How to be attractive AF for guys (no bs guide)

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Chapters:
00:16 Become Worthy of Respect
01:48 Become Strong and Protective
03:14 Be Grounded in the Chaos
04:31 Rise Above Her Constant Testing
07:44 Become Her Leader
08:54 Speak with Certainty, Conviction, & Emotion
10:08 Have a Goal Greater than Her
11:37 Have Courage to Show the Real You
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[@hycron1234]

Honestly life is easier the moment you disconnect all these expectations. Even the expectation to find a worthwhile life partner.

[@howdygoodsir577]

the right person will find you if they're meant to

[@Laoriginal718]

Exactly. People need to learn to enjoy their own company.

[@wanheekim]

Be engaged but not attached

[@Rayray.23]

“Models” By Mark Manson is the best book dedicated for men. Every men that wanted to be attractive should read this book.

[@jordiherrera4090]

this video is absolute gold

[@wanheekim]

Thanks bro!

[@LennefalkStudios]

Great video! Spending time traveling together experiencing countless mini-experiences despite being a short time definitely bring you closer together ❤😊

[@Ali-fx6jd]

Great video Wanhee. I have never been this early

[@poohoff]

Good sense of humor equals intelligence, so yeah, you wanna be a funny guy too

[@realbadhan]

My guy stop nitpicking, he said JUST being the funny guy is not enough.

[@HammadKhan-tl6bb]

😭😭😭

[@jasonrivera2633]

I got that feel wanhee is too calculated and structured… he seems to be the serious type like most koreans are and has limited sense of humor.. 😳

[@fizzelmydizzel]

It’s not about not being funny. It’s about not being the class clown everybody makes fun about. 😉

[@TheJohnnyGomes]

The class clown he rfers to, is not just a guy that is funny, it's the guy that doesn't take stuff seriously, even when he should. Everything is a joke to him. And that guy doesn't make a woman feel protected and safe. That's why he said a sense of humour is important, but you don't want to be the funny guy.

[@takumouwwu6516]

Never dissapoints 🙏🏻❤️ thx Mr wanhee

[@H.M.K.]

You deserve millions of more subscribers 🎉

[@sylasdemora]

Thank you for the video

[@TheJohnnyGomes]

As someone who has been studying sexual polarrities in relationships, well done presenting what a masculine man should be

[@Tomino555]

Huge value man. Keep it up🔥

[@wanheekim]

Thank you!

[@braydenc932]

This video is such a profound take, very amazing stuff here

[@wanheekim]

Glad you found it so ;)

[@Turtlpwr]

0:46 but women, and most people for that matter find you more attractive if you ARE funny though. Boys, not having a six pack is ok. Focus on being a good man. Also, confidence is the most attractive, no matter what your weight.

[@prod.kashkari3075]

It feels like the height matters more to them than anything else

[@poohoff]

@@prod.kashkari3075 means you go after dumb women

[@tybo6376]

Did you guys watch the video? If your sense of self sucks, nothing will happen. Improve yourselves first than you won't even have these insecure thoughts. You can't change your height, you can however change the way you look and act which will make you more attractive.

[@BZmusicvids]

Sounds like you are coping lol

[@TheMajesticGG]

@@prod.kashkari3075 that's a meme, as long as you're not shorter than her you're good

[@sebastianlozano7707]

I started working out seriously over one month ago after a brief break of 2 months. I started eating healthy, waking up early in the morning, I stopped (thanks to almighty God) spending my time on Facebook or watching porn since at least 3 months ago, I’m sleeping well, constantly studying, and I recently started approaching some pretty girls out there, and dressing as well as possible! Even though I’m a man of few words, I have started noticing not only that girls flirt with me, or speak with me, but I feel much more confident and my self-esteem goes up. All of that thanks to Jesus that set me free from porn, and gave me discipline and purpose. Also thanks to these type of content

[@arkychak]

Don't thank god, thank your self and your effort, conviction, and determination.

[@sebastianlozano7707]

@@arkychak I tried everything within my reach to scape porn/bad habits. I couldn't, until I came back to Jesus my Lord and Saviour!

[@rodarollada]

Someone uses Facebook in 2024? Bruh. There is Telegram, you gotta move here. A lot of great information can be find here, especially in private channels with paywalls.

[@rodarollada]

@@arkychak, it’s his choice who to thank. If he decides to go this way to become better, it’s cool. We all need faith in something bigger than us to keep the good grind. I believe in Novomakaroniya, for example.

[@rodarollada]

Keep the good grind man. You are on the right track.

