Virgin Bride Says No To The Dress And Maybe To Her Wedding! | Say Yes To The Dress Atlanta

[@EmpressEmbeth]

"You do look pure as the driven snow in this dress." "I think just BEING pure as the driven snow is enough for me." YOU TELL 'EM DANIELLE

[@alymetz2020]

That’s me af 💖 I loved that part

[@x3no841]

Arreyn Grey Fr I was like PERIODT

[@CaliWeHo]

🤣🤣🤣

[@SilkyCayla]

English is not my first language so please help me understand, how is "driven snow" pure? Un-driven i get but...the other way around makes no sense to me.

[@alymetz2020]

SilkyCayla it is just a saying. It’s more like “pure as white snow” because it’s not “tainted” with dirt, etc. not that if you’re not a virgin youre “tainted”

[@lyniebrown2575]

Did they really have to mention that she’s virgin? That’s private info

[@sarahrodriguez6491]

@@allykulhmann508 but still why the hell did the had to put she was virgin in the tittle no one cares about that and its privet information like

[@marjorieeubanks5611]

they wouldnt have known if she didnt want to share... she made the choice to make it public info

[@NA-cy9mq]

Well she said it so...

[@Misdrex]

The girl was broadcasting that she was a virgin. She said it a couple times lol

[@merissa222]

@@allykulhmann508 my lord calm down I think she's already "grown up" dumbass

[@JackSparrow-ii5gt]

why tf did they have to put virgin in the title? and who tells their bridal consultant that theyre a virgin? boundaries people

[@kdragon713]

Right

[@GeminiEmpress]

I agree

[@maggielouis4554]

Ratings 🤷🏽‍♀️ and it probably draws an audience. I'm just a fan of the show in general

[@marlajean1715]

Yeah

[@mysteryme8997]

Yay, they cud've said 'innocent' rather.

[@shighbenable]

For anyone who needs to hear this, your virginity is not your value. A woman’s worth is not tied to whether she’s had sex or not. Before or after marriage. If you wait that is cool, that means you are comfortable with that choice. If you don’t that is cool, that means you were comfortable with that choice. Sex should not denote value on anyone. If you’re the Virgin Mary cool , if you’re a sex worker, cool. You all have value and worth and respect. Some of you need to learn to actually practice the scripture and love of god you’re spouting off 🤘🏼✌🏼👍🏻

[@bryony.m]

Lets_WrapItUp no..no it’s not..some people don’t meen to also some people don’t want to get married and take there husbands name so..

[@erinlee5336]

@@lets_wrapitup It’s not.

[@koralinajohnes2906]

@@lets_wrapitup No❤︎

[@theredheart1473]

@@lets_wrapitup it’s not sinful ;-;

[@resiv6647]

On the flip side, for anyone who needs to hear this: Just because you decide you won't have sex until marriage, it does not make you less worthy of love or a loving partner. There are good people out there who are okay with waiting with you.

[@TheGreatWerebear]

Being a virgin when you get married might not be the norm in recent years, but it still isn't that weird . . . why is the episode making a big deal about this?

[@antheathetiefling8581]

Drama

[@sharminsumi7345]

Exactly. In my world not being a virgin matters.

[@annm861]

Because it’s a lot more out of the norm than you think. I know ONE person who is waiting until they get married to have sex. All my other friends lost their virginity in either high school or college or if they are still virgins it’s because they’ve never had a boyfriend.

[@tinydancer7426]

Click bait. Whaddya think?!

[@cassie-cm]

Right

[@sleeplesssongbird7625]

I'm sorry to the Nana, but the first dress, the dress the bride picked and was *genuinely* excited to try on? That showed no less cleavage than the shirt she (the bride) walked into the store wearing. Her mother's reaction was irritating. She may not like lace, but it's her daughter's choice and preference. Hopefully she can sort out what it is she wants for herself.

[@xnaturalbarbie9501]

That first dress was gorgeous. She was absolutely beautiful.

[@redlupo6193]

That first gown was exquisite.

[@jessicavictoriacarrillo7254]

Who thinks that maybe she is getting married because she thinks it will get her away from them?

[@ractastic._432]

Jessica Victoria Carrillo I feel the same way

[@peepeepoopoo4755]

She actually ended up getting a quite pretty dress, she and her husband are still together and have a child now :)

[@CantonGirl1981]

This is why I won’t need anyone’s opinion if I ever get married.

[@xx___Bunny___xx]

It's good to have people that love you around to give honest but nice opinions. When I get married I just plan to have my mom and maybe some friends. Gotta have people that are nice but honest

[@icecranberry2148]

I hate shopping just for clothes when someone's around, I can't imagine picking out a dress! So I'm sure no one will be there, not even my mom who I have a great relationship with otherwise.

[@aashnipahwa8354]

Forever MOOD💕

[@thefunnyfamily6979]

Exactly

[@nicoleroth3127]

Where I'm from, they don't make such a show from picking your wedding dress. Most brides take one person, two at most, some none at all. Those massive entourages are pretty much unheard of and I, quite frankly, think they are ridiculous and annoying. But that's me, so you do you. I sure did when I got married and still think it was both the perfect dress as well as reception for both my hubby and I.

[@aliceslade2556]

"Just being pure as the driven snow is good enough for me. I'm not sure I have to look like it." I love that. What you wear can be as simple as what you think is pretty, it doesn't have to be a declaration of the type of person you are.

[@iona6286]

I love that you noted this 👍🏿👍🏿👌🏿

[@cherylwebb8340]

Modesty matters

[@aliceslade2556]

@@cherylwebb8340 no it really doesn't, that idea is as outdated as your name, which I'm sure is why you think it.

[@B.H.56]

"But the dress has to be WHITE so everyone KNOWS I am pure."

