Vocal Confidence - Made Doable

[@vocabilities]

Thanks for watching. To those looking for more permanent change and to get that consistent, systematic approach, this is the original and by far the most popular course I offer to Improve your voice... vocabilities.teachable.com/p/improve-your-voice/?preview=logged_out

[@krisean501]

A Year later and you're still changing lives.thank you brother.

[@Justinhulk]

the way you explained law of assumption/law of belief in the first part is awesome, people should use it for everything

[@graphixig]

I don't know how but this guy can understand my Feelings about my voice

[@overatlast]

Agree!

[@loyboaz9719]

This is exactly what I’ve been wanting to hear

[@loyboaz9719]

Whenever I think about my negativity whilst singing I get shaken and out of breath and I’ll ruin it all which also makes me downer then I was even before starting the singing. It happens even when I’m with people or in classes at school…… because of this, I don’t talk much in groups of people.

[@booey5660]

You're such a kind guy, thanks for the invaluable advice! It shows that you really care about your clients and viewership.

[@vocabilities]

Thankyou. Are you putting it into practice?

[@booey5660]

@@vocabilities Yes - and it's incredible how it applies to things outside of vocal work. It's amazing how a shift in perception changes how we see the world in general, a bit like how the world seems terrible when you're anxious, and incredible when you're joyful. I suppose the hard part is trying to keep that perception rational. For me at least, it can be really difficult to believe that my perception of myself and the world is grounded in reality. Ah well, I guess that's what common sense is for... you live and eventually learn what's right and wrong... e.g. you shouldn't trust your unconfident, anxious mind!

[@vocabilities]

Very true. You just need to acknowledge it in the moment and retrain the brain! 😁

[@queenk2738]

This advice is the best advice ever, applies to everything.

[@inspireyounow365]

Think positively. I get your advice. Tq.

[@vocabilities]

Great! Plus consistent action 😁

[@zairasmith1406]

Amazing.. so glad i found your channel!

[@khasukyt5874]

Thank you sir🙏🏻 I really need this

[@vocabilities]

Most welcome. Will you do the work?

[@_roscius]

Enjoying your vids and appreciate the advice.

[@khasukyt5874]

@@vocabilities yes

[@vocabilities]

@@khasukyt5874 Great stuff. Whats your goal?

[@vocabilities]

@@_roscius Thankyou. Have I covered all you need?

[@Priyank.g]

This channel deserves a lot more subs! , great helpful stuff as always

[@vocabilities]

Thank you 🙏 any favourites?

[@ryfreedman]

I always appreciate the motivation and positivity.

[@vocabilities]

Thanks mate! You good?

[@ryfreedman]

@@vocabilities Oh yeah. This year has been transformative for me and the nutrition, health, exercise, sleep quality, creativity, and education are at an all time high in my early 40s. It's amazing how everything works together. I compliment positivity as a mutual appreciation - I purposely try to add positivity to each experience in my day. I am enrolled in your class and the first two months of this year will be just loading myself up in a slingshot ready to be let loose.

[@vocabilities]

Amazing. I just turned 43 and never been so productive, motivated, happy and blessed in my life. Here’s to the 40s! So far the best Decade.

[@abrahamjerri3969]

Fantastic advice!

[@vocabilities]

Very kind of you. What's your journey?

[@DementiaDoc]

Thanks for this reminders!

[@vocabilities]

You are so welcome!

[@grime7002]

Honestly sometimes I love the sound of my voice and thats usually when im feeling confident and sometimes I hate it and feel like people don't wanna listen to it I know its a problem and starting from now on I LOVE MY VOICE!

[@vocabilities]

Yessir that’s the ticket 💪💪💪

[@samk0847]

I do I have one problem that is when I go to my relatives or my siblings, my brain goes blank and can't remember what to ask/speak/discuss with them!!! And also I m hearing impaired with 67% percent which means u can only hear 33% percent. I do wear hearing aids but only in college and classes, even I don't use them at home too. I started wearing hearing aids at the age of 15 now I m 18(next month I will be 19).I know it shock to hear that why parents did tht late I was totally disabled when I was born but lucky my ears got open and started to hear some sounds. Even though I can't speak words/sentences properly and people laughs on me tht I can't do anything. My parents put me in normal school like as regular students.So it means tht I was surrounded by regular student which was hard for me even I used to talk less among all students.(So I was full of negativity, selfish, unhappy) During school time, I never had or wear hearing aids, I got hearing aids when I joined college. Basically in my school students thought that I m also regular student like you all that why they use to laugh on me if I got hearing aid sooner I think my school time would have been simpler,easier and happier. When I meet new people I directly don't share my information that I m hearing impaired. I just try to talk normally like people does but still people don't like me maybe bcoz I don't talk properly or can't pronounce the words. That's the problem I m getting. Please tell me how can I fix my problem and get the every person back together!!! And sorry tht I wrote it too long and thanks for helping me!!!

[@najmaahmed2933]

English is my second language, and I came spoken English country. And I had to learn it; it is been two years now, and I find my personality changing like extrovert to introvert. I am people person. When I am around natives, I feel like I don't have confidence, no one will understand me, I starts staturing and my voice goes away. It makes me feel horrible 😞. I want change, I don't know how. I wholeheartedly agree with you as you when you said negative thoughtsI controls us. I once read somewhere "every behavior are belief driven.''I know my problem is my thoughts I have trillion boxes of negative thoughts in my mind. Please help me how can I get rid off these thoughts.

