8 Ways To Be More ATTRACTIVE That Have Nothing To Do With Appearance

[@kiera9664]

✰1. kindness ✰2. positivity ✰3. sense of humor ✰4. passion ✰5. drama free ✰6. confidence and self-awareness ✰7. connecting to your femininity ✰8. decisiveness You’re welcome lol 💕

[@ValeriaLipovetsky]

❤️❤️❤️

[@nishivasnik2838]

I’ve 6 of those. Self-awareness I’m still learning and confidence can be situations depending on mood.

[@loml143]

so her number 8 explanation has number 3 on it...love it. thank you

[@monika7023]

That's exactly what I expected from white wholesome mom. So basic.

[@UniCorn-vq1xo]

@@monika7023 what are the things you do?

[@MsOrchidBouquet]

So true! When I met my hubby I didn’t think he was that good looking but after getting to know him and how intelligent, funny and kind and generous he was, I just fell for him. 20 years later I still think he’s amazing.

[@ValeriaLipovetsky]

aw❤️ thank you for sharing :)

[@kge6492]

About the sexuality and femininity: it helps when you take some dance classes, especially latino solo type of dances. Teachers can show you tricks to better your movement and teach you how not to be afraid of yourself. I have been taking ballroom dance classes for 4 years as a teen. It helped so much to find my feminity, learn how to interact with men and become really sensual being that knows herself to great extent. And it all came before I was 20. It was amazing to be the only girl in any group that never had crush on a guy not worth attention, that from the begging knows how to choose a man that respects me and not let anyone disrespect me and that feels herself nearly always. Surpisingly it all comes down to staight posture and keeping your haed high.

[@ValeriaLipovetsky]

love this idea! might need to look into some glasses for myself :)

[@ragh9014]

I've never heard of such classes before Do you learn like how to act or how is it exactly?

[@nadineee_12]

Wow I admire you. That is one of my problems too. Being attracted to boys that is not worth my time and also feeling that no one would love me just because boys my age does not flirt with me. It’s a bit cheap for me to feel that feeling but I am working on it. Glad that you are a very respectable and sophisticated woman.

[@kge6492]

@@nadineee_12 men that arent bad for you are hard to find and also good men arent usually a flirts. Often its the women that needs to show men that they are welcome, only Then they would be willing to start flirting. Mattew Hussey has great channel about relationships, flirting and confidence. Educate yourself about this, it helps in every area in your life. 😉

[@kge6492]

@@ragh9014In thoose classes you learn how to dance in pairs. It can be samba, salsa, tango, Waltz, rumba, chacha, jive or all od them combined. Often schools have classes only for ladies like belly Dance, latino or tango solo.

[@krisis.management]

It would be so interesting to hear you talk in more detail, maybe a separate video even, about reconnecting with our own sexual power! That’s something I feel isn’t talked about a lot but is definitely an insecurity of a lot of people, myself included. I loved all the tips, thank you so much! I’m now going to look up how to develop a good sense of humour😉😄

[@ValeriaLipovetsky]

love this idea! will definitely keep this in mind for future videos :)

[@li.t7118]

PLEASE do a video about this, it would be so interesting !!❤️

[@13Imolka]

OMG YES please!!!!

[@zanebrahmane]

I agree. Self-awareness is truly attractive. It makes a big difference when a person is aware of their feelings, can put their emotions into words and explain how they are feeling or what they want or don’t understand. It’s great to be self aware and to see yourself from another perspective or in a bigger picture. Beautiful to see that people have the sense or feeling of who they are as individuals and appreciate who and how they are here on this planet without judging or comparing.

[@ValeriaLipovetsky]

agreed! 🙌🏻❤️

[@catherinebourgault4670]

In the household I grew up in, you literally had to get permission for every little thing and a lot of things we were forbidden from doing (like chewing gum or spending our own money. Don't ask me). I've been struggling a lot with my own decisiveness, to a point it's like I'm scared my mom would jump at me if she ever found out. It's a bit of a journey of unlearning that stuff and trying to get into my head that "yes, you're an adult and you're not restricted to those rules anymore". It's both amazing and overwhelming, being granted freedom to choose lol

[@ValeriaLipovetsky]

definitely comes with its own set of responsibilities! trust the process❤️❤️

[@isabelladasiak8065]

My whole childhood i used to wear clothes from older siblings or cousins so now i have even a problem with choosing clothes when i am shopping, because i have to decide on something

[@rociogallegossanchez]

Same experience over here! I can't decide over the tiniest of things, I get overwhelmed with all the options!

