What To Do If My Ex Has Blocked Me on Social Media Or Phone

[@tooxlent]

Best $45 I ever spent. Coach Lee’s Emergency Breakup kit !!

[@MajesticMason]

The best ❤

[@kerncountystorieskcs3693]

What was it ?

[@DerMelodist]

Say it with me, “Trust no contact.”

[@TheCHILDRENofTV]

The Melodist 3,6, maybe 9 mouths It’s gonna be hard! But work on yourself, work out and pursue your passion and When they check on you, you will be a completely different person to them and will Naturally re-attract them Sometimes you You reinventing yourself so much in a positive light you wonder why you even want it I’ll get back with them because they are still the same person when you met them and with the same metal problems that helped the relationship fail in the first place But you could win them back and end up marrying them Either way trust a no contact rule and reinvent yourself

[@Sunflower-og1lm]

I'm laughing so much ahhahhaha!

[@DerMelodist]

Ricardo I’m trusting no contact because that is all I can do. I’m working on myself every day for myself. In my current state of mind I do not expect my ex to ever come back. It has been something like 70+ days since she dumped me and I have no expectations that she ever will come back. I’m glad that I’ve stopped counting and I’m moving on. She made the mistake and my silence to her will shout volumes in her mind. I will improve my life, I will become more physically fit, I will become smarter, and I will find someone new. Hats off to my ex for dumping me and showing me how much I want to live a better life.

[@mimmina1982]

@@DerMelodist Well done. Good luck bro 👍

[@NepseN95]

trust no contact

[@wendyjordan-nelson9938]

Give him time, give him space, dont beg anyone to stay.Let them roam, what's meant for you will always be yours.

[@jketfield]

Wendy Jordan-Nelson so I pray 🙏

[@roseaAlisu2000]

what if I already begged, is it too late?

[@yolandakerr7368]

@@roseaAlisu2000 no....but start now the no contact just start now..I did the same thing

[@PermanentHigh]

And it ain't him.

[@b4nkrup710]

Replace him for her thabk you u made feel better i hope this is what I need to do

[@zobiahmihnaz694]

Been 1 month with no contact...these videos keep me going.... everytime am on verg of breaking down i end up watching these videos... they are helping with healing

[@byunsdale]

how did it go?

[@zobiahmihnaz694]

@@byunsdale he got back in touch but things didnt work out but this time i was the who had courage to walk away. And its getting better...

[@defgirlhand7210]

Thank you for making me feel better. He unfollowed me, but I didn’t do the same. I’m always silent. I will still be. And will not react the same way or talk about it.

[@senalpathirage1660]

Any update?

[@yamatonadeshiko567]

Just wait for them to unblock you because they will. after they unblock you, it's time for you to retaliate by blocking them. That will make them realize that the world doesn't revolve around them. As for you, just do your best to move on like have some goals or meet people that would help you not think about the ex.

[@Phl206-h9b]

It's been six months it hopeless now

[@rushrush1209]

I wouldn't recommend waiting for them to unblock you; because you may be waiting for the rest of your life. There's absolutely no guarantee they will unblock you.

[@sunshinelove9131]

Five years long distance and married, he just abandoned me without saying a word and blocked me everywhere, it hurts that I can’t sleep and eat

[@RLPerez-un6hv]

Damn shit sux

[@camilarojas4624]

😢

[@chasenorman7827]

Wow I’m sorry to hear I’m actually going no through a similar situation I’m battling with the same thing with eating and sleeping ,it’s has got better over time ,it hurts terribly trust me I know the feeling but hang in there and take this time to work on yourself and relationships

[@sunshinelove9131]

Gordon Gekko it not only sucks it hurts so bad

[@sunshinelove9131]

Chase Norman thank you Chase, it’s not that easy I’m trying my best, but I don’t want to wake up anymore

[@beegsex]

Yea I already crossed the line of looking desperate & clingy. It’s a friend, not someone I was intimate with. She’s never coming back.

[@RenataMahmud]

Hi Coach Lee, I’d love to get some tips on how to date when you’re still hung up on your ex? I have found your videos helpful but I think a moving on video would be really good as getting back together with your ex is not a guarantee and sometimes (not always) can become an unhealthy obsession.

[@dave7mmhunter105]

Remember that your ex is an ex for a Reason .

[@theglobalistchannel1471]

You dont. You work on your trauma and then when you're ready you can try again.

[@VictoriaRodriguez-by3fs]

@@dave7mmhunter105 no ONE is PERFECT.. We are all flawed human beings. Forgiveness!

[@jannlewandowski5540]

Renata, DO NOT DATE YET. YOU WOULD BE REBOUNDING. DON'T DO IT...

[@neressakotas4396]

I don't not want them back. I have make it obvious to them. they have to respect me as well

[@Lindah787]

The only coach that knows how to make peace

[@zacky-gj2ih]

My gf blocked me from everywhere today and I feel like going to her house to talk but I don’t have the urge to but I’m feeling so much painful of the breakup😢Pray for me pals

[@danm9326]

I feel you bro. Same here my gf broke up with me last week and I really want to try and reach out to her but I'm working on doing the no contact.

[@benjunior1678]

@@danm9326 Stay in no contact bro. I'm going on day 9 NC. Zero contact. Btw,my ex blocked me 2 weeks ago. I mistakenly thought she unblocked me last week,but I was wrong. It was only her old unused account that popped up in my search history.

[@danm9326]

@@benjunior1678 yeah same here. My ex blocked me from snapchat :/ I really do hope this no contact thing works..

[@zacky-gj2ih]

Ben Junior bro we’ve the same problem, but how do you think this NC is gonna help me. I still tell to my mind that I don’t wanna lose her in anyway and if I stay NC I’m afraid to lose her! Any suggestions bro.

[@zacky-gj2ih]

How does staying in NC helps?😕

[@jk-qc8vm]

My ex blocked me on all social media. It gave me the incentive and motivation to move on with no contact. It helped me too detach more, and forced me to stop seeking attention. The ex reached out and unblocked.. but im now focusing on me and staying in radio silence. Thanks

[@salihoz3822]

I got dumped, i blocked her Know your worth

[@weekendnomad5038]

An ad I actually wanted to watch 😍*say you won’t let go*

[@iixbluedreamvu5803]

Maybe they just wanna see you in person

[@invisibleevidence1970]

trust me when i say this , when someone blocks u , it says a lot , like there are some who block even without u harassing them or anything . those kind of people use it as means for manipulation to make u feel sad and desperate , they think if they don't hesr from u life gets significantly better . let them have their block theh will realize it was legit unnecessary and more so a dumb decision , it will actually make them feel more pain than comfort , especially if someone blocks u , while recently that they love u and want to have a future with u before the break up. feelings don't change that quick believe it or not .

