understanding the MOON IN 12TH HOUSE synastry overlay 🫣 || december astro challenge: day eleven 🌙

there's no reason to be suspicious, but for some reason, in the initial stages of the MOON IN THE 12TH HOUSE synastry overlay, you two have a hard time trusting that the other likes you or has genuine intentions for you. there can be a bit of an on and off vibe with you but there's often a deep psychic link created between you two, and that will most likely keep remain for life.
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[@DeAnne401]

I'm the house person and he's he's moon, we don't actually know each other on a personal level but there's definitely a strong connection! Like we can telepathically communicate and know how each other feel. This feels like a forbidden love kinda deal. I didn't like him at first because he's pretty immature and a womaniser, he knows I look down on that and all of a sudden he's working, getting his shit together and he's in a relationship. I know I triggered something deep in him lol. Anyway, there's all these weird synchronicities and sometimes I feel like I can actually smell him, and I get the feeling he's watching me, when he's actually just thinking about me and it really catches me off guard 💀🤣 I remember when we first met I held my hand out to shake his and he took mine, looked deep into my eyes and he almost kissed it, but stopped himself. He was completely charmed and mystified, the attraction between us was instant! My Pluto conjuncts his sun and his sun is in my 8th house, so there's abit of obsession here. When we're around each other we get so shy and quiet because we both know we can see through each other. He's a Pisces moon and I'm a scorpio moon 🌙

[@abhinandankanwar1445]

I have read about this synastry on tumbler many times that in the beginning, both parties will enjoy the interaction with each other and have many deep interactions. After sometime, either of the person or mainly house person disappears and the moon person is left confused lol.

[@lisakaye3919]

We have double moon in 12th. But I am older than him and more spiritually evolved. I definitely ran away bc he’s too immature to handle this placement. But we have DEEP feelings for each other. Just not meant to be tho

[@forangelests]

my moon is in a person i’m talking to 12h. i don’t even remember how we met, but once i started to get to know her it was like, “damn, do i know you?“ i just felt a instant connection the first time we met. we talked everyday about literally nothing for hours, i never understood why. i felt a intense connection with her, once i noticed i felt that i wanted to fall back from her. i was feeling extreme feelings & i was trying to keep myself away from her. i would fight myself from talking to her, it’s crazy how i still do this too. i was indeed jealous, i was becoming possessive but i was guarded at the same time all because i’m watching her and i was getting downloads about her talking to others so bad that it made me ask my tarot cards was what was her intention 😵‍💫 and it literally confirmed it for me. i was right and i was iffy about trying to not talk to her. but it felt like love between us, it was intense that i didn’t want to let her go.

[@theimaniamanda]

yoo the downloads that come when you meet someone with this overlay too is wilddd

[@kc_]

I'm the house person and I did think my moon person hates me. I still think he hates me but I do get downloads that he's watching me and he has some sort of deeper feelings for me which is confusing because how he acts towards me comes across as dislike. But Bec I'm into tarot and astrology, I understood the energy and I put in more effort trying to talk to him and let him get to know me. It brought us into a much better place. Could it be that your person just doesn't know that you like them? If I wasn't into tarot, I would genuinely still think that my moon person hates me. Could it be that they think you dislike them too?

[@GalaxyFluke]

Wild in moon and my 12th houser runs from my love. I know he loves me but he acts like he doesn’t. He can’t look me in the eyes currently.

[@3rdHousePhoenix]

What's your IG?

[@dawnykim7585]

LOL in the back corner of the room, wearing a trenchcoat and sunglasses. this cracked me up

[@user-os8th7fg6i]

My best friend and I have this. I moved away for 8 yrs we lost touch the last couple yrs. I decided to move back home and she called me the week I was moving...and I never mentioned anything to her yet. Talk about psychic we have some many other instances like that it's crazy

[@theimaniamanda]

that’s so on brand omg hahaha so cool, love this

[@ashleymonae4935]

I didn’t have a great experience with this synastry lol (despite having 12h placements myself)-I was the moon person in his 12h. We connected right off the bat, like spent so much time together in the beginning & he was very open and honest. I could feel that he liked me. However, when I was the first to be open about my feelings-he started to close up. I still regret being honest about the way I felt because for me that’s a huge thing. Like I feel very uncomfortable & vulnerable when I’m open & it was even worse because we were in a group of mutual friends when it happened, so it played out publicly (his leo 12H with my leo moon in it). So yeah all those deep bonding convos & time we spent together was put to a halt. It was terrible for me because I feel deeply & could still feel him while he just shutdown but I never had anyone to vent about this to because I would be deemed crazy lol. No one would understand. I’d definitely be iffy if I had to experience that again but I’m older & have grown a lot since then soo possibly.

