Imagine having 5 children plus dozens of grand and great grandchildren and still feeling completely alone in life. I'm glad that I watched the entire episode and heard Victor and Angel talk about loneliness in the elderly community, because that's such an important topic. We can look at their marriage from the outside and make assumptions about why they're together, but what I see is two people who have a genuine love and friendship that is mutually beneficial. Victor knows his wife will be there to love and care for him in his remaining years, and Angel knows she has a husband who loves, respects and provides for her.
@wisdomnstrength Жыл бұрын
Amen. That's right 👍🏼.
@sandrawoods57woods89 Жыл бұрын
That right there is what everyone should have heard. He has all them Children, Grandchildren and Great Grandchildren and was lonely as Hell. What's up with that. All those Grown Ass Children, waiting on him to die and get his money. F them. Go Victor, live your life to the fullest. Spend your money the way you want. You the only one work for your money 💰
@queensmiley9316 Жыл бұрын
I totally agree. She’s there with a genuine and pure heart. He’s wanted her from the first day he met her until her finally got her. I’m all for it. Those kids of his had plans to throw him in a facility and walk away but God!!! He worked it out in his favor. He who find a wife find a good thing. She didn’t go looking for him to marry her she was wanting to let him know her dad had transition over. He found her again and he held on. You go Victor and be happy. My prayer is that she love him and treats him good in which I’m for sure she will. You go Girllll
@Lovelyparadise1 Жыл бұрын
I literally was googling how to volunteer at old homes because of this! They are lonley it’s sad
@margieroberson670 Жыл бұрын
❤ His intentional devotion to her and her family got me. Most black men don't utter these types of words.
@ebonysmith4054 Жыл бұрын
Victor lost 8 friends in the last 90 days. Angel is giving him what he needs at this stage in his life. And he’s giving her what she needs. I love their union. I pray God blesses their marriage abundantly.
@chanteandrews849 Жыл бұрын
👏🏾👏🏾❤️❤️❤️❤️
@areyoufreeenough137211 ай бұрын
God has a way.
@BenefitsofBravery11 ай бұрын
Eb you're awesome
@denisealston7009 Жыл бұрын
It’s amazing to hear that he invested in her during her younger years. He helped with college tuition and taught her how to invest in stocks. He set her up for success a long time ago. They met 16 years ago, had a friendship, and he poured into her intentionally the whole time. That’s a love many can’t fathom.
@literarylady1125 Жыл бұрын
Sounds like a sugar daddy to me 😏
@jaiyabyrd4177 Жыл бұрын
@@literarylady1125 I totally agree 💯 Super Super Sugar Daddy......
@jaiyabyrd4177 Жыл бұрын
@ccshinebright Stop being naive‼️ When a person sincerely is supporting your future no strings should be attached‼️ Angel's finances have come from Victor....
@jaiyabyrd4177 Жыл бұрын
@ccshinebright I said what I said‼️ So don't come at me with any lies or attempt to distort my comments. I'm glad you are triggered, but don't try to be evil and misconstrue what I said. While listening to this entire episode. Victor wants comfort in his twilight years. Angel has actually been taken care of by Victor for decades. This is transactional. No matter how self righteous you want to appear that it's not. And I made absolutely NO comment about race.....you did‼️
@literarylady1125 Жыл бұрын
@ccshinebright I don’t know. The fact that he knew her family since she was young is suspect. I don’t see how you think that creepy old man is sweet or romantic. It seems like it’s the default to blame black men btw.
@QueenNeLee Жыл бұрын
I had to come back & delete the negative comment I wrote 😢 without looking at the WHOLE episode 1st 🤦🏽♀️ I really like Mr. Victor…he’s so sweet & hearing about 18% of the elderly being suicidal brought tears to my eyes 🥹 they are often forgotten about in this society 🙏🏽 Everyone deserves to find true love & happiness ❤
@kaleidoscope4688 Жыл бұрын
I love how she very respectfully allows him to speak for himself. I see the mutual love and respect for one another.😊
@ladyzinada5341 Жыл бұрын
Thats what I see too.😊
@minskipunkto2007 Жыл бұрын
i also noticed that and applauded it.
@bettykelitu5826 Жыл бұрын
You gotta respect grandpa ofcourse
@JaneneAyensu11 ай бұрын
This is so important because people dont' have patience for the elderly they always want to rush them and have no respect for their voice.
@annettedei200110 ай бұрын
Yes. I noticed that and really admire her for that
@beautyinyouministry2030 Жыл бұрын
Victor has lived a biblical based life in regards to loving your neighbor and by him being a generous man. That’s why he’s still here to tell his story. So good ❤
@Holy1OfIsrael.10 ай бұрын
No he’s here to repent, you can live biblically all you want if your not truly born again your doomed!
@EmpowHER.2023 Жыл бұрын
I’m happy that he found companionship at his age. I witnessed my father die alone searching for his companion and just love in general. We’re all gonna get old one day and I pray that we all have companionship.
