Wall Street’s Male Backlash Against the Me Too Movement | The Daily Show

[@SignalPrime]

There's a lot of awful men out there, but for anyone to pretend women are incapable of perpetuating abuse is insane. ANY PERSON is capable of being abusive in any number of ways.

[@ballsislife6018]

Crispin Phillips if you mention the awful men it’s unfair to not mention the great men as well. It goes both ways . Glass Half full and half empty deal

[@SignalPrime]

@@ballsislife6018 I feel as though there is definitely a time to talk specifically about the abusers in the world, but to act as though all abusers fit into one category leads to marginalizing the plight of others suffering in the same way. We're all *Humans*. It's time to act like it.

[@animenerd453]

@Janet Baker Yo are doing exactly we this guy is fighting against.

[@colby3197]

@Janet Baker You cant even spell attacked and were supposed to trust your statistic?

[@alphawolf4643]

Janet Baker I mean, yeah, that might be true, but that doesn’t mean men are NEVER harassed by women. I’m sure it’s more common for men to harass women, but the reverse does happen.

[@syndeth]

Having been the victim of false allegations by women on two occasions I already minimized my interactions with them in the workplace before the MeToo thing ever started.

[@ТатьянаРохас]

what were you wearing when those allegations had happened? Maybe you were kind of asking for it, don't you think? Also not all women make false allegations. I'm thinking you kind of overeacting and being too emotional here, sweetie

[@laurel1865]

Were you sleeping with both of the two women who falsely accused you? That might complicate things.

[@macmcleod1188]

​@@ТатьянаРохас So over the top. Self: Is ​ Татьяна being sarcastic and not listening to the poster? Self: Or is ​ Татьяна being sarcastic to women who are sarcastic and don't listen when men have a problem.

[@ТатьянаРохас]

@@macmcleod1188 I don't know. Are they having a problem though? is this a video reporting on sexual or other types of assault happening to men. Or is this video talking about women issues with ignorant men showing up and trying to shut everyone up by telling how hurt they are. Hmm. Can't tell really. Me englich are bed sweeatie.

[@prettyguide5331]

Synzin Darkpaw was definitely asking for a false allegation, maybe if he didn't have a job and stayed home this wouldn't have happened :crylaughemoji:

[@nocrtname]

Don’t talk to women in the office 1:1, don’t meet outside the office 1:1. Never comment on appearance, family, or anything outside of work. Keep it strictly business only, and there isn’t any space to get me too’d. It’s just not worth the risk.

[@subhankarbaral9236]

Keeping distance from female coworkers is only way from men to be safe. I am not surprised the senior men are saying no to mentor women.

[@JamalSmith-lo4nq]

Just stop hiring females end of quote

[@dredhead117]

Kosta should always be introduced as "Senior Bro Correspondent" whenever he is on the show now

[@danielheathers1504]

0 men have lost their jobs? How could she possibly know that?

[@kimtae9329]

@@Monpons don't know about that but a male pretending to be a feminist and posting shit doesn't put men in a good light though

[@paola7705]

I mean, she works in the field. That’s kind of her job to know. Plus, it wouldn’t be a surprise.

[@danielheathers1504]

@@paola7705 she doesn't get access to personnel files of every wall street firm. Nobody does. She's just making false generalizations.

[@Monpons]

Well um, she knows other people okay so please know your place you toxic masculine man

[@gasanafred2264]

@James Curry you're

[@edgarob]

Falsely accusing a man is also a sexual harassment

[@arinanamjin2622]

???tf????

[@khadijahmuhammad4771]

Nah it is perjury though.

[@lambsauce8172]

@SgtBaker16 how'd that turn out for christine blasey ford, Amber heard, and many more?

[@chrisnoecker5287]

except I cant find a single reported case in US history that supports this. Its perjury and criminal as false reporting -- but note, if convicted of false reporting its a misdemeanor; if convicted of abuse its a felony with 12+ years.....

[@khadijahmuhammad4771]

@@lambsauce8172 The cases if Amber Heard and Dr.Ford are entirely different.

[@matrixstuff3512]

It's not that men are scared of false allegations, it's that they're scared of exaggerated allegations that ruin their career. For example what happened with aziz Ansari, or garrison keilor.

[@smrkva5911]

I think many are scared of getting called out on the stuff they really do and say. Because they never have been. And they never had to learn where the lines are.

[@simransimran9339]

Look from what I gather Aziz's thing was a communication problem more than anything else. Also, I think he was or is on tour. His career is hardly over. People aren't dumb. We know when something is harassment when it's not. Ansari's case was a problem caused by not him but a bigger underlying thing because of which the woman felt she couldn't say no. It's not his fault but it's also not OK.

[@simransimran9339]

@Moha Amip You know why? I'll tell you why. There's been news around where I live that people are disguising as delivery persons and such and committing robberies. But I still order pizza. That's why you take the risk. Pizza

[@simransimran9339]

@Moha Amip Avoid what exactly? Sex? Women? Women in the workplace? Look, women risk assault and rape on a daily basis, they just don't hide at home scared. Because home isn't always safe either. And if you don't believe that...ask a woman about her commute on public transport. Literally everyone I've ever met has been touched inappropriately or verbally harassed. Every single woman that I know.

[@kristianbrandt3012]

Try being a male school teacher

[@cofarly6092]

That's a real issue. I'm a girl and I went to an all girls school. There were many false accusation against male teachers, who as a consequence lost their jobs, even when proofed as innocent. And I pitied the teachers, because I was friends with some of the accusers and knew there was nothing behind their talk. They only wanted attention and knew they would get away with it as long as it's like a rumour. I was there at the time when "he stared at her breasts" ... and no he didn't, because there was nothing to look at.

[@xero1049]

Glenna Smith wow I love the ignorance

[@defencebangladesh4068]

@@cofarly6092 that's really nasty

[@CockySuSMounted]

😯😲 😶😑😐🤔🤨🙄☹️🙃🙂😀😃😄😆😅😁😂🤣Sorry, Can't, just.. Simply Brilliant, Honestly and Sincerely Sorry 🤣😂😁😅😆😄😃😀🙂🙃☹️🙄🤨🤔😐😑😶 😯😲

[@omarelmasri9939]

@Stone Harper The only liar here is you, Pinocchio

[@JayLew91]

I get it. As a man, the line is grey. Small actions become sexual harassment before there is ever a conversation about what made her uncomfortable. I don't think women should be discriminated against. But a public accusation can mess your life up before any actual investigation.

[@johnpliskin8759]

so don't go around touching ppl that didn't give you permission, and don't try to be james bond

[@JayLew91]

@@johnpliskin8759 I agree but unfortunately it's not only touching. And misunderstandings do occur and can lead to trouble

[@SamuraiShizuo]

I get it. As a woman, the line is grey. Small actions become sexual harassment before there is ever a conversation about what made me uncomfortable. I don't think men should be discriminated against. But years of endured sexual harassment can mess your life up and any actual investigation will be set up to victim blame, humiliate and invalidate my testimony.

[@JayLew91]

@@SamuraiShizuo and to me that is fucked up. The investigation should be designed to help not hurt. A real victim shouldn't be invalidated, and an innocent person shouldn't be punished without one.

[@jjoohhhnn]

@@johnpliskin8759 sexual harassment is usually verbal. "Nice dress" is flattering if she finds you reasonably attractive, but if not it is considered harassment because it wasn't something they gave you consent to do.

[@JonLupen]

Basis of the problem: No one teaches people how to respectfully interact with women.

