Undeniable Proof Narcissists Know They Are EVIL

[@narcabusecoach]

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[@Ismael1967]

They like to be bad, because it gives them a feeling of Power.

[@user-iy4ez3dm5y]

Mine would say these things and some a can't repeat ❤​@@andromeda30

[@janinesmith369]

True

[@giselarivera9846]

Gbu They little kids in a Hallowee😢costume😅😅😅😅

[@giselarivera9846]

Gbu Narcissist are the saddest 🤡 clown in the circus of life.

[@gigiarmany]

Bingo🎯🎉

[@pamelariley6694]

They feed off pain...YOURS !

[@chitramarathe7619]

Absolutely right

[@dakoderii4221]

My dad died from lack of "food" when I went no contact. My grandmother died in 2014 and he turned all weapons on me. Once he no longer had me to dump all his hate on, he consumed himself. Drank like a fish and ended up very obese. He loved to mock the one year in my life before the growth spurt where I gained a few pounds. Ironic that everything he planned for my life happened to him. It's almost like the Bible is true and he reaped what he sowed, chaos and destruction. Still all so very sad and didn't have to be. Such foolishness.

[@sherryk30]

​@@dakoderii4221what we push out comes back to us sooner or later!

[@lisaz4411]

They get a kick out of inflicting pain on others

[@SuperGingerBickies]

They are diabolical parasites. My late mother was one.

[@DwyaneWadeCounty]

That smirk 😏 on their face

[@dollop405]

Yes, horribly evil.

[@Empress.420]

The shoulder shrug, too!

[@twovirginiacats3753]

Psychopaths do that too.

[@Empress.420]

@twovirginiacats3753 I concur! 💯 Also, the famous word of IDK (I don't know). 😳 But when you IDK them, all hell breaks loose.

[@antheredhen]

YES

[@planetmchanic6299]

They definately do. I've seen their eyes turn black when they're in a fit of rage. Way scary. They enjoy causing suffering. Run!

[@PavanGangal-uu7zi]

Wer to run if ur not independent

[@Rachel-g3h5q]

They certainly enjoy causing

[@VisibleTimes]

Trying to poison me it seems

[@lisaz4411]

@@PavanGangal-uu7zi. Try to seek a support system if u can.

[@gracebe235]

Yup….similar to the demons in the series, ‘Supernatural’!

[@CrystalAtkins-q3t]

Yes,I have seen that evil smirk and dead eyes looking through me as if they enjoyed hurting me and my kids. Very disturbing.

[@user-iy4ez3dm5y]

We will never forget the eye's and the smirk, but how they can change in split second, Dr Jekyll and Mr Hyde

[@libralove8761]

That’s right Mom take care of your kids.

[@cassiebennet4262]

My husband did this more when he was drinking heavy. He would reach a point where he was close to the blacked out stage and would try to trigger me. Once he pushed enough buttons and I was in a frenzied state of defending myself he'd sit back calmly with that evil smirk that was sometimes accompanied with the black eyes. There's definitely a supernatural element to the behavior imo.

[@ritalawson7020]

They are demons run away real fast

[@leoniegray6404]

Seen that smirk . Chilling 😢.

[@csc8697]

Duper's delight

[@violetpelham2067]

Yes, and everyone comments what a sweet, and kind mother you have. They have no idea the things that have happened in secret.

[@Empress.420]

Yep. When she hears that in person, she perks up high. Large smiles & all. Once behind close doors, the mental abuse & physical abuse are insane.

[@Naseefa1985]

Agreed!!

[@hamed2928]

So many times I heard this. "Isn't your mother sweeeeeeeeeeeeeetest person in the world."

[@shawnwoods9280]

I hear that all the time

[@user-iy4ez3dm5y]

My Nex in ex in law is forgive for spelling is a straight out maglavaniac

[@housecreeper]

My mother is a covert narcissist, and growing up our house was filthy. Bugs, animal feces, dead leaves, dirt everywhere. My siblings and i were forbidden from having friends over because she would rather isolate us than to help us clean. Most surprisingly, she worked as a nanny for a wealthy lawyer and a church. Witnessing my mother change, becoming like Mary Poppins, beaming smiles, expressive cartoony facial expressions, and lotsnof high pitched fake laughter. She was so "sweet" to all children besides me, i know this because she would take me to work with her because we couldn't afford a babysitter. As soon as we leave the church building, or the lawyers house, the smile would disappear. She would make a face like she smelled something bad as her default expression. If i tried to show her something I thought she would like, she would groan, sigh and roll her eyes. But the moment an outside witness appears, she would return to the smiling giggling nanny. No one believed me when i would explain why i was depressed growing up because they only saw my mothers mask.

