The #1 Turn-Off That Makes People Dislike You (And You Might Not Even Know It)

[@khaoscero]

Feels like Hemsworth tries SO HARD to make it comfortable for everyone and he just can't catch a break.

[@claudioortiz5830]

he's been trying all day and Brie thinks that's an attack, so they fight. she is a sociopath.

[@MercurialIris]

Claudio Ortiz are you aware of the definition of “sociopath”?

[@br9760]

@@claudioortiz5830 Better term is, toxic. Or combative.

[@claudioortiz5830]

@@br9760 not for me

[@calirooster411]

A point break?

[@edennis8578]

I've met people who read an insult into everything. It must be hell living inside their heads.

[@artygunnar]

it is, they need help

[@darrylgibson3575]

What about inside our heads when dealing with someone like that ?

[@krableja2517]

It is, the thing is those people probably had someone who was real close to them who would always criticize them for everything which makes it natural for them to see everything as an attack on them.

[@mogaman28]

Yeah, feminism does that to people.

[@glitterdragon9197]

It could be bc they’ve had so many people give them backhanded compliments in the past. I used to be like Brie, rude defensive and bitchy bc I used to have childhood “friends” that would lowkey mock me so I became tense

[@Solar-em2ld]

*Alternative title for this video:* dude on youtube makes me regret every conversation I've ever had

[@sen7826]

Then you're such a mess. (sorry, I had to)

[@frankmiller1391]

a mess 😂

[@marianagoulart196]

Here I'm trying to remember every interaction I had in the last party I went to discover how much of a jerk I was 😂

[@_Gabyo_]

I swear the points about sarcasm and not accepting compliments is me. (I guess the point about calling attention to myself also works here)

[@nicolemartinez6440]

@Gabyo Relatable. XD *laughs and proceeds to ugly cry* :’)

[@redluna8865]

1. Reading negative intent in an ambiguous situation 2. Sarcasm requires a "tell" 3. You should not jump on every opportunity to call praise or attention to yourself 4. You should not try to win every moment of banter 5. Handling a compliment / conflict improperly

[@Khoalinski69]

Thank you

[@angeldemonica9087]

Those are the points they tried to make. Idk if they all really applied here- I’m not convinced. But it’s great advice all the same 😅

[@WeartheGoodSocks]

It's really good. Now I can finally articulate why one coworker gets on my nerves sometimes although we get along great, in general. She does #3 quite a lot, turning any casual conversation into a competition. Or if we're in a meeting and the group praises me for something, she immediately tries to turn attention back to herself. Blegh.

[@gingerisevil02]

Thanks saved me time

[@mooshway2000]

In psychiatry we call number 1 'hostile attribution bias'.

[@SeanLunny]

Constantly redirecting the conversation on yourself makes people not want to talk to you.

[@djoakeydoakey1076]

I knew a guy that had an anecdote for fuckkking eveerrryytthingggg. Always had to have a fucking story, jesus.

[@freeman7297]

Fr

[@jimmysgirl1029]

I want this quote as wall decor at my house

[@SunflowersAreCute]

i’m not gonna say any names but meghan mccain knows who she is

[@solomonelijah]

OMG THISS

[@BeChickaboom]

It's cringy because it's like watching yourself at your worst.

[@wtfmario]

Feels, especially when you watch drunk videos of yourself

[@krixpop]

me at my worst i'm 10 times better than that overentitled B**** ! ! !

[@wtfmario]

krix pop I would still smash though

[@krixpop]

@@wtfmario I don't know mate : to each its own ... I would run. The amount of nagging, judgment, etc, from her, would silence even an Apostle of Christ. And really: have you seen her a**, I've heard she used a double for that too , lmao ! She is a very troubled person that will project her insecurities, shortcomings (etc) on the person most close to her (a man, that is) and literally f***up his life. edit: Stay away from crazy !!!

[@stopbeinginsecure4786]

BeChickaboom YESSS

[@aidenaberration6740]

I feel like a sim gaining a charisma skill after watching this

[@sussanachen4928]

Hahahahahahahah RT

[@unicee514]

That is literally me

[@mckennacal_pencil]

I’m dead !!!!!

[@enigma9909]

Most relatable comment

[@consolemainnoob8102]

Bro--- gotta use hacks next time

[@AryBerry85]

I know of somebody like Brie. God, it's exhausting and drains my energy just having a conversation with her. I would compliment her works and she is triggered for no apparent reason. As the conversation goes on, it almost feels like I was walking on eggshells. She thinks every single thing I say is like a personal attack on her. I wish to never have any conversations with her anymore. I'm tired.

[@mielthesquid6536]

leave, far away

[@leiea2000]

I know someone like this and she is exhausting too. I have minimized my interactions with her over time. Her insecurities are pretty obvious when you engage her and she comes across like a victim most times. I have complimented her before and she actually negated and shot down the whole compliment. She does exactly what this video suggests NOT to do.

[@beauli5011]

this could be a sign of depression. When I start seeing ill intent in people's comments I know my mental health needs attention

[@LethalByChoice]

It really is exhausting and its no wonder why her co-stars don't like her. Brie Larson can't handle fame very well and its obvious that she isn't very well socialized.

[@jeremy4375]

She reminds me of that female terminator from Sarah Connor Chronicles. Like, she's been sent back through time to singlehandedly destroy all that was fun...

[@lyricistrito]

I feel really bad for chris h. in that interview because you can tell how he's trying to telepathically tell brie to calm down but she doesn't get it edit: this is the most likes ive ever gotten on a comment omds-

[@khumanthemhelga7928]

Exactly. He's like 'Girl, for your own good, STOP'

[@pin2peen972]

Titi Hilda I'm the 666th liker, hail satan

[@natsukilovestobake4427]

bAkA Congrats dude! I saw the 666 likes :D

[@frederickrueger7861]

What if she telepathically got it and just didn't want to.. who knows what went on between those two before..

[@elgurideparana2796]

@@frederickrueger7861 she became a feminist that happened

[@bplup6419]

"Be like Chris" "Evans, Hemsworth or Pratt?" "Yes."

[@maddie10173]

Or Pine;)

[@megadeth1818]

"Chan"

[@steveduvell907]

@@megadeth1818 No... Please no. One is enough

[@smitemus]

Redfield. The biggest Chris.

[@Robdee999]

Benoit?

[@memebot5216]

The best thing about Chris Hemsworth is that he isn't even mad that Brie is attacking him, he only gets mad when she attacks other people

[@enayatchoudhury5431]

He's such a good man

[@wrestlinganime4life288]

God of Thunder

[@lindai6988]

Brie wasn't attacking Chris lol. Do you Americans not know what banter is?

[@darthvader566]

@@lindai6988 most don't, they get offended over everything

[@lindai6988]

Darth Vader it seems so

[@3Xero3]

I didn't quite understand why everybody didn't like her till watching this, and now it makes SO MUCH SENSE.

[@nomoskarramin637]

For one, her character felt like a token character. Came outta nowhere, and somehow OP than others. And second, her acting felt mediocre at best. Endgame would've been better if they defeated the villain without a "new powerful ally".

[@FreedomAndJustice4All]

Idk much about this lady but just bc said she did her own stunts bc she "thought that's what everyone did", that wasn't praising herself at all. In fact I believe assuming she was gloating is assuming negative intent.

[@nomanejane5766]

​@@nomoskarramin637so u didn't like the movie, so u take it out on the actor? 🤡

[@ramonew7815]

Hate tends to make people defensive, which then feeds itself when you're interpreting ambiguous situations in a negative way. Couple with the fact that you have someone (in this case, Don Cheadle) actually being hostile and to her it probably justifies her defensiveness. Then someone like Chris who seemingly has it all is being somewhat patronizing but fairly sincere on the other side. Not defending her actions really, but there are reasons to everything.

[@ramonew7815]

@@FreedomAndJustice4All true, but that's what most people are going to conclude since Chris was actively putting himself down to give praise to his stunt doubles, and Brie challenged him on the whole notion.

[@selfimprovement463]

I think she has low self-esteem and may feel like everyone is always attacking her. Her responses definitely seem defensive.

[@andrewgust-anderson5612]

Never speak to me again on the Paris consulship AS LONG AS YOU LIVE

[@scarlettelisabeth5644]

I’m sure it also comes from years of acting a facing constant criticism weather it’s your looks, what you where, what your opinions are. If people are always judging you it’s easy to understand how someone could develop poor self esteem

[@fexbio]

I think she let that "women are oppressed" stuff enter her head. This kind of thing makes one very defensive.

