”She’s Chugging Vodka At 9AM!” - Chelsea Handler Gets Destroyed By Adam Sosnick

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[@rdub8168]

I’m a 50 yo single professional woman with no kids. Traveled the world, buying my own house for the 3rd time. Adam is 100% correct in my personal experience. I want my own family more than anything. She’s delusional because her ego is hurt and she’ll never admit it.

[@ezskreet]

Well as a person who does not hate women but dislikes female nature. I strongly commend you for being honest and humble enough to admit the truth.

[@ezskreet]

Female nature what’s that? Emotional based chaos…..there’s exceptions. Some women fight their nature in favor of logic and discernment…….that takes a certain amount of maturity. I can see a young woman 20 something being narcissistic as the world is her oyster until about 35…..all she had to do b4 that was show up. So to expect her to be humble and down to earth when she doesn’t understand that people are only gonna kiss her azz for a short period of time in her life…….may be a bit much to ask. Unless she had a good dad or grew up with brothers

[@interesting7906]

You own 3 houses or bought and sold 3 times? And why is it relevant? Anyways playing percentages is a difficult. We can all agree that is better to be single than to be in a bad relationship.

[@timfudy3147]

Exactly, she's only reacting because she is already in that place, just putting up false bravado to hide the fact.

[@sarrahajjaj]

Have you thought of adoption?

[@natontiveros6672]

As a nurse in a hospital, the point about being cared for later on in life is on point. I've cared for female patients with no children, and it becomes a slow, cruel, and lonely life in those twilight years. It is a very sad sight to see someone suffer alone.

[@aquarius-woman5364]

How about those with children where the children don't care about them?

[@sandranosocialism1780]

@@aquarius-woman5364 exactly. Having children doesn't guarantee they will take care of you.

[@WokeOne75]

You shouldn't have children so you have spomeone to take care of you when you are elderly. Have children and a family because that is what you want.

[@chrischris9157]

I also work at a hospital. Very rare to have a patient’s children routinely at bedside. They have their own busy lives, own children, and often times live out of state

[@nomehdrider]

@@chrischris9157 I am a guy, and I was with my mom and dad when they passed. My sister was with my mom but had to work the night my father died. I don't know the stats however.

[@oneperson5760]

Think of the old Italian grandma who had 8 kids and has 35 grandkids. I had a gandma like that. When she finally had to go to the nursing home in her last year, she was rarely alone. When i went to visit her, i always found cousins and aunts and uncles already there. We ate. We prayed. We told stories. We laughed. We cried. Big, traditional families are beautiful in all their chaos and all their intensity and love.

[@evaaloezos6522]

But she didn’t have a sold out comedy show!!! She accomplished nothing in comparison to Chelsea.

[@Pepper-rn4hh]

I'm 50-ish years old married women, and my experience is that the people yelling from the roof tops that they are "super happy" with hard liquor in thier hands is the opposite of happy. Weeks or years later they are talking about how horrible their lives are being alone. I feel sorry for woman like her.

[@DrBeauHightower]

Weird how she thinks everyone is talking about her 😂

[@treroney4720]

I feel super sad for her

[@alake33558]

Facts doc

[@geeunit831]

everyone is lol

[@reboot4357]

ticking time bomb

[@cryptozach7152]

Chelsea who?

[@schmidtythekidd]

Chelsea is the only person that has made me defend Adam. Unforgivable.

[@mozmolloy1728]

I'm with you, my guy.....😄

[@jjayp1]

Hahaha. Facts.

[@Zarakikenpachi69420]

Hahahah same!!

[@brandonkelly5209]

I know right I was thinking the same damn thing

[@4Everlast]

Doesn't she seam happy? 😂 Let her show us how much she doesn't care about what we think by showing us she does. Woman logic 101.

[@hgrimes9824]

The fact that she is chugging vodka at 9am is proof of how hallow her existence is.

[@melissamartinez3593]

Hollow ;)

[@eddiehauser6661]

Ya and that's actually an important difference, you just said she has a holy existence, lol

[@JLu20]

@@eddiehauser6661 💯🌿👍🏻🦋🙂👍

[@28heisenberger]

Shallow?🧐

[@melissamartinez3593]

@@28heisenberger maybe he meant “hollow “ lol

[@mariobueno4676]

“There’s still an opportunity Vinnie” 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@justinbailey6515]

Honestly, if Chelsea doesn't want to breed, then the rest of society should breathe a great sigh of relief and celebrate that decision.

[@sealj]

What a lovely person you are.

[@Technics19]

​@@sealjbut he's not wrong

[@Rays_Bad_Decisions]

Yes but she acts like a role model to young girls and she's a miserable person

[@hccarder]

Werd.

[@Noodlepunk]

She is doing us a service to society because mental illness is typically genetic.

[@Lamtitude]

By responding unprovoked, she proved his point. Adam definitely struck a nerve with her. 😂

[@thepcal9654]

Unprovoked? He specifically named her in his rant. I’m wondering why he cares if she’s happily single? Why does he assume that it wasn’t her who moved on and opted out of committed relationships? Bill Maher seems happier single. 🤷‍♀️

[@hrv8008]

​@@thepcal9654Where?

[@Knickerboxer]

Something really resonated that she said " the world seems very eager interested in making everyone to what theyre doing to justify their decisions so we can be miserable together" she is so right. People do that with marriage and kids all the time and this is also what happened with the people who judged others that did not want to take the vax during the pandy.

[@TK-dt4nk]

I got married to my husband at the age of 22, he was 25. We had one child but I suffered secondary infertility and was so blessed to have a second child. I knew that second child would be my last, due to many years of struggling to conceive. Now those children are much older and my only regret is that I couldn’t have more.

[@menzicosce]

If she is so happy why does she have to constantly tell people how happy she is?

[@StS9LBJ23]

You’re right. If she really was happy, she wouldn’t have to talk about it.

[@sandranosocialism1780]

And how many happy people have to drink vodka in the morning while they explain how happy they are? I doubt her happiness. Bitterness maybe

[@cameleyez]

Same reason these dude have to always call themself alphas.

[@4Everlast]

According to her she's also funny. She ain't. Objectively.

[@lockedin6699]

It's called cope

[@PKPedrusMNB]

The fact that Chelsea put the effort in to make a video and respond the way she did, is a great indicator of how happy she is with her life.

[@Rays_Bad_Decisions]

Lol soo true

[@blakengard82]

you mean how not happy she is with her life

[@spinworldworldspin3311]

@@blakengard82 Thats what he meant. Its a indicator of HOW happy she is. HOW happy is she? she is not happy, she seems miserable.

