13 *simple* micro habits to level up & increase your feminine energy

[@theetravelhippie]

also when your posture is straight you can breathe properly (deeply) and release trapped anxiety

[@VickitaTrivedi]

Yup!!

[@stenillson20]

So true!

[@EmilyRaskett]

Great tip! Such a good reminder 😊

[@Kls12240]

Yes, very true.

[@svetafey]

Yes! And the blood flows better to your brain

[@TheCrystallineLeoness]

Not sure if this can be considered a micro habit, but waking up early every morning and doing a short 15-30 minute yoga routine absolutely boosts my feminine energy. My body feels so free and flowy and super flexible. The rigidity disappears after a good yoga stretch, and my posture has improved massively.

[@Lady-in-Red]

Oh my goodness, saying no (nicely and politely) has been life-changing! It's even relieving to the people around me, because I'm finally telling them the truth.

[@ElizaFabricius]

Yes, yes, yes! I find that saying a calm, "No, thank you," is pleasantly received by the person being rejected as opposed to when I used to scowl and grimace with an "ugh, no!" People don't get defensive when you reject them politely. I think they are just normally surprised. The key is also to say it confidently. A calm, cool, confident "no" is better than a flighty, hesitant one.

[@Katrica670]

1. I "get to" 2. Read romance novels P.s. I don't agree with this point cause it can evoke hyper sexuakity! I heard them Harlequinn books ate horrible! 3. Dancing 4. Create with hands 5. Posture 6. Smiling 7. Allow kindness, accept it 8. One moment of joy 9. Slow down 10. Talking nice to self 11. Jazz scapes & candles 12. Say no 13. Flower arranging

[@wittykitti]

the trick with romance novels is to find ones that match YOUR personal romantic and sexual preferences. The ones that are terrible tend to be very male centred and depict women very flatly and almost sheeplike.

[@Katrica670]

@@wittykitti oh alright thanks, but I would still never know until I start reading it, and by then it's too late cause the summary is not enough to tell me what the content is actually like.

[@wittykitti]

@@Katrica670 true, I personally learned through trial and error 😫

[@HereIAm247]

I also struggle a bit with romance novels. I often find the women depicted as overly innocent and 'perfect'/childlike/damsel in distress, or overly sexual/'Mary Sue'/written more for men. There are probably good ones out there, but they are a bit hard to find around here.

[@mandril45]

This is a personal preference, but I've realized that romance stories categorized as Literary fiction rather than Romance have a better plot and more developed characters.

[@peacelandhaven]

Feminine energy is about flow, not force. This video helped me release control and step into a place of trust and ease. Thank you for this beautiful reminder. 🌿💖

[@dessy369]

Life upgrades every time she posts

[@VickitaTrivedi]

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[@spiritualhealer222]

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[@shawntelchinn84]

🙌🙌🙌

[@ofcouuurse8237]

💯💯💯

[@kelliesuepetersartist6263]

Right??! So great!!

[@mypaintings2640]

Giirl please one video on how to really be mature for real and take responsibility for our own lives such as dealing with being new to a location, place, how to read the room and bravely control situations appropriately alone. And how you did it ! Your insights on this would be very helpful. ❤️ As always your videos Rock !! Has tremendous education and is highly life changing. You radiate that high-value energy every time you post. I eagerly wait for your educational content like these because I learn so much. Love you so much . ❤️✨ Please never stop feeding us high value content. ✨🥰❤️

[@kaitlynnsherwood4994]

these days i've been dancing a lot more, by myself or even at work just doing a silly little bop and you made me realize that it has opened up my energy with people, and people enjoy being in my presence when i'm giving off that open, fun energy. i used to avoid dancing like the plague and i'm realizing now that it came from a place of deep insecurity & old friends have genuinely told me that at first they were SCARED to approach me back when i was in that low place. this energy of acceptance and joy and love makes me overwhelmed with the desire to just sing and dance and when i express myself that way especially around my man, he tells me how lovely i am and it makes him feel good too. lol went off a little but the point about dancing is so relevant to me right now and i really appreciate that you mentioned it!