[@offminus3911]

Jordan Peterson has addressed multiple times that there is no such thing as self-esteem. It's something particular that she isn't happy about that she takes everywhere, whether it be a thought or a physical/emotional insecurity.

[@JanieBee]

Especially since everyone always is attacking her

[@lauradurango9752]

Brie Larson when someone asks for an autograph: Do you want to fake my signature or something?

[@jeethechamp7458]

Jajajaja

[@blueseptember2174]

Omg😂😂

[@mochi4654]

😂

[@skinnyturtle9335]

Laura Durango hahaha nice one

[@yashkaliapiano]

Haha

[@youraverageguy4930]

Why do I watch these videos as if I'm some kind of alien trying to assimilate into human culture?

[@MeowPictures]

LOL

[@metasprite5648]

Or an AI trying to understand human kind

[@mark0183]

So you become a likeable alien

[@skyz3ra]

It's to understand psychology in x context

[@jacobreid7077]

Hello fellow humanoid’s

[@emiquintana509]

She comes off SO insecure. There's a point where you can be insecure while still being able to interact with others without projecting, however, all she seems to be doing is victimizing herself, and roping others into feeding her insecurity. It's not only her as a person, it comes out in her characters as well, especially Captain Marvel.

[@aishaalamoudi599]

She's an Oscar Winner, the only woman leading her own action film making over a billion.... she cleared the mantel very early on. She's not the one whos insecure. what interests me is how depressing is it to live in a world were the so called men in our society get hurt so deeply by Brie Larson's words that one time, and continue to this day bitching and moaning about it..... here it is, the men crisis; bitching about this to no end. A real man wouldn't care....this video and the response to it perfectly captures my point.

[@420rollinup3]

​@@aishaalamoudi599hold this L

[@avril.227]

@@aishaalamoudi599 What?? Are we watching the same video? I like almost everyone at first but she is unfortunately very off putting.

[@sathira_anuk5179]

​@@aishaalamoudi599nah she's terrible 😅

[@s.a.8548]

@@aishaalamoudi599Come on she’s just doing too much. There’s thousands of leading ladies who are extremely charismatic

[@carazy123_]

The titles look like clickbait, but they aren’t What sorcery is this

[@jadenn.hernandez7784]

Carazy123 m a g i c

[@ShinyPotato77]

This is Clickbait,but its the good clickbait cuz it delivers

[@iyankku]

That's what I appreciate about the channel, it feels like he actually cares y'know!

[@FreakyFeline88]

I know right haha

[@SuperIvysaur]

"is that like a personal attack or something?"

[@sabrinazarogoza8686]

Honestly, as a blind person, I cannot over emphasize the importance of the tone of a person's voice. With the first point, the third clip is the only one I was able to tell was sarcastic because with the other two, the delivery was so flat.

[@impossible9690]

That is really good input

[@estheay3611]

Sabrina Zarogoza wow.. this is the first time I’ve ever encountered a blind person in the KZbin comment section!

[@precioussketches1008]

If you don't mind me asking, how did you type this as a blind person?

[@estheay3611]

Precious Sketches maybe he or she is using one of those “text-to-speech” accommodations on their phone, where a synthetic voice reads out different pieces of text on their screen and converts it into an auditory message that they can understand. You can’t exactly convert a KZbin comment to Braille lol

[@estheyliborges3596]

How’d you watch this

[@polderpaul1672]

I think most of us do not do any of things Brie does when we are happy and confident, and in our element. Problems begin when we are anxious and trying to be someone that we aren't.

[@heatherrogers548]

Good point.

[@mariannahunny]

Brie sounds like she is always on defense mode.

[@chunkbaby7544]

Famous rich feminist actor. The title explains it all

[@kennapersonal]

True

[@kweku282]

TRUE

[@kweku282]

@@chunkbaby7544 EVEN TRUER

[@pukljica]

Yeah true..maybe she grew up in codependency with borderline parents wich makes her defende her self all the time even now idk its hard to be around people that takes everything so personal!

[@tylerdarroch5512]

The worst part is that Chris gives her so many opportunities to correct herself and she fails to grab hold of any of them

[@ImDrizzt]

It's strange that she's struggling with stuff like this, because in the movies I think she is playing her part really well. So she clearly knows how to act, hmmm

[@alenciaga21]

@@ImDrizzt maybe she doesn't know how to REact

[@violet-trash]

It's like throwing an olive branch into a fire.

[@ahnrho]

Agreed. It was very noticeable.

[@illarionbykov7401]

@@ImDrizzt what part has she ever played well, in your opinion?

[@aria_chatt]

She was straight up rude in the interview with Chris hemsworth

[@Pinkielover]

lol shes rude period.... even war machine dislikes her

[@btCharlie_]

I liked her in Scott Pilgrim, but her takes and composure seem really off since she got with Marvel. Perhaps she was hired as a sort tool for Marvel to show they empower women too? Idk if that's even plausible.

[@_Chad_ThunderCock]

Can marvel just replace brie Larson. I just think she causes too much drama. I would be better and most people wouldn't mind the change(If they even notice lol)

[@IvoryMane]

Pobrecita maybe she wants to stand out in this sea of famous people by playing quirky but she comes off as too serious and high strung...

[@taurusdragon4763]

I agree with you. I think just because Marvel chose her to represent women's power, she thinks she's special or something. Hemsworth was trying to rescue the interview, but she's just too good at destroying it

[@balighy1472]

Thanks now im gonna overthink every social interaction I have even more

[@missbrooke666]

balighy IKR?! I often overthink my overthinking 😳

[@richardbottom9843]

just always think that people you interact with like you so you won't go defensive and the assholes will expose themselves soon enough anyways

[@zeeshansyed511]

@@richardbottom9843 That's actually a really good tip, dude.

[@sita487]

no need for that

[@rosegold-beats]

Never think, go with the flow, you'll learn from your faillures

[@mi_na0013]

She protecc She attacc But most importantly She thinks it's a personal attacc

[@rithikachhetri9638]

😂

[@WingsofStarlight]

I appreciate this XD

[@rithikachhetri9638]

@The Name Is Evian Heyy ✋can u pls reply dat why she is hated so much as captain marvel? ( she is strongest avenger) 【because I dont know much abt marvel】

[@RagingRavioli22]

@@rithikachhetri9638 I'm sorry, I kind of had a stroke reading that. Are you asking about why people don't like her as Captain Marvel or how people just dont like her?

[@mt-zf6xp]

She protecc She atacc But most importantly She catch lots of flacc

[@edpotter1170]

i love how Chris was trying to save Brie from going down that path but Brie just won't get the hints, and continued on just to win an argument.

[@snoopymochi562]

Ed Potter Don Cheadle was also next to her, trying to remedy the situation.

[@ultrabigfella]

I feel like with her below sub-par acting, her sucky emotional range, and the fact that she can't pick up on any context clues at all, she might be somewhat sociopathic.

[@lordfabulous6198]

@@ultrabigfella she's a narcissist. She probably wasn't before but there's a lot of signs to it now. Fame can do that.

[@adumdumdum]

@@ultrabigfella I know this is totally off topic but how do I apply to your sanctuary?

[@ultrabigfella]

@@adumdumdum It's a sanctuary made just for you, No.😂

[@anbay3213]

The older I get, the more grateful I am that I grew up with a family who made sure I knew how to be kind and understanding in all social situations. This video really made me have so much more appreciation for Hemsworth and Pratt because it really highlighted their kindness, even in scenarios when I would had been bothered. Thank you for the video!

[@tapist3482]

I was taught to be kind and understanding but my parents weren't social persons themselves so I kinda get lost along the way. So right now I'm a kind, understanding introvert.😢

[@tavadaardendrian319]

When Brie brings up doing her own stunts, Hemsworth goes “ehhh okay” as if he senses the inevitable crap storm like a farmer senses rain

[@uselesshero.official]

I really felt that it wasn't the situation to bring up that context.

[@jemert96]

I think anybody's reaction would be like ' jeeez okay there lady'

[@goldenstatewarriors9418]

Uh she doesn't do her own stunts.

[@lepotato135]

I would like your comment but you currently have 666 likes. Hail Satan...

