UPDATE! Divorce, Moving, Etc. Why have there been no replies to comments. I need a frickin nap.

[@shawni321]

Sometimes people dont realize how bad it has to get before ultimately deciding on a divorce. This video is 7 years old, looking at you now, you came through it like a champ.

[@socko691]

Joe, I have just recently (like 2 hours ago) found your videos and subscribed. You are a very strong individual and I appreciate that about you. You are also very in touch with yourself and not ashamed to show emotion and how you really feel in any given situation. Please always continue to be real and let us be a part of your life. A Friend, John...

[@ThisGuyEdits]

i admire you opening up like this. You are strong man for being so vulnerable. Good luck and keep up the good fight!

[@nancyl3843]

Well, almost 10 years later is the first time I've seen this video. All I can say is--God bless you.

[@sbnsbaker1]

As a woman who has been married for 36 years & have a husband who fishes, hunts & preps with me, I can tell you that NOT ALL women are the SAME!!!

[@joeylewis5911]

So true, I admire a woman who can be strong with and with out her man!

[@yusufkidwai]

Not All Women Are The Same = NAWALT. Look it up. Yes, they are not the same to start off but they change. It is all good and rose...until it isn't the case anymore. And then that lovely women turns into something you wouldn't wish upon your worst enemy. Marriage isn't worth the risk for men - divorce, courts, custody battles, false allegations, potential loss of job, financial struggles, etc. Yes, not all women are the same. Even if you find that women, there is always a chance she can turn into that very person you've been trying to avoid. If someone told you, there's a 40% - 50% chance that a certain investment might not work, would you put your money and future into it? If someone told you, there a 40% - 50% chance that you might not survive skydiving or bungee jumping, would you do it? Yet for some reason, perfectly reasonable men, perfectly rational men, seem to think that their women is somehow different and that it will all work out. Unfortunately, the divorce rate proves that 40% - 50% of you are wrong...and delusional. NAWALT is a silly argument for MGTOW. It doesn't address the reasons for MGTOW in the first place.

[@Cre8edtoshine]

😞

[@jesteranonisgamegameover2321]

No woman is worth your anger or time. I forced a marriage between my ex wife and the basement stairs when she served me divorce papers. That arranged marriage, courtesy of me giving her a push, served her a long overdue nap. I almost paid with my freedom for that arrangement. Thankfully, I was set free due to a procedural technicality and I now live in the woods, roaming everywhere living off God's land and doing his work. God bless!

[@lpddawg]

If it has tits or tires it's trouble....

[@chefmitch3499]

hey just went through the same thing…after 25 years I'm 51 and retired and starting to build my cabin in the smokies…getting more done in the last two years than i ever did married…i believe you will find the same thing…best of luck

[@mpgcherokee]

I love following your path through all these videos. This is group therapy , Joe. Thank you.

[@farnorthweaver7793]

I'm a newcomer to your videos and really like them! So sorry for what you went through, those circumstances can be hard. You look like your on the mend. I don't doubt, you'll have some new beginnings! God Bless You!

[@JoeandZachSurvival]

Things are much better now and I appreciate that you commented. Thank you for watching the videos. I have many to watch and more to come. Thanks again.Joe

[@MrMarkusmarc]

From all of your viewers we all wish you all the best for the future Joe we love the videos and glad they are going to continue. Cheers bud..

[@mikeschumacher9715]

That's a hell-of-a homestead. Most don't have an open hearth, foot bridge, and swimming pool, right net door to the old house. Hope you are getting along well.

[@thelastneanderthal3171]

Hang in there man. It will get better. The hurt will go away. Stay close to your kids. I have gone through that some 20 yrs ago. In the end there are still your good friends, your kids and of course, hunting, fishing and just spending time in the wild relaxing.

[@Illuminall]

Just saw this (I understand it's older). I'm going through a similar situation, which btw is why I look at videos like yours trying to educate myself i bit. Very inspirational. I see that you landed on your feet :) I'll keep watching (Y)

[@FrugalFarmerChannel]

Joe, glad this video and time in your life is a distant memory now. I am a member of "Club Divorce" in good standing (about 12 years now) and happy. Thanks for sharing!

[@rhosteph]

I've become addicted to your videos! I curl up an watch them after work. They relax me so much! I dream of some day having my own tent, and that outdoor fire place is amazing! Thank you for sharing, and best wishes on the next stage of your life!