[@kahalak8171]

You can tell by the shape of her lips turned down at the sides, and the fake grin - she is not a happy person....

[@anti-narc]

You know some b-$?s are just toxic!! I would say today most are,, if it was not for their toxicity they would have families - it is good she has no family she would ruin them!!!!!!

[@TKhan-ij4hq]

I was never a fan of Chelsea, but I feel sorry for her. She is at a point where she is selfdestructing, because she never had closer or was given the proper help at the time when she experienced her trauma. Some day she will realise the reality of it all, but it might just be too late. I wish her all the best.

[@stevdaughtr6098]

I’m sad for what she went through as a child. The trouble if she’s got people around her that make money so they never gonna tell her.

[@robertthompson5701]

Anyone who constantly has to tell people that they're happy and do so while drinking a 30+ oz cup of straight vodka, they are most certainly not happy.

[@kmt8825]

you should go to Europe, BELIEVE ME THEY ARE HAPPY, after dealing with their low expectation husband and divorcing them 😂😂😂 people don't understand what is actually happening, yeah sure women seem unhappy now, all it going to do is teach the younger generation of women that okay they actually are save enough to get ahead in life. Use the man to have a baby, gain some stability and now that they have the information that women actually can rule, they will just been better a planning no,😂😂, honestly this just shows that men in the future are fucked, thats the little details that men aren't noticing, they are just saying women aren't happy, but not looking at what woman have accomplished without them, and now how women can start the balance everything, all the men did was COMPLAIN 😂😂😂😂

[@bryanthomas7022]

Adam never addressed her directly, he was referring to a developing category of women who don't know how it ends. He's jus suggesting they may not and gives imo, legit reasons why. She acts like it was a direct shot across her bow, Arrogance, Stupidity and Vodka @ 9am will do that... she mentions not having to wake up with something... hilarious projection. It all reeks of conscience..

[@Sharkdog11b]

She’s NOT ALPHA that is the most beta female way to act seriously letting someone trigger her like that that was politely quoting a fact. She has no idea how any of this works she’s beyond clueless

[@stephane1623]

Chelsea is an alpha…look up the definition of the word.

[@Sharkdog11b]

@@stephane1623 being insecure isn’t alpha. Period

[@Sharkdog11b]

@@stephane1623 that’s why my comment is getting the most likes. . . Dude you’re clueless read my above comment and get some education

[@ShadeDraws]

@@stephane1623 Alpha women are in the home doing important work that actually matters: raising their children and supporting their husbands.

[@stephane1623]

@@Sharkdog11b how is she insecure when she is making fun at the life that she chose to live and have lived it all her life smh 🤦‍♂️ dam common sense is starting to fade…

[@buttneked3963]

I missed the vodka chugging , I must’ve been getting popcorn

[@skymoon4029]

I am 68 Retired professional, travelled the world, financially in a very good position. 2 short abusive relationship, lost a baby as a result of physical abuse, bad choices in choosing husbands, pressure from family and society. I agree with Adam . I wish I was married to a decent man and had children and by now grandchildren But since it didn't work out, I do my best to be positive and lead a good life though a bit lonely 😊

[@AlphaJ369]

Happiness starts with accepting and loving yourself. You're doing great!!

[@Chegles1]

@@AlphaJ369 I agree. Don't resist life, accept it and yourself .

[@noelvoss6744]

I get that, it just hasn't worked out for me to find the right guy yet. My ex husband cheated and left. I'm 46 and it just makes me sad, at times, that I don't have my own family. However, you're making the best of things and we all need to!!!!! ❤

[@skymoon4029]

@@noelvoss6744 🌺🌺🌺

[@la_baby_khalil7703]

@@noelvoss6744🙏😔🙏 I have 10 siblings, and I'm the "ONLY" one taking care of My Parents in their mid 80's, and they DO NOT visit, and are a block away@Times visiting their Friends...So, having children REALLY sucks too@Times, it's NO PLUS, NOR ADDITION to a Family, just a DAMN F*en headache, and REALLY unfair for the ☝ that cares, unfortunately...😒

[@davidcoleman730]

She’s proving his point just by responding to the video. For someone that doesn’t care what men think, she sure does care what men think. I think she has to make this video to try and justify her lifestyle and how miserable she actually is.

[@nickfrankie261]

Yeah, she'd not respond and give a shit. She can't keep a dude

[@Joaopereira-dh3dw]

Just say you wanna be a dictator

[@BillBagBargensonsBarger]

@@Joaopereira-dh3dw dude ur like 5'7 LOL

[@1x0x]

really tho it must have struck a cord with her if she felt the need to do all this... if it was complete nonsense why would she even waste her time

[@ProducedByAGO]

You can flip it and say the same thing about these guys though. Chelsea is responding meanwhile these guys claim to not care about her and record an entire segment. It's cringe tbh.

[@HillMadeMedia]

For every Chelsea Handler, there’s 100 women who regret living this lifestyle and by 38 years old they regret not having a husband or kids. Great advice Chelsea.👍🏾

[@triggered577]

Keep telling yourself that. 38 is approaching the age where married women start filing for divorce so your commentary is off.

[@gregscrabshack2307]

misery loves company

[@alicedoors4826]

Lol and for every happily married women there’s a 100 who wished they’d never got married and wasted their time with a good for nothing loser. A lot of women get divorced in their 40s and vow to never wed again. Fool me once….

[@t.o.o.smooth5870]

Yup, Chelsea is rich and famous yet still miserable. Now just imagine all the women without money and fame!

[@cvrki7]

@@alicedoors4826 That doesn’t mean that they’re better off alone vs being in a healthy relationship. Pick better partners and you won’t be filing for divorce later

[@CherylBerryl]

I think Chelsea does have emotional problems that she has not dealt with, however, I think it's pretty DISGUSTING for Adam to say that ANY woman is "washed up" & "unworthy" after 40+ yrs old! And honestly, I am SHOCKED that the female guest (I have no idea who she is) is Not pushing back about that! Lets just see how she feels about all of that when she turns 40+! Bet she'll have a whole new take on it then! When I was my 20's & 30's I couldn't stand men that talked about & treated women 40+ as if they were worthless, it made me Really start not liking a LOT of men! And I worked in bands, as the only woman in the group & heard things that most women Don't hear coming out of men's mouths! And it Didn't leave a good impression of men, believe me! I think as much as Adam thinks Chelsea has "issues", imo, HE also has issues that he hasn't dealt with! Basically Adam's belief about a woman's worth is completely tied to her age, & I think that's an incredibly shallow way of thinking, & behaving! I think Adam has more growing up to do than he even realizes! I have lost a LOT of respect for him after hearing this segment of the show.

