Understanding BALDING Insecurities, Negativity And EXACTLY HOW To Deal With It

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In this video I share with you a true story of how insecurity can manifest negativity in people. Well all have insecurities and seeing someone else conquer the same insecurity can lead to negativity. Often people try to drag others down to make themselves feel better. It is very common and an interesting phenomenon.
If you can better understand why someone might speak negatively about you, you can know to not take such comments to heart. You won't let these comments affect you and better yet you will even be able to help the person out rather than retaliating in a negative way.
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[@insuber79]

Harry, this reminded me of what you say in BaldCafe's ebook: insecure people need to drag others down in order to feel better with themselves. Confident people don't need to put anyone down: they are just too busy having a life.

[@gghg9395]

yeah, busy with a life with no hair... no thanks 😆

[@insuber79]

@@gghg9395 it's all about our attidue: there's much more in life (and about ourselves) than hair...

[@fuanasantuary1277]

secure people don't stalk and mob harass someone for years.

[@markjames1680]

Not that your beard doesn't look good, it does, but this looks even better!

[@h3fan725]

i agree, a shorter beard or stubble makes him look like 10 years younger and brings out his green eyes :)

[@vladomontezuma626]

I think about 10 more days without shavings and it would be perfect...

[@paulis4278]

I agree

[@Bflo23]

Rule #1... Never cover up a strong jawline with a huge beard. Women love a strong jawline and men want it. No hair or short trimmed beard for strong jawline..... If one has a real weak jawline or even double chin, a beard can disguise it pretty good.

[@h3fan725]

@@Bflo23 thanks, dident realize life had rules which are set for the way we all think the same?

[@hairtransplantchannel]

The stubble looks good, Harry.

[@Baldcafe]

Thanks Joe! Hope you are well 🤝

[@hairtransplantchannel]

Also, great topic and well said.

[@hairtransplantchannel]

@@tagada7 Considering that there are five steps to a typical surgery I have no idea which step you're referring to. Also, please move this to my channel so we don't hijack Harry's. Thanks.

[@karon718]

Your beard was badass but this looks even better.

[@paidlife2016]

This is the most positive comment section on Utube, nothing but support and positive vibes🙏

[@gghg9395]

and COOOOPE 😍

[@nirhaber6149]

To be honest, i don't recall seeing you actually clean shaven, or rocking a stubble, which looks amazing on you

[@Baldcafe]

Thank you 👍 it’s been a while for sure

[@bbguardsp]

When I finally understood any insecurities are the result of outside influences (I didn't develop insecurities purely from me alone. OTHER people, advertising, etc is what I allowed to corrupt my thoughts on balding) I had no problems afterward. Not to mention all the extra personal time I have each day not having to groom as much.

[@pieterthys9631]

The stubble looks much better than the full beard you used to have ;)

[@cyrusthegrape]

Buddy, I have been, for the better part of 10 years fearing the inevitable MPB that is rampant in my family. I’ve actually planned on getting a hair transplant procedure once the balding is noticeable. I watched one video on your channel and I’m ready to embrace it fully! I’m 24 and in the infancy stages of MPB, so I’m still not there yet but I wanted to thank you for setting up this channel, I’m sure a lot of guys like myself really needed to see your motivational posts and help them understand that being bald is sexy as hell if you’ve got good character. Cheers

[@bangbob673]

how you look now?

[@CapableFox64]

Thanks for the channel. I just shaved mine off last week at 25. I feel so much better not worrying. Still getting used to shaving and skin is tender, but this channel helped big time with insecurity. You’re doing great work.

[@buddcz]

Dude.. I can tell you 100 % this is the best look of you.. Long beared makes you older. Just trim it and keep your beared shorter like this. Definitely you look much better

[@TxmmyBeats]

I’ve been bald for 8-9 years and tbh I’m still insecure about it. I always wear hats, but I’m going to stop wearing them and try my best to embrace it.

[@cem1838]

Great story, Harry. So many of us have been there. My brother in law always waited until we were at big family dinners to start harassing me. You're sort of trapped then. It took me a while to realize you couldn't make "short" jokes around him. He was just deflecting his own insecurities. Your channel is great. Best to you!

