VLOG: An Honest Chat w My Parents About Divorce and Dating, NYE + Changing my Name

[@jcmarshall1303]

That’s the kind of parents a young woman should have. No judgment, open minded and fair. Tough conversation but honest answers.

[@kareencraddock8245]

Michel, if your parents aren’t the perfect parents, they’re pretty damn close 💗

[@MichelJanse]

I love them so much 🥺🥺

[@CarrieLemieux]

I'm absolutely loving vlogger Michel. Your parents are such a joyful addition to your vlogs, and your relationship with them is so wonderful to see. I am glad they are so supportive and understanding. Sending you "big sister" hugs to all 3 of you!!

[@michellereedg]

thinking you should turn your old podcast into one with your parents 😉 haha, but really, they are so wise and such a blessing to have! love what your mom said about finding a partner who finds joy in serving others so they don’t expect you alone to fulfill all their desires 🤍

[@andrewma9975]

agreed

[@MichelJanse]

Wait I really love this idea 👀 *goes to consult Chris and Carolyn*😂

[@MegaNerdification]

Amazing idea !!!

[@amyfretz3387]

I love this idea. Your parents have so much wisdom and experience to share as well you plus it would give you quality time together sharing a common project. I love the Joyce Meyer podcast/KZbin platform called, “Talk it Out”. If you are not familiar they have a panel of several ladies and sometimes Joyce. They are different ages and have different life situations. They talk it out by primarily sharing personal stories of what they are working through or have worked through in the past with an emphasis of we are a work in progress continually learning as life stages change and new situations present themselves.

[@loudlittleroar675]

That made me smile when your dad said your mom's my best friend.

[@lararizzle]

I'm crying my eyes out watching this. I'm going through the same thing and he's only just moved out so it's very raw. Your parents are soo so lovely and it's honestly so comforting watching your videos whilst I'm going through this situation ❤️❤️❤️

[@cbebop5]

May God bless and keep you Lara. He is with you during your greatest time of need right now and He will sustain you. You'll make it through sister. Promise.

[@blasiomuhinda5913]

Was the reason behind your split so bad that it couldnt be worked out? Just asking. Seems alot of relationships nowadays paint a perfect picture, but they always seem to end.

[@MichelJanse]

We are here for you, friend 🤍

[@laurenalfonso3773]

@@blasiomuhinda5913 I’ve been where these women are and also understand your question… the hardest part a lot of times is that marriages CAN be healed and the issues don’t have to be terrible but if both partners aren’t working toward the same thing it like her dad said, 50, 60 years of pain isn’t worth it. If both spouses truly want it to work IT CAN even in bad situations. In mine even with some pretty bad issues I was willing to try and my ex simply wasn’t!

[@nechamascher7199]

Same here, just without the supporting parents and family! Think that makes all way harder....

[@yvonnenaser7445]

Your parents are what all parents should aspire to be. I am taking so much inspiration from your parents. Good job!

[@Judy122550]

if only the world had more Christian parents like yours what a wonderful world it would be . There would be so much happiness & love among the people Have a lovely day & up & coming weekend !

[@rebeccameinzer8551]

I agree. I am Catholic and divorce is a big no but when my sister divorced my parents were there for her!

[@Judy122550]

@@rebeccameinzer8551 My question why would a parent want their daughter in an abusive relationship how sad is that how controlling & unloving they are doing it for themselves without regards for the welfare of their daughter I am so happy your parents were so supportive of your sister

[@rebeccameinzer8551]

@@Judy122550 I really have no idea. Even the Catholic church offers an annualment in the case of abuse etc.. it's sad to me that parwnts put ideals above well being.

[@jswa1225]

Those parents are so invested in their daughter just being ok. I like how you talked about a wedding and divorce at the same time which showed no expectation of everyone in the family going through their personal highs and lows at the same time.

[@sugartub]

It's refreshing to see how supportive and open-minded your parents are. My wish is that everyone would have supportive and loving parents like that.