[@b.e.ufobe5221]

Bravo. Adam's ego appears to be much larger than his intelligence or compassion for people.

[@dl7562]

Although I agreed with what Adam was saying, I definitely thought some of it was way too harsh. I think he was angry and he just carried it too far. I don't think he truly feels that women are worthless just because of age.

[@starvedbaby2510]

I’m 59 just lost my husband of 38 years on 1/1/21 he was 17 years my senior , we produced 3 sons 1 daughter we have 9 grandchildren and 2 great grandchildren Our children are all married with their own families, I am alone often now, but , I am never lonely , with my family FaceTime phone calls babysitting I am content for what We contributed to the world. I can go where I want when I want and I still have my beautiful family…. When women like Chelsea are alone , they are lonely, It’s sad because that is a woman’s purpose in life on this earth is to procreate with her husband. She needs a lot of prayers for her

[@keeponkeepingonmrc2023]

Yes, I was thinking the same thing. Prayers being sent for Chelsea to have her heart softened to forgive herself and others 🙏

[@sheabilladeau1392]

Sometimes Adam ticks me off, but honestly his take was pretty impressive. Adam is in his 40s as far as I know and he has no wife and has no children. He doesn't celebrate it though as Handler does, and he still is willing to have this discussion about the dangerous trajectory of relationships in America despite his own predicament. I have respect for Adam on this topic.

[@Richking213]

Drinking alcohol and taking drugs just to subdue your pain is sad as hell. I hope she finds true happiness

[@Killersushiofficial]

I think the chugging vodka thing was a joke.💀💀💀

[@GodSeekingBeliever]

Literally everyone who consumes drugs and alcohol is doing it to enhance their mood/cover up pain

[@jacksoncowsert6964]

It’s almost like it was a joke…right?

[@Zhe-Zhe]

God. Please tell me you don’t believe she really does that!

[@maryhalverson5713]

Chelsea looks far happier than most women, especially married women over 40.

[@marie22tully10]

I wonder how many old people sit in their rocking chairs reminiscing about their job and looking at pictures of their old coworkers and bosses

[@kathleenely7254]

This show really is not only entertainment but also very informative in many subjects . Go PBD.

[@adamm1151]

When I look at Chelsea Handler, I see a woman who is extremely unhappy, and going through some serious life crisis. Her words might not say so, but her actions and behavior are clear as day.

[@ethanmurray2203]

She had a book years ago about being an alcoholic. She claimed it destroyed her life, but she overcame it. Guess not

[@madcrabber1113]

I feel bad for her. I also feel bad for the mouthy guy and any kids he chooses to have because when they are very young he will be a senior citizen.

[@riquipoo5578]

I was married for 2 years and hated it. I am now 50, I have 1 adult child whom I love more than anyone and I have been single for 20 years. Pretty damn happy tbh☺️

[@Heero-xn8rj]

A few points 1) I do believe people can be child free and happy. I, as a man, absolutely do not want kids. 2) most people are not happy being single. You don’t need kids but no one wants to be alone. 3) Chelsea has a lot of issues that run deep and her response exposes it

[@Antoinethecool]

Yes and men and women are different 🙏🏾

[@JohnSmith-cn4cw]

I used to think that way, until I got my first daughter. Its a weird feeling holding your child, its like 6 billion years of evolution comes into play all at once and convinces you not to eat them.

[@savvyinfo9762]

Life will be meaningless at some point u will notice ur alone and kids basically give u another chance of exploring life let’s say u did everything till ur 40 now what ur old to do things u used to do and alone but if u have kids now u have more reasons to live life happy

[@bw1620]

I would say for a man it may be easier to live life without kids we arnt built as the nurturing type. although kids add a whole new joy to life that isn't fully explainable to someone who doesnt have kids. This probably can be contrasted to woman even more. And I've had friends that went through this transition after me and told me how true i was. Theres no prouder deep feeling than raising your own. To care about someone so deeply to the extent that you would literally undergo any torture to help them just comes naturally. It's scary at 1st, you worry about trivial things like finances and how your life will change socially and having a whole new responsibility besides your own which kind of makes gives you a selfless feeling of the greater good. But the changes happen organically and build your character as a better person than who you were before I my eyes.. but hey that's just my experience, each to their own.

[@breadfan9]

The whole conversation wasnt about children...it was about having a MATE. Did you miss that??

[@dragonslayer7587]

He's right. I'm 65, have 7 kids and grandkids, and since I was married young, my life is my own now. However, the BEST times are when my kids and I are all together spending time with each other. Those who graduated with their MBA with me, who focused on nothing but career, never got married, and NEVER had kids, are lonely bitter people. 100% of them.

[@fit4ya1975]

I love how you "happily"married people with kids levitate above the rest. I know plenty of successful men and women with no kids who are very happy, and about the equal amount who are divorced and have been wiped out by the wife. Thats an ignorant statement to say 100% for any argument you have.

[@ShadeDraws]

@@fit4ya1975 Being successful by making money doesn't matter if you celebrate a lifestyle that--if copied by everyone--would be the end of the human race. Life isn't just about individual happiness; it's also about paying the gift of life forward and taking on the responsibilities that come with this. You need to grow up.

[@c.f.okonta8815]

You’re 100% right

[@fit4ya1975]

@@ShadeDraws Its ALL about individual happiness. You want people to have kids just to make YOU happy? What about those who can not have kids? Are they miserable too? Everyone is different, Its not all about you, so grow up.

[@dragonslayer7587]

@@c.f.okonta8815 I see these women everyday. Especially since my husband passed away last year. They truly have NOTHING emotionally joyful in their lives, and they are VERY angry people... It's sad.

[@tatianifavors]

So because you're single with no kids mean you're not feminine? I just LOVE (not) when men tell women who we are and how we feel based on certain circumstances. I believe there is no "right" or "wrong" way to be happy & I think it's distasteful when people make blanket statements based on their own happiness standards. Everyone isn't the same. Focus on your own happiness and if someone says they are happy given their circumstances, then take them at their word! Again, everyone isn't the same.