[@vincentgodinez5144]

5:44

[@chewingpeppers]

The sad thing is that you can actually see how insecure she feels the whole time... otherwise, there would be no need for all of those weird actions. Hope that she can grow comfortable into her own skin, I'm sure that she can be great if she deactivates her defensive mode!

[@bug5460]

Yeah, I feel like she’s just masking her insecurities in this whole “I’m so confident and amazing” act. I really hope she finds out who she is instead of faking it :,((

[@randybobandy678]

Shes just self absorbed

[@kledi3817]

@@randybobandy678 she's really not, she said herself that she has a lot of anxiety all the time and is really socially awkward and you can definitely see that

[@CriticalHater]

Hey You a public figure will be judged regardless.

[@metanoia3438]

Overlord Supreme so public figures aren’t people too?

[@aminthemar]

How not to be Brie Larson: Stop acting like you're better than everyone while you're trying to be funny. No one likes that.

[@KerioFive]

aminthemar I thought thats how you get people to like you? 😒🙃

[@Matthew-ob7vb]

Right she's not perfect for LA

[@kikilocket]

aminthemar unless your name is RDJ

[@AnonYMouse-ky4sg]

K S Yeah a lot of people can get away with that kind of sarcasm, but it doesn’t work when people are being primed to dislike you already as they will just take it as you being serious.

[@Authenticmemes1]

aminthemar just realised I do this thx 👍

[@jollypoco2899]

Simply put, don't let your emotions take over everytime, learn to sit back and enjoy the show until it's your time to perform, clap for others and clap for yourself.

[@JimDandy-rn4vd]

It's called passive aggression .

[@jollypoco2899]

@@JimDandy-rn4vd thnx man didn't know that, vocab updated

[@JimDandy-rn4vd]

@@jollypoco2899 You be welcome

[@milanpenk9537]

she is trying to be funny but ends up being rude.. classic mistake of insecure ppl

[@AverageAlien]

either that or americans don't understand sarcasm

[@cliffordbenenati7373]

@@AverageAlien I'm american, I understand it perfectly, and love it 😂

[@peterparameter1125]

Maybe, but no reason for all the incel hate

[@jkad1363]

@@cliffordbenenati7373 no you're not American and you don't understand sarcasm,.. 🙌👏Boom bruned💥

[@cliffordbenenati7373]

@@jkad1363 "I'm american and understand sarcasm" "No you don't" Sounds like a meme lmbo

[@fadedtoblue5177]

Damn so this is what insecurity looks like on the outside👀

[@winterblommetjie]

So cringey

[@chichi77tim]

@John J Lucas Do you came out from the same cringey reddit page, like clones? How does It feels to share everyone the same one brain cell? 😂

[@leobryant1011]

Chizumi ??? You completely missed his point

[@chichi77tim]

@@leobryant1011 I don't think so. Pure stupidity and cringey redditism isn't a point, no more than a tantrum. No need to nobilitate it with a serious response.

[@leobryant1011]

Chizumi well I think your misinterpreting his point. I’m fairly certain he’s referring to modern day feminism. And the modern day feminists have a history of doing terrible things so they don’t have the cleanest track record. I’m pretty sure he’s not against feminism, just today’s 1st world feminism.

[@idino924]

As a person with asperger, this channel is really helping me a lot to understand people

[@PrettyPinkPeacock]

I was thinking similarly.

[@asstroeongdong-min1709]

I Dino was gonna look for aspie comment and its right at second

[@shame2189]

Thats great to hear, i used to have severe aspergers as well, but i like to believe the internet, my therapy and smoking dope (yeah... Not recommended though i got addicted) made me able to understand how others feel alot better and i am now able to show empathy to people in a manner i could never have before, probably because of the way people can express themselves with freedom on the internet. I _almost_ feel normal.

[@WingsofStarlight]

THIS THIS THIS THIS THIS. I... THIS. I just IMMEDIATELY tagged this as "FOR MY FELLOW AUTISTIC FOLK"

[@wowjennawow]

same here lol

[@Bunbunfunfun]

So happy I found this channel. One of the things that truly separates successful people from non successful people is all about social interactions. The master of social interaction will advance above more qualified people every time.

[@Entertainment_Station_ES]

Sadly, that's true.

[@milliesaysokboomer]

this is only true when everyone is in the same social class

[@Rog.Tiks._]

I respect your opinion but, out of curiosity, why is that fact SAD to you?

[@dazzle4708]

@@Rog.Tiks._If you have a stroke, do you want to be attended by the doc who can make the boss chuckle, or the one who was top of his Harvard med class?

[@j3nnacat]

Definitely not always true. This is also a very abliest way to look at this. People who are neurodivergent (autism especially) are usually VERY bad at reading social cues but people with autism can still be successful. You don’t have to be charismatic to be successful

[@mr.rashedmr.rashed7466]

Watching these videos always reminds me how hard social life is

[@isabellajemica]

i can barely talk to other people

[@jinjunliu2401]

@@prostatitiscpps7962 at least we can analyse others with this knowledge......

[@Wakeupgrandowl]

I have found (being an introvert that's pretty good at playing at extroversion/ being sociable) that being good at and willing to listen to other people is far and away the best and most vital social skill you'll ever need. Most of the time, people (who talk) just want/need to talk about their problems and interests anyway, and even providing them just a few crumbs of acknowledgment is enough to let them continue on and feel engaged. People who don't talk a lot might see or sense you have a willingness to listen and may open up to you in the right time & place. If you're a talker/ extrovert, you'll probably get along with other extroverts naturally unless you're _rude_ and *never listen* to others. Always provide others with time to voice their own thoughts and try not to dominate the conversation. If speaking to an introvert - asking them questions can give them opportunity to speak (we have lots of thoughts but often lack the courage or social timing to voice them, esp in large groups) but never single an introvert out to ask anything really 'big' or divisive in front of a large group - that's the fastest way to stress out and shut down an introvert, and they're likely to try and escape the situation asap.

[@MrProveyron]

only of you're a douche

[@fionaautumn]

I remember that everytime I go outside...

[@ShaunRF]

The incredibly stark contrast between her old interviews and her more recent ones is astonishing. Like watching two different people.

[@AutumnSoldier413]

Possibly something psychologically bad happened to her. She seems defensive, rather than rude. People accuse her of not being able to read situations, whilst it is them who cannot read her

[@aglayamajorem9546]

@@AutumnSoldier413 Her PR didn't do a good job on that then.

[@protokhaniapetos3158]

rotaryfreak3 fame can do that

[@anishinaabae]

it's almost as if people change as they age.

[@sicemic]

I'm not sure if the format of the interview had anything to do with it. Talk shows are usually scripted or at least the guests know beforehand what to talk about, whereas film interviews are, to my knowledge, unscripted. But yeah, she is definitely different.

[@samuelf7163]

Gosh, I feel bad for Chris. Just look at his face. He's just trying to save the interview whilst she thinks it's a competition

[@leeniraukola5168]

Samuel F Exactly what I thought

[@NewG_JL]

which Chris?

[@irvanwiguna7415]

@@NewG_JL yes

[@BabeRuthXX]

Ikr and he's not the most outgoing or talkative of the cast so I can't imagine how awkward he must have felt trying to put out that garbage fire :/

[@samuelf7163]

@@NewG_JL maybe Chris Hemsworth but idk

[@stephanledford9792]

I dropped sarcasm completely from my communications with others, even though I mentally still think of sarcastic things. Nothing positive comes from sarcasm and it is too easily identified as just "meanness".

[@abemartinez9623]

Yeah to me it’s juvenile

[@grat2010]

Don Cheadle looks so uncomfortable during the Brie and Chris exchanges.

[@darkySp]

You need to look trough Jeremy Renner's interview. The poor guy could barely stay alive trough the interview

[@RapidObsessor]

he literally tweeted to defend her

[@InfireMe]

he called out people who thought he looked uncomfortable and from a direct quote said they were ‘children’ for trying to find fault where there isn’t any

[@raynesorrells1245]

Don Cheadle always looks uncomfortable

[@jacket6213]

Is that a personal attack or something?

[@bea4912]

i feel like she was bullied or something when she was younger as she’s clearly extremely defensive. maybe it triggers something in her where she thinks everyone is being horrible-just a thought.