[@theimaniamanda]

yoo, I feel you on the no one would understand cause I been thereeee 😭but yeah, going into someone's else's 12H is always uncomfortable, especially for the house person, because that's the one place where you don't want people to see you. a lot of times, the house person has their own story line running in their head, and it can be so hard to understand what they're thinking and hard to see why they wouldn't want to grow something that feels so deep between you but sigh it's most of the time just fear of being vulnerable in that way. i love deep connections too, and they've burnt me more than once, but I just won't accept surface level stuff so it's either this or nothing 🥹

[@ashleymonae4935]

@@theimaniamanda right! Even after 3 years of separation (I had to cut him off because I started to feel extremely drained-it def wasn’t a give and take situation towards the end) I still don’t know wtf was real & what wasn’t. Like you described, I just have a vision in my head about what could’ve been and feelings that linger. I have a 7H moon so idk if these feelings are even mine. The confusion is real lol.

[@lisakaye3919]

I agree. I have sun in the 12th and I am constantly attracting 12th house deep relationships and I am constantly misjudging feelings. And getting my feelings hurt often. Currently I have 2 guys im interested in moon in my 12th house conjunct my sun and I can not tell if they like me or not Side note my past relationship of 12 years had sun and moon in 12th yet i never really felt understood

[@lisakaye3919]

Also I can add….maybe the other person felt you were more of a friend. Your sun and venus were probably in his/her non romantic houses

[@Diamond_tip]

I had this with this guy who would come into my job I started working, right on the nose I felt like we didn’t like eachother I remember like giving him a mean look cause he was younger and obnoxious.. and It was obvious him and his friend would always talk about me, you can tell. the more I saw him I’d be more kind cause I wanted to talk to him on some level. Whenever he’d leave he’d rev his engine, LOUD everytime! We were cordial, he’d always tell me he appreciates me.. Then several months later I got a new job and I only worked at that spot one day out of the week and I went into a drawer in our work area to look for some medicine for a headache and an ID was laying facing me on top of all the junk. And to my surprise I recognized the face, it was his. A few weeks later his friend I’d always see him with came in and I slid that ID to him, I could only imagine how he must have felt knowing how smooth I am :) Just the fact that it ended up in my hands gave me that feeling, and his picture was really nice it was like seeing someone and just sensing that familiarity. His sun falls in the same house of my sun, we both have Leo Venus and his Pisces moon falls in my 12th house. I thought it was interesting being how 12th house also is losses and how he lost his ID, somones ID would be apart of their personal identity, shows home address, birthdate, very Moon like. Very Moon/12th house synastry incident

[@theladyalchemist._]

Yea this is crazy how true this is

[@quorrennicolebullock5443]

My moon is in my bf's 12th house but his venus is in my 7th house and my venus is in his 8th house ... his sun is in my 7th house and my jupiter is in his 9th house ! I think he is the love of my life. His mars is in my 6th house and my mars is in his 9th house. I think we just need to get married already

[@Lovergirlllllll]

Ur absolutely incredible

[@theimaniamanda]

appreciate youu 😭💖

[@lisakaye3919]

Ha I have this placement with my crush. His moon is conjunct my aries sun which is in my 12th. I can’t tell if he likes me or not. But I have a huge crush on him despite a huge age difference. His venus is also EXACTLY on my descendant. His saturn is also conjunct my moon. And we have tons of Neptunian energy. Sigh. I will just dream of something going further but knowing it won’t happen fr

[@minuit6305]

My moon is in my mother's 12h. Its very emotionally taxing. She demands alot of attention and expects me to listen for hours about her problems.

[@theimaniamanda]

oh no 😭😭

[@lisakaye3919]

🩷

[@MsSpecialK29]

Moon in 12th is very good for a therapist or even medical diagnostic for the house person. They can see into and really get to the bottom of a lot of things. If you don't want to be in that role & house person is not mindful of wanting too much "therapy" , yes, it can be taxing. :/

[@hoodempresstarot436]

New subscriber🥰🫶🏽

[@theimaniamanda]

ayye 🔥💃🏿 thank you for being here!! ❤️

[@meditatewithme5652]

This guy I know who teaches me classes . I would post something that I found funny and he never talks to me almost avoiding me but when I would post something he would get super offended ! Never was I thinking of him or anything ! When I lost a friend a while ago and it got ugly he was defending me through his posts like talking about the fight but not directing to me found out his moon in in my 12 . I do notice he watched me a lot and subconsciously does things I speak about but he like tried to not acknowledge me even though I can tell he’s doing things to get my attention. The first day I met him we were both super uncomfortable the intensity was crazy . Whole time he was watching me from behind me it was so heavy ! But hot

[@meditatewithme5652]

another note he follows all my friends even family members but acts like he doesn’t watch me lol

[@meditatewithme5652]

Exactly what he did watch me so funny you said this

[@meditatewithme5652]

He also has an 8house moon in cancer but we could never talk or anything we both restrictions but I did notice him and how heavy his energy is !