[@3434rocky]

You breaking the gossip thing is a big sign of maturity. There were women older than you at my daughters school that I would chat/listen to that were big gossips. I knew I never wanted to get close to them bc there's no trust. Even though they seemed really fun.

[@ishitaraghav8092]

Fun fact- Valeria doesn’t age. Ageing doesn’t exists for her . 🥰🥰😘

[@ValeriaLipovetsky]

definitely not true, but thank you lovely❤️

[@rajshreepardeshi_]

This is SO TRUE!!❤️😍

[@anastasiiaha]

She is only 30, how do you think people look like in this age?

[@juliakoltzoff6870]

Yes...but then she lives by these rules......maybe it would work for anyone? Just a shot in the dark🤙🏝

[@kevinwilson3337]

@@ValeriaLipovetsky if it’s nothing to do with physical attractiveness, You can’t be more attractive. Why do you guys find time to make these stupid videos

[@natural91LC]

please make a video on "how to find the goddess within you", I know how to apply the others lol but this one eludes me

[@ValeriaLipovetsky]

will keep this in mind!

[@natural91LC]

@@ValeriaLipovetsky Thank you

Great idea!!

[@kristinakovaa5916]

Pleaaaaaaaaaaaaase!!!!

[@EdieWonder]

yesss, about feminity, sexual power etc.

[@mackenzybarry6625]

You should make an entire video about how to embrace your feminity and sexuality!

[@dinidawng4824]

This is why you're the best, Valeria.

[@ValeriaLipovetsky]

too kind! thanks babe😘

[@aleena7386]

I truly believe that it is extremely attractive to NOT travel during a pandemic!! It has nothing to do with appearance and everything to do with common sense!

[@Babyy_girl]

I love this idea because it's so true. Attractiveness comes from within and instead of changing our behaviour or our looks for other people we should live a life that makes _us_ happy. Be at peace with yourself and people will join you on your path

[@andromedamaxima1543]

i do not know where you at such a young age have amassed such a tremendous amount of knowledge and are able to communicate it out to the world in such an easy and entertaining way. You have great skill Valeria!

[@ValeriaLipovetsky]

thank you so much my girl❤️❤️

[@bekind913]

I agree Val. These things have nothing to do with the looks and they make you look attractive.

[@goldenrayofcentralsun1111]

Yes. I can’t stand it when s/one says that their person completes them. No one should complete u. U should be 100% whole when u find ur person. And the other should be 100% too. Very insightful 8 things u brought up!

[@LoLelfy]

This is such good and genuine advice ✨ also I just love your energy in this video, definitely noticing your transformation. So confident and radiant, yasss, sky is the limit once we start embracing ourselves for who we are!

[@samiyashaikh6587]

Valeria u r just an outstanding example for all the people out there U r so dam amazing✨The way u leave smiles on our faces through all ur videos is so so sweet...!!🥰Truly a big fan of urs💕Thanku so much for noticing our comments and for being sweetest towards us....🥰Wish u a lot more to come..!!✨💕Bit late this time🥺

[@ValeriaLipovetsky]

Wow, thank you my girl❤️

[@magneticgoddess1116]

Ah! I love this! Very well done video💕🎉 Inner value is such an important piece of the growth process and learning how to nurture it is so priceless 🤗

[@explorewithCK]

Drama free 🙌 yes. We neeed more people like that

[@ValeriaLipovetsky]

Agreed 🙏🏻❤️

[@kingapawowska5229]

I'm thankful for added subtitles on ur videos. I'm not an English-speaker person and it really help me with better understanding :)

[@ValeriaLipovetsky]

love to hear this 🙏🏻

[@chiarascaglioni7794]

Since quarantine I’ve also been dancing in my bedroom alone in my lingerie every single night😂 and girl, I’ve never felt sexier🔥

[@ValeriaLipovetsky]

I love that 🙌🏻🙌🏻

[@shwetajanjarla3362]

You are so pretty. Thanks for sharing. I learnt something amazing today.

