Find out more in our full article on this topic: www.scienceofpeople.com/willpower/
@mannytorrez21384 жыл бұрын
Do have a teaching about.....I like to learn I write notes I hear and see to learn but when comes to teach I forget or I freeze is that normal? I'm 42 what can I do to better myself :)
@aryankashyap31173 жыл бұрын
Miss can you please elaborate on handling the "what the hell" effect it is a serious issue for a lot of people including myself
@guitard12802 жыл бұрын
This is fantastic. I think willpower is something for which the speaker has a native talent plus years of getting even better at it.
@rebeccahummel90915 жыл бұрын
The most powerful tool I found to get the greatest positive "get it done" effect is finding videos that align with my goals and watching them when I feel weak or distracted - really helps to get back on course! Or just watch them to stay on course.
@TereshaYoung5 жыл бұрын
I'm with you on that one Rebecca! 💯 You're showing great self-awareness in knowing how you can gain clarity when you're feeling stuck and also what works for you to keep you motivated and focused! 🎉 What also helped me to be committed to my goals, which I share on my channel is how my "why" (the reason for my goal) makes me fly! I find that you can't underestimate the power of "because" to keep us on track! 👍🏾 Keep up the good work! 💎💖
@goldensquirel5 жыл бұрын
Watching this at 6:55am is indeed my willpower 😁
@Jarg5554 жыл бұрын
It’s 3am for me 👀
@gauravsinghbedi65362 жыл бұрын
Thank You Vanessa...God Bless you
@davewarwicker25122 жыл бұрын
I read three books on this recently - so was pleasantly surprised by how many ideas here that were still new to me.
@Lindsweightloss5 жыл бұрын
I love how clear you speak! Thank you for this video :)
@tarifuddin92074 жыл бұрын
Undoubtedly, same here...
@Poireihanba1225 жыл бұрын
Ma'am ,thank you so much for this video. All the best! And I pray for your safe and healthy life.
@anesit3 жыл бұрын
I LOVE YOU VAN SO MUCH 😭😭😭UOU YOU ARE MAKING CHANGE TO MY LIFE
@Septumsempra88185 жыл бұрын
Your vids have helped me on so many fronts, thanks. So Imma give you a tip from my field of expertise. If you're not particularly fond of working out for hours (unless it's a hike or something organic) and keeping in mind your body type, try out anything explosive for a bit, doesn't have to be powerlifting or anything, but you'll find a judo/wrestling class or anything where you have to move your center of mass rapidly will work wonders. You'll feel your body burning through your food even whilst not training. It sounds odd, but it's way more efficient than zumba or weights. s/o from South Africa
@theEleMentalCrash4 жыл бұрын
I’ve been bunging your videos for a few days. It’s funny how close answers to our problems can be, thank you so much!
@honeybunnybunny19584 жыл бұрын
Girl you are heaven sent
@angelitaespinosa5215 жыл бұрын
Thank you! You are heaven sent!
@ShashankManiRai10 ай бұрын
"Saved to watch later"
@solomon47825 жыл бұрын
I love 💓 the way u talk 😘 Solomon from Eritrea 🇪🇷
@radlyn72345 жыл бұрын
Great video !!! I love how you explain things. However, I would prefer that you give examples that are not related to food and desserts, not everyone has this problem, I personally don’t, but I do have an issue in procrastinating and committing to my goals.
@mistersimorgh15375 жыл бұрын
Same thing here
@TereshaYoung5 жыл бұрын
I totally agree! 💯 I've found that aiming for perfection can lead to 'analysis paralysis' where I over-think a situation so that a decision or action is never taken or I procrastinate! 🙈 So I instead focus on taking progressive steps towards achieving my goals rather than striving for perfection 👍🏾 What also helped me to be committed to my goals, which I share on my channel is how my "why" (the reason for my goal) makes me fly! I find that you can't underestimate the power of "because" to keep us on track! 👍🏾 All we can do is our best! Keep going! 🌟
@kryesumoore5 жыл бұрын
I really need this today thanks.
@jessicacurbelo285 жыл бұрын
Thank you for shearing these willpower tools:🙏🏻💙
@urieless1755 жыл бұрын
This is great counseling..I've been going thru alot of stuff now I'm just going thru something..this is helping me with my life so far now and I just started subscribing to your channel..my heart was racing but now is doing fine I have to say a mil thanks love
@antoniodossantos59604 жыл бұрын
Achievement is a lot of work
@14kaiju5 жыл бұрын
Grateful
@ranugo4 жыл бұрын
Great tips, Vanessa! Thanks for sharing them!
@walkerskii5 жыл бұрын
I'm so happy I'm subscribed to you I picked up a couple of wonderful ideas from you especially committing to something during a high willpower time of the day
@Surajkumar-pp6co5 жыл бұрын
what one thing you could do right now to have greater success? I should fix one goal and work on that like Arjuna. what one thing you could stop doing right now to improve your quality of life? Stop procrastinating my decision taking process.
@emc29285 жыл бұрын
Very refreshing i needed this!
@totoydelacruz43843 жыл бұрын
Great topic!Thanks!
