Unnecessary burden

[@brucewalters8635]

I remember sitting reading, We're all doing Time," By Bo Loze. He taught meditation in state prisons. Anyway, what clicked inside me was the realization that I wanted to minimilize everything. Simplify. It took 9 years. I was married with kids at 39. I'm 67 now. Simplicity is the key note to a good life.

[@honeybadger8942]

So you were married at 39,a wife and kids. You mean to say you simplified your life by getting rid of them ?

[@michaelgusovsky]

The things you own, end up owning you.

[@wub5540]

This man has great wisdom

[@ngmingking9890]

The heaviest burden is memories, whether good or bad ones.

[@bronsky1410]

Thats why we should live in the present moment

[@Stayfocused99]

You can almost feel their weight on you.

[@miracleshappen4483]

I totally agree!

[@BonaFide惊人的]

Yes it is like a stagnant water inside a pond. Once we reap benefits, if it stays too long or unbenificial, it stinks. The only way for memories to stay afresh is to hold on from receiving new, by staying numb and silence like men always do (haha), and release or unplug the clogged murky, dirty water.

[@GRINDETHIKSMIXTAPESHOW]

@@Stayfocused99 i know the feeling

[@NatalieBudgets]

This genuine man is speaking to my soul. I wish I could follow his path.

[@olchat2012]

...and you certainly could! It's easy! It only takes one small step at a time. You don't need to change everything overnight 😉

[@simonsays525]

I’ve come with good news... You can.

[@TheRealBalloonHead]

You are a genuine and beautifully simple yet wise person, it is my privilege to learn from your wisdom. Thank you.

[@yestohappiness2721]

I gave the books away too, but my dog is not going anywhere! We had him for 9 years and he is part of family. I am happy to clean after him and to pay for his doctor. Not sure if we'll get another pet after he dies...

[@TheGlassasylum]

Great message. I'm on this path too! I've let go. I've moved on. I find fulfilment and happiness in the smallest things.

[@HideorEscape]

Minimalism is the solution to get rid of all this unnecessary material burden. The less stuff you have, the more happier and free you will be. Out of sight, out of mind = you will be able to focus better. The minimalism concept can be applied to many parts of life.

[@giridharalionheart8301]

I feel privileged to have come across you Jon ... I watched your video on 'Discipline and Rules' ... totally agree ... I watched, 'The simple way to make bio diesel', 'Kimchi, the easy, yummy food', 'Homemade tractor' ... I began watching, 'I'm Busy' and immediately felt to find your most recent video and comment ... you are a gem and a wise man ... I've no doubt I'll agree with and appreciate everything you have to share ... looking forwards to watching more of your videos. Thank you and much respect.

[@forsak3th]

I very much enjoy these videos. They are very relaxing as well as inspiring. Thank you

[@sandybrownonyt]

From age 6. Library twice a week. Love books .ooh the excitement of bringing home a new bagful. Read and return. New ones to read.

[@bicycles-as-far-as-im-aliv5725]

Jon u are wise. U are a breath of fresh air. Money can’t buy wisdom but u have an abundance of wisdom

[@seanmurray8051]

Great overall advice and I agree you need to be in a position in life to take on a pet, however I'm certain my dog doesn't feel 'tortured' I don't have him for a 'look' but for companionship. Animals do tie us down but to me it's worth it. I have money and my boy has a big house and garden to run around in and my uncle to come round and look after him when I work so he's not on his own. This is one happy, healthy little dog 🐕. I do see too many people take on pets when their situation isn't well suited to it, so yes it can be a problem to some.

[@fbUSMBA]

Books, old magazines and newspapers are still my burden. Thank you, Sir, for making me aware of it. Kids problems, too.

[@0000asdfasdf0000]

very valid talk. such a wise wise wise person! i realised this a while back. once i started understanding the no shit, real facts, common sense guide to life aka hinduism concepts and principles distilled into the simply, straight forward guide known as buddhism. buddhism is not a religion but is instead the guide to awakening your pure awareness and peaceful being as a result of pure awareness when we lack selfishness, greed and ego. jon jandai is an example of pure awareness! thank you.