[@laneyellis1602]

Your parents are sweethearts! My dad didn't believe I was abused for the first 2 years after my divorce, and wow was that hard. So glad you have such wonderful supportive parents!

[@fuertewood]

The conversation that you had with your parents hit hard. I LOVE that your parents are supportive. Although I took initiative to end the relationship bcz there was cheating, verbal abuse and towards the end physical abuse my parents pointed fingers at me. It was my fault, I didn’t work hard enough, am not thinking about our kids. and they tried to get us back together. They made me feel horrible for leaving my ex. I wish they would have been understanding because I had no one to lean on for the most part. It was just me and my kids. From time to time I would talk to my aunt or a friend, but I felt like I was burden so I kept it to myself. You are blessed!

[@zailiarrlou]

You are not a burden by any means! Please never feel that way. Sending you my support

[@kellyl.3059]

It is never your fault. There is no reason for abuse of any kind. It is better that your kids don't grow up in that environment. Sending you hugs and support!

[@karaa7595]

So many crappy parents in the world. You deserved better. I know you'll do better with your own kids.❤️

[@skarlitbegoniahz]

Your dad has like the purest spirit it’s so sweet.

[@tinagodfrey6890]

The relationship with your parents is priceless!!!

[@joannbaca153]

You have been blessed with such wonderful parents, Michel! They are so sweet, loving and supportive! Thank all of you for such an open, honest talk. I'm sorry about the circumstances that led to you returning to Texas, but I am so happy you get to be near your family! Wishing you and your family the very best in 2022! ❤

[@kristenharrison9887]

I love how pure Michel is. Her parents are so supportive and precious and I’m so thankful that she has their support through this time.

[@esteph154]

As a mom of a 13 month old baby girl your parents inspire me to hopefully have the relationship you all have with my baby girl. So beautiful 🥰

[@sargesal]

I LOVE YOUR PARENTS. IT IS EASY TO SEE HOW THEY RAISED SUCH A LOVELY DAUGHTER.

[@lindatrue3905]

It is awesome that you have your parents' support. I love what your parents said. I received very strong support from my parents, but also from my minister at church when I was a young person going through a divorce. He reminded me that just because someone else broke their vows to me does not mean I broke my marriage vows, even though I was going through a divorce. That made me feel so much better at the time, and now I am reminded of that support and how that lifted me up so that I could move forward in my life and in my relationships. Thank you for reminding people that we can talk about marriage, divorce, changes in life and not be judged even if we are in different places in life, but we can all support each other in whatever "season of life" we find ourselves.

[@marissamorah4159]

Your parents are literal angels on earth I love them and feel like I know them 🥺

[@hayleybergan9141]

So glad that you're thriving. It took me much longer at 30 to get to where you're at. It's been five years and I'm still focusing on me and my young boys. I don't think I'll ever be able to trust enough to date again.

[@ggpink9044]

I tear up watching your dad. You’re so lucky to have one. Thanks for sharing both of your parents with us, I adore them.

[@kimberlyvanzandt2078]

Love it!!! I have a 23 year old son and an almost 21 year old they were both home with us playing board games, enjoying yummy food and making family memories with us this new years eve. Glad to hear Max is doing well...we love our 4 legged family members!

[@kathysnyder3881]

You are blessed with the loveliest, sweetest, most supportive parents...in the world!!! I lost my dad when I was in 6th grade and my mom when I was 30. I went through a VERY emotionally abusive relationship and it would have been so much easier to get through and get out of if I had them. I know you already do...but cherish them and hold on to them so tight! ❤

[@princessjones4953]

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[@anitatownsend8386]

I agree with your dad friendship is so important in your marriage also God has to be the center of your marriage too. I went through a divorce when I was 25 years old with 2 young boys that was almost 30 years ago but a few years later I met my husband now and we celebrated our 25 year anniversary so you can meet the right man in God's timing. I'm sending prayers to you.