@zhanmike34064 жыл бұрын
Very helpful and useful, I enjoy watching your videos, this one is especially very good, kudos !
@sureshkssreedharan4564 жыл бұрын
Vanessa your great
@sharmilamv96062 жыл бұрын
Very useful and inspiring 👏 👍 👌
@nawfalshammari45795 жыл бұрын
Thank you Vanessa ❤
@yogawithbelle3 жыл бұрын
I love your video!! So much info and useful
@richarddavis2791 Жыл бұрын
Thanks for the book report
@ScienceOfPeople Жыл бұрын
Any time!
@antoniodossantos59604 жыл бұрын
Hello Vanessa...Thanks
@valentinacallegari33074 жыл бұрын
Thank You!
@64maxpower2 жыл бұрын
I love your work
@ScienceOfPeople2 жыл бұрын
Thank you! I'm glad to know you enjoy the content! =)
@alifarooqrajpoot5 жыл бұрын
Brilliant 💯🎉
@BeOutstanding4 жыл бұрын
Great Content Thank You Vanessa Musc Remove distraction or small Dec Do hardest thing fir Just do
@hussainmohammad22445 жыл бұрын
Thank u very much madam
@lamouralice45333 жыл бұрын
Really want to learn about it
@prabalbhardwaj37775 жыл бұрын
Alas! I found your channel thanks mam
@invincibleshot.79123 жыл бұрын
Tremendous ❣️
@andywest61132 жыл бұрын
I love your videos
@montygill28355 жыл бұрын
Great video
@melissazabower3395 жыл бұрын
I think something missing from this list of strategies is talking about motivation. Intrinsic versus extrinsic. I have no internal motivation. None. Should I do this or that? Sure, but when I don't, I feel no shame. There is nothing pushing me to do it. Unless someone is giving me a score or a grade or a paycheck, there is no reason for me to do it. Any strategies to help with that? Thanks :)
@sankalparora92615 жыл бұрын
Amazing stuff. PS : I love the intro for the videos.
@himanshuusain5 жыл бұрын
Thankyou❤️💕
@188185 жыл бұрын
Excellent! .... Thanks! :D Vanessa, there are 20 countries that speak Spanish that could benefit from your KZbin videos, would you please add subtitles in Spanish so we can share you videos to those who don't speak English!
@pearatree4 жыл бұрын
What if you don't view your future self like other people... but opposite... which gets you down?
@Goldwaterflow5 жыл бұрын
She said Purple bicycle i couldn't stop picturing even after the end of the video loo
@TereshaYoung5 жыл бұрын
Hahaha! Me too! 😂😂😂
@cssoversimplified5 жыл бұрын
I want more positive people I don't want negative people
@TereshaYoung5 жыл бұрын
Totally agree Khushlim 💯 Nobody needs or deserves negative relationships and friendships. If possible, can you see if you can limit the time you spend with negative people and instead surround yourself with those who are going to lift you higher? 🤷🏽♀️💎💖
@BrittanyLemonade5 жыл бұрын
What is the name of the yellow book she introduced at the beginning of the video??
@BrittanyLemonade5 жыл бұрын
Got it got it got it lol
@greggillson3883 жыл бұрын
Schedule ice cream before bed into your calendar. That way it's not a loss-of-willpower decision.
@honeybunnybunny19584 жыл бұрын
Future me is now and i let myself down
@EmpressofChrist5 жыл бұрын
💞
@rajvirtanvi71094 жыл бұрын
I noticed you wear blue in max of your videos. Is there a science behind that or is that just random?
@nathanbanks23543 жыл бұрын
Anyone else think of a purple elephant instead of the purple bicycle?
@wasteyourlife73735 жыл бұрын
I binge eat ice cream regardless
@honeybunnybunny19584 жыл бұрын
Ughh I’m so guilty to rewarding myself with sin
@christophernice58444 жыл бұрын
Hello
@geniuswith0iq4865 жыл бұрын
💝💌
@abcjme5 жыл бұрын
2:35 the “dunning¨kruger effect” is much more general than this
@benjaminpeterson66193 жыл бұрын
please keep clean language..
@bronxlords8 ай бұрын
WILL POWER REQUIRES NONE OF THESE
@irishchocolate38725 жыл бұрын
The reason we want to automatically do what we are forbidden to do is found in the Bible. It is part of our sin nature.
@jameshumphries50595 жыл бұрын
You need some with your diet. You’ve gain led some weigh.
@benergy100k25 жыл бұрын
You need to give that advice to your mother and the overweight uncles and women in your life. Vanessa is only here to help us about our ability to improve ourselves but not to be one of those skinny, starving mulnutrited women you see in magazines. She's not here to satisfy your desires and she's already happily married.
@benrussell7275 жыл бұрын
she just had a kid
@jameshumphries50595 жыл бұрын
ben russell - I know. It’s no excuse though
@jameshumphries50595 жыл бұрын
BEN. W. K. - I get that but you can’t really do a video on willpower if your overweight. Practice what you preach me and my family are not over weight or too skinny it’s call be at a healthy weight and that’s what I want for her.