[@IrishRonquillo2022]

He’s not gonna comeback at all for sure It’s hard to move on but he said he’s gonna be happy if I leave him alone No more coming back .

[@tanishasethi7363]

Same 😢

[@IrishRonquillo2022]

@@tanishasethi7363 hope you feel better soon . 😊

[@tanishasethi7363]

@@IrishRonquillo2022 the same goes for u. How u doing btw?

[@IrishRonquillo2022]

@@tanishasethi7363 doing good, recovering how about you ? How you doing ?

[@tanishasethi7363]

@@IrishRonquillo2022 well that's good. I am doing good too. I hope u get over him and find your 'the one' soon 🙃❤

[@Technoid10]

My ex blocked me for no reason. I have not been in contact with her for a month and had no desire to contact her. when I finally started posing again being with my friends and enjoying my life she decided to block me.

[@AS-ru7kf]

I’m agree your hair looks great!

[@issamrabat8534]

Take the words of this man ..i didn.t react when i got blocked ..one year later she come crawling asking for excuse..i accept her excuse but i told her honestly i don.t want her ..i rather keep mijn dignity than walking beaide immature partner

[@abbiramirez3948]

I accidentally checked their TikTok and they unfollowed me. I didn’t contact them I just checked if they blocked me there too. I feel so horrible because I don’t want to invade.

[@qteam244]

My ex blocked me because I told her I don’t want to be friends with

[@MrMaRzZ]

She blocked my number but no social media. I respected her wishes and went NC, what gives lol

[@taminorman1673]

They may have been blocked on social media because the ex left them a dumped message on their messenger! So they deserved to be blocked and they can find another way to communicate in due time if they really want that other person back.

[@sebastiansegura807]

But what If she blocked me during no contact? I wasn't talking to her or anything 😅🙃

[@lorainebejar2837]

Same experience. Let's stay away and respect them. We don't know the reason why they block us. One thing is for sure they are still thinking about us.

[@theflyingspaghettimonster4165]

Yeah this just happened to me and they didn’t even block me on everything on purpose like they purposely left lines of communication open

[@tinenga6761]

@@theflyingspaghettimonster4165 same he blocked me on insta and snap but not on imessage..

[@catabuneder6761]

Same ! Broke up a little bit over 3 months ago and he messaged me twice once to know how i was and another one for my birthday , i followed coach lees advice and did NOT wish him a happy birthday last weed and 24 hrs later i was blocked on instagram hahha ( we werent even friends on instagram ) and i never reached out to him so what does that mean ? Was he THAT mad i didnt wish him a hb?

[@theflyingspaghettimonster4165]

@@catabuneder6761 He’s probably just trying to MoveOn and he probably blocked you on Instagram because he was stalking your posts or something

[@NimzTuff1]

Our last convo was friendly, polite and cordial. She had already blocked me on social media but not whatsapp. We agreed to remain friendly and cordial. I went strict NC thereafter. Now I see she also blocked me on whatsapp and presumably the phone as well. Why? I didn't attempt to reach out, text or call her in any way. Why did she block me all of a sudden, out of the blue?

[@Dinkypinky-i1q]

Same thing happened to me as well,he blocked me on whatsapp but not on social media Coach is right,once the person tries to avoid you never disturb them again,reaching out is not good in this situation

[@NimzTuff1]

@@Dinkypinky-i1q I don't get the blocking. It's sad because I really hopes for a possibility of a future, and I respected all boundaries and space. I hope she unblocks me one day.

[@b4nkrup710]

Thank you man you helped calm me down I dont have much experience in relationships but I want to do the right thing they see how big my heart is from past she knows she see it i want to be mature and i have been but this just tells me im doing the right thing i hope I am thank you

[@dreddskull508]

When ever I feel depressed... I start watching coach Lee videos......it makes me soo motivated

[@shanyiataylor3223]

Sameee

[@DuaneCarltonMerrittmusic]

Same honestly

[@cadisetramaderaizel2387]

@@DuaneCarltonMerrittmusic honestly same, it can somehow ease my mind

[@evanevander1299]

Same Here i reguraly come to this channel.

[@kimegmore7825]

Same ❤️ 18:18

[@peterjonesdelacruz]

If your ex has blocked you on social media, block them in real life.

[@anonymousgirl6595]

Hahahhaa

[@mar-mh3et]

I will do that 🤣🤣

[@go-goakins1489]

Damn straight ! 🤙coach lee knows his stuff

[@ahmedelmoumin7153]

You dam right

[@shopptillforever1278]

Yess!!

[@victoriakerr8836]

They usually unblock after a while. Just leave them alone and they’ll come around.

[@Teaching2TheMAXX]

Really ? I hope so :(

[@johnnybravo3612]

I was blocked like nine months ago.

[@nexsusblue9728]

I honestly dont believe that

[@johnnybravo3612]

@@sgood1995 definitely wait a while before contacting them. A couple weeks at least.

[@nexsusblue9728]

@@sgood1995 she didnt unnlock me randomly , her friend added me on my socials and i texted him

[@anaarthur6109]

Your ex has blocked you on social media, but won't block you from his mind.

[@1111thisisyoursign]

💯💯💯💯💯💯

[@helenan866]

Preach 😂

[@spvcecxwbxy]

her*

[@johnAcDaniels]

Amen brother 😂❤

[@susannahpearethcan5ing]

Yes but what if you have ADHD and struggle to move on without closure?

[@drscience_xo]

Blocking for no reason is immature and selfish way of dealing with breakup

[@naimalee1046]

AGREE💯

[@Adultsodas]

Did that happen to you, update?

