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@JimboRayRickky7 ай бұрын
My day is going good.
@daver69727 ай бұрын
Good day, and hope yours is OK to❤❤
@Totally_not_a_CI7 ай бұрын
Good
@3RDGUYS7 ай бұрын
Am good :]
@KaustubhIsMyName7 ай бұрын
@@VisualVenture studious, college yk, tomorrow is an exam
@BimberTheGreat7 ай бұрын
It’s crazy how people shame celebrities for only having a relationship with someone else.
@beefchopstick7 ай бұрын
they shame celebrities for having a normal life basically, which is sad
@yvesprincess7 ай бұрын
@pepedust782a case where this happened that bothers me is with karina from aespa. people (mainly korean netizens) ended up pressuring her into releasing an apology. she literally posted a handwritten apology note on instagram. it was honestly heartbreaking seeIng her have to apologize for being in love. it’s also bizarre that they even get hate, do their fans think that they would be able to date them? like, sorry bill, you were never gonna be able to date an a list celebrity. i mean, i’m a big kpop fan (i really only stan girl groups and girl group communities are pretty chill, but a lot of male girl group fans (not all of them of course!) are kinda crazy. i’m a lesbian and i am definitely attracted to a lot of female idols and joke around that they’re my gf/wife, but i understand that i’d never actually be able to date them. but there are a lot of people who are deluded enough to think they actually could.
@shan1a_t7 ай бұрын
As a One Direction fan, this is literally just Larry Stylinson believers. (Larry is a ship between Harry Styles and Louis Tomlinson in One Direction, the ship started in 2010 and ppl are still completely dedicated to it to this day, even as grown adults) They act like Louis' child isn't real/ or "management" forced him to have a child with his wife Elanor. There are also theories that claim that Elanor is a role played by many different people. Everyone Harry Styles tries to date, larries attack the person he's dating online, and if the person he's dating ends up breaking up with him, they take to the internet to f*cking CELEBRATE that they broke up. Larries are just fully denying that Louis and Harry are most likely straight, even though Louis has stated it many times.. (idk about harry though. he says he prefers not to label his sexuality, but has also said that being a woman isn't exactly a very important trait in someone he dates. However, he has only ever publicly dated women.) Side note, the Larries are SO POPULAR in the fandom that not only are they everywhere, a larry smut fanfic segment also appeared on a Euphoria episode in 2019.. overall they just kinda wild
@shan1a_t7 ай бұрын
Also, getting into an argument with a larrie is the most draining thing ever, because they just repeat and repeat and repeat information that you've already debunked, eventually tiring you out and giving up with the worthless ahh argument 😭🙏
@toxiczombiewolf56927 ай бұрын
Them people are crazy af
@canpakes257 ай бұрын
"Why are you here?" "I sent a death threat to a streamer because she refused to date me"
@Capunderpants7 ай бұрын
This is why men especially stupid men need to stop obsessing fantasizing and thinking a relationship with a woman is a big deal when it's not and never was and never will be. friendship exists pets exist. Humans don't need romance when it's just a simple connection with a friend we need at the end of the day we need to start pushing friendships and healthy boundaries to men these days.
@Definitelynotbrucewanye7 ай бұрын
*Gets jumped
@NoThanks2487 ай бұрын
👮♀️“Understandable have a nice day”
@davidtiyana81447 ай бұрын
@@NoThanks248 LMAO
@urfavcat207 ай бұрын
NAAAHHH @@NoThanks248
@NobleRanger_7 ай бұрын
"Admiration should never cross into obsession" -Visual Venture, 2024
@yassellrivera49617 ай бұрын
So true
@stevee37 ай бұрын
@@yassellrivera4961 Yes.
@Ash_61497 ай бұрын
seems like i got lectured, wow
@Yosetime6 ай бұрын
@@Ash_6149 ????? What lecture?
@HaveanOreshnik6 ай бұрын
If you know the enemy and know yourself, you need not fear the result of a hundred battles - Sun Tzu
@sfsinfinity58627 ай бұрын
Hating on ur idol because of their style and love interests is one of the stupidest things I have ever heard.
@CocoWantsACracker5 ай бұрын
True words! Usually if you dislike someone's style and love interests, you simply aren't a fan or stop being a fan. It's still petty, but at least you're not making it someone else's problem.
@CarlitoYork5 ай бұрын
the people today annoys me
@Ziggler-e9f5 ай бұрын
They never loved the idol in the first place, the fandoms probably dont see them as humans.
@XPGamingXPDK4 ай бұрын
Its redditors and 4channers because nobody want them, so they think and imagine they have a chance with a celebrity, but lose hope when they get in a relationship with somebody else.
@Theunicorn20123 ай бұрын
Hating on ur idol because of their style and love interests is one of the stupidest things I have ever heard.
@osmanthuswine53367 ай бұрын
A real fan will be happy for their idol being in a happy relationship, these are just creeps
@panjinurfadillah24896 ай бұрын
Fake fans as i liked to called them
@bigsleep_ic6 ай бұрын
You can't even qualify these people as fans anymore. You're entirely right.
@CocoWantsACracker5 ай бұрын
I agree with the three of you. These people need to be ashamed of themselves. If you deny someone happiness out of selfishness, you are too emotionally abusive to be with ANYBODY. You really have a lot of maturing to do.
@Theunicorn20123 ай бұрын
A real fan will be happy for their idol being in a happy relationship, there are just creeps
@Thatgirlisme12 ай бұрын
If im a fan, im only a fan of their work, their personal life isnt my business...
@angieakasara7 ай бұрын
“You ruined your own career and betrayed your fans” says the fan who probably does not have career. Since when did she promise you anything?
@stevee37 ай бұрын
Jesus loves you.
@omarallama9347 ай бұрын
@@stevee3 Thanks man but, this is not the place
@cpt.deathdrone80867 ай бұрын
@@omarallama934 jesus's love can exist anywhere but i agree pretty off topic
@CH50T1CFAWN7 ай бұрын
@@cpt.deathdrone8086If he exists
@mikhaelh42157 ай бұрын
@@stevee3so?
@angieakasara7 ай бұрын
Parasocial relationships in the western media is done by a loner but in the east it’s like a collective effort.
@mathgrindnoise7 ай бұрын
Individualism vs collectivism at play here
@AlejandraXio7 ай бұрын
unfortunately when its done collectivelly its not seen as crazy. Its sad that idols have to write apologies.
@GhayelRubio7 ай бұрын
Together, we can do many things. The bad one, the good one, or.....
@staringcorgi64757 ай бұрын
I disagree bc beatlemania which was western had fangirls who’s only favorite thing was the beatles.