[@zoharflax6363]

Thank you so much for sharing what you have learned in life with the world through these videos you are making. You have a lot of wisdom and are good at sharing and are truly a beautiful person.

[@ianrama3482]

The place i was born we have also dogs and cats that we adopted until they spread and we dont have any burden on them to live with us coz the food we given them is excessive or leftovers we use everyday. So no worries and misery’s for both party, dogs are free they can go everywhere and they love the people who feed on them at the same time they are good security in our house, they keep barking if the see some strangers..ultimately we no burdens on them in fact we work together as long we give them food they keep watch our house and the cat always chasing rats who destroyed our clothes.

[@alwayslearning7672]

In 1845 young man named Henry David Thoreau built a cabin in the woods next to Walden Pond near Concord, Massachusetts,US. He experimented with simple living which gave him a lot of peace, pleasure and wisdom, whilst everybody around him was being swept away with their ego's. His conclusion was : "Simplicity, Simplicity ,Simplicity" Did we learn from him? 176 years later Mr Jon Jandai has discovered this and is telling the world. We would not be in the mess that we're in now if we had listened to Henry D Thoreau. This may our last chance!

[@tneal909]

When I was in prison I had 3 sqft of storage, if it didn't fit I couldn't have it. The minimalism was splendid

[@akmaristify]

Awesome

[@helpingpotato6422]

Thats cool bro how's the life in jail is it easy or hard ?

[@tneal909]

@@helpingpotato6422 depends on the spot you locked up and how much respect you can give and take. Its was straight up the most truth learning about life experience I ever had. I almost enjoyed it, but I don't recommend it. Its not glorious, but is ironically liberating in ways you that is hard to explain unless you been there

[@stebarg]

@@tneal909 Thanks for sharing your experience with us.🙏🏽😃🌸

[@iamgroot4706]

Dude, you've been to prison? Dang, thug life bro...👍😺 If I end up in prison, I think I'll die from extreme sadness due to my compassionate and fragile heart. 😄

[@messenger1556]

Mr Jon Jandai, my guru. Thank you. You've changed my life for the better.

[@beegoodstewards]

thank you for sharing with everyone. I am grateful for you Jon Jandai. You have impacted my life in a powerful way. I hope to meet you one day. Have a great day!

[@mirshiban]

Saw you today on ted talk , and became your fan

[@thenewearth5313]

I contemplated getting a cat for a long time for similar reasons as you! I knew it was a long commitment and was unsure if i would feel the same in 10 years time. Well 10 years have passed, and i have changed so much... I have enjoyed his company, and done my best to give him the best life i could. But there have been many times i wish i never did so i had the freedom to travel freely.

[@sagebay2803]

I am SO GRATEFUL for this video. I have always felt the same way but very ashamed to verbalize it. Many people would say, "what is wrong with you that you don't want animals". I tried to have cats but it was so stressful because they were so hyper, ruined my carpets....and came with unknown kidney infections that cost me a lot of $$$. hahaha. Anyway, it is nice to know I am not alone. Thank you.

[@WhatDadIsUpTo]

I have pets, about 200,000. I keep worms. No smell. No noise. Eat garbage. Never complain or need to be let out of house. Fun to watch. Don't bite. Great pets. I love worms. My chickens love them too and I give them free for children to catch fish.

[@gonzalocontreras8677]

Thank you for you inspiring insights!

[@miracleshappen4483]

A pet is much less of a burden than a partner or a spouse. A pet doesn't cheat on you and doesn't lie. Last but not least, there is no economy nor money or a society... People like mentioning Buddha but they forget thst this is Maya, all of it and the only truth here is love! Follow your feelings not your mind because your mind is the filter between you and the rest of the universe.