[@dwconfer]

I know how you’re feeling. Keep your chin up and keep moving forward. It does get better. Appreciate what you do. If you ever need an outside ear to talk to ,contact me. Helps sometimes

[@johnroos5807]

It's now 25 March 2021, and I feel like you came out, on top! I think I know how bad it was for you at the start, but I hope you and Melissa have everything you guys need do things that you both can appreciate!:) Kudos to both of you! Semper Fidelis

[@watsup1350]

I'm not sure how many times I've watched this over the years since I first found your channel, but each time I view it I am amazed at the consistency you've shown through various challenges, inconveniences, and yes, even hardships. Over those years I've introduced my own grandsons to Northern Seclusion and Joe and Zach's Survival. All 3 of them understand my respect for you, not only as substantial "entertainment" for me, but also as a role model for them. Yep, even I want to be "like Joe" if I ever actually do grow up,

[@JoeandZachSurvival]

Thank you, what an awesome comment. Life will kick your butt sometimes but you really need to keep moving forward. On the days when you just can not do it are the days you really need to do it.

[@johnayris406]

Love all your videos, but especially the tent! Something about the cozy remote nature of getting away from people and just surviving comfortably in nature! Very relaxing and enjoyable! Thank you. We have a similar remote cabin, we have power but no water! We love it!

[@JoeandZachSurvival]

+John Ayris Its always nice to get up there and enjoy all the chores that need to be done in a quiet peaceful place. Thank you. Joe

[@jerrylee7666]

I have just discovered your channel and subscribed. Sorry to hear this. Although I have only recently found your channel, I have quickly became a fan. You honestly seem to me like a guy that really has life figured out... Obviously I have no idea what goes on behind the scenes but I think it's pretty clear that you are a very hard worker and you care very much about your family. I hope that you continue to find happiness and enjoy the things that really matter in life.. I know it might be hard to understand.. But you have really inspired me to go after the things I really want in life.. I'm making it a goal to have some of the things that you let us be a little part of through your videos. I'm 30 years old and hope by 35 to have a little cabin like you have to enjoy. Anyway, I'm rambling. In short, thank you for teaching us the things that you have and letting us find a bit of peace through your videos.

[@Dave-zj1zj]

Sorry you went thru all this. Would never know it from the new stuff. :) Glad you are still here.

[@sayno2me]

your an amazing human. my family looks up to you your the reason I bought 10 acres and a house and building a bird coop like yours. also the pigs pen and I'll be adding goats later to our homestead we live in arizona Mojave county to be exact, and our dirt is so hard to garden but we won't give in we have rough terrain and so jealous of the dirt u have lol ok well thanks for being my inspiration your truly a walking angel! 🤗

[@bravoleader27]

I'm sorry to hear that you're going through a divorce, I really enjoy your channel.

[@geniusinexile]

Amid all the chaos, you picked a peaceful, gorgeous background. That is BEAUTIFUL. Best to you, sometimes life can be an absolute explosion and you came out with grace and dignity and I am tipping my hat to you. Best to you! G

[@juanitasullivan3372]

I found your channel a few days ago and love it. I will also be doing a marathon watch this weekend from beginning to end less the few I've already watched. From already watching later videos from 2015, I'm so glad things are going well for you. Love your tent house!!

[@sheilabundren2037]

I'm new to your channel but already find it very interesting. So sorry for the divorce but looks like everyone has adjusted. I panicked when I couldn't find the videos yesterday but they are back today. Thanks for sharing and keep posting.

[@funkyprepper]

hey thanks joe - glad it made it all that way - glad you liked it. look forward to the video - keep up the great work guys. your well liked here in the uk. cheers bro darren

[@singleman1986]

Joe, I know this video is over 4 years old but, I just now found it and felt the need to respond. I just got MY FINAL divorce papers in the mail 2 days ago. By now, you've healed quite a bit. Having Melissa in your life has probably contributed a LOT toward that goal. As a recent subscriber, I'm sifting thru all your more recent videos, and I gotta say that I admire your great life, attitude, and values.

[@jesteranonisgamegameover2321]

singleman jimbo I feel for you brotha. I went through a divorce too. Read my story in the comments. All I can tell you is that it gets better with time. You will survive. I did but my ex didn't. Karma always wins.

