Uncomfortable Questions to Deepen Relationships

[@10kellylynn]

Her micro expressions make me so sad. I hope she finds herself and gets out of this abuse.

[@Christiansstillstruggle]

??? What do you mean?

[@raedenesimson1470]

Oh, I’m sure that Nate needs soooo much praise. I imagine that Sutton hears so many excuses from Nate. Just in these videos, Nate just can’t handle criticism.

[@gatkinson08]

Great info. I have one suggestion. Instead of asking “is there something I can pray for?” Which could lead to a simple “no” answer, ask “how can I pray for you?” I have a friend who asks me this regularly and it is such a great question to show she cares.

[@mimad4923]

Nate should really not be out here giving anyone relationship advice lol

[@char153]

I disagree, I think they have show to be really great role models. They have shown to be strong in their faith and serious about putting that into practice in their lives and sharing that with the world. This video was an excellent example of how they strengthen relationships with the people in their lives, and I will be using these examples they shared in my own life.

[@Fluffysocks3124]

Right 😂 like the audacity these people have to think they’re experts enough to “give advice.” Blows my mind.

[@mimad4923]

@@char153 he's a great role model if you want to learn how to professionally gaslight and emotionally abuse your spouse.

[@mimad4923]

@MesZion a self-possessed narcissist who continually disrespects his wife is not a "good Christian" by literally ANY standard. Your bar is so freaking low. Get it together.

[@azayakanna]

one of the most unhealthy relationships I’ve seen on KZbin

[@denleythiessen4038]

Sutton I hope you are ok. Something doesn’t seem right, and I just hope you are safe.

[@N00019]

Nate is the type to get jealous of his kids when Sutton pays more attention to their kids than him.

[@dysonwitwer6430]

Why is there constant hate in the comments for Nate. The disrespect is unreal.

[@N00019]

@@dysonwitwer6430 it's not disrespect, yall just hate hearing the truth.

[@dysonwitwer6430]

@@N00019 go bother some other couple in real life by always trash talking the male member. I bet your relationships are all fantastic!

[@N00019]

@@dysonwitwer6430 my relationships and life are fantastic. Probably because I'm not a douchebag who abuses his kids and shames his wife's body when she is post-partum like Nate does.

[@mpat100]

TROLL

[@ZachGoulet]

Y’all are rockstars! Thanks for always being authentic and helpful at building others up in Christ! 🤜🏻🤛🏻

[@CoC_everyday]

I'm a silent viewer for a long time and I love the content you put out...but girl, he really isn't much of a partner. Hope you get out of the abuse and so obvious gaslighting he does. This isn't really a good example for the kids

[@ladyhomemaker-McKalyn]

I’ve been rewatching this video each time I’m about to have a friend over so that I can be armed with some good questions!! So thankful for you all and your advice! Love you!

[@oliviajunep]

The amount of comments praising them is terrifying. My heart aches for you girl, I pray you see the truth someday about the abuse you’re experiencing… I was in a relationship almost identical to yours and one day I finally saw what was happening. I will pray for you, God bless

[@mjhanse7508]

The Questions: 1)What is one thing you don't want me to know about you? 2)What has been your most consuming thought lately? 3)Is there something I do that gets on your nerves? 4)Is there something you might have seen me doing that hurts my relationship with God? 5)How is your walk with God presently? 6)In what area of your life do you think you need growth in and what area of your life are you excelling? 7) Is there something in your life I can pray for?

[@Fallout_Girl_1997]

I used to love watching these two. However I don't think I can get behind someone who pushes their wife to work out only a few months after having a baby. Sutton isn't even out of shape even when she had her third baby. She's gorgeous and has literally never been "fat" in her life...yet she "needs to go to the gym"? Like WTF? I've heard other disturbing comments from Nate about Sutton not taking her health seriously and not working out like she "should". Like exercise is important for everyone but like i said she isn't out of shape at all. Also talk about getting her "back in action" even tho she had recently gave birth and just other insensitive comments about Sutton and women in general. It kinda gives off "women are just objects and should just obey shut up & birth babies" kinda vibes. To me it kinda feels like he doesn't see women as actual people. For the record I do believe in commitment & the covenant of marriage. I don't believe in divorcing over everything but I also believe in treating your spouse like a human being and not a sexual object or trophy or someone that needs to look exactly the way you want in order for you to be happy. I hope Nate repents from this and I still wish the best for their marriage and for God's blessings upon them.