[@IamAlecya]

I agree.

[@jondunmore4268]

Basis of the problem: No one teaches women not to be alluring.

[@JonLupen]

@@jondunmore4268 No. Whether women are attractive or not shouldn't matter.

[@magster6022]

Wrong. Your mother did. Remember her?

[@JonLupen]

@@magster6022 I guess you're unaware of how many people were not raised by their parents and just let grow up.

[@ABC123-i2v]

I once commented to a female coworker that her earrings were interesting (or nice). She got this uncomfortable look on her face as though I was being inappropriate. I made the comment because the earrings looked like Christmas earrings (it was around Christmastime) and that seemed neat. Boundaries and respecting boundaries are different from women to women. It's hard for a man to where those boundaries lie. I am finding it is better to be safe and never interact with female coworkers beyond work related tasks.

[@kirthirao7146]

I think it's important to establish a relationship with female coworkers first so comments like that can be made comfortably. Some random dudes come to me at the gym during a workout and make comments like "You look good" and like, nice stuff which is great but it makes me a little bit uncomfortable because I don't know them. Even if they're just saying it to encourage me, I presume the worst (i really just don't know them). You should understand that women have faced violence/scorn/anger from men for small things like refusing a date, not smiling enough, or stuff like that. We're killed for saying "no". I know not all men are like that, but enough are to make it a problem. So when men I don't know approach me, a part of me instinctually feels uneasy (Many women may feel the same way). For coworker relationships, I feel fine with male coworkers because we're established a relationship through working together. so comments about my outfit or shoes are welcome and nice. It's coming from someone I know and trust and the basis of context is respect. A comment like that from someone I don't know could be misinterpreted as someone hitting on me or something. Maybe it would be a good idea to get to know more about your female coworkers through those work related tasks!

[@bridgefin]

@@kirthirao7146 Why were you working out if you didn't want to look good? Men can't win. Women struggle to look good but God help the guy who tells her that she succeeded.

[@lenamarie387]

Alan I don‘t think you overstepped a line by doing that. Many people find it hard to take a compliment and may seem uncomfortable when they get one for that very reason. I know that I am like that. But that doesn’t mean that I feel harassed when I get one. It could be the same with your co-worker. I think that if you are empathetic enough to feel how you made her uncomfortable with a simple compliment like that, you already have the tools to realize when you might have „gone too far“ in a more sexual context and would know where to draw the line. That being said, you never know what a person might have experienced in the past to make them react like that. But that isn’t necessarily your fault because, as I said, you could always accidentally say something that might hurt another person due to their past.

[@msul78]

@@kirthirao7146 Honey, you said "You should understand that women have faced violence/scorn/anger from men for small things like refusing a date, not smiling enough, or stuff like that." If that really happened to you I'm sorry, you need to find better men in your life. But don't project things towards the whole world based on a handful of incidents.

[@kirthirao7146]

​@@msul78 Hey I totally understand where you're coming from. You're totally right, blanket characterising an entire subset of the human population over shitty personal experiences with some of a group is going too far. I was trying to give a lil insight into why the coworker might've reacted the way she did. The OP mentioned women react differently and it's mainly context I think? Like if the coworker and OP knew each other on a friend-level, a compliment like that would be well received. If it's the first time and she doesn't know him and it comes seemingly out of nowhere, it could be uncomfortable. I hope the OP doesn't cut off trying to talk to women forever and can try different approaches on an understanding of why women may not receive his advances well. I've been hit on my guys that made me uncomfortable (I was in vulnerable places/situations) and just like how guys like the OP may not know boundaries, I too didn't know if it was a harmless and nice comment or like, are they going to do something to me if I don't act the way they want? My first reaction is always a "thank you" and if it goes to places I don't want it, I'll step back. The "be nice" first, where you assume everyone is good, has worked well for me. I've made a lot of friends I probably wouldn't have made if I shut them down right away. Omg long response ahhh but thanks for bringing it up!

[@cetti4405]

They should take this questioning to men who've served years behind bars due to false allegations of rape! No, that might make #Metoo zealots feel uncomfortable!

[@benjaminpark5460]

Yeah except that is an unfounded idea and rarely if ever occurs. In fact a US study in 2010 found anywhere from 2-10% of rape allegations being false and in that only 8% of those fake accusations led to arrests of the false accuser which means they were definitionally made up whole-cloth. Nice try MGTOW but your complaint is unfounded. A 0.008% chance of a rape allegation being completely made up means the#MeToo movement is good. Source: www.google.com/amp/s/www.bbc.com/news/amp/world-us-canada-45565684

[@cetti4405]

​@@benjaminpark5460 First, your statistics are skewed, because many of those pleading their innocence are never taken seriously or even HEARD. Secondly, tell your statistic to those who are sitting behind bars and have lost of years of their lives. And would you care about statistics, if it happened to you? What a fucking stupid thing to post!

[@benjaminpark5460]

Sao Pooh Adorable. And my post accounted for those behind bars. Which is again, 0.008%. Don’t make appeals to emotion. It makes your argument weaker.

[@cetti4405]

@@benjaminpark5460 Arguing with people like you is futile. The only way you will understand what I'm talking about is when you have to defend yourself against a false accusation and no one believes you. And your stats are still skewed... Have a good life!

[@chrisnoecker5287]

@@benjaminpark5460 move that into the context of divorce and domestic court vs criminal and I'd bet the rates are more like 50 percent false...

[@Legohaiden]

I like how they try to "make light" of the actual problem of false reporting. A serious life destroying, career ending thing that WILL happen to a man if a women says anything against them.... even without proof. Its common sense to try and protect yourself from such accusations. Best defense is to NEVER put yourself into a situation where anything could potentially happen

[@pierreseaton2795]

Like R Kelly situation?🤔

[@lnt305]

Desi is getting better and better, but not a fan of them acting like men are never the victims of sexual harassment

[@rn6710]

Exactly. It does happen, just as men get raped. And it can be harder for men to come forward because they don't want to appear weak.

[@jessarose2288]

@@rn6710 and whose fault is that? Maybe the system that says that men have to be strong always constantly qnd women are weak and not capable of much more than having/raising babies and looking pretty...which we women didn't create and still don't have much power in changing...which is all we are trying to do! I have two sons. I don't dislike patriarchal bullshit just because it hurts women. It hurts men A LOT as well. Period.

[@user-qv2qf1jk5o]

Kiera Mubambai statistics?

[@Monpons]

Oh please all of you men only harass and play victim. Women are the real victims! #womenarealwaysright

[@kimtae9329]

@@Monpons no, just some men have enough free time and have some deep seated issues with women so they start posting shit like you. GROW UP

[@TommyTucker74]

For every action, there is an equal and opposite reaction. When everything a man does/says could be viewed as harassment, why is anyone surprised that men would once again start alienating women?

[@natandsam1764]

Honestly they should charge those who falsely accuse men with the same punishment as the men would get for "sexually harrassing them"

[@spinningsage7727]

NatandSam not the same punishment but one fitting for lying surely.

[@natandsam1764]

@@spinningsage7727 if they mete the same punishment it would make them frightened of accusing people for "fun" a lighter sentence wouldn't be "fair"

[@spinningsage7727]

NatandSam you act as if an accusation is the same crime as sexual assault. They are far from one another

[@natandsam1764]

@@spinningsage7727 how abt i accuse you of something that makes your whole life go down the drain

[@spinningsage7727]

NatandSam -now imagine you actually get assaulted and how terrified you are in your own home, body, city, ect...