[@saf7700]

Less furniture and stuff, really help me feel freedom

[@pchabanowich]

Deeply wise contemplations.

[@nirmal6362]

Budha said "Desire is source of all problems", more you desire from basic towards unecessary or luxurious item, more burden and risk you gonna take.

[@miracleshappen4483]

Desire is in the mind!

[@abeltatek8645]

Man... life is so confusing. I know exactly what I need to do in order to improve it. Meditation is the most important thing, then staying healthy, and then working on my business since I plan on buying land when I'm old enough. What I don't understand is why there's such a disconnect between my true desire and what my subconscious/ego wants. I feel like I'm just one realization away from changing my life for the better, but for now I just feel so confused because I just can't get myself to do what I want. I can't even get myself to meditate, exercise, or just anything positive.

[@kellycoote7149]

You are stuck because your conditioned mind is currently running your life, you just don’t realize it. That is the missing realization you have been seeking. Currently you have no true choice in your life, no free will. You are a slave to your mind’s conditioning. How to break free so you can live the life you desire? Awareness is the key that unlocks the door of your mental slavery. Become aware of the mind. There is the mind and here I am observing it. Think of the mind as an amazing problem solving toolbox that you can employ when you have a problem to solve, like a bionic supercomputer perhaps. When you have a problem to solve, you reach into this toolbox for the tools you need to solve the problem. Then, once the problem is solved, you set this toolbox down until the next problem is to be solved. The toolbox does not run your life. What’s left after you set your mind toolbox aside? Your freedom, your true desires and your ability to freely choose action to achieve those desires. Then, if you desire to meditate, you meditate. If you desire to be healthy you choose healthy food, exercise, relationships etc. If you desire to run a business then you run a business. If you desire to buy land then you buy land. Desire … action. Problem to solve … mind. Problem solved … set mind aside then desire … action. Like that. Be free.

[@matthewcain2880]

Right there with you man!

[@kerynfox4279]

With the government covid lock-downs in Victoria Australia for months at a time, in the past 2 years. We were only allowed to go to the supermarket wearing a mask and not able to stop and talk to people , my 2 little dogs and my garden keep me sane. All gurus warn, that too much time spend in meditation and in ones own mind can also become a burden.

[@MrChkmnaidu]

Absolutely correct sir. Slowly reducing my burdens

[@marip6291]

Burdens are relative to what you equate them to.... Because my caring for those I love is no burden at all.... a burden is weighty; it holds you down.... It interrupts your peace and harmony.... it brings anxiety in your life; and Jesus says: " Be anxious for nothing....".... My pets relieve the burden in my life; they give me an opportunity to love and nurture... And, they live to love us back, sdo they do not get burdened by us; only when we ignore them, or don't include them... even in our tiny living spaces.....Not having pets is burdensome to me; I always feel that something is missing in my life without them..... being a good parent is not burdensome; it is right... to go that extra step to show your children that you care how they grow up, is something they will reward you for throughout their childhood and into their adulthood, and it will show up in their children's children.... The bible says to raise up a child in the way they should go, and all their days they will not depart from it... What a fabulous legacy to leave; when you show your children that they are worth it all....I agree that letting go of the "stuff"... You know, the stuff that is expensive and new one day; and old and junky the next... the stuff that is really not necessary.... the junk that takes up space and just becomes dust catchers.... now those are burdens... and so worth letting go of.....

[@bronsky1410]

Almost everything I own is from the salvation army and when I am finished with it it goes back before I purchase something else. Also, my dog is my best friend. Humans are more of a burden.

[@htsyami]

Most humans are a burdensome right now because they burden themselves by their own beliefs and possessions. Once that changes it will be easier to interact with humans.

[@milagrosmilan1829]

Thanks Jon for these words you say, i know that i need to get rid my staff but feeling deficult to do.