@angieakasara7 ай бұрын
@@staringcorgi6475 I was stating general observations based on media
@larapaulyn14887 ай бұрын
this is why i don't support k-pop. it's not only the fans but also the companies setting up impossible standards for their artists. it's heartbreaking
@amebunni7 ай бұрын
This is exactly why i stopped listening to the genre too. I couldn't separate the art from the companies and the countries' harsh standards anymore.
@Mrmysterious-dj1ov7 ай бұрын
It seem be to high to low standards depending on who and what
@ItsPandaKing60677 ай бұрын
Now I understand why some people hate KPOP I understand
@goofyrat29387 ай бұрын
Yeah.. I like some songs but it’s not like I follow along with the fandom. It feels more like obsession more than admiration..
@Mongcal-0bD7 ай бұрын
True i know
@disguisedpuppy7 ай бұрын
Imagine being a fandom so bad, there's half of the video directed to you
@caitlynsult26857 ай бұрын
fr. kpop and pop fans are so gross
@Theunicorn20126 ай бұрын
Imagine being a fandom so bad, there's half of the video directed to yoy
@sandra28476 ай бұрын
*you** btw why u copy the comment @@Theunicorn2012
@Bangtan_jk2926 ай бұрын
@@caitlynsult2685there is nothing mentioned about kpop
@daerincakes6 ай бұрын
@caitlynsult2685 that's a generalisation, pay attention to the disclaimer that he is only talking about the toxic fans, I PROMISE you that the good part of the kpop fandom is the best
@kathryncumberland7 ай бұрын
The fans who participate in the extremely toxic K-Pop culture should be ashamed of themselves!!! Wtf is wrong with them?! Weight shaming _anyone_ is horrible, but doing that to a 15yo is absolutely inexcusable!
@panjinurfadillah24896 ай бұрын
Some people just relly is that bad, and with the internet being something everyone can accest there will always be people who will hate you just because you exist. So it's better to ignore them and maybe take some time off the internet, and try out something new and maybe it will be a new hobby. it work for me and now i play badminton with my friend when 4 years ago i couldnt doit
@Iamconfused2296 ай бұрын
It's because they give in to there demands. They want views so they will do what they are told.
@marthaelenabrenesorozco29537 ай бұрын
It's disgusting that sick fans who think they own the idols just to maintain that fantasy of if their favorite idol is single they still have a chance with her.
@venus98207 ай бұрын
the reason why they acted so entitle to their idols cuz they thought they spend a lot of money, times and other things as well for their idols but mostly money for example i'd say like us inter fans we only bought one album or two but for them kfans they bought like lots of them up to hundreds or something so they can win in music show and other places, also even to make effort for their idols so they can be well known such as giving out albums on the streets. so when their idols caught dating someone these fans they feel betrayed its like "i put so much love in this particular idol but they dont they love someone else more than me". which is u know very toxic way of thinking i hated this too😢
@panjinurfadillah24896 ай бұрын
@@venus9820It's a fundamental problem, in their eyes these idols are the only thing that comfort them even beyond anything, and push anything that isn't related to them as nothing, like the idol could just say as a joke they like a particular style of fashion, those toxis fans are gonna do their best to get that style of fashion even if it cost 10.000 dollar they will get it, money for money, dept for dept, just to feel notice. It's something that tend to happened when someone gets lonely and has no one to talk, relly show how some people get so lonely and Delusional to point of being obsession with their idol
@buddylord32766 ай бұрын
We have in our society no Community or tribe anymore. So these sorts of virtual communities become the only thing people have. Quite frankly, these are parasocial clubs that people often pay to be in, and the idea is that they are in the room with you and sharing your experience. Frankly, I am surprised there are not more Fanatics that take it too far
@clown_wrld6 ай бұрын
My question is WHY is the acceptable in korean society? I would have taken a bat to those billboards because that is just so pathetic and over the top. Do they really have NOTHING better to do?
@knghtcmdr5 ай бұрын
The industry itself encourages it too. It's insane
@sliceofloving7 ай бұрын
They need to change the fan culture, its creepy to enforce celebs to break up for their entitlement. The fans don't even see them as human, just someone as someone to control.
@staringcorgi64757 ай бұрын
We can’t change it it’s been a thing for 60 years since the beatles
@TJ-xp6hd7 ай бұрын
i think its reasonable to assume you know Oshi no Ko, which illustrates the dark side of the entertainment industry. I'm not trying to say that the fans are correct, but its a consequence if you decide to be part of the industry
@JustrandomSus7 ай бұрын
Based
@sliceofloving7 ай бұрын
@@staringcorgi6475 We can change what is and isnt normalized, there are other societies that have the ability to remain civilized, to each their own interpretation.
@sliceofloving7 ай бұрын
@@TJ-xp6hd I wouldn't victim-blame and say "thats what they get for being in that field," when people become "famous" or known they are more prone to the masses being aware of them. But yes, I get what youre saying, just bc you get used to something, doesnt mean you should tolerate it. Thank you for your input.
@wirelessdirk7 ай бұрын
I recently got in to aespa, but this is ridiculous. Why should Karina not be allowed to date? Just for my fantasy? No! She can date, she deserves to be happy. I like their music, sure they're pretty, i enjoy their mv's and songs, thats it. I feel very sad for Karina and that boy.
@violettadrakos7 ай бұрын
As a kpop Stan I agree with you cuz idols have more rights to date
@sunaville7 ай бұрын
these kpop fans need to worry about getting a job instead of Karina’s relationship
@peachy_lili7 ай бұрын
I support her too, but I swear I heard that the guy was already in a relationship and that was a part of the outrage. was that a nasty rumor only? I just haven't heard that in this video or in the comment section and now I'm wondering if it was just saesangs being saesangs??
@domobeauty7 ай бұрын
I remember seeing a lot of people thinking (more so wishing lol) that Karina was gay, so I wonder if that added to the hate that lead to the apology. Either way, there’s no reason why she should’ve had to apologize smfh
@toxiczombiewolf56927 ай бұрын
Pop fans don't see them as humans with rights.
@Beel3-t9t6 ай бұрын
What is with these "fans" trying to help murderers out of jail? Like, what?! People are crazy...
@mufmager6 ай бұрын
because they look attractive and looks are what matter most.
@SolaceJames6 ай бұрын
People nowadays look at the looks instead of the true self of others Their personality.. which I'm sad they only care about the looks instead of the good true side of that person.
@Beel3-t9t5 ай бұрын
@@SolaceJames Agreed... sighh...
@foxbuns4 ай бұрын
because people are mentally ill and delusional, convincing themselves that they are the "special exception" and "I can fix him". sorry to tell you that you arent special, you cant fix him and he will k word you the same as everyone before you.
