Im 21 years old, my husband and I just welcomed our baby girl Lilyana into the world Jan 20th. I also had an unmedicated birth, the rawness of this video moved me. It brought me back to the delivery room, and the memory of meeting my baby for the first time. The pain is indescribable but the love for my baby makes it all worth it. I can't believe how amazing women are.
@mandboone1571Ай бұрын
I am also 21, i had my baby when i was 19 in December 2022, the pain is the worst, but it is so worth it! Cant wait to have another despite the pain!
@kinseyjohnson434111 ай бұрын
Seeing Sage touch you during your contractions and when Matt started crying seeing it was a boy I totally teared up. What a beautiful story and family! Congratulations!
@HealthNutNutrition11 ай бұрын
Thank you!!
@ginahessel599111 ай бұрын
Got me too! 😭🥰
@karmaslifestylevlogs257511 ай бұрын
Me too.
@ChristiePipe-qc1rh10 ай бұрын
😮
@LilyGio-4L7 ай бұрын
me too
@christinamarchese641011 ай бұрын
This is so real and beautiful. Thank you for not removing the sound of your contractions! This is amazing.
@HealthNutNutrition11 ай бұрын
I wanted to keep it real and authentic and this was apart of the process
@AmaniOu211 ай бұрын
I second this! I'm preparing myself for my first baby and seeing something real is so helpful in managing expectations.
@andreauhlirova631910 ай бұрын
it is, I'm preparing myself for 2nd🩵 this amazing beautiful video gave me the courage to go through it once again💖 i have some big respect for the whole process but im am so looking forward at the same time💫❤️ thank you so much for sharing-I was so with you the whole time❤ and cried at few moments❤❤❤ congratulations! you totally nailed it!!!!🎉❤ i wish i could manage my second labour like you❤🍀✊️
@chatgpt413510 ай бұрын
@@HealthNutNutritionWhich hospital
@peachiedb9 ай бұрын
@@HealthNutNutritionI'm glad you did. Women need to know it's ok to scream, yell make noises. Giving birth is amazing but it's also painful. Do whatever you need to do all that matters is a healthy bub
@brialianabesos9 ай бұрын
Being pregnant while watching this has me in tears💙 Thank God he’s healthy and you did a phenomenal job🙏🏻
@amandabrown50966 ай бұрын
me too. I am due my second but I am feeling more nervous this time. She is an inspiration.
@brialianabesos6 ай бұрын
@@amandabrown5096 I just had my second 3weeks ago. I was soooo nervous but thankfully everything went well. Good luck to you momma🩵
@Paperdragonmaker311146 ай бұрын
I know right ❤
@PKC274 ай бұрын
I am not pregnant but I am crying like a baby 😢
@PKC274 ай бұрын
@@amandabrown5096Hang in there mama you will be great ❤
@celestesandy773411 ай бұрын
The way I SOBBED during your delivery!!!! And sobbed even more when you said the chord was wrapped around his neck TWICE!!!! What a journey to get him here!!!! This was absolutely BEAUTIFUL!! ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ KUDOS to you mama! You did that thing!!!!
@HealthNutNutrition11 ай бұрын
Thank you so much and thank you for this kindness 🥰
@ivetaleksandi924711 ай бұрын
You’re insane to sob at someone else’s birth
@thatbitxhpnk8111 ай бұрын
@@ivetaleksandi9247not really.
@carlottaokulla11139 ай бұрын
same here 🥹😭😭
@mommybreakdown9 ай бұрын
Oh my word, yes!! 😭 Well said!! Her delivery was so much like my second. I also did it without pain medication and felt that wave of nausea before the pushing started. I was very vocal as well (but mine were curse words 😆). And the cord was wrapped twice! Birth is really the most chaotic, beautiful memory.
@winonaandreamagpayo15418 ай бұрын
I always cry everytime i watch a birth vlog. Remembering my own. Giving birth is a miracle.
@rosiepaulino92329 ай бұрын
Got tears running down, absolutely amazing job mom. The way his cries were soothed when you kissed his forehead was beautiful. I'm expecting my second child, also a boy, my first being a girl. You give me so much inspiration. What a lovely family. God bless!
@nijhaanise967211 ай бұрын
When Oakley kept saying mom 💙 my heart melted . Congratulations 🎊
@RedRoseSeptember2211 ай бұрын
You heard that too! He was shouting "mom" the whole time, so cute!!!
@racheltrammell894611 ай бұрын
Yes, yes, yes!! I heard the same exact thing, and then, as soon as she kissed him, he felt safe and knew she was there!! It was so precious and beautiful to watch that!🥹🥹🥹🩵🩵🩵
@YourFriendAyana11 ай бұрын
I think that once you’ve given birth unmediated, you can feel it all over again when watching someone else go through it. I was getting emotional thinking about my birth last year. Incredible job, mama.