[@princessjones4953]

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[@marie-joseelevasseur3783]

As if I didn’t love you parents already. I totally adore their vues on seperation and marriage and your mom got me crying when she was saying how much you need to be cherished and love in you relationships. I am older but in a probably unhealthy relationship listening to you and your folks talk about what is needed to be successful…. Love you so much enjoy single life and live your best life as l know you can

[@lindseycraig2323]

Your parents are so lovely! Love the relationship you have with them, and their relationship with each other. The way your dad answered the questions was the sweetest thing I’ve ever heard, and hearing him saying your mom is his best friend melted my heart! You’re such a genuine person and love all the authenticity you provide on your channel! Loving the vlogs too by the way!

[@pennyl4875]

I love that you spent New Years with your parents playing board games. They are so supportive. You should let your feelings unravel and once the pain fades, there is joy. Enjoy this season in your life. It isn’t just about the loss of your marriage; your home…it’s also your new beginning of living your best life for you! Honor your heart.

[@implorapace]

It is so very kind of your sweet parent to extend kindness and warmth. It is amazing! I don’t have supportive parents so this warms my heart like no other. Thank you so much! 💗🥰

[@mrssweetcaroline04]

You have no idea how much I needed to hear your parents’ advice. I’m also Blessed with amazing parents who have given me pretty much identical advice, but to hear it from parents that aren’t your own, it hit differently. Thank you for posting this. 💗

[@theextremebudgeter2775]

Your parents melt my heart; they are so charming! 2022 is going to be a great year for you. Of course there'll be setbacks and sadnesses along the way but more and more you'll take them in your stride x

[@mimimom731]

Lost my fur baby on December 1st. She was my world for sure. I have teen kids, but my fur baby was just that my baby. It’s been the hardest thing I’ve dealt with. Her loss will forever be engraved in my brain. Glad max will be okay. Love him as much as you need too. That’s what our pets do for us. They care about us no matter what!! We show them the same. Unconditional love and acceptance.

[@hangdazhang7876]

It’s simply wholesome that you and your parents are basically wearing the same clothes. Thanks for sharing!

[@cinger-xy5me]

Your parents are lovely! I’m so glad to see that you have so much support. I went through at divorce at 24 and it was for the best. You are so smart to focus on what you are learning about yourself and never forget that you are worthy as you are always!!! ❤️

[@kathleenhetherington8829]

Honestly Michel I’m enjoying the newly single vlogs more than anything you’ve done so far. Even though your going through a really rough patch, your courage, honesty, excitement and sweet exuberance is so great to watch and I’m so pulling for the new Michel Janse! Go get it Girl!

[@SamWest96]

Oh wow. I have incredible parents and while my marriage is in a rough patch (2 years of financial exhaustion + being first time parents to a 15 month old) we're ok. Still, your parents' messages made me cry. I think mostly because there are so many people who don't have support and it made me emotional to think that my daughter could go through a season like this. The reality is that most people experience a hard break up in their life and it hit me like a truck that she could experience this. Woah, taking in what your parents say and storing it away

[@brinaf2857]

Your parents are adorable, It's lovely to see a couple being together for so long and still being so in tune. ❤

[@stephaniewinkler1743]

I just love how your parents are such a prime example on how you should love your kids through all seasons. I love watching you grow into the person you were meant to become!!

[@danielledarling4906]

This is so sweet. I love that you had them give their advice to everyone going through a hard time

[@jeanetteoxo]

Your parents are so sweet. Like so happy you have such supportive parents during this time. 🤍

[@amyprusa5086]

You’re parents are the sweetest! What role models for us all! I’m so happy for you that you have such a supportive and loving family and now have the opportunity to see them much more often.