[@NatConfidentSelf]

I wish I could treat it as comedy....

[@chestervelosophotography6702]

I thought my life is a comedy now I realized its a tragedy.

[@australianword3812]

@@chestervelosophotography6702 comedy is already a tragedy

[@airmanof1]

According to the gillette commercial, men aren't supposed to talk to women.

[@guccicupcakeandsunshineboo6315]

No you can talk to women. Just don't rape them.

[@defencebangladesh4068]

😂😂😂

[@guccicupcakeandsunshineboo6315]

@vashisth sharma the sentence 99.999 percentage of men won't do anything is absolutely bogus. The percentage of false rape allegations is somewhere between 2% to 5%. The probability of a woman getting raped is somewhere between 45% to 60%( depending on where you are from). The odds are proportionally different. So when a woman claims that she was raped the odds are she probably was. And the thing you said about court trials always being in favour of the victim, nothing could be farther from the truth. Most of rapists go unpunished, even when they are convicted the prison sentence ( if any) is short. Only in some cases do the victims get proper justice and the rapist gets proper sentencing. If you think that false allegations are more of a problem than rape then you are a deluded misogynist.

[@sakethravuri3023]

@@guccicupcakeandsunshineboo6315 show us some reliable stats... starting from emmett till

[@astaut2659]

@@guccicupcakeandsunshineboo6315 ya people ruining others lives over thing that happened is worse

[@OpaqueDreamer]

I can't think of another situation where people would express fear and be ridiculed rather than heard. People, including women, make false claims. It happens. It's happened to people I know. It's happened to me. I was able to prove my innocence, but if I couldn't have I'd of lost my job, guilty until proven innocent. My friend went through Hell and came out a changed, broken man. There are still people out there who think the difference between flirting and harassment is how attractive the person is. So yeah, I can understand being cautious or even afraid.

[@johnpliskin8759]

the amount of women that have been harrassed outnumber the amount of false accusations by a ridiculous amount, it's like complaining about the rain when a tidal wave is destroying an entire country

[@unknownbannana8241]

@@johnpliskin8759 men are more likely to be murdered, assulted , robbed etc so we should't waste time taking about woman being victims as there are less of them, by ur logic

[@greenapetranslord4870]

@@johnpliskin8759 i don't care. I'll never believe women.

[@Bundalaba]

@@johnpliskin8759 If you know one out of 1000 boxes you open is a bomb death and opening boxes is optional would you risk ANY boxes at all ? Don't be ridiculous.

[@greventlov]

@@johnpliskin8759 shut up simp

[@jayzenitram9621]

And this surprises women, why?

[@noone5599]

It's not a surprise idiot - it's speaking out and demanding action, ever heard of something of that sort???

[@YamCherie]

Lightbringer "Oh look, it's the emasculated cuck!" It isn't "masculine" to act confused about the rape and harassment problem. Real men listen. Even when it's hard.

[@Suchen_Wahrheit]

Toxic matriarchy

[@Suchen_Wahrheit]

@@noone5599 no its called sentencing without trail. Ever heard of witch burning or stone age justice.

[@TheSamosaCritic]

@@YamCherie Yeah, but they don't listen to bullshit.

[@TheCreativeSk8er]

What ever happen to "Love Thy neighbor" and "Treat others the way you want to be treated".

[@anthonyr1171]

Do you know the times we live in?

[@wilddogspam]

The problem with the golden rule is that these people can just say "if I were a woman, I would understand this treatment, thems the breaks, it's feminism they should be angry with etc etc". It also never existed as an actual rule people followed.

[@TheCreativeSk8er]

@@anthonyr1171 I do it just people can try treat someone at least a little decent

[@TheCreativeSk8er]

@@wilddogspam I'm just sayin people need to have principles

[@praveenm8323]

U people fucking #me too ed his father the God himself. Y the fuck are you bringing his quotes

[@abaqus5946]

If a person fears plane crashes, he/she is free to choose to always avoid flying, even the probability of getting in a plane crash is way smaller than being hit by a lightening strike, right?

[@roseJ96]

Told my mom about the Xerox thing, and she said, "Oh, I remember those days." That's just fucked up. She's told me some messed up stories of men in her field when she was younger and how they treated her and other women.

[@phil_alexdunphy4735]

We cannot deny that there were, there are and will be predatory men around that will harass and assault women. But denying that there are 0 men loosing jobs and that only 2% are actually false accusations isn't exactly solving any problem either. Men are increasingly avoiding women altogether is because of the absence of proper due process in case a false allegation is levelled. The mainstream fails to see that a proper due process is the atual answer to #meetoo and this problem of avoiding women in workplace.

[@veemon9280]

yep sure....let's just ridicule men's problems/concerns and it will go away

[@papasfritas6071]

Kinda like how men do it with women? Men: ridicule women and call them whrs, men afterwards: "why is there so much feminism, its toxic!" How ironic of you virtigo xD

[@snehashissinha900]

@@papasfritas6071 well I'm sure women didn't like it when it happened to them, did they?

[@dgfhgshfsgf]

In the workplace we had a abbreviation called CYA. Cover your ass. No need to be alone with a girl in an office with the door closed? Keep it open. That’s not harassment that’s just being smart. Be in public places and don’t allow for potential allegations to arise. People want to pretend these allegations don’t happen. They are free to do so. In the meantime I’m just going to cover my ass, just in case.

[@izzey0729]

The amount of condescending statements she made throughout this video is insane.

[@memegod4433]

The reason why these guys didn't want to stop and talk to you is because they're too busy actually doing something and making money instead of just fucking complaining all the time.

[@friendofmara7509]

Sell, buy, sell, you're doing great, you're fired!

[@tomassinickis4380]

... cos u lesbian!!!

[@rodikmik3861]

With women it'll be "buy, buy, buy, get a loan from the IMF, buy, buy, buy ... What happened to the asset? Who can I sue to get 1/2 of it back?" LMAO

[@orangeziggy599]

What was that hellish open-plan office she was in where all the desks were lined up like sardines?

[@peytonstowers2179]

I wish she did mention some of the false cases of men being accused of sexual hurasment it's socially damming she really just fed her own beliefs instead of engaging in reasoned debate and adressing the actual complex issues at hand of preditory men and ruthless women

[@ShmooyShmoo]

I work as a merchant marine on ships carrying goods provided to America (container ships)... In my 10 year experience working on vessels at sea, whenever there was a woman onboard there was always someone quitting or getting fired. It always created problems. That’s just the way it is...

[@ТатьянаРохас]

because men were so afraid to take action against bad guys until some brave women showed up? I feel you, that's the way things are unfortunately((

[@ShmooyShmoo]

Татьяна Рохас brave woman? Why would you imply anyone especially the woman is brave? The occupations I’m talking about are cooks, cleaners, engineers, navigators and general laborers. No one is brave... working unsafe isn’t brave it’s stupid and others can hold that against you (safety write up, enough of those and you get fired and then the guy below you takes your place). I think you entirely missed my point. My point was that woman cause drama when on a ship full of men. If you need me to explain why this is then... well... I’m not. Sry

[@ТатьянаРохас]

@@ShmooyShmoo nah, your point was that men cause drama whenever a woman is around. Should we maybe restrict them from working and keep them at home, watching kids, cooking dinner and stuff if they can't behave? Hm, you really made me thinking about it. Until now i was for equal job opportunities, but know i reconsider, thanks to you.