@noragramlich758810 ай бұрын
Omg yes! I’m a loud laborer and I sounded EXACTLY like Nikole during the pushing stage and it honestly gave me chills because I felt like I was transported right back to that moment
@anamariaelhagrasy13664 ай бұрын
Omg yes!!! 2 natural unmadicated births and I could feel every moment of this 🥰🥹
@genevieveaitola35413 ай бұрын
Unmedicated 2 times, I can still remember the intensity, I feel for you. No. Epidurals then, natural is just cruel. Hang in there kid..😮
@rachelseefeldt583210 ай бұрын
I'm 37 weeks and cried all the way thought this. This is so beautiful. I am so ready for this experience.
@user-gg9jy1oi2n9 ай бұрын
37 weeks right now!! Hoping you have/had an amazing delivery experience ❤🎉
@nonhlanhlangcobo87179 ай бұрын
I'm 37 weeks today 😊 can't wait to meet my bundle of joy 💕
@rachelseefeldt58327 ай бұрын
Update. I am postpartum and did not have a beautiful expierence. I ended with a c-section that really emotionally took a toll on me but it still ended with my beautiful baby boy.
@AnjaNothing-rk6lo7 ай бұрын
I'm so sorry you had to go through that, but congrats on your baby boy.
@PKC274 ай бұрын
God bless you ❤
@Leeandgecko-iv2eh3 ай бұрын
I am 17 with the goals to become a doula or an L/D nurse and Im trying to self educate until I graduate and can start college. This is my passion is to help in this miraculous time thank you for educating with your real life experience. This was beautiful. I cried.
@supergirlll11 ай бұрын
I'm just bawling over here.. my eyes are all red.. Such an emotional, beautiful journey that is motherhood..
@Rosebud20998 ай бұрын
When you daughter came to help while your contraction I started bawling. My daughter is 4 and I'm pregnant with our son. She's such a wonderful helpful but we have been nervous she couldn't handle such change but she so excited.
@mcervas10 ай бұрын
I just had my fourth natural delivery. It’s still so emotional to watch someone else experience their birth journey when you know the deep intensity of that experience (especially with your water broken! That is a big intensity shift)
@natalie54321.11 ай бұрын
"I think two is enough" 😭 THIS IS MAKING ME WANT #3. This was besutiful, powerful & SO inspiring. I absolutely cried my eyes out. youre an actual SUPER WOMAN. Matt & Sage are the best birthing coaches lol Thank your for sharing this intimate moment with us your internet mommy friends. ❤️ Oakley you have a badass MOM PERIODDDD👌🏼
@surlespasdondine11 ай бұрын
This makes me feel relieved I'm done.
@eligomez6583 ай бұрын
😂😂😂@@surlespasdondine
@sarnaigan931311 ай бұрын
I’m 4 months postpartum. Mom of 2. Here i’m watching and crying. This is the one of the beautiful and difficult moments in my life. Congratulations! You did a incredible.
@sharniebrown240311 ай бұрын
I’m currently 19 weeks pregnant, and watching this video brought so many emotions watching you go through labour and delivery. You are incredible 💙
@ameliescheuer35411 ай бұрын
How are you
@skeleton_wa_migraine173610 ай бұрын
Youre doing better than i did w my first by watching vlogs to learn what to expect. Look up why you shouldnt purple push ( ie holding breath to push).
@PKC274 ай бұрын
God bless you ❤
@NikkiPhillippi10 ай бұрын
I’m literally sobbing 🥹😭😭😭😭 thank you so much for sharing this! I’m incredibly happy for you and your family!☺️🙏🏻🙌🏻
@jade-lc3vz10 ай бұрын
Not only am i sobbing at how beautiful this is, but also sobbing that we share the same birth day like day wise. And looking up videos on how to prepare for pregnancy and birth and coming across this one has truly helped. I fear the pain of birthing but seeing how strong you stayed and hearing the cries of generations of the ancestor woman in your family before you helping scream with you through you was beautiful. Thank you
@brittanykosek388011 ай бұрын
The part where Sage took you hand during contractions melted my heart . 😭😭😭 I was sooo.. teary eyed . Nikole you did amazing. Matt was amazing too! 👏 welcome to the world baby Oakley so glad he was alright.
@cbusta70311 ай бұрын
Having gone through labor & delivery any time I see a video of another woman going through it brings tears to my eyes. Such a beautiful, empowering moment we get to experience!
@HealthNutNutrition11 ай бұрын
We’re all forever connected with this experience
@gs_salas305911 ай бұрын
I'm 7 weeks postpartum and it is safe to say I bawled throughout this entire vlog. Your groans instantly sent me back to my delivery room, but I can't quite remember the pain anymore, so crazy how our minds block that out afterwards. Then at the end, when you delivered and Oakley started crying, my sweet baby boy started crying. Time to go feed him...thank you for sharing these beautiful, impressively important moments. Your first birth vlog helped me so much, and this second one is just as inspirational and healing for me after having my own baby. Congratulations to your gorgeous family!
