Understanding Each Other -Healing Old Wounds and Learning New Skills

The war of the sexes is baloney. It is a false program placed on humanity to keep men and women from getting along. It is through us coming together in harmony that real power, real creative abilities can be released into this world, and the world will change.
Join Elisa as she clarifies a few of the problems, the misunderstandings between the sexes, and some easy to use skills to make your relationships better.
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*This is a ‘No AI Here’ platform. The ideas, images and wisdom are from one human soul sharing with another human soul.

[@Mrsboncouer]

Omgish...yes...bought into the idea of a prince charging into my life...then reality set in as I went thru some marriages, relationships...army of frogs out there😂

[@TheRebelCrone]

There is a lot of unconsciousness out there on both sides lol - male and female frogs. Just an idea - conscious women vs conscious men - not sure there is a balance of equal proportions hence its more challenging for us finding someone compatible. At least that is my experience.

[@fabuloushostess6171]

If you have to tell them when your birthday is, you put on them boots, girl.

[@TheRebelCrone]

...Cause these boots are made for walking... xo

[@saribk555]

I'm 61, been separated from my husband for 21 years and we just got divorced. I have been alone raising our children for those 21 years. There is of course much more to this story, but suffice it to say, I have been working on myself for the past 21 years in ways that previously, I didn't know possible. And I love me now. I don't believe relationships can be loving ones unless you love yourself first, which is not easily done really as we have been programed our whole lives. Not just by Disney although that was defo huge programing, but also by our schooling, family and society. These are all programs that we must break and release. It has taken me years, and I'm pretty sure I'm not done! Thank you for this video, you even got my daughters attention.

[@StarCliffrunner]

I agree with you 100% ...You have to love yourself first. I went for so many years and relationships before I finally discovered I had to love me first. My "knight " wasn't able to " fix" me. After marrying my husband I spent many, many days alone in a remote area without close friends near by. (My husband worked out of town a lot.) Being forced to be with myself for days helped me discover my inner self and grow a deep and loving relationship with her. It was my love for my husband that made it easier to be alone and to finally have the quietness I needed to spend time with me. I do not need to be "fixed" by someone else .

[@TheRebelCrone]

Great reply and yes, it is a complicated matter on one hand and then on the other hand its super simple - love yourself - your real self not ego. I am with my third husband, took a long break between two and three. Continue to allow myself to evolve and since coming into profound self love, my soul evolution has increased. Which for me, is the point of it all! Love that you have the kind of connection to your daughter that you could share these vids. Hey check out the "big hat people" vid, if you havent already. Its about what you said... not done yet!

[@TheRebelCrone]

@starcliffrunner - speaking my language! All the advances I have made in my life have come by being quiet and with myself. Nowadays that requirement has increased - hence living in the desert far away for the energetic confusion of having lots of people around. My husband is a gem in that he lets me be - doesnt require much from me - except dinner, lol - and gives me tons of space to explore and grow. But that is a bit of a challenge since I do exactly that - explore, grow and then change. You get my drift..

[@Mrsboncouer]

12 yrs single after 2nd divorce....have kind of given up ob finding the right one...I know it is process of being the right self as well...but at this point...I've been solo so long...would definitely be a challenge (likely self induced) cohabitating, sharing space with another

[@TheRebelCrone]

I had two divorces by the time I was 40 and then took a long time off.... let go, met a wonderful man, got married.... I keep changing and growing into my true self so we will see what happens now. I am ok with it all... and I would be perfectly fine alone.

[@Innerdiamond]

I've been listening to men moan about their relationships my whole life and have a deep insight into men, their needs and desires. It's really not that hard women. Keep a man feeling nurtured with appreciation of his efforts, affection and sexual fulfillment, and good cooking with a listening ear creates a smooth ride. Otherwise, astrology is helpful. Some personalities are better as friends, work, rather than love. I personally dont believe in pushing a square peg in a round hole.

