It's Not Just Us - Preparing for a Baby

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Shawn and Katie Links:
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- / katiejeanwilliams

[@robsdeviceunknown]

What I love the most is seeing Shawn laugh. He deserves it. I know what he has been through most his adult life to date, now that most of it is behind him (for the time being) I like seeing him come into himself as a father and a husband.

[@michellesalazar6448]

Yeah you’re right but his wife’s laugh is pretty infectious. Adorable and inspiring couple.

[@Brian-xn3be]

Godspeed

[@maggiewollenweber6003]

It's so apparent, how Katie looks at Shawn with a level of pure, and honest love, that few humans ever get to experience. Vigilance Elite is a very fortunate family. God Bless!

[@thejackrabbithole-5311]

Roger that.

[@downwitakrowdy]

These talks are what is missing in real life. This is such a unique platform that you don't see on social media. Very refreshing!!!

[@firmbeliever3847]

Children are a blessing.

[@sooper109]

BEST quote: "Shit's gonna happen, whether you like it or not. It's going to pass, and everything's going to be okay." Wise words to live by! Thanks for letting us be a part of your conversations. Love it!

[@marshahinson2360]

Mama said, This too shall pass. Love the planning. 🤣

[@kimfarley6198]

Set your standards at home, teach him integrity, that everyone poops, pees and body will lay in same size hole when soul needs it no more ❤

[@RobinRobertsesq]

It's endearing to see how your wife's energy bounces off, echoes and reinforces your stoic exterior. Love you both.

[@run_N_DoubleB_gun_N]

Quickly becoming one of my favorite YT Channels. Shawn is a great interviewer, and he has some of the most interesting guests on with such diverse backgrounds. I respect Shawn's Navy Seal service and how well this channel stands up without leaning too much on that background. Keep doing what your doing! It's working!

[@RollieFingers59]

First of all, love the spot there with the creek in the background. A little while back we had a 3 year old son and thought “hey, he really needs a brother or sister” - whelp, we got twins. There was no preparing for that. Today oldest boy is a firefighter/medic protecting those who served in the Veterans Administration Fire Department, twin #1 is active duty Marine Corps and twin #2 is studying early childhood/ special education. It was a 3 ring circus that was non stop but the most amazing thing we ever accomplished. Cheers to you both

[@robsdeviceunknown]

That's awesome man. I attribute a child's success to their rasing. You raised good kids, you and your wife/husband deserve credit also.

[@RollieFingers59]

@@robsdeviceunknown I appreciate that, I grew up without a Dad and there was a whole lot of luck and flying by the seat of our pants !!!!

[@bradypierron8736]

Man I bet you’ve got some sage wisdom. I’m a daddy of a 2-1/2 ur old daughter and 4 mo. old son. Being a daddy has been my life’s dream and I’m now living it. I’d be wide open to your top 5 pieces of parenting advice.

[@pittsky]

This video put a huge smile on my face. It's obvious you two are meant for each other. Your baby won the family lottery.

[@GunnysWrenches]

I’ve been listening to this show for a few years as I work in my shop or turning laps in the tractor on the ranch, and just now finding this series “It’s not just us” - down to earth, candid stories of husband & wife becoming young parents, makes me smile reflecting back on my wife & I’s own experiences raising 4boys amidst all the deployments with both of us being active duty. Definitely some trying times, but running that gauntlet made us closer. Y’all are a great team and genuinely happy for ya. 👏

[@TheWaterbouy88]

Here this fearless "special operator" is scared of a "baby". You have brass balls and I am glad you used them. Being a Dad will be greatest adventure you will have in your life.

[@mikehoncho806]

The behind the scenes talks are so awesome, like filming in your attic etc, i always thought y’all had a separate building on your property for it. A day in the life video blog would be cool as well. The day to day with you guys is awesome. Who cooks, who doesn’t, how do you guys split up day to day chores.

[@KImBurk1207]

Katie has the most infectious laugh!!! Yall are the cutest couple!!!

[@kwilliams454]

Thank you ☺️

[@FR-sr9sy]

Sober almost 19 years. Best choice ever. You guys are awesome. Funny how you guys are growing this all out there. Good to know everything isn’t perfect.

[@jolier1313]

Shawn's resume: retired Navy SEAL and CIA operative, firearms trainer, and KZbin podcaster. Shawn: It's missing something.. Shawn: ...and "relationship coach"

[@benjamincrom7276]

Love the candid honesty. Beautiful setting.