[@ShmooyShmoo]

Татьяна Рохас I don’t think we should do anything. That’s just life. Trying to control other people in any way is the last thing I’d ever advocate. Just live, learn and listen to the experienced. BTW haven’t you heard? Being a mother is the hardest job on the planet.

[@marcotucker3431]

This, this right here, the way it’s presented, is why there’s the problem. Reap what you sow.

[@phil_alexdunphy4735]

Couldn't agree more........

[@jjoohhhnn]

This is the beginning of the backlash from treating sex crimes as a gendered issue.

[@Sakura-zu4rz]

The victims say that the movement itself just brings back our traumatic memories. There is a fine line between transparency and being forcefully outed as a victim. Sexual misconduct and abuse is the fact. We need to confront it, deal with it, and not be afraid to say and do the right thing!!!!!!!

[@rodrigotorres1036]

I was harassed by a female coworker. She kept smacking my ass at work. I’m sure because im a guy no one is going to believe me

[@reynadelikat6410]

I believe you. That's awful. Women want to stop being sexualy harassed because we know how awful it is. I hope that situation was resolved.

[@ΔημήτρηςΧριστόπουλος-υ8η]

You kinda took a mens' problem and portrayed it as a womens problem I mean there are some cases of women falsely accusing a man of sexual assault or even misunderstanding a compliment as sexual harassment like the last guy said. It's another thing supporting women's dignity and another undermining men's problems

[@benjaminpark5460]

What it’s doing is displaying men’s reactions to women gaining dignity and support as foolish and unnecessary. It isn’t down playing people who are actually falsely accused.

[@hagar2025]

I love the Daily Show. I watch it from Europe, just to see what’s wrong with the USA 😂

[@smendes2004]

Me too😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣😪

[@lolsa123]

Sadly the #metoo movement spread to european contries too. And also the same problems were shown where men were afraid of going to lunch with women under a certain age and so on.

[@luxusken05]

It's Val!! I guess she's done being a guidance counselor and a Vice principal 😂

[@Thinkerbellization]

Actually I've read about a Muslim taxi driver in UK were accused by a woman for harassment. Luckily he's taping everything happened in his cab with hidden cellphone camera. And he's proven not guilty. I guess not all women are angels.

[@LewdMama]

Hey guys i have this random anecdote that completely disproves scientific data cause facts are not your feelingsssddsssssss

[@lavrentivs9891]

1 taxi driver in the UK, 81 % of women on Wall street. Good balance there^^

[@cutienerdgirl]

@@lavrentivs9891 Okay, how about around 100,000 rape cases in America are found false and how people automatically believed Amber Heard when she said Johnny Depp abused her, but he has 85 pieces of evidence to prove she seriously abused him.

[@priscillaguerra3333]

@@cutienerdgirl compared to how many more are true? Dont just put half of the static just to push your false narrative.

[@younggold1416]

@@priscillaguerra3333 Why wouldn't we? False allegations directly affect us. We have to protect ourselves regardless.

[@lonniedobbins]

Actually happened to me four times And threats to file charges of false accusations of sexual harassment.

[@jjoohhhnn]

It happened to me once, as well as 3 of my friends. No charges, just character assassinations.

[@alfredpullan1457]

Culturally the boundaries are thin and why would men like to put themselves in harms way

[@bhavyakanzariya7124]

People who say things like " If you're afraid of being accused, stop harassing women." are the problem as well. Let's not ignore that underlying assumption behind making such sentence is that someone will only get accused when they are guilty or every accused is somewhat guilty.

[@user-qv2qf1jk5o]

badger 123 But the likelihood of being falsely accused is extremely low...?

[@jamesbell1613]

And likelihood of being falsely accussed is NOT nearly as low as reported.

[@rolakeomi6888]

Can't say that i am surprised by whats going on. Thanks for the likes

[@lking1540]

Fear makes people do crazy things.

[@rolakeomi6888]

lking1540 right?

[@lking1540]

@@rolakeomi6888 right, they get scared and don't know how to think logically.

[@rolakeomi6888]

lking1540 yeah but I can’t blame them completely for being extreme, although #Metoo Movement was needed, like all movements a minority of members tend to be more extreme and it just so happens that the extreme minority became the loudest and leading force of the movement.

[@lking1540]

@@rolakeomi6888 that happens, it also dosnt help when the movement dosnt take responsibility for the extreme parts of the group.

[@ryanbolin4308]

Its not that they are scared of false accusations but kore that they are worried that something they do will be misinterpreted. So they decide to not risk it at all. Almost like you cant win with me too

[@TrielaRhyfel]

I am ok for them not to even trying

[@Colonelhaydeemew]

Why don’t they just not try, and settle for platonic relationship. OR say “I am interested in you would you like to go on a date” it’s really not hard and it’s a yes or no question that no one is going to take as harassment. It goes for both men and women, I really just don’t get what’s so hard about talking to someone like a normal human being tbh. You aren’t at work to goggle at and compliment coworkers, you’re there to get your job done, get paid, and go home. 🤷🏼‍♀️

[@jjoohhhnn]

@@Colonelhaydeemew you ask out 5 guys and 5 girls and tell me what sort of response you get. At least 1 of them will think you're being predatory.

[@UserRobot215]

@@Colonelhaydeemew Exactly, guys are there to do their job. Fair enough, guys should just avoid women and focus on their job then. More productivity and a lesser chance of getting falsely accused for guys. I applaud that.

[@UserRobot215]

@@jjoohhhnn Because women find a way to play the victim card always, like the reporter in the video. Women say they dont need men, so they get their wish granted and men start to avoid women. But apparently women dont want that either. Women dont know what they want.

[@rossmandigo9984]

as soon as the guy at the restaurant made a valid point about men truly not knowing where the line is from day to day (complement your dress and get fired) and she takes it to "oh you didnt know not to grab ass"? its a valid concern. there are no spelled out rules about how to conduct yourself. if i cant tell sally her shoes look nice today then what the fuck can i say? so men are just gona not interact with their female counterparts at all just in case something they said is construed as harassment.

[@erenozcilingir5918]

Ross Mandigo I also hate how she is condescending with these men. Imagine if she was a man talking like this to a woman. “Oh I don’t want to scare their fragile little hearts”.

[@miketritsch6166]

It is a Very Good Idea to Reduce/Eliminate any un-necessary "Risk" Getting Interviewed by this person is a case in point.... I was actually expecting a thoughtful commentary reviewing the real and perceived risk.

[@Mewton87]

Joking aside I do understand why men would be scared of false claims. I worked with women who tried to argue that if a guy says "She looks nice in that dress" (in a completely causal way). Then they should be fired because of sexual harassment. Not saying that we shouldn't have women in the work place we absolutely should, but I do understand fears that they have. I don't fully agree with them but i do understand them.

[@Mewton87]

@Eriko. Oy I understand the situation that you're putting in but that's not what she meant she meant that in general. She even explained it and said under no circumstances should women get compliments at a workplace. Related to looks

[@asagk]

No, we shouldn't have females at workplace. No females at the workplace is perfect. Anything else just a risk...

[@AutumnintheNorth]

Why did he have to say "She looks nice in that dress"? What function did that serve in completing group work or collaborating with fellow employees? Would he have said something similar about a male colleague?

[@anindyassdey]

@@AutumnintheNorth Oh so we are robots now? Nothing nice to say about others. You know cancers like you prove the point that men shouldn't hire women.