@maratmasry Жыл бұрын
I'm so terrified this will happen to me
@lavjamsoflocamp Жыл бұрын
Same happened to my mom. Loneliness brings dementia and alzehiemer
@leoniehendrickson2530 Жыл бұрын
Did you father ask God for a companion at his age
@corettaondongo6295 Жыл бұрын
He’s a billionaire, he could find a companion aged 70 ish …
@elyonrg50628 ай бұрын
Amen
@tranquilstorm2229 Жыл бұрын
This episode gave me a different outlook on dating older as well as out of my race. Nothing about their relationship appears disingenuous or insincere. Everyone deserves genuine love! Just so happens hers comes with extreme financial security with someone much older and of a different race. If we only had more men that had the mind and heart of Victor! Best wishes Victor and Angel 💞🙏🏽
@MsCharizma00 Жыл бұрын
What I’ve gathered from the entire episode. They both know exactly what it is and what they are doing. Best wishes to their union.
@areyoufreeenough137211 ай бұрын
Full grown adults🤗
@Nethanda11 ай бұрын
Do you see other races of women waste their precious youth on old men of other races? She had better be due a hefty check. And even then the optics look bad for BW. It says we only deserve everyone else's leftovers while others deserve us in our prime. The owner of the channel should have thought long and hard about putting this sort of thing in black women's faces since they're the majority of his subscribers. Very disappointing, tbh.
@cocoace75876 ай бұрын
That's alllll that matters. He has a right to enjoy the life he worked so hard for . Unfortunately, so many families put their elderly in nursing homes & wait for them to pass & get their money . 😢
@amandaaaron6737 Жыл бұрын
Sis, PLEASE DO NOT hurt this man. Love him back genuinely, especially if he does not hurt or disrespect you in any way. It seems he truly loves you. Please give him the best love, care, and support he has ever had in his lifetime.
@fightfor1009 Жыл бұрын
What make you think she not.smh
@Exceedinglimitations Жыл бұрын
😂
@ladyzinada5341 Жыл бұрын
Till his last breath.❤❤❤🤗
@godhg9694 Жыл бұрын
great advice it's a blessing to threate eachothers kindly
@girlygirl1890 Жыл бұрын
@@fightfor1009 It's just a reminder in case she DOESN'T know.
@rachelariel8 Жыл бұрын
She's beautiful and a medical professional. And he's obviously financially successful. It's a win-win for both! He knows he's old. He obviously wants to take care of her financially even after he's gone.
@michellemann6362 Жыл бұрын
Yup...😊
@PlutosMoon22 Жыл бұрын
😂😂 I MUST grow up in Christ bc it's the adding of "a medical professional" that's causing me to stumble with this comment
@rachelariel8 Жыл бұрын
@sharonmykindness He will have the best care and nursing possible at his end of life. He's 90!! She's going to take such good care of him and he knows it.
@beefaye18 Жыл бұрын
@@rachelariel8Hopefully 🙏
@PlutosMoon22 Жыл бұрын
@@rachelariel8 Hey, ain't nothing like an understanding and a win/win transaction!!! However, the wording still got me🤣
@erikamatthews3622 Жыл бұрын
I'm trying so hard to watch this with an open mind... but I am failing miserably 😩🤦🏾♀️😂😂
@kekekeys2102 Жыл бұрын
Me too and I just pressed play!😂
@MzzTPC Жыл бұрын
😂😂😂
@kodwat2134 Жыл бұрын
Same here
@BajanBrit Жыл бұрын
Right. There's nothing she can say to convince me that my suspicions are incorrect. Absolutely nothing!!
@butterflyygyrlsworld5106 Жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂😂
@LivingLaughingLearning Жыл бұрын
Imagine criticizing this Black Woman , and you out here struggling with kids , never been married and never had the experience of being financially supported by a Man …This SISTA is BLESSED, and when he passes on she will never be able to look at another man the same way!
@thelovelymissmonica19389 ай бұрын
Facts!!! 🗣️
@JustM3LiLi Жыл бұрын
Victor was dropping some life jewels for free on this episode. Just the way he lives speaks to how blessed his life is and how he continues to be blessed. This man was being a blessing to others with his businesses and making great financial decisions. Thanks for sharing.
@areyoufreeenough137211 ай бұрын
More reasons why God got him and will prolong his life to enjoy the rewards from the Heavenly place.❤
@claressajackson773 Жыл бұрын
His mind is so so sharp !! I thank God for this Man !! I struggle remembering things at 41 and he just blows me away! This is Beautiful!
@ladyzinada5341 Жыл бұрын
Agreed. ❤😊
@GirlfriendsTeawithSebrina10 ай бұрын
Yes!!