[@meditatewithme5652]

He does get jealous too I’m in a relationship and when I post about him I notice he starts likening all my friends pictures even sisters

[@meditatewithme5652]

I also notice that the moon can scare the 12 house away . I’ve been the moon and 12 house . 12 house usually ends up super uncomfortable with the intensity

[@dddwrooom5307]

I dated this girl for two months, we had known each other for a year before this, we never met because of my fear And now we broke up, but something inside me says that she will come back to me She used to say she loves me and then she doesn't And in the last argument, she was saying very mean things, and yet I didn't get mad at her. I don't know why. All I have left is love. She has a Moon, Sun, Mercury, Mars, Saturn, in Aries, in my twelfth house And my Saturn and Jupiter and my ascendant in her twelfth house she will be back i know

[@theimaniamanda]

💖💖💖

[@lisakaye3919]

Oh my. She may be a narcissist. That is way too mich Aries in one chart. And take it from me Im an Aries lol thank goodness I have a moon in pisces ♓️ but yea you should let that go. Good luck

[@jahb7160]

All that Aries omg I would burn myself up , you need to run away from that literal demon child running towards you with a burning pitchfork and cackling like a gremlin on drugs 😂 just joking , good luck tho I hope you find the love you need ❤

[@dddwrooom5307]

@@jahb7160 you cant run from love i have to accept that

[@lovergworl_]

Did she come back

[@paulaglenn-lamb2549]

What do you mean by the house person?

[@theimaniamanda]

the house person is the one having someone else's planet fall in their house, and the moon person would be the one bringing their moon into someone else's house. i'll do an example. let's say I have a gemini moon in my 1st house in my birth chart. however, when I look at my partner's/love interest's chart, gemini is on their 12th house in their birth chart. depending on the house system, most likely when i create a synastry chart from my birth chart and theirs, it will show that my gemini moon would fall in their 12th house. let me know if that makes sense 💖

[@helicopterhelicopter2863]

My ex had his taurus moon in my 12h and it trines my Venus 8h Capricorn. He still cheated on me with another woman, it got me questioning if he really loved me Like after 1 week he was already entertaining someone else. Until now it really confused me as the 12h person.

[@theimaniamanda]

😭😭 I’ve been the house person with this and also have so many unanswered questions from that connection. hard to know what’s real from what’s not 😭😭 but what’s a fact is that’s their personal issue fr to deal with. at its root, it don’t got nothing to do with us 😭❤️

[@abhinandankanwar1445]

Wow, I think I saved myself from a big mess after reading your comment. I was talking to someone who had their cancer moon in my 12h and my venus, just like you in 8H Pisces. I had sensed something shallow in her behaviour as if she wasn't much passionate in growing our bond. Like she wanted only me to initiate contact and mostly ask her the questions. I halted in between to check whether she also initiates contact or not, but she didn't. I left her alone with her pride, unfollowed her on insta and also removed her from mine. I am feeling a sigh of relief now. Thank God I didn't bend too much for her and let that bond grow too deep only to be cheated or kinda neglected. Her late dry replies were hint, btw she was the one who asked for my insta and then went cold. It's strange. Venus in 8th seems like curse. I've met many people online who got cheated with this position but some ended up in loyal committed marriages as well.

[@AlinaMilaya]

Hm, his moon in my 12 house and I did not feel anything like that…🤷🏻‍♀️ He was actually very interested to meet again! Maybe bc he also has sun and Venus lol Do you think I should run away from this guy? We literally in and off for the past 2 years but every time we meet, it’s the same vibe and like we never were apart 🤦🏻‍♀️

[@theimaniamanda]

that's okay! there are a lot of things that can happen in a chart to cause behaviors to manifest differently in synastry so these videos aren't gonna always be a one size fits all. I would agree though that the sun in the 12th house does give the moon and venus overlays an extra boost of encouragement and support so they won't be too 'shadowed' in the 12th house if that makes sense. if you feel good about the connection, I wouldn't see why not to continue. it would only be a matter of whether or not you're not too digging the on and off thing.

[@AlinaMilaya]

@@theimaniamanda thank you so much for your thoughtful answer, I appreciate it :)

[@lisakaye3919]

Look at any uranus or saturn connections you might have. Those are usually responsible for on and off again relationships