[@liliesofthefield5310]

The thing about divorce is, if one person wants out or stops trying, there is no resolution, so in your situation, you did everything you could, but it wasn't enough, you were trying to fill up a cup that had no bottom

[@rnjedilaura]

I was thinking the same thing. More and more it seems that she was the only one in the marriage and that will never work. I'm glad to hear her starting to except that she did what she could but didn't have a partner who was as committed to the marriage. You can't change people, make them love you.

[@liliesofthefield5310]

@@rnjedilaura totally, I feel like initially she probably felt like, oh if I had done this differently or thar, we could have made it work, but like a, marriage, a divorce isn't something that happens over night, it builds and builds, and when one person in the marriage sees divorce as an option instead of trying to work it out, there is no hope

[@annejia5382]

That's a great analogy

[@crystalassam433]

Michel your parents truly are amazing. Family can be the silver lining in really tough times 💕

[@kacee_is_bored]

You have such sweet and supportive parents. I'm so happy that they are able to support you through this.

[@michellemohammed195]

Oh waww, your parents are so emotionally intelligent. You are truly blessed to have them.

[@lpetmcd]

I went through a divorce after almost 4 years of marriage. I was so relieved when I finally told my parents that my ex-h and I were having issues (he was deployed). He cheated on me, and continued to cheat on his next partner. I’ve now been married for almost 15 years to a great guy who taught me what love really is. It’s out there! Kudos to your parents, it’s so nice to have supportive parents. I was truly blessed with mine.

[@karaa7595]

❤️

[@MourasBouras]

Thank you to mom and pop Janse. The parental comfort and advice all us girls need to hear in thses times that try the soul.

[@kiwimitts2]

Your makeup in the opening clip was stunning! I would never have guessed you have dry skin. You and Max will remain in my prayers for continued healing and happiness. You're doing great, Michel. You are going to come out of this stronger.

[@eclecticheiress9437]

oh this gives all the feels of being re-born, adopted and raised by your parents!!! you are all so wonderful and the conversation is healthy and mature. I love it.... thank you for sharing your spirit.

[@sahara3790]

I love your parents. Your so very lucky to have their support. They are articulate and kind and love you so much. I’m new to your channel but you are so strong and life will be better for you. I’ve been there but had 2 toddlers at the time that I chose my future happiness and health and role modelling the family I want for them even though I was the first divorce and stigma attached back over 20 years ago. Believe in yourself and nothing is impossible. You are intelligent, young and beautiful and a solid upbringing. You got this!!

[@steph4287]

I know there are ups and downs in this season, but seeing your parents be so supportive and loving is so touching it brings tears to my eyes 💕

[@firesidechatswithkristy677]

Your parents are so authentic and wise. Love this parents chat, thank you for doing this video. So many people can benefit from their advice.

[@kawanpowers3562]

The love of your parents is a massive blessing. It ministers to me. May your journey forward be filled with continued hope, freedom, healing and peace. Thank you for being vulnerable and real.

[@EastCoastPlusForty]

your dad reminds me of my dad. I miss him so much he passed away when he was in his 60s. Same personality and very thoughtful and wise.

[@sunnivs]

I love the way your parents look at you. You can tell they really really love you.

[@jacquelinewren1010]

Your parents advice to us going through something similar made me cry but was also the highlight of my day ♥️ thank you to all three of you for this video.

[@LaceyS31]

When I saw the way your daddy looked lovingly at you when you guys sat down together, it made me tear up. We're always daddy's girls even when we grow up!

[@rondastothers472]

When your blessed with great parents the best thing to do is share them often with us all!!

[@ilgitoprak6544]

I am also blessed with amazing parents like yours. Maybe that’s why I’m loving the content with your parents. 💕

[@amycamper07]

Your parents are the sweetest 2 people!! I am so glad they are there for you and support you. Y'all are an awesome family and you can see the love and support your parents have for you

[@kellyl.3059]

I love how supportive and close knit your family is with you. I love your parents genuineness. Your family seem like good people. 😀

[@korinakay8859]

Absolutely loving the chat with your parents. So much WISDOM!! You are so blessed!!