@tracybadon4023 Жыл бұрын
He invested in people lives and that is why he is blessed in every area of his life ❤ he is chosen❤
@walkingministries5803 Жыл бұрын
Amen
@ladyzinada5341 Жыл бұрын
Right. Not a lover of self. Them folks that do that love for self, gets Nothing.😊😅
@yolanda380 Жыл бұрын
BOAZZ WAS 80 When he married Ruth she was 40. L❤VE for God's divine purpose
@janettemccuien424911 ай бұрын
I think RUTH was much younger than 40. I think she was in her 20s
@thelovelymissmonica19389 ай бұрын
Talk about it!!! 🗣️ 🗣️ 🗣️
@mrs.graphicladyc8943 Жыл бұрын
Victor married his BEST friend and I’m Happy for the both of them!!! Love has nothing to do with age and I LOVE how he compliments her! ❤❤
@wisdomnstrength Жыл бұрын
Totally agree 👍🏼
@Exceedinglimitations Жыл бұрын
😂
@lavjamsoflocamp Жыл бұрын
I am 60 yrs black professional celibate for 7 years and if I found a Victor i would be damn fine. Compassionate, love & respect is everything❤❤❤#black #educated #smart
@triunnawalker1117 Жыл бұрын
This is such a beautiful story. In the beginning, Ladarius asked Angel what did she bring to the relationship. I must say she didn't boast enough on what she brought to the table. So I let me do it for her. Short and sweet, she gave this man another reason to LIVE. In return, she deserves EVERYTHING this young man gives her. Much respect to both of them. May God bless this union and keep them❣️❣️❣️
@Rashaadthegr8 Жыл бұрын
Young man? I must be watching a different podcast.
@triunnawalker1117 Жыл бұрын
@Rashaadthegr8 Sure he can be labeled otherwise, with eyes such as yours. The wife even notioned he's young in areas I think is needless for me to mention compared to guys nearly half his age. So yeah, i said what I said, Young man...
@blueskiesarelovely Жыл бұрын
Amen to this comment🙌❤❤❤
@Rashaadthegr8 Жыл бұрын
@@triunnawalker1117You live on a planet where math isn't a thing. This man is old. We can't make up definitions because we don't like it. That's not how it works on earth. This is an old man who got a sugar baby this is no news. Have you ever heard of Anna Nicole Smith? She is just the black version. Y'all celebrate any marriage as long as a sister finally got the ring even if she had to date her grandfather to do it. I tell you one thing I didn't watch the interview. I guarantee you this man is not broke. The only time you ever saw younger women with and much older man was because the older man was rich.
@KimberlyReviews Жыл бұрын
❤❤
@joellabarkus66 Жыл бұрын
Laterras, thank you for interviewing this couple. We (society) says there is only a couple of ways to see a husband and wife relationship; this one is a true HEART relationship. You must have them back @ 1 year of marriage. God bless them with much health and happiness 🙏🏽🙏🏽☺️
@marilynburns6210 Жыл бұрын
I absolutely love Angel’s confidence and not worried about what people/family has to say about her marriage. Way to go Victor, you need to give a masterclass on how to treat a Queen! Love this!!! Mr. L.Whitfield you always shed light on the unlikely!
@IvyElizabeth918 Жыл бұрын
🥴
@oinestep Жыл бұрын
The delusion is real 😅
@marilynburns6210 Жыл бұрын
@seedofabraham0149 thank you!❤
@oinestep Жыл бұрын
@ccshinebright Well can't be that delusional as I am a black man that take cares of his family and I know plenty of others as well.... stop accepting being a Baby Mamma and become a Wife as God intended..funny you should mention brother Malcolm as I don't believe he would cosign this relationship.....imma carry the heck on!
@marilynburns6210 Жыл бұрын
@ccshinebright thank you
@frannyhatch740 Жыл бұрын
Let’s have Victor come back to show All of us how to invest and make money.
@reneebrown9451 Жыл бұрын
You sure do know what to say!!!
@timbawangu3038 Жыл бұрын
@@reneebrown9451😂
@cherylturner2291 Жыл бұрын
YES!!!!!
@rhargrow8399 Жыл бұрын
IKR!
@shakiramcgee2023 Жыл бұрын
Yes I’m still trying to figure out what the name of that stock was🤔
@shelleymcclain7533 Жыл бұрын
I love the way Angel handles Victor with love and care. She gives him respect to be who he is even as an elderly man but most of all as a husband. I’m sure she’s added even more years to his life. Who knows Victor may out live his own children. God bless you both
@ladyzinada5341 Жыл бұрын
I know she's touched him with black girl magic. He's eating well.😂😊. Greens, baked chicken, Seasoned black eyed peas.😂. Shiddddd!! That man is cared for I bet.
@orjohnson Жыл бұрын
I’m also hearing Angel has been a beneficiary of Victor’s philanthropy for a looooong time. Not sure how much romantic love there is here. It’s giving mutual respect and partnership which is very important in a marriage.
@mariemuhammad7983 Жыл бұрын
Victor has a heart of gold. My first was 21 years older than me. If he had a heart towards me like Victor, my WHOLE life would have been different. I was deceived thinking a older man would value me and my virginity. I know now where I am in my life, a younger man can have a heart like Victor when his heart is in Gods hand. ❤
@ndalamamashabele5956 Жыл бұрын
Amen❤
@reneebrown9451 Жыл бұрын
You’re absolutely right!!!
@OhhYouu..MICHELLE Жыл бұрын
I don’t see an issue. They’ve been knowing one another for over 10 years and Angle is no child..She’s in her forties!!! Congratulations to a fulfilling marriage!!!💛☺️
@hillaryconsultingservices Жыл бұрын
If a guy 40 years old mentors, teaches a woman at age 13 then 10 years. later offers her pen and a ring is that not an issue? Slippery slope
@chillwithash Жыл бұрын
@@hillaryconsultingservices Shifting ages in that way is actually the slippery slope. She was 27 when they first met, it's incomparable to your example involving a child.