[@srujanayerramsetty8791]

girlll youre always so real with us frr, romanticizing life is honestly the answer to all my overthinking🎉

[@VickitaTrivedi]

Literally the cheat code queen

[@wittykitti]

I'm clapping so hard for myself because I just started working on being more soft and feminine this year nd I've been practising so many of these things and I'm super proud.

[@nadiams239]

Your posts have encouraged and helped me to dig deeper into my dark feminine energy. Thank you Vickita

[@VickitaTrivedi]

You are so welcome

[@AnBS3]

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[@INDIGO_BABY-xj5de]

Young ladies, be so CAREFUL with Coleen Hoover. things okay in novels are not okay in real life.

[@joimonae4090]

that should be common sense ................if you can't tell the difference you might need some help

[@Nash_Aurora]

People love colleen hoover 😑

[@INDIGO_BABY-xj5de]

@@joimonae4090 Hence why I said YOUNG ladies. Children are very impressionable and given that the pre-teen faze is fading out and kids are barreling toward adulthood, it is very necessary to add. It is not common sense. I say this because if you grew up in an unhealthy home life or are rapidly absorbing things regardless of safety, like young people tend to do, you need the warning.

[@INDIGO_BABY-xj5de]

@@Nash_Aurora And many hate her. For good reason, at times.

[@Nash_Aurora]

@@INDIGO_BABY-xj5de I don't like her 😭😭. Her writing is sometimes so creepy

[@kelliesuepetersartist6263]

Love this one!!! Especially 12 - I’ve been so drained lately so this protecting my energy for me and the things I want to do is a big deal. And, 13 - I love fresh flowers!! Thank you 🩷

[@Geee-wn6dx]

Your hair looks BOMB. ❤

[@juliestulberg3339]

I was going to say the same❤

[@katherinezolotykh8288]

Solo dating is one of the best things in my life 😌 For example now I am going to the seaside to have dinner that I’ve cooked at home + drinking coconut 🥥 I am so happy that I found you and my energy resonates with yours 😍

[@onelove33333]

I’m so glad flower arranging is on this list! It’s something I’ve recently got into and it’s become one of my favourite hobbies🌸💖

[@lilita205]

Your videos about feminine energy are just GOLD 👑 I have learned so many things from you, thank you vickita 🙏❤️

[@shawntelchinn84]

Girl I gave this a thumbs up before I even watched it because I already know this video is about to be giving everything!!🥰🥰🥰 Truly your content has helped me in so many ways and is always right on time! Gurlllllll yasssss!!! Thank you!!!❤

[@angelica-k3o]

I love how original this is… I’ve watched so many videos like this and I’ve never seen anything like this!!

[@char6081]

yes she does her research!!

[@magorzatagajlusz9170]

I totally love the idea of 'get to' instead of should.

[@bizwomenbuildingwomen1592]

Love this! I too am tapping into my feminine energy… Smiling is definitely a magnet.

[@missytisk]

Haven’t finished yet but had to come and say the two fingers hand gesture. Game changer! 👏🏾 i just did it in the mirror and my over animated self is like who dat haha. Thanks for sharing ! ❤

[@purvipanwala395]

I usually smile a lot because it creates a welcoming environment, but how do you do this without coming off unintelligent or smile at strangers without having them think you’re hitting on them?

[@kakowalczyk8119]

This trick with hands- perfect! I needed this!!

[@samurai9559]

#12 is hands down the most important & potent. Do what you need with your energy 1st, then you can start handing it out to others. I just wanted to let you know, I've been really enjoying your videos. I don't normally watch glow up videos. But your videos have a more down to Earth approach & I appreciate it.