[@saraj6305]

Dang... no wonder you're as sweet, genuine and intelligent as you are.. your parents are the sweetest people

[@kaiw522]

Thank you so much Mr and Mrs Janse ❤ the friend group values your opinions highly!!

[@sarah8579]

I love your parents so much. I've seen you all navigate this journey with so much grace, and I am truly in awe and encouraged. I hope to be like them if I ever become a parent.

[@davidrosenblatt8335]

wow your dads advice for what to enjoy in single life is so solid :)

[@dianale7572]

I know EXACTLY what you mean about Max. It made me tear up. I rescued my dog a few months before I was diagnosed with ovarian cancer three years ago. She has been by my side this whole time while I continue fighting. I of course have people who are my whole world but she’s different. I totally get it, so know you are not alone in that! ❤️

[@adiladilshat8923]

I really love ur parents, it makes me miss my parents so much… it’s so good that you live close with them….

[@rebeccazahn5299]

I adore your parents. They are so kind, grounded, with healthy attitudes and boundaries! I see where your awesomeness comes from.

[@carmenalabat8425]

Your parents are such sweethearts with plenty of great advice. I can see the apple doesn’t fall from the tree. Such joy to watch the three of you ❤️❤️❤️💯

[@craft_yplanning1012]

Your parents are so sweet! Glad you have them there for support

[@amandamilano5569]

I love how raw and honest you've been. I've been here for a few years now and this raw genuine you is my favorite 💕

[@ashleyhiemstra]

I love your parents! What a blessing to have them in your life🤍 they are a true gift! I’m feeling so hopeful in this new year that you will be able to find so many new treasures in life and experiences that will be so precious.

[@darlenemartin248]

Michel, I'm so happy to see you without all the stress. You are being your true self and you are starting to shine BIG. I couldn't be happier for you. Enjoy this time in your life. You are in the best of it, right now! Take your time and Mr. right will be there before you know it. We all deserve to be wanted in the same way as we want them. I'm wishing you the best of luck with many God's blessings. Oh, cherish your wonderful parents. They are truly your rock.

[@NikitaUnique]

Michel, I’m just so thankful for your parents, and that they are a beautiful influence in your life. I know how important and precious that is. Hold tight to your family. 🙏🏻💕

[@krhardesty]

I am so glad you have parents who love you and - even if they might not understand everything going on with your marriage - support you. ❤️

[@grafffuller3265]

Love your relationship with your parents. We have same with our kids (three grown adults, between 23 to 30). Family is VERY important.

[@Tara-oy5ni]

Your parents seem like kind, supportive, lovely people. So glad you have them.

[@gracedarlenemcpherson9079]

Michel your Mom & Dad are adorable. You have such a wonderful loving family. They are truly a blessing.

[@MGillDesign]

Be thankful for the time you have with your folks. I miss my dad, and would be honored to spend a New Years in his presence or get a phone call from him (one more time). Nothing to be embarrassed about. I know it means a lot to them, for sure.

[@sailormoon8855]

Michel ~ this is the best video you have done. Your parents are helping many others because there are indeed many that do not have supportive and understanding parents unfortunately. I’m happily married. However, I don’t have supportive and understanding parents as I feel today. Consider yourself blessed even though you went through a difficult season as we all go through this hard thing called life. Bless you

[@Satfirescat]

I absolutely adore your parents. They are so loving and supportive.

[@ariellegallagher5002]

Can I just say the heart to heart with your parents hit me hard. My husband and I have been through a lot. Like... a lot. I've always gone to my mom about these hard times when he completely broke my heart and she always just said, "Marriages are hard. You have to work through it." If I was told what your parents said, my life would be completely different and I'd be okay with that. I love your parents and I am so glad yhey support you and just want the best for you.