[@hb9018]

You can’t make such damning conclusions about a person’s character when you don’t know them personally. Your comment comes across as holier than thou and judgmental. You are projecting your own insecurities and woundedness perhaps.

[@IJustMovedHere]

Anyone else think Nate gives off family annihilator vibes?

[@jaeramirez6397]

100%

[@abundantgrace540]

Lol! You two are hilarious! I love the spirit behind your videos. It’s the spirit of “Helps”. Isn’t it wonderful when God gives you the desire to do what you can to encourage others to grow in love and deeper relations with those He places in your life? When I pray daily for the list of people God has given me, I ask for salvation for those who are not saved and that for the rest of us who are, that we would be increased in Hope, Faith and Love but the greatest increase may it be Love. It is uplifting to see you two have a desire to share ways others can grow deeper in relationship with each other, praying for and encouraging one another! Another great video Nate and Sutton, thank you so much!

[@nateandsutton]

Thank you so much for the encouragement! 💛

[@nancydroge7682]

CELEBRATORY hearts for you here in Michigan! (Nate, I laughed so hard when you commented on your wish to be celebrated!) Nate & Sutton, you are loved & celebrated… far beyond what I believe you imagine right now! Romans 12:15 comes to mind as there are those of us out here who weep with you when it feels as though you are down, rejoice with you when you are rejoicing… & everything in between! Sometimes, I wonder if you aren’t aware of the incredibly deep appreciation for the two of you out here… right now… in the very space & season that you are in! (Remember, only one came back to thank Jesus.) What God is doing in & through you is changing lives for the better & furthering the kingdom! Is there anything more meaningful & powerful than that?! My question for you is~ What to you, is the relationship between view numbers & the fruits of what you do? This is different, but I wonder what would happen if Jesus was unwilling to show up for a party of one? Thank you for every single time that you have shown up for us, for HIM! Gifted you, HE has! Watching you is much like opening an irreplaceable gift straight from the hands of God! Excellent content tonight per your always & your senses of humor… 💞 Thank you! ~GRATEFUL, CELEBRATORY Hearts for IRREPLACEABLE YOU!

[@markmoore8399]

"Nate likes it. He loves it. He wants some more of it." 🤣

[@kimlock1864]

Another great video! Keep being rooted in Christ and His word. This middle-aged wife and mom of 3 adult children would’ve loved to have this channel around when I was young. You are a blessing and a Godly influence for many.

[@nateandsutton]

Thank you so much for the encouragement 💛

[@bobjones2460]

@@nateandsutton Can you give me advice as a young guy with a heart problem struggling with feelings of jealousy when seeing other men with beautiful women and wanting to enjoy life while I can, while at the same time looking forward to heaven and preparing to be pure and what to expect when the time comes. Any suggestions would be welcome!

[@eden-caledoniajohn3168]

Sutton are you ok? You seem distant and sad in this video, although you are clearly trying to hide it. I know only too well that a beautiful smile can often be a mask for a hurting heart.I am praying for you, the last few years have been tough on everyone. Love from a sister in Christ in Scotland.xx

[@nateandsutton]

Hi! Thank you for the care but I am good! It’s a common thing that people assume I’m sad I our videos, I’m not sure why? Maybe I have a sad resting face? I’m not sure. People used to think I had a mad resting face so I think I’ll take sad over mad 🤣 but no, I’m good!

[@nateandsutton]

Hi! Thank you for the care but I am good! It’s a common thing that people assume I’m sad I our videos, I’m not sure why? Maybe I have a sad resting face? I’m not sure. People used to think I had a mad resting face so I think I’ll take sad over mad 🤣 but no, I’m good!

[@eden-caledoniajohn3168]

@@nateandsutton I’m so glad, apologies if I offended you. God bless

[@emz5390]

These would make good journaling prompts to ask myself too. I've been wanting some deep Christian friendships, but I realize that in order to even have conversations like these, first I have to contemplate these things on my own.

