad to him or in front of you him. My mother did regarding my father and I grew to see him for what he was.

[@Laylay904]

@@kam_12_ well, when he asks about him or where he is, I honestly don’t know his address, so I just tell him that he does have a dad, he just doesn’t live with us. He’s talked to him before and seen him once when he was like 2/3 years old I believe. I don’t sugarcoat, but, I also try to guard his little feelings as well.

[@Laylay904]

@@lovelylora1700 we’re in the same state, maybe about 2-3 hours away, but, I keep hearing the “I don’t have a car, I work 22 hours a day, blah blah blah”. I’ve offered numerous times to meet up with him, pick him up, etc, to no avail. The guy won’t even make a phone call to his kid. 🤷🏾‍♀️. Like I’ve said, I’ve done all I can do over these 6 years. He even told me when I said “I’m handing him to you on a platter, I just want you to have a relationship with him” and he told me, “ exactly, I have to WANT it”. SMH. 🤦🏾‍♀️. Basically, he doesn’t want the relationship with him, so, I had to stop trying.

[@darlinnikki9514]

My mother slapped the ish out of my older brother (at 36) because he made a disrespectful remark to his wife. You never too old to catch them hands. He is my mother's favorite child. Her son could never do wrong. I am six years younger than him and I never seen my mother even raise her voice to him.

[@savillewilliams]

Awkward dinner..but I would have been crying under my breath

[@sheilawilliams9966]

THANK YOU SHANNON!!! 💕 I DO KNOW THAT DISRESPECTING YOUR PARENTS WILL QUADRUPLE YOUR ODDS OF HAVING SERIOUS PROBLEMS OUTSIDE. 💔 I HAVE REPEATEDLY TOLD YOUNGER PARENTS THAT "YOU CANNOT" PROTECT YOUR CHILDREN IF THEY DO NOT RESPECT OR LISTEN TO YOU.

[@vicg3206]

My mom told all of us when we were little if we ever called the police on her for spanking us she would happily go to jail and when she gets out we are going to get it again. We believed her. And we believed she'd probably end our lives 😂

[@Goatonomics]

He got me weak talking about he stand on bidness 🤣

[@viewsbro]

he said "use that on my girl when we fighting" i felt that LMAO

[@nicholeslilly3997]

My mother passed when I was only 14. My father wasn’t around as much as he should have been. I was raised by my coaches and the disciplines I learned in the Military. It wasn’t until about 3 years ago I start understanding what my mother taught me in a very short time. Nowadays I live my life according to her memory. I have now lived more than half my life without my Mom, and to this day I carry myself with respect and pride! What made me different? I still ask myself that question

[@newmove88]

It's God's hands on your life! You have the purpose that he ordained for you to accomplish in your life. Seek Him, and you will find Him. He will answer! God bless you!

[@JuliaB2]

lol at “ let me write that down. I gotta use it with my girl when we arguing” lol

[@Jay-gc9fi]

Unc out here preaching....what caught my attention was "people listen to respond instead listen to understand". Unc, where did you get that necklace? Too fresh my guy!

[@TeaLeaf222]

I can listen to Unc and Ochocinco talk all day. He's right. I had my moments talking back and now that I've grown up I regret speaking to my mother in any way that's less than respectful.

[@Pmoney936]

That point Shannon made about learning to eat it even if a adult is wrong is so important

[@ridingwithsunnib9566]

No excuses. . Brought a tear to my eye 😢💪🏾

[@santhesaint4682]

My niece and I used to talk all the time until I called her out about leaving and not communicating with the family when on vacation. The first thing she said to me was "I'm grown," and my response was that grown people communicate, and two-year-olds sneak and hide "Grown People Communicate." I informed her what an aunt I would be if I did not correct you. Younger adults do not want you to say anything to them.

[@sabitboul6332]

I love it guys . As Africa coming to America since I was 3 years old . My parents treated me same way guys . Absolutely brilliant points guys . Thank you guys ..

[@texrex3]

King was outta pocket Ocho. End of story. Whatever the living arrangements are/were, his parents helped to set it in motion, he lives well off his parents, the very reason we even know his name.

[@shaunA1978]

Great dialog from Unc & Ocho once again. THE BEST PODCAST on the net!

[@uncleb7821]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@YungSuave]

Facts they drop the most jewels 💎 than any other clout chasing pod cast !!!