[@rahulnarayan5921]

Thank you sir, love your so much

[@Nazz004]

6:15 I literally just read this passage in The Way of The Superior Man Edit: Oh you actually recommended the book afterwards. Lol

[@Y0URK1LLA]

Thank you sir

[@anujshukla1971]

Lmao she also offers her body to the councilman who ends up betraying her and her husband. I don’t think that 300 example is appropriate to show how a man is capable of violence. Dying for that cause was very different than dying for a pointless war in the modern day. If you want to be capable of violence, train to become comfortable in uncomfortable situations. Acclimate yourself with the harsh realities of the world without compulsively engaging in every violent encounter. You don’t need to participate in every opportunity to commit violence in order to be capable of it.

[@rodarollada]

I think it was a metaphor. A bad metaphor but still.

[@taki4689]

Ive had a small glowup from going from 205lb to 174lb with the help of your videos (i don't have a weight goal i just want to be fit) and really appreciate all the help you have given me and many others. As i losed weight i noticed ive gained a lot of friends and people who treated me badly started treating me nicely, its gotten to me mentally, are these people friends with me or friends with my looks? Im wondering if you also have had this dellema in your life. I think a nice video would be the mental stuff people go through as fat to fit.

[@rodarollada]

I don’t know the lbs cuz I’m talking kgs, so I cannot imagine your body complexion, but it seems like you were fat and now you are more fit. Man. Our bodies were given to us to survive in the nature, it’s absolutely nature desire to be fit and therefore more flexy. Good body shape is a sign of health. The only man who can give you this kind of health is you. Why does it matter if people come closer to you because of your personality or your looks? Better looks, better shape is your goal. Sticking to nature is your goal. You are doing good for yourself. By working out you are gaining self-respect, confidence. It seems peeps feeling it so they now know you are not just a fat guy who doesn’t strive to become better. It also seems you are still have some mental issues so you are asking questions that don’t matter. Bruh. Strong people stick to strong people. We are living in the jungle. So if you made it and became stronger, congrats. Keep grinding and maybe you realise later that your question was silly. Develop both your body and mind.

[@rodarollada]

By the way, your looks is the reflection of your inner self. If we are talking about working out, of course. It demonstrates that you was doing good things for yourself. That you respect yourself. So people can respect you for your efforts. When you will become super fit, you can even flex with your older pictures of your former fat self.

[@taki4689]

@@rodarollada thank your your kind words, i think what opened my mind a lot is like you said: looks are a reflection of your inner self. I hope i can look back and laugh at it, but it still gets a bit weird when im talking to someone who used to call me a discord mod or a hentai enjoyer or always throw indirect insults to just randomly start being nice and friendly in a few months. I know myself, and i know i have not changed my personality, its more that now im doubting anyone other than my friends who have been with me from the start because when shit gets tough I know these new “friends” would just leave me. Maybe i’m just in an immature environment or i’m immature myself but i’ve always been cautious since, i’m only in high school btw.

[@jake18111996]

Bro you points reminded of coach Corey Wayne

[@RaoulMehenni]

Great advices !

[@stefanpp1155]

hm hope the war thing is just a metaphor. Because war doesn't make you a man

[@rodarollada]

I didn’t like this part that much too. Saying this as a R*ssian who is against all these political games.

[@HojaFPS]

ofc its a metaphor, war doesnt work like this nowaday, you could just "run" and still be save with your family, back then it wouldnt work, which means the man protects his family by going to war

[@abuqadr629]

It's an extreme example maybe. Cause there are ppl that are really really strong prior to this war event. And then, when situations come that would cause trauma to most ppl, he will get stronger with it. It's a principle U could think of in several situations. Potential trauma + Really strong mind (maybe also thanks to prior potential trauma situations that got handled well) = even stronger mind. But potential trauma also means, many ppl would get a trauma from that, that affects them for maybe the rest of their lifes negatively..there are studies on this typa resilience. It's important to have strong social networks and ppl U can trust, talk to, are there for U etc. Look up the study with the hawaiian children for that. But yea generally, I don't like talking bout war in a good war as if it's smth manly to fight random man, maybe killing them ans leave their little babygirls without a father at home, just for some random company or state that doesnt give a f bout u

[@subonkitnya2854]

People be commenting about his videos being similar...like what is your problem guys..if u find the videos to be similar then just dont watch it...u dont need to comment that in every video..there are people out there who like his contents even if its similar to his other videos..so just mind ur own business and stop seeking attention..

[@rramath]

People who are subscribing are just giving constructive feedback by doing that! He will obviously lose views if he recycles videos & it’s a good thing that ppl criticize. It helps creator sustains themselves and get feedback.

[@yassreyt]

love ur videos. could u plz make a video on mental glow up for men .

[@wanheekim]

Interesting... ok.

[@AlvinCwk]

I am 26, underweight. People say it's hard to gain muscle when you reach 30. Is it true?

[@BeBu8891]

🔥🔥🔥

[@Gamebred-Nightmare]

Is there any video of you speaking korean?

[@basedsalvy]

Okay, how do we get to the step where we're walking with a girl on the sidewalk where we could encounter the road work???