@rogerhutcheson72812 ай бұрын
A baby and a mother was killed for no reason other than he was recklessly speeding. These psycho "fans" wanted him free? Like what if it was their mother and sister? Would they feel the same way about their killer? I think not... But sadly these people exist. 😢 Prayers for that family who lost their loved ones. 🙏
@KissyAdair7 ай бұрын
10:42 I'll be damned. Lmao. Those aren't fans, those are stalkers. So messed up. I like K-Pop, but the fandoms are insane. "WAS THE LOVE OF YOUR FANS NOT ENOUGH FOR YOU" is wild.
@4m0nym6 ай бұрын
Exactly. If she had wanted to date any of the fans who were saying this stuff, not a single one of them would've declined dating her just to keep the rest of the fanbase happy. All of them are mindless hypocrites. It's infuriating.
@thedraftingax59634 ай бұрын
Yeah
@Lil-PKTK457 ай бұрын
Stuff like this is the main reason why I don’t join or participate in any fandom, can’t really stand toxic people 😒🤦🏾♂️.
@canpakes257 ай бұрын
Same here
@johnberger517 ай бұрын
Me neither
@toxiczombiewolf56927 ай бұрын
I usually avoid it to. The only community I joined that wasn't toxic that bad was horror movies stuff. Tho you got some people who tried to share real stuff them people need to be on a watch list.
@marcoamazo7 ай бұрын
Understandable
@X61djdj7 ай бұрын
It really depends, some fandoms (like indie game fandoms) are mostly full of nice people who all appreciate each other, but more popular fandoms are pretty dangerous
@Renikee7 ай бұрын
There is a sad story of a singer who had a nice fan community, but one person was so crazy for her that when he went to her concert, he shot her and then later himself. Fans can be so insane
@d4nmark227 ай бұрын
I've heard about that one, it happened in my homestate, Florida, the singers' name is Christina Grimmie, she was signing autographs backstage during the Plaza Live in Orlando, the shot was near fatal so she was pronounced dead when the cops arrived, the murders' name is Kevin Loibl, unfortunately to the dismay of the family and public, his motives were never identified, it's one thing killing someone, but killing someone, then yourself for possibly no reason, is insane and cowardly, my heart goes out to her, her family, friends and fans who had to go though their loss
@Youraverageyoutubeaccount7 ай бұрын
That was Christina grimmie. Rest in peace 😔 (to Christina, not that monster who shot her)
@flawed.7 ай бұрын
Yeah and then there's the Björk stalker that almost mailed a bomb to her house...
@Save0urSisters7 ай бұрын
@@flawed. I love bjork's music but that case was fcking insane
@AngadGrewal-df2tx7 ай бұрын
But she was talented these streamers are loser making money over nothing
@pbg6247 ай бұрын
Fans need to realize that they are never going to be able to date these people and need to get serious help.
@sofiaecheverria84116 ай бұрын
For like I have talked to like a few times and most of them weren’t like this like I get having a crush on one of them but straight up making your self think that you are going to date them is crazy ❤❤❤
@Theunicorn20123 ай бұрын
Fans need to realize that they are never going to be able to date these people and need to get serious hep.
@Uzi-j3u12 ай бұрын
It’s goofy💀🙏
@jphendomeq2821Ай бұрын
@daintydreamer-y9f stop what?? stop saying that some fans are absolutely deranged?
@ihaxus7 ай бұрын
How sad that celebrities get hated, shamed or even worst case scenario killed just because they’re tryna live a normal life
@Theunicorn20123 ай бұрын
How sad that celebrities get hates, shamed or even worst case scenario killed just because they're tryna live a normal life
@JorgBogart7 ай бұрын
Human stupidity knows no limits. This video should be a lesson to all who want to be famous and fans.
@greatsweet987 ай бұрын
To let everyone know, every single fanbase has a toxic side, and it may not always represent as that certain fanbase as a whole. My only advice here is that it's okay to like a certain piece of media or a celebrity, but ALSO stay away from engaging in that toxic side so that it won't affect you and your point of view of that piece of media/celebrity or its fandom as a whole.
@OverbossZero7 ай бұрын
Yeah, that is a very good fact right there. Even innocent things like My Little Pony have their "insane" fans. I don't use social platforms as it is, so I don't really engage with anyone in a fandom related forum, but I've seen Visual's vids and it brought that to my attention. I do wonder why someone would start a "fanbase" for things like mass murderers, though...I mean, it's one thing to write dark stories about these things and have your own characters, but why would you basically put a murderer on a pedistal and hope they get out of prison, despite what they did? That "cute" guy may look that way on the outside but you gotta realize that the inside isn't gonna be as much so - he's done bad stuff. He's twisted by a person who said it was (whatever) to commit crimes! Basically he's Darth Vader, and while there's a chance of him turning and finding some real help, he's in reality not someone you should be praising and wanting to hang out with - especially if he comes after you for his next criminal act.
@Yegor_Mechanic7 ай бұрын
Very true. That's the reason why I, for example, stay away from most Minecraft-related social media, while still watching people building orbital waterguns in the Nether and redstone computers
@chelsicalhoun62667 ай бұрын
The real issue with that is the “toxic side” of fandoms have become near ubiquitous. They scream the loudest, control discussion online, shake and dehumanize people who think/feel differently, gatekeep, etc… And thanks to negative emotions being so addictive, it’s legit hard to find communities of areas that aren’t filled with vitriol at some point. And even moderating your online presence may not be enough.
@tapiokadesu85057 ай бұрын
Yin and yang
@forcedcomedy99127 ай бұрын
Everyone loves saying every fandom has a toxic side, which is true, but not all fandoms breed them the same. K-pop fans love to say this, oh it's a small minority and oh every fandom has it. But the very idea of k-pop breeds the toxicity. It exists for toxicity and will continue to earn money because of the toxicity. Toxic is normal in k-pop. Not a rarity.
@Mathmaniac-vw9ip7 ай бұрын
I will never understand why people are supporting criminals who have done heinous acts just because 'tHeY LoOk CuTe ThO' like girl, life aint sunshines and rainbows. If you were the victims, you'll definitely not say that. If the criminals were ugly, this conversation wouldve never started.
@kutakachicky6 ай бұрын
@@CylenxswizinSimHe killed 2 innocents....i don't think you should defend that even if it was an accident. Beside why would he races on a public road? and breaking the speed limit?? He's a teenage at the time but he should have known better.
@CapriSunIsBetterThanKoolAid6 ай бұрын
@@kutakachickyexactly and let alone the fact there were no skid marks which means that he didnt even try to stop the car and now we have people defending him simply because he’s “attractive”
@4m0nym6 ай бұрын
@@CylenxswizinSim Seriously? Do you really mean what you just said? Dude, you're the perfect example of why opinions can be wrong. He killed 2 completely innocent people through extremely reckless behavior which would've been illegal even if he hadn't killed anyone. The fact that predators may get less time than he did would be a different discussion worth talking about. Taking that as an argument though, to say he got too much time instead of advocating for predators getting more, makes it clear that there's something seriously wrong with your way of thinking.