[@Anna-gi7kp]

Me as a nine year old: 20 is so mature! I need to be married before I’m 25 because that’s super old 🤧 Me now, approaching 20 in a few weeks: I AM STILL A CHILD. YOU ARE STILL A CHILD. HOW ARE PEOPLE GETTING MARRIED AT THIS AGE!?!?!?

[@emmaspara4311]

Me too lol someone from my work is our age and is having her first baby. She's amazing I could not imagine being responsible for another human being when I can't even manage to feed myself a proper meal

[@LaKiltra]

You'll feel the same even getting close to 30s lol

[@helensanderson7092]

That's what I think. 80% of the brides are 20 to 22

[@makaylamason4378]

I FEEL THIS ON A PERSONAL LEVEL

[@sarajane5306]

I'm 40 and still can't imagine being grown up enough to get married haha

[@giovana4419]

CHANGE THE TITLE!!! you can see she was already uncomfortable with saying it and you put it on the freaking title??? wtf edit: one of my problems with some of the titles and videos is thats it doesn’t really have to be approved nowadays. they can play dirty and manipulate a lot of things. I have talked with two woman who have been on the show and didn’t even get the dresses because they didn’t really like but the show MADE them act like they did. so yeah i don’t think its too crazy to supposed that the title was not approved.

[@ericalynn6974]

EXACTLY

[@KajS94]

Kathleen Henson because we live to please the Karen’s young and old.

[@thegnome8550]

Its a SHOW

[@boop8885]

She's the one who opened her mouth.

[@Ryuk-wz7ct]

@Kathleen Henson smh 😑😑😑

[@richelleegolf2801]

She is actually my cousin and an amazing person! They have 2 amazing kids and are the perfect couple!

[@anniek3866]

Great to hear! Definitely felt bad for how nervous she seemed with the whole environment I'm sure all the cameras and scripts don't help

[@catladyfromky4142]

That is great! What kind of dress did she eventually wear? Did she get this one?

[@LadieBunny]

Can you verify if this was scripted?

[@healingandhappy9262]

She is Beautiful and seems just as beautiful inside! Happy to hear that

[@gailpopehn9221]

So happy for them

[@noxriven9426]

95% of wedding dresses: are white Consultant: but WHY do you want a white dress so bad 👀👀👀???

[@originalritny]

Some dress arent a true white. And by white she means WHITE. Some wedding dresses slightly off toned or have a dusty rose color or have gems that are different colors and accents.

[@dot4562]

@@originalritny valid! there's many styles of dresses and you may also fall in love with a dress you'd think you'd never like

[@originalritny]

@@dot4562 exactly!

[@mstie3252]

@@originalritny I wish different color options existed when I got married thirty years ago. I would definitely have chosen a blush pink dress, or at least one with some blush pink on it somewhere.

[@AndrewMacLaine]

Yes, the professional response to, "It's important that the dress is white" would be to say, "Wonderful!" And then show her only white dresses. She didn't need to know why.

[@BasicYTHandle]

I'm surprised that no one else has commented on the fact that she is 20 years old. She has been in a committed relationship with one person since the start of high school and they have both remained virgins. She just needs more time, period.

[@mrsdv]

@42 jade She's not really assuming. She responded based on what the bride said. She said in the beginning they're both waiting till marriage. But I do agree that she needs more time to experience life and also should make sure they are compatible in that aspect.

[@yettakosovo3936]

Mrs DV - I do agree with you ... I waited till marriage and i was 22 , i hate to say but after that i found out we have nothing in common . ( We do have lots of Respect for one another, he thinks i am happy , but sadly i am Not ) But i am scared to tell that i need to separate cause i’m 26 and i have a daughter . I know it would be the best for everyone , i just can’t make that step first .

[@nickyluvsjesus]

@@yettakosovo3936 I'm sorry that you're unhappy, but blaming that on waiting until marriage is nonsensical. Sex is not what makes you have things in common with your partner.

[@YT4Me57]

I just posted that. I don't think either has enough life experience to make such a commitment right now.

[@millicentlopez3592]

A 20 year old virgin is nbd

[@nikitaheredia416]

The title is so wrong, why put virgin in the title, no one cares that she’s a virgin and it’s nobodies business to know that she’s a virgin. The bride needs lessons in self love, respect and self confidence...

[@alimag515]

and yet you clicked on the video with the title

[@MarinaEariel]

@@alimag515 it might be autoplay like in my case. But I think the title is fine because it's important for her.

[@eleanorneale8640]

but she told the camera she was a virgin....

[@applefarm6126]

Eleanor Neale exactly and people are complaining about that 🤦‍♀️

[@vampiraJ]

She’s 20. She’ll learn more soon enough. Bless her.

[@teetee7864]

Her grandma’s pick was awful, I’m sorry but the first one was THE BEST one

[@elisafarrell8862]

I won't bash the grandma but I do think from a third person party that dress was the best.

[@tatianaa5441]

There are modest gowns that look great, that one is just awful.

[@teetee7864]

Ben Dover indeed

[@hadizamamud3209]

It wasn't that awful to me.i just think it'd have been prettier if the high neck was done differently. Please don't ask me how. I'm not a fashion designer

[@pranjalikabiswas7522]

I also support you.

[@PinkMarshmallows]

The first dress she put on, she looked *absolutely stunning* in it. I wish she would have picked that one.

[@feelthejoy]

First one was definitely better

[@mkuti-childress3625]

I have to say I absolutely _hated_ grandma’s dress when she put it on… but when she was standing full-length it looked pretty cool-like the top somehow balanced the bottom really well! I found myself liking it and thought, “Wait a second…” Until the camera moved in to her face and chest, then it bugged the hell out of me again.