@OhhYouu..MICHELLE Жыл бұрын
@@hillaryconsultingservices But that’s not the case here. She was 25 when they met. Your example is of someone to be considered as a predator..
@justlillian__ Жыл бұрын
@@chillwithash👏🏾👏🏾
@NikkiBeDoingStuff Жыл бұрын
Those statistics about elderly people being lonely was so heartbreaking. If this man can live out the rest of his days being loved by and loving his wife, God bless both of them.
@bigsash4539 Жыл бұрын
Broke my heart to hear those stats about the elderly. Older people are human too and should be treated as such! If we’re lucky, we’ll all get old.
@IGBRB4701 Жыл бұрын
Had Angel on our show for a mental health episode and she was amazing with our group. Great at what she does as a professional and we were blessed by that. 🔥 Fiyah Session
@marquitagalloway7168 Жыл бұрын
I’m grateful for this interview. I love them as a couple, especially Victor. He is a genuinely caring person and that’s why he’s blessed. I’m grateful for Angel bringing those statistics about elderly suicide to the front and vowing to take care of him because that’s what he truly wants. It gave me new perspective on how my mother may feel now that she is in place where she has to be taken care of. They still want to feel like they have a life of purpose. I have to be mindful to honor that. ❤️🙏🏾
@priscillab2321 Жыл бұрын
I really enjoyed this conversation. They have a great friendship and both understand what the marriage is for. This man will enjoy the last few years of his life and Angel will have security and stability for the rest of her life. Win, win.
@dpharrison7 Жыл бұрын
And that's the main thing, no lies or manipulation, they both understand the assignment.
@ArkiaJhikae Жыл бұрын
This would be the best explanation that makes sense
@Iamlonndanicole Жыл бұрын
This is Ruth and Boaz. When you close your eyes and listen to the interview, you will “see” it. Kingsman Redeemer…….
@MandyAmelia Жыл бұрын
No different than a business deal which if we’re being real is what marriage was back in the day anyways. Men wanted strong heirs and women wanted future security. Not every marriage is based on romance and being head over heels in love. Also people stay in JOBS they hate for decades to climb the ladder to gain security. So they are both consenting adults. Marriage is about the terms between one another and honoring THAT, not some ideals imposed by others.
@TM-se5jf Жыл бұрын
@@Iamlonndanicole😂😂😂😂oh ok
@ForMySoulSistas Жыл бұрын
47 year gap is too much for me in terms of activities to do together, ability to relate, common interests, kids, health issues, attraction and sex... But I do respect their relationship and courage to talk about it.
@rdoniawilliams3290 Жыл бұрын
Sis, That part❤♥️🙏🏽
@ForMySoulSistas Жыл бұрын
@@rdoniawilliams3290 💜💜💜
@beefaye18 Жыл бұрын
IKR....ppl do say their marriage is a business.....oh well😮
@tshifhiwamuthelo4913 Жыл бұрын
It's absolutely a lot, to think that he was almost 50 before she was born it's wild. I am fighting with my thoughts to be open minded about this.
@TheSistacinda Жыл бұрын
@@tshifhiwamuthelo4913 I think that’s my struggle as well. Not so much the present but the past. He was basically 50 when she was born… wow!
@KeyonnaD Жыл бұрын
51:25 I love to hear someone speak about their spouse the way he speaks of her. “She’s the whole deal. The total package”. He sees her value and is committed to showing her that in how he treats her.
@sarahsimpson9848 Жыл бұрын
My dad is 80 and his wife is 76. I am happy that they have each other still. I had no idea the suicide rate among the elderly is so high! Victor is a sweet man I am happy for them and wish them marital bliss for as long as God allows.
@larandle Жыл бұрын
? Come on man
@dayonmitchell-messam1522 Жыл бұрын
My dad work to age 80 and remarried at age 83, 20 plus years after my mom passed. He’s now 89 soon to be 90 and she’s 71 and she had never been married before. Some of my family didn’t like the ideas but most did say it not the age but everyone needs companionship. They’re very happy and very loving, caring and takes very good care of him
@zubodospectacular8598 Жыл бұрын
My favourite theme highlighted in this episode is that Victor is a normal human being, people often treat the elderly like senseless people. They both left him room to speak and freely express himself. Though the qge gap is eye opening, what l can see and hear is that thy both love and care for each other deeply.
@kimmcconnell5224 Жыл бұрын
0:12 Love has no number. It has wisdom, but when there are two adults that are lifing, come together and decide to live life together nothing else matters. We've been in relationships with same ages and have been put through hell so if it works for them, bless them.❤
@kendramiller4901 Жыл бұрын
🙌🏿🙌🏿 amen
@kenyattarivera3800 Жыл бұрын
That part
@Nou75 Жыл бұрын
Ummm to some degree. Two consenting adults(over 18) should be equally yoked
@antoinettehardy1725 Жыл бұрын
This podcast is incredible. This is a powerhouse couple. I am so amazed. Both of them are so intelligent and full of wisdom. They have known each other for a long time. They were already family before the marriage took care of one another life family even before marriage. This is true love. This is what we’re supposed to do for people, demonstrate love in all kinds of ways.