[@patriciazaragoza3269]

This is kind of reverse gaslighting don't You think? They performed outside door like the most amazing people. Perfect ones. Except with you. So in the moment You complaint or share Your reality about them nobody is going to believe You. They are kind of víctims too: selling them a facade.

[@housecreeper]

@patriciazaragoza3269 it's very possible. She was outright so pleasant and popular that other people didn't really suffer much under her care besides my sibling and I. She would stop grocery shopping if she caught us talking "badly" (honestly) about our home life. So the victimhood of the people she worked for wasn't anything close to what we endured behind closed doors at our house.

[@sarawhite8286]

@@patriciazaragoza3269 They are not victims. They are perpetrators. They don't suffer, the victims do.

[@melissamelissa4154]

This is very well told the truth! Btw I called my narcissistic parent, Mary Poppins, also.

[@gigiarmany]

thats horrifyinng..sorry you had to endure that

[@edwardelliott5756]

I have to wonder if a narcissist is demon possessed. When you see the eyes go black and pure rage come out of them and then the joy they have when they hurt you I cannot explain it any other way.

[@rosieE121]

I don't believe in demons. It is for sure a mental disorder.

[@lisaz4411]

They are possessed by demons yes. Many people have seen it and it says so in the Bible

[@lisaleonard244]

The black eyes during the devaluation/discard phase is pure evil at the core. I dated a guy for 2.5 yrs and went through multiple cycles of abuse. But the golden periods was so wonderful, I kept getting sucked back in. Finally I started googling and figured out what I was dealing with. It’s been several years since I’ve seen this person, but the trauma of it has scared me completely away from dating at all. Paralyzing unfortunately.

[@edwardelliott5756]

@@lisaleonard244 I certainly understand you. I’ve wondered if I can ever trust someone else after going through this. I only trust God.

[@Deborah-uw5ip]

@@edwardelliott5756 And trust yourself.

[@Shutterbuggy.]

My ex was evil at his core. He was very good at masking, but even he knew he was evil. He used to brag about all the violent things he did when he was young, stabbing, mugging, stealing, beating, and the ways he hurt people intentionally. It was horrifying to me and I even asked him if I should be scared and he said I didn't bring out that side of him and that he hated that side of himself. Yes, he did eventually turn on me too, physically, verbally and emotionally Even told me very dark, violent thoughts he had about others. Every confession what followed by a crazy, disturbing, inappropriate laughter, as if he was proud of it and how unhinged he sounded 😢 The good times were literally unbelievably good, but were always canceled out by the mental abuse, every single time without fail. This was all spread out over 5yrs. The more serious our relationship became, the worse he got. Finally, I woke up and He knew I knew what he truly was and that's when it all started to unravel. I don't even think he was that surprised I left. He knows what he is. They all know. 😢

[@connie9492]

YES THEY DO!

[@GalvMermaid50]

Anyone who uses their "mental issues" as an excuse to be mean is very evil.

[@RoseRoseRoseRoseRoseRose]

You're sooo right ✅️ They love to see people in pain. But when it comes to them, they are the "survivor of abvse"... I'm pretty sure, we all know them. 😏

[@kyliemadden5204]

'I've had a hard life' is a classic

[@Deborah-uw5ip]

Yup, know a couple. I see it as entertainment now, better things to do Lol

[@gigiarmany]

Yes..I can spot them from space now...nope not today satan😂

[@thehealthyfit9674]

This is so true. They definitely know. When you call them out on their words, they spin it back on you and make you the bad guy. Every time the narc yells, threatens and shames, it's like a satisfying release for them. They can turn on a dime and be normal and nice again. Totally sadistic imo.

