It's Not Just Us - Our First Date

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Shawn and Katie Links:
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[@phillipwombacher9635]

As toxic and horrible as dating has become in the modern world hearing your guys story is like literally a breath of fresh air

[@localbrew73]

I'm diggin the new Shawn, brother so thrilled to see you so happy.

[@aphysique]

Yeah dude deserves it

[@colearmitage1000]

100% Crazy difference just un his voice and personality! Can't wait to continue to watch him grow so I can possibly see how his treatment will help me also!

[@aphysique]

@@colearmitage1000 his laughter is very contagious since going through his psychedelic experience..I'm so happy he found relief...

[@colearmitage1000]

@@aphysique You part of his Patreon?

[@aphysique]

@@colearmitage1000 no am not

[@ChiloTarot]

I’m so impressed that Shawn wasn’t discouraged by a right hook to the face 😂 Man was not to be deterred.

[@Cas_anova]

For real, I would've never said another word to her. 😂

[@TheGeneral_]

Katie showing up like a professional bowler while Shawn thinks he’s just going on a fun, get to know you type date is hilarious

[@allenuconn]

The takeaway - I’m watching 2 people who genuinely LIKE each other. Not everyone in love truly likes their significant other. So freaking refreshing to hear how this all fell into place for you both. Please add a video that finally covers the 1st kiss! Don’t leave us hanging!

[@VintageAmmoTim]

Agree, I’d like to hear how the “first punch to the face” story ended!

[@Matt_Wilson01]

Too many people in toxic relationships and think it’s normal, those toxic relationships there is no love, if you really care about someone you know when to walk away

[@homealone5087]

How can you not like someone you love?

[@trevorcole6360]

@@homealone5087 absolutely. i love my girl. but some days i dont like the little gremlin. just because you dont like someone in the moment doesnt mean two hours later that wont change. its ok to be mad or upset or not like someone. just dont hold onto it and give space for growth

[@armyofshea7941]

Shawn and Katie, thank you for producing these. Other than the fact I am just straight military, nothing special, my story is eerily the same as yours. Unfortunately my Katie (Shar) just passed away from a Glioblastoma brain tumor. It was the best year of my life, and hearing you two banter about how your love blossomed is so therapeutic.

[@alb639]

Ya know what I think totally sucks? We've gotten to this point, somehow, if you're not SOF you're nothing and I think that's pretty shitty even though I've never served. And then, there is something even worse than that. People act like if you're a Navy SEAL, but you aren't in DEVGRU, you're somehow not that badass. Friggin' media. Both MSM and social media have been the driving force behind this, equally. The less you know, the more inclined you are to think these things and I think it's insulting to the Men and women who wear the uniform. I didn't mean to jump on you specifically, but your words reminded me of something that's been percolating in this tiny brain of mine. I'm sure you were only pointing out that you weren't in an SOF unit. In my book, everybody who joins the military voluntarily and serves with honor has done something special.

[@kevinbem226]

Sorry to hear about your loss

[@zach1972]

Date 1: Shooting Range, Shaun shows up ready to down some targets Date 2: Bowling, Katie shows up reading to down some targets, and Shauns face Love this series!

[@ryansuchodolski68]

I’m almost PISSING MYSELF LAUGHING right now hearing about Shawn getting dotted in the face while he was moving in for the kiss!!!! YOU TWO ARE THE BEST! I really like everything you guys do. Can’t wait til the next one even more now! 😉

[@itstime5390]

I read this comment before I saw it in the video and was still rolling even k owing it was coming. Awesome story.

[@danielsmith8674]

Enjoying your life stories as a couple. Cried earlier listening to Shawn's psychedelic experience and now laughing at your funny moment. Thank you both for everything.

[@208SledHead]

Shaved head looks good on you Shawn. Absolutely love this couple....Katie's adorable and a total rock star.