[@1984-d3g]

“I really want it to be white. That’s important to me” Consultant: “why is that?” Well it’s a wedding dress....why else does she want it to be white? What kind of question is that

[@kittykatgalore]

Not all brides want a white dress for their wedding. Personally I can't stand the color white

[@tanzanitebenitoite4873]

@@kittykatgalore me too and I'm a virgin. I think I would want a blue one

[@kittykatgalore]

@@tanzanitebenitoite4873 same. I'm almost 20 and damn proud to say I'm still a virgin. My wedding dress i want to be purple or black. I've always loved the idea of a Halloween fairy wedding. Pretty weird 🤣

[@VictoriaMorrisa]

She was being nosey

[@asmrcomet2939]

KittyKat Galore that sounds low key awesome 😂 and I’m one too

[@CeltycSparrow]

Honestly, I think that first dress was HER dress. She looked beautiful. She was the bride in that dress....She was glowing. and it was no more revealing than the outfit she came in wearing. But Mom and Grandma didn't like her in that dress. It didn't live up to THEIR vision. And she's the sort of Type A perfectionist....and the sort who needed her Mom and Grandmother to love her dress too....I think even WHEN she had that last dress with all the elements she wanted, she looked beautiful, and Mom and Grandma were saying "yes, its perfect"....but she wasn't happy in it. It felt like settling. And that's why she said no. And honestly, I commend her for that. Its her wedding day. She shouldn't have to settle on this dress.

[@Poppy-qw7jc]

Saaame!

[@xnaturalbarbie9501]

Amen! Spot on!

[@MissHunterELA]

Agreed!

[@kamilalipiec9420]

The first one honestly she looked amazin!

[@maeganroberts2198]

I think so too. Plus did you notice the touches of blue on the belt? That would work as her “something blue”

[@jenettemerlini6035]

Me: why does it have to be about her virginity Also me: clicks on it super fast

[@everything5066]

Lol I'm guilty too

[@abigailbrown3524]

We all are.

[@thresagraham8181]

🤣😂🤣

[@rapidjerkytumblingmovement4340]

😂😂😂

[@RiyaLahoti]

Well I did it to read the comments

[@reader596]

0:53 I LOST IT WHEN SHE SAID HIS NAME IS CHRIS ARMSTRONG AND THEY SHOWED A PICTURE OF HIS STRONG ARMS😭

[@dayinthelife2.0]

Samee🤣

[@gongoozleriam9783]

He looked good :)

[@sarahirisfox]

I thought I was the only one!

[@boogermaiden]

Ikr!

[@captaincmoore]

Oh poor dear. She was so nervous, especially at the end. I hope everything worked out and she is happy!!

[@ananyaax]

"...my mom's name is Karen" Everyone: "Ohh can't wait for her to call the manager"

[@eleanorcooke7136]

*_ROBIN!!!_*

[@afa13829]

*ROBIN WHERES LORI? I NEED TO COMPLAIN GET OUTTA MY WAY MONTE*

[@amberjames987]

🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@annabruegel4343]

Me too 😂😂😜

[@dna-cz3pu]

🤣🤣🤣

[@salwaali3349]

I love how everyone's talking about the title but nobody is talking about her last name being "Doolittle" Edit: omg! Thank you so much for 1.6K likes!!!💕

[@April42046]

Right? I would totally be keeping my last name. If that was the case. Lol

[@sundusabdifatah3698]

Like the movie 🤭🤭🤭

[@rosemack3712]

Same ... I would want to keep my last name if his name was doolittle and he wanted me to have his last name ... I am sorry but that's the truth 😔

[@libertyhoward8236]

Same !

[@hotbambi2010]

Haha yup lol hilarious

[@katiebells8024]

The amount of "first time" puns is so uncomfortable, I feel sorry for the bride.

[@H20-t3g]

It's a natural thing. You must be 8 to feel "uncomfortable" about something like this.

[@lav9167]

Say yes to the dress makes my life better Edit : Thank you so much for all the likes. I have never received this many. Thanks

[@tonilarribaut7595]

Same.

[@ra.j7210]

Tell me about it

[@brandy4760]

Omg same

[@maleastassi9923]

Agreed

[@samiashi286]

Oh really Why??

[@catrinmckinty1006]

When she said her name was "Danielle Doolittle " strait away I thought "DR Doolittle "😮😮😂

[@wb8695]

straight *

[@simisolacollins7984]

😂😂😂

[@jeanross7430]

Rather Eliza Doolittle in My Fair Lady!

[@christinehayes4543]

Me too.😂😂😂😂

[@saumyasingh2356]

And I thought "Neil Armstrong" when the groom's name was spoken😂

[@aidenlopez530]

Tbh, there’s no shame in waiting till marriage. Like hello!!! Some people actually care about being secure to their first time. It’s ok to be a virgin!!!

[@hanahaki3100]

In my country it's important

[@eva-rosec.6025]

Yes it is definitely okay! What isn't okay is when people who decide to wait throw it in others' faces and act like they're better and their way is the only way. Those who don't wait until marriage and those who do are equally valid.

[@sakurriaa6762]

@@eva-rosec.6025 where did she do that tho? thats on you for thinking that

[@IvanaSpajic100]

@@eva-rosec.6025 Why are you so insulted, she didnt coment that at all.

[@Glassessss]

@@eva-rosec.6025 🙄 oh puh-lease let's not be biased. How many times do you see in schools, social circles, even the media where virgins are the butt of jokes or have basement dwelling, social outcast/loser stereotypes attached to them? Especially when it pertains to male virgins. Nowadays it's programmed into people, especially teens, that losing your virginity is more accepted than waiting because choosing to wait makes you an uptight prude like those cliche'd tropes of a virgin finally 'coming out of their shell' and gaining confedence and being a more fun person after having sex. Infact, most of the people making a big deal about this bride having her V-card in this comment section are self proclaimed non virgins. If someone is proud being a virgin they have just as much of a right to feel good about that just like a person who is proud of their body count and in this world of social media I see way more of that than loud and proud virgins.