[@lisaz4411]

So true and they play sick cruel mimd games

[@patriciazaragoza3269]

I observed this on first hand and it is increíble. He was yelling his mother yelling her: "I hope You die" and turned his back on her walking to his car. My angle of view allowed to Watch the scene and his face (there we're screams before)it was totally rage on it but....in the moment he gave his back away (just turning on place) her view , the rage dissappeared and smirk and normalized his face 😳. They know the show they perform!!. Totally crazy core.

[@patriciazaragoza3269]

And I observed another case. This man was telling stories of COVID affecting people's families. He talked about a woman- neighbour of him. He talked How a pair of members got sick, one died, the other critic at hospital and I'm listening and felt terrible for that poor woman- fate that I not Even know and suddenly he smirk-smiled with satisfactión, It was like second split and then fixed the face again to a sorrow one like at the beginning. It blowed My mind. I didn't know about this Disorder. You just believe You imagine things....but not. He continúed talking like nothing. 😲

[@connie9492]

​@@patriciazaragoza3269SO TRUE SUCH EVIL!

[@aizzamoque5569]

Danish I'm so sorry for everything you endured. No child deserves to go through this kind of hurt. I cant relate my mother was the same, everyone's savior but really verbally vicious to me. I always felt a deep sadness I think I was depressed and going through grief and didnt even know it. Unfortunately I'm married to a narc too now who I feel like I cant escape

[@PatGusoff]

You are describing my mother. At home, nasty. Beat and curse me. In public, Aunt Helen is wonderful. Yeah right!

[@michelleeckert6348]

No Dont think like that Find a way out You'll be so glad you did 💌🙏🍀

[@gigiarmany]

feeling are not facts.. you can escape ..give yourself the gift of peace ..make a secret plan

[@juliet2756]

One of my family members was giving me the silent treatment. For no reason. My brother (the spoiled golden child) comes over, and she starts talking very normal to him. When he left, she was in an awkward position because she had to stop talking again. I could feel the tension.😅 They absolutely know what they are doing!!🙄

[@nowKissthaQueen]

absolutely know😊

[@gigiarmany]

disgusting but comical😂

[@VinitaSinghal96]

Danish you are absolute right.

[@christinageha-sf2zg]

I absolutely agree they know

[@lisaz4411]

They enjoy inflicting pain

[@Isabela2024-yr]

They know their behavior is bad, but they do it anyway. And they feel good about it. Narcissists feels winner when they can stepped on somebody. They're doing it on purposely. Their family and partners are the number one victims.

[@lisaz4411]

So true sadly

[@IzabelaWaniek-i1x]

Yes, it is so painfully true. Especially when they are your family members. Try to treat them the way they treat you and they will feel extremely hurt and disrespected.

[@samolaguptrishi28]

Yes, Very true n they are very deliberate n sick n they never get emotionally attached to anyone , they just trap the empaths n make them their slave for life

[@Han-rw9ev]

I spent years explaining away the reasons for the unpleasant behaviour of certain individuals. In the end it became clear they ENJOYED what they were doing. When you start to realise you're dealing with someone who literally becomes happy at the misery of others, you can't really think of them as being anything other than evil.

[@susannakotoff7095]

same here in dealing with the covert religious narc sil and her husband and bully mil. Don t put up with their evil behaviour, definately not in christ like they claim. No more petty crazy making their inner chaos onto us then gaslighting and saying how come your not talking to me? Everything is a game to her, whose winning and competition in every situation and conversation. She knows that I know shes a narc, mask has slipped around me and others.

[@rosieE121]

Exactly true. They think that's how they can stay in control.

[@JasonJones-x5e]

They are energetic 🧛 vampires and they seem to need the chaos to thrive.

[@lisaz4411]

They thrive on chaos and confusion

[@twovirginiacats3753]

Ours lived under the facade of being bi-polar for years. That was the excuse for all the drama. Then I started keeping a journal and noticed the pattern. This was long before anyone ever said anything about "narcissism". Most notably he went off his rocker right before Halloween and seemed to get better after Valentines Day, every year just like clockwork. Then I could count on the behavior being bad over vacations, birthdays, any other three-day weekends or holidays throughout the year, or if I was sick with the flu, etc. etc.