[@wowueewow]

yes to the flower arrangements!! trader joe’s has some cute ones 💓 & strongly agree w the music tip! it sounds strange but one of the things i like to do is play music and feel hot 😂😂& yes to the hand posture thing! and i strongly recommend always having your nails neat! a light clear pink is always flattering for me, and i shape it out to be squoval or what ever angles look best w my hands. it just makes me feel so princess-y lol

[@lavi_arun]

So I understand that ‘Being smart with my energy ‘ .. on issues like on whom to and how much to spend is also a way to embody and expand femininity ❤thanks Nikita Love from India

[@VickitaTrivedi]

It’s vickita, and no worries 😊

[@snowworld1641]

Your makeup is flawless and on point. Would love to see a tutorial or guide. ❤

[@Leanaslife_]

This is the first video I’ve watched on feminine energy that has actually been helpful! Thankyou 🤍

[@Ali-1717]

great reminders. None of these were " new to me" but great reminders of how good I do feel when I do these and I want more of that. It all makes so much sense Thanks Gal ! xx

[@isabellataliamicallef]

Love these!!! My ballet teacher used to tell us to have Barbie hands where the fingers slightly separate… it really does look my graceful!🤍

[@xiezenn]

I really love your contents! You and awwlexis are my favorite youtubers! ❤️❤️❤️

[@luzluna6808]

I'm new to Vickita but I love Awwlexis also❤

[@Alanahg815]

Ive danced and did ballet, jazz and tumbling for years 🥹 stopped and started back up with burlesque dancing best decision i ever made. Makes you so comfortable in your body i dance randomly with no judgment. Dance is great always been my safe space

[@brittanymcbride735]

A lot of great advice for everyone to just live a happier life (male or female). I am a goal oriented person though, and feel a lot of pride when it comes to taking care of my family in all aspects. I wouldn't consider that a masculine trait.

[@kn5715]

I love the jazz skyline music habit. I’m staring it right now.

[@VickitaTrivedi]

It’s so soothing

[@ginnyl7208]

I want to say posture is generally just fantastic for your health!! I have a weak lower back and am specifically weaker on the whole left side of my body. I already look out eith how i sit for my back. Recently, I really hurt my hip/leg and was told its most like due to my posture habits that over time irritated the joints and muscles. Sitting with one leg over the other, leaning on one leg and sleeping with one leg pulled up high etc. I've been trying really hard to watch my posture for both my back, my neck (i tend to do the "turtle neck" thing) and my hips and legs, and have honestly had way less problems and sensitivities!

[@Anavaeevaee]

Vickita you’re so beautiful and your videos have helped me boost my confidence so much! Thank you queen ❤

[@VickitaTrivedi]

Awww thank you ❤️ I’m so happy to hear that

[@PinkBloempje]

I really love your videos, so inspiring and motivating! Please never stop! We need more☺️🙌🏻

[@RavingAgave]

Vickita has given us here absolutely the most useful, accurate, easily applicable advice. I needed this content a few years ago, have watched many videos in this vein, - am now recently married to an innovative, kind, romantic provider. ❤ Thank you, Vickita. Yours is, without doubt, the most direct content us ladies have available! ❤

[@chloeskitchenchronicles8585]

Love the recommendation to read romance novels! I’m actually working on writing one right now

[@VickitaTrivedi]

Ouuu!! That’s so exciting

[@ree8698]

Number 10 actually blew my mind frr

[@kitemodeempire]

☺️ Loving the hand posture cause, girl. 👌🏻

[@VickitaTrivedi]

Me too!!

[@IoanaBucur-q1p]

Hey.imi place la tine faptul ca ai crescut asa de mult....cred ca ai fost ceva si cred ca ai trait multe lucruri.dar ai crescut si pari o persoana foarte hotarata si pe calea cea buna.bravo.hello from Romania

[@Natalia-qu2cf]

I just finished reading Ugly Love, what a coincidence 😊 I enjoy your channel btw. Thank you for the work you’re putting into it😘

[@AnabelParish]

Not my back cracking when you started talking about posture 😂 nice video ❤

[@TalkMusic2Me]

This was such a great info! Im definitely going back to be more mindful about my active energy

[@LadyKLoves1222]

Thanks for another helpful video Vikita! I really love reading romance novels it definitely softens me…I be smiling, sitting real cute like and just beaming light! All of your micro habits are perfect and easily implemented

[@VickitaTrivedi]

I'm so glad! I feel the same way when I read them hehe

[@EnricaM-d2w]

Well done Vickita! I appreciate each and every one of your videos. So inspiring. Love from Italy

[@ineedtounwind999]

I love this video! So informative!! I subscribed!❤

[@VickitaTrivedi]

Thanks for subbing! Glad it was helpful ❤️

[@Citrus1992m]

