Untying more of the victim-narrative knots and learning to love myself through it (thanks Saturn)

More saturn in pisces stuff coming up. Much of it is centring around self worth and what it looks like to choose yourself and accepting that choice in others.
I got stuck in some loops while talking, thankyou for being patient with me through them.
Hope youre uncovering things about yourself, try your best to love what you see, its okay too, I promise
Love n light 💗🤍💗

[@katiemae9412]

This is so refreshing to see. Perhaps because I see aspects of myself in the way you process. I'm grateful you are sharing this rawness, because it makes myself feel seen even though it is you, another me, who is going through it. I often struggle with not feeling seen in my emotions and expecting others to see it for me without expressing myself. I've certainly gotten better at it over the years but I know it's still an aspect I struggle with. Soft Questioning- that's a beautiful way to address one's self. Thank you for being ♡ thank you for sharing ♡

[@joy__annabel]

Im proud to hear you acknowledge yourself, the progress youve made and will continue to make with this whole thing 🤍 and thankyou, its touching to hear that connection and im glad to be a mirror for that rawness ~ we’re really all working through these things for one another, through ourselves and our own experiences hey? Thankyou for being and blessings to youuu 🤍

[@Goddessing999]

This is so wholesome and it came to me right when I needed it in certain areas of my life. Thankyou for being raw and honest 🩷🪽✨

[@joy__annabel]

Love hearing universal timing at work, and thankyou for seeing value in my ramblings that means a lot ♥️ Blessings to you in your days, I hope whatever’s going on for you right now brings you into greater alignment and transparency with yourself 🤍✨

[@Goddessing999]

Yes the universal timing!!! Yes I know the feeling a lot of my videos are also ramblings that sometimes I am not sure if people receive them in the way I mean. So I love to let people know how they served me! I am definitely getting more clear and aligned with me and all that is for the highest good. Thankyou for being a part of that! I wish you blessings and love for life! 🩷✨🪽🪷🤍🌬️

[@tmstani23]

You are very wise and introspective. Thinking through it and reflecting can help you grow. Always choosing yourself over others isn't better. Always choosing others over yourself isn't better. We all must act in our own self interest. Even if we don't rationalize it that way. Like even giving ourselves completely to another can be in our own self interest if it is our only known way of moderating our emotions or providing for ourselves at a specific time. We all must learn to balance concern for others and ourselves. Ideally we can give to others without sacrificing ourselves but at times sacrifice is necessary. But we should always do what is in our own self interest overall. If we cant take care of ourselves we can't take care of anyone else. If we depend on others without also having a strong self base then we will always be a slave to the will of others. To be free we have to choose ourselves first. You can choose yourself even if you hate yourself. Without choosing yourself you can't learn to love yourself. Then learn to give freely out of love and compassion and concern for others rather than dependence or for self gratification. I think there are many who are one of each of these polarities. Entirely self or entirely other. Balance is the only way to grow and become a "better" person. But balance can only be achieved once we have decided to begin by choosing ourselves.

[@joy__annabel]

Thankyou 🤍 yeah balance is usually the answer, especially when coming from either polarity, finding that middle is the challenge Challenge is where growth can take place though ~ Trusting all parts of the journey 😊

[@tmstani23]

@@joy__annabel Absolutely, without struggles and ups and downs there is no music :)

[@arjenjanse]

Hey there! Very interesting thoughts, it's admirable how open and vulnerable you dare to be online. Choosing yourself over others or others over yourself I think only makes sense for individual issues. But if you look at the bigger picture I think that the distinction disappears. You can not properly be there for others if you are not also taking care of yourself, and you can not take good care of yourself if you're not caring for the other people around you. When it comes to self worth, I for myself always think I have to do away with all these expectation, We so easily judge ourselfs by the standerds of perfection but that's completely unfair. No one is perfect and there is nothing wrong with allowing ourselfs to be flawed, it's part of what makes us human. A sense of selfworth is not something we get by changing who we are but rather by realizing the worth that's already within us Just some thoughts from a stranger, take care :)

[@joy__annabel]

Thankyou 🤍 this is something ive spoken about before and im so glad to hear these words echoed back in more than one place ~ forgiving our humanity, its innately flawed nature, and surrendering to that truth Its the resolution I typically need to bring myself around to- accepting myself and others for where theyre at, and trying to maintain the hope and belief that we are all here doing our best at each moment - but I cycle through it, I dont always remain in that lightened state, but im thankful for each journey back Blessings to youu 🤍

[@arjenjanse]

@@joy__annabel That's really a beautiful quote. I try to be in that kind of headspace as much as possible tho it can be very difficult from time to time, but maybe that's also just part of it. Blessings to you to!

[@jenifernadeau]

Very true. You can never offer to another that which you have not already offered to yourself, you cannot give away what you do not have❤

[@jenifernadeau]

When I come across people that do not want to talk but I'm feeling it's important, like fixing some leftover Discord Etc I work with accessing their higher self through my higher self you can research ways to do that online. You can speak to them and ask them questions or interact but only after asking permission from their higher self first.❤

[@jenifernadeau]

Yes exactly. When we do our inner child healing, and address that wounded inner child due to covert or overt neglect, something as simple as a parent not being fully present being in the room with us..... a lot will come up. It appears that what you're experiencing sounds like an old body and brain program from childhood, what you're describing is what your inner child felt like in regards to a parent that maybe didn't want to talk or address something that was important to you. And when we are children we are meant to be seen and heard and honored and cherished and valued and accepted and that is our birthright. I'm sure 99.9% of the world does not get that LOL so you may likely be experiencing a trigger of what's called withholding or stonewalling from a childhood experience with an adult. It's hidden in the subconscious so it may take some digging and once that gets cleared out, all that extra narrative that we add in as children or assume it has something to do with us or it's against us in some way..... that actually clears out of your body's memory system .. you becomes more crystalline😢 😊you will be lighter and Freer once that program is gone. It will be easily a conscious choice .. with practice..to tell yourself that you would rather feel good about something so you shift your belief into something that makes you feel good. If the belief does not make you feel good, then we can change it that's how powerful we are.❤ but the arduous part is recognizing that what we had in childhood that was familiar doesn't mean it's healthy. We get to recreate what actually is healthy and what feels good for us as adults❤ I'm glad you're listening to your body, that's why I always found my answers.... my guides and angels and through messages as well