@4m0nym6 ай бұрын
@@CylenxswizinSim First of all, he wasn't a teenager. He was 18. Yes, the mind is still developing at that age but when you're 18 years old, you're developed enough that you will know that what you're doing is wrong when you do it or plan to do something. Even without the killing of 2 people he was driving 102 mph in a 45 mph zone. I don't know how it works in the US but where I'm from you get your drivers license revoked for life for that shit. Second of all: "we've all done stupid things". How dare you compare killing 2 innocent people, one of which a toddler mind you, to the average person. What the fuck is wrong with you. 3rd: "24 years is too much when we have actual criminals". So that dude wasn't a criminal? At this point I don't believe you're serious anymore. You just can't be. Lastly: "accidents are still accidents" You don't just kill 2 people on accident. Something like that doesn't just happen out of nowhere. Otherwise this stuff would happen all the time to all kinds of people. Driving over the twice the speed limit was a conscious and intentional choice. This doesn't mean he intentionally ran them over. But, I repeat, his EXTREMELY reckless behaviour led to it.
@Hyunjin_Wifey16 ай бұрын
@@4m0nym 18 is teenager but when you turn 18 you just get more freedom by law 20 is adult use your brain it's Eight TEEN
@witsend947 ай бұрын
I wish they would let Kpop singers date. I want my celebs happy, not living out some psycho fan's fantasy of them being single forever.
@SkylorTheWebber7 ай бұрын
Same:(
@RandomName-m8g6 ай бұрын
Same:( sometimes I feel ashamed of being a kpop fan because half the fandom is toxic
@longoriachris946 ай бұрын
Idk I’ve heard somewhere that the K-pop dating ban has been lifted and idols are allowed to date and many of them are probably dating already but in secret to keep sasaeng fans from invading their love lives and their privacy overall
@RandomName-m8g6 ай бұрын
Sometimes when they first debut they can't date and have a 3 year rule where if you stay in your group for 3 years + you can date but I want my idols to be happy so they should be able to date whenever they want and whoever they want.
@partypartyyeah3036 ай бұрын
@@RandomName-m8gyou shouldn’t those aren’t real fans they’re sasaengs. 2% doesn’t make up the rest of the 98.
@NodeCodes7 ай бұрын
bro why do people care about some stranger's dating life???
@johnsonsharon817 ай бұрын
Because they're sad, miserable and have no experience with social interactions.
@j_eezus_christ_bro_chill6 ай бұрын
^No it's not, a majority of kpop fans live the delusion that they somehow have a chance with their idol.
@Hehehhihi6 ай бұрын
It's so toxic and delusional
@mikhaelh42154 ай бұрын
Bc they are simps.
@annakralova47846 ай бұрын
As a true crime fan, it's never seases to horrify me when there's a killer fandom. The worst part of it being the fact that there have been many cases of people becoming murderers just because they idolised a monster. It's just sick
@aflower57686 ай бұрын
Internet gives people way too much freedom and people allow it to influence them way too much too. These people are so crazy
@ericasutton31477 ай бұрын
It’s terrifying to know that these people have this mine set with being attractive to literal psychopaths. Reminds me back in 2014 when Chris Brown beat Rhianna. I kid you not, the girl group I was in at my church was defending Chris Brown when I was sharing my opinion about the then situation. One of the girls who stood up for Brown, her mom was in charge of that group. What goes on your mind if you’re going to stick with an abusive man?
@nepge89677 ай бұрын
There's a reason some people think that women secretly fantasize about being in abusive relationships. A murderer will abuse you, that's all you need to know, you could even become their next victim. And to be honest even Masochists, major ones, would have trouble being with a major abuser.
@toxiczombiewolf56927 ай бұрын
Honestly, it's just mental illness at that point. Or they're a masochist, or the type of person with the mind set I can "FIX them" 😬
@abaddon15037 ай бұрын
Some people are honestly just irredeemable, ESPECIALLY for famous people. I’m willing to bet that somewhere out there, there’s someone willing to stick up for R Kelly.
@johnlee29437 ай бұрын
@@abaddon1503 plenty of people willing to stick up for people walking around with their d1ks out in front of children at pride parades so no surprise there.
@antiimperialista7 ай бұрын
mine set??? lmao
@gryficowa7 ай бұрын
A man broke into her property and the UK decides it's not illegal? WTF
@callmemoon6635Ай бұрын
Yeah our government us fucked like that. It wasn’t charged because nothing was stolen and no one got ‘hurt’, Emotional distress doesn’t neccesarrily count as a crime here
@cookysbiscuits6 ай бұрын
It’s crazy how these “fans” say they love their idols, yet treat them like objects and disregard their feelings… sad
@Temi_mezLeek6 ай бұрын
Remember this: every fandom has toxic people or inappropriate artists. YALL WTH WHY DO I HAVE 144 LIKES??
@KenTakakura6666 ай бұрын
For YG it's both
@panjinurfadillah24896 ай бұрын
Thats true, But there always a rare case where the fandom is just straight up ruin everything. MHA fan is a prime example, they ship deku with a minor character even sending death threat for not making bakugo and deku gay. And JJK fan gone absolutely Lobotomy when gojo die. I could go on and rant about but all im gonna say is, Keep yourself safe and take a break from the internet once in awhile it will help.
@slowed_and_sped_songs6 ай бұрын
@@panjinurfadillah2489true
@mohidafzal32836 ай бұрын
@@panjinurfadillah2489pokemon fandom is similar to mha, I remember how they sent death threats to anyone who didn't agree that ash x Serena ship is canon or how Bea and korrina are canon couple
@Giebachii6 ай бұрын
@@mohidafzal3283 As a Pokémon fan, I was actually unaware of this. Otherwise, I do believe the Pokémon fandom is pretty nice tho.
@Gwathiell7 ай бұрын
I would say, that the industry that dictates terms like "you need to sacrifice your love life for fans, so you can do what you love" or "watch your weight and take drastic diets for same reason" is toxic in first place; no wonder it attracts toxic reaction from fans. When I listen to these stories, my impression is, its about "control, power" and "how far can we push people to do what we say, before they brake or leave". Sadly.
@daeyyoung7 ай бұрын
i wonder how many idols have to pass away before people treat them like actual human beings and stop hating them over such idiotic things
@mayteexxis7 ай бұрын
I have long since detached myself from fandoms and communities after seeing how much of a mess a large number of people are. They barely ever get criticized for it either.