[@dakoderii4221]

Journaling is very underrated. I know I'm guilty of it. It was amazing once I tried it. It really does help to offload things out of your mind and lay them out so you can plainly see it. You know you don't have to remember everything, just go look where you wrote it down. Helps to get emotional crap out of your mind too. Only problem is snooping narcs. Have to be sure to keep it away from them. They can't even know your journal exists. Their mind will go crazy paranoid knowing you have one.

[@AlvinKazu]

I never was into writing stuff down, as School "conditioned" me to hate it.. However, after my mother made a comment, when my FAther's brother was in really bad shape, that my father and uncle never had a good relationship, and I quote from my document.. "08/05/22 It is 12:09PM right now, and we just found out about an hour ago, that my Uncle Larry is in "critical shape," and only has a few days left.... My mother is just complaining how he wasn't that good of a person and all this and that, saying we all had bad lives because his life was shit.... I just.... cannot believe this..... I thought htings were kind of going better, but typical , it's just a lie. I cannot believe, with all of the pain and suffering my dad is going through, that she says this bullshit..... TO HIM.... Jeeeezzz... sHE ALSO FUCING MENTIONED THE COMMMENT THAT STARTED THIS ENTIRE DOCUMENT "FAMILY ISN'T ANYTHING BUT AN ACCIDENT AT BIRTH" and when I called her out on it, saying you can only say that because you had no siblings and don't have a family, to which she said she had one, but they all were against her and it wasn't her fault (like always... never the victim's fault, when she's the #1 abuser). She then mentioned "Family isn't anything but an accident at birth..." asklfjaskdlfjlsadfjlksa....?!?!!" After she said this, I started writing in a word document, where I post things here on YT, and then copy it with a link to the comment. I have ..... within a few years.... over 500 PAGES of comments... It's actually scary how bad it is... 500 pages? A literal novel of pain? EDIT: For some reason, the above comment seems to not be the start of the document, so I am so damn confused what happened here... I don't even remember this first part of the document, but it's date is 2 about 2 years before the above comment, so I'm just.... wtf confused lol. The first comment is "I didn't want to ever make this document, but after these comments, in the context of dad hearing from his brother after all these years, hearing happy birthday, and then replying to the email, she said "I don't want to burst your bubble, but I don't think you will hear back from him." and then proceeds to go into a rant about how family has done nothing for her, starting with this. 10/8/20 " Very interesting...

[@sarawhite8286]

@@dakoderii4221 Yes, my covert narc ex ripped the pages right out of my journal. He would have found it no matter where I hid it.

[@connie9492]

YEP! HE HAD TO TOTALLY RAIN ON YOUR PARADE!

[@connie9492]

​@@dakoderii4221THEY are totally terrible about this. MINE WAS SO ABUSIVE AND WAS MADE TO GO TO THERAPY GROUP. THE GROUP LEADER SENT ME A LETTER SAYING HE WAS VERY AT RISK TO ACT OUT. I DIDN'T HIDE IT BUT AFTER THAT I WAS NEVER ABLE TO FIND IT! I KNOW HE DESTROYED IT SO I COULDN'T SHOW IT TO EVERYONE! SNEAKY SOB TO THE VERY END OF EVERY THING BETWEEN US! THEN HE STARTED STALKING ME! TOOK A LONG TIME TO GET RID OF HIM!

[@pamelacave5515]

Per usual Danish, spot on!!

[@Ismael1967]

They are even proud to be evel.

[@lisaz4411]

Yes they love it it’s awful

[@sarawhite8286]

Proud to be evil in a covert way.

[@Dr.ShaziaHanif-f8l]

Very informative respected Sir!

[@IShallNotBeSilent]

This is one that I have constantly questioned.......do they know what they are doing? These answers summed it up very well. I have seen the demon within my narcissist, but it knows I know and have a relationship with the Most High and his demon does not like it at all. My narcissist realizes his supply is no longer at home so he is in the community trying to get his supply now. so sad to watch, but it is not my problem. Have a wonderful and blessed day!

