Veeiye about love, cheatings, marriage | Dear Ife series Podcast

[@princesshenry1]

You don't trip and fall into genitals and then call it a mistake ~Veeiye👏 Vee speaks so eloquently, welldone Ife,cheers to DEAR IFE💖💖👏

[@naomiverdier3100]

❤

[@chikazoojiako4267]

This statement is gold!

[@princesshenry1]

@@chikazoojiako4267 in all honesty,it is gold!

[@GOLDcomps]

Contrary to you and Vee’s opinion on men “coming clean” in the worst ways so they don’t have to be the one to initiate the break up, I personally feel he revealed all his secrets at that time to sort of gauge her threshold; if she can take this much garbage pre-marriage then she can take even more when it’s sealed. “Surely she’ll have to suck it up as she wouldn’t want to end up a divorcee”. I think she just needs to walk away and cut her losses.

[@Spear_wielder_]

💯

[@sharondee0]

Yepp..He’s asking for permission for the future

[@ruthadee]

Exactly what I think too, he just want someone that can take his garbage then he’ll continue doing it comfortably if they eventually marry

[@IamOluwaSeun]

Absolutely 💯

[@irenesawyerr3246]

Exactly 💯

[@nzubeolung]

I have never paid attention to the rumors about Vee because I am not the type to decide based on gossip, but after watching this, I can say for a fact that if you do not love Vee's personality then you go de alright.... Cheers Dear Ife, I can't wait for the next episode.

[@sharonplang]

It’s either he doesn’t want to marry her or he wants to have freedom to cheat freely going forward because now she knows and if she stays it’s because she wants to accept him as he is

[@kikelomoAde]

Exactly what I'm thinking. Just to tell her full disclosure this is who you're marrying . Don't be shocked later

[@maryamabdullahi8298]

Exactly what i think too. He wants freedom to continue his mess because why now???

[@olumayokunfadelu2506]

Or he has contracted some disease from his messing around. I remember a story on bellanaija blog many years ago where a guy a came out "clean" to his fiance about cheating and it was because he had gotten one of the worst forms of HPV (which by the way he didn't mention that to her until she found out herself).

[@Otumininu]

Exactly! He confessed so she can know what she’s getting into. Because if they eventually get married, that man will cheat 8 days in a week! Oh yes, I know there are 7 days in a week 😂🤣🤣🤣

[@avosehmayree8936]

Excatly,you got it right

[@brambaifaoyindinipere254]

Who else came here because of VEeeeeeeee🎉❤

[@oluwakemiayeni6446]

I did.

[@therealmoronke]

Meeeeee

[@adrianuzorka6572]

Me oo😅

[@olaiyatitilayo6509]

I did

[@SarahOlatunde-n3l]

Me♥️

[@IdinmachukwuJonathan]

There’s something Vee said that just stood as the basis of my opinion on this matter…. Marriage is like building a house. The foundation on which the marriage is built will depend on how long it’s gonna last! Once you’ve destroyed a foundation there’s nothing that can be done, that house must eventually fall apart! With all he said? The foundation being laid for this marriage is not just shaky it’s damaged already no need to build on it. Even if he truly changes those pasts will always hunt that marriage one way or another. T for tenks.. meanwhile I absolutely enjoyed this episode thank you Aunty Ife and Vee ❤❤❤

[@ekezienancy953]

I love this

[@diaryofanaijagirl]

I agree with you.

[@damseldammy140]

The way I ran here from IG na God save me say I no fall … Veeiye 🥰🥰🥰

[@rekhae1]

🤣🤣😂😂😂

[@hakeemfatimah6319]

Me too

[@maryamabdullahi8298]

Not only you ooo my dear😅😅

[@lifeofaLazymum]

Me sef ❤❤❤😂😂😂

[@iykyk6306]

Me too… my veeiye

[@mercyudah]

I can listen to Vee talk all day her accent is beautiful… and yes she does look like Naomi❤

[@lateephaaalabelewe8537]

She also look like Brandy

[@DamilolaPopoola-io3le]

Yes she really looks like her

[@aishaadeyemi9581]

Vee finally hints about she & Neo! And people were bashing her,smh Vee is that girl❤

[@towolawiolabisi7711]

Veeiye is so gorgeous! Her beauty is a discovery ❤

[@damityson9910]

I swear you should keep Veeiye as a co-presenter. I love the combination of both of you.

[@diaryofanaijagirl]

Hahahaha. After we’ve exhausted the guests for this season o. But we love her.

[@AyodeleBecky]

Her(Vee) analysis and mannerisms nailed it for me. Well done guys

[@adzzbaby]

i wanna hear Vee speak everyday all day😩💜. such a smart queen!