[@wendys390]

No, he wasn't saying that. I take his point to be that feminism promotes the idea that women can (and should) look for fulfillment anywhere else but with a marriage and children, which is treated kind of like the last option for women who can't have a more "fulfilling" life, i.e., by becoming a marine biologist (just as an example of a "real" profession). He's right, it does, because that's what I took to be the lesson when I was becoming a woman, and into the present day, girls are not very likely, when asked what they want to do with their lives, to say "I want to be a wife and mother," because that would be lame. It's still the prevailing message, and it's wrong. Some of us would have been far happier if they had not been so actively discouraged from that ambition----if not in so many words, then certainly by strong implication. When you think about it, that's a very wrong thing to do to young girls, to give them that message. In trying to "save" women from the "drudgery" of being the wife/mother, they kind of went too far the other way, you know? I just wanted to explain that because what he said really resonated with me, and I know he wasn't trying to say that unless you have a husband and kids you're not being feminine, that was not it at all. Thanks.

[@bethh4786]

Chelsea is an embarrassment to herself. I’m 46 not married, no kids. I appreciate the freedom that is affords me, but I would not say it makes me happier.. I think having kids probably brings a lot of joy but also a lot of stress, but also a lot of fulfillment.

[@funkspinna]

Vodka at 9 am? Yeah, she's got issues. LOL.

[@sidsnyder8043]

That is not an example of a strong person, Beta woman, not a strong woman.

[@pbodys16]

Did u see her drink it?

[@onewomanandsomesongs]

Some people do drink vodka at 9am. It's called a Bloody Mary, a common breakfast cocktail.

[@Rick_Cleland]

​@@onewomanandsomesongsYeah, but I was drinking vodka / whiskey at nine in the morning to stop the shakes because I was a full-blown alcoholic.

[@realitynow4342]

It's 9 pm somewhere. If you work nights then when is it proper to have a drink? I spent my who adult life with a firearm in my hands. I've seen plenty of death and got out of some bad situations. If I want a drink at 9 am I will have one. Others lives depended on me being sober and trained well. As long as the booze doesn't control you life.........Well, live and let live.

[@implypiememe6974]

I have an aunt who had a very successful career and she enjoyed her single life for a long time. Today she is alone and sick. No husband, no kids. Very sad.

[@aquarius-woman5364]

So you're not in her life anymore?

[@ralphpal]

​@Aquarius-woman that is what i was able to write

[@CBDguitar]

And someone's uncle couldn't be alone, sick, no wife and no kids?

[@lafytaffy1220]

There are divorced women and men with kids in the same situation. Being married and having kids doesn't guarantee a happily life or a less lonely life. That's the big picture being overlooked.

[@RealRorschach100]

@@CBDguitar exactly

[@isaacgomez-everythingrevie6955]

This struck a chord with her, that's why she replied to this. If it truly wasn't true or mattered to her she wouldn't have thought twice about it. Sad, lonely reality she is living.

[@Bringthehurt717]

I am a wife and mother of 5 and work as a nurse. I would be lost without the love of my man and the love and experiences of my children and family. That is happiness😊

[@SMS-22]

Bottom line...she is regretful. Not one squared away woman I know, regardless of family situation, acts like that. She missed her window and she knows it. Bitter!

[@renzo5282]

Are you a psychologist?

[@TheH10ne]

I mean let's just be glad she does not have kids, can you imagine the amount of psychological issues those children would have...?? especially after seeing Jason Biggs pee on her

[@janecoe9407]

I HAVE KNOWN A FRIEND IN CHURCH WHO NEVER GOT MSRRIED NEVER HAJD KIDS. SHE IS FULFILLED AND HAPPY, SHE HAS HER BUSINESS AND SHE WORKS IN THE CHURCH. SHE DOES SUNDSY SCHOOL WITH KIDS AND SHE DOES A.W.N.A PROGRAM. GOD CAN FULFILL ANYONE, MALE OR FEMALE, ,M,ARRIED OR SINGLE, KIDS OR NONE.

[@renzo5282]

@@erichauser725 Lol you can deduce all of that from what a 2 min video? I think not. Sounds like projection.

[@Joaopereira-dh3dw]

So a million plus people is unhappy? You just wanna control people

[@GuatemalantopG24]

Chelsea handler is the worst kind of example to any woman. You don’t want to be like that crazy lady.

[@user-ml6jb8hr4i]

Always remember, small dick is still enough to get em pregnant xD

[@CrystalSwartile]

Honestly I’m a 57 years of age and never had children and I have never regretted it. I also have men and women in my life that have chosen not to have children and are also enjoying their life. It really depends on what you want to do with your life. I’m very grateful that I had the choice.

[@ic7804]

My sister has very similar life story. Never wanted to have children, finds it stressful to be around children. Have a partner who lives in his own apartment and she lives on her own too. Have a group of friends she regularly meets with and doesn't regret any of it.

[@danieljocumsen5250]

Pretending she is actually drinking vodka ruins this entire attack. Leave her alone if you feel she is miserable. Adam is a try hard.

[@C2yourself]

Sounds like her dad rejected her when her brother died or that's how she experienced it. Maybe her parents elevated the importance of her brother when he was alive, showed more interest and love toward him. She grows up thinking life is better for boys and sees everything in traditional female life as 'less than'

[@user-ml6jb8hr4i]

Always remember, small dick is still enough to get em pregnant xD

[@juliangodsend9418]

SHE DON’T NEED AN EXCUSE FOR BEING THAT IMMORAL,SHE JUST IS

[@laurajanesherman9126]

This is a great discussion and relevant to the dynamics of our culture that is as relevant as it was 20-30 years ago. I married my high school sweetheart and am blessed to have a man that protected me and gave me 4 boys to raise to be wonderful men and future leaders of their own families.

[@practicallyheidi8505]

Mom of 4 boys also!

[@user1029xspl8dy]

It's really sad that people called this woman "batshit" for getting married at 23. It should be perfectly normal, and less than a generation ago it was.

[@reneegarciafilmmaker]

Yes, but remember she said she wasn't "happily" married and enjoyed the attention of the men in the studio especially the 40 something yr old man that says he would only date Chelsea's 24 yr younger sister, gross. Can't he go out with someone at least in their 30s, but he's immature, would be a bad communicator as a boyfriend or husband and can tell his way or no way.

[@mariaguzman1552]

I got married at 19 years old. Been married 52 years. 3 children and 10 Grandchildren. Marriage is like a roller coaster. My husband and I are completely opposite in personality. But our values are the same. God, Family and commitment to our vows of marriage. Raising our children was fun and a top priority. My grandson who is 30 years old told me, “when you get old grandma, I’m taking you to live me” I was truly touched in my heart. Children are a blessing. That woman does not know what she is missing.