[@lisaz4411]

Run from him and don’t look back as they don’t change and you deserve better. Don’t call him “my “ narc as it implies ownership. Know your worth and move on. Life is far too short ❤

[@antheredhen]

Yes. The personality types ring the same as who we are told in the Bible to run from..

[@NirupaRishi]

Thank you for sharing Danish, it’s So true, I have totally experienced each and every evil behaviour that you have mentioned about a narcissist and I am only praying to God for divine justice.

[@hamed2928]

One friend my sister had kind of out of the blue one day said, " I never understood why you talked about your mother the way you did. Now I understand." Too bad it wasn't an epiphany for me at the time, but in later years as an adult, I remembered it, and it helped me to start to see reality.

[@Joanthebrightone]

She became the target.

[@christielawrence4640]

Thank you, Danish.

[@ladonna8386]

Spot On!!!

[@juanitoloc9378]

My ex admitted to me multiple times she knew what she was doing. Once in the car she told me you are supposed be walking on eggshells!!! Another time She was talking about her mom saying she has a bunch of people that do things for her. They absolutely know what they are doing I think it's a learned behavior.

[@antheredhen]

I also think it's learned.. My husband plays people exactly how his mom does.. Uses, lies, manipulates, steals, plays the victim. She trained her kids well. All 4 do it!

[@sarawhite8286]

They are born that way. Born with 0 empathy. Some things can be learned but they are born that way 100%.

[@juanitoloc9378]

@@antheredhen it's sad ain't it pretty much setting them up to be horrible human beings. To never know true happiness. I think they don't love their kids they use them for benefits.

[@ms.texassoldier7203]

A wolf and sheep clothing to the letter and they know when to take it off and when to put it on, it’s an outfit it’s a costume and it’s an act

[@edwardelliott5756]

Oh so true!

[@lisaz4411]

Yes. Jekyll and Hyde

[@susannakotoff7095]

@@lisaz4411 mil- jeckle and hyde

[@christinereilly8829]

You are describing my husband. But NOBODY believes me - not my son, not my siblings, not my brother-in-law. He is such an accomplished liar too. But what defence do I have?

[@twovirginiacats3753]

Eventually they slip up. In their rush to make you look bad they accidentally reveal their act in front of friends and family. LOL

[@sajidajoseph1230]

Here is same with me.

[@gigiarmany]

recording & journaling...also people do eventually notice, but dont keep telling them, they have to notice on their own ,else you'll be deemed the bad guy

[@annanunes9758]

Very true. Sadly one is doomed as left with no choice.

[@Psychicblonde67]

I just went through having to change all my info. The last one kept changing his number just to contact me. I've reached out to all authorities. Be brave

[@Deborah-uw5ip]

That sounds stressful. So stay safe and godspeed.

[@andromeda30]

She started stealing my personality by doing things I like, and she never cared about. She attributed disgusting things to me that I never did, said or even thought. Then she convinced everyone, including those close to me, that I was a bad person. Now to everyone she is the saint and I am the villain.

[@gigiarmany]

I am now very suspiscious of people presenting as great,fun, &selfless..I wonder how many people get fooled by these actors

[@justice8563]

They know, they get excited by it. Look at their pupils when they are abusing and watch how they cringe as if you talking about someone else, when you bring it up later.

[@Deborah-uw5ip]

When someone was like that, I jokingly threw up my fingers in a cross and made it into a joke.

[@priyanesan3299]

They know how much damaging their behaviors are. They know that they have damaged their children’s life, partner’s life, friends and relatives lives. They plan and execute precisely to get their desired results from people around them which is the scariest part once we understand. When I was about 6/7 my NPD Mom used to say: “ I am a monster, but nobody sees me” “I am tricky and nobody understands “ “You are my child and look how stupid you are. See how I made my husband bend to my needs and made him sit where he should be seated” They PLAN, EXECUTE and DESTROY people’s lives. They KNOW exactly what they did and what they are doing and they have absolutely NO REMORSE at all. They are pure EVIL. No contact is the only way out, otherwise we are like a deer working hard to satisfy and live inside a Lion’s Den.

[@lisaz4411]

No contact is great and education as knowledge is power. And time. And peace and healing. And lots of self love

[@iowamom454]

Agree with the deer in the lions den analogy. That’s me in our house. I have no safe space no where to breathe. Only just moments of running. I walk in and my house feels unsafe. 20 years you’d think I would be used to it… my nerves are fried. There is no where he cannot get to me.