[@hunterjardine7148]

She said it best herself, just being pure is enough for her. She knows she is and doesn’t have to dress like it to know that. I like that mindset.

[@hunterjardine7148]

@@black_forest_ I definitely didn’t mean it that way but okay 🤣

[@hunterjardine7148]

@@black_forest_ depends on what you consider is pure or not, I don’t consider anything really “ pure “ myself.. so it’s definitely not what I meant .. lol you just kinda took it that way.

[@B.H.56]

then why did she need a WHITE dress?

[@duhshi1575]

she was glowing in the first dress, it didnt have much more cleavage than her tshirt, really sad that nana and mom didnt see how happy she was in it

[@mirandav7477]

Okay, she looks literally looks just like her mom!

[@shaelaabdurremane9658]

Like one of those bone marrow babies right😅

[@applefarm6126]

Shaela Abdurremane wtf

[@kathleencrane7314]

Copy and paste. 😂

[@gal69lag]

Omg I KNOW I was looking for this comment they're ctrl + c, ctrl + v

[@Linzrose3]

I love how transparent she is in her own skin like she jus loves herself and doesn’t need the dress to be “pure” like her it’s so cute I love that for her

[@brizzle2697]

There's no shame in being a virgin. Some people don't wait, some people do and some people don't want it at all. Just do what's right for you and your partner

[@jelloboners]

you make me feel safe LMAO :)

[@brizzle2697]

@@jelloboners I'm glad :)

[@cherylwebb8340]

Uh there's no "shame. " because that's what she should be if she's not married. What has happened to this world 🥺

[@deborahwilliamson5655]

@@cherylwebb8340 Amen!!!

[@Tamara-ju3lh]

@@cherylwebb8340 she's saying there is no shame because a lot of virgins get shamed. It's a reminder to people like me (who is 30 and still hasn't had sex) that I shouldn't listen to the people who say/imply that something is wrong with me because I'm waiting. Trust me, I've gotten the "there must be something wrong with you if no guy wants to sleep with you" from people before. It can cause me to feel ashamed sometimes. Not over the virginity thing but the implication that I'm physically ugly and that no one wants me.

[@annm861]

That’s actually not true about white meaning “pure” and “virginal” Queen Victoria wore a white dress to her wedding which popularized wearing white and the trend just went from there

[@sarahholmes1901]

Thank you! It was about wealth. You could afford to have a dress that you only wore once. Until Queen Victoria, most brides wore the nicest gown they already had.

[@saffronlealle6694]

That may be how it started but over time it became a virgin thing. That's what most people know as the reason behind the white color. So it doesn't really matter why it started, it's the meaning behind why it's continued to be a reason for the white dress.

[@maripookio]

M99980 i don’t think it symbolized virginity but rather purity and rebirth

[@leonamay8776]

@@saffronlealle6694 but blue is the actual colour of purity (in the West) afaik....

[@milliejay1451]

M99980 it didn’t symbolise virginity. She chose white as it was expensive to own a white dress. If you were a working woman, a white dress would dirty too easily so it was really uncommon for a woman of low status to wear white because it was impractical and the fabric was so expensive. The most common colour to marry in was blue because it was one of the easiest fabric to buy and Queen Victoria’s advisors and family pushed her to get a blue dress or even red but she refused and wanted white because she knew it would make her look rich and powerful which is something she needed as a 20 year old queen in a world ruled by men. It was a political move. The idea of it being a virgin thing came from Godey's Lady's Book which was a lady’s magazine who wrote an incorrect article (it was just a rumour even at the time and it was proven false) about 8 years later about why the white craze had started however this was not Victoria’s motive and the white of a wedding dress does not symbolise virginity.

[@SzCa77]

First of all: CHANGE THE TITLE!!!!! This is unspeakably disperspectful! And then..... - Oh my goodness the panic in her eyes at 6:24! It seems to me, she really really got scared of getting married so soon. She said she doesn´t know if she´s ready, but it sounded more like these words were for wedding, not just for the dress. She is so young!!!!! So many things ahead of her! I´m thinking if they really want to marry each other because they feel ready to commit this hard or if there´s a possibility that "getting finally physical" influences their opinion about the wedding.

[@tamhall6443]

I got married young. And when I saw my husbsnd I just knew. But there were days I thought about not getting married cuz I was nervous about being a wife. Every bride has that. Now i have 2 amazing careers and i laugh at myself for the things I thought. Im currently 21 btw.

[@boop8885]

She herself said it.

[@jb6712]

WHAT???????!!!!!! It's not the least bit "disrespectful" to have the guts to admit one is a virgin! It's far more disrespectful when the entourage uses vile, filthy language, and everyone viewing the episode also uses it!!

[@bluegirl278]

The point is that it doesn’t matter and that she seemed uncomfortable talking about it. If she seemed uncomfortable, why use it as the title?

[@Kayleigh27]

I got married a week before my 19th birthday. I know it works for some, but it didn't work for me. I definitely wish I had experienced more life and grow into who I am now at 30. (We were married for 8 years before we divorced. ) im getting married next year and I feel so much more comfortable and sure with things and with my fiance.

[@talizorahvasnerd]

I think the first one looked best on her

[@inna7212]

Agree

[@Selena_2002]

I'm not taking my family when going to buy a wedding dress

[@plumsparkles945]

Good idea.

[@wsue1038]

You go girl!!!

[@silverstream6063]

Take the ones you care about the most. I ended up falling in love with the dress that my dad picked. He is a sturne "frightening " man. He cried when he saw me try on his pick, he cried at the wedding. So as long as they care for your needs and wants take whoever you want.

[@Vonnie.r111]

Why?

[@wsue1038]

@@Vonnie.r111 have you watched any of these videos? Nuff sAid

[@nitzaiviaa]

I don’t like his “first” jokes. It makes it weird. Cringe.