@nofaryaacoby384911 ай бұрын
I’m 25 weeks pregnant and crying! Such a beautiful moment of you getting to hold your baby. Thank you for sharing these intimate moments.
@chelseab303211 ай бұрын
I've been so excited for this vlog! Thank you for sharing this vulnerable journey with us! 💖 Oakley and Sage could literally be twins as babies. Beautiful family.
@janetwhitten394510 ай бұрын
This reminds me so much of my second daughter’s birth. It was fast and as I had had a very managed labour with my first I didn’t know what my body could do. It was such a rewarding experience. Now she is 20 and I have an 8 year old grandson by my eldest daughter. The process of childbirth is amazing, it’s a feeling I will never forget. Great video, I hope your family are keeping well xx
@skeleton_wa_migraine173610 ай бұрын
I was unable to push my baby bc i was so tired from a long, medically induced labor that i opted for a c section. I am proud of you & your strength to have your baby naturally & to share your vlog. Its transparent, raw & real. Thank you for it bc i learned what i did wrong & hope i can mentally prepare for my next baby. When you were getting emotional juat thinking of meeting your baby, it was beautiful how motherhood drew that primal love for your baby.
@gellysjourney954211 ай бұрын
Currently 34 weeks pregnant and with a 1 year old toddler at home. Not me crying when Sage held your hand 🥲😭😭😭 makes me think about how my daughter might react.
@HealthNutNutrition11 ай бұрын
this was such a special little moment i know everything happened so quickly but this moment meant alot to me
@ellenangeline11 ай бұрын
Likewise!! I’m currently 30 weeks pregnant with a 1 1/2 year old toddler at home. Immediately teared up too when Sage held Nikole’s hand. Wondering how my daughter might react as well. Even more so of the emotions I’m going to feel as I’m in labor, knowing that it won’t just be me and her anymore, but her baby sister joining us (we’re having 2 girls). 🥺💖
@kateallen345111 ай бұрын
Same here! 32 weeks with my second girl ❤ Wondering how my almost 3 year old will react. Also makes me want to treasure every moment with her until delivery because then it won’t be just the three of us anymore 🥺
@cgw536411 ай бұрын
Such a powerful beautiful birth vlog! When Sage was trying to help you during a contraction, I got teary eyed and was in full on tears during those last pushes before you delivered. Brought memories of the birth of my daughter. I hated pushing and for me it was the most painful part of my unmedicated labor.
@Champagnemami2711 ай бұрын
So beautiful when Sage was holding your hand. I was crying after he took his first breath.
@JennyYogi8 ай бұрын
This made me cry so hard. Brings back memories from my daughter's birth almost a year ago. It was the most painful experience I've ever had in my life but it's definitely all worth it. Bringing children into this world is the most beautiful thing !
@kajatarbuk10711 ай бұрын
Such a beautiful delivery! Seeing Matt cry when baby started crying, had me in tears 😢 wishing your family all the best ❤
@emiliaowen238711 ай бұрын
I always said to myself i would never have a natural birth, but after seeing all her videos about it, and now about to watch this one, i am going to put thought into natural birth! she is so inspiring
@HealthNutNutrition11 ай бұрын
I am honoured to have maybe convinced you xx
@RaquelSilva-dd3to11 ай бұрын
It’s such a hard work! You did amazing! Thank you for sharing, this vulnerable moment of life, it reminded me of all the hard moments and how we can overcome it for our little bundle of joy. And your experience was actually very similar to both my second and third birth (6 weeks ago).
@05lmarsh11 ай бұрын
Wow! I was thinking the exact opposite.
@snoozy6011 ай бұрын
You won't regret it! Go for it Mumma! It's hard but you'll feel so proud of yourself when your bub is placed on your chest. Take care and best of luck!
@Suebearish11 ай бұрын
Hire a doula...
@trina8muffin8 ай бұрын
The way Oakley stopped crying when you kissed his forehead...priceless❤
@cathy463211 ай бұрын
Thank you for keeping the sound. It's so primal. Absolutely incredible what women go through.
@HealthNutNutrition10 ай бұрын
I don’t want to sugar coat it too much as if someone wants to do an unmedicated birth I think it’s important to show the reality of it
@cathy463210 ай бұрын
@@HealthNutNutrition so good. Hope you're proud of yourself. 💖👏💪
@malineemenard20698 ай бұрын
I'm only 3days away from 2nd tri and this video of u sharing your most private moments of birth was so precious and personal. I cried the whole time bc I'm scared and excited at the same time, along also all these mixed emotions I can't describe. Congratulations momma, You did it!! Welcome baby Oakley!❤
@mariaklavarioti400511 ай бұрын
Since I got pregnant, I always cry when a baby is born 💙 many blessings on you and your family!