[@208SledHead]

I vote communication and how long it took to develop that trust in each other. Nothing is more important in a relationship than those two things. Is it easy for ya'll to compromise? Cuz to be honest, you both seem like very strong minded people which obviously isn't a bad thing, but I imagine it can be difficult at times?? Love the hell out of you guys....thanks for opening up the way you have!

[@Dmb596]

Psychedelic episode was your best material for me. Shawn thank you for being so real and unveiling things most people would be afraid to do. You guys are so darn cute together. I always look forward to Sundays because of you guys.

[@Shadewraith0529]

Would love to see more of these, Shawn! Especially in light of your recent excursion into Christianity. I enjoy the informal and real style with Katie.

[@Dgreens]

I love their dynamic. They’re so good for each other. Congratulations Shawn we’re all so happy for you!

[@steveyboy7]

I’m a former first responder and your psychedelic episode helped me by realizing that most of the shit we go through related to anxiety and anger is in our heads and can be beat without meds. The most important takeaway is that I’ve been on acid reflux meds since 9/11 and when you said you didn’t have the need to take meds anymore it blew my mind. I thought my GERD symptoms were strictly related to foods. I now realize it’s mainly psychological. Thank you Sean so much for opening my eyes to this.

[@fowchiiiliedpuppiesdied]

Isn’t that revealing? I noticed this, throughout my life, with regard to my own stomach issues. It’s stress. How we manage our stress.

[@murkstalinskitm5334]

Isn’t the psychedelic substance a medicine in this situation? I’ve used MDMA therapy and I consider it a medicine and that doesn’t make it bad, it was great for me!

[@numbernine3436]

Also your gut controls much of your brain. Gotta get the healthy bacteria in synch or your entire system ( brain included) is thrown for a loop

[@josephllinas2672]

I love seeing Shawn happy man, gives me hope I'll find consistent peace myself.

[@ff1047]

Shawn, let's hear the " Boss you cannot stand " story. Love the way you guys communicate.

[@jasonmiller8477]

Yeah... Can't start out a great "this boss I can't stand" story and leave us hang like that!

[@ZAN-THE-GOAT]

What a wonderful story to add to how they met. I love the back drop of the bush, nestled on the creek. Unsure why I am telling everyone this, but prior to watching I was suffering bad with an anxiety attack/ panic attack from having ptsd & depression. I am calm now and love listening to these two. Would love to go there some day and walk along that creek. Bet it’s a special place.

[@jessiegarcia7894]

Definitely great story..... but would like to hear about the boss you couldn't stand and why

[@redpenguinmining9216]

Immediately, less than a minute in, you can tell by the way she looks at Shawn and trying to contain herself, that's love right there. Shawn staying chill but knows he's loved and she knows he would kill for her.

[@garretdozier9596]

How does she justify the smackdown, while trying to get the seatbelt off? Is she that fast? LOL Honor and respect to you both.

[@diane8036]

I was watching this on the couch with my morning coffee, hubby (20 years together) heard, leaned in and watched too. We were smiling and laughing, remembering our first date/kiss. Good times. Thanks guys.

[@delicious6811]

I loved this!!!!!! God I love this little series you guys do! Chronological order! Btw I wanted to hear the story about your boss at the CIA!!!

[@shootermcmillan]

Awesome! I came to your channel originally for the operator stories and gun stuff....love the evolution, love how cute you two are together, love the direction you are going. What you did in the Navy isn't who you are Shawn...a formative experience for sure and an important part of who you are, and who you are yet to become. I'll be sticking with you guys no matter what direction you go!

[@Rogueaviation]

These vignettes are awesome. They are such a great complement to the normal SRS podcasts/interviews. Thank you for sharing them with us.

[@amwkarate]

As always, great episode! About to be a married military man. Would love to hear the engagement story, the communication journey in marriage, etc. Thank you for sharing with us, cheers!

[@travismullins8230]

I bet it feels so fucking good to not give a shit about what people think and do the content you want to do. Feels more authentic and enjoyable.