[@lwoodstock1]

I just started watching your videos, which are very nice to watch. My husband and I have tent camped for over forty years, and enjoy fishing, camping, and hiking with our two collies (mixes) very much. Your tent and your home look quite nice. But I can see that you work tremendously hard. I also enjoy seeing your black lab, as I love dogs. I'm sorry for your situation, and hope that things get better with time. Happy trails.

[@lwolf4987]

Just saw this. You’ve come along ways. You and Melissa are so amazing as a couple! Time moves on and it has been so positive! Take care!

[@dmw83831]

Just seeing this for the first time. From the look of things your new wife is a blessing. Not all women like fishing and camping . looks like you did. I did to, Shes my 2nd wife . Hang in there

[@whimberly1]

Good to see you hanging in there. The new place is beautiful. I wish you nothing but the best, sometimes we go through things and we don't know why but just make yourself a big ole pitcher of lemonade.

[@ckrose4163]

I really enjoy all your videos! My Heart goes out to you 100 percent. I am truly sorry about the divorce. My Girlfriend dumped me on Christmas Eve. We are here for you.

[@Daniel_Callie]

Bless you Joe. You are a super guy and wonderful hard working father who has created such a nice life for you kids! Thank you for sharing.

[@roaldeuller]

I have a lot of stress in my life, and ironically, your videos have helped me put aside the stress in my own mind for a short time. I especially like the "dinner in the tent" videos. Take care and good luck.

[@lenaowl]

I saw the head line for this video and couldnt help but open it. Its the first one I have seen of yours. I wish you the best. And now I will begin to watch your videos.

[@SOMD-THC]

just found your channel and have already watched 4. plan on doing a marathon video watch. from watching your other videos life is treating you well after everything you went thru. Glad your happy and doing what you love to do. Your such a nice guy that you even helped your xwife remodele her new home... While trying to do the same to your new home.

[@JoeandZachSurvival]

Thank you for that nice comment. The kids and I are all going out for lunch today for Fathers day. During the time this video was made I know one for sure would not have attended. Its nice that things have gotten better. Thanks again. Joe

[@johnmcdonald5274]

+JoeandZachSurvival Tough family times test you to the core. Good to hear things are better for you these days.

[@leonorlizardo9174]

T. Kemp

[@catherinetalarski9249]

We're patient...we can wait for new videos. Keep safe & do what needs to be done. Love & Blessings to you as you begin a new chapter in The Book of Life.

[@eddiekozlowski1592]

Wish you the very best! Things will get better with time! Please keep up the great work and ask God For Strength! You will makeit and always enjoy the Lake & Woods and the Great Outdoors! 'Should Be Stress Free Now !

[@JoeandZachSurvival]

+Eddie Kozlowski Thank you. A couple years have passed and life is much better now. I can do what I want and do it when I want to and the outdoors is where I spend alot of time. Thanks again. Joe

[@Yorkieapsa]

You are a great dad with great kids and that's all that matters!! What a sanctuary u have there. Just what you need!!

[@RedBerryatHomesteadHopes]

Sorry that you are going through some rough times but praying that things will continue to work for you & your family. Life can be really tough at times. Your place is really beautiful. LOVE the fireplace. Take care.

[@justinmartinez5485]

I'm grateful for you taking the time to share all your cool life stuff, when your at the tent I feel like I'm there to-thanks for that! and losing yourself in your vids is great to here, you know that when you talk about your problems you release their power, so good for you man!

[@JoeandZachSurvival]

+Justin Martinez What a great and nice comment. I have many more videos coming on both of the channels so stay tuned. I will be back to the tent in about a month and I am excited. Thanks Justin. Joe

[@duh7048]

Nothing but love Joe. Your channel is in my top 10 for sure and just recently got my mom into as well lol.

[@JoeandZachSurvival]

Thank you.

[@peakspike]

Double thumbs up on this one. I have been going through all of your videos and just saw this one. I am currently going through a divorce now and doing the two houses prep thing (and a cabin in the mtns) and am really busy. But, in the end can't wait until it's all over. Great videos!

[@irisponcedeleon2239]

Sorry to hear of your difficult times. Stay focused & positive, things will get better my friend 😇

[@patriciahartnett3322]

you have an awesome attitude! I admire how you take care of your family and belongings, and that you haven't lost being yourself. keep hunting, fishing, prepping and just enjoying nature! just don't forget that we want to see it all on video, because we live vicariously thru your beautiful experiences!

