Understanding How to Manage Anger in Motherhood - Amber Lia & Wendy Speake Part 2

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Focus on the Family

Focus on the Family

Күн бұрын

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@annezehring9006
@annezehring9006 5 жыл бұрын
This is one of the best videos I’ve ever listened to. It’s late at night and I was washing dishes while listening. If I could like this 1,000 times I would. This change has already started in me, thank God, though I have a long way to go. Thank you for doing what you do. So many of your videos have encouraged me.
@mrsstacyhomemaker3827
@mrsstacyhomemaker3827 5 ай бұрын
I needed this. I have a newborn daughter that is a lovely little one and a two year old daughter that is also a really sweet and easygoing girl, but I find myself expecting the toddler to behave perfectly sometimes to keep things quiet enough for the newborn to sleep. It didn’t start out as feeling angry, but when my toddler screams as I put down her sister to nap, I find myself yelling back sternly and in a threatening tone now and I hate it about what I am. It surprises me how I can be so tender and understanding, yet flip into expecting so much from my sweet little girl.
@gotori321
@gotori321 Ай бұрын
Same 😩 it truly hurts afterwards like who is this person?? This is not me
@lovetha4484
@lovetha4484 5 жыл бұрын
Favorite line « my child DARES act like a child ». Very good point and reminder.
@katiedomitrovich2890
@katiedomitrovich2890 3 жыл бұрын
i agree it just hit me like wow
@jezreelgve
@jezreelgve 2 жыл бұрын
This podcast is so timely for me. Today I really reached my breaking point wondering Lord how do I help my three year old son how do I parent him joyfully…..
@latoriarichardson6754
@latoriarichardson6754 3 жыл бұрын
I can relate (2:32). It's more peaceful when I'm not focused on my home being 100% tidy 24/7 and just live and let my children live too!
@aracelivargas4346
@aracelivargas4346 5 жыл бұрын
I am crying right now listening to this as I am cleaning the kitchen, exhausted. Because my story is similar to one of the ladies. Relate so much, bringing memories back that are so touching to me. My 1st son was colic, my 2nd and 3rd were as well although not as bad as the 1st one. Were was this information when I needed it at that stressful mami times. Thank you for sharing because there is struggling moms that need to hear this. Thank God he was always there and I didnt realize it till later. Jesus is the way. He kept me sane thru this momlife
@CP-gq5fw
@CP-gq5fw 5 жыл бұрын
prayed for you! prayed for your babies too!
@angelwings2721
@angelwings2721 Жыл бұрын
I WISH I had a kitchen to clean.v
@rosenjoroge7833
@rosenjoroge7833 Жыл бұрын
This is lovely, am a new mum and am learning alot, Thank you
@MarisaVillal
@MarisaVillal 2 ай бұрын
I really enjoyed this. Thank you for reminding me about the power in prayer ❤
@racheltevaseu6508
@racheltevaseu6508 Жыл бұрын
Thank you..I'm a single widow of 3 teens 14,16,and 18...it's hard when you're also trying to manage with my health as well..sometimes I feel as if I'm by myself. T his was very encouraging..thanks Wendy. Thank you Focus.
@ingemarais2624
@ingemarais2624 2 жыл бұрын
Oh my word, thank you so much for this, i'm in tears, thank you for this. I don't feel alone anymore.
@pdtate6590
@pdtate6590 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much please keep encouraging us mom's we need the support😁.
@CP-gq5fw
@CP-gq5fw 5 жыл бұрын
Enjoyed watching...such a necessary conversation...thanks FOTF!
@iceblue112
@iceblue112 5 жыл бұрын
@Debbie Ephesians 5:25 "Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her... ...husbands ought to love their wives as their own bodies. He who loves his wife loves himself." Sounds to me that if I my wife asks for help I would help her because I love her. And again - Matthew 18:15-17 "If your brother or sister sins, go and point out their fault, just between the two of you.
@margueritemoir7227
@margueritemoir7227 Жыл бұрын
Thank you so so much for sharing this!! It has been such an encouragement.
@hlengiwendaba8345
@hlengiwendaba8345 4 жыл бұрын
I’m married for 14yrs and my children are 12 (boy) and 9 (girl). Thank you for this topic as a child of God I want to live Gods Word in every aspect of my life. I really needed this. Thank you. God bless you.
@sejalkothari6687
@sejalkothari6687 2 жыл бұрын
This is so very powerful.. thank you 🙏
@123Karliz123
@123Karliz123 4 жыл бұрын
I just requested this book to my public library! I'm third in line hopefully it won't take too many months to have it in my hands!!! :)
@BickyToya
@BickyToya 4 жыл бұрын
i know you commented this 3 months ago but if you ever want a book for cheap check out Thiftbooks
@jamillygouveia5699
@jamillygouveia5699 Жыл бұрын
