Ask Nick - My BF Is Back On Dating Apps | The Viall Files w/ Nick Viall

[@vanessasantana5951]

The way he literally glossed over the sister talking about her brother climaxing, multiple times… I simultaneously gasped and laughed out loud. wtf did I just listen to!?!? 😂

[@Varaidzo1]

That was pretty weird

[@ceep95]

The whole family being so heavily involved in the pregnant ex is a bit odd… she kept saying “we”. It’s nice they’re so supportive of him but his sister is now telling his story on a podcast… it just seems a bit much. He’s a 24 year old man, sure that’s young, but he needs to handle his own relationships?

[@NoriDune]

This felt like a red flag to me too... I couldn't help but wonder if she blocked him and all of them because she was being ganged up on. She very well might be telling the truth. Strange to me that she was basically villainized and that was used to discredit what she was saying. Maybe the fam is crazy and she decided she'd rather do it on her own. I'm sooooo curious what her side of the story is 😅

[@MakePizzaGaming]

@@NoriDuneher side of the story is she was smoking cigarettes while pregnant and the baby never ended up being his, idk that’s what I heard tho

[@NoriDune]

@@MakePizzaGaming and that might be true, and none of her threats are justified of course... If they're the truth. I just wonder if it's being slanted by the time we hear how it's all gone down and facts have been left out. I heard what you heard all I'm saying is we're getting it third hand, not from him or the pregnant girl.

[@jillianphoenix3270]

@@NoriDuneYesss I thought the same thing, I’d love to hear this story from her perspective!! Definitely seemed like a gang up situation with the she blocked US, WE did research, what are OUR rights. And the first time she asked him to come over and be a supportive partner to her, he said he couldn’t because his parents were too emotional?? What about her?? And then they call her reaction a “tantrum” and a “mental break”… yeah, she’s probably hormonal and scared and feels alone!! Whatever the truth is, I hope she’s okay!

[@BigFanOfJustice-31]

Also what was her question? I feel like she called just to vent. Lol

[@andreegodbout868]

Number 3 caller, it's perfectly OKAY for you to not want to date a dope head. Honestly. It doesn't make you a nag! And you CAN find someone who doesn't smoke AND who is kind. I promise. Nick's advice was so wrong here and a really hard listen.

[@robc5029]

Nick responded like that because he smokes weed all the time (which he has said he does many times). If he didn’t smoke, his advice would be completely different.

[@lindensitzmann]

@@robc5029I agree! He brought up several times that if she couldn’t tell he’s smoking if he wasn’t saying that he did then that was telling and shouldn’t be such a big issue. Well there’s high functioning alcoholics too but that doesn’t dismiss the issue.

[@devin8381]

completely agree, was just going to comment the same thing! his bias was shining through very obviously, and i normally love his advice. her feeling were completely valid, and i have felt the same way in the past.

[@sugarNspice244]

Agreed, disappointed

[@allienicole9955]

Also he tried to make the argument about ADHD medication or an anti depressant, those are prescribed by a doctor… yes you can get a medical marijuana prescription .. but it’s clear this guy didn’t

[@mariissaak]

The dating app caller…girl…..😂

[@SaraPratt-kt4xp]

I get caring about your brother- but feels like a great example about the lack of quality men out here. Mom, sister, family stepping in to figure out ADULT things… lol they can’t seem to do anything on their own. I hope to never to use the word “climax” with regards to my brother. Ay. Maybe I’m alone . But… odd call.

[@KelseyGulley-bv6mg]

some people have very strong support systems and feel comfortable leaning on them in serious situations believe it or not

[@Brosville300]

Also I think this is not a situation one is used to, so support is okay to get. I think he did well

[@Varaidzo1]

I really like how open they are but I'm with you here. I'm sorry but 24 is old enough to handle the consequences of unprotected sex. The man sounds very sheltered.

[@azii2973]

@@KelseyGulley-bv6mggirl you must be the person who called because you’re in every comment’s replies defending her 😂😂😂

[@Smitty813]

@@KelseyGulley-bv6mgI think this might actually be considered family enmeshment. I think therapy is very much needed here for brother and sister.

[@vickinathan8777]

That third called - I ended up feeling so bad for her. Nick urging her to accept what she doesn’t want to, based on his weed smoking, was not right. If she doesn’t like it, she doesn’t.

[@cmary718]

Exactly! So infuriating. Way to make it about you nick Jesus christ. That was a fucking touggggh listen. Non-negotiables are subjective. It's absolutely a personal thing. He totally skipped over her emotions because he felt personally offended.

[@cmary718]

Third caller if you're reading you deserved better.

[@helenasouza1104]

He's all about boundaries, except for when those boundaries feel like a personal attack against him lol

[@rebe94]

then why did she call in for? if she’s not willing to compromise not even a little then the answer should’ve been very clear and she wouldn’t have needed to call in

[@Gema1092]

Ugh this was annoying to listen to. I usually like Nick’s advice but this one offended HIM. Nick kept on calling her “stubborn” and told her she was the problem. GIRL, leaves his ass!! Him smoking doesn’t make you happy & go you for knowing what you want and what you won’t put up with. If you don’t like him smoking then you don’t like it PERIOD! I hate that Nick asked about your drinking to make you feel bad… that has nothing to do with him smoking and you not liking it.