[@sarawhite8286]

@@iowamom454 I hope you can leave him.

[@melissacaunarreaux9119]

Spot on! 100% truth!

[@AAron-gr3jk]

They know. They don't care. They even tell you so "I don't care" or "I don't give a shit"

[@grahamlawson5691]

Wow!! That really hits the nail on the head. Every single bit. Which makes it a targeted attack. It's no wonder they don't like themselves, as they know that they are doing these things. So basically, if you've never been there, you will never believe it's true. I have had so much trouble trying to explain to friends what has been happening. This explains why. It's time to dig deep, get back to your core, and know the truth of what you've just been through. It's tough for sure. But all to be learned from.... Love to all XXX

[@cosmos60]

Very well observed👍 they know the difference and effects of their behaviour and do have a consciousness of good and evil.

[@sarawhite8286]

They have no consciousness. They are pure dark. They fake good. They are pure evil.

[@janedoe5229]

At church my ex-husband was such a groverling, kiss-up, charmer. At home, when no one was around, he was a monolith of tyranny. He would send me to my room, ground me, dock my allowance, etc. Every thought he had was straight from the Holy Spirit. Every thought I had that contradicted him was from the devil, and I was being rebellious and unsubmissive.

[@sydneyhickens]

Sir, I agree with everything you say. Thank you,

[@pattyrooney1323]

In a nutshell. Thank you, Danish.

[@erichoben4125]

I've seen and heard the smirk and evil laugh many times. This video says it all.

[@romanastrasheim5226]

Truth!!!

[@ianm659]

But when faced with adversity the narcissist will crumble

[@aloksrivastava7938]

Duplicity/Multiplicity in their behavior is all the proof one needs. Mohammad Rafi's "क्या मिलिए ऐसे लोगों से जिनकी फितरत छुपी रहे, नकली चेहरा सामने आये असली सूरत छिपी रहे..." song dealt with narcissistic behavior several decades ago.

[@lindajorgensen2580]

My sister exactly...

[@GH-mo8gs]

Logical conclusion. I usually erroneously believe they were possibly unaware of the pain they are causing.

[@colmreilly9127]

The smirk good video ,there so negative,I got up the sun was shining,wife comes down says what a lovely day,gos outside and started.screaming at stray cats how fast they change.

[@aizzamoque5569]

Poor cats

[@tokyoblur24]

My parents exactly! Especially the woman who birthed me. Im saving this video. I love you, Danish! ❤

[@warwinlee1021]

It’s so hard to understand and deal with a whole lifetime of this. My parents, especially my mother since forever and straight into a insane Narcissistic husband. All my life I’ve had this. I finally started counseling. My counselor retired because of health. I don’t know if I can deal with repeating my life story with another counselor. Extreme mental and physical abuse. I have so much empathy for all of you! My parents posed as wonderful angels to everyone else. If I did speak up to anyone, they’d think I was an evil liar. They’re dead now.

[@MargaloBird]

Absolutely! You cant act right in just one place if you dont know what you are doing. My 1st ex when i started to stand up for myself told me to "stop talking back" and such phrases as if i was a child.

[@libralove8761]

This is a great reminder not to look back after going No Contact with my Mother and Brother.

[@clivecarpenter2840]

They are very adept at pulling the wool over people's eyes, I was a victim and realised once it was too late, but ultimately they are sad, weak and envious of people that possess qualities they do not or will never have. They are nothing.

[@AnitaBeen-jj4mr]

Very insightful ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@vanessagovender7014]

We are their source.... No one will ever believe u, if u have to explain their sick ways... U have to be so educated and informed about this topic, if u want to be around for your kids...

[@loubo3285]

I had the same mother as you. My father was passive agressive. We have to overcome their perverted behaviors all your life.

[@relied7934]

The smirk. Gives me chills thinking of it.

[@sequeira1104]

How do we assure our kids don't turn out like this? I see my 5 year old mimicking behaviors and this worries me. However my 5 year old can call his bluff too.