[@vladomontezuma626]

I'm not even bald but I really admire and enjoy your videos. 😊😉

[@MGallear9]

That stubble shaved head... Ultimate combo brother!

[@chocolatesaltyballs2275]

You looked like a true viking with the beard and now you legit look like you became at least 10 years younger. I'm stuck in the middle as of what I think suited you more but honesly I'm leaning much more towards this clean shaven look!

[@Daniel-uk6yr]

His short beard period was awesome too

[@lukevincnet3420]

I was born without hair and I'm currently going my entire child hood completely bald. this shit sucks 😞

[@thebluethunderbunny2324]

I think I like you more now with the shorter beard hair

[@robindici123]

You schould keep the stubble look bro! Suits you better imo then the big beard.

[@simonescarantino5568]

I had a period of deep depression in which i tought my life was over because of baldness. I started focusing on my passion and the gym, start studying local language of where I’m living and always tried to be funny and cheerful with all Colleagues, needless to say is starting to work. Ive dated a colleague and I’m starting to bond with other women in other teams. If you’re sure of yourself and have your life together they’ll stop caring about your flaws (they also do have flaws and insecurity) the fact is sometimes our mind can trasform one problem and make it look like a life sentence, but is not! There is hope my bald brothers! If you’re down don’t give up!

[@HamzaTalksFootball]

Went fully bald for the first time today. With this lockdown I thought it's a good time to try it. Whether I keep it beyond that, time will tell.

[@ironsides632]

Have you kept it bald bro

[@h3fan725]

had to watch twice, first time was too distracted by harry looking too good with the stubble beard look :) , looks great dude, :)

[@gohan3448]

Yoo you look young with your beard cut.

[@swilson6056]

Thanks Harry for helping me get the confidence to brave the shave. Should have done it along time ago but finally done it 😊

[@doorshotel]

Want to say thank you BaldCafe! Been watching your videos for a couple weeks. Trying to build up the confidence to do it. Finally said bugger it, bought a set of clippers and did it. Best thing I ever did. Thank you very much! Here's to 2021.

[@mattymobbs5125]

I think you look better with out the beard 🧔

[@dimitriszitta6091]

I am new to the bald look. With time seems the better choice for me. I think anyone needs time to adopt to this new look. Keep up the good work

[@RickyBenangVlogs]

Stubble looks good man 👌

[@TheMaldoc]

You make so positive content. I cant thank you enough for your work.

[@chuckwillis6777]

Been using a Leaf Razor for about a year and I will never go to any thing else. I shave at night in the shower. I shut the shower off and rinse the razor under the faucet to save water and I am good for the next day.!!!

[@SqueezySponge]

Love the stubble look on you mate. Your beard’s glorious, but idk this is a real good change of speed.

[@chrisdavisjr]

These highly-caffeinated videos are some of my favourites.

[@eddieelias3979]

Harry this stubble look is bloody amazing

[@jackopsahl777]

This is a good look on you Harry. Maybe slightly longer beard but overall much cleaner look bro

[@nicholassmith6405]

Your doing great work with this channel Harry. All the best.

[@rue1567]

It's crazy BUT when I was losing my hair I did everything! To hold on to it but when I finally shaved my head I looked younger!

[@ashhqgqg3826]

Looking good man!

[@dbr8099]

I gotta give props to this channel. Today i finally take that golden step of courage to shaved my head bald. Im 25 but i feel Great now! Even when my friend is laughing at my Baldness i feel happy to make others smile or laugh. As for my personal feelings, i feel good as i do not need to always scratch my hair due to dandruff or dry skin, and it feels COOL 😇 Cheers from SINGAPORE!

[@matthieudelarte3914]

You have good head shape man ? i have shave my head like you but i don't like it :(

[@dbr8099]

@@matthieudelarte3914 Mine's Ok. Im letting the beard grow so it will look better

[@UltimateKyuubiFox]

A fun thing to note that’s rarely ever brought up: the most effective treatment for reversing balding involves shaving your head. So if you want to do a hair transplant, you’re going to have to get your head shaved first anyway. So you might as well do it yourself for free and see how you feel before spending thousands of dollars to do it under a knife. All the roots are still gonna be there regardless.

