Unconditional Love (How to Love Unconditionally) - Teal Swan

Love is an identical vibration to appreciation. And appreciation is nothing more than positively focusing towards something. This means that unconditional love is the same as unconditional positive focus. A simpler way of putting this is that unconditional love is positive focus (appreciation) that is not conditional upon how another person acts. Now it is time to get real for a minute. How many of us on this earth are capable of that right now? Not many of us. And this should not make you feel bad about yourself because unconditional love and enlightenment are the exact same state. We know how difficult it is to reach enlightenment. It is a lifelong practice if not a multi lifetime practice for most beings. And we also know that enlightenment is not a goal that we reach. Instead, it is a horizon line that continues to move further into the future with every desire that we have and with every new perspective that we are introduced to. It is the same with unconditional love. Unconditional love is a practice, it is not a state we achieve and are then done practicing. There is no retirement from the practice of unconditional love.
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[@HanhNguyen-vj1pb]

"We are loved regardless of the condition." Thank you Teal.

[@blankearth5840]

What does this mean exactly?

[@zthehero]

@@blankearth5840 whether theres a condition or not, you are loved... prolly this.

[@Lonewolfalchemist]

@@blankearth5840 like the S on superman’s chest, he IS superman.. in our case, we ARE love.. as in we all have the capability to feel love so love is what we are, its in our heart center

[@danad.2207]

I love ur laugh teal.... I could be in the worst mood and hearing u giggle makes me smile everytime.

[@zthehero]

"If you are attached to them it becomes important to control the other person and how they act so that you can be happy and if they must change to make yoh happy, you don't unconditionally love them" ❤

[@peepthesitchtarot]

When I typed in "how to love unconditionally" I knew in my heart that Teal would pop up. I am not disappointed. Exactly what I needed.

[@GailM11]

I began listening to Abraham-Hicks a couple of years ago. I began contemplating and applying what I heard. Teal says pretty much the same thing as A-H, just in a different way at times. I have pleasantly discovered that what both say is true, at least in my life. I'm forever appreciative of these types of videos. My life has improved immensely because of the information I get from them. Teal, thank you.

[@kittykatfancy]

She's so freakin cute. My fave is when she gets amused by stuff and giggles.

[@danad.2207]

me too. I wondered if anyone else noticed how freaking adorable she is when she giggles. I love her giggle it makes me happy

[@valeria939]

We can only love another person when we love and accepted out own self as we are unconditionally. Don’t give up on the people. Its a long journey.

[@cristinamonsalve753]

Listening to Teal puts me in a gratitude frecuency. I love her teachings. Thank you so much for being here on Earth with us.

[@simon6447]

Teal, you are one of the best communicators of truth in these times. You bring wonderful no nonsense clarity. Thank you so much. I believe you will called on to speak to a wider and wider audience in time to come. I and many others send you all the energy we can for the enormous task you have ahead. Keep on. keep on and much Love.

[@SusiGwynneGalfe1966]

Not only are you easy on the eyes, your voice and tone make it easy for words to glide easily through the ears into our hearts and soul. I have introduced you to my adult daughter, she has taken to you in a positive way. I pray your words reach all areas that are in need for a awakening. Thank you for sharing your passion and knowledge of spirituality in a way that is new and much needed in todays world. Much love~

[@SA77888]

awww thats a really nice comment.....how sweet!!!!

[@summerssanctuary]

seriously your opening always connects me with something magical inside of me

[@aliceandchad]

Time and time again, so much insight and clarity. Teal has immensely changed my life since I discovered her a year ago. It’s amazing how much content she gives out, a true gift to this world. 💕

[@rosered3919]

thank you Teal. I have watched all your tubes this year, and this was the one I needed most. Four years of "unconditionally" loving my abusive partner saw me digging my own grave . Ive been out for near a year, but now am at the no contact phase. Time to unconditionally love myself and my little girl, time to love us. Gotta go watch your how to let go of guilt now...its not easy to walk away with a child. gotta clear the guilt to unconditionaly love myself and my wee one. thank youXXX

[@Starlink-X-K65]

Everything you say Teal, is so very very true and you are for me one of the very few teachers who really fascinates me: the way you bring the messages over, amazingly personal and honest. It feels like you are talking to me, not to a big audience. I enjoy every video of you. You are a true angel, brought to all of us. I am incredibly happy to have found you amongst all those thousands of youtube video's:).