[@TheRebelCrone]

The kind and gentle way... well said @innerdiamond. That is my north star as well. My parents astrologically were not a good fit, yet they had me and that wasn't a mistake, that was part of the plan. Still I just wished they could have been able to rest into each others arms. Exo

[@Mrsboncouer]

Lol...lost me at good cooking...honestly...there are men who enjoy that, want to at least be a part of that process, as they should IMO😉

[@mgn1621]

Hard to have a healthy relationship with emotionally unavailable men who refuse to self reflect

[@lightactivator1048]

I found you through your interview with Archaix. I’m 52 and on my journey of self love self compassion and purpose as an elder and matriarch for my 2 daughter’s. Through my own healing and lice journey Ive found ME and I am for freedom and sovereignty! So much love to you Rebel Crone. You are an amazing beautiful radiant woman with so much wisdom💫✨⭐️🕊️🫶🏽🙏🏽💜

[@TheRebelCrone]

Thank you @lightactivator1048... Nice to be in good company!

[@EnergyFlows2u]

So much of what you share I just resonate with...❤..excellent vid x

[@noonsynoo]

what a treasure you are these chats are so relevant thanks for sharing ❤

[@patriciarobinson1576]

Ugh! Men and women are so very different! I'm turning 78 yo, married 3 times ... different stages of my life, different men. This one is 34 yrs and counting. It took me 26 yrs to accept a ring, and he is a piece of work! But i adore his masculine ways. Thankfully i had grown into a more confident woman by the time i met him and have learned how to embrace our differences. And you're right. A man wants to know how to fix it ... i tell him, just comfort me. He doesnt get it, lol. At least he has learned i need time to process my emotions. Doesnt mean i'm holding a grudge; Just that i havent figured it out yet, and it's ok. Just be nice, ok? Sometimes he talks to me like i'm in the men's locker room. Yuck! Look. I'm a girl. You wouldnt say that to your mom, right? I dont need to hear that stuff. Especially when men get older and their egos are so fragile. I read something that hit home for me ... A woman's primary role is to help him connect to his soul/heart. A man's primary role is to protect and make the world safe for his woman.

[@TheRebelCrone]

LOL! Love your comment - thank you for sharing... Exo

[@66el]

The Princess who Believed in Fairy Tales by Marcia Grad is a great book to read relating to your message. It’s an easy read, but very powerful. I by chance was introduced to the book decades ago, but the message didn’t really sink in until years after. There is a name for the late boomers who are closer to Gen X called the Jones generation that accounts for the differences in experiences growing up during the span attributed to boomers. As one who fits into the Jones age, I find I relate more to Gen X and truly believe we can’t all be lumped into the same group. Love listening to your videos. Thanks! ❤

[@TheRebelCrone]

Don't like being in a group either... boomer never really fit but where the heck did the name 'Jones age' come from? lol!

[@StarCliffrunner]

I plan on sending you a deeper response to your video today. It touched my heart in such a way that with every word you said I knew would affect me days and years to come. I know I will be more able to feel my relationship with the love and compassion I felt when I first had that magical time with getting to know my husband. Frustrations set in when our communication started breaking down. You have really set a president for me to follow in my future need to make my relationship with my husband more loving and understanding with the differences between men and women. I know because of my past I was trying to fix him when he didn't need to be fixed. This in turn caused a lot of strife with us both and we lost communication and only had conflict as we held our ground. He is really a great man the one that I search for my whole life. The knight in shining armor has always been my issue as I felt that he was supposed to continue to sweep me off my feet with all his loving ways. I am so happy to find out that I was living a Disney nightmare that was not going to go away unless someone pointed it out to me. You are my golden savior, your wisdom is far beyond what I could discover inside my soul. Thank you from the deepest part of my being.

[@TheRebelCrone]

You are welcome - I am just a reminder call. You know all of this, life 9dungeon programming as our friend would say) just got in the way. Please know that I work with this pattern of letting go and being good with my relationship to be frustrated and wondering if its the right thing. I work on this in some way every day. My partner is my dear soul friend and yet inside I long for a soul mate - is that real or is that part of the programming of the unreality? Its complex.. best I can do is to maintain a peaceful heart that trusts in the process. That process is one of letting my soul guide me and being a loving partner. AND to stop trying to change him! That has been one of my big aha realizations - let him be. Let him do what he needs to do. Watch, support when asked and see where he decides to go in his evolvement. It may work for me or it may not. But it will be grounded in his truth and mine. Hope that makes sense and maybe helps a bit. You are not alone in this!