@wisdomnstrength Жыл бұрын
@@antoinettehardy1725Amen 👍🏼
@noirefit5954 Жыл бұрын
Even older people deserve love. As long as they are both loving each other and respecting their vows, to each their own. It’s odd yes. But there’s a lid for every pot so 🤷🏾♀️
@GoduseMe Жыл бұрын
Oh my Gosh I love your comment! It reminded me of my grandmother who used to tell me " every crooked pot has a lid sweetheart " . That was years ago and didn't really understand at that time but I absolutely understand it now! Have a blessed day!
@Catdaddy7410 Жыл бұрын
He’s a good man. He’s blessed at 90. To be 90 and doing what he does is amazing. They are both beneficial to each other regardless of what those benefits are.
@marnivig7341 Жыл бұрын
His memory is impeccable. I could just imagine their quiet time together. She must be learning alot of history.
@Virgo_Tonia Жыл бұрын
I’m not mad at this. Victor seems genuinely in love with her and Angel seems to genuinely have love for Victor. She deserves this bag.
@marlinejuste Жыл бұрын
"In love with" and "have love for" is different. Lol
@naturallymemarie9650 Жыл бұрын
@marlinejuste definitely is and thats exactly what the situation is.
@LifeAsShai Жыл бұрын
😂 I was about to like this until I read she deserves this bag ☠️ I can’t
@ambersherillbeauty8278 Жыл бұрын
@@LifeAsShaisame 😂😂😂😂
@Oneeeofoneee Жыл бұрын
@@LifeAsShailike what 😢
@bebelle545 Жыл бұрын
So glad I held my comment til the end… He was lonely and she was willing to fill that gap. Whether the love is genuine or not is for them to know however they are both benefiting from this relationship 🤷♀️ Side note: His children cannot complain about her when he felt lonely despite having several children, grandchildren and great grandchildren.
@ladyzinada5341 Жыл бұрын
They better not say a mf word 😂
@zaikia9775 Жыл бұрын
I feel so horrible for judging this couple before listening to this podcast. Victor and Angel blessings to you and your unlikely union. This was very good and you can see how much you both love each other. 💕💕💕💕
@millieras123 Жыл бұрын
Samee. I have a totally different view after watching the episode.
@geturdablatch9706 Жыл бұрын
I really think they love each other
@literarylady1125 Жыл бұрын
@@geturdablatch9706 😂😂😂😂😆
@geastertaylor4018 Жыл бұрын
MULTIPLIED LOVE ❤️ JOŸ 😂 AND GREAT SHALOM TO BOTH OF YOU
@Bumblebee0819 Жыл бұрын
Victor is full of wisdom and kindness and has touched many lives. Nothing about this feels weird or creepy. He and Angel are both very intelligent people. They know what they are doing.
@latasha8581 Жыл бұрын
I pray the rest of Victor's years on earth, are the best years that he has ever seen in life.
@oinestep Жыл бұрын
By the look of him I say he got about 2 more 😅
@42Laj Жыл бұрын
@@oinestep😂😂😂
@sjg599411 ай бұрын
Sweetly said! Amen!
@thelovelymissmonica19389 ай бұрын
Amen🙌🏾
@kassandrabrown3941 Жыл бұрын
I really like that she was so honest .. there are many different reasons why people get married, some for love some for security (or both/ or neither) This relationship is an equal exchange where both parties are getting what they want, no judgement here.
@EE-zf1lw Жыл бұрын
I don’t know about the security part. He has 5 children and 25 grandchildren.
@kassandrabrown3941 Жыл бұрын
@@EE-zf1lw she still admits to securing the bag though meaning there is financial security in the relationship regardless of how many kids and grandkids that he has.
@travelerawakenings8477 Жыл бұрын
@@EE-zf1lwHis grand children don't inherit him. Only hus 5 children. He already said that he will treat her children ewual.to his children. He was referring to financial. He also Said he is making some important decision fir them, including building a house for her snd her children.
@aliciarich4485 Жыл бұрын
I love how she allows him to be an independent man and not appear to be his caregiver. Looks like she did learn some things along the way❤
@CrystalTutton Жыл бұрын
I’m just lost in the sauce right now. Laterras is asking questions like he’s trying to make it make sense!😳🤣🤣🤣
@CoachBamBam2527 Жыл бұрын
😅
@IAmMonicaDenise Жыл бұрын
😂😂😂
@ij_709 Жыл бұрын
Detective Laterras was trying to figure out and unravel the mysteries of what on earth is going on here .. Haha he's like am already on the case to solve this mystery🤣🤣🤣🤣😅😆😁
@danielleantoinettebrasfiel9876 Жыл бұрын
😂😂😂
@vineconnected5761 Жыл бұрын
Can I just say that this is beautiful. To learn of the man that he is and always has been he definitely deserves his flowers. Both of them are at peace and care for each other and are getting the companionship and love they both want. How could anyone be mad or upset? Congratulations on their marriage!