[@olchat2012]

Se empieza de poco a poco. Es dificil deshacerse de todo de un dia para otro. Seria un milagro si todo nos saliera bien al primer intento 😊

[@duraincassim7152]

By giving you feel good, if you give it to a library or anyone who wants it you feel happy later.

[@gocciadoro7257]

it's strange for me listen un other persons says the things I ever think about the pets, i live in city and many of my friends have a dog and cat and they always said to me to buy a pets. But for me this is not love because it will be in prison in my house and i agree with Jon Jandai that the life needs freedom

[@alfisahri5662]

Good insight. Lesser is better. But decided to take something as our burden it will depend on what is the purpose of our life. If we adopt poor orphan kids or animals, it will be additional burden, but it brings joy to our life then it may be worth it.

[@kerynfox4279]

God allows us to have children , to raise and care for to the best that we can , with want we have been given . Children need very little to be healthy and happy. Its the adults who force the expectations. They are not our property , they are given only to be raised and then let go.

[@aydinvaliyev3788]

Many people through away books for hundreds of years, that's why we don't know the history of our planet

[@sumitbhattacharya4402]

They are destroyed by rulers of world.

[@pankajdadhe1340]

Your videos are worth watching..........

[@tylergrove]

Wize man who from my perspective has lived a thousand worthy lives. I will be more like you soon my friend

[@theclumsyprepper]

I don't understand how could anyone consider pets to be a burden.

[@HideorEscape]

Well you have to constantly take care of them. It depends on the pet. The ones that you constantly have to keep them in your home can be a burden because you always have to look out of for them, worry for them that they won't escape and so on.. The best pets to have are the ones who are free, can be outside and can hunt. Having too many pets can also be a burden so there should be a balance. I myself have multiple cats and I let them be outside. I don't worry about them, they come home when they please and I do feed them. If they don't eat from me they will still be okay.

[@theclumsyprepper]

@@HideorEscape people that don't have the time and space for pets obviously shouldn't have them because it's not fair on the animals. It's selfish to have a dog or cat locked in the house all day, cruel even. I also have a number of cats and a dog and while they are a responsibility they are never a burden. On the contrary, they are a joy to be around even though I worry about them a lot. To me it's the same like having kids, it's a lot of responsibility but should never be considered a burden or hindrance of any kind.

[@HideorEscape]

@@theclumsyprepper Well yes, if they are well taken care of then they are not a burden. They are only a burden if they are suffering too. Pets should have freedom too and they won't leave home or abandon it, they will always come back if they feel that people care about them.

[@theclumsyprepper]

@@HideorEscape my pets didn't abandon their former owners but were abandoned, few by the same person, so I have a rather tough stance on this matter as I've seen how sick, malnourished and neglected they were when they came into my yard. I just can't understand why would anyone take in a pet if they can't (or won't) put its needs first.

[@fernandoalarcon8534]

Books should be donated, that's what I do. Lt others read and learn. My dog is not a burden, I can see for some that may be the case. One would have to really see if they have time for their pet.

[@nikkion2140]

If you love someone enough you set them free! Sadly, many use "love" as a means of control. Take on burden/responsibility is a manifestation of characteristics of control!

[@olchat2012]

Owning things makes many people comfortable. Being able to show off tbeir possessions, makes others feel good. Owning and showing off our possessions, enhances our self esteem. Or so we think...

[@billzepp69]

One problem when life gets to easy people get board… I would enjoy hearing your thoughts.

[@frankbransco6732]

Now you have time to pray and meditate, time to help others, time to exercise, grow a garden, go to bed earlier and sleep well.

[@DanielSurjan]

Spot on.

[@katwilliams2950]

Yeah, if you don't have proper space and can't give them the life they need and they don't benefit your life, don't have a pet.

[@maytons]

How is a pet raised differently than an animal you would raise to consume?

[@rubydooby9334]

Beautiful .