[@erikadowdy686]

Not only are u documenting ur lufe but u are sharing with people that would love to experience the same things but cannot. I just recently started watching ur videos and i get a sense of peace and even learn a thing or two . The cabin, the tent, max, cooking outdoors, canoeing, fishing, etc. are all things that i would enjoy doing too so thanks for sharing.

[@JoeandZachSurvival]

Thank you for the nice comment Erika. I appreciate it. Joe

[@rainer1370]

Sorry about the divorce, but you seem like someone who makes the most of things and I'm glad to see you're still living life to the fullest. I love the videos and thank you for making them and sharing them. They make me yearn to see Minnesota.

[@MrJOHNPATCH]

Keep up your great work on ur videos. Now the time to enjoy ur life in the woods. Just remember to keep a great big ol smile on ur face. WAY TOO GO BRO.

[@richardcox7926]

I am seeing this for the first time(being a new subscriber) I am sure many people can relate. Now 8 years have passed. Hope life is treating you right......even now in the situation we are in now.

[@BonnieLTyler]

I really love watching the things you do at the tent so I am glad you kept it. It is so well organized. I wish I had the ability to do those kinds of things with my own hands. It is a gift. Maybe sometime you could go into detail on your construction tips for the non tool handy women who love to watch. Life happens and we can't control other people, but we can find happiness in the good things we choose to do. Blessings to your family.

[@tomyot77]

It gets better and better. Glad you and kids will still be close. New to channel two more years to retire and I will be in my cabin in AL.

[@rebeccacastro3852]

man, I had jus subscribed to your youtube channel, the trips to the Tent suckerpunched my heart! and that's all she wrote! well your doggie too! the letter was touching! what a blessing! but I must say, I felt something was amiss! when you mention needing to get away, or be alone for a couple of days, now I understand! gotta say, your so kind to share your time with us, and it took me away myself, be it a few minutes or so! so ty from the bottom of my heart, peace, rebecca ~○~

[@melodycapehartmedina2264]

Really sorry your family and you had to go through this.... That is a really beautiful rock fireplace behind you and it is nice you are still able to be in a familiar place.

[@tylersontag3152]

Really like this guy, genuine good hearted American. Keep it up sir

[@livinggood5545]

Oh man been there and thought it was never gonna get better but it actually does. Hang in there and glad you and the kids are close. Divorced myself raised my three boys and sacrified anything to be there for them. Love your videos, so broad spanned on so much educational interest. keep up the good work, God be with ya and the kids, and watch over you guys I gotta subscribe.... Thank you for sharing.

[@piknix]

my parents got divorced around this time, they were together for 27 years, it sucked. but looking back at it and seeing them now, they are happy. they stayed together till my little sister went to college. Divorce just sucks and talking about it helps. best of luck to whoever​ is going through one.

[@Shotgun1810]

Sorry to hear about all the crazy hectic stuff going on, but atleast you have an amazing new house to live in, glad things are settling Take care

[@camanojim]

your channel is by far my favorite and i cant help but feel sorry for you. i hope evrything works out well for you and your family. Thanks joe, good luck to ya Jim

[@dwigginsbiggins]

Hang in there man! I really enjoy the videos. You have a gift for making them.

[@davidwootton163]

I am sorry to hear your news. Thankyou for the wonderful videos. Keep strong you will be in our thoughts. David And Joan.

[@glumGlumm]

I been watching your videos for years and this vid just pop up. Keep sharing those vid i enjoy watching them. Thank you!

[@agalvez1296]

I'm still catching up on your videos. I love your fire pit/place behind you. Did you build that? I'm sorry to hear of your divorce. It's been 6 years since you made this video. Its May 23, 2018. So I know from watch you more current videos. That you are well and doing great. And you've moved on with your life. I love how you enjoy your kids. And like watching you cook and BBQ. Not a deer hunter but I still watch your video on them. I will skip yucky parts. Lol... Okay thanks for sharing your life. Peace ✌🌹💃💃💃💃💃💃💃💃💃💃💃

[@USMC65UH34D]

Joe, I am so sorry for the trouble that has beset you. I am happy for how well you seem to have worked through them. Thank you for continuing to share all with us and I am sure many will uphold you and your family, in prayer. May God bless and sustain you and take that nap, you sure deserve that. Your friend, Jim

[@crowtubecrozier2857]

I hope your doing okay Totally appreciate all you do! Divorce isn't easy, it's tough, sad ect.... I've been there. Keep your chin up, you seem like a great man.