[@MichelleAllen206]

The almost first kiss story is freaking hilarious!!! What a great story to tell your kids and grandkids someday.

[@davidkitchen1025]

I like the chronological, but mostly enjoy getting to know you and your amazing wife. She and you are magnificent champions of life.

[@BearIndependent]

These are great segments; thank you for sharing.

[@alanlawz]

love the idea of mixing it up and i am truly enjoying this series, you both look so natural together a really great pairing. thank you both for the window into your life together.

[@MrJasonricker]

My wife and I used to say: " Friends first, lovers later..." You guys seem like great friends!"

[@chiefro7]

The banter about who’s a more effective zombie killer is proof you 2 were meant to be. Lmao Great show, as always.

[@nangaleema]

Wow! Loved seeing this slice of life! Beautiful scenery and two people enjoying their lives and each other. Wonderful!

[@JourneyMan100001]

The last episode on psychedelics was amazing dude. I don’t think I’ve ever listened to a 2 1/2 hour podcast in its entirety but I did with yours. Your ability to articulate things and communicate is impressive. I hope you put out much more of this type of content. I’d probably watch any convo between the two of you and it wouldn’t matter the topic to be honest

[@andym6568]

Love the series guys! I like Katie's idea of switching it up every other episode. You guys always make me smile! Thanks!

[@rambo8999]

Great story guys. Thank you for the laugh and real look in your relationship. I'm glad Shawn was tough enough to not let the punch scare him off. Here's to a long life of many more happy moments and plenty of laughs together.

[@dauntewimbush1939]

These videos are actually really great, and of course Griffin the main man just chillin and being an absolute boss.

[@nubbletv3822]

Katie came into the bowling alley with her full kit on lol. Ready for battle.

[@NobodySVK]

Yeah do as she said 😉 can't wait guys. Was watching this channel since day one.

[@gmelectricllc5868]

Love the personal banter between you guys..reminds me of my own relationship with my wife...Funny, simple, and authentic...have a great week....Can't wait till next weekend

[@Dwightaroundyolips]

You guys are great. Great vibe. Great content. Keep doing what you're doing. It's important to have down to earth people out there posting stuff. It cuts through all the crazy people

[@tracyleblanc5311]

Whatever you decide to talk about will make me happy thank you. Much respect and kindness to you both. Have a great week.

[@oldskolfromthenorth7763]

Good move filming at the creek. This VE has provided some great content. This first date vid in particular. There is no such thing as a perfect first date or engagement. Sometimes things just happen and God works out the rest. God bless you all.

[@truenorthadventures4474]

You seem so much healthier and at peace Shawn. Loving the new content! Your psychedelic experience video was a game changer.

[@DG-jf4op]

The chemistry just ooze’s off the screen bless you guys , do whatever you want these are great! 😂

[@JamesYGGoY]

found the channel recently. Love it. just found these episodes with the two of you. hopefully you guys continued this kind as well. its a good mix of the heavy serious topics with vets with your personal lives. great show. great channel, keep it up!

[@williambassjr.5903]

I can't find a superlative worthy to explain my thoughts on this latest installment of "It's Not Just Us!" You guys are killin' it, and the best aspect of the aforementioned is that you somehow find a way to "One Up" yourselves with an episode as good if not better than the one prior, and that's not easy, nor in your case is it by accident! Major Kudos and Well Done!

[@FireCrow1961]

Damn brother, you hit the lottery with this woman. Really happy for you guys.

[@BreauxSegreto]

- Shawn - it’s been amazing seeing you battle your demons with us. Look at you now, I’m sincerely happy for you bro! 💪 Appreciate your determination to succeed in all you do! This is great to see you chilling with the Mrs! Laughter is definitely contagious 🙏 - I’m with you ... mix it up. ✌️

[@adwlab8038]

Cracking up, vote to mix it up, keep us guessing by referencing things we don’t know about that happened. Stay smooth out there

[@michaelmcelhinney691]

These videos are always hilarious, I don't think it matters what order, or what you guys talk about. They will be fun either way.