[@kimtae9329]

@CrystalCritter exactly. Men for centuries have normalised this. They can comment on your body and how you look and then their "bro" would be getting all excited and high fiving each other. It's all just to feel macho or fan their own self ego. These same men would not be very accepting if a group of females keep on letting them know how ugly they look or dumb they are. It adds no value to the workplace neither it should be acceptable.

[@johnrjantzenvideos]

I fired someone. Then I was falsely accused and sued. It cost me every penny I had to defend myself.

[@ballsislife6018]

John Jantzen but apparently it just doesn’t happen man. Apparently your just a liar to these people...it’s sick how they treat victims when there not women

[@johnrjantzenvideos]

@@ballsislife6018 I definitely have PTSD from the whole ordeal. There are bad men and women. There are far too many men that sexually harass women, but there are also some women willing to lie in hopes of a million dollar payout. Many law firms will represent the accusers on contingency. So the lawyer will only be paid if the accuser is paid. The accused will have to pay a lawyer $350+/hr to defend themselves. So if you want to defend yourself get ready to pay $100k+ in hopes that the judge will rule in their favor. My lawyer told me that 95% of sexual harassment cases end in a settlement BEFORE trial. Sexual harassment claims are a slam dunk for lawyers and the accusers. The lawyers don't care if the accusations are false or not. They just care about getting paid. I learned that first hand. I don't know what the answer is, but I do know that suggesting women never falsely accuse men is preposterous.

[@EdithEsquivel]

@@johnrjantzenvideos I am so sorry this happened. I would argue that you are describing a problem with the justice system in general... Lying for money happens also in other types of crimes. I hope you get your life back.

[@ThailandDantotherescue]

I was a victim of an allegation while I was a Paramedic supervisor. I was married, my wife worked there as a paramedic and I avoided ALL CONTACT with female employees unless a witness was present, and STILL got an allegation from someone who was being investigated for sleeping with a different married supervisor on company property during company time. I got a job as an offshore medic, I actually replaced a female medic. That was the only one our company had at the time. I became supervisor 1 year later and I made sure we never hired another woman.

[@AK-Roy-vp6ex]

revolution

[@johnc1014]

Yah. As a man, I'm far more cautious when I'm around women in public. I'm a servant of Christ, and this doesn't really apply at church. But, other than that, the most opportunity I have to interact with women is on a college campus. As far as I'm concerned, I'm avoiding contact if I can help it. Also, I don't particularly care to spend time with much of my generation anyway. So, this isn't all that exceptional for me.

[@angrensly926]

I've been falsely accused of rape by a ex who ended up stealing $130 from me and bailing. It's way way more common then getting stuck by lightning

[@vinnymcintosh7917]

What was her exact claim? As in, how does she describe the accusation?

[@KilaniOtter]

I'm just not sure how I feel about this, when I was 27 I lost my minimum wage dish-washing job because they hired a woman who was simply uncomfortable closing down the store with a male present... I'm gay, she knew that. So while I agree on some points, its not unheard of for women to get men fired for being men, but overkill is overkill so, again I'm not sure where I sit on this issue, to this day I'm terrified of women in the workplace. (Edited for multiple typos)

[@kaye_07]

"I lost my minimum wage dish-washing job because they hired a woman who was simply uncomfortable closing down the store with a male present.." Where was this? You should have sued the company.. I think you could've gotten a decent settlement for wrongful dismissal.. :)

[@michaeldreibelbis9529]

Your experience is probably not unique... and is probably more common than you think. Men have been fired even back in the 80’s for a poorly taken comment or joke... and the man finds himself at the peak of his carrier and earning power set back to zero because a woman got offended by a word or comment...

[@tynao2029]

yeh, I've lost 3 jobs from women managers who basically stalked me around the store my entire shifts, told me I couldn't wear my hoodie on breaks and lunches, constantly made drama and issues out of nothing, changed my schedule weekly, disobeyed seniority, and pretty much denied basic human rights until I either quit or was fired. I was always taught to stand up for myself, whenever you stand up for yourself to a woman manager they tend to feel threatened and fire. Best thing is to be best friends with whoever has the most political clout or makes those decisions

[@Monpons]

Here is the Males winning again. I'm a feminist and I'm sure all my sisters had a good reason to fire you. #womenneedtorule

[@kimtae9329]

@@Monpons don't know about that but a male pretending to be a feminist and posting shit doesn't put men in a good light though

[@damondbarbee]

I love your show but I think this one miss the point. Did you see what happened to Harold Ford? He lost his job and his reputation took a hit because of an unsubstantiated accusation

[@bik7083]

And how many women have lost their job after having revealed that they were being harrassed? And how about their reputation?

[@laurel1865]

Kavanaugh and Clarence Thomas and Trump.

[@LeaksHater]

@Thornback NOTHING DONE ABOUT IT? You srlly think that? i do agree, that there ARE cases like that, but if the offender is reported and caught its game over for him.

[@damondbarbee]

Thornback That’s not the point. Now someone can merely say “I felt uncomfortable” and it’s all over. I don’t want anyone to feel uncomfortable. But what do men suppose to do if they are just doing their job and it makes someone feel uncomfortable. And there is no fixing the problem just termination. That was my point.

[@laurel1865]

@@damondbarbee If a woman says she "feels uncomfortable" then she also needs to back up why. In the Biden case, the woman stated why she felt uncomfortable. She didn't like him kissing and smelling her.

[@DL-gx5cr]

I'm only a single guy in the situation with ~7.5 yrs at 3 investment banks. I noticed that women who were assertive were not promoted as often as men who were assertive if not aggressive. I thankfully didn't see harassment of women by others, although there was a lot of complaining among the guys comprising 70-90% of many teams about really tiny details about women's behavior/character that wouldn't as often apply to men. That being said, a lot of this in the sales/front office was relating to context and opportunities to develop a closer working relationship:having male-centric outings and going out for lunches with "the guys," various ways to extend the Greek societies that many of the guys were part of. What made it more pronounced was the fact that women in sales and front office were hired often based on appearance (and were considered very good-looking) and so there was little that connected these aggressive, sports-centric frat brothers with their female counterparts, aside from nascent sexual tension. What probably made it most difficult was that the promotion process, even at the best institutions, was often so subjective and opaque, that some women who didn't look the part or hang out with the right group might not be promoted despite being very competent.

[@someguy6135]

😠😠😠😠😠😠😠😠😠😠😠😠Why are some women mad that men are afraid of them? That only means in America, women won’t ever get raped or sexually harassed! It’s like saying it’s bad that a violent person, with a mental illness that carries a gun around, is afraid of getting near a school. It’s like, don’t you prefer for a person to be afraid of harming a other person???????!!!???! And do women need to be around men at all times during there free time, can’t they just hang and with other women? Isn’t the point that women don’t need to be with a man to truly be happy and Successful?

[@n3rdslife1864]

Men not knowing when the line of harassment is is reasonable. The wall street worker in the bar was comfortable with the male correspondent because he made a dick joke and it helped make the situation feel more human and personable. The female correspondent immediately sent him away for that joke, making the situation feel like there were rules for conversation, even while in a bar after work hours. Also, the male correspondent made a lot of of physical contact wit the fist bump. Excessive, but it broke the touch barrier and made the interaction more human and less bound by a strict code of conduct. Having fewer rules feels better than having more rules. the Female correspondent ensured there was distance, implying that there are more rules of participating in the interaction that the wall street worker was fearful of breaking.

[@youtubelove826]

I’m so glad you are bring this to light!

[@wpyoga]

This is why we need Google Glass.

[@aiyshwariyaa]

Desi has gotten so good. She's hilarious!