@samw.3827 Жыл бұрын
This episode resonated with me soo much. I have spent my entire life around the elderly and it is soo real what Angel said. I have served as a caregiver for my mom, my aunt, and now my 77-year old veteran "2nd cousin". My 2nd cousin is my mom's cousin and with 3 kids, 4 grandkids, 5 great-grand kids, and a great-great grand, I, at this vulnerable place in his life is his primary advocate. I understand what Victor meant and how he felt about feeling lonely with such a large family of his own because my cousin has expressed that same sentiment to me as well. A lot has changed for my cousin physically, he is now totally dependent on people. He has a wealth of knowledge and is still eager to live and likes to have fun. He now has to live his life in a nursing home but I will continue to advocate for his needs because he's my family, he looked out for me when I was young, and he sacrificed his life in the military so that I can live my life a little more freely. As long as they as they are happy and they know who they are to each other, live life happily...besides we only get one chance at life. Love the one who loves you back! Peace and blessings to them both!
@MsKaywong Жыл бұрын
He should write a book, he has so much knowledge that he can teach young people.
@DNB7227 Жыл бұрын
She's giving him what he wants, whatever that might be, and likewise, she's getting what she wants, and I'm here for it. CONGRATS to the two of them. #pointblankperiod
@indulgeyesindulgeasmr Жыл бұрын
Well said. 🙌🏾👌🏾 they're both adults and of sound mind! May the Lord bless and keep them🫶🏿👑🌻
@13thdisciple Жыл бұрын
My mom is 90 with a 54 year old. And she's of sound mind, driving,and happy. We live 4 hrs away and it helps in her care and he works well in his role. He says mother son role.
@EE-zf1lw Жыл бұрын
Huh!
@reesemonique Жыл бұрын
Check your Mom's will please!
@helenmckenzie5295 Жыл бұрын
People also have to remember what Covid has done to many people lives. We have lost so much of our love ones scared and locked into our homes not knowing what will happen next. We have to stop judging people by our standards. Leave them and let them live their lives.
@EmeraldLuvsYouALL Жыл бұрын
Naw sis don't let him play her.. this is crazy what's mother son role mean honey?
@donoyster5309 Жыл бұрын
Your mother is 90 and has 54 year old boyfriend?
@reginawalker589811 ай бұрын
I soooo love this interview!!!. I came in with a closed mind and now it is very open….Love, love, love them! Victor has his “Angel” on Earth !!❤❤❤ May God, bless their union🙏🏾!!
@WholesomeHolisticKitchen Жыл бұрын
I do believe it was a sugar baby relationship at first but she was smart to not just rely on him she got an education to make sure she was set with or without him! But now they are both rich so she’s not just marrying for his money. Congrats to the newlyweds!
@lorenzbeaumacc117510 ай бұрын
Sis let's be real. You just find a reason to justify their relationship because deep down this is what you'd love to have:an old white daddy to take care of your bills 😂😂can't blame them ninjas is broke as hell right ?!!🤷🏽♂️
@karenborden1620 Жыл бұрын
Why not?! If he still desires companionship and she doesn't want to deal with the mess of dating, why can't they make it work and be happy? I'm thrilled for them!
@smf4276 ай бұрын
theyre relationship make sense.. theyve been involved w/ each other for a long time. the time was right for them to marry.
@876tisha Жыл бұрын
I love seeing a black woman taken care of!!! About time we start marrying for the right reasons. We saw where love got us. I watched a podcast that said marriage is killing black women at a higher rate. We take on so much in marriages and relationships. To the point it’s making us physically sick. Honey let her live a flourishing and happy life.
@MarandaX. Жыл бұрын
Hi do you have the info on that podcast
@abc78920 Жыл бұрын
That part!!❤
@876tisha Жыл бұрын
@@MarandaX.It’s called the diary of a ceo podcast. It’s amazing he has over 2 million followers. The episode is called, “link between illness and kindness
@nathaliasimone_ Жыл бұрын
Interesting point of view.
@monicasoyombo3360 Жыл бұрын
YES🙌🏾 Be happy goodness!
@teejaybee9 Жыл бұрын
If this man is truly happy, then I say let the man be happy.
@honeyk4551 Жыл бұрын
Him saying, "I accept their opinion without criticism." They both added value to each other's life is what I'm taking away
@ShekaNicole Жыл бұрын
While this union is unlikely, it is the most beautiful love story and connection that I’ve seen in a long, long time. I can feel the genuine love between them both. People should watch this without bias and understand, regardless of age or race the types of healthy connection they should be looking to accomplish in love! Rooting for the two of you!
@latoyabasden4725 Жыл бұрын
Victor and Angel thank you! This interview is beautiful, the dynamics between them is admirable. The mutual respect between them is a great example of the foundation that fosters great communication.
@twintalk638 Жыл бұрын
This is what strategy looks like. I wish them both all the happiness in the world.
@socasoul Жыл бұрын
OMGGG I LOVED this interview! It wasn't at all what I was expecting. Victor and Angel are AMAZING. I love their vibe ... love her independence and his mind.