[@ryanbuckley5529]

The First time I watch your wedding video I was tearing up pretty good. The way you both look into each other’s eyes is true love. You both are so beautiful together. I love seeing you happy Shawn, seeing you smile really hits me🙏🏼 Much love and Respect guys🇺🇸

[@synettastone505]

Love this couple🤗❤️

[@connor4010]

Must say shawn to hear a person of ur caliber talk about sobriety helps me more than u can ever know keep it up man one day at a time were not alone..

[@sonnyjs15]

Ditto. That's the main problem with me and most of my Marine buddies. Keeping personal issues to yourself. Meth, coke, alcohol, pills...mine is pot but I'm content with that. Like a snickers commercial. But watching others admit makes it WAY easier to address.

[@AwakenedOne447]

One problem with AA- it had the blessings of Rockefeller’s!! It does help, but it truly takes the focus off of how powerful we actually are!! It truly is a cult and I mean no disrespect. Stop counting time! Best thing I ever did! For me.

[@ericheick7044]

@@AwakenedOne447 I also stopped counting

[@AwakenedOne447]

@@ericheick7044 that’s great Eric! I’m not saying AA doesn’t work, but once a person has the basics on how to live, we truly do have the power. Truth is, we are far more powerful than we have ever been taught or told. Once I learned Rockefeller gave it his blessing, I researched. They want us always to look externally. The true power is within. 🥰🙌🏼🙌🏼

[@ericheick7044]

@@AwakenedOne447 I left AA years ago and haven't had any issues. I learned a lot going through the steps tho. But with the tools and support system I have now I don't really need it

[@docwy8763]

You to are awesome. Be proud of who you are and have gratitude for all. My wife and 3 kids watch you 2 and just love your show. After 30 yrs of marriage we look back and have the same thoughts as you to have. Your doing awesome and no matter what keep your love first. Some of the happiest times we have had when we were broke and having kids. There is something about struggling and making it just is a awesome feeling. Keep it real and God bless

[@jasonmartinez2434]

I am literally HOOKED on all of your interviews/podcasts and enjoy the down to earth conversations between you and your wife. Congrats on everything so far and whenever your ready to sell any of that land behind you, let me know 😎 lol

[@geist453]

stop simping loseer

[@judemarshall6494]

@@geist453 calm down

[@Matt_Wilson01]

@@geist453 there’s absolutely zero reason to be a dick, be a better person bro, I struggled with that same shit and once I realised it was a “me” issue I have done everything I can to be a better person, people with good lives that are happy don’t feel the need to lash out like that, I don’t know how old you are but that comment makes you seem like a twelve year old, is that what you really want to put out into the world, something to think about, have a nice day 👍🏻

[@Theophilus1968]

You have to respect a woman who knows what she wants. As far as ideas go, I really enjoyed watching you working on your farm. How are your animals doing? Good to see you being a “family man.” What else is there?

[@jasyski01930]

I would definitely like to hear your journey to sobriety. I myself am sober, and I get a lot from hearing other peoples stories. Thanks for all you guys do.

[@kwilliams454]

We are going to definitely do this topic. Congratulations on your sobriety!

[@mattpahl1281]

I would also like to hear your journey to sobriety. I have been a struggling alcoholic for 20+ years because of terrible anxiety and would love to hear your stories. By the way I really appreciate all the videos and upvote them even if I don't have time to watch them completely. I work terribly long hours. God bless you and your family

[@maxcullen3427]

Yes Indeedy great story showing how levelled u are now

[@steph7960]

@@mattpahl1281 Wishing you all the best and sending so many prayers and love in helping with your sobriety friend.🤗🙏

[@collins5038]

You could have come to North Florida or the Panhandle. Florida is not just Boca and the east coast. 😊

[@hossv1147]

So cool. I believe I may have been the one who asked the "Who, what, when, where, how and why" when y'all found out y'all we're expecting. Too cool. Loved this vid as all I've seen here. Too damn awesome hearing all y'all had going on and pushing forward. Nothing more of an overwhelming feeling than seeing your child that was created with soooo much love. Well done you two. Loved this one!!!!

[@cayminlast]

Love hearing your stories, both of you look so relaxed and comfortable sitting there in the woods. Becoming parents is a huge step in the journey, nothing can prepare you for such a big change. Our little city in Florida has been a seasonal refuge in the past but it's become overcrowded with snowbirds.

[@ryanpatrickwhite97]

God bless you and your family. Stay sober, stay VIGILANT.

[@audracrocker5308]

That would be an awesome t-shirt. Stay sober and VIGILANT!