[@drtaha4946]

Or she could be an introvert, a lot of introverts have this problem

[@esssymee7227]

Yea, so why hate her

[@msk-qp6fn]

I do so too and as someone who did go through bullying and have seen what bullying does to people, I know this type of behavior is not so uncommon among those who were bullied

[@addibro4284]

yeah, you'd just wish she could be a little more like she was in the Craig Ferguson interviews, where she seemed much more charismatic and likeable

[@moodsofkiwi9285]

Yea I struggle with being defensive too. I think it’s bc my mom used to be verbally abusive and I used to be bullied in high school. I always wonder why I feel the need to stand up for myself at every sharp joke. I’ve been working on being humble and laughing at myself but it’s so hard bc it makes me feel like I’m just getting bullied by everyone around me and I’m just rolling over

[@hnklee2607]

Talking to someone like Brie Larson, person who tries to win in every conversaton, every topic, is really exhausting.

[@trevorhouff1173]

One of my closest friends is like that and yea, exhausting is a good word to describe it

[@MiyagiDo9]

@@trevorhouff1173 till now never noticed that i might be like that..

[@wrightguyz]

re: 'win every conversation' - - it's narcissism right? or at least part of the equation. Very obnoxious behavior

[@quarantinelife.]

Listening to her gave me PTSD hahahahah

[@gemberss]

yeah you're right. it's so annoying. i think the best thing to do is like the dude above me said just let them win, or don't talk to them.

[@seanfarley8586]

This is why it's so important to understand that someone's perception of you is a reflection of them. Someone that chooses not to like you is the same thing as someone thinking they are better than you. That person probably has little to no self awareness, and will go through their life believing that they don't have any flaws. Which ultimately means they will go thorough life not understanding that they are self sabotaging all of their relationships. And instead of considering that they are part of their own misery, they will consistently place all of the blame for their own failures on other people.

[@like5minaway]

this comment is a hot-take meta response lmao. it's not only a criticism of the actress, but it's a criticism of the public response to her, the interviews after the fact, this KZbin video itself ("5 Awful Habits That Make People Think You’re Low Status"... bruh), and all the commenters who are convinced they're "higher status" - well done 👍

[@hanswoast7]

Good point. That is a great description. I think this can be seen as being insecure, delusional and denying/projecting your (usually negative) feelings to others. Reminds me a lot of emotionally immature / narcissistic people which are often feeling insecure but want to hide it.

[@ImNotaRussianBot]

This perfectly describes the vulnerable narcissist (as opposed to the other type, the grandiose narcissist)- it's the eternal journey to victimhood. Nothing, I mean NOTHING is ever their fault even though they self-sabotoge their entire life in every aspect either through inaction or action. Another really obvious thing they all do is project something they are doing as they accuse you or some glaring character flaw they have. For example, if they are demanding something (money, a favor, stuff) and you refuse, they will to accuse you of being selfish. It's such a cliche that it's like that Reddit list of phrases a cheater uses when caught. These folks are often twice, thrice divorced and all their exes are "crazy' and/or "evil". It never occurs to them that the common denominator in all of the failed marriages was them. They also have burned every conceivable bridge on their personal life with friends and family and end up alone and bitter because "everyone has abandoned them" (it never occurs to them why- even though they have been told over and over again why). This is why it's a red flag when you meet a seemingly nice and normal person who offhandedly (and sometimes repeatedly) mentions that everyone always leaves them/all their friends left. ✅ Low contact/no contact adult kids. ✅No friends. ✅Colleagues who despise and tolerate them. ✅Unfortunate subordinates that acquire a life-time of trauma from them. ✅Neighbors that barely tolerate them due to them using the local police to intimidate/harass/control. They often are the fuel of juicy gossip of the "nasty old man" or "crazy old lady" of the neighborhood in their old age. They tend (not always, but there is a pattern) to become hoarders (junk and/or animals)- this is due to their perceived abandonment issues. They die alone, surrounded by piles of crap, and their family reluctantly deals with their funeral/possessions/residence.

[@ImNotaRussianBot]

The faux superiority always baffles me. One thing I do is when they are on a roll, I ask them where and who gave them their sense of superiority. I repeat it in honest bafflement. And then if they have an answer (they always do), have them break down what EXACTLY they have accomplished (not not accidental birth to the right race, class, genetic appearance, region, culture). It's always nothing. This shakes them up and they get really, REALLY defensive. This makes them hate you but you lose nothing here. Sleep easy.

[@MElixirDNB]

Lol, no it's that brie is unlikeable because of her attitude, it is not a reflection of the ppl disliking her at all.

[@rileymclellan8953]

I never understood why people didn’t like her until seeing how she behaved in these interviews. It’s really uncomfortable to watch.

[@lambgaming1347]

Definitely

[@brynbrew]

Meh, these types of interactions happen regularly in real life.everyones battling their own inner insecurities. It's really not that bad. Just seems bad cause it's on big shows where everything has to be perfect cause showbiz.

[@melonytoni9016]

@@brynbrew The fact that she cant even keep it together as a professional in a few minutes of spotlight, makes me think she is much worse in normal life.

[@brynbrew]

@@melonytoni9016 Everyone has flaws. Get over it.

[@hambeshdahfer9531]

@@brynbrew Yes we all have flaws. being entitled and dismissive to negative traits makes you toxic.

[@Kh4ny12]

Distinguishing sarcasm and seriousness as a brit You just gotta add “mate” in the sentence

[@gregthefishburger8270]

Worse advice ever 😂

[@nxctra]

if you talk to a Brit and they use really strong slang they are mostly joking

[@Kh4ny12]

Greg The Fishburger hypothetically speaking that is

[@Cruciatum]

I'm a brit with international colleagues, they just say they assume everything being said has a double meaning.

[@OneWanAndHisDog]

Plenty of times I use mate when I'm being serious to someone

[@RottenZombieChick1]

The Chris Hemsworth/Brie Larson interview made me physically uncomfortable

[@winturs2201]

Haley Waldow Don Cheadle in the interview kind of represented all of the viewers imo

[@bubblegumplastic]

Everyone is so quick to blame Brie for it :( Maybe she feels pushed into a corner during promotions/on set and we're seeing the result of that. I've read countless unkind things about her role in the universe and her performance, rooted in her being "overly" strong as a character. A level of scrutiny that doesn't seem to befall Chris, his character is allowed to be strong and praised for being strong. I wouldn't be at my best either if I were her.

[@BuumanJS]

So it wasnt just me LOL

[@moonmothh]

@@bubblegumplastic the problem is that there is a lack of understanding between them in that interview. it was one of those things where some playful poking quickly became a real competitive argument because while both of them were joking around in the beginning, neither of them picked up on the others' jokes. they both ended up feeling insulted and became defensive.

[@samsamsammy2013]

bubblegumplastic Chris’s character is “allowed” to be strong and “praised” because of good character development. His strength is earned through 3 separate films compared to Captain Marvel’s mediocre single. She deserves every bit of scrutiny that is thrown her way.

[@katec9893]

One thing I've noticed about popular, successful people is that they rarely if ever seem to be triggered in public anyway. My guess is they either had stable, loving childhoods or have done trauma work. If you have unresolved trauma certain social things can be massively distressing and will trigger a trauma response, which most people won't understand and will interpret negatively. Brie seems either triggered from past put downs/abuse/bullying or she's trying to be funny and it's falling flat.

[@MsMckenzie2011]

Yep!

[@TheMockingjay74]

This hits different 💀

[@ukbloke28]

Some of them are trained to deal with it, depending on the profession. Also another way to look at it is maybe some of them are successful and popular BECAUSE they don't get triggered.

[@ru8981]

There's always that one person in class like Brie

[@artofreusing10]

ikr!

[@vyngo7825]

If there's none, it could be you :v

[@c3ntravaswani427]

I think thats me

[@etheriusmoon1809]

@@c3ntravaswani427 sme

[@slytherinwife7592]

@@vyngo7825 boom!

[@zed3063]

I think she’s a bit insecure which makes her defensive

[@thebrightestsun4685]

@@asimhussain8716 yeah, I mean I couldn't believe she is the same person

[@l_will_be_great1326]

I'm a very insecure person as I have ADHD and bad self-image, but I don't act like her, I instead always use humour and sarcasm to defuse any situation, it works all the time. Until people want me to be serious, at that point I just lock off and stay silent.