[@shaunA1978]

@@YungSuave And that's MY #1 reason why they are the #1 cause of what you just said.

[@Nonofyabidnessbih]

Ocho said “I gotta write that down so I can say it to Rell when we fight” and he gone be so hype behind that shit when he say it too 😂

[@michel9093]

I just watched the interview between T.I. and King. It seems to me that he might've been abandoned at home and WANTED to go to his grandmother's house because there were kids his age and things to do. When T.I. said this, King didn't even try to deny it.

[@brookestancill9450]

Unc You Talking Real Good!!!..

[@castillramsey5741]

King was very disrespectful and going online w/ it is crazy. They say he wanted to go to his grandma house & I understand that because I wanted to be with my grandma all the time.

[@BdewithShlinda]

King was and have always been out of place

[@YoutubeLyfe]

Thats cuz his parents never put him in his place

[@alovesupreme]

and who’s fault is that ultimately?

[@carlmathews5778]

you are right and he is a grown man he decided to disrespect his parent. It does not matter how you grow your child outside influence can change them

[@eski_truv]

@@alovesupremethey have 7 children and the other 6 are just fine, they’re respectable and well mannered. King is the only one always flailing around and whining. That’s because he’s his maternal grandma’s first grandson so he was spoiled by her. It’s not the parents’ fault for allowing him to have a tight knit relationship with his grandmother, it’s his fault for constantly wanting to exploit the fact that his grandma gave him more leniency than his parents.

[@earthgoddesslah]

Nightcap is everything and I love when you all share I am more partial to the stories of you all talking about grandma, I lost mine this year and it's such a big piece of my heart in heaven now. But I totally agree when I was young I could not see why I was not allowed to do certain things and now as a first time mom I am making sure I instill the same values my grandma taught me and showed me.

[@kelvinjettsr633]

I’m 46 yrs old and I remember my grandmother always used to say “ a child needs to stay in a child place” and she stood on it! I teach the same to my kids!!

[@hasanshaikh4463]

Man that story Shannon said about his dad was something. Shannon a good dude.

[@bulcub]

YES!!! back in the 60's,70's when I was growing up, THE COMMUNITY WATCHED AND DISCIPLINED US! when mom's was at work. To this day, 3/4 of the ladies have gone to glory but I still remember and respect what they did to not only I and my bros, but to their own kids as well.

[@cedriclloyd5571]

Now, it's not like that everybody wants to tell people "Mind your business". Not sure why society deviated from the community/village mentality of caring for each other.

[@KAye633]

@@cedriclloyd5571because SOME people in the village were inappropriate with those kids and crossed lines (this also happens in the family as well).

[@cedriclloyd5571]

@@KAye633 That happens now without the village. I think some parents went away from it because they're afraid to be seen that they suck as parents.

[@Joybells2798]

The neighbors discipline you and then when Momma and Daddy got home from work.. you got another whooping.. and not Time out!

[@andrewthebestthomas]

Ocho can really see the good in anyone 😂😂😂😂

[@marcusscurry35]

Forgetting wasn't ah option "the truest thing every said" love unk 💙🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🙌

[@Menace247]

great message from both Unc Shay and 85

[@Qedoshim]

Good stuff. Thanks for sharing those childhood stories, Shannon.

[@antisocial870]

King must don’t know what T.I did to lil ant😂😂😂

[@teresadavis2385]

😂😂😂

[@Jrcobi12]

😂😂😂. They probably gonna watch Good Times afterwards.

[@yamanip8432]

😅l😂

[@jodyrichardson4140]

There is no excuse for being disrespectful. PERIOD… My son is now 44, at the age of 17, he tested my gangsta (at home) I am 5’3 140 lbs. My son as the old folks use to say, smelling himself, had a smart remark, I hit him in the chest and knocked the wind out of him. Once he caught his breath, he apologized, I did as well, however, I had to tell him don’t ever walk up on me like you gon do something. I’m not saying that was the correct way to react. His dad & I were divorced, he said mom, please don’t tell dad. I didn’t

[@Stally24]

Growing up in era of these guys were the best era. My era and i hope the young kids of today is listening and learn caz all of this are teachable moments.

[@georgettewilliams115]

Forgetting wasn't an option.. that hit hard

[@christopherhill7131]

I’m damn near 50 and I still don’t curse in front of my mom