[@amikshaupreti9837]

You're the sister everybody needs. Much love from Nepal ❤️

[@martagonsi]

You are a Goddess and thanks for incuraging everyone else to be one too. You have such a wonderful soul and mind... I just hope we can all learn a little. Thanks again.

[@kristinamusaelian7803]

Hey, Valeria! Thank you for the video :) I just wanted to let you know that your recent content (both on Instagram and KZbin) made me relise that actually "bodies that look like this also look like this' and that is totally okay. Like you don't need to be 100% perfect all whe time, and belly showing itself after a big meal doesn't make you less skinny or less beautiful. I really like your confidene! Thank you for this insight!

[@ValeriaLipovetsky]

yes to all of this 🙌🏻 so glad you enjoyed the video!

[@karlaavilao]

These tips sound so simple and easy but I think so often people grow in these toxic environments or society and they are left there trying to figure themselves out. I feel so grateful that we live in this time, where we can find positive role models and content so easily. I which your content was there while I was growing up, it would have been so much easier 🤭 luckily is never too late 💕I send lots of love

[@ValeriaLipovetsky]

sending you lots of love❤️

[@emmabyrne2208]

Love this! Especially the dancing around your room in loungerie, so much fun and just lifts your mood and makes you feel great! xx

[@ValeriaLipovetsky]

🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻🥰

[@martukiartixta]

I LOVE this kind of content! Missed it so much! ❤️❤️❤️❤️ thank you for your advise 🥰 it feels like talking to the wisest friend ever

[@ValeriaLipovetsky]

Glad you liked it!!

[@floa.2639]

Nice video Valeria 😙

[@aliann7002]

love you Valeria, you keep it real 100%

[@ludovicabraglia1743]

love this, bring more of these kind of videos😍 also, i’d love more content about connecting deeply to your own femininity and sexuality!

[@ValeriaLipovetsky]

Thank you for the suggestion 🙌🏻🥰

[@twotraveluvers]

Gosh I love your vibe! I truly believe in the above.

[@alexacepeda2801]

These are gorgeous qualities to value in ourselves and others--they absolutely boost beauty and attract those with similar attributes! Thank you for your honesty, charm, and helpful content, it always makes my day when you post

[@camillatromborg-coach]

LOVED these tips, you are so right ✨❤️

[@AC-px5qn]

Needed this! Love u Valeria 😘😘😘

[@nadineee_12]

You are soooo lovely,funny,intelligent and ideal. Everything you said helped me to have a new perspective about myself and other people. Thank you so much and I just wanna say that you are absolutely the perfect definition of beauty inside and out. 💗

[@federicaottaviani3974]

yes yes yes!!! I love this kind of video and this "come back". Love you❤️

[@ValeriaLipovetsky]

love you back!

[@rajshreepardeshi_]

LOVE THISS VIDEO!! Thank you for sharing this!! You inspire me so much babe!! LOVE YOU SO MUCH VALERIA!!❤️❤️❤️

[@Harshita_Bhardwaj]

Mindful video out here seriously! Great video❤

[@ValeriaLipovetsky]

Thank you my dear🙏🏻❤️

[@Harshita_Bhardwaj]

@@ValeriaLipovetsky ❤❤❤

[@nataliaamos6887]

I love this video, Valeria! I've been following you since way back and this video reminds me of your early days when you attracted me with your personality! Yay!

[@ValeriaLipovetsky]

Thank you for all your support🙏🏻🙏🏻

[@princessdeleon9832]

You’re amazing in all aspects!!! Love your videos! 🔥

[@ValeriaLipovetsky]

Thank you so much!!

[@ashleymarie718]

i loved this!!

[@ewaw1188]

Great video and I agree 100%. I have a friend who is very far from being classic beauty, but she radiates attractiveness and everyone can see it 🥰

[@ValeriaLipovetsky]

Love that!