[@jswain1156]

Wife and I are enjoying this series. Have coffee on the porch and listen to each new episode. We have a 2 month (our first) and we relate to all of these

[@bleulesyeux5416]

Same. I have a two month old as well. Congrats!

[@littleroo340]

I left Nashville in 97 and moved North of Knoxville about 30 miles. It’s freaking awesome here. NO DAMN WAY I’d ever move back to middle Tennessee. Just move to East Tennessee

[@user-vj9ch7ei2f]

I love the background soo beautiful

[@04nhouck]

Six in a row!!! Keep em coming!

[@deeznutz-1776]

May GOD bless you two and your family.

[@ShawnRyanShow]

Same to you!

[@dtrkd1256]

Love these videos! Waiting until you’re ready to have kids is an awesome way to go; that’s exactly what my husband & I did. We knew we were ready when we were and prayed and prayed over having our first baby (and second). Wouldn’t have changed a thing. Our oldest is now a senior in high school and we’re so blessed! Blessings to you and your precious family! Thank you both for your authenticity and willingness to share your lives with the world; you are both encouraging countless people!

[@sonnyjs15]

Hilliard, FL. is a perfect place for you guys. DeSantisville. No masks, no crime, guns, God, and AMAZING schools.

[@steveprobono4050]

You guys are awesome! Thank you for everything you’ve done. And I do mean everything Sean, especially for yourself, you deserve it brethren. You too Katie, you’ve helped preserved one of this country’s national treasures, the folks who have went down range for us all

[@aaronstanley35]

Thanks guys for sharing this for free. Shawn, sir, you have helped me a lot. I'm 42 a single father served as much as I could and you have helped pick me up out of very dark place. I still have demons I have to vanquish but you pointed me in right direction. And hearing your wife talk about your relationship and knowing there is still love out there helps too. Thank you for your service then and now. It means just as much now. You are saving lives. Mine is one

[@justinmills8084]

When you put things in proper order, God will bless you. Your wife is an amazing woman.

[@Bonecrusher-ht1mh]

What I like the most about this talks is that it's pure and natural. Best wishes for your family.

[@manny1470]

I'm loving this shit. You guys are great.

[@pisom4314]

thanks for sharing with us!! Shawn you are a very lucky guy to have let Katie find you!!! i love hearing your struggles/life lessons of having a better half plus a child!!!

[@DavidM-lj5yv]

Every time I watch you two together it makes me so happy for the both of you. Can tell the way you interact you are made for each other and so supportive.

[@EffnShaShinko]

Honestly I'll listen to y'all talk about nearly anything. It's always engaging and love the vibes.

[@delicious6811]

This is the best one yet! I love watching you guys just talk and laugh together. It feels so genuine

[@kellyreece5600]

Howdy love the outdoors vibe! I LOVE windchimes... so relaxing.

[@erikjpendleton]

Whats up Shawn! East Tennessee here, born and raised! Thanks for all the vids! Keepem coming and God bless you and your family!

[@johnpetry2541]

Great to see such open and honest communication between you guys. And it's fun to hear all the common "denominators" we all have in building our marriages. We married in '76, and are still married--and still madly in love. We decided to wait to have our first bambino until we were sure our foundation was solid. I was a new LEO in '76, and I knew then that the divorce rate was high for LEOs. I was working swing and only making 9k a year, so waiting was almost a necessity. We had our first after 7 years! So, we did establish that solid foundation, and got all the fun and money stuff out of the way so we could focus on raising a family. Ended up with three daughters, had several careers after retiring as an LEO, and both of us are now retired. Love seeing you guys working through the issues and building that solid foundation. It'll pay huge dividends when life inevitably smacks the livin' crap out of y'all. No couple escapes that. BTW--We're looking to move to TN but are delayed due to the virus and outrageous home prices. Really looking forward to the next vid.......

[@MrKmichaelw]

These two are absolutely lovable!!!

[@nathanharrison3566]

You to are a dynamic duo ! Keep it up it’s nice to see the real side of people.

[@glockguy4127]

Wonderful life. Bringing the truth of your lives out gives others a reason to reflect and find strength. Best to you and yours.

[@johnniewasr5740]

I really enjoy listening to you two talking about life. I hope you keep doing these videos.

[@jenatyree8244]

Fabulous show!!! I really enjoy these weekly episodes ….so cool how the perfect timing of your son’s arrival unfolded! 👊 🙏😎

[@averageeverydayfishermansh4501]

Love these little inside looks at the realities of ya'll's life. Reality is fun!

[@Rushshooting67913]

Favorite show on KZbin. Good to see how your life has evolved and is turning out. Love the real conversations. Keep up the good work.