[@thebadthinker2]

Not. She's not. Believe me

[@BlackWolfInc277]

No, she really is not

[@mt-zf6xp]

This whole program is rarely funny.

[@morgoth6273]

Remeber when feminists we're saying that women can be funny to? Well she's not helping the cause at all...

[@user-qv2qf1jk5o]

Morgoth Bauglir remember when basic common sense said that one person does not, and cannot, represent the skills and beliefs of a much larger group they were born into? Comedy is subjective, but even if it wasn’t, I wouldn’t judge women’s ability to be funny by Desi any more than I would judge men’s ability to be good leaders by Trump

[@abhishekmandge9590]

Paranoid? Yeah when innocent people might lose their jobs and lives at some accusations what else do u expect. P.S. Only taking about innocent ones before u jump to conclusions

[@dhkukulka666]

You probably also heard about many cases of female teachers sexually harrasing young male students. Many documented cases and statistics show that in majority of those female teachers are English teachers. Guess what? I am an English teacher in my early thirties. I am not paranoid of being accused of sexual harrasement despite so many cases being shown on the news. Why? Well, I don't sexually harrass, duh.

[@douglascoe323]

I can understand your thinking, because it will happen eventually, just by the law of averages. But if you extend that out to its logical conclusion, then women would never even leave the house, considering around 80% of women have been sexually harassed at work alone, and nearly 30% of women have been seriously sexually assaulted or raped in their lifetime. That means women are tougher or more practical or less baselessly paranoid than the men(or more men are guilty). Maybe all of the aforementioned. Your can decide which.

[@abhishekmandge9590]

@@dhkukulka666 Ewa jaswik I'm not defending wrong doers here. They deserve to be punished strictly. The problem starts when innocent ones start getting trapped. Has there been a backlash against English teachers to such a great extent? NO? why? Cuz well however number of cases there will be men will be seen as sexual predators. It's innocent ones who suffers from these feminazi rants .

[@abhishekmandge9590]

@@douglascoe323 I agree with you. Those wrong need to be held accountable. But what's going on is things are going in other direction. Don't believe me? Take cardib case for example. Let alone prosecuting her people are ready to defend her. My concern is are we correcting a wrong by another wrong? Shouldn't goal be everyone has equal opportunity? The wrong one should be blamed instead of blaming gender?

[@cassandro9445]

Thousands of women have had their lives destroyed by harassment and rapes, did you ever do something bout that? Ooooh. I supposed. You better be scared.

[@MDAdams72668]

0% false accusations 81% are assaulted these 2 claims (in the same sentence) are mutually exclusive Otherwise their would be a bunch of men in jail

[@haveanicedayiguess]

M D Adams Wow do you actually believe that people listen to women, or that women even report these things? 81% is a high enough number that it’s just normalised, it’s something all women face and deal with, and no matter how uncomfortable they don’t report it, because it won’t lead to an actual conviction anyway. Most rapes aren’t even reported, and that’s due to a multitude of reasons. For example, most rapes are committed by people who already know the victims, leading to the victims not being comfortable reporting them to the police. Also, most police don’t know what to do with a rape allegation, and retraumatise the victims by asking how they were clothed, and if they didn’t actually enjoy it. I know rape can seem far removed from just plain sexual harassment , and you’ve maybe even stopped reading this, but sexual harassment contributes to the general culture that people always want it, and that it’s nothing to complain about, especially because no one is complaining about it. TL;DR, this is a complicated issue, and there are several reasons that women don’t report, or if they do, they don’t get heard.

[@MDAdams72668]

@@haveanicedayiguess Just so I understand what you believe are you saying you think 81% of women are actually genuinely raped??

[@australianword3812]

@@MDAdams72668 that was your number. They were just saying these assaults go unreported because this or that

[@obnoxiousweeb9101]

digest.bps.org.uk/2017/07/11/sexual-offending-by-women-is-surprisingly-common-claims-us-study/

[@Monpons]

You dirty man! Women deserve everything and one day women will rule this country and all the businesses!

[@freakothesideshow]

MGTOW.

[@selfishcapitalist3523]

It's called rational self interest.

[@JohnNugroho]

that outro with dollars jacket is dope!

[@Nicolas-wd5ec]

This video is a great example of women trivialising men's legitimate concerns. Toxic feminism is mainstream.

[@papasfritas6071]

How is this video toxic? lmfao when women raise concerns, men come in to bash them for it. What? You've never seen it? I see it everywhere online

[@TheCreativeSk8er]

I always thought that they moderate troublemakers with a lot of money but this is new level of immoral

[@jjoohhhnn]

Lmfao, this is the new low? What an insult to the value of human life. Corporations hire mercenaries to clear out villages when they want resources, but refusing to hire a woman?! THAT'S the line they shouldn't cross?

[@TheCreativeSk8er]

@@jjoohhhnn They shouldn't do anything bad

[@jjoohhhnn]

@@TheCreativeSk8er truly a revelation.

[@TheCreativeSk8er]

@@jjoohhhnn yep

[@fallen4life080]

It's pretty simple. Just have respect for everyone, always show some modesty and humility to an extent with anyone you know regardless of gender and for those who are easily insulted also know that people arent perfect. You're at risk of insulting ANYONE regardless of your sex. As an atheist, I once insulted a conservative Christian parent by jokingly saying "Our fate is in Quetzalcoatl's hands now" in front of her 10-year-old son who knew me through my little cousin. I've insulted liberals by using the word "retarded" when referring to an R program script that was unnecessarily slow in code. So technically I was correct, but again, there's PLENTY of words I can use and getting mad about NOT being able to use a word makes me sound like a 10 year old. Some men need to have some shame when talking dirty in front of women who as a whole CLEARLY suffer more as victims of sexual misconduct as opposed to men who suffer at the hands of false accusations. Some women (few women) also need to stop acting like every man is out to rape her. If both sides are doing their part we'd be good!

[@lemon9881]

Omar Morales Luna thisssss

[@jamesdelk8926]

It's not few women it's majority more so

[@fallen4life080]

@@jamesdelk8926 No it's not, dude. 92-95% of women are telling the truth when they say they're being harassed or stalked.

[@jamesdelk8926]

I'm glad we're signing petion to stop it cause lot more men are victims than women very few men doit i hope we win I'm giving petition to mgtows and it will be abolished ha ha

[@joelsantiago9148]

I even stopped going to the Men's restroom when a woman identified as a man that starting using the men's restroom....

[@lastofgiants]

I agree it's a huge problem, but I don't think this helps. Especially claiming that male harassment never happened... That just isn't true...

[@kshitijshrey]

You have to be powerful to dominate .. Men are just better and women need "special treatment" to reach that level but still real leaders are mostly men and "made-up" leaders can't even touch them .. EVER !

[@lnt305]

@@kshitijshrey shh the adults are having a conversation

[@kshitijshrey]

@@lnt305 THAT'S WHAT SHE SAID BEFORE GETTING DOMINATED BY AN 18 YR. OLD !

[@nitez2730]

@@lnt305 well he does does have a point with the special treatment thing

[@alialahmad4329]

no one claim that we just against that women never or rarely lie u the accused sold be anonymous until proven guilty by evidence do that and the problem solved no need to argue

[@Brotmaschine08]

This piece is somewhat right but also highly ironic. Between the left loons and conservative loons, we will never have intellectual integrity in this debate. I have completely given up on that.

[@mimict7811]

Is no one going to address the fact that she just called all men “degenerates”.

[@MrBaselxD]

and cut their balls off wtf?