@MishaThePolly_Therian9 ай бұрын
I loved your cave woman yells! I made the mistake of inviting some female relatives at my second delivery. I am vocal during labor as well (it helps me). During labor, my mom told me to try to quiet down since we were on day 2 being awake, and she wanted to try to get a nap. Then, at family get-togethers afterwards, my aunt kept bragging about how her daughter was so quiet during her labor. How that was a sign that she handles pain better than me! I tell you, during my next 2 births, I only had my partner! Who needs female support? Not me!
@monicataylor74142 ай бұрын
Wow! My mom was so supportive but she did stress me out a little with how overprotective she was of me. But I would never have any other woman with me besides the doula (my mom has since passed). My husband’s mom wanted to be in the room and I said he’ll no. Nobody ruining my peace. Some people can be so weird about this.
@legalfictionnaturalfact3969Ай бұрын
The problem isn't female support. There are tons of examples of great female support. The problem is your family sucks. Don't worry, that's true of most people.
@LaraTh10158 ай бұрын
I'm 10 weeks with our first one and your delivery had me in tears. Such a powerful moment. Awesome job mommy! Can't wait to say hello to our baby as well in October.
@alb080111 ай бұрын
What a Vlog! My boys are 16 and 20 and this brought it all back - I sobbed!! In particular when I watched Matt supporting you - just knowing when to come in to help and then giving you space. and Nikole! - such a beautiful display of a mother giving birth - nature taking over. Wow ♥
@TheMrPsssst11 ай бұрын
I was following u pregnant while i was pregnant. I gave birth on the 6th of october to my second child, this time unmedicated but i wanted epidural, problem was i didnt have time for it cuz bby came out fast. I had very good experience with epidural from my first. Every momma just needs to choose whats best, and that can change when u re in the pain process. Natural birth or not, as long as the baby comes out healthy it doesnt matter if u had pain or pain relief. Scary with the few seconds he didnt breath, really cried there, emotionel seeing mats reactiob. Thank God for ur precious boy, i wish him health and love.
@juliabrown465011 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing such a vulnerable and sacred moment with us. I was bawling when you said how he was born and those moments before they cry are like an eternity. What a perfect baby boy! You are so brave and so unbelievably strong. I’m so touched to see how much of a teammate and cheerleader Matt is. I would also love to hear more of your coping mechanisms and how you mentally made it through an unmedicated birth. What an amazing team and beautiful family ❤
@Miss_Martha.WestVirginia11 ай бұрын
You are a straight up SUPERWOMAN Nikole!!! I cried so hard for this one. Amazing.
@HealthNutNutrition11 ай бұрын
Thank you! its truly incredible what women can do. I just kept telling myself ive done it before and i can do it again
@Miss_Martha.WestVirginia11 ай бұрын
@@HealthNutNutrition I will be doing it all again for baby #2 in June.! So I will be watching for lots of " mom of two" ideas! Merry Christmas ❤️
@dirtydishes247410 ай бұрын
I’m 16 weeks pregnant and honestly really scared about the pain and unnecessary interventions. Pushy hospital staff, c-sections, catheters… really all of it. How were you so calm and strong? Need your resilience. Congratulations!
@chatgpt41359 ай бұрын
She has supportive staff, not the one who force to lay flat, expose vulva, and cut her anyway without consnet, with she having no autonomy over her dignity. Her family is allowed inside to comfort her in painful labor, she may not be forced into episiotomy, nurses aren't pushy, she can move during process and she is pushing in her best position, so you should select a care provider that treats birth as a respectful event, for that u have to clear ur doubts beforehand
@arsonthepan48022 ай бұрын
If you can, try to make sure you trust your birth team. A supportive environment is the best thing
@alexandrakritzman93811 ай бұрын
I CANNOT BELIEVE YOU DID THAT AGAIN! you literally look like a professional at giving birth! You are amazing! Your instincts were spot on. What an inspiring watch. Thanks for sharing with us all!
@laurenkate716211 ай бұрын
You are an actual super woman! Also thank you so much for sharing something so raw and vulnerable ❤ I was a little traumatised from all the sounds that came out of me during my son’s labour and birth - I just didn’t expect it at all and felt out of control. I guess most people leave that out of videos? But this was like reliving my birth and I finally understand why my husband told that I looked strong and in control the whole time - you absolutely did! ❤
@arsonthepan48022 ай бұрын
Studies show that making sounds during labor can help reduce the feelings of pain
@ashmcaskill923311 ай бұрын
I cried my from start, the middle and the end. Wow, just beautiful. All of it. Just beautiful. So many emotions.
@ginaroll414411 ай бұрын
I’m over here 29 wks pregnant bawling my eyes out. So so so proud of you and congratulations on a boy! You’re such an inspiration, you crushed it!
@inesar19935 ай бұрын
That baby s father was so amazing. The faces when he was slmost out like he was pushing with you and the scary and then happy face he put when he was out. That reaction was amazing
@josielj11 ай бұрын
I’ve been having contractions for the last few days. And watching you is like seeing myself right now. Going in the hospital tomorrow morning. I feel like watching this makes me feel a bit better now that I know that we are all going through something similar and we’re not alone. Congratulations!!!❤
@skeleton_wa_migraine173610 ай бұрын
I hope you had a safe delivery & are surrounded by love.