[@peterharmon7852]

This is beautiful. Makes me cry honestly.. thought I was making memories with my soulmate the past three years but found out she cheated on me a couple months ago. I’m falling apart. Didn’t know I could hurt this bad. I don’t know how I’m ever going to learn to trust again, I never in a million years thought my person would hurt me like this

[@dowth3]

Such fun! Would love to hear first family meetings ... that's always good for a chuckle!

[@justinhalethesenuts7769]

You can see the change in Shawn. Congrats on your transformation 👏

[@rawfotra926]

Love yalls stories! This old man is living vicariously through yall. Love to hear about the proposal. Yall stay cool and mad love from Texas ;)

[@JOECorsoNova]

Again, another awesome one! 🤛 As far as content for your Sunday chats, I would like anything! You guys are awesome and seem very real, all the best guys, can’t wait for next Sunday!

[@jcijcijci]

My wife and I love watching these every week. Keep up the good work, dudes. For sure let’s hear about your boss at the agency…and yes, keep it chronological! #FukkinHooya

[@Ohiostatebuckeye-ey6my]

Shawn and Mrs. Ryan, I loved this one. Great idea bringing Mrs. Ryan on some of your videos. You both enjoy your weekend. Keep the videos coming, please. 👍

[@proamerica7184]

Shoot from the hip. Keep them coming. Much love to you guys. You guys are so relatable to my wife and I.

[@JadedGLORY2689]

Bro being able to laugh and communicate with your partner is so important in a relationship.

[@pauledwards9493]

There's a vibe i get from you two of late and i'm liking it.

[@drewpaul9812]

First "fight". I remember my wife and I's first fight, super dynamics! And we remember it fondly.

[@JasonWorksAlot]

Wonderful story, glad you both found your soulmates, and are using your experiences to bring joy to the listeners. I like the idea of chronological every other episode!

[@briangarrett5817]

“That’s how I roll” priceless Katie that’s got to be the new Vigilance elite logo LOL !! I lov you guys!

[@maxchristensen256]

Love these new video's ur doing with your wife

[@kwilliams454]

Thank you!

[@maxchristensen256]

@@kwilliams454 ur very welcome hope y'all have a great day

[@ShawnRyanShow]

I'm glad to heat that.

[@maxchristensen256]

@@ShawnRyanShow ur welcome

[@jonathanjuwainat5535]

@@ShawnRyanShow would love to hear that story about that boss you hated

[@TheRealBrandonMartin]

Shawn, thanks for the dating advice, next time I go on a first date it will be the shooting range so I don’t have to talk too much, especially because my anxiety and I’m always so nervous so that would work out perfect👍🏻👍🏻😂

[@rodneyault4297]

It was good to see you and meet your wife! And nice yard 👍 Love the show Shawn. And the guests are GREAT! So this is my first comment ever, so it gives me pride and honor to comment on your show! Keep on Rockin Shawn, oh and Katie too!!!

[@ShawnRyanShow]

Thank you 🙏🏻

[@Austinfromcorncountry]

Loved the video! I'd love to hear more relationship stories like the first time you traveled on vacation together, any funny honeymoon stories, and stuff like that!

[@jasonrad9332]

Still curious about the CIA boss and headphones. Good stuff.

[@HanningCordes]

Hoping you continue this series.. You have eluded to it on recent podcast episodes.. My wife and I are recently married and expecting our first child. Have a lot to relate to and your discussions are definitely something I look forward to hearing more of.

[@DarkStarAlpha1]

Going through the experience you just went through really is a life changing experience and it’s a feeling you never forget and a feeling that you can always refer back to when you have challenges in life

[@MrEricturney]

I must be a big ol simp because these are some of my favorite VE videos! Keep ‘em comin

[@NCshooter1213]

I really enjoy this. Watched with my wife and we had a good laugh. Sounds like some super memorable times yall had

[@kl8455]

She took the "1 in the kisser" to heart. Great story and glad y'all found each other.