@Tanzuue7 ай бұрын
This is the reason why being in a fandom can only be a bad thing.
@d4nmark227 ай бұрын
It honestly sucks because I would want to be in one that isn't rude, toxic or weird, and where no one is pressured into being single because some few losers said so, or shipping characters that have nothing to do with each other and i do believe there are the rare sane fandoms out there, if people made an effort to take a good look at themselves and address the issues they have and not base their entire lives on the character or person, and realize that famous celebrities are still normal people and their favorite characters aren't what they've made them out to be, they wouldn't be not be creepy, unethical or obsessed about their piece of media, and a significantly less number of fandoms could be cured of this disgusting plague of a few bad apples ruining themselves and the celebrities' lives or the piece of media they love so much
@Mrmysterious-dj1ov7 ай бұрын
Never idolize you can like or admire but if becomes so into something it like being addict 😮 the best thing do is like something but if don’t like something else they do that’s fine most people don’t make or do good stuff every time
@MarMar56545 ай бұрын
Obsession over celebs meeds to be studied, like it's genuinely fascinating that people can get this delusional and obsessive.
@ur.fav_m4xy9617 ай бұрын
As a kpop fan for many years and a my ever since debut, I can confirm that the kpop community is just TOXIC. Especially Karina, apologizing just because shes dating jaewook. Mostly those Winrina shippers, they just cannot handle the fact that all the aespa members are not just into girls, but they can be into guys too. I’m glad that the dating thing is all over but the community stills stays toxic.
@ur.fav_m4xy9617 ай бұрын
And about the weight of kpop idols, I can agree that it’s the biggest deal when it comes to their beauty, Like Giselle aespa (Aeri uchinaga) She has a healthy body for her age but she keeps getting criticized for her weight and her looks. She is a very pretty women and her weight is just fine. Although she isn’t as slim as her other members she is still beautiful.
@JESSIE148647 ай бұрын
As much as i do not like Kpop. You still have to respect them for what they go through. I'd say it is a literal living hell just to have a very little chance to succeed. Even if they did. Their lives would no longer be at their hands. Which is really tragic.
@pufflonn7 ай бұрын
Humanity can really be sad, and way too often.
@panjinurfadillah24896 ай бұрын
But humanity too can be great, Awesome even, You just gotta ignored the bad and focus on the good. Yes its easier said than done with how many drama the world have, but its the only way to stay positive in a not so perfect world
@Kaitlynv447 ай бұрын
With the Yuka Takaoka case. Phoenix was not even dating her. She was paying him for the attention because, he was a host and that was his job. Yuka knew this because she was in the same industry.
@vivianmichi9143 ай бұрын
I was looking for someone to mention this
@vivianmichi9143 ай бұрын
Girly was literally stalking him to everything about and bought him for a night after confronting him she would later attempt to kill him I forgot with what. She didn't kill him completely she wanted him to die slowly and painful and after he died she wanted to take her life afterwards. Fortunately Phoenix did survive.
@jaflx37 ай бұрын
it's crazy to me how some kpop fans go friggen crazy about the weight of idols, but some of them don't even live a healthy lifestyle and they themselves don't even fit the beauty standards that they demand idols to have. we're living in a society where people like to point fingers when they should actually be looking at themselves.
@Emil_Stoltz6 ай бұрын
I mean, yeah. The people who have the mindset of "She shouldn't be dating, because I want a chance with her" are basement dwellers and neckbeards. Like, broski, even if the Idol's desperate and no one else are willing to date them, they'd stay single over getting with a K Pop stan. Especially considering K Pop stans are very vocal about things and the Idols definitely see the shit they post on social media. Sure, they don't speak good English, but considering most, if not all, Koreans can read and understand English, there's no way Idols don't know what's going on in their community
@jamimunchkin70416 ай бұрын
The fact that authorities do nothing to protect people like this must be pretty terrifying for them. It should be unacceptable to all of us that this is allowed to continue.
@not_noob90907 ай бұрын
The car crash guy fandoms are wild💀
@6LittleWendigo62 ай бұрын
Sadly it is pretty common in true crime communities (some of them of course, most of us are not like that), and that kind of obsessions target some of the most vile people imaginable ☠️
@k0rppi2594 ай бұрын
It's crazy to think that in UK the police will arrest you without delay for stating an opinion online, but won't lift a finger if someone breaks into your home, attacks you publicly or moves to your backyard in order to kill you.
@F-15eagle7 ай бұрын
I misread the thumbnail as "I want to marry him out of jail"
@Cloverthecat7 ай бұрын
😂😂😂
@CloudsAndConstellations6 ай бұрын
Same thing.
@lancergirl10125 күн бұрын
I don’t understand how anyone could be attracted to serial killers. Or any killers for that matter
@squizzyicetea6 ай бұрын
I love how the UK will arrest you for saying something mean online, but they won't arrest somebody for stalking a lady and threatening to kill her
@IVEmeritus7 ай бұрын
Not at all surprised by this reaction towards Cameron. You had this type of behavior towards Manson, Dahmer, Ramirez, Bundy, the Columbine kids, etc. People are twisted and need to get their priorities in order.
@darkscarflame48227 ай бұрын
You should do another part but focus on the fictional fandoms because there are some crazy fandoms out there
@EerilyMidnight7 ай бұрын
Hazbin hotel
@noirangel__7 ай бұрын
@@EerilyMidnight real and danganronpa
@d4nmark227 ай бұрын
And the jjk and the infamous mha
@tapiokadesu85057 ай бұрын
H O L O L I V E
@quocbaonguyen21087 ай бұрын
Godzilla fandom too
@emaneditsalot7 ай бұрын
Karina apologizing for just dating? That's...wow..
@panjinurfadillah24896 ай бұрын
Just pure... What?! She apologizing??? it's not even her fault or a crime!. Its relly mest up
@emaneditsalot6 ай бұрын
@@panjinurfadillah2489 fr
@JustsomeoneXB6 ай бұрын
Famous person: *Minding their own business* Toxic/crazy fan: *Gasp* How dare you?!
@AngelMoosh3 ай бұрын
The yandarea killer didn’t kill. She was arrested for attempted murderer. The victim also wasn’t her boyfriend, she was obsessed with a guy she thought was her boyfriend. The victim survived the attack and he’s very very famous in Japan.
@charlulio7 ай бұрын
I got I be into K-pop a couple months ago and I have never seen such insane people!!! A guy named Seunghan was kicked out of his group RIIZE for having a gf and smoking cigarettes before he debuted due to fans outrage he trained for 2 and a half years
@ineeduenthusiast7 ай бұрын
He technically wasn't kicked out of the group, just put on indefinite hiatus, and it was largely due to backlash from the Kfans. I-fans were and are really supportive of him, and ifans tend to be less crazy over dating rumours.