@Unicorns4brkfst9 ай бұрын
Said I wasn't going to cry and here I am ugly crying!! My unmedicated birth with my daughter 6 years ago I made a lot of the same sounds. I'm 32 weeks now with 3rd and seeing your journey is incredible! And that first latch is like nothing else. Thank you for sharing your story!
@jamiedouglas95111 ай бұрын
Okay I know I’m 27 weeks pregnant and emotional but I started crying in the first two minutes of the video.. congratulations ❤
@alanadidonato14711 ай бұрын
Same, cried and 27 weeks ❤
@desrenee110611 ай бұрын
This made me so emotional 🥹 From Sage holding your hand, to the emotions meeting baby, and everything in between. So beautiful. I wish I had this kind of birth when I had my daughter... I'm so happy to see such an amazing family like yours add another addition to your beautiful family❤❤❤❤
@TiffanyWSuarez11 ай бұрын
Takes me back to my labor and delivery. My water broke on the way to my last appointment. I had the best experience with my birth. I’m so happy for your family.
@HealthNutNutrition11 ай бұрын
thats amazing to hear!! im so happy for you lady 🥰
@tekirikaupumipi9193 ай бұрын
I’m 27 years old currently carrying my 4th child and this was so beautiful and emotional at the same time your daughter was so precious during this time aswell congratulations mum dad and big sister on the safe arrival of baby boy 🥰
@nancyzuno11 ай бұрын
Aww I love how you didn’t remove any of the contractions sounds it felt super raw and real. I just discovered your channel recently and love it! I am currently 27 weeks pregnant with first child so I am pretty nervous and excited (:
@meredithxdesign11 ай бұрын
Wow Nikole! You're an inspiration. Thank you for sharing these real moments. I started crying when Sage held your hand and pretty much sobbed the rest of the time. You're amazing!!
@kristaolsen739411 ай бұрын
Congratulations Nicole and welcome to the world Oakley! Thank you so much for sharing your story. I'm bawling my eyes out!! From Sage grabbing your hand, Matt's face when the baby was born, and to seeing your strength... all of it is just so beautiful.
@bubbles4breakfast17 күн бұрын
We mother's know this feeling all too well it's insane. I can literally feel her exhaustion through my screen. Her licking her lips often because her mouth is dry from exertion and when she said she felt weak and the baby felt heavy. These feelings are soooo familiar. I've given birth 3 times and am currently pregnant with my 4th at 31 weeks. I love watching birth vlogs. This one was amazing. Thank you for sharing. You did amazing Mama❤
@bigd331411 ай бұрын
That was the most beautiful video of baby Oakley's birth. Thank you for sharing. As a Mom of two, I ended up with a C-section and a high forceps delivery, I never got this experience. You were AMAZING mama....so happy for you, Matt, and Sage. When I watch this natural childbirth, it makes me understand what fierce humans women are in this world!! You rocked this birth....I hope you are super proud of yourself!!
@blueaspen298211 ай бұрын
I’m sobbing watching Sage comfort you. ❤ Such a sweet girl. Thinking about my little girl when I go to deliver my twins
@Mahehmehta12311 ай бұрын
Such a beautiful and emotional video. How sage held your hand for support was super cute. How Oakley stopped crying once you kissed him. Matt's encouraging words and support, and you being so amazing...it was all lovely.bless
@chatgpt41359 ай бұрын
In India, there are not much hospital who let near ones like family member to heal you inside labor room, forget tge docs here don't even think women actually give birth, they think women are inanimate experimental objects on table from whose helpless body, docs remove a mass called babies, They don't inform you or tell you anything what's happening , which stage labor are you in, they just force you to lay flat on back and bend knees, for hours, put fingers in birth canal randomly , even male wardboys do without consent, put you on a machine motionless for hours, and that too with no relative beside you, and you are not allowed to touch your own body parts, meaning u are totally unaware ehat happen on other end i.e. near intimate area in sleeping position, then suddenly without you knowing, they 'CUT YOUR birh canal, press both hands forcibly on belly in fundal pressure and rudely pull out baby.
@chatgpt41359 ай бұрын
Moreover, as you are afraid of staff, thinking u have no 'Right to touch u and ur baby', you lay flat speechless and voiceless and clueless on what happened to you, docs straightly take away baby from below sheets to nursery rooms, feed formula milk which company sponsered them, wash baby wear it branded diapers , swaddle, and put cap all in nursery room and then bring out baby first to show to husband or in laws or attendants came with that preg woman who are waiting on chairs in passage of nursing homes or clinic and not to the actual woman who had a child, in all this, mother is totally UNFAMILIAR of what hapoened to herself and her baby, has she got baby out of her body, who the baby is, how baby looks, gender of baby, where baby is , etc. And if no nurse tell her when baby was in nursery room she won't know what came out of her lol, which is unnatural cos In nature, a borth giver sees what she got out her body. But, in India, actual mother is last to see her own newborn baby.