[@aaronuaconaill5688]

Of course! You might surprise yourself...

[@damienoptc7222]

And if you feel insecure even after shave head because of bad head shape like me ?

[@aaronuaconaill5688]

@@damienoptc7222 All he's suggesting is to give the shaved head a try before taking other radical options, because many people might find that they actually like a shaved look.

[@RickyBenangVlogs]

THIS! 👏 Well Said.

[@raupenimmersatt6906]

Also keep in mind that youll need to take Finasteride after the HT. So that will be another 30-50bucks per month+ maybe other things for your hair. If you absolutely dont want a shaved head, then Go ahead if get the transplant. Otherwise shave it and jump over your insecurities :-)

[@Freakybananayo]

Looking fresh my man and shout out to the vehicle watch sticker. Gotta keep the whip safe and secure 👍

[@John-vl3uq]

Your quite a good looking guy! With or without the beard. Your personality is so nice too! God bless you 🙏

[@joshuadeleonardis6847]

I would keep the stubble or keep it clean shaven at at all times..not many people can pull that look off but you can...

[@chuckwillis5827]

I did mine when it was cheaper to by the shaving gear than to go to barber shop, I love my Leaf Razor by the way.

[@diegoarmandomartinezzambra8740]

I always enjoy your videos harry.

[@marekbaron207]

Looks twice younger and better . Dont need that long beard bud ! I wanted to say it months ago and finaly you did it .

[@charlesjones2774]

Another excellent post, thank you for you efforts.

[@TheGekko124]

Looking fresh 👊🏻

[@Samuel115s]

You look more handsome like this, stubble suits you more than heavy beard 👌

[@user-mg6zv5wk1z]

Great videos Harry! You really helped me to take the last step. After so many long years of hiding it i finally did it and tbh i dont really know how i feel about it. So i am 22 and have been balding since 17/18. I went to get an haircut just before the start of the new semester on university last year and it just was not the way i wanted it to go. I struggled with my hair for so long and i was like just tired of it. I started skipping so many things bc of it and i regret it every day. So i decided to shave it off a couple hours before school. I was very worried about it because of my head shape (its kinda flat at the back). My hair always allowed me to make it look round. I have to say that i dont really feel very good about it just yet (even if other people say it looks much better) it makes me real insecure. And really cant let the hats go just yet. They make my worries go away. Maybe it needs more time.. Its very hard to accept it. Hopefully the feels will change in the near future.

[@babylon_bob]

I usually laugh at the comments and just say "Bald and proud, I'm individual, you just all look the same with hair, how awful" Usually knocks people of guard with the confidence

[@commonlyknownasali6956]

@Baldcafe you are making me chuckle i Remember when you were 29 years old last year and you did a video on Testosterone i think this video Layout is very simliar too this one i could be wrong but there is a slight Possibility that this could be a part 2

[@MLGmountainjew]

“Baldly... with an O (boldly)” 🤣

[@nomo4u886]

Rocking that bullet proof stubble

[@Georgem1742]

25 here, and I've been with battling hair loss for 3 years. Now my scalp is visible and hair density has decreased even more. I know it's just a decision to shave all of what's left, but did none of you "loved" your hair? Cause I did, I liked how I looked with a nice haircut and my beard, the way I could style it. These months, I am going to the WC and avoid looking at the mirror, because I cannot bare to look at my head. And of course, even if I shaved, I fear I won't look good and people will be judgmental. BOOM, there goes my self-esteem, or what's left of it.

[@Baldcafe]

This phase is all part of the journey man. Please check out my free ebook in the description. I hope it will help you 👍

[@greenbeanspotatoestomatoes8065]

Honestly seeing u with this stubble is insane, you got a model face, why cover that with a Santa beard?

[@rockymckay1705]

I love the new look bruv

[@leecharlesferguson2117]

Yet another epic video.