[@movingon....6257]

I gree totally

[@mihb9116]

In my case he blocked me and is gone while im pregnant of our son cuz I asked for some of the money back that he took from me

[@Djdeshmusiq]

I don’t think so what if they broke up with you and just want to keep you around to see what your doing

[@joshuadee27]

Dame I'm not gonna lie I was being to creepy and desperate I wish I've seen this video before I decided to invade my ex space

[@thestar8215]

Don't worry I did the same thing

[@ira4600]

Me too

[@dancewithpenny7505]

I did the same..even went to hishouse😂

[@tanishasethi7363]

@@dancewithpenny7505 same 🤣

[@ricardooo444]

Hey any updates? Did she unblocked you?

[@carlosdelagarzachavez7686]

If they blocked you, they were never yours 💯 so there lost...

[@krispalomo2310]

@@kevinrowland2904 thats for real

[@EdjeMr1975]

True, its soo childish Im a adult, move on

[@rushrush1209]

Sometimes they were yours at one time. But you both broke up, so they are no longer yours. Which is precisely the reason they chose to block you.

[@Majd1412]

Shout out to my broken hearted gs

[@neilwilliams3639]

@@kevinrowland2904 no thanks. Satanic. Seek the true Lord Jesus. Witchcraft is wicked and from the devil.

[@godfather4047]

If they block you, they’re immature

[@creolakuck3267]

Maybe not, my apology.

[@NoticedBee]

​@@creolakuck3267immature and lame shows their brain isnt fully developed.

[@leonalaman9772]

True! Run as far as you can from these immature people.

[@TheAlreadytaken24]

This is pessimistic... its definitely not that.. but your mentality will see it that way..

[@Dipsie-mg2hf]

It depends on the context tbh. I had been pleading and they blocked me so it does make sense. I got better eventually you live and you learn 🎉

[@smilinthruthepain]

Got my ex back last year from watch Coach Lee's videos. I like to come back and watch them from time to time to keep my skills sharp.

[@Oenumaus]

It's so hard to not contact her though. Idk how it's so easy for her.

[@smilinthruthepain]

@@Oenumaus Stay strong. Trust the process. Focus on yourself and personal growth. HIT THE GYM! Keep yourself busy! She will come back. And if she doesn’t you’ll still be a better person than u are now. Btw my ex dumped me again about a week after I wrote that comment. I am a little sad but I am ok with it because I’m doing all these things that are making me a better person. Don’t allow yourself to succumb to despair Jason. It will work out. Trust me, something better may come along and you might realize you’re too good for your ex because you’ve found someone better suited for you. This is what keeps me going friend. I can’t lie down and die because someone doesn’t want to be with me. I did that in my youth and spent my best years wallowing in misery over ONE guy. For 4 YEARS. I wish I found these videos back then. You are on the right path Jason. Stay the course and focus on becoming a better version of YOU!

[@Oenumaus]

@@smilinthruthepain I'm trying this shit just hurts bad. I don't wanna go into detail about it but simply she didn't have to do all this especially after all she claimed she felt for me. Just makes no sense.

[@okabakojames6759]

I know of a great powerful love spell caster that can manifest your ex back within 48hours without no delay

[@okabakojames6759]

He heIped me few days ago he does a perfect work, I'm assuring you, you gonna testify 🙏🙏🙏

[@julietolentino3758]

Its works no contact and blocked,,after 5 months no contact and blocked me ,,suddenly he call me last night we talk about 2 hrs and said misses me, he want to see me and go out again after this pandemic,, so true give them more space and respect ,,, thank you so much couch Lee 🙏🙏🙇‍♀️🙇‍♀️

[@kmg_yjh]

This is so nice, hope I get to experience the same for him to call me out of no where too. Wish you luck!!!

[@julietolentino3758]

Yes,, put post picture on your feed facebook or instagram even your blocked all site and communication show to him you are happy and confident to yourself to look great and beautiful without him and make him feel regret hes leaving you,,,We are together now and start a new beginning we forgive and forget the fast what he's doing put me in a third party situation he's not happy and regret he left me behind,,, no contact rules it's work really all I can say is watch all the videos and I'm thankful I found the site of Coach Lee,,till now I'm watching all his videos 🙇🙇❤❤

[@SriRahayu-jz1bg]

Adika Putri kartikasari hi maybe we can sharing ,I have just been blocked and don’t know what to do

[@SriRahayu-jz1bg]

Adika Putri kartikasari do u have Instagram? Maybe we can share each other and make each other strong . My Instagram is @foshired

[@missytaurus2258]

Same , he blocking me for 2 months and saying he have gf already when once I reached out him first , before that we had big fight 🙊, he asking me to deleted his number and stop sending his message , buttttttttttt tadaaaaaaaa he the one sending me messages he saying ‘ hey I still have all ur pics on my phone 🙊🤣, he trying everything to get rid of me but none successful hahaha , I’m cool now , wait if he come and apologize

[@stevemellin5806]

If they blocked you ...who cares it's stupid move on it's a trap to get you in trouble .show them you don't care it's a two way street .

[@zacky-gj2ih]

Steve Mellin easy to say but hard to leave if you’re so much in love, trust me.

[@RJ-xd6ub]

They may be blocked because they were disrespectful to you over an extended period of time and they don't deserve you. So you block them.

[@frankmarkmark579]

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[@jimdaniel4412]

Yeah..its stupid move..use social media to entertain the flying monkees and create a story about what your doing...look at me im great and he is stupid..although im super needy and i live and exist only on social media..

[@Duncanexgirlfriend]

Not true, I blocked because I was hurting, I needed time to heal and move on ..

[@paulfaulkner6299]

When my wife blocked me - she gave me my freedom. I am grateful and I won't be back

[@MichaelRe-c7q]

I have a few friends that have had that from their wives. It's an epidemic tbh.

[@575leena]

Coach Lee you are the man! My ex dumped me and blocked me. I came across your videos and I did not go around his block! I kept listening to your videos anytime I felt the urge to and was constantly crying but you kept me so uplifted in my time of need. It took 14 days for my ex to reach back to me. He was so apologetic and was afraid I would tell him to go take a hike. I am so glad I listened to all your advice I gained across your various videos. You really know your stuff! You are truly a blessing for the broken hearted! Thank you so much for your words of encouragement and the difference you make in people’s lives!

[@RealCoachLee]

I’m glad I could help. Please don’t keep me a secret!

[@575leena]

@@RealCoachLee I tell my broken hearted girlfriends all about you and your channel! An update to my story…he blocked me again due to no apparent reason I can think of and I am done with such immature behavior. However, could you do more videos on self esteem and how to put yourself back out there again after repeated failures? How not to give up on love? I feel like I am giving up and don’t know what to do.