[@dawnangela4364]

Beautiful message from a beautiful person

[@gmurday]

WOW....WOW...WOW...WOW...WOW.....WOW,,,,This Discourse is SO PERFECT SO SMOOTH AND SO SOOTHING

[@crm1217]

Wow! The absolute best talk on unconditional love I have ever heard as I have struggled with this for such a long-time! Total relief!!

[@tcilwa]

Teal, I am so glad you made this video. I am hopelessly in love with a younger woman and I thought I would try to love her unconditionally, but after watching your video I realize that its not really possible.

[@Chipmunk2007]

Unconditionally love is VERY possible. it's looking pass the negative and focusing on the positive and change the negatives to become positive. To mature or grow. not ignore the flaws but accept them because there is not one person on this planet without flaws. To Love all people on the planet is a highly VERY hard thing to do, but it is okay to dislike flaws. Accepting them is the part where people fail. Im kind of a hopeless romantic and LOVED LOVE. I have been hurt more than id like and divorce and even almost came close to giving up on love but God told me and showed me something different (Don't flip out! Yes I'm very much a christian. been that way since i was able to remember things. Imperfect and all) I have Always LOVED LOVE at the age of 2...NO Seriously but I never extended it to all people even ones I can't stand.i don't pretend to be perfect or be all-knowing but I realize to truly love is to look accept and look pass the flaws and help them become better. sometimes though flaws aren't bad they make that make that person who they are. love them anyways :)

[@rauxmedia]

A CONTEXT FOR ECSTASY The people in your life, without exception, are ALWAYS expressing, to the utmost of their capacity, their absolute love for you. The bound upedness of their capacity to express their absolute love for you, you mistake for their not loving you enough, their lack of appreciation, their lack of respect, their lack of care etc. Every interaction with another person consists ONLY of the highest expression they are capable of of their absolute love for you. All human expression, at the root, consists of varying degrees of a bound expression of absolute Love. Your knowing the above and your willingness to be blown away by the people in your life (just as they are) will generate the heat necessary to melt whatever needs to be melted. Miracles will occur.

[@robertkiraly6431]

+Mark Lesseraux Right you are - to be realistic, indeed; unconditional love is possible (even "love your enemy" is possible) but it is impersonal, mind you. The question might well be wether we (really) want that at this (whatever) juncture; there is a paradox about it that I don't bring up.

[@BeFeCa]

thank you for unconditionally loving our suffering and pain that most of us,i even dare to say all of us deny and supress teal. Thank you so much. You are the strongest women i ever attracted into my life. even tho it isnt face to face.

[@mw6267]

Just got a hindsight into the perceived abandonment in my childhood: if so, I was “abandoned” in order to meet Myself. Thank you, God for Your wisdom and patience. O am finally getting there, no matter how much is left- iam on the road 💖

[@wikedwhich1]

Exactly..Thankyou

[@alex-ander-13]

This is a huge realisation and confirmation for me. Thank you for sharing it!

[@essam8652]

DAMMMMMMNNN Girl! You hit it!! You freakin hit it. You are AMAZING!!! Thank you so so so so much for this video. Unbelievable timing and just ... boy.. you knocked it right on the head. Love you sis! Keep the vibes high... you know wha' I'm saying. You rock and you have people here that love you! Thank for being you! Es

[@glenniscannon7038]

Detachment and Attachment , vital points to know the difference and the benefits. Very well presented, many thanks to you Teal

[@Vodkatookthisname]

Teal Scott always makes me feel safe and happy, and her talks and interviews are always calming and inspiring, what I always fight myself about is that if we are trying to find our way back to source, then it is hard for me to feel completely satisfied with my current conscious state. I want to grow, but by stating that feel like I am telling myself that my current state is not perfect enough.

[@aini-aini]

I am grateful to find Teal. I'm a better person listening to Teal.

[@DOMOZORROORROZOMOD]

While I am blind. May I say ,I am proud of you for staying humble. And I know how fast you really are. I love you mystery. Xxoo nothing but conditions, you are well with in. That's why I am aloud to be. 🙏

[@splinx1819]

"You can't expect yourself to be other than where you are, and have that to be a self-loving state"

[@nickidaisyreddwoodd5837]

Unconditional love for you Teal and for all living beings equally much.

[@TheWizzardOfRandom]

You are so gifted at articulating what I feel inside.

[@LordOsiron]

That's why the concept of "mindfulness & equanimity" is so powerful and important!