[@cislord8532]

Thank you for this channel

[@suzstancova4220]

You look very handsom without the beard.

[@twynzdouble6270]

Always love the mk2 golf video setting. I’m looking at buying one out here in the state’s they’re harder to find but recently saw one on vortexvw forum- gti mk2 in royal blue with bbs rm wheels- in Canada though.

[@user-kz9yg8it3z]

*Now it's time to change icon of channel*

[@iDTecKt]

Ironic but this video is exactly this

[@Rojomanzana438]

Harry, non hair related question: what is your ride?

[@spacekees102]

I think hes riding the Volkswagen Golf 2.

[@Baldcafe]

1989 Mk2 Golf 👍 Always been my dream car 🚗

[@bhughes1986]

@@spacekees102 Holy s*** - I didn't realise how expensive these were. Nice car!

[@vivalachocolat1]

Was wondering this too. My first car was an F reg MK2. I loved that car

[@donmanuelito2373]

I'm just 22 and i think am about to cry

[@DJJEZ]

Im rocking the same look. Shorter beard is better for sure

[@griffenbrd]

appreciate the insight

[@svenko333]

Words of wisdom

[@witchyvicar]

I know it's for different reasons, but as a bald (by choice) woman, I get women saying similar things to me. The "Oh, I could never shave my head! I have a weird shaped head!" thing. It seems to me that no matter who shaves their head, and from what I've seen on this channel, that everyone looks good and ends up feeling good once the decision's made. (Not sure if I'm making sense here, but Harry and y'all are just bad ass in my book!)

[@damienoptc7222]

I have already shave my head and i have bad head shape. I don't know what to do

[@HiddenFormula]

@@damienoptc7222 what are you on the norwood scale?

[@damienoptc7222]

@@HiddenFormula Norwood 1 but i have DUPA. I lost my hair in all of my head even in donor area and finasteride doesnt work on me. I have very bad head shape.

[@HiddenFormula]

@@damienoptc7222 why not just fade the sides and keep hair on the top?

[@kalipiana3880]

tyson fury in his car.......................

[@russelltaylor2675]

I agree looks good with out the beard

[@pinjuke]

Great message! BTW, you look awesome with a clean face to match your head.

[@magicalnicholas8327]

This is so fucking good man, as usual. Thanks

[@Bflo23]

I just shaved my head for the first time ever. I buzzed (no clip) it first and I didn't like it as much because my buzzed hair is black, my scalp is so white so it didn't hide my receding as much I liked. I shaved it with a razor and it looked much better. I need to tan my head to match my face skin color though. My scalp is too white. Haha. When my scalp matches my darker white skin, it will look better.... In a odd way, the more bald you are, it will actually look better than to see shaved receding dark hairline. If one goes for facial hair, I think a strong jawline looks better than any beard. Women find a strong jawline as a sexy attribute. Long beard covers it. Strong jawline should have no beard or short cut beard that shows the strong jawline..... I really like how my head feels. I rub it a lot. It is like a hand warmer. I wasn't mad or sad when I shaved my head. Good mood before and after. Debating whether to grow a goatee.

[@jakegreenwood6331]

Stubble looks loads better matey

[@picknick21]

I think this is your best look. Very clean, some stubble. I think you don't need the big beard at all ^^

[@user-kz9yg8it3z]

Dude, you look great bald, and you look great beardless, and you look great bald and beardless.

[@spitfire219]

You look better and a little bit younger with this new look mate! (imho)

[@_Wade_]

Aye m8 we rollin 2day

[@bhughes1986]

Harry, considering that you had the Arnie book - what training are you doing these days?

[@NoContextRDH]

So what? It still makes me feel like crap when people make cheap comments.

[@Baldcafe]

Improve your opinion of yourself

[@NoContextRDH]

@@Baldcafe trying to psychologise it by saying ‘well he must’ve said that because he’s insecure too’ does nothing for you.

[@randomguyh8y]

Hey baldcafe hope everything is going well. i was trying to get a hold of you to share you my head shave story but I never got a response anyways hope to hear from you soon.