[@mjverostek1278]

MAN BAD Are you a misogynist? That's problematic.

[@Musicsports]

Haha

[@ipellly]

ImAgine if we dismissed women’s fears as casually as that

[@Asmaa-wc6xj]

It’s more rational to be afraid of sexual harassment when 80% of women are sexually harassed than to be afraid of false accusations when we know that only 2-8% of reported incidents are fake and most real harassers and rapists walk free. Just don’t be sexist and coercive and it'll be ok, we know where the "line" is.

[@simransimran9339]

What Asmaa said, and if you accidentally cross the line a teeny bit, then just have the awkward conversation and apologize. Will not work for major transgressions like harassment or rape but for misunderstandings it will.

[@koningmaikell5799]

@@Asmaa-wc6xj wrong, 2-10% are PROVEN false.. the vast majority there is no evidence and thus charges get dropped without a verdict. It could range from litterily 2% to 90%, as only about 10% are Proven true. (Btw.. no matter the verdict, guilty or innocent a man's live is ruined if a woman accusses her.)

[@mandlerparr1]

@@koningmaikell5799 There are millions of rape kits sitting untested all over America. There is evidence, it just isn't being used. Charges aren't dropped, they are suspended until the evidence is available and since most men don't care if a rape victim gets justice, then those kits are not a priority for law enforcement. For every false accusation you bring forth, I can bring forward 100 cases of women being raped where there was DNA evidence and witness evidence and other physical evidence and the man or men were never charged. And I can bring 10 where the men were charged and convicted, but received sentences so laughably light that people have stayed in jail longer for unpaid traffic tickets.But, you are the type of person that thinks that every website, including government websites, are lying about how many men are actually accused when they are innocent. Never charged doesn't mean innocent and it doesn't even mean lack of evidence.

[@francescaking6187]

@@Asmaa-wc6xj That's only false rape allegations. Is there a study on false sexual harassment claims (just curious).

[@YoungjamlifeYJL]

This is crazy I try my best to avoid females co worker I care zero what these people say... when that accusation paps up all men will be seen guilty until proven innocent your life will be ruined just by the accusations ALONE... Men avoid women where it is possible trust me

[@lucia4916]

So you didn’t watch the video

[@itkojecockot]

"there seems to be an actual paranoia, that some women will make up a false accusation against them" :D:D:D:D yeah, these paranoid men..... like Johnny Depp, right :D:D:D

[@lucia4916]

Congrats, that comment proved absolutely nothing and had nothing to do with the video and it’s content

[@itkojecockot]

@@lucia4916 it actually had A LOT to do with this video...... you just refuse to recognize it, since it doesn't fit YOUR political narrative

[@lucia4916]

@@itkojecockot nope it had nothing to do with the video

[@itkojecockot]

@@lucia4916 yes, keep living in delusion...... that is a sign of being a left-winger these days :D:D

[@jovanleon7]

"Men need to quit seeing women as sexual object" would be hard to do because of how high the amount of effort women themselves put up these days to show off their sexual appeal. Liberal medias, Hollywood movies, music videos especially hip hop music videos and lyrics aren't actually helping either.

[@brooklynbrohat6647]

Makes perfect sense

[@LynzuAnderson]

NO! you do not get to use Djentleman. That is for well mannered Djenters only

[@purpel6034]

Djent

[@elainexe]

It's a good story but. I don't know why, when hearing about women abusing men, she would need to dismiss it as not real. Even if that guy was making it overblown and probably being dismissive himself of women's experiences, and female-on-male harassment/assault is not as common, it does happen. And people dismiss male victims. As a woman who's seen abuse from both male and female perpetrators, I am disturbed to hear any instance of dismissal or belittling of people's experiences. It's painful. Uplifting women doesn't mean putting down male victims, or covering for female perpetrators.

[@SensationalBanana]

Whataboutisms. If every debate is to be dominated by the perceived male victimhood (they mostly victimize one-another, check crime statistics) then women won't ever get to speak their mind. MeToo brought with it very little actual, meaningful change yet now we have men literally getting away with discriminating women on sexist beliefs. Seems fair? Yes, men are victimized, but mostly by other men. Yes, even when it comes to sex crimes. Try talking about that though and they'll get into a huff and call you a rabid feminist (which is ironic since feminism = what first acknowledged that men aren't invincible in body and mind).

[@Saidxplore]

The Feminist bitterness is too palpable 😂

[@Germs0o]

The male bitterness is too palpable 😂

[@Saidxplore]

Germs0o Riiight, we’re the ones making bullshit claims and then when we’re ignored we make a biased video about it trying to hide our bitterness with some lame “funny” coverage. There is no male bitterness sweetheart 😊, this is just entertainment for us.

[@kyomah7574]

What the last guy saying is exactly the point: you never know the exact boundary for every one. So the best strategy is avoiding any contact. Simply emphasizing low false accusation rate is not reasonable, since one single false accusation would result in socially death, and the destroy of their families and lives. Would you ever take risk of your life at even 1% probability for zero reward? Apparently NOT!!!

[@XzTS-Roostro]

"What's a Xerox¿" That pains me, and I was born in 1993

[@TheFourthWinchester]

And desi is way older than that. So it's stupid for her to say it 🤣

[@ricardusceasar1054]

It pains me and I was born early 2000s

[@joeya.1043]

What is it. Born 1995 but not in an English speaking country.... never heard it before

[@djseriousbizness]

@@theycallmemisterwheat7118 thank you captain obvious

[@MajorMlgNoob]

@@TheFourthWinchester is a joke lol

[@alecc.5610]

I normally like these videos, but these issues were oversimplified and glossed over a more comprehensive perspective from men who face this at work. Also, the most qualified candidates should be hired, not the most diverse.

[@YamCherie]

Alec Corry "The most qualified candidates should be hired, not the most diverse." Those 2 things are not mutually exclusive. Among the diverse are a group of highly qualified people. Affirmative Action does not pick from the bottom. It picks from the top.

[@YamCherie]

Re Mora There are plenty of highly qualified candidates among the diverse.

[@adityasuri4009]

i love how the audience is laughing at that man talking about men being groped female bosses

[@nelliusbrown6697]

As long as women keep pretending they don’t understand the danger they put men in then i suggest men keep a fair distance away from them.

[@smendes2004]

I don't understand this comment...better not to...I have the impression...

[@yousmallfish5069]

I lost my job over a "sexual harassment" today, I join this new male Wallstreet mentality from now on.

[@baileymoore7779]

What did you "do?"

[@johnandrew1727]

I won't even meet a female friend for a drink, casual dinner, walk a woman to the car period as it just safer. Women can say whatever ....... 3 years ago I drove a friend of a friends wife home from a small party as she was drunk. She seemed nice but then stalked me and is still stalking me as I was polite to her. Shes the one groping texting email me. Women are alot more aggressive then they used to be and are very deceptive.

[@TyranyFighterPatriot]

Mgtow is the only way. We have no rights left

[@GHOSTbirdnatureLOVER]

well women still have a long way to go until they're as aggressive and deceptive as men, so just be thankful you aren't one of us

[@janetlovesu]

That money jacket will change my life.

[@AllyWhiteArtist]

"What's a Xerox?"

[@Uzodesign]

Photocopy machine. Xerox was the brand.