[@johns4584]

Glad you're still hanging in there, I love your videos...............Went through 2 divorces, not much fun.

[@TheKegs96]

It’s been 8 years my friend! Love your videos, trying to start from the beginning of your vlog but this popped up on my KZbin feed! Hope life is treating you good 8 years later. Deer season is right around the corner, I’m in Georgia, bow opener is next weekend! Good luck this year

[@johnbourke1199]

Man I really enjoy your videos and I am really sorry to hear about your troubles but as others have said it gets better, I am in Australia and the deer season starts in about a month, just concentrate on the good stuff and love your family john

[@timlynch4423]

Yeah just got into both channels recently and man I can't tell you how much I like them you have got to be the hardest working person and most knowledgeable I've seen ,you have earned everything good coming your way, keep it up

[@mwright7892]

Hang in there!! You are a strong man 💪🙌. And you work hard. Don't forget to Pray!!! You are going to Make It.

[@LEO-cn7mg]

Looks like your being strong, brother! I enjoy your channel! Keep it up!

[@Deriust]

Sorry to hear what you are going through. Been through it myself years and years ago, and it caught me totally by surprise, nearly killed me. But I made it through with faith and good friends and you will too. Keeping busy and keeping in the woods doing the things you love will help you to heal. If I can be of any help don't hesitate to PM me. You got a new subscriber as well.

[@sheryl2pnt0]

Sorry you have been going thru so much stress...hopefully things will calm down and you can enjoy that beautiful fireplace c:

[@dlknight64]

Hang in there. Never guessed it from the vids. I too have been there. Glad the kids for the most part are with you. That means a lot. Enjoy your channel. I get woods envy at times. Good luck.

[@curtbutterfield1966]

I'm divorced too after my kids were adults. It is no fun but glad you are coming along with the adjustment. God bless you and your family

[@kittsmohamud]

I enjoy your video,you will survive.I went thru divorce ,all will be well .Please continue posting ....regards from Redmond WA

[@GardeningWithPuppies]

So sorry to hear that you have been going through such a difficult time. Happy, though, that you have such a nice place right next to the old one. Looking forward to the new videos.

[@sharong1812]

WELL JOE I HAVAE BEEN A SUBSCRIBER FOR A LONG TIME. I HAVE WATCHED YOUR JOURNEY AND AM VERY HAPPY THAT THINGS HAVE FINALLY GOTTEN GOOD WITH THE NEW MARRIAGE AND YOUR DAD BEING SICK YOUR BECOMING GRANDPA ETC ETC. IT IS REALLY TRUE THAT WHEN MAN GETS A DOOR SLAMMED IN HI FACE GOD OPENS A WINDOW. KEEP UP THE GOOD WORK AND THANKS FOR LETTING US BE A PART OF YOUR FAMILY SHARON

[@g.s.7022]

Please excuse me if I disturb you, but we say "travelers cannot be stopped". I'm sorry, some people change fundamentally as they get older. I wish you all the best, keep your ears stiff and continue with your interesting channel💫☘️

[@Fabes002]

Just wondering how you and Melissa met? Is there a video that kind of explains all of that? I understand some things are private. Just going through the timelines between your two channels and trying to get a grasp on everything.

[@roberthiggins42]

If it makes things a little better, you have helped me go through my divorce also...... helping me with my building project that is going to take place in the summer... I'm starting all over from scratch, she has everything I mean everything but that will help me push really hard.. we will make it through these times with the help from family and frendos...... trust me women love a good Handy man around the house....... looking forward to more of your great videos..... thanks for sharing with us...

[@joeylewis5911]

Love your videos...so sorry for your divorce! Been there done that. Do you have three kids or two? Just wondering because of your past videos I had seen three. Prayers to you and your family!

[@karamclauchlan7594]

Awww! Hope you have a fresh new start! Onward bound!

[@GospelTruth37059]

Thats so sad, I am so so sorry to hear that. I almost lost my marriage a few years ago. I pray you both get healed from whatever happend .