[@luv2travel2000]

💖💕💞❤ Loved your comment.

[@shanghaiffgg]

Fantastic❤

[@ScribblebytesWorldwide]

Bless you, because I could never do it. After a few weeks I'd get ANNOYED. My favorite thing in life is peace and quiet. I won't upgrade my phone so I can use it as a legitimate excuse as to why I can't return anyone's messages because I love my alone time. "Sorry, Mt phone is broken, can't call you". I guess the moral of the story here is that everyone is different.

[@egonzalez111]

I worked in a nursing home, and every woman I spoke with that didn't have children always said they regretted it.😢

[@maryhalverson5713]

The divorce rate has skyrocketed and kids are only an 18 year source of companionship. Neither marriage or motherhood provide a guaranteed outcome.

[@d.l831]

@@maryhalverson5713 if you do it good enough, you have well more than 18 years of companionship with your children. They will be there all the way to your deathbed❤

[@Notoriouscj1]

@@maryhalverson5713 be good parents and it will be a life time

[@maryhalverson5713]

@@Notoriouscj1 Dream on. Some of the best parents end up with kids they don't see for years. It's a never ending toss of the dice.

[@JNYC-gb1pp]

I think there's a lot of elderly people who do have kids who barely pay any attention to them (from what I've heard from elderly family friends) Its not enough to have kids, they have to be instilled with value of family and the obligation to family - especially elderly family - and to incorporate them into your regular life rather than obligatory weekly/monthly visit. If i had land, I wouldn't think twice about building a small dwelling for a family member to live to be close to/involved in a community but most people I know would NEVER do this. I think thats sad.

[@beverlyhayshouston2770]

I had a woman in her eighties tell me that after a certain point you really don’t need a man. All they are looking for is a NURSE or a PURSE. 😂

[@CleverProgrammer]

Idk what the rest of you are saying... But imo... She absolutely destroyed Adam.

[@jupiterjunk]

She also has million'$ of dollars, so she can do things that most other women can not. Just wait until she faces a major illness or medical scare. She'll see who her friends really are, and she'll want someone by her side 24/7.

[@gabgarcia5446]

That major illness is coming fast if she is a hard liquor drinker. Liver cancer will cut any successful career n life short

[@akarayan]

You can see the deep-seeded unhappiness and contempt in her eyes. She’s miserable.

[@sidsnyder8043]

I know I don't have to drink Vodka at 9 a.m., to be happy.

[@janecoe9407]

IF SHE WANTED KIDS SHE CAN GO ADOPT. SHE DOESNT WANT KIDS OR A MAN.

[@Joaopereira-dh3dw]

A million plus people is unhappy?

[@jimcab4279]

lol, So are you really claiming that every single person in the world who doesn't have children is miserable? And they're miserable just for the simple fact that they don't have children? That's the funniest thing I've ever heard. You made my night lol

[@Selvarin]

She has a Joker smile. Cartoonish.

[@user-mb7rj2vy7q]

At age 24, I had been married 6 years, had a 2 year old and newborn twins. We had our own home in a sweet, small town. My husband was fully employed and supporting his wife and family. I look back on those years as the best of life. Full of fun, laughter, tenderness, joy. Full of work, laundry, crying babes, hardly any money, and of course, lack of sleep. Full of LIFE. I am so so thankful for it all, and my wonderful sons are now 45 and 43 & 43. They are sucessful, happy and continue to give their dad and I so much meaning and love. No Regrets!

[@djm9276]

Wow , her hurt goes deep. Feel sorry for her.

[@prooveditt4839]

Perfectly said "Happy people don't spend their time trying to convince others how happy they are" - they are too busy enjoying their lives

[@jasonbeil7093]

She’s replying to right wing idiots claiming she isn’t happy lol. She’s replying….. not shouting her happiness in the wind

[@prooveditt4839]

@@jasonbeil7093 Ya cause right-wing idiots are obsessed with her. She HAD to make another video to address them and mention her sold out comedy show at Denny's.

[@iambatman.5894]

@@jasonbeil7093 we only reply to people who hits something in us. She is public figure. Lots of guys probably make comments to her. She doesnt reply to all .Why did she reply to him? She didn't know him . She could ignore him like the others.

[@Henysipper]

My wife told me the most insightful piece of information about women I’ve ever heard. “Women know what they want but they don’t know what’s good for them”. It’s easy to blame a whole gender for your bad dates or taste in partners. If you let the other person know your expectations upfront then you’ll find that your partner doesn’t drag you down but lift you up.

[@shaymalchione809]

Not really true tho cause you can tell someone your expectations but at the end of the day people still lie & use others.

[@ezskreet]

Dude I didn’t understand a fu(kin thing u jus said…..translate from that feminine bs to plain English plz thx

[@qman313]

Well said

[@Dre2Dee2]

women are literally cursed like demons

[@FOH45]

​@@shaymalchione809 the not knowing whats good for them is in their expectation request, they all think theyre the hottest etc and dont operate in reality, if u don't, u cant possibly have realistic expectation that fit u, other person doesn't need to lie, it looks like a lie cause u went in believing unrealistic things like a 5 girl chasing a 10 guy amd actually thinking he gives AF😂

[@williamwilliams7706]

Must be a great comedy show, I was laughing so hard at her response.

[@Chegles1]

I'm a 78 year old woman, married, with children, grandchildren and a great grandchild. I've always said that I only got married and had kids because it was expected of me, it was the thing to do. I was never sure if I ever would have married and had children otherwise. When I saw that clip of Chesea Handler it confirmed for me that I did the right thing. I would not be the person I am today if I had stayed single and pursued a career. My life has had many challenges and as a result I've grown and became wise in ways that have made me have an abundant life. As the saying goes "smooth seas never made a good sailor", adversity itself is the catalyst for growth. Chelsea wants a perfect life thinking she'll have it by keeping herself separate. She's disillusioned and she knows it, otherwise she would not have had to make that video. There's no need to chastise her, it's more than enough that she's her own worst enemy. I hope she has a good life.

[@alexp7274]

Adam living rent-free in her head to the point she had to "sedate" herself. She totally proved all his points the way she reacted to him. No self-awareness whatsoever.

[@kmt8825]

I mean yeah he triggered her, but the whole point of a trigger is that you go through it and it gets you stronger, Chelsea has always been that woman, she admits she gets triggered, and she has only become a better human for it, most men try to avoid getting triggered or conflict which is why many of them stay stagnant and, and why many women want to leave them.