[@ruchisuyal1883]

Dear Valeria... thanks a lot for reminding us the human core values..will practice kindness from now on ❤️❤️

[@ValeriaLipovetsky]

❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@alexhe6362]

Gracias Valeria! ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@agrsolvej123]

Kindness and positivity are contiguous! ❤️

[@karlarojas5843]

I'm from Costa Rica, and I can't believe that you all are here! It's amazing

[@ValeriaLipovetsky]

we absolutely love this country 🙌🏻❤️

[@jessicamarshall3413]

Awesome advice here 💕

[@ValeriaLipovetsky]

Glad you think so!

[@agustinacollado1]

I definitely need help and learn more about #7 .... I’m married, with 2 kids and still feel so awkward and not connected with myself and that has nothing to do with my husband but with me.

[@pursuethemoment4400]

I love this and your explanations of each point are so great, thank you! 💕

[@larrywatson3479]

Hello Valeria! You radiate such beautiful ❤ self confidence. Everyone loves you so much. Love you so much Valeria! 💘 Love, Janice and Larry Watson

[@kayliewalker2340]

Honestly, the best role model. I hope I am as cool as you when I grow up!

[@stutisabarwal6461]

All these things just BLOOM in your aura, so clearly ❤ This helped. Thanks❤

[@ValeriaLipovetsky]

You're so welcome!

[@naamabinnes657]

Loved this video! I thought all your points were fabulous 😍

[@VilleGardian]

I am a very negative person yet posses a great deal of sense of humor. That is how I balance it out. Being kind is nice but not too much because being too kind puts us in a vulnerable position and people will just take advantage of it. Also, many take it as a sign of weakness (which is sad). I would say being a nice decent person is the way to go. Also when someone is too nice, it does not look very natural.

[@bettysmberechet2880]

Great! This helped me a lot❤️❤️❤️🙏🏽

[@katerinastoubou6223]

thank you! for sharing this video!

[@daphne6463]

Hii😃Thank you for this beautiful video❤️Take care🥰🥰

[@esraaal-rashed3936]

Thank you Val for the positivity boost early in the morning

[@ValeriaLipovetsky]

You are so welcome 🙏🏻🥰

[@its_miss_mela1324]

Love it! We all have that type of person one time or another I think. In addition to your list Valerina, I would say a vision of your future and being with your present self it's sexy

[@queencamba]

Downloaded this, to remind me on my everyday life ☺❤

[@ValeriaLipovetsky]

love to hear that 🙏🏻❤️

[@apieceofcoffee]

YESS! I missed these videos!!

[@delaraluna6294]

this is the most beautiful & powerful video i have seen in yeaaaars! thank you valeria

[@ValeriaLipovetsky]

Wow, thank you!

[@sararas1909]

I LOVE LOVE LOVE this video. You are absolutely right about all the behaviors!!! I caught myself doing some of them at it felt like a dejavue 😁 great video! 🥰🥰🥰

[@ValeriaLipovetsky]

❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@DomiCrawford]

thank U Valeria for this video, it is so obvious fact but i feel like a lot of people forget about it! I am gonna put this into my journal

[@honeybunch29]

hi valeria you are v kind, love you & hope you have/had an amazing amazing day🌻

[@flaviaazizaj7587]

Love uu val❤❤💋🥰

[@mackenzybarry6625]

Missed these sit down videos ❤️✨

[@lorraineturton4485]

Fantastic !!! all 8 of these are super !!! you have expressed some very valuable tips here that can definitely improve life :-) thank you :-)

[@weshasawi]

What a great video

[@monicachhetri1995]

Thankyou so much Valeria for this much needed video 🥰❤

[@ValeriaLipovetsky]

Glad it was helpful❤️❤️

[@nabilamemon9273]

This was such a huge help. Thank you so much valeria😘😘

[@ValeriaLipovetsky]

so glad you enjoyed watching 🙌🏻😘

[@farheenzubair482]

I really look up to you Valeria!! I aspire to be as confident as you are❤️

[@ValeriaLipovetsky]

thank you beauty❤️

[@growthrising]

Love these videos!!