[@keerah337]

Omoh! It's not marriage yet, so imma definitely opt out. VEE, never fails to get Me glued to hearing Her speak. I Love You Veeeeeee❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@lydia_ritaro]

I love the way Vee speaks, oh God!🥺♥️

[@ewihlarissa5266]

Me tooo. I can listen to her speak all day. And her skinnnn. Gosh

[@mohtee9628]

As Ife was narrating the story, I was just saying ha, ha, ha, ha… I personally will not go on with the relationship. I love how Vee speaks and how she aired her opinion on this matter. To the lady that wrote in, my heart goes out to her, for her everlasting peace, she should just walk away.🚶‍♀️

[@RecipeswithHotBatter]

What a good way to launch this series. Tell me IFE, is there anything you can't do so well? I enjoyed watching this! And Vee? Such a smart, self aware young woman. Loved it ❤

[@diaryofanaijagirl]

Wow, thank you!

[@Oroma_Chi]

Here with the speed of light and for sure I know Vee will not disappoint! She’s an actual fire cracker😂

[@rasha368]

The man is up to something. Just because he confessed doesn’t mean you should go ahead with the wedding. You thought it was only you but he’s doing it with the nanny, ex wife, other women and even his own friend’s ex. If you marry him he will continue and tell you at least you knew he was like this before you married him. Run

[@ekeholivia2522]

I don’t just Stan a queen I Stan an intelligent one at that My Vee listening to her speak made me so happy and I wish she could have more episodes…learned alot from this ❤

[@victoriaolanikefapohunda6349]

Ife please consider featuring Vee in subsequent episodes. Well done👏🏽

[@favour-eu1dp]

For me I don’t even think it’s particularly about the ‘number of women’ he had affairs with because what if it was just one woman he cheated on her with for those 9years?, it’s majorly about the broken trust! And there’s no coming back from that emotional destruction, walk away and never look back sis because love will find you again🙏

[@OluwaseunSewa]

"Not everyone is going to get married" veeiye 👏👏

[@diaryofanaijagirl]

A sad truth.

[@PoSHEmediaglobal]

A society will always be there ready to shame them unfortunately

[@iruogheneokoro3372]

Na mumu dey allow society influence their personal decisions. Life is short. Live it on your own terms and do what makes you happy. Society does not care ​@@PoSHEmediaglobal

[@HallyRamzy]

There’s no headway in this relationship, this best option is to quit, if you truly value your mental health do not go ahead with this period. But at the end of the day you take the final decision so I wish you all the best.And vee ate this episode😍😍

[@wirsiydk8406]

People make mistakes, but u don’t trip and fall inside someone’s genitals🤣🤣🤣. Vee said it😂😂

[@diaryofanaijagirl]

😂😂😂

[@nnekaokolo2708]

I didn't want it to end! We should have episode 2 oh, all in agreement say aye!😅 This combo is 🔥🔥🔥, Vee has always been a fave, good to see her here. Interesting conversations, we love it Ife!👏👏👏👏❤️❤️

[@yettydlaw]

Aye

[@paulinaebunoluwa79]

I love Vee and I totally agree with her. Tbh, habits can't be changed just like that, it takes a lot of work for that to happen. Putting a ring on the finger will not be the magic to make him miraculously stop those things he listed, because they've become part of him consciously or unconsciously.

[@nwankwojuliet1515]

I can listen to Vee talk all day. I didn't want this to end

[@Betty_Oo]

I ran here cos of my baby Veeeee🥺🤭

[@ngozijessyca9921]

That kindness cup helped Vee from going off from the moment Ife read number 1😆

[@diaryofanaijagirl]

It helped all our guests to keep it in. 😂

[@oreoluwaoyadiran]

Cheating can literally cause PTSD, it is terrible some people have ran mad because of it so it’s not just about remorse, it’s like cheater has destroyed the marriage as in mass destruction and now he/she and the cheated (that had nothing to do with the situation) have to now build it from scratch again It’s a lot

[@QueenVee_epete]

I agree with Ife; he doesn’t want to marry her. He might have even lied about some of the confessions. Men are very funny people, and just like Vee said: a man would do anything but break up with you. However, if his confession is true, run, sister, runnn!!! Ire o ❤

[@r0fiat]

Vee is so articulate, love her even more now ❤😂😂

[@ilemona]

Yeah, Vee is a sincere person. I am glad that she’s.

[@maryamaliyu2930]

I also think his reason might be that the nanny threatened to come clean, especially since they have been together for 9 years, and he didn't think to propose to her

[@brownsugar1300]

You have a lot of life to live and scenarios to experience if you can say there's no way cheating is a mistake. The physical act is consensual, the decision making and reasoning of whatever the partner was thinking... THAT'S the mistake. Sometimes they genuinely realize where their thought process was flawed, sometimes they only regret getting caught. The reflectiveness, humility, transparency and submission to accountability will show you the difference. BUT.... this guy doesn't want to get married, this confession is to prompt her to leave him. Because he's not even saying he's broken up with them, he's telling you that you've been the secondary your entire relationship...