[@stopbeinginsecure4786]

Will H idk because I do this and people take it as an opportunity to make fun of me and AGREE with me. This always made my insecurity 1000x worse because it was like everyone was confirming what I was already thinking

[@l_will_be_great1326]

@@stopbeinginsecure4786 I know how you feel, thankfully I kept my circle of friends close and low overall maintenance, nothing to prove. Have 5-6 friends I've known since grade 7, it is hard sometimes for people like us but we'll get through it eventually..... hopefully.

[@Owen-ub3fv]

I don't think she's insecure. 😏

[@atroyz]

This seems like a list of manners/politeness/etiquette that most kids (should) get from their parents, but maybe not everyone gets the same set of instructions. Glad this video is here to fill in those gaps.

[@zakosist]

I think in modern times there is often not enough time spend together between child and parent. Both parents work and it could be long hours just to get by (that can be the fault of the workplace not paying enough or demanding overtime), in addition children go to kindergarten as toddlers, and then spend a lot of time at school when they get a bit older (education is important, but many things about it could improve), and when kids get home they have to do homework. And the parents may be too exhausted from work in the short time they spend at home. Modern technology also worsens the problem, its easy to just give the kids a smartphone or similar to play on and not give them much direct attention. Kids getting addicted to that technology only worsens the problem again.

[@tapist3482]

Those who did not get those instructions grown up to be those who hurt those whom did get the right instructions.

[@nounou-bp4ci]

What I learnt from that video : Chris Hemsworth is an amazing and humble human being ❤️

[@nimisha6584]

That is one of the reasons why I am a Thor fan

[@Mrey7915]

@@nimisha6584 Thought you were his enemy? You turned out to be the secret admirer

[@anismarhalim1194]

What I learnt from that comment: Chris Hemsworth is a humain beimg.

[@nounou-bp4ci]

@@Shadows-RC what's the problem ?(thats a real question x))

[@scar1323]

yea cause he's an Aussie

[@Corrocon]

What further hurt her in that interview, is that she has stunt doubles and she just chose to not acknowledge them.

[@carsonrush3352]

I know she had a butt double, but did she have any other functionality out of any double(s)?

[@MrAnonymous650]

She even have a butt double.. lying biatch..

[@geethsan1567]

@@MrAnonymous650 a Butt Double?! Seriously?

[@martintieber7756]

@@geethsan1567 I'm not sure myself (it seemed true ac ouple of weeks ago, but somehow a lot of info on that topic vanished), but apparently she doesn't have the backside for her costume...

[@setakh]

Yup, she has 2 actually...

[@LaniakeaLeathercrafts]

Brie seems like a COMPLETELY different person in that older interview than in everything post-Marvel.

[@free22]

Something must have happened to her between those two interviews

[@AlphaLuna]

Some people change for the worse when they get rich and famous.

[@TheSwauzz]

@@AlphaLuna Great way to cast assumptions and judgment without knowing anything at all. For all we know she was assaulted and it unnerved her forever, or she lost someone that was her rock or she began having mental health problems due to people making grandstanding statements about her. Who knows? That's why we shouldn't speculate and say things about people we don't know.

[@WiloPolis03]

@@AlphaLuna Sometimes the internet attacks you like a pack of wild dogs

[@garfan85]

@@free22 Feminism happened

[@havestrength5802]

be yourself. trying to be anything else is usually a fail. some people are over the top, some people are shy. love people for how unique they are.

[@damenation]

How if people don’t like you when you are yourself

[@aradhyasaraf_]

*gets this in my recommendations* Me: Is this like, a personal attack or something?

[@aradhyasaraf_]

@decembrist Yes!!! 😂😂

[@mangot589]

😄

[@KeilyHD]

I got this video & one almost identical under it😂 I felt kinda attacked but with my yt history...I understand 😭.

[@SoulTouchMusic93]

"Karen thinks you'd like this"

[@jralph920]

that made me actually lol

[@Phoenix_flame]

I like how you used both "do this" and "don't do this" examples from Brie. I thought it was gonna be more of a hate video.

[@cceerrs]

Same...turned out to be just a somewhat funny video on how to avoid being like Brie haha yikes

[@joetedrick4798]

Yeah that’s the beauty of constructive criticism, it doesn’t feel like criticism really, more like guidance. It’s the best way to do these types of videos.

[@SheldonBird]

Unrelated, but I like your tree peace symbol picture. It was supposed to be that way long ago

[@pascalvanbeek6394]

Yes, he did this amazingly well! Very well thought out criticism, with also room for praise. Too bad that a lot of the commenters on this video didn't see it like that and are dead-set on hating her. Praise to CoC for not cherry picking, and praise to you for noticing!

[@RomanDiaries]

@@pascalvanbeek6394 Yeah. Shame to see the responses because I actually like her humor. I like dry humor and when things aren't in-your-face. Unfortunately, American media lacks subtlety and I feel like people assuming she's so serious about everything shows why that's the case.

[@ananyabommineni2986]

Soooooo, basically..... Chris Hemsworth is an amazing person? lol duh

[@lexaes11]

Ananya Bommineni wbk 💆‍♀️

[@tylermoses3897]

He is a very great guy and a very talented actor.

[@tylermoses3897]

@mary sunshine Of course his kid is strong. Thor is his dad 😂

[@AltijdReno]

Everyone but Brie Larson

[@XxThatGuyOverTherex1]

Basically the Marvel Chris' are all nice, and Brie Larson is socially tone-deaf.

[@deiz1083]

Basically, "Don't be a Brie Larson, be a Chris Pratt".

[@jhboob]

Or be a Russell Brand. Lol

[@deliarebaudengo5440]

'Be a man'

[@Alresu]

Well, "Be Chris Pratt" is the answer for many questions regarding charisma.

[@takitogoestoNY]

pretty much. sad but true

[@arjunarun9147]

Or be Hemsworth

[@downbad4urdad]

oh my god, I can barely watch the clips of that interview with Brie, Chris, and Don.. makes my skin crawl, so awkward and tense

[@deathmetalpotato]

CZ It’s the cringiest thing I’ve seen in years, I can’t stand her

[@G102Y5568]

You can tell from the way she's responding that she's thinking "I have to appear strong in this room full of men! I have to appear as a strong empowered woman and I can't let them have even one inch on me!" Real confident people don't feel the need to constantly fight for their honor, or treat every joke against them as a personal attack. That's what insecure people do. Yet for some reason Brie thinks differently.

[@MarianadeOliveiraSaitu]

@@G102Y5568 "Real confident people don't feel the need to constantly fight for their honor, or treat every joke against them as a personal attack. That's what insecure people do." Can I share this quote on my facebook? If you want credits you can give me your name, although I don't think you would want that

[@playboy6548]

@@MarianadeOliveiraSaitu you should not have said him "although i don't think you would want that"

[@arizlunastroir96]

I just scrolled down to the comments cuz I couldn't take it- I'm almost hyperventilating.

[@beetalius]

She could have been a MASSIVE star. But she shat on it with her personality

[@kabayong_longgadog6969]

You know the cringy memories you suddenly remember at night? Yea this is a lot cringier

[@madee111]

WildeBeans best comment

[@samarium1934]

You have to keep pause when she's on screen to stop from cringe overdose

[@kabayong_longgadog6969]

@@samarium1934 jeez I thought I was the only one...

[@galgalimeyes91]

I always have those....it ruin my life

[@ManSeekingMeaning]

Literally made me chuckle and almost snort aloud. This. This comment is the best in this whole thread.

[@BasicShapes]

Brie: I'm in charge. Chris: *puts on character* Of course you are! Yes! Of course. It's you. Of cooouurrse!

[@starchild2121]

Brie: is that a personal attack?

[@loop5720]

Chris: *Asks Marvel to give THOR's Stormbreaker to him that's made out of real metal to show Brie who's the real GOD*

[@Tachyon836]

Lmao

[@rhetiq9989]

That last of course he pulled off real cynically, as if he’s getting ready to pull a knive out of his back at any time when Quill ain’t lookin lol that’s where Thor claims leadership

[@NortheasternGuy]

This comment is genius

[@denellesonn]

I bet there is a group chat with all the MCU heroes and she's not included.

[@joannechoi8476]

Eh, the original 6 avengers have a famous group chat; the MAJORITY of the other MCU actors aren't included (this is not particular to Brie Larson).