[@triplestarhomesteadllc]

Completely understand. Glad your okay and that you guys are back. Love the out door fire place :)

[@samella35]

There is life after divorce. You hung in there longer than most. And now, there a new & exciting chapter yet to unfold. Peace & Blessings to you and your's.

[@michaelhicks8237]

Hey man I've unfortunately have been there. Keep your head up. Things will get better. I love your channel.

[@bettymuhlhauser1154]

This is the first time I've watched a video of yours and i must say it was fun going through the snow, cutting up the trees, looking at the beautiful scenery fresh with fallen snow. I live in the desert and what a treat this has been for me. You made me feel like we were friends and it was very cool. Thank you for capturing my attention. Keep up the good work. Loved it. Betty

[@JoeandZachSurvival]

Thank you Betty.

[@asadchaudhry8841]

Mr Joe I am looking Your videos regular basis what a nice weekend day tour

[@bobinmissouri]

Thank you Joe for all the videos you make and put on here for us to watch keep you head held high it will all work out to the best time will heal and ever thing happens for a reason even if we don't know why at the time hang in there friend

[@frankdiesel1288]

I only recently started watching your videos,,which I think are awesome. God bless your dad,,he moves around pretty good on that ladder. Brought back memories of my dad and I and growing up in the Catskill mountains in upstate NY.,,,And anything we needed,,we built or fixed it ourselves. It's good to see old fashioned values are still somewhat alive in a world that's going screwy.......KEEP UP THE VIDEOS.

[@JoeandZachSurvival]

+Sam Jones Thanks Sam. Sometimes using the older ways and values are the only way to maintain a persons sanity. You are correct on this world going screwy, I would say that was a very nice way to put it because its almost beyond being able to be saved.

[@danzak44]

Woohoo, you got the tent! Sorry for all the hardship of loosing a marriage. I know something like that would be devastating to us. I hope you get settled in and can't wait to see how your duck hunting went.

[@roberthakeman9822]

Love your fireplace, glad the kids were older as a divorce is hard on kids when they are young, my folks went through a divorce and I was a senior in high school and my brother 2yrs younger than me and my little brother who was 6 yrs younger than me and was born deaf lived at home with my mom and my mom worked 3 jobs to get by cuz my dad fought about paying mom and now they both have passed away and are missing out being great grandparents. I'm glad I moved out when I did.

[@livingready69]

Joe I really enjoy your channel and am sorry about the divorce. I have been divorced almost two years and it does get better. Fortunately your children are older mine are still elementary age. I am thankful to God for half custody. My relationship with my kids gets stronger with each week I have with them. Be thankful for your parents and that you have the tent to go to. I moved in with my parents just so I could keep my getaway for my sons and I. I will pray for you please pray for me.

[@TheCajuntransplant]

Your new place is dreamy! Just the kinda place I'm searching for. Really sorry things didn't work for out for you and your wife. I wish you all the best. It seems there is more working against married folks to pull em apart than there is to keep them together. Remember to take care of yourself.

[@CocoBreeze218]

No need to apolagize for life changes but, thanks for HONESTY. Keep on smiling and keep up with the amazing things you do on here. Great job and take care of yourself...god bless

[@christinekordyjaka2113]

I am sorry for your loss. We have been married for 34 years lots of hard work and not giving up and believing its best for everyone. Love your work and happy for you in that you have a video of lots of your family experiences we lost our younger son 4 years ago.

[@barcelonabrown9907]

Joe, we none of us have clapped eyes on you in real life but I dare say we all admire and respect you. You're a fine man with amazing talents. More importantly you have wonderful children. The words won't keep you warm nights...but it should help during the day. All good things to you and your family, Joe. Blessings from on high. F.

[@irish6795]

Sorry to hear about your divorce:( I know what that's like! I'm glad to hear your children are grown for your sake as well as theirs.... be well and move forward...

[@ssc5140]

Joe, sorry for your divorce. I went through one and it takes the air out of a person. You have inspired many of us. I brought home 2 pigs today to raise and put in my freezer. Thanks and it gets better.

[@bonniebarbee5401]

Stay strong ! Your a Good man one that I wish I’d met because you have a big heart and really hard working . God Bless !

[@Barbarossa4U]

Good that you are finally getting to relax. Glad she didn't get the tent. My ex took everything from me even if she didn't have a use for it as long as I would miss it was all the reason she needed.