[@StarCliffrunner]

@@TheRebelCrone Yes it sure does make sense to me and you are stating almost exactly the relationship I have with my husband. He is on such a different plane than I am now. Which makes it so tough. I have tried to share my wisdom learning a lot of it from listening to Jason, but he's just not even close to thinking the way I do. I have pretty much closed that chapter of sharing my most inner wisdom, feelings, and excitement of being an errant with him. It makes me very sad to discover we aren't the soul mates I once thought we were. I still love him very deeply though, but in reading your words" soul friend" an epiphany hit me. That is the perfect way to describe what I have been feeling for a very long time now about the relationship we now have. I just didn't have the words to place in my heart to make it feel as solid as it did when I read your note. Once again I have to thank you for that. You are a breath of fresh air. I am always excited to see what your next video is going to teach me. I love your fashion videos as well. Cheers and have a wonderful day!

[@TheRebelCrone]

@@StarCliffrunner I have had to let it go - let it go to my higher self and now I trust that it will sort itself out in perfect timing. What that looks like I have no idea. Some days I am at peace with it and other days I am not. But, on those days I try to return as quickly as possible to a state of grace in knowing that all is and will be well... in one fashion or another, so to speak!

[@StarCliffrunner]

@@TheRebelCrone with your help I've come to that realization as well. In that way I feel that we're sort of living the same situation. At my age I don't want to make any changes in my home lifestyle. My husband is my soul friend and I'm good with that. I know that I'll never have another man in my life should something happen to my husband. At least he lets me be me most of the time without getting too aggressive with sharing my time with him. He just has political views that he wants to bounce off of people and I'm not into that sort of thing at all. I don't want to waste my energy thinking about political issues. I have more positive things to involve my life in.

[@outrider2040]

Grateful you are sharing your wisdoms 💓

[@karenhart2923]

Thankyou , this has been very insightful .😊

[@ematurtubaesu9414]

Hope you do more of these videos!

[@TheRebelCrone]

I plan on it! Let me know if there are any areas you would like more vids about! Exo

[@ematurtubaesu9414]

​@@TheRebelCroneI would love to hear more of your take on toxic relationships,I am in one and it's taking a toll on my mental health.Thank you so.much for responding, really appreciate it!❤

[@TheRebelCrone]

@@ematurtubaesu9414 The quick answer - everything in your world is simply a reflection - maybe it showing you that more selflove is needed. Start inside. Begin forgiving yourself and then loving yourself. Eventually there will be no need or space for anyone to treat you otherwise. The inverse is also true. What annoy us in another person is something that annoys us in ourselves. Once again. make peace with yourself. All life is an inside job! Get that straightened out, your outer world we reflect back to you a new reality...

[@ematurtubaesu9414]

​@@TheRebelCroneThose are very good points, I do believe I need to love myself more,have been doing inner work for years and being "stuck "in this situation makes me question myself....thank you for taking the time to respond, I will meditate on what you have said,and trust I will be divinely guided towards the answers and the inner knowing I need to acquire ❤

[@EnergyFlows2u]

Scottish lass living in Newcastle England...would be interesting to know where others are from on here..❤

[@TheRebelCrone]

Dittos! I am in the desert south of Santa Fe NM!

[@SueD138]

Hello. Happy single 57 YO living in Perth, West Australia. Work 2 weeks on, 1 week off in mining, Port Hedland, West Australia. Very frequent traveller and just love my life!😊

[@rogermyers8283]

We wouldn't be motivated to create new relationships unless the old model wasn't working. Looked at like that we need the war between the sexes to get us to create the relationships of our future.

[@TheRebelCrone]

Interesting idea - there are creative tensions that provide catalyst for growth and then there are just plain old tensions that do nothing but drag everyone down... and yet, some of us rise up and improve ourselves and move on to bigger and better stuff, aka: people.

[@arizonaraven419]

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