[@lydia_ritaro]

You'll never really know until you're in it! Everyone is definitely a "Never say Never " person actually.

[@TheGlamsedit]

To anyone reading this comment, you never be put to shame, you shall be head in GOD name Ameen 🙏🙏🙏

[@Lulu.M25]

The next guest has to be this good. Cause if we aired it with such an outspoken person. The next guest will either keep us in this or not. Good episode. 👏

[@Eraoflagos]

Individual differences will come to play . This is a social experiment and not just about people of same personality .

[@kanjofredryn243]

Love how Veeiye speaks and her honesty

[@emmanuellavictor3743]

Omg! That statement Vee made getting married coz we’ve been nurtured into it but I won’t be mad if it never happens. ❤

[@favourpaulilean7385]

Ife you are such an amazinggg host. I loved how vee’s personality shined through, you allowed her speak and you also made your points too, nobody was speaking over each other. Thanks for that cup, the write up was needed.😂😂😂 It was very professional and beautiful to watch tbh I could go on and on. Please keep this series up. I love it here❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@AgirlhelpedbyAbba]

Vee brought me here for the first time😂

[@yettydlaw]

Vee is so spot on with the long term relationship!

[@LifetalkswithBlessing]

This man has guts! aaaaaaloot of it! The lady should runaway, God has helped her. Vee I love how you speak and yes you do look Naomi Campbell ❤ welldone Miss Ife

[@chiamakaenansofor]

I think you both said it all. The man seems to be gauging her reaction. If she accepts this now, she has no reason to complain in the future. We should have talked about the Nanny who was even being slept with for 7years. How old is she? Is she married or she is waiting for Oga to marry her?

[@YettieO]

9 years plix.

[@doradominic]

Mission impossible Abort mission 😂😂 I love this episode. I love how straight forward Vee is. Remember never say never, especially when you’ve not been in certain shoes but all in all, be self aware to know what you can or can’t tolerate

[@Diaryofalovedwife]

In this situation, I'm a " Never say never " person. If it's marriage, it will end there. If it's dating, it will also end there. There are no two ways about it.

[@factsandopinions577]

This!!!

[@factsandopinions577]

STD is no repentant of the relationship

[@favourpraiseharuna]

I just know I'm going to rewatch this episode over and over and over again. So many gems in it

[@enuolareamadi9970]

My thoughts exactly when I watched . HE DOESN’T WANT TO MARRY HER , HE TOLD HER SO SHE CAN LEAVE ON HER OWN that way it won’t look he ended it . But for whoever sent that to you has thought of the possibility of forgiving him else any good thinking human will walk away …….

[@Chef_Obvious]

Here for Veeiye l can never get tired of her

[@teefahsreview2492]

Forgiving cheating is a no for me even in marriage.

[@sincerlypriscilla]

Vee is such an intelligent womannnnn ahhh! 😂🙌🙌🙌🙌

[@dammydeborah4608]

I love this.. Vee really tried all her best to stay on the promise😅😅

[@oladejoolawunmi1271]

Even vee haters will come and watch this... weldone my girl❤❤🎉🎉

[@fatimadalong8025]

I can listen to Vee talk all day , she’s so eloquent… love love that babe .

[@omonikoro]

I think he told her all that so he can say in the future "you knew me and married me still." He's probably trying to prepare her for the ultimate heartbreak but just maybe he's really changed cos what God cannot do does not whattt...?

[@Oluwalotomisin01]

I do not regret burning my data. I love this series already ❤ thank you Aunty Ife

[@Smileynah]

Veeeee is tooo articulate, i love love her❤ weldone aunty ife

[@damoladammy215]

I don't stand with nonsense I love you 💖 Vee so articulate and demure

[@ebun4228]

She's setting herself up for bigger heartbreak if she goes ahead with the marriage. People even in regular relationships will test your patience to see how much you can take just to set the stage for much bigger tests. Each one with their kettle of fish.

[@UdomEkemini]

Everyone won’t get married I need to send this to my mum

[@OmoniyiTaiwoVictoria]

He’s never going to change. Run!!!

[@olaidefolorunsho7615]

I love Vee's confidence

[@Vamioforii]

I love hearing Vee speak❤

[@ihuomaadannaya5537]

He is just letting her know what he will be doing if they get married. So that she will not say she wasn't informed.

[@ahudaddy0953]

To know remorse,is to see the behavioral change in that person..a good change that keeps improving..true empathy,Accountability and gaining the other person's trust.