[@josalmon4742]

I think the opposite. Sharing too much results in them throwing you under the bus. Small groups at church, love you to share. Don’t do it. Only with a super longtime friend maybe share or your spouse. Watch what you share. Most people won’t go deep but they love to hear your deep thoughts. I’m 68 and a 50 yr old friend dumped me and two 25 yr old friends threw me under the bus. I was real and they weren’t!!! Be very careful what you share!!!

[@josalmon4742]

Don’t ask these questions, only with your spouse!!!!!!!!!!!

[@nateandsutton]

Sounds like maybe you didn’t have the right friends. We have hopes that people have good, lifelong, strong friendships that they can use these questions to connect deeper with them

[@josalmon4742]

One was a former minister and the other two were dear church friends.

[@josalmon4742]

Please don’t say this as a response to anyone else. It is very hurtful. They were my friends but for whatever reason they turned. I don’t interview people for friends especially at 16 and 40 yrs old. I trust easily but I’ve learned to not share. Now that my husband died a year ago these people have chosen to be entitled and tell me what to do. I’ve been very hurt. I’ve learned. This was true confession to help younger people.

[@raegan_price]

@@josalmon4742 just because people have sinned and hurt you doesn’t mean God doesn’t want you to have deep pure connection with people to bless you. You’re missing out by choosing to be hurt again. I have new friends and old who love the Lord and can be trusted. But If they choose to gossip or leave, I will trust God and thank Him for that fellowship while it lasted and pray for new and better friendship.

[@lydiaboone256]

wow... thank yall so much for this. Its so uplifting to hear true and biblical advice on a platform that is filled so so many lies. can yall make a video on the steps of a relationship and like the steps of friends to dating and what biblical dating should be? also like just in general how to be in a relationship that is focused on God. (from a teen pov:)

[@melodyescobedo7188]

I love this cause I always do Question of the Day with my co workers, thank you Nate and Sutton! ❤

[@nateandsutton]

Ooo that’s fun! Love that idea!

[@michelinedellevi3906]

May God Almighty continue blessing you Nate and Sutton !

[@nateandsutton]

💛💛

[@YourMommaisonYoutube]

Noticing they don't ask any questions about you on the first date. 🚩🚩🚩

[@amywalsh4006]

Do you have a video specifically on conversations that you can have with someone you're dating? The conversations I have with my boyfriend tend to just be the mundane stuff like updating on what's been happening with work, anything interesting we've gotten up to etc. We're long-distance at the moment so it's challenging sometimes trying to learn more about each other and develop our relationship from afar.

[@nateandsutton]

Yes! I (sutton) made a video by myself once that was questions to ask on a first date!

[@elisabethizzy77]

You guys seem so kind and welcoming as well ! That comes through on camera even .

[@nateandsutton]

Aw thank you! 💛

[@laurencrandall7997]

Love y’all! Wish my hubby and I could have you guys over for dinner!! We’d have the BEST discussions and if it weren’t for our kids bedtimes, we’d talk til midnight I’d imagine!! God bless y’all ❤

[@nateandsutton]

Haha Aw! Who knows! Maybe one day that could actually happen 😏

[@thegreatexchange6581]

Lauren I was thinking the same things! Count us in too 😅😉

[@Bea94Spacca]

Loved these questions: such an eye opener 😊❤🙏

[@raising_boys]

That was great and very useful! ❤😊

[@debwhite5281]

You have to have a friend first.

[@cassiliev1053]

I hope I’m apart of the “all 3 of you” because I love your videos 🤩🤩

[@jenniferthompson5146]

I love you all’s sense of humor 😄

[@supermick3000]

Loved these!

[@naomiferreira8255]

Great video and Sutton you look so lovely 😉🥳

[@nateandsutton]

Aw thank you! 🥰

[@brendakelp685]

I would love to see a video on your plans to sell your home & how all of that is going, I know that must be a big & hard decision, but I do know it will all work out as God leads & directs you, God Bless

[@nateandsutton]

Yes we will definitely be keeping y’all posted on that journey! 🙏🏽

[@nadinebax8610]

You guys are so funny! And thanks for this content

[@nataliegill1838]

I'm so glad yall are back with another video!!! I hope yall are doing okay. Wish you all the best.