[@PoetryMoves13]

Teal, how perfect...This "Unconditional Love" video is your 111th! Great message and reminder.... Working on all levels! Thank you for sharing, Angie

[@TempleOfOrmes]

Teal has spoken on this, as well as many master witnesses of reality, in that those "others" you speak of are actually projected expressions of you, reflecting back to you, showing you to you. So of course if you are aware they will project that awareness. If you are not they offer the gift of the the opportunity to become aware of self. There's only 1 of us here!

[@livingdeadgirla]

"Expand, contract, expand, contract..." Story of my life. Story of the world, I guess.

[@სალომეგუგავა]

Expansion = love Contraction=grief Always cycling

[@heidigomes3217]

We are here in this planet in this dimension to learn... LEARN to love unconditionally. We are here for trying. And you are right

[@beckhamseven10]

This is why Teal is one of the most powerful beings alive today.

[@unkontrolabulone]

Just when you think your mind can't be opened any further, another Saturday rolls around and Teal helps expand your perspective that much more !

[@zabelicious]

Words of wisdom and beautifully delivered. I just discovered Teal and I can say that this person really resonate with something inside of me. She confirms many of my beliefs and put them in a nice package. I am aware that it is impossible to love everyone unconditionally 24/7 but perhaps we would better concentrate on those closest to us. Or just be mindful of those times somebody stirs strong emotions & take a look at it, learn and process in a loving way, without judging ourselves so harshly

[@SA77888]

I like listening to young people like this. One could be forgiven for feeling......what can this person teach me, shes too young. But so often we learn from children.....very young children. We learn legitimate lessons from kids.........so older adults like me can 100% learn something from younger less experienced adults. I know this is random, but sometimes I feel that younger ppl dont get respect for their wisdom due to their lack of years. But they have wisdom too.

[@لمىالشريف-غ8ك]

This is very deep. Separating behaviour from person. So I can dislike a behaviour but not the person. This is unconditionally loving them. Thank you Teal!

[@Lovelightlifer]

Thank you Teal. You make the journey a little easier, the load a little lighter and the road a little brighter.

[@DOMOZORROORROZOMOD]

Good. A student becomes teacher, better than ever. Heal Teal. 🕊️

[@nsimba_777]

I love you Teal!!!

[@linatiemi3227]

Thank you, Teal, for this beautiful message. Thank you for sharing it with us! This has, as always, made me feel more peaceful with where I am. Thank you.

[@tonykong8517]

Practice love can made you healthier, happier. you pat a dog, give a unused cloth, say a good word is love. You don't need to just give a lot money. But do emotionally to let your energy flow.

[@spectrumglare]

Teal owns the world.

[@IxtlyQuetzquatyl]

From dream to reality. Amazing the synchronicity between beings and how realms manifest into one another~ Lifetimes and lifelines merging and weaving~ Tapestry of the cosmos woven from high eye to 4th level oscillations~

[@MinteaSIcredintele]

I have moments when I can give to someone love without conditions, without to win something! I give example! I meet a guy and I have feel to help him, I speack with him, I have give him a big hug with love! I feel so beautiful to help him! We all give this to our children, to our woman, to someone who you love, mother, father, a friend, a stranger, homeless!

[@natashacovich477]

This has got to be one of my favourite messages from you Teal. Thank you so much for your perspective and knowledge. You have helped me in so many ways with so many of your messages. I just wanted to thank you!

[@TempleOfOrmes]

"Pretend that You Are Them" Game: Yep a great game indeed. Stressing exercising this perspective only when ready to do so released of anger and other negative emotions to avoid self invalidation and self abuse; Learning to be in a state of Detachment; Admission of where we really are all great tools of development! "I Am Responsible for the way I Feel" A great affirmation for developing Unconditional Love, developing the ability to Love regardless of conditions. Great Presentation Teal, Thanx!

[@wakeup_withAshley]

Just what the doctor ordered as usual. I feel like I should be paying you since you have helped me more than any medical professional for my mental health! Thank you Teal ! 💜🕉️💜

[@KosmosGejsha]

Thank you, Teal!

[@angeliquemasters7281]

i do love that fiery smirk! NAMASTE!!!

[@jmooney69]

you just removed a 10000 lbs off my shoulders. I was worried about my capacity for unconditional love, and now I understand how it is a practice. I can be more forgiving with myself and others now. thanks again xo

[@raiderlove5923]

Teal, you are a joy to listen to. Your voice is quiet and calming. You have a cute giggle when you find something funny.