[@justalittlebitmo]

Agreed!

[@stephanieyee9784]

Weird and creepy.

[@gaitrikaram3325]

Same!

[@ariannaelmer9568]

Yeah he wasn’t respecting her at all and he shouldn’t have made a joke about her choosing to be abstinent

[@fiveguys3638]

He is cringe

[@MegaTinyProductions]

“Ima take her home and fix her some gravy and biscuits, try to make her feel better”- That’s a true Grandmother right there 👌🏽 💯

[@barbaraellis758]

A true southern grandmother!! Makes me wish mine was still with me!

[@namastenurse]

That’s the only way she redeemed herself for that awful dress she picked 🤣

[@cyflym11]

It wouldn't make me feel better. I once wondered what gravy and biscuits looked like so I googled it. It looked like a cat threw up on some scones.

[@MegaTinyProductions]

@@cyflym11 🤣 I don’t like gravy & biscuits either, & I agree it looks like puke. But I bet in her family that’s a comfort food

[@naimisathegreat8560]

Can we just talk how her fiance got a glow up after high school Can we take a moment for that Can we Yes we can Okk People Thanks for that much likes , you guys should go and subscribe my KZbin channel yasssss

[@paige8089]

I came here loooking for this comment lmao I literally watched it again I was so shocked lol

[@shamarrachallenor3099]

Puberty did him well!

[@elizabethquan4702]

What does that expression mean, "glow up"? I've never heard it.

[@ajAmyski]

@@paige8089 haha I did exactly the same!

[@NykSilver]

@@elizabethquan4702 it's a slang when a person goes from looking bad/rough/basic to looking absolutely stunning/handsome/gorgeous. When you go from a 0-1 to a 10😌

[@crimson3sky]

I like how strong she is, she accepted at once that she might not be ready instead of feeling pressured. And how her family seems so cool.

[@mollytomlinson9431]

All I could think was that gravy and biscuits is not what gravy and biscuits is in england 😭

[@ericsslimjim8036]

Ikr 😭🤚🏻

[@TheAnxiousAussie]

I know!! Their gravy is bechamel with like sausage pieces in it and I have never been more confused in my life. Why do they put white sauce on scones??

[@sshms414]

Gravy with biscuits???? Its like garlic bread all over again😂😂😂

[@melissawyatt8514]

Em.D no we put cream and jam with scones , not white sauce , that’s a different food altogether . And your biscuits , is our scones . Love learning about cultural differences ❤️

[@Cocoapuffster]

I legit thought they were putting Bisto on custard creams when I first heard of that.

[@felinegood2635]

They act like showing a bit of cleavage is the worst thing in the world, jeez.

[@mackinzielizabeth872]

Its a southern thing

[@felinegood2635]

mackinzi elizabeth an old, antiquated southern thing that makes young girls feel bad about their own bodies. 😅

[@rose-gl4io]

The dress shows as much cleavage as the shirt she walked in with

[@skunkie110]

It’s not just a southern thing, more of an old fashioned thing. I’m from the north, but grew up in a very religious, traditional household. We were to always dress modestly, no cleavage, no midriff. And yeah, sex outside of marriage is considered a big no-no and “sinful.” I used to call my house the nunnery, cause that’s what it felt like. I rebelled big time when I got out 😆

[@lelandstone9997]

@@skunkie110 hey Jesus loves you and died for you!!

[@garnet9788]

I have a feeling that maybe she’s not ready to get married. I hope she took the time to think it through and made a good decision for her.

[@ciaraparton7613]

she was my 6 grade teacher . Literally the nicest person i met

[@highsun76]

Honestly, just by watching this, she seemed like a sweetheart 🥺

[@tillyjohnson2489]

Why I'm I addicted to this shows And I'm single asf

[@delaneypamplona-quiroz9916]

YO SAME😂😢

[@raptorgorl8807]

Literally me 😂😂

[@boop8885]

You're single because of this show maybe?

[@shelenagibbons9353]

Don't feel bad I single too but one day I will be a bride wedding dresses are so beautiful

[@barbarawatkins4422]

Me too Tilly.

[@nesianqueen80]

"The right one is worth waiting for" ~ Monte 👍🏽👏🏽

[@kdragon713]

I'm glad the bride is not rushing to get married. Monte is so caring

[@annasamaha808]

There’s nothing wrong with having sex before marriage and nothing wrong with wanting to wait till after marriage. Seriously some people need to just back off

[@prisonmike8473]

Exactlyyyy

[@paulinawinter8188]

Preachh💗

[@lindaleelaw5277]

Like driving a car before you buy? That shift on the floor .....

[@brilynenicole2529]

when your from the south and GO TO CHURCH AND READ THE BIBLE, IT SAYS SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE IS A SINN white is the color of god thats why she wanted a white one.

[@windsofmarchjourneyperrytr2823]

@@brilynenicole2529 Is that the same church that condones child rape and tax evasion...? Jc.

[@kdragon713]

The bride is so sweet and the first dress looked amazing on her

[@lv834]

I have a question for the native speakers: am I imagining things or is "bless your heart" a bit like throwing shade very politely?

[@samanthar24]

Lol yeah it is

[@miriamdruyan]

Yes and no! It can be very sincere (as I think it was in this video). See also: kzbin.info/www/bejne/rWXRg3ytlKaHgKM

[@hexgirl88]

When my 90 something very Northern grandma said it, she was very sincere, like omg you poor dear...... as opposed to all of my inlaws from the South, if they say it, oh hunny it is SHADE....

[@She_Who_Wanders]

It's all in the tone.

[@girlsuckmydick]

Lmao yeah it is

[@TamiresCaron]

I thought that the consultant was very invasive asking “why” white was a big deal. We can see the discomfort in the bridal party faces. Come on, a little privacy on the show won’t hurt.