[@jorgejunco4907]

Great to hear your guys story. It reminds me of my wife and my first dates.

[@nicholastudor934]

I like the chronological order for sure! Now I want to hear how you recovered from the punch lol. Love these segments regardless what you choose. Welcome to Tennessee!

[@JakeCr]

OH MY GOD! Had me laughing the whole time. Y’all have some great stories!! Whether it’s chronological order or not, keep ‘em comin. Love seeing the way you both interact.

[@LucysMom1]

Shawn & Katie are a riot. I don’t know either of them but I love them together.

[@oso9809]

Holy crap! That first punch was a sign you met a live one.

[@SouthernJaeger]

That’s fucking hysterical. What do y’all think is the biggest mistake people make with relationships these days?

[@tannerslays]

Love to see the laughter and reminiscing of fun times! Looking forward to more videos from you both!

[@ryanwatson2788]

I really miss these videos 😢 I absolutely LOVE the show, the professionalism, the stories and the history but I also LOVE seeing the husband/ dad/ "regular" family guy side of Shawn. Whether you bring these back or not, I wish you two nothing but love and happiness!! God Bless you both! 🙏

[@ElTejon47901]

We need a Worst Date video. My entry: my roomie, Ranger Brad, had a date crawl out the bathroom window and run down the street with her shoes off.

[@Anybodyelse2294]

Creek looks great in the background. It’s not just you, my wife and I laugh about goofy shit we’ve done. Keeps it fun

[@mattharris7648]

absolutely great content, bringing alot of good points to the table talking about the social issues of life giving alot to think about

[@evysteinhart5280]

this is just gold you guys are amazing you could probably talk about any topic its just so real and raw with you its truly amazing. keep it up.

[@JohnDoe-ws5iv]

You two are hilarious!!!😂 you make an awesome pair!!! Keep the awesome stories coming!!!

[@jadonpitts1971]

These are amazing, saw this one and marathoned all of these. If you can you should seriously consider putting more episodes out

[@nobodybugger8180]

How’s the tripod smelling? Nice episode. I enjoy listening to these. A punching bag would have been another good gift to send after a failed first kiss.

[@Delphinus-Keya]

Great show, I would like a chronological-ish order with a bit of a mix up since I usually catch my self watching sever episodes in a row starting from the last time I watch. But it's your show and I'd watch regardless.

[@mjt7135]

You two are great 💯 Love to hear more about how your relationship developed after Shawn got first kiss rejected. She was playing hard to get 🤣

[@johnerwin8755]

The show is awesome and the dog is a star Lolol and the show about the psychedelic is cool and Shawn you seem like you have improved ALOT brother great job

[@fayenwolf]

Me and my wife are from South Florida (Pompano Beach actually lol and we've since moved to North Florida) so hearing you guys name drop Sample Rd and all these spots down there had us laughing in agreement like "yep!" Awesome episode, keep em' coming.

[@ShawnRyanShow]

Haha 😂

[@jeffbrooks7286]

Ha! While you were relating the 1st kiss story about the punch, the KZbin suggested video below yours was a Jonny Depp/Amber Heard news story with the title "I was not punching you, I was hitting you". Perfect timing.

[@col.cottonhill6655]

I enjoy new parenthood stories. But the dating ones are very entertaining too. You guys seem like such a cool couple.

[@nicholassoper3211]

You two are so organic… love it.

[@sidwilson3151]

Shawn and Katie,,,Great Show..Many Thanx to the Ryans

[@heritage106]

You can do either or. In order or whatever pops in your minds. Context is all you need. You two are great.

[@andreasgrunewald929]

Why do I love Griffin so much?

[@VintageAmmoTim]

I like the idea of both…of coming back to a “story line” ie. chronological type story, every other week or so.