[@ria9159]

You are awesome! I send you love as always BLESSINGS

[@MariuszZaleski13]

Thank you for the lesson. It came to me exactly when I needed it. I felt unconditional love and fell in love with this feeling very quickly. It is like the best drugs :-) It does not last 24/7 though and that's what I was chasing and what was making me anxious. I get it now. You explained it very well. Thank you. Perfect alignment is not always present as we are still subject of ego - which is very smart sometimes - emotions, thoughts and all sorts of situations and interactions. What is always present is the "outside the box" perspective and I keep appreciating it instead of looking for more :-) Very good work. I wonder how it is possible that you can convey truth in such a technical way as you do. Awesome. One Love :-)

[@WisdomInExperience]

Wow u r a true blessing in this time of confusion. U clear the confusion. U r my GURU. In Gratitude.

[@rondone8702]

You maze me with your videos it's so very beautiful to know there's humans in our life but take it upon himself to unlock the secrets of life and then to be able to translate them 4 people to craft them and understand true meaning of meaningful things of life. Thank you so much for your time that you have spent put in these wonderful videos together God bless

[@jerrytyfting2952]

Kind of ironic, Teal talks about unconditional love and in the comments many people say i love you Teal. They "love" her because they dont love themselves, they want to be like her because they dont like their current situation they are in.

[@MagnanimousMichael]

Your smile is so intense everytime I see you smile now I get intense shivers down my spine. Your light is radiating through the digital realm. I will share your light so much Teal. Unconditional focus. Being responsible for my own thoughts = focused inter-personal interpretations With detachment. Thanks! Love your neighbor by knowing your neighbor. Big Heart.

[@DorotaStefaniaRolak]

Hi, I love you saying: "you are SHAMING yourself into good behavior" :)

[@MsPandaBear420]

Thank you! I needed that at this very exact moment. Perfect.

[@spankdarla]

Be for, nor against anything...balance is the key

[@angelarabenbauer4115]

Thank You a lot Teal! 💖

[@TheAshwoodforest]

wonderful teal,you make things so clear,like a wonderful mirror that show truth in such a way that it is easily absorbed, I do think a mother and child do have unconditional love,at least when they are young,,,,that the mother is in a state of grace where she acts just as you stated in this pure love,,,,,but its all a matter of grace,,,,,thank you so much for giving us these messages,,,,,,,

[@aerthemiss]

I never knew I was so enlightened.

[@cosmicfaeriewitch]

i unconditionally LOVE this video ;) seriously though, you give some excellent tips and advice teal

[@nismo025]

I don't know if people notice or not but Teal is leveling up! In the beginning I could feel the energy coming from her a little bit but now it's bursting out! Something is happening inside of her and it's been months in process! I wonder if she even notice?

[@Art-ificial_I-ntelligence]

Pure wisdom! the truth is spoken here!

[@perihelion2483]

Finding the perspective that allows us to unconditionally love anything and everything is enlightenment. Enlightenment empowers us to behold and embrace all things in the joy of unconditional love. Finding the joy of unconditional love is to find who and what we truly are. :)) Thank you! Thank you! Thank you!

[@jerrytyfting2952]

I have a feeling of what others feel. It is like Teal is a big pop-star and fans scream "i love you Teal", well it is not the success she have but it is the fact that she can make you feel better. Just the thought of that can make you go nuts over anyone with the same ability. I am in search for "truth" and Teal have some interesting points here and there.

[@vuonanhsang.uongvietha]

This is very deep and powerful message, Teal, I have followed you for a long time and I really appreciate whạt you have done. Keep going, I love you, Teal

[@utopiawalkedaway]

I kept wanting to push pause every few sentences & say "yea, but, what if" then I wanted to absorb it all. I caught myself saying "she is absolutely right". I get irritated when I hear that humans are supposed to love unconditionally.Dogs naturally love unconditionally. Teal took my confused beliefs & put them all in perfect order. I want to push replay so I can sleep hours listening to her to get it all in order subconsciously. I too, need to sleep but plan to awaken blissfully renewed.THANX!

[@sunstarsmoon]

Love it, love you Teal! I look forward to your saturday videos so much!

[@jules0829]

I LOVE YOU TEAL :) You're such a delight to listen to and I find you to be one of two great inspirational people in my life. My love, and you. You both have the amazing ability to be able to perceive many things about the world. So, thank you very much.

[@gforce20001]

That's a great point. I would say not anymore and I see a noticeable difference now. Nice, thanks for the insight.

[@jaethegoddexx]

the acknowledgement i needed.

[@doleswar]

Thank you very much for your teaching. This is the example of "spirituality for dummies".