[@vocabilities]

Honestly I would look into hypnotherapy! It worked for me! 😁

[@uwsm]

😃👍 I will look stupid in this comment, for a while I have been thinking about cutting my hair, but rather completely because my hair is falling out, you gave me confidence to cut my hair, but rather complete, now your appearance gave me confidence.

[@lizabethkurtyka4500]

Great advice! Thank you.

[@BrianPruett]

Great stuff as always!!

[@vocabilities]

Cheers @Brian Pruett any take aways today?

[@vocabilities]

Well said. What’s been your best exercise to help with that?

[@jamesross4319]

I have a lot of terrible voices, which I only recently discovered due to this channel. It stands to reason I have a few golden voices I can learn as well. If you can see what I mean?

[@lukehanak]

YES WE CAN

[@oviislam5164]

Many many thanks❤️❤️

[@markoilic8183]

Thank you for valuable content. I would really like to hear what you have to say about voices and speech patterns of Jack Nicholson and Jeremy Irons.

[@vocabilities]

I’ll put them in the list! Any more?

[@markoilic8183]

@@vocabilities Great to hear that. Can’t wait to watch it. Sure, Anthony Hopkins. But really would like to hear your in-depth opinion about those three, of course if it’s not too much time and energy consuming. All the best my friend.

[@markoilic8183]

Just thought of another one - Matthew Mcconaughey 🙂

[@BostonSpeaks]

Your videos are the best 🔥 TY!

[@vocabilities]

Bless you mate 🙏 what’s your favourite?

[@BostonSpeaks]

@@vocabilities lol after watching a bunch of em, it's hard to choose!

[@vocabilities]

Oh too kind! Thanks @Kit Pang

[@gopikavijaya7656]

Hey..could you do a video on FRANZISKA PIGULLA...she was a German voice artist...one of the Best

[@davidtunstall6454]

Hi Darren, excellent content and this video on belief/affirmations is so close to my heart. This comment may be a little long but I hope you have the time to read it! Have you ever worked with or helped someone overcome a stutter/stammer anxiety? I developed a stutter when I was around 12 years old and put up with it for around 15 years but it developed and worsened to a point where I could not get one sentence out without blocking when talking to others (By myself or on video I am perfectly fluent as are most people who stammer so it is purely a psychological/emotional issue). I found out about a very well known course starting with M (the one that focuses on coastal breathing and is completely run by people who stammer) that run 3 day intensive workshops and I thought what the heck, may as well give it a go. Long story short 3 days later I was standing on a stage in the mall of my capital city and delivering a perfectly fluent 3 minute speech to around 300 people plus random passer bys with zero anxiety and supreme confidence! I was blown away how in 3 days I was able to unlearn 15 years of negative speaking habits and install incredible public speaking ones by a simple shift in mindset and deep breathing techniques! And it wasn't short lived either, I walked away from that course speaking confidently and fluently for 2 years. But I had a gripe and that was that the cornerstone of the training is to accept that you will always stutter and you should deliberately introduce blocks into to your speech from time to time to prevent anxiety from building up. So here I was speaking confidently and easily yet at the same time affirming I have a stutter and deliberately doing a controlled stutter mid sentence (it doesn't actually sound that bad just stopping on the first sound, breathing out, breathing in and then saying the full word). Slowly over the two years my old tricks I used to get words out started to reappear (altered breathing pattern, blinking, tapping the foot etc) and before I knew it I was literally back to where I started because the old stutter programs in my mind were still there and hadn't been overwritten. I have done plenty of study on neuroplasticity and rewiring of our default brain patterns through positive self talk/visualisation so as a voice coach I am intrigued to know if you have ever seen anyone overcome a stutter caused by anxiety/lack of confidence by using these techniques?

[@norabader3352]

Thank you for video.I love English language. I like learn English more. By kind way like listing, reading and iwant some one to talk wihe hime English.

[@Sheba533]

Hi, I’m trying to buy the course but the purchase button is un clickable.. could you please advise?

[@vocabilities]

You may have missed a detail or entered incorrectly something on the page. Try checking what you’ve entered and then it should work! Here’s the link again... vocabilities.teachable.com/p/improve-your-voice

[@overatlast]

I just confused about being confident and bad man, i mean, if i do something, i know, i need this such a nice voice, but if i did bad thing to others by my voice, i dont really like it.. help me to correct this mindset please

[@ry-_-ry2510]

please do a kratos voice review or tutorial

[@vocabilities]

Kratos... who is that?

[@dhararobins9546]

Thank you very much for the video, Darren! Unfortunately, I have some issues with my voice. Every time I sing, I get a sour throat the next day or just after singing a song. Does this mean that I am not relaxed while singing? Can this result in me losing my voice? How can I relax? Are there any exercises I can do for it? (Sorry for asking too many questions)

[@ry-_-ry2510]

hey how do i sound like kratos ? i have a naturally deep voice but not that deep

[@vocabilities]

I need to find out who Kratos is first...

[@MrBlackboy21ful]

@@vocabilities god of war.

[@drwilliams-singh]

🍇

[@pinv0]

You posted this 6 days ago I'm the 666 viewer I'm also cooking 6 chicken nuggets... But what does it all mean?

[@vocabilities]

Means you’re a beast my man now go train your voice! 👹

[@pinv0]

@@vocabilities You traind me in the voice of yoda so I thank you