[@thebeigesheep6132]

My boyfriend likes to shave bald so he has tried multiple electric razors from the cheap chinese ones all the way up to a nice panasonic arc4. But he always ends up with a red irritated scalp. Shaving cream doesnt seem to help because he has to do multiple passes to get the hair off (even with the expensive panosonic). Does anyone have any tips on better brands or methods? He doesnt want to use a straight razor because we dont have good mirrors in our bathroom.

[@louferrari1503]

A double edge safety razor tends to be best, or a disposable one or two blade razor

[@asr20nl]

You look better without beard dude... you look great

[@ZainandAlyshasvids]

Your big beard gone is better man in my opinion, u look healthier, u look great like this! 😄

[@mikepow8077]

Thought I would share, joe Rogan had a podcast with dr mark gordon and they talked about propecia finasteride and depression low energy. 44 and103 minutes in on the newest episode and also earlier in the podcast they brought up dht and how important it is. Hope this might help someone get off this medication and take the plunge.

[@DukeOfDC]

Love your channel! Just sent you an email in fact :)

[@Baldcafe]

I’ll take a look man thank you 👍

[@Akshayhaha]

I thought balding makes us look older. But u look freakin' young mate!

[@pisstakecentral]

*balding, definitely makes you look older but the clean shaven head kinda makes you look younger again tbh

[@SoberJokR]

Can we be best buddy Harry? I’m in Canada we should meet halfway. Haha. Good subject like always 👊

[@justinlarsen2281]

Dude you look great beardless.

[@kubasniak]

Bro btw you look much younger and cleaner with shorter beard or no beard than the long one imo. Cheers ;)

[@dimitrisp90]

I think talking ish about a bald guy or even being bald in general is part of their denial. Been there myself as well. It is part of the hair loss journey.

[@toouglyyoungmanwhodeserves3432]

I'm depressed by hair loss it makes me even uglier

[@leftovernewsasia8251]

I will help you to regrow your hair. Don't just believing harry the potter or else you ended up balding dude like him.

[@natsukakashi124]

Hello harry , can you speak about " weird head shape" on video ? . There are a lot of mans in this channel who seems to be insecure about head shape because of huge bump on the head. I saw a lot of comments like "i have bad head shape"

[@jj4330]

You look like Freddie ljungberg without the beard

[@user-dg5hn7nd7b]

You are looking so cool without beard. Hope you stick with this stubble

[@KrisVic91]

Do you know who Steven Ogg is Harry? He voice acted Trevor in GTA V, was in The Walking Dead, Westworld and few other V popular tv series. Anyway reason I bring him up, is he has the maddest hair most of the time. Pretty much just the sides but sweeps it back and sometimes rocks a handlebar moustache. But it looks awesome! He has bucket loads of charisma, and I've saw that he's went on podcasts and stuff with KZbinrs who have much less subs than you and is a really nice guy. My point is, I think sometimes guys forget, that many men who are balding are incredibly successful and admired, found attractive by women. Think Jack Nicholson, biggest womanizer in Hollywood, terrible Hairline, bags of charm haha. So umm yeah, balding creates illusions in the mind of many men I guess is my point. Peace ✌️ Kris.

[@rzapatrick3932]

you should make a video about guys who had hairtransplants and struggle with shaving it as it seldomly works out when hairloss progresses ( like it was for me ) cos of scarring. there r quite a lot around - like joe rogan... also, : johnny sins dude :D make it happe

[@anonim1320]

Your face seems to suit a bald head, but I don’t feel the same. I’m embarrassed to go outside and struggle with Body Dysmorphic Disorder (BDD). Do you have any advice for me?

[@Baldcafe]

Yes you should read the book “The Body Image Workbook Thomas Cash” and learn about exposure therapy.

[@Amateurboxer123]

im only 13 balding and i just shaved it off and now i will be more confdant

[@unclefester9265]

This is your best look, a stubble or eventually short beard with that jaw structure and your face, and in general...you don't need to hide your face with a big beard, believe me, lol.