[@jl85_16]

Wtf was the advice to caller 3? Nick is often talking about setting boundaries and knowing your dealbreakers and all of a sudden he’s calling this girl a nag because she set and held a boundary? How hypocritical and I normally love nicks advice. I was seriously cringing as the call went on.

[@sugarNspice244]

Agreed

[@embeth446]

It’s because Nick is addicted to weed and he’s very insecure about it. He dies on that hill every time. It’s the one area he can’t be objective on.

[@Stormy575]

Equating pot addiction with taking medication? 🤨

[@rebe94]

the lack of sex ed is astounding to me. The men don’t need to finish or ejaculate to get someone pregnant. That’s why you can also get pregnant feom just “the tip” or with the pullout method

[@KelseyGulley-bv6mg]

though i think we can all admit that it is highly unlikely

[@rebe94]

@@KelseyGulley-bv6mgmaybe, but it’s still possible

[@Badnewsfeminist]

Also Nick seems to think that abortion is a bad word. Just say the word, no need to dance around it!

[@Gema1092]

Ugh the last call was sad to listen to. I usually like Nick’s advice but this one offended HIM. Nick kept on calling her “stubborn” and told her she was the problem. GIRL, leaves his ass!! Him smoking doesn’t make you happy & go you for knowing what you want and what you won’t put up with. If you don’t like him smoking then you don’t like it PERIOD! I hate that Nick asked about your drinking to make you feel bad… that has nothing to do with him smoking and you not liking it.

[@juliethillbrand4134]

I agree even as a weed smoker. If it's not ur thing or it bothers u, find someone else. Ive dated ppl that didn't smoke, but it really has to be a no judgement thing to work

[@jessicajohnson8465]

I don't agree, he wasn't making her feel bad, but she is being a bit hypocritical. Drinking impares you way more. If her Drinking made him uncomfortable would she stop? If smoking is a one of her hard no's then she shouldn't be with him period, but she shouldn't be on her whining about it, like what was she even asking, everything Nick said she was like ya, I know or I just can't get past it...then why are you asking for advice, for what?

[@sugarNspice244]

Agreed

[@joanne8084]

I agree with the people thinking the first caller was sus. Like saying “we” got together to figure out what to do & him telling her his parents were upset & accusing her of not being pregnant & the audacity to tell her he may not be the father so basically calling her a slut & she probably said “ what are u banging your sister since she’s so involved in your business “ she probably wasn’t being crazy, I could see myself getting pissed that my babies dads sister is accusing me of being off on my timing of my period & saying I slept with other people & saying some shit like that cause it’s weird they’re so involved in this 24 yr old man’s business. Yikes! I wouldn’t want that family involved in my pregnancy.

[@rebelseer3691]

Great job on the ad read Ciara. 👏 Very engaging with you looking at the camera/us instead of just reading off your screen.

[@peidan86]

Why is the sister so obsessed with her brother’s sex life…

[@clara6012]

Love it. But the fall decor is sacrilege in December lads

[@LaaLaa901]

I dont see Caller 2 following Nick's advice.

[@cmary718]

The second caller should ask if he's going to open up his dating app to men as well as women if it's just for networking! Also she should be allowed to monitor it if that's truly it's only purpose , he should have no problem with that

[@laurab5849]

He lacks creatively (or contains a lot of creativity😅) if he can’t think of other ways to market his business lol.

[@cmary718]

@laurab5849 I totally agree and think hes probably full of shit but think this would be a good way to challenge him 😄

[@autttgracee]

She broke up with him over weed but then got mad that he smoked HER weed ? (1:15ish) she also drinks frequently. Breaking up with him over that instead of talking to him about it is wild!!! 😂😂😂

[@Luckygingerslots]

I know, I wish nick would have called her out on that. I think he dodged a bullet with that lady.

[@jessicaburros856]

lol 😂

[@juliethillbrand4134]

2nd caller, stop mourning someone who doesnt prioritize you. End it and dont look back, he doesnt care about u or losing u. Im sorry, u deserve better. 3rd caller, has to be a no judgement zone with substance or dont bother. Find someone who doesnt smoke. I smoke but it only works if everyones good with it. Or else u end up with lies and hiding and comparing to your alcohol use, all of which happened. Know your needs vs wants ❤

[@sugarNspice244]

OMG I have the same issue as caller 3 - listening now. Can't wait to hear Nick's advice.

[@sugarNspice244]

DISAPPOINTED. I feel like he was giving advice to his wife on the low lol

[@sunnylou9290]

What’s up with the maniacal laughter from caller 2 and 3 when you’re ending the call with them?

[@baileybertucelli2972]

I wish we could have this on live and write in suggestions! I want her to know that no respectable women are going to be ok with their partner being on a dating app. He will learn the hard way that literally nobody wants that. Just get out girl

[@pageantfan2794]

Anytime I need to feel angry about something I tune into an Ask Nick.