The only thing that I missed in this podcast is a word for women that are not mothers yet. How, why can/should we choose this caos? I am a stepmother, i don't have kids myself but i see anger in me, I hate it and these moments really get me to think If I want to be a mom.
@christelle1982ful
@christelle1982ful 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you! Thank you so much!
@partyof5118
@partyof5118 2 жыл бұрын
Amen!!!!
@scdavis1438
@scdavis1438 9 ай бұрын
Where can I get this book now? I see it’s so longer available online? What a timely manner in which I found this podcast!
@kmckenney1311
@kmckenney1311 5 жыл бұрын
Anyone know of any podcasts specifically for Dad's and patience and how to be a Godly leader?
@natashariley4315
@natashariley4315 Жыл бұрын
This is all good for two parent homes. But how can I be enough as a single parent?!
@kristinyaekelnegley3978
@kristinyaekelnegley3978 2 жыл бұрын
Okay, biting my tongue. I know husbands are tired too. But if they like it so tidy, can’t they help pick up too?
@kristinyaekelnegley3978
@kristinyaekelnegley3978 2 жыл бұрын
Hmmm, I wonder why the mess in our home makes a mess out of us.😆
@angelwings2721
@angelwings2721 Жыл бұрын
Unmet needs and no breaks. Most moms realities.
@singersunite9785
@singersunite9785 Жыл бұрын
All women are angry, specially single mothers, that’s untill they feel desired, soon as a single mother gets attention of a man all that deep dark anger goes away, the only problem is her children get demoted, and her attention becomes more important than her children, I see this so many times
@DisciplesHeart
@DisciplesHeart 4 жыл бұрын
These conversations need to reach every household and the only way they ever will #Titus2Mandate I just uploaded this and encourage everyone to watch my most recent video.... "It's not a me or you problem, It's an I (eye) problem" and the the only solution is within us all #Luke17v21 #2Corinthians13v5 that is evident and made public this very moment. Yet most ignore #2Chron7v14 and keep going in the wrong direction. It's truly a the end of the age #Matthew24Warning each of these scripture and prophecies are fulfilled today and everyday the unfolds.
@christyzn7095
@christyzn7095 4 жыл бұрын
So I’m hearing..if you have the money (to pay for extra help) and an extra room, for a quiet space ... you’ll b better.. many moms don’t have that luxury.. can we please talk about Jesus and how we need only HIM
@queenwifemomdaughter2970
@queenwifemomdaughter2970 3 жыл бұрын
She literally said "Its not a specific formula its Jesus" Maybe you should listen to it again and hear the main points and not focus on the examples. Don't miss the forest for the trees.
@victoriacharles9950
@victoriacharles9950 Жыл бұрын
We need Jesus obviously as Christian’s first but faith without works is deas
@victoriacharles9950
@victoriacharles9950 Жыл бұрын
Dead
@user-wz7uz5uh7c
@user-wz7uz5uh7c 9 ай бұрын
Your quiet space can just be to step outside for a few minutes. Doesn't have to be another room. Apply what you can to your life. Jesus is the answer. Not the materialistic things.
@sierra4883
@sierra4883 5 жыл бұрын
Husband can help clean up too.
@iceblue112
@iceblue112 5 жыл бұрын
I can't tell if you are being sarcastic or not so I will treat your comments as if they are serious. Just because it says in Titus that women should be busy at home(NIV) or work at home(ESV) does not mean they should be the ones cleaning the home. It does mean that they shouldn't sit around all day doing nothing getting drunk(also in the passage you pointed out). Submission for a woman is not letting the guy make all the decisions without the woman ever talking, submission is allowing the husband to lead the family with the wife stepping back, when there are 2 opposing views on a subject. But there should be dialog and discussion between the couple. Finally, You should take up your grief with Lisa Harper yourself, and not a general post on a youtube video. Matthew 18:15-17 "If your brother or sister sins, go and point out their fault, just between the two of you."
@DisciplesHeart
@DisciplesHeart 4 жыл бұрын
@@iceblue112 well said. You should harvest your comments and put them in articles or blog. It's something I do a lot
@iceblue112
@iceblue112 4 жыл бұрын
@@DisciplesHeart Thanks for the encouragement. Man this was from a year ago does time fly. I see the original comment was edited from what it said in the first place. Lol
@DisciplesHeart
@DisciplesHeart 4 жыл бұрын
@@iceblue112 it's media and anything other than face to face communication that is communion can be manipulated and that is the very definition of witchcraft. This is why we are warned not to consult with any9ne other than Holy Spirit... but who can say they truly listen to His voice and do what He says trusting it's right? Answer #Matthew7v13t14
@sierra4883
@sierra4883 3 жыл бұрын
@@DisciplesHeart who are yall responding to?
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