[@omnianima4540]

@@joannechoi8476 Sheesh imagine they let a fan in from time to time

[@joannechoi8476]

Omnianima Nah, I think they want to keep that group chat really tight and exclusive (even most of the other MCU actors aren’t invited, from what I know)

[@stealthis]

Recycling isn't just for plastic. Recycled comments are worst.

[@rc9006]

Lol

[@ed.z.]

I I could could time travel back 50 years I’d take this video back with me. Such great insights for self improvement.Much thanks.

[@AtomicHaven]

As a person with Aspergers who doesn't know how to converse. I think this channel is really helpful.

[@heyhorinshi]

Watch some situational comedies, note why you find some stuff funny and that will stick with you in the future you may find something like that funny or even crack a joke! Be chill you can be a lot of things you don’t need to be funny too find your strength

[@TheNukebooster]

ayy my brother has aspergers too, gonna send this to him

[@lilgreenyodaman]

My husband has Aspergers and I have BPD see a lot of these traits in both of us, I'm going to show him this video as well.

[@calisongbird]

Alex Haven Blackburn “conversate” is not actually a word....

[@irulan9161]

@@calisongbird True. It's "Converse", but everyone hates the grammar police, so...

[@bickle8931]

Don chedel was straight up not having a good time

[@gamegiant5136]

Facts, I couldn't tell if he was being playful but then I remembered, she's Brie Larson

[@p.atrick.]

Nice meme reference.

[@Red-Tape-Rending]

I wouldn't either, in his shoes.

[@Monika-bc3dq]

He actually talked about that interview later, saying it wasn't like that and people watching and attacking Larson did not get the interview at all. Renner didn't like her tho.

[@jolosarmiento7382]

Monika damage control probably

[@Dredan143]

The avengers cast have perfected that friendly, jokie banter they do with each other when they’re in interviews and you can tell Brie just doesn’t get it.

[@gemmapecorinigoodall9133]

They've also been doing it for 10 years and this is her first time - they have history and she was thrust in there.

[@Praying_ManTas]

@@gemmapecorinigoodall9133 Lol it has little to do with how long one has been cast in Avengers for.

[@Dredan143]

@@gemmapecorinigoodall9133 While I agree that may factor in it, very few have been doing it the whole 10 years. The cast has grown and grown with every year and this is the only time I've seen someone just not mesh well.

[@DomHowardsFluoPants]

@Sav Drako he's British, banters part of our culture. Best friend ? A shall call him a nonce. That's how we work. She wouldnae last 1 min over here

[@Luke-kc9li]

brie reminds me of a feminist always having to wear the pants wherever she goes and nobody can stand being around her for more than 30 seconds

[@tessapuccini9788]

Reading positive intent in an ambiguous situation - Sarcasm requires a 'tell- You should not call into every opportunity to draw attention to yourself - You should not try to win over each moment or banter - Handling a complement (with humor), playfully with humor. Sincere thanking the other person ❤

[@mikemick7543]

brie larson stunts interview before chris hemsworth...No, it really all came out of ignorance, to be honest. I didn’t realize that you don’t actually do your own, most people don’t do their own stunts in these movies. I thought you did, and I’ve never been a particularly elegant or athletic person. I’m just an introvert with asthma and felt like I needed to be able to do that. I just thought, “I don’t wanna be on set, and they ask me to do things, and I don’t know how to do it.” So I started training as soon as I could, which was right after I wrapped, so it basically started right as I wrapped picture, I locked picture on the film that I directed. I then went into that, which then turned into nine months of training. And nine months of just training-training, and three months of stunt training with the stunt team. We spent two hours every day, five days a week. And it wasn’t until … everyone just went along with it, and was like, “Cool.” It wasn’t until we started shooting, and I started doing all my own wire work stunts, and flips and stuff that people were like, “You know nobody, now we’ll tell you, nobody actually does this. We just didn’t want you to stop. But now that you’ve kind of accomplished this thing, we don’t normally do this.” And I was like, huh?

[@mikemick7543]

People come here to learn about Charisma. Instead this video is so hateful, it is just plain hypocritical. Charismatic people don't put down the personalities or awkward moments of other people. That is just being a mean person. The male actors are all lauded for their wonderful personalities, while the flagrant on-air hostility by Marvel actor Don Cheadle toward Brie Larson is ignored. Instead, you target Brie Larson mercilessly, despite the fact that she never does anything horribly wrong. Something is really off here. It is obvious to me that you (and many of your readers) hate women. You need to stop bragging about your massive support garnered by this video and try to fix the harm you have done

[@mikemick7543]

People come here to learn about Charisma. Instead this video is so hateful, it is just plain hypocritical. Charismatic people don't put down the personalities or awkward moments of other people. That is just being a mean person. The male actors are all lauded for their wonderful personalities, while the flagrant on-air hostility by Marvel actor Don Cheadle toward Brie Larson is ignored. Instead, you target Brie Larson mercilessly, despite the fact that she never does anything horribly wrong. Something is really off here. It is obvious to me that you (and many of your readers) hate women. You need to stop bragging about your massive support garnered by this video and try to fix the harm you have done

[@kinderkarr]

brie larson stunts interview before chris hemsworth...No, it really all came out of ignorance, to be honest. I didn’t realize that you don’t actually do your own, most people don’t do their own stunts in these movies. I thought you did, and I’ve never been a particularly elegant or athletic person. I’m just an introvert with asthma and felt like I needed to be able to do that. I just thought, “I don’t wanna be on set, and they ask me to do things, and I don’t know how to do it.” So I started training as soon as I could, which was right after I wrapped, so it basically started right as I wrapped picture, I locked picture on the film that I directed. I then went into that, which then turned into nine months of training. And nine months of just training-training, and three months of stunt training with the stunt team. We spent two hours every day, five days a week. And it wasn’t until … everyone just went along with it, and was like, “Cool.” It wasn’t until we started shooting, and I started doing all my own wire work stunts, and flips and stuff that people were like, “You know nobody, now we’ll tell you, nobody actually does this. We just didn’t want you to stop. But now that you’ve kind of accomplished this thing, we don’t normally do this.” And I was like, huh?

[@jellybumfruitcakes]

Don Cheadle’s face during the interview is hilarious. He just looks like he’s had enough of it all.

[@justchilling704]

He did! I was laughing when he said “I told you not to touch it”.

[@Targisvear]

Well, maybe he read comics and is scared thinking he will have to play love interest to Captain Marvel in upcoming movies, and that might be awkward if they didn't get along, lol.

[@stevethea5250]

YES PLEASE BREAK DOWN RUSSEL BRAND

[@LuckySmurf]

He always looks like that.

[@proudbeaner696]

Or maybe ... hear me out ... he was going along with the meme and pretending to hate her . So that way bored shit talkers and trolls watch the video .

[@auzziemobboss5148]

The positive intent part instantly reminded me of Jack sparrow when he gets called the worst pirate and comes back with but you've heard of me

[@MrSpartanspud]

One of the most memorable moments of the franchise.

[@stefania5882]

Oh my God. That's actually a perfect example

[@alexablinson7379]

"Burr, you disgust me--" "Ah so you've discussed me." Same vibes honestly

[@OnxlyArtemis]

"I've got a jar of dirt,I've got a jar of dirt can't guess what's inside it."

[@neco5740]

Legendary but at the end actually not that good since a pirate doesn't want to be famous. That's like wanting to be a famous mugger

[@ernie3446]

Brie after watching this video: "Learned a lot from this, thank you vEeeERry much."

[@ricque2331]

More like "is this video a personal attack?"

[@ukaszsmith6851]

also "I don't see MEN getting similar treatment!"

[@ricque2331]

@Amon Ra is your assumption of my comment being a personal attack or something an actual personal attack?

[@greggonzales1556]

1000 like

[@samuelbooth7966]

😂

[@AA-yc3cc]

I always assumed Brie had been sarcastic and joking in all these interviews because I have the same sense of humor as hers. I was really surprised when people viewed it maliciously. It's the same way I'm sarcastic to an extent where you're just saying silly over the top things. It was a technique to make an uncomfortable situation more comfortable. But I used to make people feel awkward as well not realizing they weren't picking up on my jokes. I've since realized this and only go to this level of sarcasm with people I'm comfortable and closer with. People are more likely to assume negative intent with sarcasm even if you never mean it that way.