[@caitlinmelgar8534]

Love this! Some of these questions even made me reflect on my life haha

[@Dylandoespushups]

Amazing vid! I am definitely going to ask these questions. You guys do a great job of bringing God into the picture, which I totally admire!

[@bridgetteblueeyesandgoodvi3853]

Its like did u just invite me over to watch u play on your phone?

[@bridgetteblueeyesandgoodvi3853]

Im so glad u made this video because i always want to talk about deeper things but i just dont know how to introduce them ... Yay 😁

[@nateandsutton]

Exactly

[@lovemysons3507]

I just wanna to let you know that we truly enjoy your videos and thank you to all the effort you put into it 💗💗

[@nateandsutton]

Thank you so much!

[@calebhopkins8158]

I hope no one takes “advice” from this horribly toxic and awful “Christian” relationship. This is not healthy. This is not normal. This relationship is built on religious oppression and they both have the emotional maturity of a child. The saddest part is that they think they’re “fulfilling God’s plan” by making these videos. Genuinely feel sorry for them. They have so much growing up to do.

[@emilyriggio6557]

Loved this! Relationships are my new years resolution. Also, poor Nate, someone celebrate him! 🍾

[@eeg122]

@Sutton - you don't look sad to me. You were just fine. Maybe a little tired but my gosh that is normal when you have 3 kiddos. I have one left in the house (1st year of uni attends close by) and he sure tires me out too (emotionally & physically)...

[@nateandsutton]

Thank you 💛💛

[@Maaikemusic1dance]

wish i could be your friend haha! But my husband and i live in the Netherlands. But loves your videos, so authentic and soooo funny!

[@nateandsutton]

Thank you! 💛💛

[@irinak3106]

Can I ask where you bought the chair you are sitting on Sutton? Have been looking for something that looks like it for a while.

[@nateandsutton]

Yes! I got them at Marshall’s! They’re technically outdoor chairs but we have them inside :)

[@irinak3106]

Thanks!

[@wandertree]

Really great questions! Maybe the first one I wouldn't do unless this is a tested and true friendship, but I really loved the rest. :)

[@juliannekauffman]

Sending to my husband right now so we can make some friends😅😂

[@nateandsutton]

🤣🙌🏽

[@hannatitley8272]

Please pray for my marriage 🙏❤️

[@katehb6038]

Not sure if you guys are aware, but this product was tested and showed it contains lead at a higher concentration than other mineral supps, and on its packaging states 'NOT suitable for children'.

[@jessicamorris2955]

I love you guys! I can relate to you y’all so much and your spirit! 😅 I’m finding more and more that the remnant is few and far between therefore finding it hard to make “friends” with the world. That is truly what is setting us apart in these last days.. but simultaneously I see where the Lord is pouring out his spirit more than before and stirring in so many with an outpouring of wisdom and knowledge for us to share like a blazing fire within!

[@Introvertedalpha]

It absolutely is fun having deep conversations! Great video. Thanks for sharing, guys! 😀

[@nataliegill1838]

Is AG1 safe for children?

[@nateandsutton]

Yes :)

[@jia-yinchan7873]

I think that Nate guy is a robot

[@malachi5518]

Hi

[@maryjmama46]

Please do make a video about looking at your phone when someone is talking to you. Would love to see that. Sutton, you had me laughing at the end. "You gotta look up when you say it. You gotta look up" 🤣

[@nateandsutton]

Hahah the things we have to think about when making a video 😆

[@mipan-9371]

Heyyy there guys👋👋👋

[@nateandsutton]

👋🏽👋🏽

[@jessicamarte2508]

Girl are you okay?!?! Get out

[@thegreatexchange6581]

All three of you 😅😅😅

[@HM-vb5uv]

Red flag 1 minute in

[@QuinoaChia]

Sob couple.

[@QuinoaChia]

@@MesZion jealous of what?? Their sob stories?

[@cmb4141]

I'm shocked at how rapidly these two are aging!