That hand trick is actually how we are instructed to use our hands in salsa dance-looks the most graceful and keeps those 2 fingers engaged to maintain a connection with the partner. 😊

[@savanahmuses]

Received 💌 Thank you Vickita! You are a sweetheart. So much gratitude for you. I just ordered a couple of romance novels (or they at least have strong romance in the plot) -- anyone want to share their favorites/recommendations? -- the ones that I can say off the top of my head are: - Prodigal Summer by Barbara Kingsolver -The Madonna Secret by Sophie Strand I tend toward non-fiction and poetry, but it feels good to get swept up in a story. Love this idea Vickita. Xoxo.

[@AfuaYmani]

There are different feminine archetypes. The Sage and The Huntress love to set goals and achieve them. Nothing wrong with that.

[@hathorsheathen]

I laughed so hard when you said if your neck is like "this" because my neck WAS scrunched over

[@priyamalhotra5794]

Love the hair ❤😍

[@whoissevara]

It was so helpful, thank you so much🙏🎀🎀🎀❤

[@Nocturnal_Lorena]

I can't help but nod my head aggressively coz everything you share is so relatable! You're the friend & guide all girls need! Thank you! 🌸🤍💕

[@miak.17]

Vickita, your hair looks amazing btw!! 😍💕

[@VickitaTrivedi]

Thank you so much 😀

[@dilove335]

I love this tips thank u girl!!

[@micheller1215]

Make up is on point 👏🏽🔥 thank you for your videos 💛

[@jessicawarn2010]

I was going to comment how beautiful the flowers look in the back! particularly the purple,pink and white ones! How do u get them cheaper? Flowers are a fortune in Australia and the cheap 5 dollar ones are half dead. Also like the point you made about if you aren’t willing to receive from people how do you expect the universe to give. Great video, thanks for making it 🌸

[@n0426]

9:40 Lol you are so cute 🥰 I have been doing this naturally especially when i do my manicure 💅🏻

[@MisisAe]

Doing my manicure now to apply the flowy hand gestures you mentioned 🥰

[@natnaddash1097]

This was great. Thank you. A lot of inspirations ❤

[@saraj2640]

I literally don’t skip your adds just because I can’t thank you enough

[@iheartstar]

Love the video vickita I always learn something new ❤ just not the colleen hoover books it might affect your mental health there are better book recs out there ❤❤

[@VickitaTrivedi]

What’s wrong with them? I’m only 5 or so chapters in!

[@iheartstar]

@@VickitaTrivedi there's physical abuse and mental abuse in their book marketed as romance, stay safe ! I read ugly love as well btw! It also contains !ncest.

[@Centimilli]

You're genius...thanks for all your help gurl!!! ❤

[@RajuFulpagare-l3c]

It's crazy how no one is talking about Women’s Magic Truths on Borlest. This book has secrets that could change everything, but people seem blind to it. Wake up and see for yourself!

[@sihemsissy3695]

It's crazy how I found this comment everywhere

[@Mmhashbrowns]

@@sihemsissy3695yeah it’s the devil

[@-bonitoflakes-4958]

SCAM ALERT🗣️

[@rashmig6927]

Yay first comment 🤩 Vickita, your videos have changed my life for the better 🥳🥳keep shining your light!

[@VickitaTrivedi]

You're the best! ❤️

[@rashmig6927]

Thank youu..also today’s my birthday and I started them with a playlist of your videos only..keep going Vickita! You are changing lives 🥰

[@milomazli]

OMGGG!! I loved the finger-tip as well! Thanks girl!!! (I mean embodied Goddess *wink*)

[@VickitaTrivedi]

It’s LIFE CHANGING! Thanks back embodied goddess 😉

[@alexondrajenkins1096]

i move fast.... sorry 🙂 i USED to move fast lol and talk fast cus my ADHD made me feel like i had to keep up with my thoughts which is like impossible but now if i forgot something i forget it that's just how i am. i lose my focus a lot or if im talking to someone and i trail off on a bunch of different subject then aye that person is just gonna take what they take from that conversation. This is one of multiple things that I will not try to change about myself anymore because I'm confident and my ability to get stuff done and communicate and like you said in another video i took that insecurity and now its my amor. Slowing down definitely changed my whole energy

[@amaiyowa]

I really needed these reminders thank you ❤

[@HereIAm247]

Thank you for this video - came exactly in the moment it was most needed.