[@TempleOfOrmes]

Practicing "CONTROLLING how you feel by CONTROLLING What you Think About when you Focus on Another Person" indeed a crucial first step. Giving up first or "Fore-Giving" the tendency to let feelings be dictated by default thoughts stemming from the patterned networks of information held in our neurology from past experiences, leads to releasing those thoughts and creates space for purposeful thoughts that lead to emotions that feel good & are powerful fuel for purposed manifestation as we create.

[@forest410]

This is an awesome explanation of unconditional love and I now understand. You have once again crystalized my unclear thinking about a current matter I am untangling. Thank you seems trivial to say, but I express this on a deep heart-felt level.

[@flower_goddess1279]

I so badly needed to hear this thanks Teal! You hit it right again

[@tinasablan3488]

I appreciate you! Thank you Teal 🌈💫

[@thehealinghotspotjuliesund3601]

Ur a gift, intelligence and grace ,thank u

[@Jessergdl]

beautiful

[@tonymcbunny1618]

It's nice to hear that its not about putting up with abuses. I'm liking all her teachings! Positive thinking, positive action :D

[@76Pou]

Thank you! This is something I seriously needed to hear.

[@urasoul]

true unconditional love is indeed a permanent way of being and is certainly possible. less than that is not truly unconditional love.

[@evelynfledrich1478]

Thank you for the brilliant insight. This made things clearer for me and gave a lot of food for thought.

[@TheInnerQuestJourney]

Indeed, as always, finding balance in the moment given the unique situation before us is the most enlightened state of being we can reach for...

[@ancientbloodlineoflight]

Perfect timing for me to see this, thank you 💚

[@SujaaniPrem]

You are such a Beutiful and Wise person, your sound is music.

[@EienNiKenJa]

I Love you Teal. You should have your weekly shows translated in other languages. I feel those who still want to start a war really need to hear this.

[@scottwilson7554]

I died a few weeks ago (ruptured AAA) They froze my brain and stopped ALL brain activity. I went to an alternate reality, a place where all of the energy that held everything together was that of unconditional love. I basked in it and it healed me. When I finally was functioning in this reality I told my Dr I would never forget him, He returned the comment but I wondered why. He told me because Nobody has Ever Survived what I went through. I learned a lot about unconditional love and alternate realities during my experience. The secret is...they are right here all the time.

[@TempleOfOrmes]

Her important point here is that instead of pretending the human element can be unconditionally loving, (for it is not wired that way for survival purposes in the world of froms) the mission becomes to align the human element with SOURCE, accepting the condition of the human element from the perspective of Source, with unconditional Love, being what it is created to be.

[@danielcardenas5013]

Love does not need anything or anyone to be , because there is no way to the way , to be truly free and genuine you can not follow a pattern , the only guide is the faith in nothing ,all your actions are indeed a leap of faith . Leaping into the unknown , and experiencing that God is indeed guiding you . .

[@amazinmason]

I dunno...I feel love in my heart despite being threatened or even not enjoying being around certain people. I wish peace on all sincerely. But also, I realize there is no reason for existence without some entanglement or whatever ...it's like ,"what else am I gonna do with my life?"..., we have a lot of expectations on what enlightenment is going to look like or what love looks like. I accept and even like that I am not everyone's cup o tea and vice versa... People have different ways of being...I love that....we just aren't all a match depending on how close we want to be. I have a hard time saying I am enlightened but know I have a certain enlightenment having realized my love and acceptance of myself, which came with assistance from this channel and others. When we have seen our egos and realized why we do the things we do and realize we aren't what we have done and haven't even know what the hell we have been doing been just trying to LIVE.... How can we not have a level of love and compassion for all? I would never say I don't have issues or behaviors that might not be the healthiest....I accept myself as this funky creature, little animal walking around doing things on the planet and see the rest the same. Realizing how difficult it is to realize ourselves takes way the frustration or expectation of anyone else doing it....we can love the world and people anyways. Realizing we are no kind of ideal being and having peace with that, we can accept the same for others. Thanks for prompting some thoughtfulness;)

[@brighteyesavvy]

very enlightening Teal, I have been on this journey for a while now and it is the hardest of lessons to put into practice, but its very rewarding when we can keep ourselves aligned a much as possible...It is a daily moment by moment practice that does take alot out of a person but with time one does learn to resist less and accept more...

[@ardschuna88]

Watching your videos after a short while I can't concentrate on you teachings... I just want to hold and hug you:-)

[@sincere91005]

When you have selflove you aren’t bother by other people but they will be drawn to you bc you are light and they are darkness and that the contrast of the dualities in this realm.