[@embeth446]

This poor girl with the pothead boyfriend calling in to ask Nick’s advice had no idea that Nick cannot be objective on this topic due to his own weed addiction. This dude was stealing her weed, lying to her about it, etc and Nick is still defending him. It’s ok to not be ok with that girl. You can set your own boundaries on this.

[@clara6012]

Nick, send caller 2 your book!!!

[@patrickorourke41]

For context: I’m a licensed insurance agent in California. The BF going back on the apps to sell insurance is super creepy. You could just as easily sell insurance with some clever social media posts instead of going on dating apps. Or here’s a thought…he can pick up the phone and start dialing to his existing clients and cross sell them!

[@superpowereddesign4341]

I love how weed smokers want to make it "normalized". Kind of like a three martini lunch was "normalized" in the 1950's.

[@LA-ty2ug]

Exactly. The only ones who think it’s fine are stoners like Nick himself.

[@Badnewsfeminist]

I think I might be near the end of listening to the podcast, Nick is just so deeply lacking in self awareness. Major negging vibes with the last caller, he seemed incredibly attacked and was kind of a jerk.

[@melanierogers950]

The last caller with pot smoking boyfriend- good grief, that call was at least 10 minutes too long. When they start regurgitating the same dialog, Nick needs to abort the call. The listeners are pulling their hair out at that point. Gotta find a way to end the call.

[@stephanieparido3790]

I met a guy on a dating app that did that , moved from New York to Cali, I had been talking to him for yrs, he moved for a Women , I had no idea he had a Clothing Line , he was trying to sell clothes on dating apps , this was about 15-20 yrs ago , he was on all dating apps , he would meet , give a business card and ghost

[@laurab5849]

But if he ghosted them I doubt they were eager to buy his clothes right?! 😂😂

[@stephanieparido3790]

@@laurab5849 true

[@catherineritch6241]

Love your fall decor how… no Christmas?

[@MakePizzaGaming]

The ex thinking there is incest is bonkers!

[@srcrdh]

I need to know...is the insurance guy Tony from Illinois? 🤣 there's a guy here that uses the apps to sell insurance lol

[@trishamoreno3063]

Second caller needs to be completely honestly okay with the idea of being alone before she will stop giving off the needy vibe.

[@aspenschroeder9847]

The last caller was hard to listen to. I don’t smoke and I don’t love that my partner smokes but it helps his trauma and ptsd. I feel like it’s so shallow to discard a good man because of something that helps him

[@Seciap]

I have never been more frustrated listening to the weed conversation in my life 🙈 the hypocrisy! And it was notttttt clicking!

[@Brosville300]

Honestly she’s a really good sister and that must’ve been a tough friggin situation to be in. He’s lucky to have you

[@Luckygingerslots]

It was her weed?!? No!! That guy should run and never look back.

[@MizzUnique19]

I don’t understand that she has her own weed if she is against smoking it? So weird to me!

[@Luckygingerslots]

@ she might be unhinged

[@MandyLand08]

I completely agree with the advice Nick gave caller 3! She needs to have an open mind. Chill lady! 😂

[@Queenb1148]

I want the guy that’s so weird about weed to find an amazing woman cause she sucks

[@jessicajohnson8465]

The last girl on here sounds soooo whiny. Like girl, it's a bit of "gardening " as an every day gardener he is not getting as up as she thinks it is! She needs to grow up!

[@aliciavital6211]

Did I just hear you tell caller one to tell her brother to go life his life while he may or may not be having a baby on the way?? This podcast is going so far left really fast. SMH

[@kidscrocs]

What would your advice be?

[@clara6012]

Did you listen to the whole thing before you said this?

[@Varaidzo1]

He suggested so many different things - it's a little difficult to be involved if the potential mother has removed them from their life

[@BeautyXXBrittany]

Its JUST weed honestly atleast its not dope 🤷‍♀️

[@Luckygingerslots]

If I wee the guy whose girlfriend broke up with him because he was smoking weed, I would never get back together with her, especially if she drinks alcohol! what a judgmental bleep.

[@brisamarcelino4540]

And she smokes as well.... smh

[@Luckygingerslots]

@ I know… ick

[@nic2583]

Nick’s advice on the third collar is chefs kiss

[@Queenb1148]

The girl with the weed need to grow tf up same with Natalie!!! I have the worst anxiety and I wish I could smoke weed instead of taking WELLBUTRIN, but weed gives me more anxiety!!! And I don’t drink or smoke I literally do nothing as a substance!!! I wish my son’s dad would have just smoked weed rather than fixed his anxiety with pills and overdose and die!!!! GROW UP WEED IS WAY BETTER THAN ALCOHOL

[@shurblah3]

insurance agent here and thats not the way to sell insurance

[@shurblah3]

i gotta admit, i agree with Nick on caller three. I think he was just trying to point out her stubbornness. She even smokes weed so on top of her being stubborn shes also being a hypocrite. I am not a weed smoker at all and i do agree with what nick had to say 🤷🏻‍♀️