[@kwilliams454]

Thank you!

[@krystalriley10]

I love seeing this side of you with your family shawn! Great video

[@janicebosnjak3351]

Love your talks. When you instill your beliefs in your son, and he lives by your example,everything will be ok. God bless 🙏

[@adamwillis1199]

Good stuff you guys. Glad y’all got your business how you wanted it and structured perfectly for your needs. That’s awesome

[@suekichi2846]

These are great! Love the candor and realness to these conversations.

[@FlyEaglesFly19111]

Wow Saturday was crazy with the snow, sleet, rain. Driving down i was surprised. Glad it will be warmer this week. Great story! Stay safe and be well.

[@NiRaSis]

Sounds like a blessing, you were finished with your work, had some time to relax and then here comes the baby. May not of been what you had in mind but sounds like perfect timing so you could enjoy the moment. God def has a sense of humor.

[@itstime5390]

Shawn you are one of many but you do what you do the best. I watched a pod last night. Followed up with this today. Bravo sir. Much respect.

[@jayolson578]

You two are amazing and your content is for everyone which is amazing. You both were made for each other. Keep killing it.

[@cindybilyeu9296]

Oh my god...I laughed so hard when you were talking about waiting before having a baby! Great job guys! You two are a blessing!

[@ml082]

My wife's biological clock ticked so loudly they would search her at airports. 😜 Love this format guys, keep them coming 👍

[@kwilliams454]

😂😂

[@SouthernJaeger]

Another great show. Thanks for sharing your lives with us. Y’all are the most humble and honest people on KZbin.

[@PaulGarrisonIV]

This is such a great addition to the channel. Each week gets better and better.

[@Jaycren86]

The chemistry between the two of you is infectious. Thanks for Sharing.

[@craigdoucette1929]

I have enjoyed watching your entire process of putting your business together. From the filler content to the merch, I have enjoyed it all. Best of luck with whatever comes next. Congratulations.

[@CBaller2020]

Shawn and Katie, you guy's are the coolest couple I've seen on KZbin. Down-to-earth, able to give each other shit, and totally honest! You're never truly ready for a baby, but once they are here, and you start to see all the milestones, especially the first smile, it doesn't get any better than that. Congrats and here's to a few million subscriber's and Patreon member's! 🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳

[@kwilliams454]

Thank you so much! We appreciate your support

[@Alpiine]

These videos are my favorite!! Keep up the amazing content, appreciate yall!!

[@Jester_-jp2nu]

I have been watching your podcast for a long time now (even though KZbin doesn't like to let me know about new videos and even unsubscribed me at one point), and I just recently discovered these "behind the scenes" videos of you and Katie talking about life events. You both seem to be really great people, and I am glad you found each other thorough all the chaos that is life. The comment that Shawn made about shit happening whether you like it or not reminds me of a quote that I once read. I'm paraphrasing here, but it was something to the effect that "Life is what happens around all the plans that you make". Keep on making great content and thank you both for sharing your lives with us.

[@davesharp5507]

Man, I just started watching your content again and I love what you guys are doing with the two of you sharing stories. Really heartwarming stuff ❤

[@RandolphJames1033]

Very happy for y'all. My wife and I are on yr. 14, I love her more every single day , we are blessed

[@rogergill4074]

You guys are a bundle of joy!

[@zlm2032]

Can’t wait to hear Mother & Father of the year moments. It’s definitely a learning process. Keep up the good work. 👍🏻💪🏻🇺🇸

[@benjamincrom7276]

Your channel has definitely been throttled. Long time subscriber and I didn't receive notifications from your channel for quite a while. Yes subbed, yes clicked the bell etc. Don't sub many channels so it was really clear the algorithm was affecting your channel. Just started receiving notifications again over the last few weeks starting with the Mexican migrant videos. Keep up the great content. Seeing ya'll laughing and sharing such personal honesty is awesome.

[@AnarchNova]

You guys are awesome! Wish the best for you two no matter what you do

[@yerenymerino]

You guys are just to good together and hilarious 😂 God Bless you guys and God Bless the little warrior

[@danielxpification]

So much respect and adoration between these two. Warms my heart

[@timr3191]

Love u guys !! God Bless , The old Shawn Ryan , never smiled or Really laughed… Katy has been heavenly sent !! Sean Your Guardian ANGEL has been working overtime lol … Soooo Good to see you happy !!!! See ppl , Good things happen to Good ppl still..

[@Annthole66]

What a total doll you married Shawn. It is so great to see so many awesome women being loved by good men.