[@marcelobarros5729]

This guy could actually make a decent point here ... but he is clearly a fukin moron. Literally saying women's value is in their looks and that their prime is to get invited to yatchs. He is actually part of the problem with all of his generalizations.

[@patricksmith407]

Y’all gotta hear her podcast with dv. She claims Shiism not triggered by haters. Maybe she wants to be the face of bl. Could happen Schumer got in on a commercial fly BL

[@patricksmith407]

She encouraged severing ties with family if they don’t like it.

[@MeetMeOnTheMoon]

As a mother this is my advice: if you absolutely know that you don’t want to have kids, don’t have them. Don’t let anyone make you feel like you are wrong. Periodt.

[@gabgarcia5446]

This advice applies to a man as well. Not having children is no big deal. The real challenge is having children and nurturing them to adulthood. Good consistent parenting is hard. If you are not cut out for that commitment then indeed stay childless

[@BillBagBargensonsBarger]

u left a t at the end of that, ashtray.

[@ETube37]

If you feel like you are wrong you most likely are…

[@Thepathof77]

Agreed!

[@jennifurx6176]

Men are “low key” shaming women who don’t have kids because they can’t use us to make babies anymore and they are not happy about the revolution.

[@azcharmer]

I was 20 when I got married and 21 when I had my son. We struggled mightily but I can tell you I'm fulfilled at 42 because I have two beautiful children that I absolutely adore.

[@CharlieHustle1687]

Can we all raise a glass to her and thank her for not having kids? More women should follow, there’s too many moms that shouldn’t be moms

[@AB-fq4mr]

Problem is it’s the people that have no money having kids. The women that should be having kids are too afraid to go to the hospital because their insurance is a thousand bucks a month.

[@Josh-yv3yf]

I for one am very happy she's not reproducing and passing on the genes from her malignant blood line 😂

[@AndrewJosephKeith]

She actually did reproduce she just ended up aborting her children.

[@cze33e]

lol, malignant bloodline

[@Joaopereira-dh3dw]

Always the breeders saying this fascists

[@bigtreecombatacademy2927]

@@Joaopereira-dh3dw enter the fruit

[@tappingninja]

@@Joaopereira-dh3dw when you die you won’t be missed…

[@jitkablahakova3073]

I am 67 years old, I had a creative carrier, traveled the world, and had quite an interesting life. When I was younger, I got married and wanted to have a family but could not have children. It was a sad period of my life, I am in peace with it now.

[@ro866432]

8:23 that snort and swallow boy I bet they're feeling good lol

[@joeyrigsby38]

It's wierd the fact that she apparently associates everything on the internet to herself

[@bw1620]

Prior to my nan's passing my mother took her in when she felt unwell (stroke) after our dear pop died. She lived another 10 years with my mother and father setting up her own living quarters.. with all her family surrounding her constantly. nan got to see her many sons daughters and grandchildren grow up and become adults, then welcomed the great grandchildren to the family. She was blessed in her words. Even on her last road into dementia she still felt happy and would smile at the love she was surrounded by.. I gave a eulogy in regards to my her love of family and if it wasn't for her commitment none of us would be here the same people we are. We thank all 30 or so of our lives to this great woman and she shall never be forgotten... right till the end she was loved and cared for and that right there is the legacy of a good mother!!!

[@luv2travel2000]

💔💕💞💖 Beautifully said.

[@kahalak8171]

Beautiful - you are lucky to be in such a loving family.

[@maryhalverson5713]

@@kahalak8171 Yeah, it's all the luck of the draw, cuz marriage and children are usually only brief chapters in life, and just as likely to be a source of sorrow as happiness.

[@kathystoneburner4947]

So beautiful to read but I have to say, I've seen great parents grow old alone. My father was in 3 different homes before passing and my sister's and I were bedside every minute we could. The mom's and dads shoved in homes and left was just unbelievable! We saw it all. We were known as the 3 girls that never left. Pretty sad!

[@RWB20]

She's a comedian - most comedians have gone through a lot and use comedy as an outlet. Everyone knows that.

[@biggpaul6642]

I think she proved his point Perfectly

[@MDpart2]

To each their own. Everyone has their own journey to live. Don't let anyone convince you that taking the road less travelled is silly or will lead to unhappiness. I am 55 never married and no kids and I am ecstatic about where I have been and where I am going. Also, I know more unhappy married people with kids than those who chose the alternative.

[@lacijohnson400]

Exactly life is not black and white. Those that desire marriage should do as they please

[@ex7229]

People without kids and family are usually more miserable and selfish sorry its their nature.

[@lacijohnson400]

@@ex7229 what’s the evidence of that?

[@MDpart2]

@@ex7229 lol. How did you measure that???

[@silenthero2795]

Doesn't hurt to look at the signs to know more about your destination. We may have different roads but people have lived long enough that the sign boards are clear written with regret

[@adamstokes]

2:19 omg, that was a bottle of vodka! Crikey

[@SilverFox-op7qf]

I SEE WHY SHE'S NOT MARRIED

[@DivaJefferson]

I'm a single mom and I'm very unhappy being alone but at the same time I keep telling myself that it isn't worth the drama or tears. I don't drink, though, but being almost 35 with no prospects, it doesn't look good for me in the future. I can see women being happy in this woman's lifestyle if they had money. You can literally do whatever you want that way, but it isn't fulfilling. 😢

[@ETube37]

Dont forget to save enough for retirement..working past 60 is no fun!

[@KingBluetooth66]

You should've picked a better guy😂😂😂😂😂

[@opeyemiajibola8824]

@@KingBluetooth66Not right

[@Milestonemonger]

You're only 35. Put on a smile and go find love. He's out there.

[@asktheetruscans9857]

@@KingBluetooth66 Maybe she should've been less of a guy (or two).

[@rachelzuniga5300]

I’m so glad I had kids. I didn’t have my kids until I was 36 and 38 and I am so blessed! I met my husband at age 32 and that’s when my life started.

[@janecoe9407]

COOL :) MANY MANY MANY WOMEN AND MEN ARE WWAITING UNTIL 30S TO HAVE KIDS.

[@ex7229]

My wife is 36 wete trying for kid 3 and then hopefully 4

[@VeinyDickTracy]

Your husband has cheated on you several times because you’re not very attractive though.