[@xoxoxxoo]

Sending lots of love ❤ your parents are amazing, you and your family have such a wonderful relationship

[@trinc9015]

Completely a fellow dog mom. My doggies are such a Blessing in my life. ❤️

[@booklovingnerd]

I am loving your parents right now. I love that they are so positive. I also love their advice and wish I had family like them.

[@francesaranda]

You are so incredibly blessed to have such great, loving and supportive parents! It’s always fun hanging out with you.

[@ericalissette708]

I’ve never commented on a video on KZbin, EVER! But I have to say I adore you! Just sending you all the hugs & love & praying all the blessings over your life 🤍

[@billandlisarempel1427]

Your parents seem like incredible people. I'm praying for you.

[@andreamarie9526]

I love your family so much!!!! I've thought this for years but like, I always wanted and felt you belonged in Texas and always prayed you may end up there again, sad it is for sad reasons but I can't help but think this is where you are meant to be in life and back with your amazing family and all the memories you are making with them and that makes my heart so so happy for you to be on this path in that type of way! many prayers for a bright future and the love with your family and friends will carry you though as well as the lord will guide you in your new journey of life!

[@ItsScarllet]

"outdo in kindness for each other !" this is my parents exactly

[@alexandrademartini7496]

What a sweet video. Serving others is always the answer.

[@flyingintherain19]

I love the relationship you have between you and your parents. It's amazing how supportive and affectionate you all are. I'm pregnant right now and never had a relationship like that with my parents. I was wondering if there was anything you could share about how you are so close to them, because I'd love to have that relationship with my daughter. ❤ Take care Michel!

[@valeriehlubik3544]

I loved your hair in the beginning of the vlog. Your parents are great. Your dad made me cry. He is so wise and sweet.

[@BeautyOnABudget]

just got to the part where you sit down to chat with your parents and i love how much more comfortable they've grown to being on camera with you over the years!

[@Iris-gy2mi]

Michel, your parents are such a breath of fresh air! How blessed you are to not only have your parents together, but both of them are incredibly supportive and have such a good head on their shoulders! You are so strong and it's beautiful to see. This is random, but if you see this comment, would you mind mentioning the restaurants you try in your vlogs or in the description...I live about 45 minutes away and the food looks amazing!

[@melindagordon5278]

What an awesome video! Your parents ... I have no words - amazing, awesome, beautiful, kind, loving, etc, etc... What a blessed young lady you are and so are they. Congrats to your sister on her up coming wedding. X X X Hope Max is feeling better soon!

[@sheilavanduynfote5539]

I really enjoyed this chat with your parents and their perspective on Divorce, dating etc. I can see where you get your life values they are just so grounded and amazing. Divorce is horrible, however, we all have seasons and people in our lives and Brook was part of your season. You have really blossomed since moving back home. So Hello Friend how are ya!!!!!! I just feel so amazing when you greet us in the vlog❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️. Your parents were spot on about staying in a relationship just because you think you have to be there; I am 71 and have been married for the past 23 years and only been happy for the first 2 years. GREAT ADVISE LIFE IS TOO SHORT!!!!!!! A major must is to have your partner share your religious beliefs to have a firm foundation

[@butterfly1401]

I love the parents moment, love the honesty ❤❤. Love the family's support. Love you Michel ❤, looking forward to all of your journey in the vlogs. Thank you so much for sharing the journey. You're an inspiration.

[@stone.durfey5862]

You have such lovely parents...both with beautiful smiles. At 64 almost 65...in March...I still miss my parents...lived with them 34 years. They were my best friends. In hindsight I wish I had stayed single...some of us are just not meant to be married. Meaning myself...I would not say that for anyone else. Everyone knows best for themselves. My married joy was in having my son...such a good little boy...times have changed and we don't get along like I would love to...but have a deep mothers love for him always. Maybe when he is older and sowed his wild oats...😯 I'm so tired and longing for my heavenly home...what a joy that will be.😊