[@JohnnyBlaze5680]

after watching Shawn’s videos for years now, it’s so satisfying to see him and his (now wife) talk about their lives and bringing Sonny into the world together. he seems happy and more relaxed, more in control of what appeared to be a crippling mind state (and understandably so). congrads to you both for finding each other. please keep these video going.

[@kwilliams454]

Thank you!

[@MickyDee67]

Love all your content guys, haven't watched all the vids yet but I'm getting there. These weekly sessions however seem to be growing on me , WTF with all the great guests you have on which I cannot get away from I can't wait for these personal weekly Not Just Us vids. Hope Sonny is well, lots of best wishes.

[@elizabethwilson2277]

You guys are so fit for each other. So glad to see how much you all fit together. Thanks for sharing. ❤

[@BraiytryeneGibbons]

So chill just listening to y'all. You're both so chill.

[@xvsj-s2x]

Shawn & Katie, love your channel including content. Thank you for sharing, have a wonderful weekend 🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸

[@LisaVincent-xf2wt]

So happy everything turned around, and you worked very hard on your sobriety! I love seeing your journey with all the people you interview and I’ve seen such a different side of you as each segment is recorded! You’re on your search and people helping you on your search, Sean! And I love that the two of you met and you started a beautiful family! And I love the story about the two of you going out to Arizona! That was the point I started watching you even more that story brought me to tears and I just loved it! You had me at that story the both of you told. I followed you ever since! I love the honesty. I love the truth and I love the laughter and the tears everything to go with it. The journey is just amazing thank you for all that you have done to Sean! Keep searching and keep praying never give up! We’re all praying for you! I would love to do some thing with you and my nonprofit Parabellum provisions! Just created this year! Si Vis Pacem, Parabellum! I’ve started my own collection of farms as well lol it’s so much fun to get together with my brothers and sisters and arms and have such fun at the range! Would love to train with you guys!

[@inhale.exhale.2527]

ex sf from the rhodesian "bush war" ... know about that? you are so fortunate to have such a monster country beneath your feet to have found life balance and such a keeper so quickly. for me, 4 decades later, i'm still fubar, down 2 marriages, rolling solo like an old school ship's compass and essentially stateless ... man! america, this is an sos for a hot extract before i shuffle into the silent leaf mould our conditioning favours best. 🙏

[@Buttercup624]

To be continued 😁 these vids are fun and so refreshing!! Thank you 💞

[@taylortevebaugh5146]

Thank you so much for your service sir. I wish you and your family nothing but happiness!

[@lovingmymamalighter102]

These videos are ur meal ticket to me, cause i could watch these everyday!! U guys are awesome together, Sonny is a very lucky little boy.

[@redpilled420]

Yall are good parents, love all your shows, thanks

[@WireleesWorld]

Yeps. I love you two!!! ❤🙏❤

[@jgs3725]

Shawn you're a lucky dude man, finding a great companion like your lovely wife, you might not realise how lucky you are dude seriously, it's really hard to find someone genuine these days.

[@debrabrow6379]

You guys are great! Keep the content coming

[@sidewaygoons7363]

These are awesome, keep them coming!!

[@tylertibbetts207]

12:08 mins in…Katie asks a fabulous question! I love these! Shawn, admits he wouldn’t change a thing, that’s the power of Katie’s question! Great episode guys!

[@kwilliams454]

Thank you!!

[@lucashoxie8295]

You guys are awesome! I enjoy the conversations with you and your better half! Thanks

[@LisaVincent-xf2wt]

I absolutely loved how you guys met!! “Tater tots” lmao! I’m an NRA instructor and RSO so I meet people the range all the time so I can definitely relate. This was hilarious ! I’m right there with you because I don’t share either unless i really care about the person. I even started Parabellum provisions because of it, and the men that I’ve met have been absolutely wonderful as part of our team! Everything happens for a reason! God is good!

[@blech71]

I love these two! What an awesome series. I’m so surprised I never saw these. Been a fan for along time.

[@kevinkirk1769]

I've just recently found this couple and their story on KZbin and already feel like they're part of my family. God bless this family with a full life of love. Thanks to y'all for enriching my life by sharing your. 🙏💪

[@carson2646]

I enjoy this type of video more than the 4 hour guest interviews. Its nice to see Shawn relaxed and the two of you just enjoying the conversation and the time together. I would guess its also much easier content to make and you guys seem to be getting good views from these.. I like the 20-25 minute range

[@votp4448]

I love how the baby monitor is pointing towards momma bear!!! Love you guys!!!

[@kwilliams454]

Always! 🐻