[@Joaopereira-dh3dw]

I don't like it

[@hugocervantes1934]

@@Joaopereira-dh3dw 😂

[@michellepickering7267]

It's sad that she endured that pain of losing her brother early on life, and it probably did change her perspective on love, being a source of pain. I'm glad you guys brought that up. But honestly, not all women need to have children to live a fulfilled life, although my friends who suffered the loss of a close family member do not have children. I have children and grandchildren, and am happily divorced and never plan to marry again. Men benefit from marriage WAY more than women, and it's annoying to hear men act like we women want to be "wifed up." My experience is that men are way more trouble than they are worth to live with, and after being a wife and mother for a big chunk of my life it's nice to be able to live my own life, and not have to consider someone else for every meal and every thing I do. I respect and appreciate men, but I don't want one in my house. As great as you guys think you are, for me the good doesn't outweigh the bad. Most women I know have chosen to live alone, and it's not because we are too old and no one wants us.

[@KillerCammy85]

I agree. Marriage and kids is not for everyone and that's ok. It needs to be more widely accepted for people not to have children. Having children isnt a blessing for everyone there are plenty of stories on Reddit to prove that and look at the many many people who hurt and kill their own children. There is very much a culture of "this is what you do" that pressures women to perhaps sacrifice a fulfilling career. It should be ok to just live and do what feels right for you. I also agree feminism should be about choice. Not making anyone feel less of a woman based on anyones standards.

[@eddiehauser6661]

I like your post, and what I don't get is why they can't see that they're still pushing a double standard. We are being told that a woman has 2 options, either focus on your career OR be a wife and mother, yet I'm sure if you asked these guys do you focus on your career, they would say Yes, and if you asked them are you a good husband and father they would also say yes, so why can't a woman do both?

[@rosesilveira344]

Men forget its their horny cheating ways that made women chose a single life.

[@TruthAlwaysWins786]

Western men have crappy values thats why they are considered trouble

[@kik1qa]

Differing roles maybe?

[@lml6.653]

Her response just proves his point spot on! Lol

[@alg5534]

She's right... we suddenly live in a world where men think they know what's best for women, and they opine on the topic with such certainty. IMO there's better topics to discuss...

[@ex7229]

Well the past few decades of women ruling is trash. My wife and I talk about it all the time. We are in our 30s feminism is a cancer that destroys life. Thank god we grew up unlike idiots of the ideology you defend.

[@shanesandhu7577]

Women can't even pick where to eat when given the choice.

[@wenmoonson]

This isn't new. Men have always known what's best for women.

[@ralphpal]

​@@wenmoonson men are better women than women now

[@suntzu94]

I find it ironic woman also have no issue living in world built by men. Only woman in 1st world country complain about this stupid shit

[@crazyjc29]

Maybe we should stop telling people how to live their lives and focus on our own lives more.

[@Allonabusinesstv]

Lolololol he killed her..,,.5am vodka shot …oh I mean vodka cups lol

[@danieldani2402]

50 Cent Alpha widowed her 😂😂

[@turnbucklemagazine7296]

I have no idea how Chelsea Handler has a career.

[@beckyjo3781]

Having a spouse and children does not guarantee happiness or fulfillment. And being single with no children is not synonymous with misery. There are genuinely happy people and miserable people in both camps. I think this conversation was unintentionally short sighted or narrow minded. That’s not a dig, just an observation because I am a fan. I think it boils down to this- everyone has to define what matters most to them and identify what they want out of life and pursue it. It’s also important to note that sometimes we get exactly what we want and we’re still not fulfilled because we’re not happy with ourselves. Introspection, self-improvement, and self-love are keys to happiness also!❣️

[@DZ-og3ym]

I totally agree with the fellas on everything here, but tbh I actually feel bad for Chelsea. She was a neglected child and it wasn’t her fault. She’s a lost soul who needs prayer! Anyone reading this I ask that you pray for her to see the Lord’s light because that’s the only way she could be fulfilled moving forward. Amen! 🙏🏼🙏🏼 Keep up the good work fellas!!

[@LuisJayala95]

Nearly killed the whole bottle @9am 😮 sheeeeesh

[@fallon7616]

Having my 3 Children in my opinion is the greatest thing I've ever had the joy of living and sharing it with my Husband 💯💞

[@ejackson6073]

🎯

[@shanghaiffgg]

That’s great and I’m happy for you. Likewise I would say raising my two boys is my proudest achievement. That said I know women who never married and built successful businesses who are happy and fulfilled also.

[@deantait8326]

This is the real tic Tok and at least she’s awake at 9AM. So glad she’s not upset… 😂

[@josevalverde2263]

Fulfillment is to experience yourself as pure presence.

[@liftmyspirit9337]

There are pros and cons to everything. One of the major cons of the internet is that it created social media echo chambers where people (who can be absolutely wrong about virtually any subject matter) can be reaffirmed in their collective ignorance through likes and shares. It is something each of us has to learn to deal with.

[@ariclocke4566]

She’s so transparently miserable. It’s actually really, really sad. I hope she finds true happiness.

[@marksanders1034]

I hope she’s stays miserable and lonely

[@joey_rogers]

The weirdest thing is that it's usually people that don't know much about her that assumed something about her. I don't know she seems pretty Dang happy. She does a lot of good. I don't know why men feel so uncomfortable with a woman being confident and successful. 🤷‍♂️

[@ariclocke4566]

@@joey_rogers when people tell me how cool they are, I know they’re not cool. When someone makes a show of how “awesome” their life is on social media, that does not convince me. When someone has to drink at 9am to “deal” (ie cope), then they’re not in a good place.

[@joey_rogers]

@@ariclocke4566 I might have to watch it again but was she actually even drinking in the video? It's a video for social media lol. Every professional athlete thinks that they are the best. Successful businessmen love telling people how they became so successful. Joe rogan goes on rants about how he became such a great interviewer. Rappers constantly claim that they are the best. There have been times in my life where I have been happy, and there have been times where I maybe wasn't so much... I can almost guarantee you that I was able to identify the feeling that I had at that time. I could literally go on and on and on. Why the heck can't a bunch of adults just say " You know what I don't agree with a lot of things she says, And honestly maybe I have a problem with successful overbearing women. Maybe I'm projecting how I wish she felt as opposed to how she really feels." Money doesn't buy happiness? Well statistically that's actually wrong. She's freaking hilarious. She's rich. And she looks pretty Dang good for her age. I'd have a very hard time believing she isn't generally a pretty happy person.