@je1-plays3 ай бұрын
He's back !! Would continue his activities with group from November :D @@ineeduenthusiast
@kawaiiplayzthepixelfanandk17947 ай бұрын
People are disgusting for romanticizing/normalizing these things because of their good looks which just flat out disgusts me
@Beautyinthebreakdown.7 ай бұрын
Only 24 years? Life for a life.. he took 2. That’s fk’d up.
@mettaton32667 ай бұрын
Not trying to glaze on him but, 24 years is a lot...
@Snormite7 ай бұрын
@@mettaton3266 it is, he will miss out on a huge chunk of his life.
@Toenail_VR7 ай бұрын
@@Snormite womp womp, he killed 2 people.
@vanitas.7 ай бұрын
@@Toenail_VR Prison serves as both a place for punishment and rehabilitation. A 24-year sentence for a significant mistake made at 18 years old seems understandable to me. I don’t expect everyone to agree, particularly the husband, but there's no universal solution for such discussions
@El3ktroHexe7 ай бұрын
In Germany he would have gotten 2 years probation for that. Sad facts :(
@AyianaGaming17 күн бұрын
It’s horrible and sad that the k-pop industry judges people based off of there looks
@2010hyundaielantra7 ай бұрын
"Dear slim, i wrote you but you still ain't callin"
@BubblyAsh1236 ай бұрын
I sent two letters back in Autmn you must not've got em
@zakbauer52336 ай бұрын
@@BubblyAsh123there prolly was a problem at the post office or something
@Emil_Stoltz6 ай бұрын
@@zakbauer5233Sometimes I scribble adresses too sloppy when I jot 'em
@APPLP1E7 ай бұрын
I joined in the middle of the premiere and we already talking about people killing eachother, it doesn't get more VisualVenture than that
@yvngglitter7 ай бұрын
WILD THUMBNAIL
@𡶁7 ай бұрын
I can relate to it
@ReinCooked7 ай бұрын
@@𡶁AYOO
@gorillagroddgaming7 ай бұрын
@@𡶁keys (-e)
@ad_697 ай бұрын
Perfect example 👀
@dimitraartistautisticidiotr7 ай бұрын
Bullsh it documentary
@thienypham27387 ай бұрын
this video also can include lots of toxic hip hop worship communty fanbase, especially about Kendrick vs Drake beef fanbase right now
@BluCatGaming7 ай бұрын
Oh that makes sense 🐸
@Rishi-hv4qp7 ай бұрын
bro pls hiphop fanbase is not as toxic as compared to kpop fanbase ya we do argue at comment sections but thats that we forget it after the beef gets over but kpop fanbase takes it to the next level such as stalking voilence etc
@Rishi-hv4qp7 ай бұрын
also our hiphop fanbase dont get mad when our idols date someone we dont get mad at petty things
@Rishi-hv4qp7 ай бұрын
we dont force our idols to breakup just because we want to fulfill our fantasies
@JustAVoiceInTheWind7 ай бұрын
@@Rishi-hv4qpswifties are uranium, then. it's true, lmao
@volatilesouls26686 ай бұрын
Anita: “Help! A stalker broke into my house!” Police: Yeaaaa that’s *not illegal*
@13HushHush2 ай бұрын
In the yuka takaoka case, the guy was a hostess and she became obsessed over him to the point that she would get money illegally or from working just to pay for him to spend time with her. She was so delusional of their "relationship" that she got jealous of him talking to other females who went to his job. They were never in a relationship. She was paying him to be her
@tekbarrier28 күн бұрын
Minor correction: a guy is a host, a female is a hostess
@DonTheBass227 ай бұрын
Toxicity is the reason I completely abandoned any Star Wars fandom after TROS.
@dt46546 ай бұрын
pretty sure I avoid that fandom for this sole reason: I love to pick fights if I feel like it and age doesn't matter to me.
@mikehanrahan55597 ай бұрын
I'm so obsessed with you, Visual Venture. Have you received the lock of my hair that i sent you yet?
@happydxydreams83377 ай бұрын
Pls tell me this is a joke 💀
@crispinbotticelli40827 ай бұрын
It is most likely a joke.
@mndr1017 ай бұрын
damn that's crazy 💀
@quocbaonguyen21087 ай бұрын
This is a joke... right?
@thecompareablezombie7 ай бұрын
I see it's a well acted joke.
@MelaKenzu5 ай бұрын
Idol industry insanity is why I stopped eagerly following/listening to girl/boy groups as much as I used to as a teen and young adult. No matter how glamorous they look, I can’t help but feel bad for them. The mental and physical unhealthy standards is gross
@Yz-tiburon6 ай бұрын
Why is the teenager dude eyes so wide like it’s going to pop off 💀
@stripescharacterstudio6 ай бұрын
Imagine having to publicly apologize for dating someone because a bunch of nobody's were throwing toddler temper tantrums for not dating them instead...
@ak1noakin07 ай бұрын
The most toxic fandom has to be the whole Earth
@Zerotroll7677 ай бұрын
Your'e right and wrong at the same time
@ak1noakin07 ай бұрын
@@Zerotroll767 nah, it depends on everyone's POV. Earth sucks and doesnt' suck
@panjinurfadillah24896 ай бұрын
@@ak1noakin0But it's not a 50/50 bad and good, there are more good in this world than bad people
@ak1noakin06 ай бұрын
@@panjinurfadillah2489 lowkey you gotta start looking at the news ☠
@stvrlightedd6 ай бұрын
@@panjinurfadillah2489this shows that u are out of touch with the world
@vanovasmith95866 ай бұрын
Guys, just a little heads up, remember when it comes to stalkers, keep them as distant as possible. What I mean is, don't add possessive nouns like "my stalker," "his stalker," or "her stalker." Because it gives them a kick like "Dang right you/he/she is mine!"
@Samxsonite50518 күн бұрын
Grown ass adults ... do these people have nothing better to do?
@HebaHosni7 ай бұрын
This is more tragic than I expected 😢
@rmsiq148isstruggling37 ай бұрын
As being a devoted BTS fan for 8 years now, this is why we have to constantly remind some fans that they aren't BTS's parents or anyone. Just do your duty as a fan in streaming and voting. The thing is that fans forget that their idols are humans and they don't owe you anything. I'm very defensive when it comes to hate towards them because their music, philosophical lyrics had prevented me from taking my own life years ago.