[@anamascarenhas6469]

how is going elena

[@cma-jo1qx]

If they block you, dont panick. Happened to me several times. Whatever you do, do not pursue them. It only hurts your chances. Try to think like them. How would oyu feel if someone begged you? Not good. We all like mature people.

[@creolakuck3267]

May not be reasonable. Sorry.

[@rafaelestevez1096]

How long b4 they unblocked you asking for help from someone who's been thru it like you.

[@billyb3105]

“Out of all the exes you have why am I the only one blocked on social media” “Because you were the only one to never do anything wrong to me” Lol makes sense…..

[@christinao5955]

Thank you. I can't ask mine this question but your answer helps.

[@XVNRX]

Lmao I moved on around November-ish after my Lil situation back in August , got my shit together , got accepted into college , got my own apartment , was happy , met another girl and then boom I’m back here again watching these videos bc this new chick did me even dirtier, mannnn Update: Doing completely better in general now , not chasing no chick , just focusing on me n I feel great 👍🏾

[@11cesarrenato]

you need to love yourself more and not accept these kind o people

[@XVNRX]

Death by a Thousand Cuts yeah I know , I’m still learning I’m only 22 going on 23 Still fresh in the learning women stages

[@11cesarrenato]

@@XVNRX very young, i'm 27 and still discovering a lot a things, don't ever be needy of too available this is the key

[@XVNRX]

Death by a Thousand Cuts yup I’m still learning the availability thing I just feel like if I disappear or whatever they’ll move on or whatever

[@jchess78]

VNY D they will move on no matter what you do. You more you show you care the more they will move on faster. So NO Interaction. Women want to see strength. Them knowing you don’t need them makes you more attractive

[@thecollinzboy]

lol you literally made this video right after my ex blocked me good call coach lee

[@canyoudothis556]

update?

[@ricardooo444]

did she unblocked you already?

[@scooterninja3479]

If they blocked you, it's probably best to take a hint

[@kevindepuy5390]

My ex came back after 22 days of no contact. And we had a bad fight. We’re taking it slow as she was my fiancé but things are going better. No contact works.

[@DerMelodist]

Kevin Depuy I’m happy to hear that dude. Mine hasn’t contacted me in over 70 days but I’m so happy to hear that it’s worked for the two of you. Good luck, and I wish you both the best.

[@kevindepuy5390]

He’s right you have to attract her again. Someone was hitting on her rudely so she called me; and I came to her rescue and punked the guy. I felt bad for that guy but that’s what my girl likes. A strong assertive guy.

[@shanemarkmendez5008]

Happy for you bro..wish all the best to you and your special one..hopefully I will have my success story as well..

[@RLPerez-un6hv]

Great

[@gabriellepilgrim5155]

Did either of you see anyone else during that time?

[@jennyliggins9418]

I was blocked on all levels. 1 month. 2.5 years together. I worked on myself.....left a month of no contact. Worked on my part of why the relationship broke down. We talked for hours and we are back together. :)

[@MidoMido-eo2uk]

How you got contacted of you were blocked on all levels

[@eleanorrigby5759]

@@MidoMido-eo2uk as she states in the comment, after one month he will have reached out to her.

[@JackIsCool070]

I recently got unadded on snap after I messaged them once after 4 months no contact . seeing your comment gave me hope and happyenss , thank you!

[@eleanorrigby5759]

@@JackIsCool070 he’s making money from our misery. Take everything he says with a pinch of salt. He doesn’t know your situation, or your ex… he’s a con artist who prays on us heartbroken. There’s a reason why he has a “programme” … do yourself a favour and stop listening to this man!

[@jennyliggins9418]

@Glidezz_ ignore the comment on here. I've followed no contact and it's pretty much true.

[@jasong6967]

QUESTION: What to do if your ex blocked you???? ANSWER: Get a way hotter girl.

[@peachypeppa]

Okay, Narcissist

[@jasong6967]

Nat Alie Nope, just telling it like it is.

[@TheCHILDRENofTV]

I’ve done this and it made my ex blow up my phone and talking shit to me because I moved on even though she ended it 4 months ago, I said listen I love you but no I’ve moved on, you should too.

[@jasong6967]

Ricardo Atta boy!!!! 👍🏻

[@RLPerez-un6hv]

I wish

[@MsAnnabel28]

No contact rule is absolutely effective! Trust the process, I am happy I Followed Coach Lee's advice and I Am more happy to be back with the person i love. Thanks again. I still watch your videos to learn more about attraction and relationship advices. God bless you Coach Lee.

[@katherineemery789]

I truly appreciate your content. Even if I'm not trying to get back with my ex, there are times MONTHS after the break up where I find myself missing him, and it's confusing...especially when I feel like I'm making progress. Your content, your thoughtfulness, and even the sound of your voice truly calms my anxiety when I'm questioning myself. Thank you for your kindness, and for putting this content out there, so that people like myself don't completely go out of our minds hehe. I appreciate you.

[@jyp12328]

That rush of wanting to contact them 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭 universe please give me strength

[@ayoadeibrahim6662]

I suggest you (Dr. Abuya) he can let your ex come to you, please a second chance, since he helped me, I have been enjoying a perfect relationship and have more promises with my ex, I will I suggest you seek his help.. Thank you 🙏🙏

[@ayoadeibrahim6662]

[phone]⏭⏭

[@ayoadeibrahim6662]

Message him on whatsap

[@erikbastida9122]

Yea it’s hard but be strong

[@PatienceLuhanga]

How are you doing now

[@IwanCahyoSuryadiFI]

Loving people don't blocked each other.. Passive-agressive, manipulative tactics to get control of us. Strong boundaries and self love important to me

[@Duncanexgirlfriend]

Not true, I blocked because it was causing me so much pain to not hearing from him, it was for my own peace so that I don’t have to keep looking at my phone.. hoping to receive a text from him.. I did it for me to help me heal

[@westcoastorbust2462]

I begged the man to work with me. I HAD to block him.