[@yunawinx]

i mean i’m one of the most sarcastic people and i could hardly tell if she was being serious or not because her tone not body language doesn’t change which is the point of sarcasm😭 otherwise u get someone who seems defensive

[@milliesaysokboomer]

I think it's the delivery of the sarcastic joke. I have the same problem. I have a personality that comes off as serious or quiet, and this bleeds into my sarcasm as well. it all really depends on what people already think of you.

[@aquilifergroup]

It’s not a sense of humor. It’s being unpleasant

[@incarnate3276]

Personally I find sarcasm the funnier, the more serious the delivery is. Making it obvious, makes it to shallow for me.

[@ncs9059]

Same... I thought that was the point of sarcasm. I also thought the example of "good" sarcasm with the eye squint was much more serious and I thought she was genuinely offended saying "thats my family".

[@XiyuYang]

She doesn’t seem rude but very very defensive, constantly uncomfortable in these scenes. I wonder if there’s any event in her personal life happened.

[@lauraberg6272]

She came from Indie work and critically acclaimed work, so maybe she's a little insecure in a big franchise? Maybe that's it. She seemed so playful in the older interviews.

[@Saicofake]

Rude is still rude. Don't try to sugar coat it. She keeps trying to come out on top of each conversation. It is okay to be defensive but what's up with trying to win everything?

[@XiyuYang]

@@lauraberg6272 Yes she seemed like a different person in recent interviews, I do wonder what changed.

[@XiyuYang]

@@Saicofake Well trying to win everything is essentially being defensive, it doesn't necessarily mean she's rude. People can come off as rude and aggressive when they feel uncomfortable and threatened.

[@BootyBot]

@Xiyu Yang Yeah. Autism happened.

[@elliottdennis2014]

Imagine getting offended on your fictional characters behalf

[@MichaelJakcsonMusic]

Modern Feminism at it's finest

[@amiigogameshd7094]

@@MichaelJakcsonMusic might as well call the police

[@thomasbrown7328]

@@amiigogameshd7094 lol right- he offended my fake character

[@lollipopsfordays3610]

Isn’t that what this whole woke era is based upon-being offended on someone or something else’s behalf. When we see it played out in immediate context it’s glaringly obvious how obnoxious, unbecoming and unproductive it is.

[@oapeleftherotisaftistisepo9540]

@@lollipopsfordays3610 except, your character is still an extention of yourself. So woke culture is much worse.

[@aakashupadhyay7075]

Google: Would Brie Larson workout? Brie : *So you have chosen death*

[@lizipearlvlogs]

😂 It is a weird way to word the question, but obviously not meant to be offensive. I really hope she was joking because I loved her in Scott Pilgrim vs The World.

[@r.a.k4390]

@@lizipearlvlogs I'm pretty sure she was

[@aymane974]

Having a conversation after watching these videos feels like a chess game 😂

[@bartsimpson8330]

It’s not it’s just you overthinking it. 1. Someone comments you negative way then respond positive 2. Stay humble by making a joke about yourself at times. 3. Don’t take things too serious

[@alexanderheffernan2946]

As someone who tries to keep all conversation light, this video physically hurt me to watch

[@anaklusmosgreek3198]

when you are with savages, its hard i know

[@kileymcdonnel6705]

Bruh same

[@kenny5450]

Bro it really do be like that and tbh it’s annoying sometimes

[@CabezasDePescado]

wat

[@amyt4340]

She's so rude 🤨

[@Barzhan13]

Reading negative intent is the most off-putting characteristic there is. It really kills any energy in the room.

[@makegainz4218]

I used to do this often. Thank God I changed a couple years back.

[@nitramwin]

So true. I didn't know there was a term for this but I've met several people who followed this approach and it is just so tiring.

[@megaraouf5976]

All SJWS

[@bjarnivalur6330]

Is that, like, a personal attack or something

[@obilim2155]

I always feel like I have to please these people, it's really frustrating

[@Athena0236]

I find the fifth point especially interesting from a cultural perspective. In some cultures people tend not to accept compliments because they are educated to “stay humble” or even to deny compliments. A typical (yet unfortunate) example is when someone praises a child for his/her academic achievements, parents brush it off as the child “just being lucky”

[@Laf631]

The example in the video isn't her downplaying a compliment, though; it's her using it as another opportunity to keep the "fight" with Chris going. She says "that's really nice, I'm still stronger than you though." If she had said "that's really nice, but I think you're exaggerating" or something like your example, it would have read completely differently.

[@thomasflury8836]

In England, just assume every statement is sarcasm

[@BitcoinMotorist]

Perhaps you ought to take the plank out of your own eye before looking in mine

[@ihopeicanchangethisnamelat7108]

@@BitcoinMotorist I don’t know what that meant, but I’m assuming it was sarcasm

[@Leto85]

If you've typed that commend directly from England I know what to do now.

[@specialunit0428]

@@Leto85 lol

[@aivreescend7945]

You have some england-y name so i must take your comment as a sarcasm, so that means every statement made by englishman are actually literal.

[@TheSuperNats]

Based on those interviews, she’s the opposite of Emilia Clarke

[@Lucke189]

Emilia Clarke is so fake it's off-putting though

[@pijno]

I agree. Emily is a very lovely person that seems fun to hang out with.

[@Who-vd3iv]

The worst part is she was not like it before.

[@creaturesoul4469]

I went from watching a video about Anna Kendrick to this video and the difference in personality between Brie and her is giving me whiplash XD

[@kimia1664]

TheSuperNats lol that’s exactly what I was gonna say 😂

[@davids5980]

Shout out to Aubrey Plaza. The queen of sarcasm.

[@UnholyNekochan]

Aubrey is Daria in real life

[@camerontaylor7471]

Literally “LOL” so hard at that clip! The softness of the answer in contrast with the crudeness of the sarcasm AND the balance of factual validity to both... FLAWLESS EXECUTION!

[@masquerades4316]

Queen of interviews in general.

[@davids5980]

Stevie & The Masquerades lol yes. She’s so refreshingly authentic...from what i can tell

[@JosephDeLosSantos-t3m]

dude, since dirty grandpa I loved her the moment she spoke. Amazing comic and naturally funny

[@czr7j9]

Just be yourself and if people take it the wrong way then it is their problem.

[@jarondratman]

WIRED: "Brie Larson answers your questions" Brie Larson: _doesn't answer questions because she doesn't like them_

[@gardener_jojo]

Wired? Rather weird

[@albertheguy]

@@gardener_jojo No. The person meant WIRED magazine who did an interview with Brie Larson.

[@potatoeradicator803]

Asari 702 woosh

[@4pm462]

@@potatoeradicator803 you're wrong.

[@potatoeradicator803]

PM double woosh

[@mikeharrison469]

Russell Brand's response, while funny and charismatic, wasn't necessarily trying to win over his opposition, he was subtly calling the dude a dingus

[@jjeffjames4953]

That guy was in fact a dingus

[@Dcookies100]

@Gary Abbott It's just a cultural thing like he said. It's all subjective :)

[@Dcookies100]

@Gary Abbott I love both flat and over the top deliveries, he was just talking about how it is in the US.

[@steelmadness2903]

I’m not good at aspects of my job, and yet I keep advancing and the higher ups tell me how much they like me and how well I get along with my supervisors and peers.

[@Chaotic_Monk43]

It's frustrating, because when she wasn't made into a symbol and was just doing her own thing, she came across as the nicest person. But now it feels like she's taking being the first female lead in the MCU super seriously and has alowed herself to become defensive and irritable. It must have been difficult with all the attention, I just hope she adapts and looses the chip on her shoulder.

[@TheFrancescanater]

She probably doesn't believe it herself. everyone else has had years to adapt and now she's having to consistently justify being one of the biggest names in the mcu to everyone. I could see how she'd get defensive. looked really anxious in a lot of those recent clips.

[@RubyChiang]

George Birkin Now that you mention it, Brie did mention that she liked being out of the spotlight better than being in the spotlight. Perhaps, she is feeling the pressure and thinks that she is now a superhero, and that she thinks she has to meet certain expectations. I feel this might just be a situation where Brie needs to get used to her new surrounding, because she might just be overwhelmed by it.