@aariharoserose7 ай бұрын
you can't entirely blame fans companies are the main reason they target these kinds of people because it's easy to satisfy people with no brain but of course everything comes with a price i was a bts fan too but i have noticed how they start targeting s*x deprived people lol
@ike_alt7 ай бұрын
I wouldn't be surprised if FNF was in heere. Harassers, bullies, assholes, people who take offense to negative opinions about a certain creator (*Cough* My Ex Friends *Cough*), Pedos, Groomers, all the big package. I was even a victim of this in a Modding Server for FNF..
@justkittensbeingkittens58926 ай бұрын
5:10 it’s terrifying just how many murder cases started with the future victim calling the police due to stalking. It’s actually insane. They’d rather wait until it’s a murder because it’s PROBABLY not a big deal so why bother with all that annoying paperwork. So many women have called the police for stalkers many, many times and then one day, they get killed/assaulted by that stalker.
@YoumnaKhodro7 ай бұрын
In the real life yandere case he wasn't actually her bf she just turned obsessive after coming to his host club multiple times she even said that she's moving in with her "boyfriend" i watched the whole case please fix your mistakes
@ItsPandaKing60677 ай бұрын
Some fandoms are really toxic or bad to the point that it might become something lethal
@silverchairx7 ай бұрын
I read about a K-pop fan was had jizzed in to his hand and went to a meet and greet. That's why they stopped the fans being able to touch them or shake their hands
@PrivateYT-GG7 ай бұрын
WHAT What was the reason that they did that?!
@NehanMohammed13 ай бұрын
I had a seizure reading your comment.
@JackiMareena7 ай бұрын
The topic of Stalkers is an extremely sensitive subject for me as I was kidnapped and technically "deleted" by my stalker ex when I was 19 years old... With that being said... After almost 15 years of talking to 1,000's of other DV victims, not a single one continued the activities that got said starlets attention... It's not that the police don't take them seriously it's just that with certain cases where the victim knowingly and willingly puts themselves in those situations, they the victims are pretty much tying the hands of law enforcement as any halfway decent lawyer can point to the victim not changing any of their routines against them... the moral of the story is don't put your business on the internet for attention because you're going to get the attention you asked for
@jessy19827 ай бұрын
Shouldnt the first incident be enough to be illegal though? If you need to fight an intruders or they're trespassing or chasing you, or threatening your life, that first time is enough, even if you don't move or block them or whatever. Also moving homes is extremely expensive and complicated and should not be the solution... Basically, why should the women change their routines to not be assaulted?? The assaultor is always at fault.
@Flesh_Wizard7 ай бұрын
@@jessy1982assault and adaptation to it are very different
@DaFunPlayzYT7 ай бұрын
Hes too cute for prison is crazy bro doesn't even look good💀
@j_eezus_christ_bro_chill6 ай бұрын
it's giving "Toji is so hot" energy
@Z.O.19916 ай бұрын
I was thinking the exact same thing. He's average looking.
@Flake526 ай бұрын
“He’s too cute for prison” this sentence made me laugh. Can’t believe this people were actually saying this
@Samuel-is2wx6 ай бұрын
Dude looking like meth addict😂
@fudgefolly85946 ай бұрын
People always forgets the victims😢
@elidragom5 ай бұрын
parasocial relationships are not talked about enough as OBVIOUS indicators of mental issues. can’t think of one person where it’s healthy, shit is mad weird & normalized nowadays
@Dab_206 ай бұрын
I find it crazy that literally the second video on sweet anita is "Does size matter?" Also I love the videos you're putting out. I find them so entertaining to watch and I hope you don't stop posting.
@frtzkng6 ай бұрын
The fact that certain words are censored just so some Algorithm does not deny your source of income should be of utmost concern to everyone. Future censorship will not be political, it will be corporate.
@HalooTheEpokGaemer5 ай бұрын
I'm confused how people say cameron is cute, look at his eyes popping out, the serial killer stare, how is that even cute.
@Corpsedelectable01384 ай бұрын
To me it looks like fear and dread and i fricken love it
@ApolloEmpire-g2c7 ай бұрын
The thumbnail is crazy💀
@eggshelled_7 ай бұрын
Fr tho 💀
@leatherace19283 ай бұрын
Celebrities: capitalize on obsession greatly Also celebrities: why are they obsessed with me?!?!
@VănNguyênNguyễn-c2s5 ай бұрын
Yan = crazy Dere = love Maybe two of this word is what we can call to these people you mentioned.
@hinatashoyo19376 ай бұрын
The way genshin/any hoyo games and pjsk isn't here is crazy
@greenfuntimefreddycal65975 ай бұрын
Because this video is about Fandoms of IRL things
@omar-1121Ай бұрын
yeah genshin fandom bullied va just beacuse the charcter she played is not good gameplay wise and killed a cat becuase the charcter cat offical art version look like the cat was killed
@Plant-c9p7 ай бұрын
I know it’s semi-recent, but I’d still be shocked if the Godzilla fandom isn’t mentioned.
@Missarantx7 ай бұрын
Yeah, wdym?
@amandapanda50877 ай бұрын
What happened?
@Plant-c9p7 ай бұрын
Basically the fandom is divided by how people go about figuring out which Godzilla/kaiju is stronger, and no one agrees with each other, which basically just leads to tons of death threats from one party, the one person taking out their anger on other members of said party, which causes THAT party to not take too kindly to people of the adjacent party, which continues the cycle of ever-increasing toxicity. At this point, if you wanna make an opinion on something Godzilla related, prepare to have the reasoning and patience to defend it, because someone is going to get angry. And that’s not even mentioning the ridiculous amount of pedophilia, racism, homophobia, transphobia, misogyny, etc. in the fandom. Granted, it’s a loud minority, just a really, REALLY loud minority, paired with a really quiet majority, and a lot of big content creators (especially the younger ones and the females) are starting to leave the fandom due to constant sexual harassment, or just flat-out discrimination against their race, religion, sexuality, etc. And all of this is at an all-time high, so let’s just say it’s not a good time to be a Godzilla fan. TLDR: It’s pretty bad over here. Like, really bad.
@chelsicalhoun62667 ай бұрын
@@Plant-c9pso it’s power scaling drama? Mixed with hyper offensive garbage? I’m not shocked sadly
@Plant-c9p7 ай бұрын
@@chelsicalhoun6266 Yeah, pretty much unfortunately. Just mix some fanboying (and by some I mean a metric f-ton) in there, and you basically get the picture. And it sucks that it’s only getting attention now.
@kokuhakuqiun42156 ай бұрын
I don’t think Asian Beauty understands how harmful forced fasting can be, not including the issues that be brought on by too much weight loss. Low blood sugar from prolonged fasting can cause mood swings, discomfort, cravings, and fainting, which is more harmful if you aren’t at least consuming something with enough sugars to keep your blood sugar at a good enough level. I feel sorry for Felix and those forced to starve themselves for dangerous and inhumane beauty standards. Edit: I have ARFID and intentionally fasted and googled the consequences of such a thing so this is where I’m coming from. Asian Beauty and Modelling agencies literally promote EDs just to keep their employees at an unhealthy low weight which comes with severe consequences.