@reneebrown9451 Жыл бұрын
It’s not about sex it’s about companionship, respect, admiration
@thelmawilliams4500 Жыл бұрын
I love it when people are courageous enough to step 'Outside of The Box' and Live the Life they CHOOSE for themselves, not for anyone else. Life is too short to Live for others.
@tmston2 Жыл бұрын
Vic 90 and out here pulling finer blackwomen than me 😂😂😂
@noirefit5954 Жыл бұрын
Seasoned game 😂
@candicecandies6651 Жыл бұрын
😂
@Candie4JC Жыл бұрын
😂🤣
@leesha4u Жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂
@veronabacon7738 Жыл бұрын
💀🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@kaydiew802 Жыл бұрын
Amazing story! What I love is that the older gentleman - Victor seems very respectable and he is able to articulate very well whenever he's asked a question. Ms. Angel looks lovely inside & out, respectable and of course is a very feminine woman. This makes their story so much more interesting & he passes on his knowledge & has plans for their future. This story is an example of what marriages should be like.
@joycewilliams7626 Жыл бұрын
This interview was absolutely an eye opener, we can't forget about our seniors. So happy for this couple Angel is Victors angel for staying true to this friendship/marriage. God bless you both.
@adrianewilson8821 Жыл бұрын
I understand Victor and Angel completely. I'm a black woman in my late 50's, and I'm in love with a 92 year old white man. When people see us together, I'm sure that most of them think that I'm with him for his money, but we could care less what people think. Not that it matters, but I can assure you that I have a lot more than he has. All that I know is that he is a very kind, and loving man that makes me very happy. He's something else! He makes some corny jokes though, but that's ok too because when I hear him laughing, it brings me so much joy. God forbid, but if I left this world tomorrow, I know for a fact that I was surely loved, and I know that he feels the same. Every night before we sleep, we thank God for bringing us together, and every morning when we wake up, we thank God for another day of togetherness. Victor and Angelay, may the Lord bless your marriage in the mighty name of Jesus. Amen.
@adrianewilson8821 Жыл бұрын
Angel
@frethimahhassan9829 Жыл бұрын
I am Happy You Are Happy❤️
@LelomsSunshine Жыл бұрын
Do people realise she could have "secured the bag" 16 years ago. Hes been retired for 25 year. This was not about money. Its a benefit, but not the reason. Good for you girl. Love on your man.
@Practitionher Жыл бұрын
He seem very coherent to me . The relationship is very much mutually beneficial . Reading the comments, of course it’s entertaining but … Wishing them much happiness
@IvyElizabeth918 Жыл бұрын
That can change when he wakes up tomorrow morning. Dementia is real and 80+% of people his age have it.
@DarraCherieTV Жыл бұрын
This man ain’t no where on her IG😢
@laquishawhitfield6253 Жыл бұрын
@@DarraCherieTVAnd?
@rizuejigu74023 ай бұрын
Not coherent....😂😂
@fabulousapril2634 Жыл бұрын
l love this they told the truth. Victor knew what he wanted she did too and they made it work. Their marriage works no judgment.
@lisaclingingtochrist5295 Жыл бұрын
I love the variety of guests you have on your podcast. Everyone has different stories and paths and deserves to be heard and learned from. Thank you again!!
@denycew Жыл бұрын
This was so refreshing and eye/mind opening. So many of us are searching for joy and comfort and happiness but limiting in our minds what that may look like. Angel and Victor both seem to know what they wanted and make no apologies for receiving it. Living unapologetically...how beautiful.... Mr. Laterras, you did such a wonderful job with this interview. The level of dignity that you showed this couple is simply amazing. Thank you for being an of a respectful human being. Blessings.
@cathy821 Жыл бұрын
She’s a beautiful woman and if she’s making him happy, so be it, congratulations 🎉🎊🎈🍾
@OnlinewithMathuto Жыл бұрын
I was judging when I saw the thumbnail. But what a gentleman Victor is. Eye opening episode.
@lb4398 Жыл бұрын
when we get old...we need support, we need companionship and we need love. If she is willing to be his companion...Im not mad at that. If she is integral in taking care of him in his vulnerable state...she deserves the bag
@keishaharvey8827 Жыл бұрын
This was such a wonderful interview. I appreciate Angela for seeing and and having an earnest concern for Victor. I also love how Victor had a heart to look out for others well being. They absolutely look like a fun couple. Im happy for Victor’s win.
@lakebafondren586811 ай бұрын
Chile, does Vic have a younger brother? This is maybe the 5th or 6th time I’ve watched your interviews. This one takes the cake as far as showing your interviewing skills. Thank you for your compassion and your respectfulness toward this couple. Kudos to you my friend.
@mikapickard633 Жыл бұрын
I’m watching this episode and I have so much respect for the two of them and their marriage. They showed a lot of love and respect for each other. You should never judge others.
@audreybrown6726 Жыл бұрын
Amen.
@denisealston7009 Жыл бұрын
Great apology LRW. I echo that sentiment. And listening to them, made me think deeper about my own parents. My mom is 60, my dad is 67.