[@sarahclarke2103]

This is so good. I love you so much 💕

[@kendallkylie345]

I also recommend you guys to read the book “Feminine Energy: becoming the ultimate dream woman”, it changed my life 💞💓

[@Magick_Medicine]

I loveeeee this video, love your vibe!!

[@Yolo13-r3l]

this helps me a lot! thanks

[@VickitaTrivedi]

Glad to hear it!

[@majo9611]

I always smile at strangers :) I like to acknowledge the people around me.

[@Pakhi-jh4kg]

Mother is mothering ❤️

[@lavi_arun]

Thank u babes❤ Love and hugs to you

[@itsrabeeera2525]

Great content👌🏾✨

[@spiritualhealer222]

Hello favourite KZbinr!!❤ always looking forward to your content and wisdom! 🤩💓

[@angelaz6475]

hair looks so good

[@VickitaTrivedi]

Thanks babe

[@LunaLove.13]

The more videos I watch on feminine energy the more I realize I am naturally feminine. I'm just surrounded by feminine men and have to act masculine.

[@ElizaFabricius]

Agree with all points except the romance novels. So many of those are rather degrading or outright creepy. And you don't need to apologize every time you say 'no.' Just say it confidently and calmly.

[@thecoolintroverttv8381]

The thumbnail👌❤

[@portaljulia]

Those are ballet fingers!!! Thats why is unconsciously related to femininity! My teacher was very specific with our hand postures and it really makes a difference!!

[@TheGeneralGrievous19]

A lot of these should also be embraced by men. Slowing down, better posture, being nice to yourself, allowing kindness, appriciating small things, creating things with hands; at least from time to time. Nothing bad in embracing the feminine energy as a guy.

[@bibimahira]

When ever i am high in anxiety- firts step is to make deep stretches

[@VickitaTrivedi]

Key!

[@omnipropertydevelopmentllc7029]

Thank you for this😊❤

[@coffeeoclock1202]

WE NEED A HAIR TUTORIAL!! 😍

[@virgoreads0909]

Been looking for THOSE kinda playlists. Can anybody share some recommendations? 🥰 Highly appreciated

[@marisca16]

This was so helpful, thank you🎉

[@VickitaTrivedi]

Glad it was helpful!

[@fianavaley4078]

Perfect video ❤

[@AnysNadhilah]

Thank you for this content! I do really need it ;')

[@VickitaTrivedi]

You're so welcome!

[@djw3322]

You didn’t have to say rap music video. Masculine would’ve been more than sufficient. Thank you 💕

[@jadedowdy91]

I have a desire to embrace and embody my femininity more, but my nervous system has a hard time stepping into that. Because it’s really important to me to be taken seriously whenever I step into a room, I want people to look at me as a person who is powerful and competent and capable. However, there is not a whole lot of talk in the culture about what feminine power and influence looks like outside of just how our beauty can seduce people into giving us what we want. But that is a very different thing from people accommodating you because they actually respect you and trust your ability to be competent in certain situations. I don’t want people to look at me with a mindset of “oh what a beautiful woman and oh that’s so cute she thinks she knows stuff. That’s adorable.” 😂 So anyway I said all of that to ask, could you make a video on specific examples of what feminine power and influence looks like? And examples of gaining respect from people using your femininity? Or if you already have one could you give me the title of it so I can find it myself?

[@mpch6298]

Vickita, you live in the UK? Can you make a series of videos on how to implement your advice in the UK? I mean places, events, brands. ,etc.

[@shatakshipandey8014]

I have gotten so many reject modernity, embrace masculinity type of vids😅 , all that went through my mind was how to embrace being feminine😊

[@VickitaTrivedi]

you manifested it ❤

[@ritakadukar5292]

It’s shocking how Women’s Magic Truths on Borlest isn’t being discussed. The book is full of life-changing insights, yet no one seems to notice. Time to break the trance and read it yourself!

[@starsinmyuniverse]

wow this is a great video!!