[@panandra]

Spend money on experiences not things

[@venkatasubbarao9477]

Love you sir. Wish to have your life as mine too

[@sandeeppaniken6227]

Very true Said sir😊🌾🙏

[@binhhuy1896]

- your life looks like a monk but not a monk, i like it. - sir your life and your mind is different because you love books - when you share your thought , i can see me. thank you

[@maivnaasthiabvajthaiv7798]

Your English were good, I want to see you in Thailand, Chiang Mai

[@ananamu2248]

Books or not books kept ...my answer is ... I keep those I can share with others but only those that need it....also there are those I refer to ,constantly...but I have a limit . One book case ,one animal ,one box of tools ,basic cooking.....etc not either / or but Some ,ENOUGH and no more ....

[@stebarg]

Spot on 🙏🏽🌸😃

[@Dovid2000]

I agree with most that has been said here, but when it comes to books, there are books and, then, there are BOOKS. By that I mean some books are invaluable for imparting knowledge and wisdom. I would not want to give-away such books, unless it be to pass down such books as an inheritance to my children.

[@A.I.-]

5:00 pets >>> dogs. I used to have dogs and then decided not to have them anymore. I had 3 dogs; labrador, german shepherd, rottweiler (one at a time). I looked after them well, they brought so much joy into my life. At one point, I realized that, I got my dogs because I was seeking some fulfillment/joy/happiness. But then realized that I was merely trying to escape the pain of the daily rat race.I spent time walking my dog, feeding them the proper food (not canned dog food), send them to the vet when they get sick, wash them, clean their poo in the backyard. I added the time I spent; 1hr playing/walking with the dog, 15min preparing food, 30mins cleaning after them. An average of 10hrs a week/ 520hrs a year... Then I realized that, I could have spent those hours with the people I care about. I could have also spent those hours looking after/better myself instead. I think we unnecessarily bring pets into our lives as a form of distraction, stress relief, pleasure seeking or for companion. Yes, they are great companion because they will never correct you, or disagree with you. But then I realize that companion with family/friends/people (despite its complexity) is far better investment than a pet. Because a pet cannot help you out where it really matters in day to day emergencies; such as moving to a new house, looking after you when you're sick, give you a ride if your car is broken, lend you a tool for work, etc... Are pets a burden? Yes... by the definition that they take more from you than what they reciprocate to you.

[@OQISFREE]

thank you Jon Jandai !!

[@billzepp69]

Me too tons of book. Gave them all to the library. Well I have 4 books still.

[@aimeka4111]

As I learn to let go, let be, let alone of whats not related nor relevant. Freedom embrace.

[@AlexthunderGnum]

What about children? Are they also burden? It costs lots of money and it takes a lot of your attention to care about children. What do you think - are children also a burden, just like pets?

[@0511jared]

He explains his take on family members in the second half of the video. It was also enlightening.

[@wiillthebarbertv9415]

You obviously didn't watch the whole video

[@yvesscherer5902]

The way we try to take control over others puts a burden on us and them.

[@phuongmaimelody]

thanks & love you.

[@lanlam2114]

Every animal deserves a loving care family, I do not have them bcz Im lonely. There are less and less nature resources, we need to have a heart for them!

[@freedomformen2548]

He's right about pets , its wrong to have them. You make them a slave of you. Especially in small appartements . They need space and nature. Meny people have indoor-cats . This is crazy , imagine you have to live all your life in a house without goieng outside. Its horrible

[@allenarrows9347]

understand and respect your space, always

[@bahbahblacksheep9373]

wise words in my experience the people with the most are the most miserable

[@mbpfsingh3037]

Dear Jon, I have stayed in Bkk and enjoyed the social baundings with Thai people. Hope you have great experience about unnecessary burden. Now I live in Kolkata and leading a happy family life.

[@thecatguy4301]

Yep, really sad to see people use pets as a teddy bear and feed them factory food. Folks, kibble is killing your pet.