@JML1974 Жыл бұрын
Mr. Victor reminds me of my own father, age 75. They always like an younger woman. In my view, I see it’s a mutual and respectful relationship. For him, it’s companionship and wanting to be needed. My own father has advised I date a much older man. He might be right. I can understand Angel wanted to treated like a Queen. I totally get it. Happy for them both.
@tonyadykes197111 ай бұрын
Angel you are such a blessing in so many ways. I care for my aging father I recently rescued from starvation after his daughter refused to allow him to return home after getting guardianship of him against his well. He aged years in a few months and cognitively is in bad shape. I sincerely started this episode in a very negative space just by the title and for that I sincerely apologize. This is what genuine love looks like because you are standing next to him regardless of what others may think or say. Blessings to you both and you have given him another 50 years in his mind and heart.
@drshockusdebra123 Жыл бұрын
I love how much respect went on in this conversation. We all make deposits and are essential to one another. Victor proves your origin is not your destiny. Blessings to this couple and you too LW❤
@josetusingwire9541 Жыл бұрын
Victor will live to 120 years and will never be lonely!
@christmasparty9245 Жыл бұрын
He seems very compassionate and sincere. So happy that he was able to find love again. I enjoyed this interview!
@msreeree65 Жыл бұрын
Initially I was thinking like a lot of people in the comments....that she is just a gold digger. I stopped watching at around 14 mins in and came back later. I started over from the beginning with the mindset of being open minded as I watched. I don't think she's a gold digger. They have genuine love for each other. He is providing for her as all husbands should for their wife. Yes...she got the ring and the bag. Meanwhile all the naysayers in the comment section are probably broke and lonely with no prospects in sight! Congratulations Victor and Angel. I pray you enjoy each other as long as you can! True love prevails!!!💜💜💜
@Advocatefortruth82 Жыл бұрын
Hi Laterras👋🏾! Great episode. Americans are so simple sir… This woman understands the business aspect of marriage which does not include “love”. She understand the financial, socio-economic status and lineage and generational wealth principle of the “covenant”. I don’t blame her. She had her age appropriate fun, made foolish young decisions which provided her with two children who now need to be invested in for future success. She has stated her commitment to loyalty and health care towards this man. What has she done wrong?
@HalimaRomulus Жыл бұрын
This transcends physical and is spiritual. Bless their beautiful union. They have what most people want & will never receive. Definition of Love who loves you
@jasonperry00 Жыл бұрын
Great conversation Laterras! It's so awesome that you could facilitate this type of transparent conversation. Much respect to Victor and his wife for being transparent. Victor is an absolute "G". I can see why Angel is attracted to him.
@areyoufreeenough137211 ай бұрын
God preserved Victor for such a time as this. Let God be the judge. "Opinions without Criticism!!" Happiest is here
@Mindsetolympics11 ай бұрын
I know thats right🎉
@CarleneIsAnOvercomer Жыл бұрын
Great interview, great people, great life lessons. Thanks Laterras for sharing Victor and Angel with us.
@moe_ramz Жыл бұрын
25 minutes in, I’ve changed my mind about this couple. Victor is a good man. ❤😢
@deborahfranklin9370 Жыл бұрын
I love your outreach to foster children, homeless , ect. As a former foster youth, I salute you Sir❤
@jaynette2011 Жыл бұрын
I loved this interview. The woman did not look like a gold digger and the husband didn’t look like nasty ole man. I think this was a very healthy convo
@ladyzinada5341 Жыл бұрын
😊
@Attorney.4211 ай бұрын
He's her trick
@TheMyssLK Жыл бұрын
I had no idea what to expect from this episode. But, this was truly eye opening, as many others have pointed out. Glad I watched and listened to your stories! Wishing you all the best in life’s journey - if nothing else thank you for sharing your joy with us! Bless you both
@TheTabbanacle Жыл бұрын
I prejudged and said that I wasn't going to watch this but somehow clicked on it while working. Their story tells us that when you’re destined to be with someone it will come back around regardless to age, race or time...❤
@shawn-tellewilliams Жыл бұрын
Victor is truly a stand up guy. Matching Dollar for 💵 and then $1.50. What a great leader, and compassion for others. We need more companies like Victor. I can tell Angel really cares and love Victor, think about her profession as a nurse Practioner. It gives me a sense of how God's ways and thoughts are greater and wider. May Victor and Angel Salvino have 25 more years of healthy health, joy, and love. #InJesusName ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
@oinestep Жыл бұрын
I'm all for the power of Jesus but 25 more years?
@shawn-tellewilliams Жыл бұрын
@oinestep Yes, I've seen a 115-year-old who was still dancing and all. She died at 121
@monad5237 Жыл бұрын
They're both getting something out of the relationship. I see respect & admiration from both of them, but being in love seems to be coming more from his side. As long as they're both happy & have a mutual understanding then that's all that matters.
@myeshapricebrand Жыл бұрын
I so enjoyed this conversation. He did what real men should do and here is a woman who knows her worthy. If age is not a problem for them, everyone else opinion doesn’t matter. I LOVE IT!