@chatgpt41359 ай бұрын
Moreover, as you are afraid of staff, thinking u have no 'Right to touch u and ur baby', you lay flat speechless and voiceless and clueless on what happened to you, docs straightly take away baby from below sheets to nursery rooms, feed formula milk which company sponsered them, wash baby wear it branded diapers , swaddle, and put cap all in nursery room and then bring out baby first to show to husband or in laws or attendants came with that preg woman who are waiting on chairs in passage of nursing homes or clinic and not to the actual woman who had a child, in all this, mother is totally UNFAMILIAR of what hapoened to herself and her baby, has she got baby out of her body, who the baby is, how baby looks, gender of baby, where baby is , etc. And if no nurse tell her when baby was in nursery room she won't know what came out of her lol, which is unnatural cos In nature, a borth giver sees what she got out her body. But, in India, actual mother is last to see her own newborn baby.
@chatgpt41359 ай бұрын
Moreover, as you are afraid of staff, thinking u have no 'Right to touch u and ur baby', you lay flat speechless and voiceless and clueless on what happened to you, docs straightly take away baby from below sheets to nursery rooms, feed formula milk which company sponsered them, wash baby wear it branded diapers , swaddle, and put cap all in nursery room and then bring out baby first to show to husband or in laws or attendants came with that preg woman who are waiting on chairs in passage of nursing homes or clinic and not to the actual woman who had a child, in all this, mother is totally UNFAMILIAR of what hapoened to herself and her baby, has she got baby out of her body, who the baby is, how baby looks, gender of baby, where baby is , etc. And if no nurse tell her when baby was in nursery room she won't know what came out of her lol, which is unnatural cos In nature, a borth giver sees what she got out her body. But, in India, actual mother is last to see her own newborn baby.
@daniellegratton804911 ай бұрын
Congratulations on the new little one! Amazing video. I sat here bawling throughout. My daughter is 21 and for mine and her safety my dr decided a c-section was the best option. She was born 3 days past her due date at almost 10lbs. Yet I never experienced any contractions….false or otherwise. So many mixed emotions watching this between feeling like I missed out on part of the experience to feeling glad to have skipped it. Thank you for sharing your experience. ❤
@Ohdeyummm11 ай бұрын
Here I am 27 weeks sobbing again😭😭. This was so beautiful and intense and just overwhelming with love. I always get a little anxious when I see small children around during the labor process because of my own traumas , but seeing how gentle and loving you guys were despite the pain really warmed my spirit. Congratulations to your wonderful family.
@shannonzorsch692611 ай бұрын
You and Matt are both incredible. Matt for anticipating your needs and being such a supportive partner. Nicole you are amazing, thank you for sharing your journey and both of your birth experiences! You are so strong and your family is adorable!
@buuuh213211 ай бұрын
You're so brave girl!! Congratulations, you deserve it!Thank you for posting and showing us this wild side of life. You inspired me a lot with your birth blog of Sage when I was pregnant and WOW here we are again. After watching this, I am ready to have baby number two. Thank you Nicole
@HealthNutNutrition11 ай бұрын
Thank you for the kindness and im so happy to hear I was able to inspire you
@chatgpt41358 ай бұрын
@@HealthNutNutritionHey sister nikole, please tell which are these hospitals, tell at least one of the two hospitals either where sage was born or oakley's birth hospital's name I don't at all know a single hospital that gives this autonomy to women here in my place, All hospitals I have seen lay women flat with legs bent at knees, put syringes, tubes, unncessary machines and oxygen masks throughout body making her difficult to move, compulsory inductions, force women to lay on back and expose private parts wide open to men and male staff for literally hours and lay speechelss not scream, bully women to strain way beyond limits or threaten to csection, bully to stop cooperation if women decide to use breathing techmique to push and not strain as doc instruct, and even do ROUTINE EPISIOTOMY and violently pull out baby seriously wounding between two legs , this is equal to rape , I mean there is no word that describes pain of this abuse but it us equal to feeling of being molested My mother, in laws and female friends had horrible experience I am scared literally now, amd am in first month of preg, Am ready to migrate, in which state this hospital is??, at least tell state and area name !?, I will google hospitals there, I want to have a 'respectful birth experience like you and do not want abuse, I also have ptsd which will worsen if I face obs viuolence lol'😢😭
@baolekit5 ай бұрын
I am now expecting my second, and watching this just shook me to the core in a different way. when baby arrived and they kept encouraging him to breathe I got so emotional. I was so overjoyed when he finally took his first breath. I just broke down and felt a rush of peace and sense of relief. Thank you for documenting your precious moment. Good job Oakley, and good job mama ❤ It's so amazing that he is already 6months. God bless you guys
@Mamacierra199611 ай бұрын
I cried so hard the entire time. You are SO strong!!! That was so beautiful 😭❤️❤️
@HealthNutNutrition11 ай бұрын
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@alejandraasfour3 ай бұрын
Omg you’re a rock star! I sobbed the whole time but this was so beautiful. I appreciate so much that you shared that with us! Thank you thank you
@alanadidonato14711 ай бұрын
Wow, I watch a lot of birth videos and this was so beautiful, you’re so strong. I’ve had 3 homebirths so I know what hard work that was. I’m now preparing for #4. Congratulations!!!