[@fatimasadaf9413]

You have my heart girl❤️ After watching alot of videos of yours my day is soo postive today. The vibe coming out of me the energy am reflecting is jus amazing, it's like am attracted to me today 😁❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@ciaolia]

Oh my goodness I love you so much hahaha had a huge smile on my face this entire video!

[@melliGumsl]

Loving the new vibes & topics!🥰❤️

[@ValeriaLipovetsky]

thank you girly❤️ let me know if you have any suggestions for things you'd like to see or hear me talk about!

[@melliGumsl]

@@ValeriaLipovetsky maybe a “how to build self confidence” series? You are so smart and wise!🧚🏻 aspiring to be as confident as you some day

[@blairbardot53]

Valeria can you make a video on your go-to healthy recipes and what you are doing to stay healthy please ♥️♥️

[@Sweetcarolinainseoul]

Tbh when I was still in college, I had a breakup after my first year. I then spent three years slowly and painfully developing these things for my own health. All of a sudden everyone at my college was attracted to me and people were asking me out left and right.

[@ValeriaLipovetsky]

❤️❤️❤️ so happy to hear this!

[@sofiakatrani1247]

Yess so amazing tips, thank you lovely, always motivating to be better😘

[@ValeriaLipovetsky]

Glad you liked them 🙌🏻

[@tialemlapongen3858]

Me following you everytime I you say hi beauties welcome back to my channel. Amazing video. Love it just what we all need during these times ❤️❤️❤️

[@jadhurshanashangar]

Love this topic that you picked to talk about and thank you for making this video.

[@ValeriaLipovetsky]

Thank you!!

[@emmascholtz4427]

I love these type of videos 💗💗

[@nabilashaikh3547]

I really love your videos 😍 love youuu soo muchhh💕

[@juliakoltzoff6870]

Keep going girl.....good for you and everyone out there that needs it! Pura Vida!🤙🏝💪❤️

[@ValeriaLipovetsky]

😘😘

[@vishwest6494]

Thank you 🌸

[@ValeriaLipovetsky]

You’re welcome babe 😊

[@emizeoli]

thank you for the subtitles!!

[@ValeriaLipovetsky]

welcome lovely!

[@effiekousiou]

AMAZING videoooo ♥️♥️♥️

[@gloriacoloma5293]

Best self-love coach ever! Love your content and the way you do it. Congrats dear, you’re amazing !💘

[@ValeriaLipovetsky]

Wow, thank you!

[@ЕвгенияМихайленко-я6ц]

It was so helpful Thank you ❤❤❤

[@ValeriaLipovetsky]

You're welcome 😊

[@Amy-dm5ih]

The indecisiveness is soo me lately , I didn’t even realize how indecisive I have got

[@drashtigohil5276]

This was insanely helpful and something I really look forward to apply and sink in my life ✨. Thank you Valeria for putting it out here 💕

[@傅茵]

Really love this video! It inspires me and reminds me of what I should improve in my life!

[@maniesha3797]

this is what we called beauty with brain 😍😍😍❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ i love you Val! 🥰😘

[@ValeriaLipovetsky]

❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@Amy-dm5ih]

So cool that Valeria replied to so many comments !

[@magadiendor]

I just realized you're some sort of therapist to me. You give good life advices! Also, Mary J Blige never lies.

[@ValeriaLipovetsky]

🥰 sending lots of love!

[@mizpahteves3323]

Thank you! 💕 it means a lot that i found your youtube channel! 🙂 🥰

[@consciouslypure2176]

Such insightful points! I absolutely agree with you with all of them! :) some of these are really hard to actually put into practice in life, confidence is especially tricky for me, so if you had any tips and thoughts on it I’d love to hear more about how you developed more confidence and how we can work on it.

[@zhyonkripke]

This video contains all of your essence ✨ thank you my online friend🥰 If we are kind to ourselves the universe will definitely be kind to us ✨❤️ we attract what we are 🌼

[@ValeriaLipovetsky]

You are so welcome, and thank you❤️