[@ThePimmy11]

I agree. It doesn't matter why, go find the stark white dresses and shut up.

[@mcaskey358]

Well it could be because of the style of wedding she's having. Maybe she was asking to see if an off-white gown would clash with something the bride had in mind. And the girl didn't HAVE to tell her anything. She could have just said, she's always wanted a pure, white gown. But I think Granny has been grooming this poor girl to constantly proclaim her virginity, because Granny likes showing off her "VIRGIN granddaughter."

[@candlegal10311]

There might have been several reasons for her wanting white out side of virginity. My sister-in-law wanted a pure white dress because she was having a winter wedding. Her dress was pure white to off set the icy blues and silvers of her wedding colors. My besty wanted a pure white dress because her skin tone made the white pop more. Another freind hated cream and ivory so wanted a pure white dress. They ask so they know, maybe a pure white dress is a family tradition. Maybe the bride just thinks she wont look good in an ivory or cream color and they can pull an ivory or cream to show her other wise. They dont know so they ask. Also the bride made a point to insist the dress be pure white. Which if someone told me hey I want pure white i would be curious why. Mostly though it's their job to ask questions

[@mssorrento1]

I feel a bit uncomfortable about how her mother and nana treat her like she is this pure little good girl. I feel they are crossing some boundaries, I feel violated for her. I can't explain why I feel like this. If she wasn't a virgin she would still be a lovely person to be proud of. She looked beautiful in all the dresses I hope she is happy x

[@corvidae2741]

I think its the way they prioritize her virginity/'purity' and seem very invested in it. Its kind of creepy for a family member to care that much about their childs sex life, it just feel icky.

[@mssorrento1]

@@corvidae2741 yes spot on, they have crossed a line there

[@Vampyre82]

You feel "violated"? Good grief.

[@mssorrento1]

@@Vampyre82 yes can't imagine how she feels x

[@H20-t3g]

It's really not a big deal and she's the one that brought it up😒

[@livbxr]

this poor woman... her family just isn’t supportive at all

[@jessicavictoriacarrillo7254]

I feel like these women have her under their thumbs. And I cringed when Nana said she will make Danielle some biscuits and gravy, like I shouldn't but I feel like this family does more eating than they do being open. Like I won't be surprised if Danielle could face backlash for stating her boundaries or seeking professional help. I kind of wish she had more time to move out and go to school or work and make a bunch of crazy decisions that would help her find out the kind of person she is. I also don't like the emphasis of "pleasing the family" in general in this show.

[@sarahmillard3712]

Getting married young is terrifying. My husband and I got married a year ago at 18, the month after we graduated high school. I remember dress shopping with my mom and sisters. They were all very supportive, and my youngest sister (who is 14 now) actually picked out the dress I fell in love with. I remember being so overwhelmed that I cried in the bathroom.

[@madisoned]

"White is a big thing for me" "Why is that?" "Because it's been trending since Queen Victoria worn it!" :D The consultant asking why seemed a bit scripted. Even non-virgin brides love white dresses

[@louise-yo7kz]

💯🎯

[@TheCookieMonster116]

She's so beautiful, I'm so glad everyone was understanding and her family was so kind

[@jhalak104]

I love Lori and Monte 😍 I need a friend like Monte. Plus the bride is so beautiful. God bless her ❤️❤️

[@dbrikhs]

Why would Nana want her in a high neck line and she wasn't even wearing one at the fitting??

[@PuddingCat101]

The dress will still be there, and it's so important to feel excited but comfortable. I hope she managed to figure out her feelings

[@jarastar6499]

She’s so gorgeous in every dress. And so sweet to everyone too. I hope her life is going great ❤️

[@rainbow9299]

Dude she should've went with the first dress tbh. She look beautiful in the 3rd one still but man why family gotta be like that?

[@kitty62862]

Very intelligent, young lady! You go home, and talk, and think, and have grandma’s biscuits and gravy. There’s no rush. Sweet family!!!

[@stefanielucu7365]

Sigh I was a virgin when I got married and the only ones that knew were God and my husband. I felt it was between me and God. I didn’t feel the need to tell everyone

[@sarahh1511]

That's so sweet ❤

[@brytonaldridge1257]

Ok? Good for you... some people aren't so taboo and private about that kind of stuff

[@sarahh1511]

@@brytonaldridge1257 not necessary dude.

[@chloe6969]

To be fair you're telling us now

[@windsofmarchjourneyperrytr2823]

It doesn't make anyone a better person, although going back, many if us wouldn't have dated the same morons again.

[@linn357]

I love that she reflected on her reaction and how she felt and decided to take a pause, instead of just rushing.

[@FoughtTheLawn]

The bride showed mercy on the consultant "Oh bless your heart!" That's not an endearing term in the south 🤣

[@nataliegiles2554]

That's interesting, is it supposed to be sarcastic or condescending? I hear it in Cali sometimes

[@Katie105-l3f]

How outrageous of the sales rep to put her on the spot with the “Why white” comment. For shame on you lady!

[@PaigeMalecki]

lol she had to ask her that for tv...it wasn't just a coincidence. The form you fill out to be featured on the show asks what sets you apart from other brides, so they will incorporate this information.

[@shilpaputhiyapurail8398]

I know why she left.. that last dress looked like curtain 😐

[@jasmineulibarri9032]

Nobody’s gonna talk about how cute her grandma was when she said “I’m gonna make her biscuits and gravy to make her feel better”❤️

[@tynaedwards8452]

I watch these videos with memories of being with my 2 daughters for their gown choosing. I had faith that they were brought up with the right values to make their choice. They looked beautiful in everything they tried and the choice was theirs not mine. It meant everything to me that they loved their choice and were happy. Put your children first parents!Support them! Love them! Sorry for venting.