[@kristiemcinnes304]

Mine has ghosted and blocked me for 2 years

[@uknodavibe2756]

Sometimes you're just done with the person, they remind you of bad memories and heartaches so you just want to forget them and take them out of your life completely. I personally blocked my ex on everything because I was so disgusted by what she did has nothing to do with manipulation or none of that

[@FalloutUrMum]

Nah man, she definitely blocked me because I was annoying. I can't help myself but express my feelings, and that's just a mistake I gotta live with. We truly had nothing but 10 years of good memories and overcoming trials together. But she's going through stuff right now, I want desperately to be there for her, but I'm just not in a position to give her what she needs. Hopefully, if she unblocks me, I'll at least be in a position of strength where I can at least offer to lighten her load. But for now, I am the burden, and I have to deal with the painful reality of just backing away for the time being.

[@conniewilbourn9663]

Your hair looks great Coach Lee!

[@aethersky6493]

Qt

[@maizysincestarling8679]

Yes, much better!

[@maria3909]

Omg yeah I didn’t expect that

[@imeldajore8336]

1

[@go-goakins1489]

Coach lee has hair like Robert Redford

[@marilynthomas2761]

Coach Lee is the best breakup coach on KZbin. Listen up folks to all his videos if you want to get your ex back or to move on from your ex.

[@CeeMKE]

What if they blocked you? Move on with your life like they did. I’ve blocked people and been blocked. Life goes on either way. Don’t waste time worrying about that mess.

[@adoliowoicho464]

It works out for me I got my ex lover back within 48hours. He can help you too Send him on whatsApp him right now

[@lutcheabellana190]

OMG! I’ve just been unblocked a few minutes ago after 12 days! I’m still shaking coz of disbelief. Thank you so much coach Lee. If I hadn’t been listening to you for the past days I would’ve went around his block. I’m so grateful to God I found your channel.🙏 I won’t contact him though. I’ll wait and see if he reaches out. I’m not anxious to chat him on WhatsApp coz I’ve been learning intently from coach Lee. I’ll be patient and pray very hard. Hope all the others will be blessed with God’s grace also. Have faith everyone and know that God has a reason for allowing things to happen. Thanks again coach.😘

[@lutcheabellana190]

Update: My ex and I officially got back together today. He unblocked me 12 days after no contact, and talked to me 8 days after unblocking me. We talked 3 straight days with him always reaching out first. Everything went well. I was calm and reserved. However, he stopped reaching out after that. Hence, on the 5th day, I reached out to him coz he had reached out 3 straight times previously anyway. Turned out, he was just waiting for me to reach out back. Thank you Coach Lee! God bless!

[@JelenaVecic024]

we broke up 3 weeks ago, and since then i am in No contact rule, and today i find out that my ex removed me from followers on IG, we are still friends on FB even though my ex is not there so much and since we broke up i posted maybe 2 photos , nothing related to love , or suffering , its general photo of some volunteer work i do over the weekend, nothing else,.. and i find out today that from IG i was removed... well after all i am going thru this is like another punch in the face.. :(

[@youtubeaccount4030]

lutche abellana he blocked on social media me after 4 months of no contact even though i didn’t text him or anything I only know that he hid hist stories from me(i followed him with another account)and then he made stories public but i didn’t watch them or like anything on instagram.He would add and then delete people and no reaction came from me. Then after a week after making his stories public he blocked me on everything. And 2 months after that he deleted my number.Did not block me on whatsapp though just deleted my number.I don’t even know what he meant 😢😢

[@gizziegamez1482]

Don’t go radio silent ...text him and ask him for something stupid like “hey do you know the name of that bar we used to go to ? I’m going to be there tonight “

[@flower6186]

My ex unblocked me but just leave it like that. He didn't even contact me, I did. He broke up with me.

[@patricksachs3655]

I don´t block, I just delete. That way, she can still call/contact if she wants, but I won´t be reaching out at all. That´s the way I do NC when she "thinks she needs space."

[@grx326]

I agree completely

[@DB-lr6kl]

I didn’t respond to her birthday text, and then she blocked me

[@aroojaziz]

Me too 😂

[@cesargb4936]

sammmee!!! Way more effective and mature, then when they do contact , im always like who is this? number looks familiar 😂😬 Mine blocked me several times but didnt delete, they cant face that complete delete, they will try to weasel back in, they always do, cause like i say, its best to be the dumped sometimes because it gives u less guilt and regret knowing u did all u can in the relationship and was 💯 honest with them and yourself! Additionally it helps u move through the break up more effectively even in NC and it hands u the cards whether u want them back or not and what really u didnt like after u subside the feelings. As Lee mentioned in his other video, dumpers remorse! I been there and felt it so i know what they are feeling! I always felt more confident and secure being dumped, but when i dumped ughhhh fml i cant even shit! 😂

[@EdjeMr1975]

Im the same, i dont Block its soo childish, im 45 not 15, move on

[@annm.3236]

My ex would block me like playing a sick game. He did it to hurt me and as a way to control me.

[@josephdelossantos6519]

true sometimes he wants to control and ply your mind , give him the block , if thatt makes him happy, jsut ignore and lve the best way you are

[@jannlewandowski5540]

Ann, if he blocks you "for a game," that sounds way OFF to me. Is he possibly seeing someone else off and on? Just wondering what kind of SICK game that is.

[@mimid.6675]

Isn't that a narcissist?

[@MartinMartinez-uq4gx]

Wish I would have had this information earlier. I made a lot of mistakes already...

[@IrishRonquillo2022]

Same 😞

[@ricardooo444]

hey bro. any updates? did she unblocked you?

[@taviastroup]

Ya me too

[@zackreyna182]

Hope you’re doing okay now

[@panda22518]

Same too late. I kept in contact for a few months after and made it too easy until I found this channel and I think its too late now but time will make a difference...either on our side or theirs

[@Gyr-fh6wv]

IT WORKSSSS She had blocked me on everything and it was a long distance but just after 10 days of me not contacting her at all she came back. Trust this guy and what he says 😭😭😭I love you man. Thank you so much man 🙏

[@IrishRonquillo2022]

Yep I did it I blocked for a while then I’m coming back but what I get is a big nope 👎 🙁

[@marielchavez6337]

My ldr broke up with me for the end time over an argument. He was very emotionally immature but we did have lots of love and great memories and I felt we were soulmates. Its day 2, and yes I begged and I called him and he hung up the first when he heard my voice. Hes really cruel and this is the second time he left me in the dark and blocked me... I know he still loves me but he seriously is mean. It sucks were long distance. We ended by arguing and he blocked me everywhere. I feel like he will never unblock me. I just want us to be happy again.... is there still a chance if I wait??