@katrinalindsay6911 ай бұрын
I've been watching your videos since I found you in 2021 when I was pregnant with my son and you are such an inspiration. I am now pregnant with my 2nd and although I had a bit of a rough run with the birth of my son that traumatised me for a while, watching your birth vlogs just gives me so much strength that I can do this again and hopefully this time it'll run smoother. It doesn't stop me feeling terrified but I can do this. Thank you for sharing such a beautiful moment and I love how honest you always are. I cried a lot throughout this video 🥲
@kelliegriffin337011 ай бұрын
Literally cried watching this. Such strength us women embody during this time! You did so good girl! I felt like I understood every scream when u were pushing
@kwhiteley895111 ай бұрын
This brought back so many memories…my kids are almost 16 and 12 and I can remember this vividly. Thank you for sharing this very intimate and beautiful moment. Though it is so unique and special, it is also the gift all women share. Always appreciate your sharing truth!
@LoveGabrielle-_.10 ай бұрын
She is so strong 💗 I'm 14 and this literally inspired me 💗
@andiejackson595411 ай бұрын
Literally started tearing up 😢 I’m 6 months postpartum now with an almost 3 year old. The second baby came SOOOOOOO FAST. Seeing you push and scream just took me back to my moment and being reminded of how strong women are!!!! JUST ABSOLUTELY amazing! Ugh…the ring of fire!!!🔥 Congratulations to you both!
@ariamontoya143711 ай бұрын
I started crying when you were on your last push because it reminded me of my birth with my daughter.. I’m so proud of you mama, congrats on a healthy baby boy
@TaylorParnell11 ай бұрын
IM LOW KEY FREAKING OUT SO EXCITED FOR THIS!!!! ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ Nicole is the first birth vlog I ever watched on KZbin with sage she literally inspired me to want to become a mom we are going to start trying in 2024 🤯💗😆🙌🏻🎉🙏🏻 excited to document it all just like here!!! Wish me luck removing my nexplanon in a few weeks 🎉
@HealthNutNutrition11 ай бұрын
AHH me too!! and congrats xo
@spiritsister202211 ай бұрын
YOU ARE SO SO STRONG MAMA. Sending you SO much love and admiration. I had a 32.5 hour birth, and I swear, I could FEEL that. I am sobbing. The power of birth is like no other. Bravo
@shopwithjen11 ай бұрын
Momma to 5 here!! These vlogs give me chills and take me back :)
@HealthNutNutrition11 ай бұрын
I kept telling myself ive done it before I can do it again!
@shopwithjen11 ай бұрын
amazing job momma!!!! @@HealthNutNutrition
@erinfagan40511 ай бұрын
OMG SAGE!!! I’m crying 🥹🥹🥹 she’s the absolute sweetest!
@cjgamer83011 ай бұрын
Omg! I Can't Wait For This Nikki I Thought The Labor And Delivery Vlog Wouldn't Come Out Until January But I'm So Happy It's About To Be Out! Can't Wait To See Baby Oakley Birth Vlog! ❤
@HealthNutNutrition11 ай бұрын
Me too! Im so happy and excited to share
@susanfreeman635011 ай бұрын
Once again, I’m crying watching your birth. What an incredibly strong woman, what a loving supportive partner, and what a beautiful baby! Congratulations!
@aislinggibson475011 ай бұрын
The absolute joy of watching a beautful life being brought into the world!! I also your birth vlog of Sage, so I loved when you said, " I cant believe I did that..again.. ❤ Bravo! Well done Mama!
@judyderieux84848 ай бұрын
Thank-you for letting us be there. So,so beautiful young man. So,so happy for you 💓
@samanthajomolina250211 ай бұрын
Wow!!! You’re amazing, we are amazing! I remember making the same sounds as you so animalistic and painful and telling myself after my daughter was finally out of my body crying saying that it was so hard😫😔🥹 but we did it! Congratulations Nikole! 😭❤️
@Joraelfa11 ай бұрын
Yes same here. After my second I remember shaking and sobbing because it was sooooo hard.
@shuuutthefrontdoor11 ай бұрын
OMG you are a champion! I've never cried so hard to a youtube video in my life. full on sobbing. woman are so strong! I want kids but the thought of giving birth terrifies me. Thank you so much for sharing this vulnerable moment it is really inspirational. ❤Such a special moment when you both found out the gender in the moment! congratulations!!!