@kidzeevirus86607 ай бұрын
Loved the way you talk about things while making it detailed but not boring... After a while I was able to watch a full KZbin video because of my messed up attention span.
@minmowo3 күн бұрын
how the hell is stalking/making death threats not illegal??? ugh, those guys are so useless, they don't even care about people who are being targeted until it's too late.
@Hollandicus_bird7 ай бұрын
stalking behaviour in the uk✔ small replica of a knife that cant cut anything ❌ truly a british moment
@lesleycouch6557Ай бұрын
What do you mean? Sorry, I don't get it.
@Hollandicus_birdАй бұрын
@lesleycouch6557 someone got arrested for carrying a small replica of the master sword in the uk
@critterwhisperer58217 ай бұрын
Why do people feel the need to judge what is right vs what should be based on their own standards? They need to stop forcing their beliefs on people that have the courage to show their own talents. When I'm using my talents, my brain mutes everything and everyone around me and I don't care who sees me. I love my lil critters and I'll chase them to the grossest places on earth so I can learn their behaviors
@NightSong8976 ай бұрын
The fact that fans can’t stand that someone is happy so they stripe that happiness away from them. Like I may be Aroace and have emotional numbness and even I can feel how upsetting that can be, like these K-pop star’s are not dolls their people just like you and I so let them be human and have love sense their adults.
@SS501Fan1016 ай бұрын
Been a KPop fan for 16 years now and it has definitely gotten worse, I mean the letter written in period blood and the attempted poisoning were bad but it has definitely gotten much worse
@daorignaldumbucketАй бұрын
Protip: if you're being stalked, don't refer to the person stalking you as "your stalker". The stalker wants a relationship with you and saying "my stalker" implies a sort of relationship, which can further encourage them. Call them out by name.
@SilverCipher006 ай бұрын
It's fucking disgusting that stalkers can go to such lengths and they'll receive no consequences.
@The_Murder_Drone_Nerd2 ай бұрын
12:13 okay. Now I’m mad. You can’t just destroy someone’s hopes and dreams because they don’t look good. Makes me glad that my dream is to become a voice actor.
@KohliN76 ай бұрын
Great Video as always. If you want to do a part 2, I suggest you talk about the sports fandom, especially football (soccer).
@nolasdays6 ай бұрын
As a kpop fan, I’d like to state a few things for people who are unfamiliar with how our fandoms work, so yes the kpop industry is very toxic, im sure most of us know that, personally im not really involved in the the drama that goes on, and I mostly just like it cause of the music but Ill give you some insight: the parasocial relationships that fans form with idols have been insanely normalized and most fans don’t even realize how obsessed they are with these artists, however… we can’t solely blame THEM for this, kpop companies highly encourage this behaviour.. why? profit. They make fans feel like the idols only have eyes for them and basically like they’re gonna be 60yo jumping up and down on stage and telling them how much they love them and want to protect them blah blah blah. Sometimes it’s not even just romantic parasocial relationships that they form but they literally consider that person/group THEIR FAMILY, they literally form cults and joke about it like it’s the most normal thing ever, and don’t even get me started on how defensive they get if you even so DARE to criticize their favs, I had a personal experience with this that I’ll give as an example: So, the group enhypen recently had a comeback, after listening to the album I went onto a certain community that I will not name, to give my opinion and discuss a very important issue that I had with it, mind you I SPECIFICALLY stated that I was not trying to criticize the members of the group, I said that I was dissatisfied with the album BECAUSE it felt like the other songs apart from the title track were very rushed + the issue that I had was that the members haven’t had a break in a very long time and I was just worried for their health. The amount of backlash that I got is something you wouldn’t even expect from the craziest Taylor swift stans. What’s even crazier is how fast they switch up, when I went on there the following morning, the same people that were threatening to dox me were giving me warm “good morning‘s” I honestly thought I was tweaking. Although I can say I also blame the idols themselves a little for the parasocial behaviour issue, sometimes the idols are straight forward and DONT feed into fans’ delusions. Other times, however, they completely encourage it, like I get “loving your fans” or what not for getting u to where you are but sometimes it goes too far and when they start “flirting” with their fans I feel like it just gets even weirder from a perspective of a normal person, like I said it’s gotten so normalized that the videos of “idols flirting with fans 😂😂❤ XO” get shared around on different social media platforms and the response is always the same.. “oh he’s so silly” “he was teasing her” “haha I’d pass out if he did that to me” … yeah I think u get what im pointing at.. also a former idol has revealed that once when she had to fill out a forum on “her ideal type” she was told not to actually put her ideal type and be as vague as possible so yeah.. Also another big issue is SHIPPING … like on one end there’s people who would go insane if they found out their favourite idol was dating and on the other end there’s the ones who would literally track u down if u said that their favourite ship “isnt real”… an example for one of these would be Minsung (a ship name for lee know(Minho) and Han jisung from stray kids) also one of the most popular ships in the entire kpop fandom, but trust me the “I love their FRIENDSHIP” people aren’t any better(insisting that they are friends and there’s no possibility of anything more) Please DO NOT take this as me defending shippers I do not support shipping anyone in ANY WAY unless it is confirmed by the parties involved themselves, what im trying to say is that shippers are just as bad as the fans that don’t let their idols date, and if there are any of them reading this: No, Lee know and Han aren’t getting each other pregnant in the bathroom of a music show. Anyway I think im going a bit off track here.. another thing I’d like to talk about is the normalization of debuting minors and LITERAL CHILDREN in the industry. It’s a very big issue that even kpop fans have started to realize but also something I don’t think will change soon and might just get even worse, let me get something clear: being an artist/idol is a FULL TIME JOB, and it’s a very risky industry to step into when you’re just starting out, and a big part of it, as stated in the video, are visuals. There is a certain age limit until which someone can debut and an even lower one for they can become a trainee/start training, which is why many of them start VERY young even in their pre teen years, nowadays it’s normal to see a child of 12-14 years old debut, and being an active idol is unbelievably difficult and tiring, and even tho this issue has been talked about among fans I think people still don’t care enough for something to actually change. I’d like to be able to say that it’s “not all kpop fans” and “locals just don’t get it” and trust me there really are some normal ones (hi im one of them ig?) but it definitely is MOST. Anyway if you actually read through all of this, here’s a cake 🎂 cause damn you deserve it
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this is really insane. i had to experience a stalker too, but not me, but my mom. to this day the stalker still stalks my mother.