[@Gyr-fh6wv]

@@marielchavez6337 yes there is. Just please have faith. And do no contact. It will all work out

[@marielchavez6337]

@@Gyr-fh6wv thank you... I'm just scared he wont fall through and he will always blame me for being toxic just because I struggle with a mental illness.

[@tanishasethi7363]

@@marielchavez6337update?

[@micallll100]

I'm in so much pain...can't take it anymore☹️☹️😰

[@mbandaclaude1342]

Michal Sterenberg sorry to hear that hope you are fine now

[@aalagh57]

Why r u so devastated?? This is the 2nd video i saw your comment on

[@paulwebber.104]

Hope your doing better. I'm going thru the same.

[@aquilascott8218]

How are you doing now Michal ?

[@thestar8215]

Same !

[@mr.dreamzzz5242]

Sometimes they do this because they want you to chase them subconsciously...Even after they blocked you...I heard women even say this...Sadly...Smh..

[@jud2152]

I’m a woman and yes, many women do this and it’s childish

[@mr.dreamzzz5242]

@jud2152 Thank you for more clarity..

[@BambiOnIce19]

Look, i get the whole "no contact". But the thing is, if the other person is attempting to communicate, they obviously have something to say, get it off their chest, etc. It is such poor form to block people, and I think it's really terrible when one person ignores the other. Can't people just learn how to communicate better???

[@Rage448]

Right it’s sad I’m in the same position right now

[@k9ily724]

right

[@newsflash3265]

So true it shows up your level of immaturity

[@omermahmud9997]

@@Rage448 me too!

[@Nimbus3690]

Mine ignored me a few times and i lost all desire to reach out

[@faithcharity9564]

Thanks for this video. I have been blocked for years, thank God I respected it. About a month ago, he contacted me in social media., I was polite with our conversation. This is really helpful. Thank you! Nice hair, nice look! 👍

[@c.h8357]

Was it literally for years? If so how long? I am just wondering why it took him that long

[@faithcharity9564]

Yes, as in almost 4 years. I just thought of moving on, but surprising, he reached out through messenger, but sadly he stopped contacting again.

[@mjcomicstv2835]

@@faithcharity9564 maybe you need to response his reaching out too

[@Kerboripx]

Lee with the brad Pitt swag

[@Boot2Ass24]

Lmao the comments are funny sometimes like this lol

[@cherrybomb5480]

Great advice. I am that one who begs and tries to talk . Even though he says leave me alone . This video was helpful. Because he has blocked and unblocked me before . Which means I think he will contact me again . And if he doesnt , I'm getting better at living my life and being happy with or without him.

[@alysia1208]

I believe that, depending on the situation, blocking is a form of a boundary being placed. If you are constantly harassing them and not letting them have their space, they may put a boundary because you won’t let them process their thoughts and feelings and as a way for them to protect themselves. It isn’t always a bad thing depending on the situation.

[@chrisspears3799]

I really like this comment. It's kinda what I feel I'm going through right now. Initially felt we had a breakup/break about three weeks ago. Did no contact for 10 days. Broke it. We got back for a few days. We were intimate. Then a few days later she told me that she was overwhelmed. She had to think. Her mind wasn't at a goof stage. She told me she loved me. Even said to me to have patience with her. We even mentioned that we should try it slow. Later that night she had blocked me again. I'm kinda confused but I'm thinking that's her way of putting up her boundary to process.

[@alysia1208]

@@chrisspears3799 it could be. At the same time though, that block throws you into the unknown. It is best to prepare as if they are never coming back so that you can truly focus on yourself instead of waiting around for her return (if she returns).

[@smurfvolvo]

@@chrisspears3799 she's with another dude.

[@SRSka]

@@chrisspears3799 well, how did it go at the end?

[@Janeintheok]

Blocked him on social media so he can't get any information that I don't want him to have. A control thing 😏

[@MrIranian1]

They blocked you because they wanted to move on and did not want a pest constantly interfering with their lives

[@jimdaniel4412]

Thats not always the scenario..if they wanted to move on then they wouldnt keep your family and friends on social media..i got blocked cause she wants to keep close to my family and doesnt want me to see it..i deleted her friends and family..social media isnt important to me..but to her hovering and fake internet points are a source of supply..i wasnt a pest and walked away..some block so they can use as a source of punishment..hey here i am talking to your family and im gonna smear you..cause im not leaving even though i dumped you..i need to stay close cause im avoiding guilt..

[@cm1663]

@@jimdaniel4412 Hi Dan,I just read your comment, I understand what you are saying, don't mind about what that person is saying about "being a pest " they probably punish people and don't deserve love" You will be ok. ☺👍

[@cm1663]

@@kevinrowland2904 Hi kevin,what area code is that on what's ap? I'm in Ireland.

[@msknich0le]

MrIranian1, you are right. Some people want to keep hope alive.

[@RJ-xd6ub]

They may be blocked because they were disrespectful to you over an extended period of time and they don't deserve you. So you block them.

[@ALim-po9dq]

Thanks Coach Lee, I like how he talks straight to the point without working too hard on little emoji and he hardly try to sell himself --- such as book / link etc that needs to be paid. thanks for helping! everything little of your video helps!

[@albertodeulofeu5277]

Been watching these for over a year. It’s hopeless. But the videos calm me down, AND make me anxious at the same time. Pathetic.

[@jeremymanis2044]

Ive noticed the more positive you can look at the most dire situations even if there really is no hope, sometimes just being positive and treat them the same don t let them break ur peace and I've noticed the universe tends to reward you in the end just my opinion it works for me stay positive even when there is every reason to give up jist step back and take a min then remain positive and boom u are always in control of every situation and it's easier than u might think

[@lopezandrs]

5 months in and I’m grateful these videos exist bc the anxiety to want to contact them is insane at times

[@TeBoi1]

Coach Lee = Slick

[@hannahw90hw]

Blocked 7.5 months since his first date with his rebound. Didn't do anything to need blocking, but I got unblocked last week. They broke up. typical. Stay in NC people and live your life. If they're gonna come back, you don't wanna be a shell of yourself and have nothing to show for the past months. Become stronger and better than the person they knew

[@johnAcDaniels]

I hope you didn't take her back, cos she just gonna leave again when she thinks she's found somene better. Your relationship didn't mean much to her, since she didn't even politely call off the relationship to go be with the new guy, she made an extreme act and a classic ghosting by blocking you, and never looked back to unblock you untill her new relationship which almost lasted a year failed. She sees you as the back-up guy

[@aprilperkins5296]

I have watched all of your videos. Many of them more than once. Thank you for helping me through some very hard dark times xox

[@chasenorman7827]

Thanks coach for the great advice I’m struggling at the moment but your videos really have helped me through this difficult time!much appreciated keep up with the awesome videos

[@olmanclifford218]

Stay strong!