[@Just_MR006]

I feel the bride relied too less on herself...that's why she couldnt make an instant decision.

[@chigirl9673]

Why would they add “virgin” in the title? Isn’t that quite insensitive?

[@applefarm6126]

No

[@chigirl9673]

@@applefarm6126 yes.

[@applefarm6126]

chigirl no

[@chigirl9673]

@@applefarm6126 clearly you dont what it means to respect boundaries so Yes.

[@applefarm6126]

chigirl I actually do know what it means, you can’t tell me I don’t because you don’t t know me, but that’s YOUR opinion, so for me I say no.

[@rachaelvaughan1017]

I thought the first dress was absolutely stunning on her. I was surprised at her mom and grandma's reaction to the first dress vs the last dress because there really wasn't much of a difference to them

[@Memphismom123]

Which is why I feel most of these episodes are "staged".

[@christinatarrach7696]

I hate how the nana tries to make her feel like her own body is inappropriate. Like she can be pure and show off her clavicle, chill grandma

[@KatieBellino]

I think we do need to give her grandmother a break. It's only very recently (relative to history) that brides wear strapless more often than having straps (or even sleeves). It seems like my mom, aunts, and all of their friends all had sleeves in the '80s.

[@lionelluva]

The fact that they both waited until marriage is a beautiful thing and no one should stick their opinion in their business - even for TV ratings

[@cjPagan87]

I doubt they really did. Look at that guy.

[@bethdavis7812]

Bet HE did not wait, just not with her!

[@Black-Swan-007]

It's not a beautiful thing, though. She's going to have the same reaction to sex that she had to these dresses if she waits. I'm worried for her. It's like she's scared of it not being perfect... honey, it won't be.

[@tmfromdenmark9158]

Really 🙄 you must be a American

[@treearoha]

"being pure is enough, doesn't mean I have to look like it" *slow clap*

[@toribrewer2112]

We love and appreciate a loving family like this. Her grandma is so sweet

[@Linabina121]

That moment at 1:24 is so underrated 🤣🤣🤣 Monte: weeeeellll maybe the 2nd most anticipated moment for this bride? Lori: .......smh.

[@wenyemero6208]

Umm... i didn’t like the vibe her mom and grandmother were giving in the start🙄 forgive me if I sound offensive.

[@jessicavictoriacarrillo7254]

Controlling? Invasive?

[@VictoriaGates]

Virgin is nothing to be ashamed of.. but I could understand if putting it in the title made her and her family uncomfortable. I do hope she figures out how she feels about her fiance.. never get married if you have doubts.. that is your instincts telling you something is up.

[@dhanasree2729]

I find it so fascinating how things are drastically different in different cultures. Where I live losing virginity before marriage is considered scandalous and here being a virgin is something to be ashamed of. It's like no one gives a crap about personal choice.

[@Widdekuu91]

I think she has doubts because she wants to be with someone, but she can only be with someone if it is forever and ever. Hence the gigantic amount of divorces, teenpregnancies in America and the average age for sex being 15. And in the land of condoms, non-taboo's and prostitutes (the Netherlands) the average age is 17 to 19, with fewer divorces and hardly any teen pregnancies, because sex-ed is not about abstinence, but about facts.

[@ellakate3824]

She’s so cute, like can we just talk about how cute she is! I think she’s so pretty! She has such a cute smile and an adorable eyes and lips and she’s just so pretty! 🥺

[@unicorntears6257]

Tell me the need to put virgin in the title?

[@esalenchik]

unicorn tears Clickbait!

[@anshuniti8018]

Where was "no to the wedding" part?

[@maddielopez8625]

Oh come on, y’all did not need to put virgin in the title.

[@katherynsmaczniak4300]

omg that first dress was SO flattering

[@kaykay-kd8rn]

Glad you didn't take that last dress. It was worse than the first two dresses.

[@jenettemerlini6035]

Why does her family look so unimpressed with her staying pure until her wedding?! Shouldn't it be the opposite?!!

[@caseyh9094]

Probably because they expect it. I'm sure it's been driven into her brain since she could crawl.

[@raincloud5309]

Casey W what do you mean “driving into her brain”?

[@stephanieellis762]

ExtraaEva she probably means that she’s been taught to wait and that it’s the right thing to do.

[@caseyh9094]

@@raincloud5309 it's just an expression meaning been taught her whole life. The "right" thing for her and her family. That does not mean everyone else is wrong.

[@ThePimmy11]

Because not everyone thinks much of people getting married just so they can be the sexual mammal they are. Many people believe it causes people to make decisions they'd otherwise not make just so they can have sex.

[@ladyshkspre]

Sometimes when people tell you “Ohh girl, you look so much like your mama!”, it is the ultimate compliment. Sometimes... not so much...

[@babyhoneybee777]

I truly would not have guessed 20 years old

[@ppcs-ns8jw]

Why tf is virgin In the title this is a show for dresses not exposing whether someone's a virgin or not

[@diamond4270]

She exposed it herself, why you mad?

[@michellelee8933]

I swear the title just get worse everyday, remember that time you guys put pastor on the title and another one with boots and they both appeared only for a split second, y guys are crossin the line with this one. We sincerely just love dresses and brides, there's no need for such clickbait titles and thumbnails.

[@haella_]

"The right one - it's worth waiting for." YES.

[@vanillathunder11559]

I am so glad to hear that she and her husband waited for each other for the first time oh, my husband and I did that as well and it has been the best decision of my life. We have been married 6 years now and we just had our first baby boy, he is now one month old and I would not have it any other way.

[@DK-qp9os]

Fair, good for you that you're happy with that. I'm glad I'm not waiting for marriage. I feel that people should wait if they want to, but I hate that parents sometimes force that on their kids and pretend that's the only option. It can encourage people to marry young just to have sex and that rarely ends well.