[@numbnuts9007]

Video Request: Solving “Hangry”

[@LucasFelipe356]

10:30 Admiration is an underestimated factor, and this can influence someone when it comes to "fantasy". There is a literary fiction from the beggining of the 20th century, called "The Four Feathers" (which had a few movie versions, Hedge Leather was in the 2002 one), in which a British officer resigns his commission because he was afraid of being sent to fight during the British-Mahdist war. By quitting the army, he loses the value and respect of society, and is immediately disliked by his colleagues, family and even the woman who was engaged to him, leaving him for someone else. He was given white feathers, a symbol of cowardice. Only when he decides to travel to Sudan to fight and perform brave deeds in combat does he win the respect and admiration of his colleagues and family, including the return of the woman who left him.

[@timothyfoster6215]

You should never try to be deserving of her, she leaves and cheats on those men. If she isn't chasing you there's a reason.

[@Tomjansenracing]

I feel u just read the way of the superior man

[@Tomjansenracing]

Lol I said this before I saw 6:41

[@Tomjansenracing]

Great book, great video

[@erineosto]

But why do men need to learn this? This is so logical and should be common sense... I feel so odd that we need to analyzed by men so much. (Great video though.)

[@dierdrecole8027]

Fiancé is hilarious and it attracted me a lot. But being funny and being a clown are two different things. Also I forget the milk too, shrug, shit happens.

[@KaizenWithRen]

you forgot to add “a natural-looking hair transplant” 😉 (nothing wrong with that)

[@6hannah9]

we want a female one!!! :DD

[@rodarollada]

Be loyal. That’s all.

[@samtetteh6002]

Simply, take your ass to the gym and learn to fight just in case. All in all this will be better for your mental health 😂

[@Missathena918]

I’d like a female version of this

[@Ozmni11]

And you doing all this and a women still don’t know if you are a good mate!

[@fitnytech]

The best revenge is showing them what you are capable of.

[@QuickStrikes84]

and not caring about their existence at all afterwards.

[@Basedtiroler]

Isn‘t it always the same video/topic?

[@rodarollada]

Nah. But it reminded me the first video I saw from this guy. The video that was about glowing up, I think.

[@benvowels5316]

Is WanHee listening to Sam Hyde???

[@vinchenta3325]

Dude I agree with most of what you are saying here, but nah, I don't agree with you here.I like women that are straight forward with their intentions and don't play stupid games, that is how a woman would earn my trust, not with this insecure bullshit.Be honest, and talk to a woman like you would talk to any human being worth your time.Don't try to look through a girl's perspective, because you are not a girl, and half of the time shitload of these girls don't even know what they want, don't waste your time on '' girls'' , find yourself a ''woman''.Respect goes both ways boys, she should be worthy of your time in the first place, not the other way around.

[@Laoriginal718]

You should want to be the best version of yourself FOR YOURSELF not for a woman.

[@mlajdksbfksmdnx5165]

Yeah of course but i dont think its bad to want to get attention from the opposite sex

[@harrygoldstone-vy8xp]

How tf do u actually encourage yourself to do all this

[@james-uj7ou]

One day you just get tired of being tired. Some people are comfortable with a mediocre life, it is what it is.

[@rodarollada]

@@james-uj7ou, based.

[@rodarollada]

If you are not comfortable with your current life, then start from digging knowledge about this world and working out. Get some base. Accept your inner animal. But if you like your current lifestyle, then just live your common life and forget everything you heard in this video and don’t try to learn something new about this world that can make you a better animal.

[@YT-pp5qt]

this sounds so korean, a male dominent country

[@rodarollada]

Bruh.

[@noodlery7034]

It's unfair how women won't take their gender roles seriously and believe they don't even exist, but for us men we gotta become the protector, leader, be humorous, a fighter, bodybuilder, dominant, pass stupid tests, entertain, etc, and do all this stuff just to be attractive

[@HojaFPS]

I swear...

[@violetablock]

Are u f*cking kidding me? Havent u heard what women need to do?? « Be sexy but not a slut, show your assets but leave to the imagination, think like a boss but dont be bossy, show interest but dont chase, be more feminine and nurturing but dont be intense and dependent » and on and on

[@iangrant3615]

Honestly it is exhausting the way you describe women behaving and the constant tests and annoying ways they may try to keep needing you to make them feel a certain way and criticise you if you don't anticipate and perfectly address what they are meaning rather than the words and actions they present. That's why I am much happier dating other men, men are so much easier to be in relationship with. Good luck to you guys exhausting yourselves trying to tame and please those kinds of women.

[@nobodyasks-js5tq]

No woman is worth of this, though.

[@Hawa_Gakou]

Who hurt you

[@KamoteCueBBB]

You’re losing your hair.

[@sumonahmed4291]

Doesn't matter, he's attractive anyways