[@andreabakke9168]

But what if you respected their decision, did NOT contact them or plead after the breakup and they still block you? Could you please do a video on that ❤️ It has happened to me several times

[@ProudToBeVeggie]

coach lee out here making me forget about my ex with that smoov haircut

[@stacym2201]

Coach Lee...u r amazing!! U really knw yuh stuff. THANK God i found u first and stick wit your advice and did NOT hav 2 listen 2 any other coaches. My ex had blocked me a week ago. I checked e'day and all day since he blocked me 2 see if he wil unblock me. Today is 7 day No Contact. Woke up around 6am...picked up my phone and checked...only 2 REALIZE he DID unblock me dis morning and we was online at d same time. I smiled and was sooo nervious. I jus came 2 yuh video right away 2 say THANKS so so so much Coach Lee. My hands r literally shakin 2 write dis comment. My HEART skip a beat 2 see his unblock.

[@BambiOnIce19]

Can i just say something? I think some ex-partners should be blocked and STAY blocked FOREVER. Some people are just bad news, and before you really want to get back with him/her, think why you want to get back with them, and what kind of value will they add to your life if you stay together? Some of them cause so much damage and emotional destruction, they are really not worth it.

[@RealCoachLee]

Some but not all. And some people are different and want to see if it can still work out in spite of misunderstandings and their ex being confused. Often it works out and the two have learned the valuable lesson that they don’t want to be apart and that they can’t stay away.

[@creolakuck3267]

Some of these may not be proper. My apology.

[@agbordaniels]

Hey coach, great 👍 hairstyle.

[@YT-DAD-BASS-ASSASSIN]

Look at that hairdo,you must be getting primed up to go after Jennifer Aniston 😂,as always good video,thank you

[@LonelyRider87]

Best blocked video on KZbin, Coach. I passed the test. I got unblocked. No Contact works. Wish me luck!

[@stangreyjoy5033]

I follow all your great advice. Its been a month of Nc now. I still want her back. But I will not cave in. And I wish her the best any man would be lucky to have her. Also I'm bossing it at the gym. Day by day it gets better. Thank you Coach Lee x

[@stangreyjoy5033]

I contacted her after 5 weeks nc. And now I'm blocked! I'm an idiot and am in more pain for it ahhhhhhhhhhhh! Coach Lee knows best guys

[@prix4638]

Sorry to hear that:(

[@mjcomicstv2835]

@@stangreyjoy5033 sorry to hear that, I'm trying to control myself to contact my ex during nc.

[@ssminnow3703]

So just a quick question on this. If they’ve blocked you, and you have no way to contact them, how does No Contact actually work on them!? They don’t see you as staying away, because they’re the ones who have kept you away, by blocking any means of contacting them anyway, if that makes sense. Sure, there’s ways around some blocks, but they may not be expecting you to do that, so don’t see that by you not doing it you’re staying away from them. Just a bit confused, sorry, hope that makes sense. 😅

[@geelee4903]

Contact Dr Wilson he is the Best love Specialist he can help you getting your lover back he was the one that helped me out he can help you out too

[@sukhavatiful]

same question

[@575leena]

Even i want to know this

[@nephastgweiz1022]

I mean, if they blocked you, it is because THEY couldn't handle it emotionally. You were already not contacting them, so they'll just assume that you weren't going to reach out. If you were in NC and they still blocked you out of nowhere, it's not so that you won't contact them, it's because they couldn't help stalking you and it was hurting them.

[@jannlewandowski5540]

The only possible ways to do that is to mail a letter, or go to his house. I WOULDN'T DO EITHER ONE!

[@Americanpatriot-zo2tk]

I think it’s pretty clear if they block you they don’t want to do this anymore so say good riddance and move on this is the real world.

[@brianbeeks9890]

R u my ex? 😂

[@Americanpatriot-zo2tk]

@@brianbeeks9890 lol

[@SkylerOakley]

my ex blocked me unprompted after about a month and a half after the breakup and no contact. we weren’t even following each other, and it hurts so badly…. but whoever is reading this, i know we’ll get through this together. stay strong everyone. we can pull ourselves together and do this. i’m proud of you for enduring this pain!!!

[@sharc.9259]

It will be a week on Friday since he broke up with me. I was totally blindsided. We never had a fight or argument. It's been really hard. We will survive 💪🏾

[@Crm.xcviii]

Honest the truth they block us is because they are hurt everytime they see us. if we made a impact in their life they will remember no matter what even if they move on. And just them looking at our profile hurts them unless you did something wrong like cheat on them or you’re super crazy. But if you think about it we are living “RENT FREE” in their heads they did that because they know they can’t over the factor of what they did to us so they’re thinking In their head like hey Howcome they are trying or chasing me even more. Because that’s what the dumpers want, they want that ego boost or some reason to give everyone a reason to tell everyone why they broke up with us. Don’t do it!! think of it like this if you chase a cat they’ll run away but once you stay calm and just ignore them they’ll come to you. Same way as a dog if you chase them they’ll either do one or two things they’ll play with you or they will runaway but most of the time they’ll runaway but once you start doing your own thing they tend to follow along and they get attached. Same way as our exes they block us now but slowly once they realize “hey I’m the only one running away they aren’t chasing me” they lost that ego boost so they tend to reflect more on their situation and where they put themselves at. That’s how you want it because you can’t fix something that broke but once you can show you’re gone and that you don’t need them like they needed you. they will freak out and that’s when they get curious and they try to contact you trust me I did this many times and it happened to me a lot but the one thing is they left a line open still. Even if it means fb, insta, or your phone don’t you guys wonder why, it’s because you left all your lines open so now they have to get back to you on one of the lines you left open. It’s like you leaving a carrot in front of a maze they don’t see the other carrots on the other side but they do see the carrot in front of them. So again patience is key but silence and absence is the most dangerous part of law attraction your silence says alot so it makes them think a lot more if you moved on or they curious because let’s be real with ourselves they’re still thinking about us so what makes you think they needed to block us they wouldn’t have thought of us in the beginning because if you flip the script around wouldn’t you guys just be moving on with your life if you were in their shoes and you would show your ex that you’re doing good in social media or anything that they can see it’s because they want to see us failing but we aren’t. they need to learn on their own there consequences that they put us through and fix that shit if not they never respected the relationship and you meant nothing but as I see it you’re basically living rent free in their heads. Keep your head high I’m not telling you to move on with your life but moved forward and make them realize what they lost in life but staying silent & absence it’s a powerful thing because the next time you guys talk you’ll be ready.