[@zimikkachui5766]

@Gi Gi Marvel fans did not attack her as soon as she become Marvel. Being a part of Marvel Universe means she has to know the Universe. Pretty much everyone in the Marvel has funny, humble and great person thing in real life too. People are not gonna be contend with your on screen performance. Marvel us more than that. Her condescending nature and floating above everyone else isn't a great way to introduce yourself especially since everyone in Marvel gets along well and never try to upstage one another and the newer actors have been very respectful of the guys who have been there longer

[@almerakbar]

@Gi Gi Well, being defensive is the worst way to react to hate and criticism as you seem like you're threatened

[@bmla88]

Brie larson is like a completely different person in that craig ferguson interview

[@ahamedjunaid01]

She is consumed by that Oscar, apparently

[@brijeshchandrakar]

Maybe more has to do with Craig Ferguson.

[@arm_613]

@@brijeshchandrakar Also, a solo interview with no "competition"

[@felipeinarejo9308]

Before and after feminism I think

[@SubjectE57]

I wonder why she is so bitter now, been hanging out with the wrong crowd.

[@abhishekray4242]

Random guy: You're breathtaking! Keanu Reeves: No, YOU are breathtaking!

[@legg8866]

Brie Larson: "No I'm breathtaking."

[@doomnationalist]

@@legg8866 Lol that killed me

[@cliffordbenenati7373]

@@legg8866 Me: "No you're not! 🙃"

[@thederpwad8282]

@@legg8866 The Senate will decide your fate

[@kingnut1565]

I like how this is barely related to the vid and still manages to get 1k likes lol

[@MrSzymonurai]

These videos are incredibly useful. This helps people who never get to practice their social skilss

[@Untouched77]

Im so scared im like this and dont know lmao

[@lawjent]

Same. Nervous that I may not even realize I'm like her, or worry that others dont tell me because of the frustration/hate/tiredness towards me. Always feel defensive, but I am unsure if I come across like her

[@jenellsmith7206]

Same

[@minamiyah_6124]

Same

[@maryjanehansen7947]

Well from what I can tell, you seem to have less confidence in yourself and that's Brie Larson's problem that she has too much and thinks that she is or her character is better than everybody else. Don't worry.

[@Nonyah123]

write it down every time you catch yourself being sarcastic or complaining, people tend to get annoyed of that! try to brighten the conversation you're a part of

[@namisa33]

Moral of the story: Not everybody is out to get you.

[@siriuslot4708]

Always assume positive intent. That's the ultimate recipe for peace of mind - life's darn too hard anyway

[@dominicabollig1918]

I have this problem with my teenage daughter 🙄😩

[@trivunkonjik7413]

@@dominicabollig1918 i have the same problem with my younger sister, whatever i tell her she thinks im being mean even tho im joking...

[@juju-be4279]

Facts

[@eddietasker9110]

@@siriuslot4708 just a thought, but maybe life's hard because of an expectation of kindness from people, people aren't always kind the same way people aren't always out to get you. Imo, the best way to approach anyone is neutrality in your expectations, that way you don't paint an unrealistic expectation on either good or bad side. From experience, expecting nothing at all from people has helped me dramatically improve my social skills, judgement and appreciation for those who are positive influences and its lead to me identifying the negative people which helps with eliminating them as quickly as possible.

[@ronwrong-ef6ws]

actor John Goodman does have one good friend who happens to be a newly minted Oscar winner: Brie Larson. "I love her. She is so charismatic. She would organize - she was like the only girl there, on set... every weekend she would organize stuff to do for people," he said of his Kong: Skull Island costar. "We'd go look at kangaroos and she'd organize a trip to an amusement park after they closed. Just stuff for people to do. Because she's over-sensitive about people getting nervous and angry and on each other's nerves. She's incredible."

[@MinkytheMinkY]

Could you do more off-putting personalities? Seems like taking yourself too seriously backfires.

[@amaracea]

It does seem that way, doesn’t it? “Too” is an excessive word though. Taking yourself seriously at all backfires.

[@campkira]

She try to be RDJ....

[@amaracea]

campkira Honestly Robert is sort of cringey sometimes too lol

[@iamwhoyousayiam6773]

@@amaracea He's not; he's very charismatic and he really sells Tony Stark. Larson sells etiquette classes. If everyone in the room seems uncomfortable when you're around, *see a social coach.*

[@LostCourage]

DmC: Devil May Cry would be a great subject for off-putting personalities when compared to Devil May Cry 3, 4 and 5's likeable characterization.

[@Lynn-r7x]

So she is hella insecure is what I took from this lol

[@nmart1n]

Lynn that is what I thought

[@Ambrooks83]

I picked that up as well, but I think it's partially due to the fact that she's so new to the MCU and their culture of camaraderie, she's comes off as a bit too competitive as if she trying to prove herself among the ranks of these big hollywood names.

[@AlexanderCheff]

Wow no wonder I hate her as much as I hate myself

[@syfico]

I'm also insecure, been an introvert my whole life but guess what. There is no one that dislikes me on a personal level. I'm simply humble and share a bit of me that you can joke around with. That's not me bragging, although you insecure people might interpret it that way.

[@destinygordon2279]

She was a very unknown actor before these movies, though. Then all of a sudden she starts to work with some of the biggest actors in the world after dealing with a lot of mental heath issues regarding her self esteem and her anxiety. I think they joke with her too much because they are used to working with confidant well known actors, and when she takes offense they play her out to be the bad guy because they aren't sensitive enough to who she is, where she came from, and what shes been through

[@KrypticWarrior2]

seems like she is expecting to be insulted, which if you have that mindset you will be offended by every joke

[@suma9684]

Exactly, I personally know a few people like that

[@Meme-go9ts]

I think Chris Hemsworth and the other actor (pardon... I don't really follow Marvel movies) had offended her prior to the interview in some way. It's clear that she's trying to rise above it while also pointing out that something happened and being ("subtly") sarcastic. The fact that it's two of them sitting on the sides and her cramped in the middle... doesn't work for anyone.

[@vindeep1421]

yeah right

[@erickpuma1202]

@@Meme-go9ts 1) she's and actress, she could, you know... Act as if nothing happened, should that be the case of contention. 2)if they are in bad terms, then something must have happened prior to the interview, and I'm willing to bet that since she is very hard (and unlikable) to deal with, she's as much to be blamed for (maybe even more) than the other two.

[@aylayzrianne]

It's almost as if she isn't... She's one of the, if not THE most hated person in the MCU. When you think everyone's trying to attack you you'll naturally get defensive.

[@DeeperCurrents]

If you look for bad intentions you will find things that make it appear as if there are bad intentions everywhere, it will poison every interaction and situation in life. Assume good intention, protect incase it is actually bad

[@osse1n]

*My TOP 3* - Arrogant - Talk about themselves and their problems all the time - Want to be liked by everybody

[@LarissaCerqueira]

That's what 99% of people do really.

[@freeman7297]

The last one is true but seems almost counterintuitive. In order to be liked, you have to stop wanting to be liked by everybody. Pretty confusing but powerful if used correctly

[@thegreatest9173]

There is nothing wrong with 3

[@LarissaCerqueira]

@@freeman7297 maybe that's just how she is, she doesn't want to be liked by everybody, otherwise she could play the sweet charismatic woman who everyone enjoys to watch, instead she's herself and that gets people mad. I've seen several male actors act the same way as her, but people encourage their attitude.

[@wiryx1]

@@thegreatest9173 But there is! If you want everyone to like you and to fit into everyones tastes you end up being a shapeless dull bulb of boredom and fake - that's bad if I have to tell you :)

[@aaa098-a]

At McDonalds: Would you like a free size up? Brie: I'm not fat.

[@simraarif4163]

😂

[@SoyandPepper]

I loled

[@fashvr9961]

😂😂

[@razoredge8284]

then she calls the manager

[@_AmericanTraveler]

JUST LIKE THAT

[@hckytwn3192]

It's hilarious that Aubrey Plaza---whose 'awkwardness' is her defining trait---is 100x more likable than Brie Larson.

[@georgejoseph7519]

Lady Gaga is another

[@justinz9225]

Exactly. Aubrey knows how to brilliantly walk that line. Because she's a decent actress and comedian. I'm shocked Brie ever got a callback with how flat and offputting she is.

[@Retrostar619]

Aubrey is self-aware, that's the difference.

[@randomvegetarian]

I love Aubrey’s awkward comedy because she owns it and she’s actually aware of it

[@rmar7081]

It seems like a nightmare to deal with Brie. I will not watch one movie of hers. I even rush to exit the commercials.