[@lisaz4411]

You should leave him and find a support system if you can. Life is too short for this

[@Tracy-v8h]

Yes OMG,so very very true 👍,I thought they were ill,but yes they turn it off and on like a switch,I just have to ignore/stay away from it,and it's one rule for them and another for you,absolutely vile individuals

[@user-rh3jr3bm5i]

Please a video on long distance narcissistic Relationship

[@justhermit5306]

Yes! I need one of those long distance narcissist video too. My whole family is on the other side of the planet. I left them 49 yrs ago and they're still causing shit in my life. Stealing my inheritence and every evil acts they can do against me... 😢

[@teresadvorak6145]

Why would anyone want a relationship with a narc from afar, let alone one with a local? Grey Rock)? Consider yourself very lucky that the narc is far away. It makes it a whole lot easier to deal with than having one right in your face. Have U learned Gray Rock method yet from Danish? No offense intended. Good luck to U on your healing journey ❤

[@justhermit5306]

@@teresadvorak6145 If it wasn't the fact that they stole my inheritence and everybody is dead quiet about it i don't need them in my life. But if i must do something legally then it's a different story 😒

[@rosieE121]

One more thing, they seem to feel justified in hurting people. They are very confused people who know how to pretend they are not.

[@sarawhite8286]

They are not confused. They know exactly what they are doing.

[@1zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzful]

How I knew was that any time I talked to friends or family about the things she was doing to me she would then get mad and say I was talking shit about her. Once that happened I would always ask if telling people things you do is talking shit then why do you think it's ok to do in the first place if you supposedly love me. Never got an answer to that one just more gaslighting and blame shifting.... And that smirk you talk about I got several times, the most memorable was when I had just woken up and she was putting on makeup and said with that smirk I know how to push your buttons. I loved the silent treatment though, it was my small win in the relationship because I got to do my own thing without being criticized or yelled at... And yet I'm still sad about the divorce :( smh

[@GloriaWatkins-c2u]

I know they know they confess all the time ... The thing it never changes branches out worse cycles are always same.

[@janemuthoni584]

I agree with you, it’s something they have learned and mastered to stay on top of others in control and manipulation

[@rosieE121]

When you do escape they become unhinged and more dangerous.

[@ingridevans6758]

My ex narcissistic husband would take notes and plan his abuse... he was always in control and he always knew exactly what he was doing

[@aparna1170]

Showing children they are a burden is sickening. Children like their parents irrespective of who they are. My mother wanted us to see her like she is ultimate. And we sure did. But, she knew she was not. So, always showed frustration on us. And telling us to behave like we were more than what we were. Both me and my brother were clowns we were ourselves. lol.

[@sylviaamodeo7090]

This explains without a doubt they obviously know about the evil inside them.

[@amiralozse1781]

very good description of these demons in a human body

[@connie9492]

It's difficult because you will be talking to them, trying to straighten things out. And they will do something nasty. Then you strike back to defend yourself, and they are outraged, ....LIKE YOU MADE THE FIRST STRIKE! IT'S CRAZY!

[@LIK64]

My husband DEMANDS Respect from me but constantly DISRESPECTS me

[@PavanGangal-uu7zi]

My father's iq level is like that of a 6year old, he would shout, yell, blame others and take decisions exactly like a 6year old and it scars me when im with him in functions, hotels or in market bcz he thinks he has money and nothing else is important

[@JohnSmith-fx9xk]

💯👍 Thank you.

[@loriw1189]

Thank you for your time and education

[@sajidajoseph1230]

Hi Danish, amazed by your talking.stay bless...

[@draganjagodic4056]

They even sadistically enjoy in doing harm.

[@AnitaSharma-hc3ib]

1000% spot on dear❤ I have experiencing since 1996 but I didn't recognise this pattern n but since 2020 I start noticing these things that you told in this video❤gratitude❤

[@deanamcdougall7192]

They honestly do you can see the evil in their eyes.