[@sharc.9259]

@@Crm.xcviiimy ex just broke up with me out of the blue. We never had an argument. He's stubborn and full of pride. I don't know if he will respond at all. I miss him a lot but I'm still in no contact

[@Crm.xcviii]

@@sharc.9259 if he blocked you there is a reason I wouldn’t ask him but try to recollect what he might’ve said before because as man I did the same but I did not go to the extreme where I blocked her, I was upset for her action that she saw no flaw at. But literally just think about was there anything where he said to you or argue to you about before recently because no one really blocks someone if they truly loved them now that’s being hot and cold he might’ve been upset towards something he found out or that he’s been keeping inside for a long time.

[@sharc.9259]

@@Crm.xcviii No, he acted normal that morning and text me good morning beautiful. When I texted him that afternoon he didn't reply. That evening I received the breakup text. I don't know what happened

[@kendalladaramola]

My ex blocked me only to go and get married. If it was someone I was in love with, it would have hurt much more. I couldn't even tell nobody 😄 Thank God!

[@chrisbodhisattva7813]

Lololololol😂😂😂😂

[@95fyken]

lol are they still together?

[@reneewilliams7425]

I dated a narcissist for 24 years him blocking me was the best thing for me Oh I was able to achieve my goals when that men left he was a Wolf in sheep clothing

[@hannahg6111]

Blocked me while I was messaging...

[@minidocstv3339]

Hannah G same...

[@melindam.5106]

Same

[@angelliew194]

Same me

[@abhigupta8692]

Blocked while calling danmn!!

[@anushanathan1159]

@@abhigupta8692 same here

[@vorbis4860]

Damn, this was well-timed for me. Was queued up on my playlist when she blocked me, and I know she's deeply in love with me (is just afraid of commitment), is confused and hurting (per your other videos), and is upset that I'm not chasing more. Hopefully this is where she realizes what breakup really means and will put the effort in to figure out what she really wants.

[@RealCoachLee]

Don’t chase. Give her over to the breakup and its consequences since it was her choice. Give her the breakup she said she wanted. Be strong!

[@vorbis4860]

@@RealCoachLee Thanks, already working your program. Per your videos, she's confused, hurting, and married to an abuser and has started to realize it. So missing me hits full force. But I'm also watching to make sure it's worth it (i.e. she knows she needs to do some self-work).

[@mitsuninkhiangte5771]

she loved you, but did she respect you? think about that did you respect yourself

[@diaryofseresha]

My ex blocked me at whatsapp but still following, watching all my stories :/ i dun get it. I'm gon trust No contact n not reach out. It's been 2 days no contact.

[@michaeloluokun9488]

Update

[@m.fuzailbandarkar7023]

Any update?

[@diaryofseresha]

​@@m.fuzailbandarkar7023 he reached out to me after 2 months but i was so over him, he got stuck watching me grow on social media n till this day messages me at my public page since he blocked everywhere else, but i never responded😂😂 he deserved all the shit after what he made me go through. Just gotta stay strong n trust no contact, if they the ones who left you, they be back v soon too

[@diaryofseresha]

​@@michaeloluokun9488 ​ he reached out to me after 2 months but i was so over him, he got stuck watching me grow on social media n till this day messages me at my public page since he blocked everywhere else, but i never responded😂😂 he deserved all the shit after what he made me go through. Just gotta stay strong n trust no contact, if they the ones who left you, they be back v soon too

[@diaryofseresha]

@@m.fuzailbandarkar7023 He came back after 3 months but it was too late i did not wanted him no more loool But at present i'm doing on no contact with new guy who just left me after saying "he dont have time for me" He was watching all my stories whole 2 months till now he aint I was getting worried but now i saw my old comment here, its a good reminder for me n for everyone: If they are the ones who left u, they will be back no matter who they be with or do They will be back! Trust me N so will this guy

[@maxthrottle14]

Coach lee first of all thanks! *Its been 5 days since i started no contact rule, and my ex has told her friend that we have broken up and we dont talk and he is quite happy without me* What should i do now. Edit : *BACK TOGETHER HAPPILY👫* COACH LEE ❤

[@RealCoachLee]

That's usually how an ex feels after they break up with you. At first it's something they want or else they wouldn't break up with you. It's way too early to know how no contact is going to work on them. Have you seen my video, Stages Your Ex Goes Through During No Contact? It's at kzbin.info/www/bejne/rYqocoqEq9mUis0

[@maxthrottle14]

@@RealCoachLee *Thankyou COACH LEE* 💜for the video ...i am sticking with the no contact rule for 20 days more and figure out everything. *HOPE WE GET BACK TOGETHER*

[@itzelyruizzz5676]

Bur hnn wait are you guys back together our no

[@maxthrottle14]

@@itzelyruizzz5676 yes

[@entertaindaworld]

@@maxthrottle14 it took you 4 months? and did they block you as well?

[@tianasharpe67]

I just acted like I didn’t even know lol

[@warriorxxx1548]

Lmao 😂

[@timwarhurst5165]

Same here, then last week ran into her and she said I had unfriended her on FB!? I acted like I didn't even know. I'm a bit confused, though it may just be a test. Tests happen. 😁

[@fallenangel8036]

If she blocked u that's easy for u to applying NOC.. Don't worry later she unblock u and start texting and calling you.

[@Vega.pdf35mm]

How do you know that tho

[@lynie7868]

I love him so much i gave him support everything but he left with a lie reason then now he block me all social media😭😢

[@aliceng3048]

New hairstyle!! 👍🏽