@rubyhathaway871811 ай бұрын
It's so nice to see a birth vlog where the mum actually screams. I've seen so many where the mum is quiet or moans and it makes me feel so weak. I like to think I usually have a strong pain tolerance, having grown up on a station in Australia. However, I screamed like somebody was trying to kill me during the pushing stages of my labour, because that's what it felt like my baby was trying to do. I still don't know how we don't die from the pain we have to go through to bring our babies into this world. Labour was both awe inspiring and terrifying. Both the best day and the worst experience of my life 😅
@Lokadottir11 ай бұрын
Yes, I screamed just like her once it hit the ring of fire especially. I don't get how others don't. It's like razorblades tearing you up.
@HELLO-b1p10 ай бұрын
Yes I get annoyed when I see women on here quite as a mouse and pushing like your getting out a feather, I have had two births so far and during contractions I’m beating on the walls, pushing stage makes me want fall out of the bed. Now I’m pregnant again and I’m telling myself be Calm like these women why are you so annoying during labour😂
@Sammiejammie52111 ай бұрын
Only a mother could be in unimaginable pain and still look to comfort their child. You’re so strong and this has my voice quivering it was so beautiful. We are so lucky to experience childbirth because it is such a miracle. Congratulations and great job, your baby is absolutely perfect. Merry Christmas to you guys!
@HealthNutNutrition11 ай бұрын
This comment was beautifully said thank you so much 🥲
@Sammiejammie52111 ай бұрын
@@HealthNutNutrition so welcome ♥️♥️
@surlespasdondine11 ай бұрын
I had the "I can't believe it's over" and "so glad i never have to do this again" feeling (we were done at two) even with an epidural. I hated pushing and the pressure, cannot imagine what it's like with all the rest you feel without an epidural. (Mine was a low dose)
@HealthNutNutrition11 ай бұрын
Right when it was over ahah in that moment I couldn't imagine doing it for longer, let alone again 😅
@shirani869711 ай бұрын
I had to go back in the end of the vidoe to the moment Matt noticed it was a boy. It was so touching. It’s so beautiful for a man to have a son, to do all the boys stuff together. That’s the exact way I felt when my baby girl born after 2 boys at home (that I adore so much too!) , but my baby girl, she is my best friend 💙
@elizabethfirmin50273 ай бұрын
So amazing but hearing your guttural screams was traumatizing. 27 weeks and this just cemented I’m getting an epidural. Holy shit, no desire to suffer so much
@Sabrina-ut6hx2 ай бұрын
Yes, that was traumatizing 😮 .maybe she should have gotten an epidural. I just watched another youtuber, and she was all natural as well, and she didn't scream like that. Poor husband that wasn't beautiful it was horrible.
@nikkilynn40002 ай бұрын
Yep. I'm 28 weeks today and haven't gotten to that part yet but I'm definitely getting the epidural. Hope you have an easy delivery! ❤
@CCstarzy2 ай бұрын
@Sabrina-ut6hx it was beautiful! Pushing is hard for mommas. You can saynitsnhorrible
@gingerdanger6670Ай бұрын
Right! It's not the stone age.
@gingerdanger6670Ай бұрын
Smart girl.
@kaylaanderson639111 ай бұрын
Oh this made me cry. I had a very similar birth experience in July. Went to 41 weeks, was starting to feel so discouraged and scared talking about induction. Went into spontaneous labour at 41 weeks exactly. Got to the hospital 9cm dilated and my surprise gender baby was born 2 hours later. My midwife holding her up for the first time and seeing she was a big strong healthy girl was the best moment of my entire life.
@jancyo60368 ай бұрын
This was so beautiful i literally cried in currently pregnant and just how empowering you were it reminds me of the strength us women have. Thanks for such a raw and emotional video ❤ congratulations on baby #2
@marissamurin139610 ай бұрын
bawled through the entire thing! thank you so much for sharing this beautiful, positive, unmedicated hospital birth
@Minecraftmami22211 ай бұрын
You are so strong mumma. Seeing your interactions with Sage while at home made me sob as I’m currently pregnant with our second baby as well. Congratulations on your amazing birth ❤
@NVRK27911 ай бұрын
Cried the entirety of this video. Wow. Congratulations on the expansion of your beautiful family. ❤️
@HealthNutNutrition11 ай бұрын
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@irelandbloking2259 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing your birth story. I’m due this month and up until now (37 weeks) I felt prepared for birth. Watching other women conquer birth is helping me cope with what is to come in my future
@فاطمةالزهراء-ع4ح11 ай бұрын
Knowing Oakley is okay and you're okay did not stop me from crying with you from the beginning. What is it about pregnancy and birth that is just so beautiful and emotional?
@SmallGirlBigWorld_7 ай бұрын
You have the most supportive family ever! God bless you and all of your family. What a beautiful video to watch! ❤
@bcola20026 ай бұрын
Every single birth blog I watch I ball my eyes out. Such a miracle every time ❤
@bettyglick267910 ай бұрын
Amazing to see how baby is comforted being on mommy. Such a precious beautiful moment 💙