[@lizziefarmsmart4882]

Have watched most of your videos on farming. We can collaborate. How do I reach you

[@billzepp69]

You are correct about pets lol if you tell people they don’t love their pets. People have destroyed the word love. They just like or dislike things but use the word because it’s better more powerful or some shit.

[@helpingpotato6422]

hey jon why I always feel like I will live a poor broke life ?

[@russellm7530]

Hey Jon. You remind me of THE OLD MAN IN THE CHAIR Dr. Vernon Colman on KZbin. By virtue of my narcassist psychopath relatives especially my mother they ruined and stolen every good thing in my life from me. So, much because of them I've lived the minimal lifestyle whether I liked it or not. I just wish I could have had that choice. I did but it was stolen. But minimalism is good if that's what one chooses. God bless you and your family Jon

[@rogathesarwatt]

You still have a time yet why being in that prison live you life

[@ronryandimaano9878]

First comment.. good morning Jon jandai..

[@lutaayam]

This is the only reason I’ve not got a dog yet

[@rogathesarwatt]

Oh what a nice advice

[@nishanthg4705]

Please make a video on how you make beds and how to grow for beginners like me.... Please

[@lornzzyyamper8959]

Hi from Philippines...

[@donalain69]

I think you should read about marcus aurelius, seneca and stoicism. its a phylosophy that has a lot in common with yours. before the rise of christianity in rome it was a well established philosophy with its own schools and many followerrs. sadly its mostly forgotten today.

[@dilipkushwah8266]

Marriage is burden ???

[@wiillthebarbertv9415]

Yes

[@dineshweerakoon5863]

I wish i can be like you....

[@lukeevans3557]

Do you travel around and just eat wild food?

Books are my burden. I will give them away as soon as possible.

[@danielwoolman8969]

Truth

[@josephinekalumba4014]

Thanks Jon

[@edruceross]

life itself is unnecessary, but inevitable.

[@iqbalsirifarizki2649]

Nice video Sir.. Sir, what do you think about Stoicism?

[@niels4001]

From Seneca’s letters and then to Krishnamurti, Total Freedom ;)

[@marchheydemans6147]

Hi jhon iam from east indonesia

[@parthlashkari1692]

True sir

[@dullyvlog7267]

thank you sir

[@MrBwalendy]

I completely disagree with you in regard to having dogs. They give us much more than we give them. It is truly unfortunate that you have not experienced this wisdom.

[@MrBwalendy]

@@charleskulvet4911 The relationship between dog and human is symbiotic. It is not about ownership or being needy emotionally. Therefore I completely disagree.

[@restartwithBinay]

Hello sir. Big fan of yours. But quite confused this time. Cows hens goats are also pets. Are they burden

[@eloisenair956]

Only you should know if they a burden to you.

[@wiillthebarbertv9415]

He explained that, not everyone.. some people have outside cats, they come back by choice , some animals don't want to be imprisoned, we spade and neuter our cats/dogs, is that fair to them?

[@wiillthebarbertv9415]

We think we're feeding them the best food, they might not like it but eat to sustain life, same meals every day.

[@mr.RAND5584]

Get a pdf ebook saves space. Put it in zip file to save space more.

[@KawsikRoy]

having a dog is like you are torturing that dog. BUT, this torturing has been done so many years that NOW dogs are dependent on human care. it's written in their DNA. exceptional cases are also exist. but dogs love human touch. although they were wolfs. evolution made them dogs. our torturing/love made them dogs.

[@Michel-Graillier-fanclub]

I agree I had a Japanese Akita raised from puppy age to adult and he liked me but his true love was freedom.

[@stebarg]

Property is theft.

[@HITSHOPVN]

Pets are good friends, dogs and cats Pets also help children better

[@wiillthebarbertv9415]

Good intentions but a misunderstanding of the point he is making, it's selfish of us even though we don't see it that way.

[@HITSHOPVN]

@@wiillthebarbertv9415 Oh. Thanks so!

[@thirdrockjul2224]

❤️

[@fariszengi]

i can only talk like this when 200ug