[@oluwafeyikemialawode441]

I just have to say... Vee is STUNNING! Her skin? Ugh!

[@janeonyenucheya5203]

I enjoyed this podcast so much, first time this year that I'm listening to a podcast till the end.

[@portiamashigo3831]

South Africa 🇿🇦🇿🇦In the building because of VEE ❤

[@lateefatoluwatobiloba400]

Like Ife said, it's never going to work. It is too much to handle and how do you even move on from such? Another thing is the question you asked Vee, for me it is so simple. Even in marriage, there is nothing like forgiving a cheating partner. I sincerely can't deal with it,

[@mattiakorede5109]

The way I ran from IG to watch My two favorite people 🥰

[@gimbiyalove9627]

This podcast made me love Vee even more.

[@sharon-rosennochri4338]

Please Vee, speak more. I loveeeed this conversation

[@cassieclara2375]

Here for my girl, Veee🎉

[@lydia_ritaro]

Community leader aff drop banger! Early comer because I've been waiting 😍😍

[@beatriceushike6722]

I personally feel, since he's getting married, he must have been blackmailed and so had to confess rather than give in to the blackmail. Nevertheless, she should be happy he told her she was about jumping into fire. Its gonna hurt but not more than her being in the marriage with him. Nice one Ife and Vee, I enjoyed this.

[@ijeomandubueze5228]

Vee is a queen. And the lady? Run!!!

[@abigailchinonye3071]

I just love hearing vee speak

[@agangleta5416]

Ready for Veeiye own podcast this was a great conversation she is very self aware

[@favourpraiseharuna]

Also, there is something called "manipulative honesty." I think I even heard about the concept from Ife. Essentially, they tell you what's wrong with them or what they did wrong, and then when/if you forgive them, you can't call them out on it in the future. It's like, "I told you about this that time, and you agreed to continue, so why are you giving me a headache about it now?" They tell you what's wrong with them, and if you continue, the shege your eyes will see.... This has happened to me so many times in my relationships that now, if you tell me something about you that's bad, I will believe you instantly and step back. No more "I can change him" n0nsense😅😅

[@cherryonyinyechi8459]

You just have to love Vee honestly

[@lindadanjuma8622]

I’m here cos vee speaks I listen😍 Okurrrr Let’s go bby

[@maryannodeh3387]

Infact it's cos of vee I'm here I love her....our own Naomi campbell❤❤

[@iyanuoluwafaith9268]

Ifeeee😍...take your flower🌷 Beautiful veee😍 speaks so eloquently

[@ichechi_Ruth]

I just love how vee speaks. I can listen to her over and over again

[@ledzar_7041]

Veeiye? My babe forever man❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@funmidike4406]

If you both established you are open to marriage from the beginning and you are four years into the relationship with no sign of taking it further, Sis, you are a placeholder! He would get married to someone in six months once you’re outta the picture! I personally won’t date more than two years if my goal is marriage and he also wants marriage! Oueserasera never helped nobody! Set boundaries and have a standard!

[@aishaadeyemi9581]

Vee is everything and more💯 such a sophisticated queen, well spoken ❤️❤️

[@TheLatinoShow]

Two confident,super star,gorgeous,hardworking,and phenomenal women love you so much❤❤❤❤

[@ruqayyamuhammad1578]

Once a cheater, always a repeater. I think it's good that he came clean, however his honesty does not mean she should condone his behavior. He has given her enough information to make an informed decision. If cheating is her deal breaker, it's time to exit the building.

[@richlynlloyd5443]

Vee is sooo beautiful and fluent

[@Feynasia]

So refreshing. Looking forward to more. It’s good to have parents like Vee’s who will always support their children.

[@damilolaadeyemo5496]

Veeeeeeeeeeee, such a breath of fresh air 😍

[@nmesomanirvana4243]

Cheating with a different person all the time is different but cheating with the same person multiple times is just diabolical! You were literally in a sexual relationship probably with emotional attachment. You were so intentional with breaking her trust and cheating. It’s definitely not a mistake

[@Adenike_B]

Loving all of the discussion Welldone ife Vee speaks so so well and one reason I love is her honesty and she’s being this way.

[@elizabetholaniyan7430]

Veeiye is so beautiful gosh 🥰😅 and such an eloquent speaker😊

[@timeoutwithdunsin1303]

Telling her the “truth” is him gaslighting her. All to make her believe that he’s a changed man or not make her mad or leave him when somehow the truth unfolds. She should better be careful

[@Thatyorubaedogirl]

This is so refreshing and impactful ❤ To be honest fr “Not Everybody Will Get Married” it’s been my truth regardless of how life make it looks 😅

[@onyi_obi]

We are here for Dear Ife on youtube❤❤❤❤