[@veronica4636]

I would be afraid too when I was 13 this girl accused me of rape just cause I kept ignoring her because I saw her coming out of a house with a some guy and I didn't want her no more so I know women lie and take advantage of being a female

[@wrathc53]

... So you found out humans lie? 👏 claps for you lol. Also humans take advantage of others using their gender such as being male or female. Claps 👏 again... Your comment is why I kinda hate people. Not knowing your views can be heavily sided thus affecting others around you negatively, creating disconnection and amplifying paranoia towards the "others" you had one bad experience with. Not comparing the bad experience that "other" has had with your side yet will not paint all others with the same paint, it's called wisdom. Plus #metoo is for both men and women, its just it happens to women mostly. Women will also care ❤ when hearing men getting harassed by women to, much more so than men. Men tend to have a culture of thinking the other as lesser for not liking a womens touch, which women don't agree with.

[@veronica4636]

LucentS(☆_☆) you hate people, I don't

[@jjoohhhnn]

@@veronica4636 it hurts to know what false accusers do to people, doesn't it? Neither of them would hold these opinions if life were simple amd easy. Pain brought them to these opinions. More hate will do nothing to bring them to your side.

[@lucapfister]

@@wrathc53 god damn. Get off your high horse. This guy may be providing anecdotal evidence which is not useful, but you don't have to be so condescending

[@user-qv2qf1jk5o]

I’m just gonna ignore the fact that your username is Veronica, and say that once again, there are statistically far more women (and people, but especially women) sexually harassed than men falsely accused.

[@navigatingel6104]

"As all movies set in the 1980s have shown"...Movies are not reality

[@markwairepo2871]

Well that was the most unbiased story ever, he said voice dripping with sarcasm.......

[@Ezero8]

Sounds like a smart move by these Wall Street businessmen.

[@thabisomarumo2904]

Good for those guys. Anybody can say 'me too' and the guy is guilty til proven innocent in the court of public opinion. That's your rep. Equal and opposite reaction, but of course women never expect the clap back.

[@ТатьянаРохас]

If he dresses modest and aren't asking for it, nobody would accuse him of anything, don't start drama here, sweetheart

[@thabisomarumo2904]

Toxic femininity

[@ТатьянаРохас]

@@thabisomarumo2904yes, yes! that's why I'm telling you to tell guys to dress modest and stuff, I'm doing it myself as well, if more people become aware of this and teach men to be more quite, more modest and not ask for it for god's sake like they do all the time, we can stop this false accusation madnes! Because right now what they do is provoke women to accuse them falsely as sad as that is. And we need to stop that!

[@smendes2004]

@@ТатьянаРохас nice answer :)) the best of all.

[@saughmraat]

no means no! if a guy says no to interacting with a woman, the woman should woman up and stop bothering him.

[@robothunter1035]

I am terrified of poisonous snakes. And flying bullets. And cilantro . . . especially cilantro!

[@liam6550]

typically men come across a lot more women than poisonous snakes, flying bollets, and whatever cilantro is. its probably more accurate to compare it to being shit on by a passing bird. is it common? no. do we see birds often? usually, yeah. does it happen rarely? yes.

[@juliaset751]

There is a lesson here: I live in Arizona and see my share of rattlers. Just walk around them, and just give each other respect.

[@lotsofliberty3598]

@@juliaset751 No you build a fence around your property and keep yourself and your property safe from any snakes. It's simply, you shut women out silently, like is being done more and more.

[@ChannelMath]

the CEO babe actually made a much better point: men are scared because obviously some of them are harrassing women and haven't been punished yet (these men can count). The harrassers know who they are, but the other men aren't sure.

[@jarmonjohnson]

This is the first thought I had when watching the video. A guilty conscience tends to breed Paranoia.

[@marklandrebe3521]

TOO BAD ! If girls want to work amongst men, learn their rules!

[@jimbrit7499]

Some basic rules for men (or women) who have trouble knowing where "the line" is: 1. If you are talking about your genitalia or anyone's genitalia during the work day or in a business situation, and you are not specifically a medical specialist in that area, then you are over the line. Exceptions can be made if you are speaking to an EMT about where all that blood is coming from. 2. No woman's bust size or menstrual cycle is any of your business and remarking on either is WAY over the line, no matter what you were going to say. 3. If you are putting your hand on another business associate for any purpose other than shaking hands, a pat on the back, or to keep them from falling or otherwise being harmed, then you are over the line. Exceptions can be made for plucking bugs off of people, but tell them you're going to first. 4. If you are telling a joke that you would not tell to your Mother, or a religious icon such as a Nun, during the work day or in a business situation then you are over the line. 5. If you are exposing any part of your body that is not generally exposed while dressed in business or business casual attire, (or your uniform or whatever attire is considered acceptable by your employer) and you are not in the restroom, then you are over the line. 6. If you are suggesting to a colleague any act, trip, occupation, position, item to ingest, or purpose that one would not ordinarily suggest to one's mother or religious icon such as a Nun, then you are over the line. These basic rules will usually help prevent you from stepping over the line. In general, being a decent human being with consideration for the feelings of others and a willingness to apologize when you make a mistake will add greatly to the likelihood that you will never suffer from accusations of sexual harassment - or any harassment, for that matter. I hope this has been helpful. Good luck!

[@chezmoi42]

Excellent comment, Jim. It would be most helpful if the persons who need it would hear it and follow your advice. Perhaps starting in kindergarten?

[@ryanrodriguez1234]

Jim Brit All this seems common sense, I’d be surprised if it wasn’t obvious to someone. I’m a kid, and I’d be lying to you if I said I wasn’t worried. From my perspective people are so quick to judge that a false accusation can run someone’s life. I feel like the world we live in just loves to find someone to hate on. Like the media makes it seem that all men are evil, which is just not true. I mean at least hopefully some idiot will read your comment and learn a thing or two . Inset "it ain’t much, but it’s honest work” meme.

[@jimbrit7499]

@@ryanrodriguez1234: when the time comes that you get a job, if you do your best to maintain professional standards of courtesy and demeanor yourself, then it is highly unlikely that you'll ever suffer such a false accusation. No one is more angry with any woman who makes a false accusation of sexual harassment than other women. There is, however, a difference between something being true and something being proved beyond a reasonable doubt in a court of law. Brian, growing up to be a nice, courteous man with good ethics is the best defense against false accusation. Being respectful of women at work and in any professional encounter - and for that matter in general - will help a lot, too. Remember that if you are interested in more than friendship, YOU CAN ALWAYS ASK if the woman is interested, too. If you ask politely, and are willing to take no for an answer if it comes to that, (and don't follow them into the restroom to do so) then you'll be fine. Honestly, there are a LOT of women out there trying to find a good, decent, ethical man. Be nice, start out friends, and you'll be fine. Good luck to you!

[@jimbrit7499]

@@chezmoi42 : Thank you for the compliment and I agree. The best way to teach good ethics is to start young, and avoid having to fix bad habits to start with.

[@chriseidam7319]

Wellllll... I worked in finance for 13 years, starting in 1997. I am was a decent-looking guy and was harrassed by female employees (grabbed on the ass, gossiped about, etc.) or had to listen to female superiors make lewd comments. It was worse for one of my male co-workers. He was stalked. I love these segments, but I call foul on this one. With the right amount of authority or self-actualization, some women can be just as leacherous as some men. So of course guys are going to be guarded. Women who engage in that behavior are rarely punished, but nowadays, guys are (as they should be).

[@GianlucaGallo]

As a profesional photographer I would never be at my studio only with my model, I encourage models to bring friends who make them feel confortable or have make up artist or assistants in the session, Im not against MeToo, but I don't want to be a victim of some women who take advantage of the movement