[@R89yes]

Thank you so much Danish❤

[@Deborah-uw5ip]

I learned a lot from these talks, Danish you're right on points! Amazing to have ones experiences validated. "And let the healing begin" is a lovely way to think about it. Appreciate Muchly. From codependant recovery I learned that whatever it is I'm expecting from someone else is what I need to give myself. I learned to "return to sender" the negativity that someone sends my way and not take things personally. It's about them. They own it whether they admit it or not. I don't take things that belong to someone else. "oops that's not for me....return to sender" is the theme that works for me. i.e. that put-down; that negligence; abuse is their load to carry and these loads are very heavy. I carried a couple grudges for a while until I let them go. I pity them & that's disrespectful isn't it? IDK. In process, becoming my own person and being who I am in my heart is my purpose. All the rest is just 'noise'. Don't need it. Doesn't belong to me. Folks, love yourself first. Fill yourself up 'til your 'cup runneth over' and then pass it on - Jesus. If I feel I don't have the emotional quality, I just ask for it. It's so important these days with these 'creatures' that we maintain our integrity. That's why I like this channel. Danish and his commenters are what I resonate with. Sry 4 the ramble I'l 🤭🤭 shut up now. 😄

[@sarawhite8286]

Asking for the emotional quality. I like that. Pitying them is not disrespectful. In my opinion they don't even deserve to be pitied.

[@kathleenherron594]

I’ve said, “Mom, let’s have this conversation with your best friend. What would she have to say?” She says, “ You wouldn’t dare. She doesn’t need to know.”

[@rosieE121]

That is why narc husbands get more cruel when their wives have a baby. Because the wife and child become very dependent and it is harder for them to object or escape the cruelty.

[@chachi_is_my_dog]

Amen!

[@angelocavar8610]

Dont want to insult cats. But their eyes change when they are up to something .

[@lisaz4411]

Some narcs love cats. The one I used to know did

[@raindrop1215]

​@@lisaz4411 I have a narc relative that "loves" cats like you wouldn't believe. But, he's a two-faced little sadist and a subversive little perv.

[@aztekkr]

Exactly. They even try to hide every hint of the behaviour you have to deal with normally. And even if there is a slight hint like a glance of that behaviour that is shown uncontrolled by accident they try to neglect that. That doesn't bring me to the conclusion that the abuse is intentionally but the hiding is it in front of other people, that shows that in the end they're conscious about that they do wrong. And that's a major hint when it comes to dealing with such a person. But: We shouldn't waste our time in such persons. Search a way to go around them. Don't let you fall into the victimrole as much as they do (even though it might help to disarm theirs sometimes). Go for your life and trick them. That's what they hate and fear the most. Being unsignificant.

[@janinemccartha1811]

🌌Hi Danish. Thanks for explaining this very complex personality disorder so well. I love your channel & and I can definitely relate to these scenarios because I have so many members of my family who are fitting the description so well of the NPD. Their game is competing to see who can flaunt their money 💰 or be the most popular. Peace, love, Miss Janine🌴🧸 🌠 💅💯❣️

[@lisamariegonzalez7315]

Even their behavior impact them, they don't care, trust me!!! They never learn!!!

[@Marsase]

They know. When it got really heated and there was no way to wiggle out of a situation my x used to say "I'm just like that. If you don't like it- you know where is yhe door!" But he could never explain "like what" was he. Because he would have to say he is offensive, he is dismissive of the way he makes people feel, expecting the people to function smooth like robots no matter what happened today and many other things! That are not humanly at all and are all indicators the person needs professional mental health help.

[@kimberlycampbelllmt2960]

My husband loves to punish me for petty infractions with days or weeks of silent treatment. With an evil grin, he admitted that he enjoys getting me upset before I go to work. Im on my way out.

[@rosameijering5161]

Your house always looks so beautiful

[@fdzaviation]

The selective anxiety/depression was the one thing that made me step away from my covert narcissit ex wife. She could be too sick, tired, sore or not feeling well for intimacy or something as simple as scratching my back, but st the same time be employee of the month at work.

[@wittymystic7361]

This aligns with the false saying, "Everyone is just doing their best." I used to be a tarot card reader. Many people would come to me wanting to know how to revive an old friendship or relationship. Guess what the majority of them said? They confessed that they had taken more than they had given in that connection. So no, they were not doing their best, and they knew it.

[@MariaWade-m9q]

Spot on 😢

[@neilarmitage6632]

So well described