Use These Tips to Gain Self-Confidence

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Self-confidence is a result, not a cause, and we cannot trick ourselves into feeling it. Affirmations are a very useful starting point and serve as a great reminder of what we are trying to accomplish, but you must put action behind it. We must remember that God designed us to be fruitful, so the feeling we are trying to achieve by gaining self-confidence is definitely within our reach. Dr. Cloud brings it back to original sin, and the idea that we can judge as God does. Self-confidence comes from practice in the absence of judgment. When a baby begins to take his first steps, even if he stumbles over he is met with cheers to encourage him to continue to grow. When you’re self-confident, you’re never thinking about self-confidence. We should live in the experience of what we're trying to do instead of worrying about how well we're doing it.

[@elizabethsydnor5247]

I love how babies enjoy falling down and getting back up BECAUSE they are being praised and applauded. Let's do that for OURSELVES...praise and applaud all of our attempts!!!

[@demitakesvideos]

confidence comes from consistent practice without judgment & criticism. wooowww

[@elizabethsydnor5247]

That's the answer! The ABSENCE OF JUDGMENT!!! Practicing millions of times, all the while criticizing your every mistake, will cripple you. NO MORE JUDGMENT!!! Thank you, Dr. Cloud!!!

[@matthewnorris203]

“Confidence comes from practice without judgment.”

[@christsgrain]

Thankyou Henry and I thank You LORD once again. God has given you such wisdom and kindness and goodness to help us understand concepts easily, previously out of our grasp.

[@LawnCareLady]

Dang this is 100X deeper than I anything I've heard in years. Cloud, you have been given the gift of imparting this information to those who really need it. May God bless you wherever you are.

[@dee0731]

Thank you Dr. Cloud hallelujah hallelujah Jesus Christ hallelujah 🙌🏻 worthy is the lamb hallelujah 🙌🏻

[@VermaFe]

Wow. I really needed this. My main take away : Self confidence comes from practice in the ABSENCE of judgment.

[@vynedvyne59]

Blessed by ya all :). Well I wake up day after day and seem to struggle in all the ways that come from the Sin of judgement and criticism of myself. I think I was letting the evil one spin me out. No more sucker-in Jesus name I am set free and these Brothers and Sisters are in their confidence sharing truth for the sake of 💕

[@Alwizcaliteach]

yes! Therefore, there is now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus, 2 because through Christ Jesus the law of the Spirit who gives life has set you[a] free! “Who will bring any charge against those whom God has chosen? It is God who justifies. Who is he that condemns? Christ Jesus, who died - more than that, who was raised to life - is at the right hand of God and is also interceding for us.” May I suggest that you listen to Dan Mohler, Graham Cooke, or Andrew Wommack if you want encouragement. God bless you.

[@armoreno10]

Thank you for sharing this! What an intriguing perspective about “becoming like God” is akin to becoming a judge. I had never considered that before and yet it makes a lot of sense to me. Thank you! I also appreciate your tangible examples of a kid and an athlete.

[@hautecouture2228]

I my country we have children’s day in December

[@everett8610]

One of the things that sometimes can be a key to self-confidence is when it is OK for you to totally fail and totally bomb out on whatever endeavor you are concerned about.. this is much easier said than done, but when having confidence is so important that in and of itself can be a precursor to an absence of so-called self-confidence.. Does it mean we make everything not important but it can mean that our very life and existence doesn’t hang on particular incident in time and situations no matter the importance . Unless maybe someone is holding a gun to your head. But other than something like that, I think the Bible teaches us clearly to not fret to not worry to not be overburdened.. But much easier said than done . But if I have the choice, I would much rather I am brace the freedom to completely fail at something important to me so that I may gain what is even more important to me, and that is my peace of heart and peace of mind.

[@emmadeveto4236]

Yes very good based on scripture wonderful teaching!! 😊

[@dietqoo]

Funny baby analogy!!🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@glennavelilla156]

Really good content!😅

[@ellenparks5096]

I believe there is a children's day on the calendar.

[@vilmabock478]

Wisdom 💯💥

[@mhba4866]

👍 🙏

[@fearlessfearless5781]

I really liked your work. Really really. Have you turned to swearing because...??? First crap, now damn.. 🤔🤪

[@Vanessa-u9v]

I need prayer break heart lier

[@lynettemerryman5840]

💓🦋🦅

[@kristinorman7135]

Criticism, seeing what is good and bad, judging and analyzing goes as you stop evaluating yourself. Apply grace and mercy through the learning process with encouragement through practice in the zone using your imagination!

[@ehill1229]

Wow! this speaks directly to the wound I am working on right now. Thank you so much!!!!

[@bcvahsfam]

I believe God is answering your prayer. You are helping so many.

[@KT-sv6jx]

🧠🤯 Wow Dr. Cloud 😳 THIS IS A MESSAGE 🙌 I Thought U Were Going To Say "Take Action". U Said You And Your Family Show Appreciation To Each Other In Words. My Maternal Grandpa, Dad (Parents Divorced) And Maternal Grandma Are Critical, Especially My Maternal Grandma And That Has Trickled Down Within The Family. My Grandpa Was A Pastor. Growing Up In A Family That Has A Church You Feel Like You Are Living Under A Microscope 🔬. I Was Constantly Hearing Preaching And It Made Not Want To 'Mess Up' Because Everyone Is Watching And Judging 🧐. My Grandma Doesn't Want To Be Embarrassed. Trying Wasn't Encouraged. THIS Has Changed My Mind And Will Change My Life. Thank You!!! I Will Keep Watching This Video To Remind Myself. When I Have My Own Family One Day I Will Pass This Message Along 😊 THANK YOU $tay Blessed 🙏

[@Mindsetolympics]

16:10 this is why I subscribe to this man. His analogies are GENIUS!!!!

[@Caroline-m8f]

Thank you Henry you are amazing God bless you and your family always

[@phoenixrising33]

Excellent information 👌

[@normapascuales8230]

God bless you Dr. Cloud! You are doing the good works God planned for you by helping so many of your fellow humans to overcome and to achieve God’s plans for them. ❤🙏

[@desormais22]

They have children’s day in Japan (and other parts of Asia) lol.😆

[@lilibethvilella]

So very true! Wow. Sharing w my adult son. Thank you for making us better.

[@peggygarcia1131]

12;15

[@sonjathompson127]

Thankyou!!!