[@vanillathunder11559]

@@DK-qp9os the issue now a days is sex is more important than love. People put sex above anything else which is silly. Sex is great and all but it shouldn't be the most important thing, so important you would rather marry young and miss schooling and other things because of it. It wasn't important to us, which is why it was easier for us to wait.

[@tarnacious_b]

@@vanillathunder11559 Sex is important to a lot of people because it is considered another point of compatibility in a lot of relationships. Waiting is a personal choice and should only be a personal choice, but unfortunately due to societal beliefs and values, the idea of waiting until marriage is upheld above anything else and the concept of teaching safe sex practices is demonised due to abstinence only education. Sex and love go hand in hand, neither one should dominate the other in a healthy relationship.

[@katzlevyalon]

I am not saying that people need to wait until marriage to have sex, but to claim that one needs “test drives “ so see if they are sexually compatible in the long term is BS. Over the course of life, each person’s sex drive will change several times over (at least for a woman- I cannot speak for men). Hormones, family building, aging, health, fitness, mental health- all these and probably more affect a person’s sex drive. I think open communication and the ability to communicate sexual needs and desires is a much more important skill for the long term than simply having a “test drive “ when your young...

[@nasyajessica7666]

@@katzlevyalon Coming from an overly religious family and country where sex before marriage is seen as an embarrassment, for me a 'test drive' to see if I am sexually compatible with someone is essential. Not everyone put importance in that, but for people with physical touch as their love language sexual compatibility is crucial. And I will be forever glad that I did it before marriage.

[@chelleymarie2312]

Waiting to be married before consummation is something to be very proud of,and never ashamed of. What an awesome testimony!

[@tamaraflanagan5181]

ill be getting married next hear i am 29 and i also waited for marraige myself

[@crystalsherman8896]

She said waited until marriage and not waiting until marriage.

[@kittiekatz34]

I noticed that too

[@jb6712]

So? Nervousness coupled with cameras in one's face makes one say things out of context, even though one knows what one wants to say (and yes, it was a deliberate use of the word "one" all through this paragraph).

[@putrif6706]

Scrolling thru the comments just to read people's perspective bout virginity hehe ✌✌✌✌

[@catherineapioatim5728]

This lady should be an advocate for girls being virgins till marriage and be proud of it!

[@Widdekuu91]

Yes, great! Just a technical question though, all the kids that went to Catholic Church...are they still virgins if they were-

[@fromhell11112]

noooo purity culture kinda sucks, it rushes marrige, it shames women who decided to not wait, and it leaves a big part of relationships out until there 100% committed how are these people meant to know there bodys? understand safe comfortable sex? like theres a reason people who are saving for marriage marry so young, sex is a human thing that women want and should be allowed to explore without shame. just with good sex education

[@patsheppard2616]

I think montes sarcasm was uncalled for. Like he doesn’t believe she a virgin. Is he going through the change. He can’t stop himself. Where’s lori

[@MidnightSonnet]

I can see where she gets her anxiety from. Her mom and grandma are bundles of nerves. Poor thing. I know how she feels. She expressed how she doesn't want to "waste anyone's time" or "make anyone upset" with her. That's a clear red flag. She needs therapy to learn how to love herself and know that she's not a burden. I've been there and I'm still suffering from those feelings. A lot of therapy and self reflection has helped a lot, but it's a very, very slow journey to healing. If she's this indecisive about making decisions on her own, she shouldn't get married yet. She's only 20 and has a host of mental health issues. She needs to find herself first. I hope beyond hope that her fiance is understanding and will help her on her journey. It'll only strengthen their relationship if they traverse it together, hand in hand. My fiance and I have been together 13 years. We haven't gotten married yet for various reasons (finances, health, stress, etc) and we're okay with that. We wanna get married and talk about it often, which is fun. We'll definitely do it at some point, but we don't feel rushed. Marriage has never been important to me. I'd be happy with him with or without that government certificate. A solid relationship is built on communication, trust, compassion, understanding, respect, listening, and accepting each other for who they really are. If you haven't seen your lover at their worst, you'll never really know if you can handle it down the line. I'm not saying getting married super young can't work. It can succeed. My parents were a good example. But most of the time, if you haven't had a variety of experiences together (both good and bad), you should wait until you do.

[@jessicavictoriacarrillo7254]

I felt that especially regarding Granny and Mommy

[@an_impasse]

Besides the whole TMI virgin thing people mention, she’s also a bit too hasty to get married and if she *relies* on her partner that much to calm her down, how does she cope when he’s not around? Don’t marry someone with the expectation for your future spouse to complete you. If you are not whole as you are, you’re gonna have many problems down the line. Marriage is not the gateway to happiness and a one way ticket to solving all your problems, stop treating it like it is...

[@gingerandlockedpoledancer6776]

An Impasse yup also it really is not smart to wait until marriage for sex. Sexual comparability is a huge deal. And so many couples end up in dead bedrooms because they waited.

[@Heydodoakskdkdjf]

Olivia Sloane that lame excuse is used to pressure people into sex when they have reasons to wait 🙄 If you can find out what your partner likes and doesn’t like, and figure out what you like and don’t like, and both have realistic and educated expectations for sex, then it’ll work out fine.

[@leebug4718]

THANK YOUUUU. I hate when ppl say “they complete me” or “my better half” like nooo YOU SHOULD BE YOUR OWN PERSON

[@allofmae6188]

So much garbage in this comment... She doesn't need him to hold her hard 100% of the time, but it is definitely helpful to have someone who can be the extra help you need! Telling people they shouldn't wait... #1 not your place, #2 it's not the 1400's... Sex isn't taboo.... It's always evolving.

[@lydiadontu3794]

"I'm gonna take her home, and fix her some gravy and biscuits. To try and make her feel better." -Good old Granny

[@evano486]

waiting till marriage tends to rush people into getting married