[@ariclocke4566]

@@joey_rogers if you want to believe she’s happy, then so be it. As for me, successful business owners talk about their success when asked (and they’re asked quite a bit), scam artists just talk about how successful they are when nobody asks and nobody’s talking about them. Let’s do a thought experiment: I’m in the military, let’s say someone released a video that said military men are miserable people. Would a happy military person A) think “well that’s a generalization that may or may not be true. I know I’m happy.” Or B) think “this is so untrue because I’m happy. In fact, I’m so content I should release my own video explaining how awesome my life is while drinking at 9am”.

[@PeterTaviawkNews]

Chelsea literally saying, "I need to sedate myself with alcohol and drugs" proves his point

[@theotherkangaroo]

Are you saying she's your type?" 😂

[@TheLectureRoom]

10 years ago I was a vip bartender in LA, and had CH at my bar ordering vodka no-ice, in a high ball glass - one right after another… She gave me a twenty dollar tip every time…

[@CIF-pm7tk]

thats definitely good for you and bad for her, she is a certified c unt

[@gogetterselite3629]

So she's a lonely drunk That's supposedly happy. Ok

[@TheLectureRoom]

@@gogetterselite3629 all I give a piss about is the tip….

[@ManWithAName425]

Sounds like a recipe for cirrhosis

[@Ballen9494]

She still is a fun person with a heart deep down. She happens to be brainwashed by a leftist cult and has bad opinions and pushes them on young women. She ever hit on you at the bar?

[@kimberlykyle6451]

If you need to drink a whole bottle of vodka at 9am in the morning your just sad.

[@realitynow4342]

This is Hollywood. Act-1.

[@jkreviea]

How sad Chelsea's life has become. Pretty on the outside, but obviously defective and flawed, bless her heart!

[@Rays_Bad_Decisions]

Wow that girl is soo spot on they encourage bad behavior to make sure everyone else is miserable

[@larracis]

I think the bigger problem here is, alot of younger girls will look at someone like Chelsea handler and think "wow that's great, the freedom, the fun, etc" so they then Also pursue the career in spite of everything and act like they are their own boss and men's opinions Don't mean anything. And by the time they realize they are lonely and unfulfilled it'll be too late, and you'll have a whole generation or girls who thought that way and are stuck alone in their 40s and 50s with nothing to do with themselves but be miserable b's to everyone.

[@LaDeeDah]

You think them getting a man as opposed to a career they choose is the fulfilling thing?

[@evan258]

@@LaDeeDah It is not that black and white, some can choose a man, some can choose a career, some can have both.....

[@larracis]

@Dee A. it's not just having a man. It's a man. A family. A purpose. The Chelsea handler lifestyle is cool for some. Some people can live till they take their last breathe alone and free. But it's not a lifestyle for everyone. If i had to guess id say out of every 100 girls, 90 of them wouldnt be fulfilled living that way. At some point most women who's biology is built to reproduce and nurture will be longing for that purpose and to come home to a welcoming family or man or whatever it may be. In today's society there Is so much going on I think it's easy for women to push those things back 5 or 10 years because it's easy to be going through the daily grind and socializing and relaxing that you dont realize you feel an emptiness. But for most, a time will come where nature kicks in and the longing will begin. Doesn't mean everyone should have kids or a family, but atleast someone to come home to after a days work and share your life with at minimum. That's my opinion anyways.

[@larracis]

@Dee A. it's the same for alot of guys too. Some guys can live freely doing whatever, and then have kids and realize they were missing a greater purpose. Having to provide for a family or a kid or whatever almost invigorates them to work harder and ultimately gives them a newfound sense of purpose. Again in today's world its easier for guys and girls to avoid those things because of how busy it can be. But at some point biology kicks in, for men it's providing, and for ladies it's nurturing and raising little ones. And If you manage to skate by without having those things and are happy. Then good for you. But most people who would miss out on those things will come to a point where biology is driving you in one way but it's too late to pursue that and you end up lonely and miserable.

[@lacijohnson400]

@@larracis I think you to a large extent you’re correct. But one aspect that a lot of people don’t talk about is the difficulty finding mates. I think most women do want a family as well as a career but the standards of finding a suitable has gone up making the dating pool smaller and harder for most people. And right now women are choosing to be with “the one” or no one, that makes people marry less. Another thing let’s not pretend that times have changed. And with time changing, society and values change. These things that were saw as a taboo in the past aren’t taboos anymore. About 70 yrs ago it was a taboo if you were single at the age of 26, now some might even consider that “young”, people are free to pursue other interests, hit other miles stones, there’s more freedom in everything else including dating, partnerships and marriages. Life is short so people don’t want to live “unhappy” lives. It is what it is

[@MendyJanelle]

I'm 44 and have been single my entire life. I'm not banging anybody or dating. I run a business and I am very goal driven. I'm just now thinking I may be ready to date. I had a whole lot of me to work on; physically, mentally, and spiritually. Thank god I never settled down when I was in my old mindset. I'm a much better person now. I feel I'm finally in the right space to be with the right partner. Where to even begin with dating, I have no clue because I have no time to spend on a dating app and waste. I'm not lonely, I'm very happy, and I absolutely love life! If it's meant for me, it will be. If not, that's ok too. I create my life exactly how I want, what I can control.

[@wendys390]

But my dear, you can't control the clock. It's like, they tell us we can put everything on hold until we're "ready," but few are able to pick right up and go for (and get) what we were more likely to get 20 years before. Men want young women, and young women have a lot easier time having children. The time spent doing education/career/work is your most energetic, optimum time for having a family, and you may already have passed the time for having children--at least easily. I hope you find all that you wish for, but remember time. It doesn't care what you want.

[@la_baby_khalil7703]

@@wendys390🙏😇🙏 SHE will be fine...GOD has someone for ALL OF US, "You really can meet the love of your life at any time!" 😌 Per Barbara Streisand, Lisa Nichols, Cindy Trimm, Tina Turner, Yuri, Sofia Vergara, Tanya Charry, and Sissi Fleitas, etc...etc...etc...👍😉

[@lolamar6064]

Hot mid lifer here, hoping I make it to 100! Live and let live, I just turned 50, never married , no kids, I’ve had three long term relationships. I absolutely grew with these relationships, but I never wanted marriage or kids with these men, I just never had the desire to do so, ever. I absolutely prefer being single, it’s lighter, calmer, freeing, and waaaay more fun. Marriage and kids aren’t for everyone, and you should be happy that those who know they don’t want kids , don’t have kids, there’s too many horrific parents out there creating monsters and depressed /anxiety filled kids, and let’s not forget about all the miserable married people out there, cheating and abusing their spouses.